Sista Faces Backlash Online For Marrying A Chinese Man, They Say She's Selling Out The Black Race

Added: 2026-06-01

[00:00:00]I saw a video on X of this Chinese man marrying a Zambian woman. What a beautiful ceremony it was, by the way.

[00:00:07]They looked beautiful, the exchange of cultures and everything. I enjoyed the the entire video. I wish I was at that wedding. But the comments, they were brutal.

[00:00:17]They were brutal. One comment said, "The quickest way to colonize a group of people is through their women." A large number of Chinese men are marrying young Zambian women. What is going on? And to think about it, I have seen this trend on TikTok where Chinese men marry Zambian women. Check out this clip.

[00:00:44]>> [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] >> I've always maintained that only black people, and more specifically black women, believe the BS that love sees no color. Yes, there's always an exception, but every other race of people on Earth don't believe that nonsense. I mean, even animals do not believe in that. I mean, a for instance, will not marry a jaguar. But, but both belong to the cat family. It's why they even have different habitats in the first place. The general unspoken rule is to stick to your kind. We are all humans, but black people are the only humans so accepting of others, and it has always been our downfall. People who look down on you as inferior in their inner circles are the ones you think will treat you differently because they choose to sleep with you.

[00:02:28]You know, I'm sorry for saying it out loud. I wrote it there, so I wanted to read it. I I'm reading through a teleprompter right now, and I I wanted to read that so that I don't veer off.

[00:02:40]Do you understand? Like, black people in general, you guys are so understanding, and you're the only people on this planet that doesn't see color, you know? You don't see things for what they truly are, you know? And you think marrying a person that thinks so lowly of you, that looks at you like you are the inferior in their own circles, will treat you differently because now you're marrying them or you're sleeping with them, and you think things will be different. No.

[00:03:08]And especially the ones that marry white men or white black women marrying white men and vice versa. I'm like, I have no problem with interracial relationships. I was once in one, and I enjoyed myself to the fullest, and I was fully loved, but there was always that underlying issue. As much as I couldn't name it back then, I wasn't as radical as I was, but there was this underlying tone, this atmosphere in our relationship where I I felt like I had to do a lot to compensate for this relationship to work. I have to do twice the work. I have to do twice the the the the the with talking, the mending of relationships or we are fighting, I have to do twice as much as my, you know, my white boyfriend. And I think I think that messed with my mind so much.

[00:04:03]I didn't know what it was back then.

[00:04:04]Like I said, I was not radical, but I've always felt that sense of as a black person in this relationship, I just have to do twice as much. Maybe it's maybe I don't know.

[00:04:15]Maybe because white people have always thought of black thought of us black people as their inferior for such a long time that I don't think that systemic relation systemic racism will be changed over time or over reconcilia- reconciliation policies.

[00:04:35]Huh? Over over the policies of democracy, if I'm making sense. I don't think systemic racism will change because a piece of paper says, "Hey, let's stop all the oppression and everything and let's integrate our inferiors, the blacks, into the community and let's all be equal. Let's no longer see race." I mean, systemic relation- systemic racism. Why do I keep saying relationship? Systemic racism it it stems it stems deep. It's more than just an ideology. It's it it it's a it's a DNA thing. It's embedded into their DNA, into their mitochondria, you know? Into their DNA What is that sphere? What is that helix or whatever it's called? Yeah, I I I I haven't done science in a long time.

[00:05:24]You know, it's embedded in their RNA codes.

[00:05:29]So, it can't just be changed over time because the world now is tired of beating black people up, lynching black people, abusing black people, you know, oppressing black people. It doesn't change like that. So, I just feel like systemic racism is just embedded in their blood and they are born with it and they carry it even though it's not over in some of in some of the white people but it's there.

[00:05:55]To just say that oh this one is not racism racist sorry this one is not racist because they don't show their racism or their true color no it's not over but it's it's not like it's not there it's just dormant.

[00:06:07]You know it's just dormant so I don't know I just feel like we black especially black women we our we are so naive we are so naive and every Tom, Dick, and Harry can take advantage of us. We are the probably the only race on this planet that does not see color or see things for what they truly are. And and I've been noticing this strange pattern men with Chinese men in Zambian women in numbers. That was not the first wedding I saw like a lot of them.

[00:06:41]A lot of Asian men are marrying with Zambian women and I'm like is there buy one get one free or is there sale happening in Zambia that I don't know of?

[00:06:52]>> [laughter] >> So yeah man I don't know I don't know maybe it's a coincidence or maybe it's my FYP page I build it brick by brick.

[00:07:04]So I don't know but interracial relationships have always I don't know I just felt like I was over compensating for a lot of things and I feel like if I can feel that way young as I am I wonder how intense it is in your adulthood. I don't know.

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