Biracials vs White Men | Biracials Expose Brad's Racism & How They Struggle With Dating

Added: 2026-05-19

[00:00:00]Biracials versus white men. Biracials expose Brad's racism. One thing devesers don't tell you about devesting is that devesting is a full-time job with no pay, no overtime, and no benefits.

[00:00:14]Devesting is kin to being locked up in a North Korean prison and sentenced to 100 years of hard labor. The labor only stops after they pass away. According to black women, a white man loving them is supposed to heal the world.

[00:00:28]Well, the biracials are here to tell you not so fast.

[00:00:33]>> Hi guys. So, I just call my boyfriend and I'm literally just done crying over this, but I think like like being racist and saying racist [ __ ] is not like bro that [ __ ] is genuinely so hurtful. And like this is going to be like the Emit Till stuff. Me and my friends were having sleepover and talking about how like crazy that [ __ ] like all like anything like even like all that historical stuff and I'm just like bro and like people just casually just joke about racism like like you know like well it's cuz you're black. Oh well say the n word and like just [ __ ] like that and like towards Hispanic people towards Asian people even religion like Muslim Jew like anything like just like how could you judge someone based off that?

[00:01:19]Like the color of your skin. How are you going to define someone and judge someone and kill someone and hurt someone and make someone's life miserable because of the color of their skin? Like that is like like and people that are racist like that doesn't like clock to them. Like they're not realizing oh like we're genuinely like something's wrong with us. Like I don't think they get that and they think that based off of what one a black person did one thing once or a few times. But a white person has also done that.

[00:01:47]Hispanic person has done that. An Asian like anyone could do that. It doesn't.

[00:01:50]The color of skin doesn't make them do it. It's the person, not the color. It's who they are. It's who their heart is, not the color of their skin. It could be a black person stealing, but that same person be white person's body and he would still still. It doesn't matter your color, if you know what I'm saying.

[00:02:04]Like maybe that sounded stupid, but like just [ __ ] like that and like stereotyping and stuff like I don't know. Just I mean like just some [ __ ] like that is like how could like I don't know, bro. I'm never surprised when I encounter racism, but I'm always shocked when it just smacks me in the face. So many moons ago, I was dating this white guy. Things were going well. We go out to dinner one night. We take a very cute picture and he asked me, "If you decide to post this picture on Facebook, can you please not tag me because I haven't told my parents about us yet?" What? Now I'm confused because he told me in the past he had dated women of color. He had brought them home. There was never an issue. He said, "Well, the issue isn't that you're Indian. It's that you're black.

[00:02:49]No, the issue is that you're a 37y old dog walker and I'm still sitting here.

[00:02:53]What is going on in this world? Why is it that people feel so comfortable being ignorant?

[00:02:57]>> The worst date I've ever been on and I feel like I should share it for >> So, I have to talk about this because I've never really gotten to. So, I agreed to go on this date with this guy and for some reason he thought it was like an actual date even though I told him so many times that I wasn't interested in him like that. and it was just, you know, us going out as friends.

[00:03:17]So, I wanted to drive and he denied that request and kind of pressured me into letting him pick me up. So, at the time I was living in Lawrence, Kansas. And if you've ever been to Kansas, you know, you don't go out around there. You go to Missouri. So, we drove to Missouri and it's like an hour and a half away. We go out there to the mall. I can't remember which big ass mall it was out there, but we go to the mall and we sit down and have dinner at this place called Sticks.

[00:03:44]and it's this like fancy expensive Japanese restaurant. And mind you, I'm not interested in this guy like that, but I felt bad for him. So, I agreed to be his friend because he just came back from like deployment from Cuba or some [ __ ] and he was complaining about like not having any friends and stuff. So, the whole time he is talking about his ex, which that's fine. Like, you know, get that pressure off. We're just friends anyway. He's talking about his ex and how he, you know, really liked her because she was Jamaican. Mind you, yes, I am black. My father's black. My mom is Native American, Apache White Mountain to be exact. This man was also Native, but the entire time he just commented on my blackness, and kept putting it out there that he was really just interested in my blackness and was really just fetishizing black women in general. Um, but yeah, anyway, so we go through the date and it's just a normal [ __ ] date. But when he dropped me off back home, we ended up talking about like groceries and stuff and I told him like how I don't have milk in my house.

[00:04:41]The only reason I said that was because I don't drink milk. And he took that as me needing help with like groceries. And he's like, "Oh my god, I feel like I should buy you groceries. Like, I don't want you to be hungry." And he just came off as weird to me cuz [ __ ] I don't need you to buy me no groceries. I got this. Um, but yeah. Anyway, so he drops me off and he then texts me and it's like, "Can I borrow 30 bucks for gas?"

[00:05:05]Sir, were you not just insulting me by asking me if I needed you to buy me milk? Yeah.

[00:05:12]Worst worst day ever.

[00:05:13]>> Guys, as somebody who's mixed race, I find white men attractive. Sure. I'll make out with them. Sure. Will I marry one? Have kids with one.

[00:05:27]You're asking a lot of me. You are.

[00:05:29]Because, how do I say this politely? Um, I don't want my kids to be lighter than me. And I don't know. I'm not even really sure I'm up for the gamble of being with another mixed person cuz that's you're really like one kid could look like you, one kid could look like your sister. That's you know only white.

[00:05:44]Um it's a scary risk, right? So I don't know. I just don't know about that. I don't know. I don't know. Now when we're talking somebody who's like a completely different race though, it feels fine. Like for example, I would marry and have kids with an Asian guy. I would I would definitely have kids with a Mexican man. Um really just like any other race. And I don't know. It's not a white guy's fault, but also you're a white guy. Like you already got the world. You can't have me too.

[00:06:16]Everything's already catered to you. You have to have some something that breaks your heart. And I guess it's going to be me cuz we can't have kids together. I'm sorry. Um unless he is like absolutely positively 1,000th.

[00:06:27]Perfect. Cuz then you know what? At the end of the day, I've always wanted to adopt anyways.

[00:06:32]I know it makes me a terrible person, but I will love my white babies. Don't get me wrong. I just don't know how I would feel raising white like white presenting kids. I don't know. Let me know if anybody else who's mixed race can relate on this or if I'm just um a crazy [ __ ] cuz that is that's a likely also alternative option. So, and I have been going through the most bizarre dating phenomena in the past couple years. Okay, I have been going through this thing that my dad pointed out to me the other day, which is like when white people like when white people are with me, there's something about them that consistently refers to my blackness and like the negative, okay? Like in a derogatory way or or even like white passing people. Hear me out. It's crazy.

[00:07:17]You might be scratching your head right now wondering like, "She's black. You're black." Yes, I'm black. I just I have a silk press right now, okay? But my biological father is black and I love black people. I love black things.

[00:07:26]Please just just focus for a minute, okay? But I remember when my white ex-husband, okay, when he used to get upset with me and he would gaslight the [ __ ] out of me, he would say ridiculous.

[00:07:35]He would say ridiculous [ __ ] things to me. Like he would say, "Well, that's very ghetto of you. What the [ __ ] are you talking about? What do you mean by that? What are you trying to say?" Such a weird thing to hear from this [ __ ] Pennsylvania redneck ass buffoon. Okay, because we all know how people use the word ghetto. Like, we know what it means, okay? We know what people are inferring and implying there. And then I date some [ __ ] ass white passing Colombian who wants to tell me like as soon as he has bad blood with me and as soon as we start arguing and as soon as I get attitude, he says, "Please don't be black. Please do not be a black woman today. Please do not do this today. Are you out of your are you out of your empanada eating ass? Are you crazy?

[00:08:17]We talking about black women? Are you out of your mind?" And I swear to God, my black girlfriends are like she's one of them. She's like, "You just need to switch over to the other side." Like, I don't know what it is you see on them pasty ass people. Not that I like to call him that, but she said, "You need to switch over to the other side. Find you a brother. You need to find somebody, okay? One person on earth who can't throw your blackness in your face, cuz he his ass is black, too." And I was like, "I don't know, girl. I don't know if I can do it. I I don't know where they be at the the the nice ones, you know? Like, this is like I don't understand what has happened to me." And even my dad pointed out, he's like, you know, all these guys you bring home that you like that you like so much, like I can see like they're not even really attracted to you. like you are not their type. They're attracted to you because you are overall attractive and you're very intelligent and you have a lot to offer. You're very promising, but you're not their type. Like why is it that the last two white guys or white passing guys you brought home like they have a long-standing history of being with black girls like real black girls, you know, with the skin and the hair and everything. Like I don't fit the phenotype. And I'm just like are you saying like what are you trying to say?

[00:09:14]He's like I don't know. It's like the other half of men that you bring home too. It's like they're fetishizing you.

[00:09:17]They think you're you're you're some exotic thing because you're light-skinned and you have the good hair and your hair's long and you know you don't sound like the average but like I just don't think that the men who are drawn to you are really drawn to you for you. I think you need to start like branching off into the the other section of your uh makeup. And I was like and and and mind you this is my stepfather.

[00:09:36]Sorry, got to clarify. My stepfather is is a white Russian, but to me that's my daddy cuz he raised me. But it's very interesting that even he was able to pick up on that and even he's pushing me. He's like, "You better find you a a nice black man real quick." And I was like, "Oh my god, what does this mean?"

[00:09:50]And and don't get me wrong, like I don't have anything against black men. I just It's never happened. It's never happened. But um I don't know. Like can someone explain this to me cuz it's getting out of hand. It's like it's becoming more of a thing like and I don't like it.

[00:10:05]>> Devesting is like the show survivor. The ones that manage to survive are going through hell and back with Brad. They will let Brad cheat, be a deadbeat, not work, and never provide. But as long as they can get a white-l lookinging baby out of it, they are happy.

[00:10:21]>> As long as they can fake and flaunt their white man like a trophy, they don't care that he is beating them up at night. That other biracial almost fooled you. She waited until the end to tell you that her father was her stepfather, who is white, but she dated nothing but racists. But everyone is telling her to date black men because according to her white Russian father, she has good hair and looks exotic, but she doesn't want to. Now, if black men are avoiding her, then good job. She is a burden. This is what I meant by devesting being a full-time job. Their Tik Toks are in the description.