He Apologised & Revealed his Hairline 😭 🇸🇴 | Drive By Dread S2 EP5.5

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]In the daily commute, random conversations are considered risky.

[00:00:05]In London city, a dedicated dreadlocked man who encourages conversations is a member of the elite squad known as drive-by dread.

[00:00:13]These are their stories.

[00:00:16]>> Oh, today is the day that I link up with mandem.

[00:00:20]Um obviously he's a plat- apologizing on social media like many of you have seen already.

[00:00:26]Um but today we're going to sort of sit down, talk about everything.

[00:00:31]Um and then get some Somali food that he's promised.

[00:00:35]Uh which obviously I'm looking more forward to that beef if I'm honest with you.

[00:00:39]Um but yeah, it should be interesting. Um hopefully we can have a laugh about the situation. I mean I've been laughing about it myself personally.

[00:00:49]And um it definitely got the engagement there as well. So I can't complain about that.

[00:00:56]Uh and then I want to ask him what was he saying in his language as well.

[00:01:02]Um and we'll see if he if he has the guts to sort of say it eight, you know, properly or if he's going to try and sugarcoat it and make it sound different.

[00:01:13]Um but yes, I'm just waiting waiting in Tottenham now.

[00:01:18]And we're going to go to Brothers which is obviously in Tottenham.

[00:01:32]>> As-salamu alaykum.

[00:01:34]>> [laughter] >> Wa alaykumu s-salam. What you saying, man?

[00:01:37]>> How long you been waiting?

[00:01:38]How long you been waiting, my brother?

[00:01:40]>> About uh 10 minutes.

[00:01:42]>> 10 minutes. I'll just wait another 10 minutes.

[00:01:44]>> Cheers.

[00:01:45]>> I need to get a rest. How are you doing?

[00:01:46]How you been? I see you really you have some more.

[00:01:49]>> [laughter] >> Come on, my brother. I'm just smelling money, you know.

[00:01:52]I'm just smelling USA. Come on, give me sign.

[00:01:56]Can I get my guy?

[00:01:56]>> I'm cheating on you.

[00:01:57]>> No, no.

[00:01:58]You know what it is? I AM YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS? I'M NOT GOING TO do nothing, you know. I'm just sitting down here. No, no, I can't. I remember last time I did I've been reading the comments. Some people say, "You drunk.

[00:02:14]You smoke." [clears throat] No, I don't do none of that.

[00:02:17]>> That's what I was going to ask you because the way I thought maybe you just have I didn't think drink. I thought maybe just like ADHD or something.

[00:02:24]>> I don't I don't drink, but I just eat.

[00:02:27]I just eat.

[00:02:27]>> What, like chard or something?

[00:02:31]>> WHAT ARE YOU SAYING?

[00:02:31]>> YOU SAID EAT.

[00:02:32]>> FOOD. Like I don't drink I don't do none of that. I just eat. I just eat food.

[00:02:37]>> Yeah, everybody eats food.

[00:02:38]>> And something else.

[00:02:40]>> This guy is joining again. What's the something else?

[00:02:44]>> And then I don't need to know that, my guy. Come on, man. There's a lot of things you can eat. You know what I'm saying?

[00:02:48]>> But the something else you have >> Uh >> majority of people in the world don't have this.

[00:02:52]>> No. No.

[00:02:53]>> It's food, isn't it?

[00:02:54]>> I eat >> food.

[00:02:55]>> I don't smoke. I don't do any of that.

[00:02:57]I'm straight.

[00:02:58]Alhamdulillah. Just waiting until marriage.

[00:03:01]>> But the alhamdulillah. But the thing you have is what gave you so much energy that day.

[00:03:05]>> What do you mean? I'm a [ __ ] I'm a [ __ ] have my energy on. What's going on?

[00:03:09]>> Okay, okay.

[00:03:09]>> What's going on?

[00:03:10]>> Where's Abdi?

[00:03:11]>> Huh?

[00:03:11]>> Where's Abdi?

[00:03:12]>> Nah.

[00:03:13]>> I know >> No, no, I didn't broke it. Who did?

[00:03:16]Who did [laughter] that? Who did that?

[00:03:18]Please call that person. Please. You are there.

[00:03:22]We can't do nothing [clears throat] about it. We can't do nothing about it.

[00:03:25]As if we can't do nothing about >> [laughter] >> We just We just give it in.

[00:03:29]This is the way you just keep laughing, my guy.

[00:03:31]>> Oh my days.

[00:03:32]>> All right. Now, what we're going to do is first of all >> Yeah.

[00:03:35]>> Um all the jokes aside, and I invite you, and I know I've been reading the comments. Everybody said I could be crazy. I'm not crazy. I just want to show you the different love that we have.

[00:03:47]I'm going to show you what love That's assalamualaikum.

[00:03:50]>> Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:03:51]>> I'm going to show you what >> I already By the way, just to say >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> I've already Like anybody that knows me knows I have East African friends, Somali friends, da da da da da. But yeah, in the There was a lot of people that showed Shout out to the supporters. A lot of people showed support in the DMs saying, "Oh, you know, we're sorry this has happened."

[00:04:07]>> Yeah, this will be >> you've already apologized and you said you was trolling in your language or whatever they were telling you.

[00:04:13]>> now I apologize to them. Now I have to apologize to them.

[00:04:17]Okay. But you and them are different.

[00:04:20]When you a lot come together, you become them. If it becomes them, you know, it becomes B I.

[00:04:26]>> What?

[00:04:28]>> So, we're not going there.

[00:04:30]>> No, no, no, no. You Yeah, you I don't want to say nothing.

[00:04:33]>> Do you want to eat? Let's go.

[00:04:35]You're going brothers. They're going brothers.

[00:04:37]>> Oh my days.

[00:04:39]>> All right, cool.

[00:04:39]>> Two gum, yeah? Two gum, yeah. You can have one.

[00:04:42]>> No, no, no, you can't have one. Three is left.

[00:04:43]>> Yeah, no, one is not enough for you. So, you got two.

[00:04:46]>> [laughter] >> Obviously.

[00:04:48]>> I mean >> Obviously.

[00:04:51]Obviously.

[00:04:52]>> La ilaha What What you saying? What What team do you support?

[00:04:56]>> Uh Liverpool.

[00:05:00]>> All right. So, why you go quiet?

[00:05:02]>> Come you come agree that we're not going to have no chat. Can we agree to that?

[00:05:06]>> Why? Because you support Arsenal.

[00:05:08]>> No. I would you realize that But yeah, let them pass. Let them pass.

[00:05:13]You have to You see them go like that.

[00:05:15]>> Is it left or right? It's right, right?

[00:05:16]>> Right. Yeah, we're going to the right now.

[00:05:19]La ilaha illallah Muhammad So, now >> [laughter] >> What you What you laughing for?

[00:05:24]Should I Should I show you Should I show you my brother his songs?

[00:05:28]Should I Should I show you my brother his songs?

[00:05:30]>> I told you already one time.

[00:05:31]>> Who's your brother? Abdi, the one that was there.

[00:05:33]>> No, no, that's my cousin. I will show you my my best friend.

[00:05:37]>> Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:05:38]>> Yeah, he's he's songs that we we can I be DJ.

[00:05:41]>> [laughter] >> Oh my days.

[00:05:47]>> Uh No, no, do you know what it is? Me and you is it on YouTube or Spotify or whatever you want.

[00:05:55]Dublin City can use this thing.

[00:05:57]Okay.

[00:05:58]>> To search.

[00:05:59]>> After 2 minutes we're going to be there.

[00:06:00]You know that?

[00:06:01]>> I'll do you after that.

[00:06:02]>> Yeah. Yeah, what was you going to say?

[00:06:04]>> Uh uh I was going to say tonight I have surprise a lot surprise for you.

[00:06:08]Um one of our surprises food. Like me personally, I love food.

[00:06:15]>> Mhm. I know you said you you eat a lot.

[00:06:17]>> People like people people cannot see me that like I eat a lot, but when it comes food, brother, I don't know. My sometimes you know just I'm just eating there. I want to eat a my my stomach tells me to stop.

[00:06:29]I just eat. You know my my stomach tells me to stop.

[00:06:32]>> What type of food do you enjoy eating?

[00:06:34]>> Oh my days, brother. I love that, bro.

[00:06:36]What I don't You know sometimes you just ask me stupid question. Where I'm from?

[00:06:40]Where I'm from? Tell me where I'm from.

[00:06:41]>> Oh, so you're going to say Somali.

[00:06:42]>> Hey, hey, hey, hey, bro. If >> Well, not everybody >> I mean The what?

[00:06:46]>> Not everybody will say their own food.

[00:06:48]>> Oh my god, bro. Uh alhamdulillah that I'm Somali.

[00:06:52]>> Geez.

[00:06:52]>> Wallahi. Oh my god. Hey, hey, you know what I mean? You know what I mean?

[00:06:57]Everything is there. Food, enjoyment, like this, you know what I mean?

[00:07:01]>> What about every chain food?

[00:07:02]>> Wallahi I I haven't tried, you know.

[00:07:05]>> You haven't tried?

[00:07:05]>> No.

[00:07:06]>> Oh, you you can take a right.

[00:07:08]>> Right?

[00:07:08]>> Yeah.

[00:07:08]>> I can take a right.

[00:07:13]>> Hold on. Do you have the license?

[00:07:15]>> You see sometimes I don't like You see I don't I don't feel like You know what I'm saying? I don't want to get any risk on the bus. Like I said, you know what I'm saying?

[00:07:24]I'm not going to say I'm the captain, but I'm the boss. So, I want to feel no risk at all. Thank you.

[00:07:31]>> You enjoy saying thank you.

[00:07:32]>> Of course.

[00:07:33]>> [laughter] >> Of course.

[00:07:36]>> Take Take a left. Left.

[00:07:38]>> This is the first left.

[00:07:40]Yeah.

[00:07:42]And you know my my English just just just little bit problem. If you don't understand my English, you can let me know. So, I will try any way that you know we have to find a parking now cuz of the restaurant right here.

[00:07:58]And do you know what I did for you as well?

[00:08:00]I took Yeah, there's a there's Here's a parking.

[00:08:03]All right. If you got ticket, it's on you. It's a double yellow.

[00:08:07]It's If anything, it's fine, right? Make sure. It's fine, isn't it?

[00:08:11]>> Thank you.

[00:08:12]Thank you. First of all, I don't want I don't I don't I don't want to hear that.

[00:08:14][laughter] Okay, you see the other day when he washed my car, I got ticket. Can we split, please? No, no, no, no, I ain't got no money.

[00:08:21]Let's go.

[00:08:22]>> All right. Now, we're going to we're going to get we're going to get the camera. We're going inside and I'm going to show you I'm going to show my brother my stranger brother.

[00:08:32]>> He was a stranger now.

[00:08:34]>> Now, we're not stranger anymore, all right?

[00:08:35]>> No, we know each other very well.

[00:08:37]>> Let's Let's agree that. Let's agree Let's shake my hand one time.

[00:08:39]>> Now, we're not stranger.

[00:08:40]>> Yes. Yes.

[00:08:42]Big Now, now it's going to be Nigerian and Somali.

[00:08:46]Okay?

[00:08:48]>> You You told me Where did you learn Kunga from?

[00:08:51]>> You know, I have a lot friends. Do you know Do you know what it is?

[00:08:54]Do you know what it is? When you are refugee brother, you you going to have a lot friends, different friends when you are refugee.

[00:09:01]But, when you are born one country and you grow up there, bro, I have a best friend Congolese. I have a best friend Nigerian. I have a best friend uh uh Guinea-Bissau bro. I I have a lot, a lot, you know. But, you know what it is? I I have no British friend, you know.

[00:09:20]But, like a British best friend.

[00:09:22]>> British as in someone just born here, any color, or English like white?

[00:09:26]>> Brother, I'm not No, I ain't got no reference, bro. Uh when it comes friend, I just If I understand you, we can get along. If I feel any type disrespect or somehow, I'm not going to chat to you.

[00:09:37]That's how we roll. I don't any like me personally. I'm going to vibe with you.

[00:09:42]Like I'm going to show you my behave first. If you don't like my behave, I can tell when I will stop it.

[00:09:48]If you like and I feel like you enjoying my company, we can lock in forever. Do you know what I'm saying? I'm too easy, bro. Cheers.

[00:09:55]No pause. I'm too easy. I'm not pause.

[00:09:58]Pause.

[00:10:00]>> Or pop pause.

[00:10:01]>> Yeah, pause. Yeah, say that.

[00:10:02]>> Okay, yeah.

[00:10:02]>> Pause.

[00:10:04]Pause.

[00:10:05]>> [laughter] >> Thank you.

[00:10:10]>> [laughter] >> You like that the way I did thank you.

[00:10:13]If if I'm doing something good, I will say thank >> Thank you.

[00:10:15]>> [laughter] >> Oh my gosh.

[00:10:21]>> Look 1 2 3 4 brother. Make sure you tell them five, yeah? So I can put one as well.

[00:10:37]I hear And see See this See, you tell me what's my favorite food. Well, there's no favorite. Just See See here. You see there. You just eating. You just eating.

[00:11:01]Look.

[00:11:03]Well, well, well, don't show them your face.

[00:11:05]>> Don't show them your face. Just me. I want to flex. [laughter] Come on, my [ __ ] Look at me. Come on, yeah.

[00:11:10]There you see? Now I have when I want my hand up. Let's see.

[00:11:18]>> Wait, you should try our tea. Tea.

[00:11:21]>> Yeah, I'm going to get one tea for >> I don't want tea. I don't want tea.

[00:11:23]>> No, no, no.

[00:11:23]>> I'm allergic to hot tea. I don't want tea.

[00:11:25]>> Is it?

[00:11:27]All right.

[00:11:28]Now you're going to see the rice. You're going to see You're going to see now everything we on it.

[00:11:32]>> Okay.

[00:11:33]>> Now, and Furthermore, you're going to eat in your hand. Not not spoons. No, no, not that.

[00:11:39]You see the way you eat fufu?

[00:11:41]You see the way you eat fufu?

[00:11:44]Now, you wash your CD in your hand.

[00:11:46]You wash it how you eat it with your hand.

[00:11:50]This is fine.

[00:11:52]>> Chili.

[00:11:53]>> Both of them just we start chili.

[00:11:56]If you eat all of this, you know when you go to the restroom.

[00:11:59]So, banana inside chili.

[00:12:01]>> Yeah.

[00:12:01]>> With with the rice. With the rice.

[00:12:04]>> [laughter] >> With the rice. Now, you're going to see it.

[00:12:07]>> Go on.

[00:12:07]>> Why did you even put on the glasses?

[00:12:09]>> Am I acting? I need some aura, bro.

[00:12:12]>> You say aura?

[00:12:13]>> Yeah.

[00:12:14]>> So, look look now.

[00:12:16]Look now.

[00:12:17]Look now.

[00:12:23]>> [laughter] >> Oh my god.

[00:12:26]>> What you want? Okay.

[00:12:28]>> So, what was this?

[00:12:28]>> our food?

[00:12:29]>> I'm >> I'm hungry.

[00:12:30]>> So, what's this one now?

[00:12:31]>> This is salad. This is Somali salad.

[00:12:34]It's like that. This is a sauce. You have to eat before the food >> So, it's not soup. It's sauce.

[00:12:39]>> Yeah.

[00:12:40]It's the same thing. It's sauce like soup.

[00:12:42]>> So, you can eat it by itself?

[00:12:44]>> You can eat Yeah, yeah. You can eat it by itself. Like you have to put it one of spoon of this.

[00:12:49]>> What's that chili?

[00:12:50]>> Yeah. And one of spoon of this chili as well.

[00:12:54]>> Which chili do you like more?

[00:12:56]>> I kind of like both.

[00:12:57]>> Same?

[00:12:58]>> Yeah.

[00:12:59]>> All right.

[00:13:00]And what's inside?

[00:13:01]Potato?

[00:13:02]>> Yeah. Drink slowly.

[00:13:03]>> Yeah, you don't need to mix. You don't need to >> I want I want I want the whistle. I want the whistle, but they go. I want the whistle.

[00:13:13]What is it?

[00:13:17]>> This is good.

[00:13:18]>> Okay. Furthermore, >> [laughter] >> Now, look now. Go on now.

[00:13:33]>> Talk to me now.

[00:13:35]You know what this tastes like, the green one? Okra. Is there okra inside?

[00:13:39]Okra. I like okra.

[00:13:41]What Do you know what it is?

[00:13:43]I don't know what it's okra yet.

[00:13:45]>> Geez.

[00:13:46]>> Yeah, take it easy. No, no, take it easy. Take [laughter] it easy. Yeah, you going to eat. We'll make space.

[00:13:52]>> Yeah.

[00:13:53]>> Slowly.

[00:13:54]See?

[00:13:54]>> No, this is you. See this? This you. You take that. This one is you.

[00:14:00]>> All I need the rice.

[00:14:01]>> See, talk to me.

[00:14:02]>> Why you only need rice?

[00:14:05]>> I I I always say >> the mango lassi.

[00:14:08]>> Hey, what what is this strawberry inside?

[00:14:10]>> Yeah, strawberry, mango, or also I think there's yogurt as well.

[00:14:17]How is it?

[00:14:18]>> It's good. I'll save that one till after.

[00:14:20]>> Is it? You're not going to drink it now?

[00:14:22]No, no, this is how we eat. You drink and eat that pasta as well.

[00:14:26]>> We don't even have space.

[00:14:27]>> Don't worry. Don't worry.

[00:14:29]You must have find some space in your stomach, not here. Don't worry. You will eat If you don't finish If you Okay.

[00:14:39]Don't waste it.

[00:14:40]Give me Give me knife. Give me knife, please. If you don't finish, I will finish you.

[00:14:45]>> I don't think you have the facilities for that, big man.

[00:14:48]>> [laughter] >> You like to troll too much.

[00:14:52]So, like Yeah, come on. Now, and also >> Do you know what you can do? You can put it here as well.

[00:14:57]>> And eat with the >> the rice. Yeah, on the side.

[00:15:00]And after you know, yeah, put No, no, no, put that spoon down. Put that spoon back. In your hand. Use in your hand.

[00:15:07]Yes.

[00:15:09]>> But why did you bring knife if you're using hands?

[00:15:11]>> I don't I use hands.

[00:15:12]>> No, no, I'm going to finish you with that one. You go and see. See?

[00:15:16]>> That one >> Yeah.

[00:15:18]See?

[00:15:19]Take banana.

[00:15:20]>> But what You said I should put this one on the rice here.

[00:15:23]>> No, no.

[00:15:23]>> You take the oil and with your spoon and put it here. So, now take take take meal take a beef take here.

[00:15:31]>> This one?

[00:15:31]>> See, no you have to take meat.

[00:15:33]>> Yeah, meat.

[00:15:34]>> Take the meal.

[00:15:35]>> Mhm.

[00:15:36]>> Yeah, put it down there. Take the banana as well.

[00:15:38]>> Banana as well?

[00:15:39]>> Yeah.

[00:15:39]>> This one is not going to hurt my stomach.

[00:15:41]>> Go go on. Go, I'm telling you. No, you're not going to die. You're not going to die. You know, at least if you go if you're going to do anything Yeah, no. I want more. That's that's little.

[00:15:50]I want more.

[00:15:51]You're not going to You're not going to die. At least you're going to die too fast.

[00:15:55]>> This one is enough.

[00:15:56]>> Yeah, now put the put the sauce as well.

[00:16:00]Put that sauce.

[00:16:01]>> This is combo meal.

[00:16:02]>> Yeah, I'm telling you.

[00:16:04]Put it that one.

[00:16:06]Put it this one as well.

[00:16:08]Take this one.

[00:16:10]You can use it. Both of them. It's fine.

[00:16:14]Yeah, come on.

[00:16:16]>> Everything is free. Mix.

[00:16:18]>> Yeah, everything is free. Don't worry.

[00:16:19]>> [laughter] >> Mix.

[00:16:21]I want to I want to do yeah.

[00:16:23]I want you to mix with your hand. Mix it up.

[00:16:25]Yeah.

[00:16:27]Yeah.

[00:16:29]Little bit onion.

[00:16:29]>> A little bit spicy.

[00:16:31]I don't think you do all of this.

[00:16:33]>> Come on. No, no. I'm telling you. Yeah.

[00:16:35]Go.

[00:16:35]>> Do I need napkin, bro?

[00:16:36]>> I will show you now. You see how I will do it now. See it now.

[00:16:41]It's how I do. See now. You going to do it this way.

[00:16:44]>> [singing] >> You going to do your banana as well.

[00:16:47]Taking this one.

[00:16:49]Taking this one as well. You see? See, you have to take it like this. I don't like what you're taking. See it right here.

[00:16:55]You see? Is there anything I didn't take it? See it right here.

[00:16:58]>> The salad.

[00:16:59]>> See it right here.

[00:17:01]See it right here.

[00:17:03]>> I ain't allowed to do it rounds like this.

[00:17:05]>> [laughter] >> Woah.

[00:17:10]How did you make it round?

[00:17:12]>> I use my Spin.

[00:17:15]>> [laughter] >> Yeah, you see? Please, spin it.

[00:17:20]>> But I want you to cut it.

[00:17:21]>> I need to make sure that the rice didn't drop down.

[00:17:23]>> No, it's not.

[00:17:24]If you don't drop down that here, no problem.

[00:17:28]Let me get close to you. Yeah, you see?

[00:17:31]You see this thing? All right, like this like this. All the food.

[00:17:36]Yeah, go on.

[00:17:38]Mhm.

[00:17:41]You see? It comes It comes to talk to me now.

[00:17:48]Take it easy. You see that smile? That is my taste everything. That smile says okay, I want to be Somali.

[00:17:56]Yeah, that smile says everything.

[00:17:59]Eat slowly.

[00:18:00]You We have to stop We have to stop eating 5 minutes.

[00:18:03]We slow slow for for education.

[00:18:06]Yeah yeah.

[00:18:09]Yeah, I think Do you know why you're doing that? It was spicy.

[00:18:11]>> Mhm.

[00:18:12]>> See right here?

[00:18:14]I bring to I bring two.

[00:18:17]So what's that one?

[00:18:19]This one This one we call potatoes and I don't even I can't remember what we call it. It looks like >> Costa Costa >> Costa >> Yeah, it is Costa. Yeah, you see? I want you to eat nice though. Please, eat it.

[00:18:32]Now I want you to take more No no no no no no no. I want to take more meat.

[00:18:39]>> [music] >> More more You see? Wait, let me put it.

[00:18:43]No no no.

[00:18:45]>> This one is more. Look.

[00:18:47]>> Yeah, go on, please.

[00:18:53]>> Mhm.

[00:18:54]>> It's not tasting same. It's not It's not going to taste It's not going to taste the same. You know why?

[00:18:59]>> Why?

[00:18:59]>> You didn't put this two.

[00:19:01]And this one. When you put everything together, you get it more taste.

[00:19:08]More taste.

[00:19:09]So So you have to put it all together.

[00:19:13]Wait, before you you see you see what I mean.

[00:19:19]>> [laughter] >> Okay, so this one >> Mhm.

[00:19:24]Yep.

[00:19:26]Mhm.

[00:19:27]>> Okay, I need I have to put it this way.

[00:19:29]>> No, no.

[00:19:30]You don't like this one?

[00:19:31]>> No, banana.

[00:19:33]Yeah, sauce.

[00:19:41]All right.

[00:19:46]I I'm I'm not Wait, wait.

[00:19:51]Oh, my >> [laughter] >> god. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. We make big mistake. Wait.

[00:19:57]You make big mistake. You know the big mistake.

[00:20:00]You can't do this.

[00:20:01]You can't do this anymore. You see when you do this when you have like people people that watching you, you have to hold.

[00:20:14]Thank you.

[00:20:17]>> [laughter] >> You know, for a second I thought he was trying to feed me. I was going to say, "Bro, just >> Feeding you?

[00:20:25]>> No, cuz the way you done your body like this.

[00:20:28]>> no, no.

[00:20:28]They're watching us. So, there's a lot people won't eat that food.

[00:20:33]So, you can't eat.

[00:20:35]Me and him only eat.

[00:20:37]Thank you. But, you can watch us. What you [laughter] was saying?

[00:20:40]What you was saying?

[00:20:41]What you was saying?

[00:20:42]>> No, it's fine. So, >> Enjoying it?

[00:20:44]>> Yeah.

[00:20:44]>> How would you rate 10 out of 10?

[00:20:49]I know. I know You know the reason you thinking. You're not full.

[00:20:53]You're not full. If you was a full, you'd be like 10 out of 10.

[00:20:58]Eat.

[00:20:59]I will ask you later. This food >> I think the food will be 10 only if you allow me to eat.

[00:21:06]>> Yeah, and be quiet.

[00:21:07]>> Yeah, because you you want to >> do that. We don't do that. We don't do that. That's the problem. We don't do that.

[00:21:12]>> So, you don't want us to eat?

[00:21:14]>> No.

[00:21:15]You say you eating, you have to keep talking.

[00:21:17]And you see you see now?

[00:21:19]>> But what about if I want to concentrate?

[00:21:21]>> No.

[00:21:22]Do it both at the same time.

[00:21:26]I'm out of matter of fact, you are the guest. Don't talk.

[00:21:34]Enjoy your brother.

[00:21:38]Enjoy your food.

[00:21:40]You see now? I almost finish half plate.

[00:21:42]See? You not eating.

[00:21:44]>> Let me show them the half.

[00:21:50]>> Should I show you how we eat in the country?

[00:21:54]Should I show you how we eat is when we are in the country?

[00:21:57]See right here?

[00:21:59]They have to eat it like that. You have to eat like a big man. See right here?

[00:22:02]You have to put it in.

[00:22:05]See? So, you want me to teach you all night. So, you not going to eat.

[00:22:09]>> I want to eat properly.

[00:22:11]>> But you don't know how to eat.

[00:22:13]>> You're going to keep looking and saying do your hands around, do it square.

[00:22:17]>> teach you. No, look. This Listen, this is lesson.

[00:22:20]You're not eating for free.

[00:22:23]This is lesson.

[00:22:25]You have If you make it proper, I will leave you alone.

[00:22:29]>> Okay, I'll do it proper once. Let me eat by myself.

[00:22:32]>> I promise you. I promise.

[00:22:36]I remember.

[00:22:37]I will put it I will put it for you. All right? I will do it this job for you.

[00:22:41]Now.

[00:22:43]banana Yep.

[00:22:58]So now now Now we link up in the UK.

[00:23:02]Next time we're going to link up in Nigeria.

[00:23:06]>> Who's going to pay for the flights?

[00:23:09]>> If if I [laughter] pay the flight, do I have anywhere to stay in Nigeria?

[00:23:14]If you give me anywhere to stay, yeah, you can give me one bed. I will sleep there. You see where I go another country, I don't go there for holiday.

[00:23:22]To act like people who lives there.

[00:23:25]>> Like the locals.

[00:23:26]>> Yeah, I I want to feel like, "Okay, I'm from Let's say I I I went Nigeria. I want to feel like, "Okay, I'm Nigerian."

[00:23:32]You know what I'm saying?

[00:23:33]>> So, what country have you been to when you've done that?

[00:23:36]>> I've I've been to a lot of countries.

[00:23:37]I've been Cyprus.

[00:23:39]>> So, in Cyprus you acted like a Cyprus person?

[00:23:41]>> Yeah, yeah. Cyprus. Yeah, I I come there when I come I come Cyprus when I was 15.

[00:23:46]>> Is it?

[00:23:46]>> So, yeah. I I used to live there 6 years.

[00:23:49]>> 6 years?

[00:23:50]>> Yeah.

[00:23:51]>> What was you doing there?

[00:23:52]>> You know, even it's so hard to speak my own language when you like rather than speaking Greek.

[00:24:00]Cyprus.

[00:24:01]When I was younger, I come to Cyprus and straight up straight I got college and I start learning.

[00:24:07]>> Do you know Do you know is it your parents that sent you to Cyprus?

[00:24:11]>> Yeah, yeah.

[00:24:12]>> Do you know why you went to Cyprus?

[00:24:14]>> Yeah, I know all that reason was I why why I went there, why I was why I stayed there.

[00:24:19]I know I know I know everything about it.

[00:24:22]>> How come you are in Cyprus?

[00:24:23]>> Uh and here? Cyprus to here?

[00:24:27]Like I come by boat.

[00:24:29]>> Boat?

[00:24:32]>> What you on about?

[00:24:33]>> How what size is the boat?

[00:24:39]What was >> It was actually big, you know.

[00:24:42]>> It was >> It was a big You know what I'm saying?

[00:24:45]>> Ferry or boat?

[00:24:47]>> No, boat. Boat.

[00:24:48]Yeah.

[00:24:49]You know what I'm saying?

[00:24:51]I told you.

[00:24:53]Me and you, we don't speak same language.

[00:24:55]>> So, the boat came from Cyprus to here?

[00:24:57]>> No, no, no. I come from to here.

[00:25:00]>> France?

[00:25:01]So, how did you get from Cyprus >> Cyprus and and UK they don't have they don't have no borders. So, how come That's not You see if you come in Cyprus and come in UK you can't come by boat. You can come only not not a boat. What what what what do you call that? The big one.

[00:25:22]>> What big one? Ferry?

[00:25:24]>> What?

[00:25:25]>> Ferry?

[00:25:27]>> No, appreciate. Yeah, appreciate. The big one.

[00:25:30]>> So, when you from France, how did you get there from Cyprus? Cyprus to France?

[00:25:37]>> Ah, I got a flight.

[00:25:41]>> Flight? And then you took boat?

[00:25:45]>> [laughter] >> You see in this life you have to try everything.

[00:25:53]One thing I don't like someone to explain to me how they flew. I like I like to see and I like to feel how how I feel what else I'm doing. If if that makes sense.

[00:26:06]Now, if you told me now, if you come to me, you know this rice, the rice and the peas and everything the food is nice. Oh my god, I I eat so many food. If you tell me that, I don't want to eat that. I want to try on my own.

[00:26:19]>> Yes.

[00:26:19]>> I want to try everything.

[00:26:22]>> Everything?

[00:26:22]>> Except No, no, no, no, no, everything.

[00:26:24]No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, [laughter] no.

[00:26:26]If if we say everything you could be on the back. No, I'm not ready for back shot.

[00:26:32]No, no, no, no, no. Popular like that.

[00:26:34]>> I'm going to add Diddy into the edit.

[00:26:36]>> No, no, don't you. No, no, no, you [laughter] see bro, you see if I'm hearing that they make me scary, bro.

[00:26:42]Are you all right?

[00:26:43]>> Are you all right? I'm scared of Diddy.

[00:26:45]>> Of every [ __ ] that's bold.

[00:26:48]Are you all right?

[00:26:48]>> Why are you scared of him?

[00:26:49]>> Of bro.

[00:26:51]No, no, no, no, Do you know what I mean?

[00:26:52]I don't like that stuff. Let's not even talk about it.

[00:26:55]Let's not even talk about it. No.

[00:26:59]Do you actually want to go to Somalia with me, though? Mhm? If if I invite you to go and I tell you, "You know what?"

[00:27:06]"We're going to Somalia. Would you come with me?"

[00:27:09]>> Yeah, but would we go to proper proper Cuz you look like you enjoy You know the meaning of soft life?

[00:27:15]He You look like you would be in the lifestyle side.

[00:27:20]>> No.

[00:27:21]In my country I'm I'm infamous in my country like like like you see it, right?

[00:27:28]They they will they will protect me more. Like we don't do that. In in in my country when you go back and you are so famous, you go into people. You don't go with Like no one's going to take care of you. No one's going to always be famous.

[00:27:41]Like you're going to have security. Like there's nothing like that. If you go in there and you're famous, bro, no one gives a [ __ ] about you.

[00:27:47]>> There's no security. Nothing.

[00:27:48]>> Everyone right here Everyone outside of me they know me.

[00:27:51]No one's going to come to me and say, "Let me take a picture with you." We don't do that. I don't know Our blood Our blood has it that we don't show the other person that like the show the love that we have.

[00:28:03]Mhm. We don't say, "Okay, oh my god, we love you." We feel shame about it. We We feel that we have aura that ego. We act like that. Even if this the person is so famous Say, "I'm famous, right?"

[00:28:18]I'm not going to say I'm famous, but people know >> knows me right here.

[00:28:20]>> I haven't seen many times people come up to you and say, "Let's get a picture.

[00:28:24]Let's do this."

[00:28:25]>> But I've done that stuff before.

[00:28:27]>> Yeah. What I do when we meet and someone comes up and says, "Oh my god, that's you. That's We We talk and I say, "Okay, do you know what? Let's take a picture before you leave." I say it to them. Do not feel shame.

[00:28:39]Do you understand? Like I help them to take to take a picture and I will ask them. And I know deep down when they when they leave you they'll be like, "Okay, I have a picture with him now. I have I have a video with him now."

[00:28:53]They like to say that. But, they will never come to you and ask you the first place, if that makes sense.

[00:28:58]>> So, have you ever said no to no pictures to somebody?

[00:29:04]>> Mhm.

[00:29:05]>> No, sorry.

[00:29:08]Has somebody ever come to you and you didn't say, "Oh, let's take let's [clears throat] take a picture together."

[00:29:13]>> Mhm.

[00:29:15]No, uh me say to no always. They say to me.

[00:29:18]Yes. Yeah, that's how that's how I do.

[00:29:20]>> No, but I'm saying has there been sometimes you didn't say >> No, no, no, no, no. I don't say everyone.

[00:29:25]>> Why?

[00:29:28]>> I look the person if they show over over excitement to see me, I love showing them more love. See, the more you love me, the more I will show you love. If you come to say and you tell me, "Yo, yo, I know you. You're right." I will be, "Yeah, I'm all right." I'm not going to shake your hand. I'm not coming to you. I'm not going to say nothing at all. If you say, "Yo, you're right."

[00:29:48]I'll be, "Yeah, I'm all right." But, if you come to me and say, "Oh my god, I love you so much. I always watch you."

[00:29:53]Of course, I will show you much love that you showed me.

[00:29:58]If that makes sense.

[00:29:59]>> Yeah.

[00:29:59]>> So, you get it? So, but if you just wave at me, I'll wave at you.

[00:30:03]>> [clears throat] >> If you show me more love, I will show you the love that you showed me.

[00:30:08]Like, basically, I will pay you what you what you give me.

[00:30:20]>> So, I have three questions now.

[00:30:23]Sorry, huh?

[00:30:26]Go on.

[00:30:27]What did you say in when we was in the car?

[00:30:30]>> I I can't hear anymore. But, I will say I will say I will say both.

[00:30:35]>> What did you Sorry to interrupt you. This This This our rule.

[00:30:40]If If you are If you're my guest and you eating and I'm sure I don't want to eat anymore, I will never get up and wash my hand. That's way disrespectful. I have to wait you until you finish.

[00:30:54]Because if I feel now if I get up now, you feel shame that you eating alone.

[00:31:01]>> I won't feel shame but I know what he means. Someone >> No, no, only >> They they feel that okay you you eating alone.

[00:31:08]>> Okay, so >> And someone leave, you need to leave.

[00:31:12]I I can't get up before you get up if you are my guest. If you if you are my my house, if you are with me, it doesn't matter. Any situation we are in.

[00:31:23]So if if you eating I have to stay.

[00:31:27]That's fine. I'm going to toilet I will come back.

[00:31:30]But but you can't go toilet me eating bro. You can't go toilet I will come back.

[00:31:35]Yeah. Would you leave?

[00:31:37]I will go toilet and come back.

[00:31:39]What you saying?

[00:31:41]I don't Maybe you will cuz he said you will wait.

[00:31:45]No, no, no, no, no.

[00:31:47]If you start if I start eating let me finish. That You see if you talking to me I have a problem with that.

[00:31:54]So I just want to eat.

[00:31:55]So what what's your question?

[00:31:57]>> So what did he say exactly in the car in in your language when you was talking to your friend in the back?

[00:32:05]>> Oh, I was saying I I was I was I was joking.

[00:32:09]I was saying yo Get ready.

[00:32:12]Get ready.

[00:32:13]If you if if you do anything wrong we going to we going to fight with you.

[00:32:17]But we not going to start fighting. But I tell him this if we start fighting, we going to we going to [ __ ] him up. Allah.

[00:32:25]>> You wouldn't want to see me angry.

[00:32:27]>> We we going to do something. We going to fight.

[00:32:29]>> 100% you guys will be able to do that?

[00:32:32]>> No.

[00:32:33]I tell him just be ready now.

[00:32:36]So that's my religion.

[00:32:38]>> Mhm.

[00:32:38]>> So, if if I'm going if I'm if I'm going anything I have to let them I have to let them my religion know. And if they do something, they have to let them let let me know. So, I can I can do live next time. So, imagine if I didn't tell them nothing and me and you will start fighting. I get knock out.

[00:32:59]>> Yeah, he's going to be there alone.

[00:33:02]>> Do you understand? So, >> What did I just say what you said there?

[00:33:06]Yeah.

[00:33:07]>> No, no, no, no, no, no, she's not going to do that, but he said just I'm ready.

[00:33:10]>> He said >> Yo, I'm ready, but I think he's not going to do that. That's what he said.

[00:33:14]>> I like Abdi.

[00:33:15]>> Yeah, yeah, he's so loud and he's so quiet. Both of us are quiet, but especially me, I I do I do content creator and if you have to do whatever you do, you have to do more.

[00:33:26]>> Yeah.

[00:33:27]>> Like extra that that. So, I'm really so I'm so at the other night I jumped inside the car >> [music] >> and I looked at him and he told me there's a camera rolling and I was like, "What? There's a camera here?" I have to say [ __ ] before you say [ __ ] to me.

[00:33:46]Thank you.

[00:33:47]>> Why you do your mouth like that?

[00:33:48]>> I'm sorry.

[00:33:49]>> [laughter] >> So, what else did you say cuz you were speaking to somebody I've got 10 times.

[00:33:56]Yeah. So, he said one.

[00:33:57]>> Uh if if he show me the video now, I can't I can't say whatever I was saying.

[00:34:01]I can't remember. I was saying a lot things, but I I wasn't say something bad.

[00:34:06]I was There's one time I was saying that, "Yo, this guy is a nice guy." And like I said nice guy, he let people home. He's just helping people and he let him other people come come inside [clears throat] the car and he give them ride. That's what I was saying one time.

[00:34:20]Okay, he's a nice guy.

[00:34:22]>> It was very funny.

[00:34:23]>> So, what do you think what do you thought I was saying when I was talking to my my friend?

[00:34:30]>> Um I didn't know. I just thought maybe you guys are just busting jokes, but then when I looked at the comments different people were saying different stuff.

[00:34:40]Some people were saying, "No, it's okay.

[00:34:42]Thank you."

[00:34:43]It's all right.

[00:34:45]Yeah, so because everybody said different stuff I wasn't sure, so I thought when I see you, I'll just ask.

[00:34:51]>> No, no, mm. I was saying I wish I could I wish I could watch the video.

[00:34:57]I wish I could watch the video so I can I can tell exactly what I was saying.

[00:35:02]I wasn't there anything bad. You see the only thing I don't like You see there's a lot of single personality, right? Me.

[00:35:13]And that's how I born in that's my behavior.

[00:35:16]If me and you are together and another another Somali person come in, if anything happen, I'm always in your side. If you're wrong or right, you know why?

[00:35:27]I don't want you to think me and that person we are Somali and taking one side. That's why I always choose the other side. Always, no matter anything.

[00:35:37]Even if they're wrong, even if they're right. You know what? I don't want this person say they both going to like same side, like they both Somali.

[00:35:47]And you know if someone think that way, it's so deep because of he's think every Somali person is like that.

[00:35:54]>> But why don't you just stick to what is right instead of what the person thinks?

[00:35:59]>> You see protecting other people is a peace, that's what I believe.

[00:36:03]I love protecting other people more than my I don't care myself. I love protecting the other people. Like not everyone.

[00:36:12]The people I know or let's say if if I'm on the road and see someone need help, I can't leave them alone. I love to help. I just leave it there.

[00:36:22]>> Mm.

[00:36:25]Everything is free.

[00:36:27]>> No, no, no. [laughter] You see, if anything No, listen.

[00:36:30]There's a one rule. If anything's free, Allah don't let it go. Ever.

[00:36:36]>> Well, if you think about it, if it's opportunity, take it.

[00:36:39]Don't be stupid.

[00:36:41]Imagine girl come to you.

[00:36:42]>> And sleep next to you and say that I can do whatever you want. You sleep there.

[00:36:45]>> Nah. I I will forget sleeping.

[00:36:50]Take it.

[00:36:51]>> [laughter] >> Take it easy.

[00:36:57]Okay, now.

[00:36:59]If if I ask you and you find me 19-year-old girl, would you find me one?

[00:37:09]>> I can try and find you one, but >> Yeah. You see the troll. Troll that you're doing.

[00:37:15]You need to relax. Uh uh no, listen.

[00:37:18]>> Because me, I saw you one.

[00:37:22]The way we are as people, obviously we enjoy ourselves. We laugh. We do that.

[00:37:27]But, um sometimes our tolerance to joke joke every second is too much.

[00:37:33]>> I will tell you one thing.

[00:37:34]>> Yeah, as long as you know how to be serious and then to do laugh laugh.

[00:37:38]>> I will tell you one thing. If not even me, also Somali community.

[00:37:42]So, now whatever I do, is that mean I'm I'm representing you right now as a Somali community, right? I'm here. Does that mean Yeah, I I'm here Somali is here as well. Do you know what I'm saying? I'm representing a Somali community too, right now.

[00:37:57]>> Yeah. Okay.

[00:37:58]>> So, what I'm saying Like like you said before, what did you say?

[00:38:03]>> Very long.

[00:38:04]>> Look, you >> Everything is free.

[00:38:06]>> No, no, no. After that, now now now you ask me something. You tell me >> No. That we don't want joke >> Yeah.

[00:38:11]>> 24/7.

[00:38:12]>> As a Somali, we don't play. We don't joke three things at at all. Like not even like not even as a joke.

[00:38:20]A woman, kid, and money. We don't play with money.

[00:38:24]Actually, we don't play. Nobody plays with money.

[00:38:27]If any woman get involved, I don't like even joking with it.

[00:38:31]It's It's It's more value.

[00:38:33]And we I don't know, man. We don't joke with girls. Now, if I say, "Okay, I need a Nigerian woman." That means I'll be getting married with her. That's what I'm thinking about future. But, I'm not thinking like joking with it.

[00:38:48]>> No, not not joking like that. I mean like trolling. See the way you do troll?

[00:38:52]You can't do it 24/7.

[00:38:54]>> No, I can't do that with the woman. What is the woman are different, bro. They will get mad.

[00:38:59]They will get mad. And it's going to be a fight. I don't like fighting, but I like peace.

[00:39:03]I can't remember the last time I fought I fight.

[00:39:06]She is. Well, I can't remember. I just smile, bro.

[00:39:10]You see? And a smile is a sunnah.

[00:39:13]Sunnah.

[00:39:14]Smile.

[00:39:15]And Have you realized one Everyone is laughing. And I'm just mad.

[00:39:21]Why why everyone is mad, brother?

[00:39:23]Why is everyone But, you see you're going to see people on the train being like, "Hello." Yeah, they will be like, "Hello." But, if you don't do that, yeah, you might think these people are mad.

[00:39:37]So, now I'm going to show you how we in my country.

[00:39:41]>> I thought you said you're finished.

[00:39:43]>> No, no. Let me I'm I'm going to show you how we in the country. Where Where we are in the country.

[00:39:49]Now, I'm acting professional. There's a camera, but when we >> You don't need to look at me. When you see >> [laughter] [laughter] >> Oh my god.

[00:40:17]>> Yeah.

[00:40:36]Mhm.

[00:40:36]>> But, you can't drink this ones.

[00:40:39]>> Yeah.

[00:40:39]>> Wash your hands before I finish.

[00:40:40]>> Yeah, because because of I eat something I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to finish >> Yeah, don't don't sweat that. You don't need to wash your hands cuz you have to wait till I finish like you said.

[00:40:49]>> I have it in my mouth, so you want me to drop the food and come back to you. You see?

[00:40:53]>> Yeah, so wait.

[00:40:55]You eat too long.

[00:40:56]Yeah, you're not supposed to >> Yeah, yeah.

[00:40:59]>> [laughter] >> So, now now I'm in trouble.

[00:41:06]I I was explaining this rule before. Now I'm in trouble with it.

[00:41:12]My bad. I'm sorry.

[00:41:13]>> I think there is supposed to be water on this.

[00:41:15]>> I said my bad. I'm sorry about it.

[00:41:17]Because of I eat something in my mouth and I I didn't want to throw up. So, I went there and I wash I finish it.

[00:41:24]>> Another thing, when you're eating, how come you like to always look at me when you're eating?

[00:41:30]That means to give me space.

[00:41:33]>> No.

[00:41:33]>> Like you eat and then you look like you >> [laughter] >> Yeah, that No, no, no.

[00:41:40]No, when I was >> Like look somewhere else when you finish and you look back at me.

[00:41:44]>> No. You see, we're not in we're not like usually I do when I'm eating, I use my phone. So, I eat and use my phone. I don't even get the food I eat. I'm eating. So, I might see the plate is finished. You know what I'm saying? So, now you here with me, so and I'm teaching you something. I have to I have to watch you what you're doing.

[00:42:03]>> No, just like but look, if I said I'm going to show you how to eat spaghetti, I'll do this.

[00:42:09]>> You see you You how I'm I'm to say >> And now?

[00:42:11]>> "Did you see?"

[00:42:12]>> Okay.

[00:42:13]>> But you do this.

[00:42:15]>> [laughter] >> No. You know that when you eat this one, you have to eat like this. See?

[00:42:22]>> You just want me to spin?

[00:42:24]>> Yeah.

[00:42:26]No. No. See? When you take it Put it like this. You see? You take it.

[00:42:31]Yeah.

[00:42:32]Can I show you? Can I show you?

[00:42:34]>> Yeah, but don't put Yeah, just for yourself to eat. Don't look at me. Don't look at me. Just >> Okay.

[00:42:39]>> Yeah.

[00:42:41]See? Don't look at me. I'm looking Come on. I'm looking. Just look towards this way.

[00:42:46]Yeah, cuz I know you want to just Yeah, this way.

[00:42:48]Bro, you're >> [laughter] >> I saw you.

[00:42:52]When you take that years See?

[00:42:55]>> Yeah, this way. This way.

[00:42:57]>> You see? I'm showing you, you know.

[00:42:59]See?

[00:42:59]>> Yeah.

[00:43:00]>> You see?

[00:43:02]>> Mhm.

[00:43:03]>> So, you have to eat.

[00:43:10]>> You didn't know. Okay. So, >> Yeah.

[00:43:16]>> Jesus.

[00:43:18]>> See that?

[00:43:18]I put it put it together inside. Yeah.

[00:43:21]>> [laughter] >> It's not It's not like a fufu. You see?

[00:43:28]You know. When you eat fufu, you you slap the fufu like You slap the food.

[00:43:33]Are you Are you done? Whoop. Whoop. I never thought they'd get to eat.

[00:43:38]You always are beating the food like You beat the food.

[00:43:43]I don't know how to eat You know.

[00:43:45]I've never seen who eat like this.

[00:43:51]>> [laughter] >> Another thing.

[00:43:59]What I'm doing now? Camera doing that.

[00:44:01]Go away. Go away.

[00:44:04]>> [clears throat] >> Very funny.

[00:44:06]Naughty.

[00:44:08]Go on. So, you said the one other thing you said or some of the people asked in the the messages that I got some of them said can you show your hair?

[00:44:23]>> Okay. You see, uh the only way I show my hair is that when someone asking me, "Where you from?" You see? When someone ask me, "Where you from?"

[00:44:31]>> WHERE YOU FROM?

[00:44:34]>> [screaming] >> OH MY GOD.

[00:44:42]>> [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> I REMEMBER YOU TALKED TO YOUSSOU ABOUT MY BRO, you're going to give me high blood pressure.

[00:45:09]>> No, no, take this. Take this. [laughter] Take this.

[00:45:15]I scared myself sometimes when I go. You can't blame but >> So, one day I woke >> I'm okay. I'm okay.

[00:45:22]So, it's So, it's scare you scare of me?

[00:45:24]>> No, no.

[00:45:25]>> This is >> I don't to look You see the way I told you when you're eating.

[00:45:30]That's why That's why when I'm talking to you.

[00:45:34]I'm looking to >> Yes.

[00:45:41]So, now I come to >> Somebody sent you to see >> What? Now, when I put in the central seat, okay. But when I take off So, my liar [ __ ] Yeah, yeah, yeah. You see right?

[00:45:52]See, there's two road, Seven Sister and King's Cross.

[00:45:56]>> [laughter] >> Seven Sister right there and King's Cross, bro.

[00:46:00]>> Oh my gosh.

[00:46:01]>> And after a few months, he used to >> Oh my days.

[00:46:05]>> He used to >> That's all.

[00:46:06]>> So wait, you're 23?

[00:46:09]>> That is a [clears throat] genetic, you know.

[00:46:11]>> Is what?

[00:46:11]>> Genetic.

[00:46:13]>> Gen- genetics?

[00:46:14]>> Genetic or or genetic, I don't know.

[00:46:16]It's all good.

[00:46:16]>> So, you don't have a sign here.

[00:46:18]>> Mhm.

[00:46:19]>> Would you ever do hair transplant surgery? And I'm not saying you should do it or you would?

[00:46:24]>> I would definitely.

[00:46:24]>> Okay, cuz I think a lot of people shouldn't do it. So, I wasn't saying you should do it. I just wanted to know.

[00:46:29]>> Yeah, that before Yes, I think before 2 years ago, my hair was here.

[00:46:35]>> So, what? Did something Oh, yeah, you said genetic. I was going to say something stressful happened, but it's just that Yeah.

[00:46:43]Yeah. Just genetic, yeah. Girl.

[00:46:45]>> No. You see You see You see now? Now, he's going to want information, more info. That's where you wrong. He stole my hair. He stole my hair. Look his hair, black. He stole my hair.

[00:46:59]>> So, now >> Mhm.

[00:47:03]>> What what what what they say? What they say?

[00:47:05]Last but not least.

[00:47:06]>> Okay.

[00:47:08]>> And now everything is here.

[00:47:11]We are have take away food.

[00:47:15]Wonderful for take away.

[00:47:17]And I want ask you politely, can we do free ride and give any person who come down on that the car?

[00:47:28]>> Give them some money for you. Thanks.

[00:47:31]>> Especially Especially girl.

[00:47:33]Especially who?

[00:47:34]Girl.

[00:47:36]>> Are you going to turn into their hand in the car?

[00:47:38]>> I don't know.

[00:47:39]>> What?

[00:47:40]>> No, no, no. You're going to keep >> Turn it on or not. You they're going to eat. Yeah. It's sweet. If they they start eating, they they they they put it in the the the car will be in the restaurant.

[00:47:49]>> This is too much.

[00:47:50]>> Yeah. So, now now what we do do we taking this all food. Now, we almost here. Half an hour, we get inside the car. Everything was going good.

[00:48:00]>> We didn't even agree. You just >> [laughter] >> We got some We can do it, but you know what's it called? Um there's a lot of traffic cuz of the Arsenal celebration.

[00:48:08]>> Yeah, yeah, yeah. We're fine with that.

[00:48:10]>> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:48:11]>> Listen.

[00:48:12]As long I'm safe and I'm inside the car I'm going to the bill. I'm on it.

[00:48:20]If it Okay, if like let's say, you know, we going out now. Listen. Be honest with me.

[00:48:26]Now we going out.

[00:48:27]We we get into fight.

[00:48:29]Are you going to fight or you going to be like No, let let's like >> I'm going to stop it.

[00:48:34]>> You're going to stop it?

[00:48:35]Oh, he's a hero.

[00:48:37]No, no, no. You're going to stop it, right?

[00:48:39]>> But fighting is not good, so we need to stop.

[00:48:41]>> Sometimes it's good. No, no, no.

[00:48:42]>> Yeah.

[00:48:43]>> Well, if I'm on the road and they start fighting with me, brother, I don't care who you are, I don't care where you come from, I'm on it. Yeah. If you start in fighting with someone reason >> Yeah, but that's because you're protecting yourself, but if there's someone to stop you >> No, in the middle of the stop. If there's a chance >> Yeah, that's what I said.

[00:48:58]>> Me, well, I wouldn't stop it.

[00:49:01]I'm being honest.

[00:49:02]>> why you left Cyprus because you don't fight.

[00:49:04]>> [laughter] >> You see now? NOW HE TRYING TO BE SAYING THAT THAT'S WHY you left Cyprus BECAUSE HE WAS FIGHTING BECAUSE OF MY AGAIN.

[00:49:13]OH MY >> SO WHAT So this one now?

[00:49:18]>> Uh this one is a mango.

[00:49:20]>> With strawberry.

[00:49:20]>> There's a mango, strawberry, yogurt, uh sugar, and ice.

[00:49:27]>> Has it got that Somali sweet taste?

[00:49:29]>> Yeah, it's like that. Yeah, it's a Somali >> Somali mango >> But it's different though. It it The The mango we have in our country is a way different. I will show you.

[00:49:37]>> Is it?

[00:49:37]>> Yeah, yeah. It's a way different.

[00:49:39]>> So this is Somali mango inside.

[00:49:41]>> mango.

[00:49:42]>> How do you know?

[00:49:43]>> Uh because of No, they they they they they brought them from there.

[00:49:48]>> Do they call it cool?

[00:49:49]>> Yeah, that's why they call it Somali mango.

[00:49:52]You try it.

[00:49:54]I hope you like it.

[00:49:56]I don't know people hold their drink after they eat their food. I can't drink if I eat the food because of it. It's too heavy. Yeah, it's so heavy. That's why I don't want to finish it now. Yeah, you can get inside the car and then you can drink it there.

[00:50:11]Do you know Do you know what makes me happy?

[00:50:13]That he's enjoying the food as well.

[00:50:16]>> No, guys, honestly, I've had Somali food before, but years ago.

[00:50:22]Um the the yellow shop in Stratton, South London. Shouts to them, man. I don't know if they're still open.

[00:50:30]And um but one thing is even when I had the Somali food, the way I had it was in a very like British way.

[00:50:39]I didn't have no banana because with me, I used to be scared that if I had the banana with the rice, my stomach start I don't know if the toilet I mean >> Now, you see this is why I love my I love my people, right now. Now, we're talking, me and you. You see them people on the on the back? They're helping us, you see?

[00:50:57]Take this is stuff because they're recording. Take all this this stuff.

[00:51:00]They have They have a camera. They're talking. And he said, "Take all this stuff." You see, he's helping us without not knowing them.

[00:51:08]He doesn't know me. He doesn't know you.

[00:51:09]So, he's helping us. That's how we help to help us. What did he do? He said, "Take all this this stuff because of they're recording."

[00:51:16]>> Oh, so he told them to do it.

[00:51:17]>> Yeah, he told them to do it.

[00:51:20]>> That's how our restaurant community >> That's how we love each other.

[00:51:24]Not like we don't care, but we we still do. Like we we do like it's nothing. You know, sometimes these people think, "Okay, whatever you do with it, it it gets you time or whatever." Now, we just say, "You know, listen here. Take all this this stuff. They're recording." He said, "Okay, I will take it now." See, he helped us.

[00:51:43]>> So, you asked me about Nigeria, right?

[00:51:48]What Let's say you had a I don't know if you have female cousin. I'm not asking to be with her, but let's say if you had a female cousin, would your uncles or basically the older male side of the family would they allow me to marry somebody like their so their daughter?

[00:52:06]>> To be honest with you [laughter] To be honest with you, I'll be honest, man.

[00:52:10]>> It's hard. Listen.

[00:52:12]We know We know We don't have same culture. We are two different two different countries, so they're not People think our our grandfather our grandmother every all of them they think they are racist not racist.

[00:52:29]They think about the culture.

[00:52:31]>> Their own culture, yeah.

[00:52:32]>> Yeah. So, if you marry outside your culture you almost lose your culture or you share with you culture another culture.

[00:52:40]>> Mhm.

[00:52:41]>> Let's say Ha ha ha ha. So, let's >> What did you say you said?

[00:52:45]>> I said can I take you out? That's what I said.

[00:52:47]>> Those are ha Yes. Ha means yes.

[00:52:50]>> Ha, yeah. Ha is how I like to say.

[00:52:52]>> Ha or ha ha?

[00:52:53]>> No.

[00:52:53]>> Ha.

[00:52:54]>> No no ha ha.

[00:52:55]Ha one.

[00:52:56]>> So, ha one yes.

[00:52:58]>> Yes.

[00:52:58]>> Cool. You're good.

[00:52:59]>> So Brother, you know I have ADHD, bro. I I forgot what I was talking about.

[00:53:04]>> No, so you were saying that if you come step outside your culture when finding a woman, they'll feel that maybe you've lost your own culture.

[00:53:11]>> Yeah, that's what they think.

[00:53:13]And and technically if you if if I can have but Nigeria and my wife Of course, I have two cultures Somali culture and I Nigeria culture. I have to learn that culture because of my wife she's from Nigeria.

[00:53:25]So if Somali girl come with me, she has to learn Nigeria culture because of she will have Nigerian kids in the future. If that makes sense. So, our our fathers our grand grandfathers to all of them they're not racist people think they're racist.

[00:53:41]They're not racist, but are afraid because of you have a strict culture. So strict. Even me as a man I can't marry that outside the I also marry what our culture >> Somalia like you can marry >> Somalia What we are saying >> Well I know you are saying but I know some of you guys here saying but you know there's something that they are different.

[00:54:00]>> Well I don't I don't care >> I saw someone search me and they said I'm a Londoner.

[00:54:04]>> No I don't care about that. I don't care who you are.

[00:54:06]>> Okay.

[00:54:06]>> I believe Somalis just be our one.

[00:54:08]>> Okay let me put it like this. But can you marry from different tribes?

[00:54:11]>> Yeah that's what we do. Of course that's what >> Okay but you know some people they want the same tribe. No no no no. Not Somalis but different subcultures they want the same tribe.

[00:54:21]>> Oh that's that's that's a long story. If I tell you I'll explain about the tribes is long. But some people they would rather to get married the same tribe.

[00:54:33]>> Mhm.

[00:54:33]>> But some people they don't me personally I don't care. They want who you want.

[00:54:37]Me >> You might as well advertise yourself now.

[00:54:40]>> As long you have As long you have good character and you have big heart >> Big heart?

[00:54:49]>> Yeah.

[00:54:51]But well I don't care where you come from.

[00:54:53]I don't I don't judge people. I I actually don't care about people. I don't say okay I don't have no preference.

[00:55:00]>> No preference so no matter the person >> As long you have good heart and you're not lying.

[00:55:07]That's a lot.

[00:55:08]It's a lot.

[00:55:10]>> So race everything is fine.

[00:55:11]>> Right.

[00:55:12]>> Will your parents allow that for you though?

[00:55:14]>> Brother I don't have my both parents resting peace.

[00:55:17]>> Same I don't have that.

[00:55:18]>> I'm sorry about that.

[00:55:20]>> No it's cool. I have someone that call my mom and dad now very close but yeah.

[00:55:24]>> Yeah even even I remember when I was young my mom used to tell me you can't you can't get married whoever you want.

[00:55:31]I want you to stay safe but that's what he used to tell me because my Uh, I lost That this a camera I don't like talking about my private life, you know, like in my life. I don't like talking about it on camera, innit?

[00:55:43]>> So, sorry.

[00:55:44]>> Yeah, I don't like talking about it.

[00:55:46]Yeah, man.

[00:55:47]Someone. Someone.

[00:55:49]>> Um, so basically, the answer to the first question I asked is no. I won't be able to get one.

[00:55:57]>> Listen, I can't say no to you. You know why? There's a girls, they don't care.

[00:56:02]They just get it married whoever they want.

[00:56:05]There's a girl that she's my close friend. Her husband is a Jamaican black.

[00:56:10]She have two kids.

[00:56:11]>> Yardy.

[00:56:11]>> Yeah, yardy. Yardy. Yardy. Yardy. Yeah, the bomb.

[00:56:17]>> [laughter] >> So, what what I'm saying, there's a girls can can risk it and say, "You know what? Yeah, [ __ ] it. I will get married."

[00:56:25]And what if the parents fine? That one.

[00:56:27]The one Yardy. Even they Even Even if they're not fine with it It's going to be about force, innit?

[00:56:37]And if And parents they know if the girl say, "I I will do I will choose." Yeah, they're so headed. If they say, "I will do it." Wallahi, they will do it.

[00:56:46]There's nothing they can do in their mind.

[00:56:47]>> Cuz you know there's like some people put some money to the side.

[00:56:51]>> Yeah.

[00:56:52]>> Yes.

[00:56:53]>> Thank [ __ ] See, you didn't see.

[00:56:56]>> Yeah. I said hi.

[00:56:57]>> You don't want to talk to See? You see it's nice because of money now.

[00:57:00]>> Huh?

[00:57:01]>> So, huh? You say huh?

[00:57:02]>> Say that.

[00:57:03]>> Say that.

[00:57:03]>> Say that.

[00:57:05]>> Yeah.

[00:57:06]>> Do you know what is that? Say that. It's It's Say that. It's like how are you?

[00:57:10]>> So, how are you? Say that. And then fear is I'm good.

[00:57:14]>> So, no. Me and him We we getting on.

[00:57:17]Me and him, yeah.

[00:57:20]Uh-uh. Uh, I need to grace.

[00:57:23]I need to You see? You see now he's getting mad. I need to grace.

[00:57:28]>> But no. What I was going to say is that there's some cultures where like Um Yeah, there's some not even culture. There's some people that the way the setup is if that woman or man tries to step out of their own culture the parents is not speaking to them again.

[00:57:57]That says the end of it. Sometimes later on the parents come around and you know, but there's some instances they when people are even asked them, "Do you have X amount of daughters or son?" They've even minus that person out from the equation. So hard.

[00:58:12]>> Yeah, I understand where you're coming from but you know what? People are not the same.

[00:58:16]People are like the fingers. Fingers are not the same.

[00:58:19]People are like that. So, there's there's some fathers that >> I like that. Also, say again.

[00:58:24]>> Yeah, all fingers are not the same.

[00:58:26]>> [music] >> There's different kind of people like that.

[00:58:29]Now, come on.

[00:58:30]>> You don't need [laughter] to steal it.

[00:58:32]If I say you can't take it. You're my brother. We share it.

[00:58:36]So, there's there's there's some fathers that when they hear that you know what?

[00:58:40]She's getting married with a janet.

[00:58:43]Janet a janet benny >> A janet >> Yeah, a janet.

[00:58:45]Whatever. Whoever outside. And I will come see the janet people.

[00:58:52]So whatever what like if any girl get married with a janet, there's some fathers they will they will accept take the consequence. They feel like, "You know what? She did it anyway." So, that that's that's my my my my daughter her husband I have to respect. But some fathers they go they don't care. They will never talk to her husband.

[00:59:14]They're not even going to sit. Where?

[00:59:16]Sometimes when he's he's the house when he's in the house the husband if the father comes when he see that the husband there he's going to leave because he's there. So people I know that you know me me if my I don't want to see it. If my daughter tells me, "You know what? Yeah, I'm getting married."

[00:59:35]I'll say, "There's some money my son."

[00:59:38]I will accept it, but I have to accept the concept. I want my daughter to be safe.

[00:59:44]I want my I want my daughter to be safe and provide. That's it. So, me and that guy, we're going to have one problem. If I see my daughter just crying, me and him we're done.

[00:59:56]Someone's going to die. Some someone's going to be on >> I understand you don't like it.

[00:59:59]>> So, it is it's different.

[01:00:01]>> Yeah.

[01:00:02]>> Wow.

[01:00:02]>> Yeah, man. You can have somebody girl as well. If if if you if you are lucky, though, I'll be all right.

[01:00:09]>> So, you wouldn't help to fight?

[01:00:11]>> I don't I wouldn't mind helping if you understand it. If you getting married, though, >> No, no. I'm I'm not racist.

[01:00:18]I'm just asking just to see what you would say.

[01:00:21]I'm open to any race, but I just wanted to see how you would respond.

[01:00:24]>> Bro, I'm not racist.

[01:00:26]>> No, I'm not about racism. I just wanted to see if he was actually try to help or he would be like, "Nah, I'm >> I would definitely help you if you getting married. And that's condition.

[01:00:34]>> Yeah, of course.

[01:00:35]>> Yeah, if you getting married, I'm going to help you, but if you're not you can't why do you care?

[01:00:39]>> No, that's crazy. Yeah.

[01:00:40]>> Vicky Vicky, if you want Vicky Vicky you can find it at Vicky [laughter] Vicky.

[01:00:44]I have a baby.

[01:00:46]Yeah.

[01:00:46]>> days. So, what would you say is like when you think about Somali culture, what would you say is something that that like you feel a lot of people that are not Somali don't they always get misunderstanding about?

[01:01:02]Is there if you maybe you say there's nothing, but if there's some stuff you would say people always think this about Somali, but it's not true.

[01:01:14]>> It's not true.

[01:01:16]I will be honest. Whatever we do, we just do it, man. We We a [ __ ] Like like we do whatever we want. Yeah. Yeah.

[01:01:24]There's nothing you say or blessing.

[01:01:27]Now, if you You see, there are just three person now and we can hear them.

[01:01:31]Look.

[01:01:32]Mhm.

[01:01:33]See that? That's what we have. But we But we're not proud of it. We're like we're so loud anywhere we are. So loud.

[01:01:40]>> Nigerians is loud.

[01:01:42]>> We understand each other for no reason.

[01:01:44]I don't know.

[01:01:44]>> Mhm.

[01:01:45]>> We can be here five person or four person and talk at the same time and we understand each other.

[01:01:51]>> Yeah.

[01:01:52]>> Hey.

[01:01:54]Hey.

[01:01:55]Hey.