Amberlynn's washcloth timeline RETRO REVIEW with Mr Delulu!

Added: 2026-05-10

[00:00:00]Was Abraham Lincoln a president? Yes.

[00:00:01]Oh, I thought he was just a whatever.

[00:00:02]Biblical figure. Welcome to the Lulu Diaries where the timelines don't match but the receipts always do. Today I have Mr. Delulu here for some more torture.

[00:00:11]It's me.

[00:00:12]>> [laughter] >> And we want to say thank you so much for a thousand subscribers. He is so excited that you guys want to subject him to more Amberlynn clips and I told him that today is going to be a doozy. Thrilled.

[00:00:22][clears throat] >> [laughter] >> But in all seriousness, do thank you for a thousand subs. It's always nice to see that um this pays off.

[00:00:33]>> [laughter] >> It's worth it, I swear.

[00:00:36]Uh so okay, just to tell you what the fans voted for, they want you to learn about wipe gate and I'm going to give you no context but I will say I'm going to start you off with a softball clip of some Amberlynn hygiene just to get you primed and ready. Wipe gate? Yes. Oh, no.

[00:00:53]All right. All right, let's do it. Then another thing with being at my mom's, my mom had a it wasn't a claw foot bathtub. But she had it wasn't like a normal bathtub. I don't know how else to explain it. You see it in the videos a lot.

[00:01:06]Um Amberlynn did not shower the whole time we were at my mom's.

[00:01:13]She did not like the bathtub. She refused to even try to get in it. I think she was she was having a hard time getting her leg over it. It was the thing cuz it is pretty high sides.

[00:01:24]And she just basically, you know, bathed.

[00:01:29]She just you know, she washed her hair. I like I'd help her wash her hair over the shower.

[00:01:36]Um and she just kind of washed with washcloths and wore plenty of deodorant.

[00:01:40]That's That's what she did. Oh.

[00:01:44]So right now I bet you're thinking that this is referring to like a weekend trip.

[00:01:50]Do you want to take a bet at how long they were at Destiny's mom's house?

[00:01:55]Oh god. Uh I know, um a month? Seven months.

[00:02:01]>> Seven months she didn't take a proper bath, bathe, and shower, anything in seven months? She did not. She took >> Oh, god. She took what Destiny calls a bath. All right, so that was just a little teaser lead-up. So, now we're going to get into wipe gate. So, in this one we're going to hear from Beck, which is one of Amber's most recent partners.

[00:02:23]And just to let you know, they do go by they/them now. After Amber's cancer scare and hysterectomy, I was the one who took care of her while she was healing. And yes, I was the one who wiped her. But I wiped her plenty before that. I believe from sometime in 2019 to June 2021 when we broke up. I'm sorry, how long did she just say from like multiple years of wiping her?

[00:02:42]Yeah.

[00:02:42]>> Is that what I heard? Did I I heard that correctly? Let's go back cuz she has the video sped up, and so it's kind of hard for me to hear exactly how long it was.

[00:02:49]>> And that's that's not like oh, no. Oh, god. Yeah, this is what the people wanted.

[00:02:56]>> [laughter] >> But let's let's listen to that again.

[00:02:58]>> Yeah.

[00:02:59]Multiple years. Oh, my god.

[00:03:02]>> Beck says 2019 to 2021. And Amber alleges a different timeline. I'm going to let you hear what she has to say. But according to Beck, it was literally like they broke up, and that's exactly when it stopped. So, keep that in mind.

[00:03:18]Before I started wiping her, she would use washcloths to wipe. She would set them on the corner of the sink, and then she would turn herself around, and then she would throw them away. Our roommates started to notice that their late mother's washcloths were disappearing, and they confronted her about it, and she wanted me to lie to them for her, but I didn't. Oh.

[00:03:34]Oh, she'd turn herself around to wipe herself on the washcloth? What?

[00:03:40]Yeah, a lot of people are like confused about how she does that. But to me, like not that I would say that it's something that people should be doing, but it makes sense. So, do you need like >> [laughter] >> an understanding or do you can you picture >> Oh, I can picture I why wouldn't you just put it on a stick or something? What's the >> That's That's what so many people are saying. There's literally like devices that are meant for people with mobility issues or you know, obesity where it's like on a stick you can use toilet paper which is more sanitary because it just goes into the trash or whatever. It's not like damaging the environment by sitting it cuz that's the thing too.

[00:04:15]She's using these washcloths and then they're just sitting in a landfill for years.

[00:04:20]>> think what we need to do is we need to clip in one of those Is that not allowed on YouTube?

[00:04:30]Maybe for Patreon. Okay, you can bleep that out, right? [laughter] I'll do my best.

[00:04:37]Um but yeah, no. So like a lot of people are confused about how it works and for me I'm like mentally it makes sense like how she would do it but the why doesn't make sense cuz like you said they make like rag on a stick things.

[00:04:48]>> And it's not like she's poor, right?

[00:04:50]This is at this point she's still making her big bucks from from whatever she does.

[00:04:53]>> Oh yeah, she was making money money. She was supporting her and Beck before the breakup. So clearly she was doing well enough for that.

[00:05:00]It's literally just like entitlement.

[00:05:02]And then I don't know if you heard Beck just say but the reason that this all came about or whatever is because her roommate cuz they were living with two roommates at the time was like, "Hey, I have these sentimental washcloths. Where did they go?" And she was using his mother's washcloths who had passed away for this purpose. Oh, well first All right, I'm not even going to worry about what is a sentimental washcloth.

[00:05:28]But never mind that it why wouldn't if you're throwing them away, why wouldn't you just like buy more? Like go on go online and order a bulk pack and you know That's what I'm saying. Like if you're going to do it, why would you cuz okay, a lot of people have the same complaint as you where they're like, "What's a sentimental washcloth?" I do have washcloths for the kitchen that are vintage print that I can't replace and the thought of her doing that with my vintage print ones when you can just go to Target and get like a 10 pack for $4 or something is insane. anus She ended up buying more washcloths for herself and instead of throwing them away, she had me wash them in the sink and then put them in the washer. So, notice that when it's the roommate's washcloths, they get thrown away immediately. As soon as she starts buying them, which again, she has money, she makes back clean them.

[00:06:18]And she makes them hand When we're talking wipe, are we talking like Yeah, yeah, that's what we're talking about. Okay.

[00:06:26]Um Yeah, just to clarify, we are talking solid waste. Okay. Well, my All right, you know, I All right, there's there's no reconciling this. This is um My thing is like like you said, they make like sticks that are meant to hold toilet paper so that none of this would be an issue. So, why is she opting to do all of this? Like, it just doesn't make any sense cuz like you said, it's not out of desperation because she's poor.

[00:06:52]>> I have to imagine at a certain point of All right, when you're if you're trying to push toilet paper through a fold But the I I really imagine that there is a limit to where that toilet paper, no matter how nice, no longer holds up. The thing is, I mean God, this is so hard to make YouTube friendly. No matter how viscous what she's trying to wipe through is, >> [laughter] >> Why did you use that word? I can't think of a better word for YouTube.

[00:07:25]>> viscous >> [laughter] >> Um there are options or whatever that she could be using, I'm sure, because >> [laughter] >> Well, that's the thing. People were like, "Why don't you get a bidet?" And she can lean over, you know what I mean?

[00:07:39]Like, if If bend over, it's not as like tight of an area to work in. So, there's no way that there's not a >> don't have any force to them. They're pretty gentle. So, I imagine there'd be a lot of holding bits apart and and uh You would need like a Okay, but let me ask you this. A detachable shower head just every time you use the bathroom is what you would need. But first of all, she has money, so she could afford a really, really nice one that would have some like, you know, pressure to it.

[00:08:06]Second of all, if you're in Beck's situation of helping her wipe, would you rather be washing the washcloths in the sink by hand, [clears throat] or would you rather be helping her move some folds around?

[00:08:21]Don't make me answer that.

[00:08:22]>> I can see by the look in your eye that your option would be the exit strategy.

[00:08:28]>> [laughter] >> Yeah.

[00:08:30]All right. Well, let's see what else Beck did. Amber also said that I only brought her a bucket a couple of times, and that is true. It only happened a couple of times. But I did help her get spots she couldn't reach. And in between the bucket baths, she just didn't shower. I also didn't only brush her hair once, either. It needed to be brushed every few months. I'm only saying all of this now because she does not live in the same reality. She She brushed her hair every once every few months, she said? Like That's got to be gross.

[00:08:56]>> Yeah, she would say it got really matted. Keep in mind as well that there's I don't remember if Amber Lynn confirmed it, but I feel like she did in a live stream.

[00:09:06]But either way, there's allegations that Amber had bed bugs at one point.

[00:09:11]So, like the thought of sleeping in a house that has bed bugs and not even like taking the steps to brush your hair during that time is crazy.

[00:09:20]>> I've seen this episode of Hoarders.

[00:09:23]That's what I'm saying. And honestly, Amber really would be on one. I mean, she has like stacks and stacks of journals. Every time she goes to Walmart, she buys so much crap. I know you like tease me for buying a bunch of like tchotchkes and stuff. But like, I'm talking she'll come back with like candles, reusable water cups, journals every time she goes to Walmart and she goes a lot. That's insane. Yeah, so no, I mean it is crazy and like to make back brush that all out. I know your hair is short, but like the motion of brushing for so long is really hard and since they would do it only so often, back said that the mats would get really, really bad and like I said her hair is like down to her butt. So, that's like so much effort, you know.

[00:10:04]>> Yeah, no, that's imagining the smell is is not not good.

[00:10:10]Yeah, I can't remember if it was back or Destiny that said it. I believe it was back, but she said that they did get some complaints from when Amber would sit on furniture about the scent that she left behind.

[00:10:19]>> She left behind? Oh.

[00:10:20]>> [laughter] >> Yeah, I don't have the receipts on that cuz I knew that you were kind of busy, so I wanted to make sure I clipped everything quickly, but I thought that you would appreciate that bit of intel.

[00:10:31]So, this is what Amber Lynn had to say about the situation. I believe this was before the video that we just watched on back, but this was all happening kind of back to back. Beck says that they wiped me.

[00:10:41]>> [sighs and gasps] >> Okay, so story time on that. Beck started wiping me after my hysterectomy and it continued on after that. This part is embarrassing and this part I'm going to be accountable. My hysterectomy, okay, so wiping okay, >> [laughter] >> so embarrassed, holy [ __ ] Wiping for me has always been extremely hard as a bigger girl, obviously. Um, if you're bigger, my size, it's hard. When I was about to get my hysterectomy, that was a big thing for me that I was like, how am I going to be able to wipe myself because it's hard already. I'm not going to be able to. At the time, I was like, Becky, like are you going to be able to do this for me? Like I'm really embarrassed about it. And they were like, of course. When I was healing, I physically could not do it. Beck did it for me and so did my mom. Me not being able to wipe for it was like honestly a few weeks. Already something that was already so hard for me, I kind of lost the ability to do it. I was literally shook cuz I remember when I was noticing like my healing was getting better, like everything was going great, like holy [ __ ] wait a minute. I like have lost the ability to like do this.

[00:11:50]So, what do you think about her saying that she lost the ability to wipe after her hysterectomy?

[00:11:57]Uh, I mean I I can't imagine you would get more mobile after a surgery if you're already struggling with mobility because you're 600 lb, but I mean >> Well, I'm just thinking because according to Beck, she was wiping Amber from 2019 and the surgery was in 2020. So, she was wiping before the surgery according to Beck. Oh. And to me, that makes more sense than Amber's account because if she was already struggling to the point where 6 to 8 weeks is the amount of time that it says that it takes to recover from a hysterectomy. If she was already struggling before um her hysterectomy [clears throat] to the point where she was worried about it, I feel like Beck's account makes more sense where it's like, oh, you know, she started doing it, she had the surgery, she had to continue, and then it just carried on because if it was truly just about the surgery, I don't think that it would take that long to regain the muscles.

[00:12:56]>> Yeah, I know. Obviously after time, I was able to figure that out again, thankfully. I would say uh Beck wiped me for I would say a good 9 months. I also did very embarrassing things for Beck.

[00:13:09]Like, that's what you do when you're in a 5-year relationship. That is what you are going to do. Moral of the story is it's my fault because of my size because if it wasn't for my size, like that would have never have had to happen. But then this goes down to people asking like, did Feline do that? No, because like I said, Beck did it for the like cuz eventually I was able to do it again. That is the only thing they helped me with. Okay, so just real quick, I did look up how long it takes to recover from a hysterectomy and it said 6 to 8 weeks and I checked just to be covering my bases how much longer it takes if you are morbidly obese or have complications. And I found people pretty much saying that the 6 to 8 weeks was accurate. So, for 2 months she may have needed Beck's help. But you're telling me that after the 2 months were done that you didn't have the muscles to do that for a further 7 months.

[00:14:02]That doesn't really add up to me. Well, I mean, again, that weight if she's bedridden or, you know, recovering from surgery for 2 months and and God only knows what kind of bad habits she's going to pick up or even just normal healthy people recovering from surgery a lot of times kind of don't follow through on on physical therapy and recovery and all that. So, I can only imagine for someone of her personality type and her physical condition, it can't be better.

[00:14:30]It's got to be the worst possible case scenario. A study could have been done on this woman. said, Beck did it for the like cuz eventually I was able to do it again. That is the only thing they helped me with. 2019, they got me a um a bucket with some water twice to like help wash myself cuz that was during a hard time as well.

[00:14:52]Um but never ever once did I have them bathe me, shower me. And if it did, I would tell you because I just told you the most embarrassing thing. Okay, so the reason that she gives is that she recovered the skill before Faline came in, but Beck's account is that she stopped doing it and then of course Amber is not going to ask her new girl to do it. So, like that kind of feels really weird to me that she's like trying to take accountability where she's like, "It's my fault for being bigger, you know, I shouldn't have lost the skill to do that. But, of course, I didn't have Feline to do it. So, it's like, okay, so you could Yeah, she could have been doing it this whole If If when they broke up, she was managing.

[00:15:32]Granted, maybe not well, but uh I'm assuming she didn't get sepsis or something, so probably she found a way to manage. Right. Well, she said earlier she had her mother do it sometimes. So, now I'm wondering, okay, well, when she's between relationships, does she just have her mother, you know, So, her mom only came into the picture after she had the cancer diagnosis and surgery. Okay. Um so, that was not an option for before the surgery. But, after the surgery, if my recollection is correct, she only saw her mom once a week.

[00:16:06]And so, if she was relying on her mom for that, that would mean that she was not taking care of her personal hygiene for at least a week in between toileting. Uh Okay. So, this next clip is a leaked audio note from her current girlfriend, Tommy, the alleged feeder.

[00:16:26]Um I believe that this was sent to a reaction channel.

[00:16:30]Granted, I will say that this was not supposed to be leaked, so, you know, that's shitty that it's out there. But, now that it is out there, I feel like it's fair game.

[00:16:38]>> [clears throat] >> She's the most important thing in my life, and and also like that bothered Amberlynn, too.

[00:16:44]And I I could have totally gone below the belt, like I said. Like you said, I could have released the video.

[00:16:49]I could have embarrassed the [ __ ] out of her. And like, Snowflake was asking me about like questions about her hygiene, and I could have gone there. But, I'm like, I don't want to I'm not I'm like, I'm not going to go there. I'm not doing that. I'm not stooping to her level.

[00:17:01]And she didn't shower very often. Like, it got less and less and less.

[00:17:07]Um don't share that part, though. And like, she never washed her hands after going to the bathroom. Or she used the [ __ ] washcloths [ __ ] Ugh.

[00:17:16]Not washing your hands after that? Yeah.

[00:17:20]And also, she was living with Tommy for 3 months. So, when she said she showered less and less and less, that was over the course of 3 months. Mhm. And like I got pissed because like this is between us. Um and like I'm going to put this bottle of spray bleach next to the counter. And I want you to to clean up after yourself after you use it cuz I'm like germs, you know, that's that's that's gross.

[00:17:45]And she was like so upset and offended by it.

[00:17:48]I'm like what? Like that's just being respectful to like others in your household, you know what I mean?

[00:17:56]Imagine needing spray bleach um uh how much I don't even I don't I don't know what to say to that. That's that's heinous.

[00:18:08]>> Yeah, so the thing is is that like to me she's living in this other person's house, which she wasn't even supposed to be doing. She was supposed to visit for a couple of weeks, and she brought her pets and packed her entire apartment and just showed up at her door like, "Hey, I'm here."

[00:18:23]And then um she starts doing these things that like you would never do at somebody else's house, you know, like who's going to like rub their ass on someone's counter?

[00:18:34]And then Tommy was really cool with it apparently and was like, "Hey, listen, I get that that's what you have to do at your size." cuz she clearly has had partners of that size. Ugh.

[00:18:45]But to be like if you're going to do that, all I need you to do is just spray it with some bleach spray and wipe it afterwards. And Amber couldn't even be bothered to do that. Yeah, no, that's the >> [laughter] >> Like just aside from the ridiculousness, the entitlement.

[00:19:06]And how long [clears throat] were uh were uh Beck and Amber together? 5 years.

[00:19:12]>> 5 year Wait. I'm sorry. No, not Becky.

[00:19:15]Uh uh uh Tommy. This is Tommy speaking, right? Um this is Tommy speaking. At this time, I want to say I think that they got together that summer, but keep in mind Tommy's previous partner was 1,000 lbs. So >> 1,000 lbs?

[00:19:29]>> Yeah.

[00:19:32]Wow. All right.

[00:19:34]But um yeah, no. So at this time, I believe that they had been dating in the summer, and that this was the the same year. So just a couple of months because I recall Tommy saying that everything seemed good when they were long distance, but then they planned a visit, and when she visited, that everything kind of fell apart. It could have been longer than that, but that's my recollection as of right now.

[00:19:57]I guess we could look it up.

[00:20:00]>> [laughter] >> Okay, so according to Google, they had been together for 4 months. So my recollection was [laughter] correct. Um I forgot why you even asked. Oh yeah, cuz of the entitlement of her to show up after 4 months and be like rubbing her ass on the counter.

[00:20:15]>> That is insane. Okay, so how do you feel about learning that Amberlynn uses washcloths to wipe, that she uses her counter, that she doesn't wash her hands afterwards, that she's gone months to without showering? Does this change your opinion of her, or do you feel like you already kind of could have guessed most of this?

[00:20:34]Uh I didn't think it'd be possible for my opinion of her to get any lower cuz generally a morbidly obese, extremely narcissistic just a person just isn't really high on my list of uh you know, respectability, but I mean at least I would have ex- I would have hoped that she would put forward the kind of basic effort to maintain herself. Like if she can put on makeup for a stream, and I figured, okay, well, she's probably vain enough to to keep up appearances and and obey their self, right? But But I not months months on end Like the never mind this like How the Isn't there like infections and [ __ ] you can get at that point? Like I know pugs like dogs that have skin folds will get um infections and like abscesses and [ __ ] if they're not like meticulously bathed and groomed every week. Like I You leave months of just r- washcloths?

[00:21:40]The [ __ ] So, she actually gets UTIs extremely frequently.

[00:21:45]>> Oh, why do we know this? Because she says it on the internet.

[00:21:49]>> She just goes online and talks about her [ __ ] UTIs? Yeah, and it it worse than that she literally films in the hospital when they're getting her the diagnosis.

[00:21:57]Like she doesn't film the doctors, but she'll be in the hospital bed like, "Yeah, guys. I was really worried, but it's just a UTI, so Okay. Um [clears throat] and then also she does get infections very frequently, which she blames on things like uh stepping into puddles will give her infections in her legs, and it's definitely not the fact that she doesn't shower.

[00:22:20]It's because it was dirty water from the rain.

[00:22:23]Stepping in puddles gives her an Okay, all right. All right.

[00:22:27]And it increases her weight.

[00:22:31]The puddles or the infections? The puddles.

[00:22:34]The puddles increase her weight. Yeah, I'm pretty sure she said that she retained water weight from being >> That's [ __ ] rounding error. That's not even a rounding error.

[00:22:43]That That's a decimal point at that point. Holy She really cares about the decimal points. When she weighs in, she will only weigh in after she's gone to the bathroom for the morning and naked because she doesn't like the clothes adding weight.

[00:22:57]Ah. To what end? Like I mean if it says 650 or 655, I mean, you're kind of uh I mean, at that point, you might as well just start using tons instead of pounds for weight. I mean, it's not even just that. She will go to the decimal point.

[00:23:12]She has literally celebrated a.1 loss before. Maybe not that severe, but definitely a couple of points. Like.2 lbs loss, and she'll be like, "I know I could do better, but it's something."

[00:23:22]I'm glad she's not a weight loss channel anymore, cuz that would be uh Embarrassing.

[00:23:27]>> Imagine you tune in your favorite weight loss YouTuber, and they they they reveal "After all my hard work, I've lost.2 lbs."

[00:23:36]>> All right. Well, I think we have broken Mr. Delulu for the [laughter] night. So, I'm going to let him go, but thank you so much for doing this for the fans.

[00:23:45]They really wanted it. Um I hope you are ready for 2K to try the famous chili.

[00:23:51]You're kidding me, right?

[00:23:52]>> [laughter] >> No, no, no. I didn't agree to chili yet.

[00:23:55]You did. You said 2K. When was this?

[00:23:59]Do you really not remember, or are you just doing a bit?

[00:24:01]>> Okay, I'm going to take your word for it that I agreed to the chili, but all right. You Just All right. [laughter] I swear I didn't set that goal myself.

[00:24:09]He must have blocked it out like all the other information that I give him about Amber.

[00:24:13]>> Well, I think sometimes I agree to things. And And to be fair, you mentioned chili, and I I do remember you mentioning chili and something Yeah, subscribers and chili. And I I vaguely remember agreeing to it now, but I didn't put two and two together that it was another recipe.

[00:24:27]>> [laughter] >> So, I think um Well, I mean, in for a penny, in for a pound. Thanks for 1,000 subscribers, I guess.

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