Tyler Brodsky: Police Called on Dad for Taking Daughters to the Bathroom — What Scripture Says

[00:00:00]Y'all, a man took his two little daughters into a woman's restroom and somebody called the police on him. That video has over 30 million views right now. And then, and this is the part that needs to hear, there was an update. I'm going to share with you what happened when the police actually arrived because God's verdict, oh, and the police verdict, they line up perfectly. I'm Crystal and y'all already knew I had to say something. So, let's lock in. So, here's what happened. His name is Tyler Brotzky. He's an Oklahoma dad. He's on a road trip driving back home to Oklahoma from Florida with his two young daughters. I have all the notes here because I don't want to miss a bit of it cuz this is good. They stop at a QuickTrip just like any family would on a road a road trip at the QuickTrip gas station in Alabama. His girls needed to use the bathroom. He looks at his two options. He can go into men's bathroom with the grown men and their urinals and stalls or an empty woman's bathroom.

[00:00:50]Empty woman's bathroom.

[00:00:52]So, he makes the call any father with common sense would make. He takes his daughters into the woman's bathroom. And y'all, here's where it goes sideways.

[00:01:00]Okay? Because then there's another customer. And I want you to catch this, a male customer.

[00:01:05]And apparently his wife and his mother-in-law may have went to try and go to the bathroom, maybe maybe not, but they see that he's in there and so they send him to investigate. [clears throat] And this man, who is now also in the woman's bathroom, decides to call the police. So, let me get this straight. We have a man in a woman's bathroom calling the police on a father also in the woman's bathroom protecting his children. Did I get that right?

[00:01:32]Let me go ahead and roll the clip for y'all.

[00:01:34]>> There is a man with his two little girls using the women's bathroom.

[00:01:37]What's his name, baby?

[00:01:39]He is he's washing his hands with his daughters right now. He's leaving.

[00:01:44]It's all right, baby.

[00:01:51]She is waiting to use the restroom with her mother who is very ill. Wash your hands. And there's no positive it's okay. Some men are just immature.

[00:02:00]>> He's being disrespectful. He's taking this week off.

[00:02:03]>> I have two girls washing their hands.

[00:02:05]>> She is with this lady This woman is a She's a woman. She can bring her daughters in here. She's a manager at the QT.

[00:02:11]>> I'm going to get her out of here. I understand. If you don't have any business, you don't have any business in this bathroom.

[00:02:15]>> They're They're girls. They go to the women's bathroom.

[00:02:18]>> If you seriously let your daughters in the women's bathroom, I will I'll stand in the doorway.

[00:02:22]I think it's a waste of time.

[00:02:25]I CAN'T TAKE it anymore.

[00:02:27]This is ridiculous, man.

[00:02:30]I CAN'T TAKE IT.

[00:02:32]>> THAT'S OKAY.

[00:02:33]SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST IMMATURE.

[00:02:39]Can you get her out of here?

[00:02:43]>> I'm going to call the police.

[00:02:45]>> He's got her hands.

[00:02:47]>> All right, come on.

[00:02:48]>> It's okay. You can walk to the women's room.

[00:02:51]>> I'm going to have to talk to the police again.

[00:03:04]You can video me, okay?

[00:03:05]>> And you got to get your hands off of me.

[00:03:07]>> Yeah, well.

[00:03:07]>> Stop videoing me.

[00:03:08]>> Hey, he just put his hands on me.

[00:03:09]>> I touched you. I brushed you on the shirt.

[00:03:11]>> I still touched you.

[00:03:11]>> Yeah, that's what he did. He put his hands on me. That's ridiculous.

[00:03:13]>> I got it on video.

[00:03:14]>> He's a white man. He's about 5'10.

[00:03:18]>> I'm going to get here soon.

[00:03:21]>> I know. She's trying to get in the women's bathroom, but she can't.

[00:03:27]>> He's out there.

[00:03:28]>> He's standing here videoing me.

[00:03:29]>> He's making a video about me touching my little girls.

[00:03:32]in the women's restroom.

[00:03:34]He wants me to take them to the men's restroom.

[00:03:36]>> I I understand it here.

[00:03:37]>> He said we're allowed to see them in there.

[00:03:41]Are they Are they coming down here? Do they need to stay down here?

[00:03:43]>> They're all the way back there.

[00:03:44]>> Do I need to speak to them?

[00:03:45]>> No, you can come and talk to them right here.

[00:03:47]>> Cuz I got I got a I'm on my I'm on a road trip trying to get home.

[00:03:51]>> We're on a road trip, too, and I can't get a shower.

[00:03:53]>> These These These >> Karens be getting on my nerves. I'm just saying. What do we call them? Karens? I don't know what we call them. They get on my nerves. Did y'all see them that those little girls crying? Did you see the little babies crying? Those little girls were crying because a grown man came barging in, yelling, scaring them, and then the audacity to tell their father that he had no business being there. No business? Sir, you have no business being there. Before I get to the rest of this, y'all y'all saw me taking notes cuz I had to take notes.

[00:04:18]You see, this the Karen ass behavior, he had to say, "Um my mother-in-law and yeah, my wife and my mother-in-law, they're trying to get in and my mother-in-law is is very sick and she's on an oxygen tank." So he's trying to exaggerate the situation to make it seem like this man is purposely trying to harm his family. That's what that man was doing. Then he he tells them to hand He tells the father to hand off his his his daughters to somebody he doesn't know. Is this what we do? We just Would that mother-in-law that he has, when his when her daughter was young, just hand her daughter off to somebody? Probably not.

[00:04:48]So why would you tell him to do that? He doesn't know them. The lady at the the manager of the QuickTrip was very nice, but at the end of day, I don't know you.

[00:04:55]You're not touching my children.

[00:04:56]I am responsible for my children. What is wrong with you?

[00:04:59]Um number three. Then he goes outside.

[00:05:03]The father goes outside and then because the man is recording, then he was put his hands on the man? Uh sir, do not touch. You see? Right there.

[00:05:12]And then lastly, did y'all notice?

[00:05:14]He was on the phone saying how badly the mom and the the the his wife had his mother-in-law and the wife had to use the bathroom. Why weren't they in the bathroom? If they had to go so bad, why weren't they in the bathroom as soon as they got out? As soon as the father because they stood there. They stood there the entire time. Okay? Even as the father walked to the front door and the man said, "No, the cops are coming." And he comes back and he says, "How long will they before they get here? Because I'm on a road trip." They were still there sitting down there. Well, where are the road trip to? We just couldn't get in the bathroom. The bathroom's open. Why you can't get in THE BATHROOM?

[00:05:42]WHAT IS WRONG with you? Now I want you to notice what happened. Like I said, the QuickTrip employee, the she stepped up. I appreciate her. I think he said her name was Melissa. Shout out to Melissa. She shut the door on the man.

[00:05:52]Apologized to Tyler and his girls saying, "I'm very sorry." The woman had more sense in that moment than that man with a phone to his ear. Tyler captioned this video in the original video, "Y'all make this man famous." And y'all did because the internet never fails.

[00:06:05]13 million views and counting. Now, before I even get into God's word, I need to address the debate because internet cult is arguing. It is on fire and I want to be fair to all sides before I tell you what scripture says and who scripture sides with. So, camp one says, "Tyler was completely right.

[00:06:20]He is a dad. His job is to protect his daughters. The bathroom was empty. He assessed the situation made the safest call. End of discussion. Shout out to camp one." All right. So, camp two says, "Women deserve safe spaces that are free from men. Period."

[00:06:36]Camp two, you're struggling in that regardless of the reason a man in the women's bathroom is a violation. Yet, y'all are sitting here voting and fighting to let men in women's bathrooms. I'm just saying. But, we're going to kind of keep going. And then there is camp three.

[00:06:48]Camp three, woo. That one That one makes me uncomfortable. That's the one that makes me the most uncomfortable and the most concerned.

[00:06:55]And it's not that they said something wrong. It's what they said. Camp three says, "We have so completely destroyed the image of a trustworthy, present, protective father in this culture that we no longer recognize what one looks like when we see him." Oh.

[00:07:10]Y'all, that one hit because I'm like, that is so true.

[00:07:14]That is a conversation I want to have right now because camp one and camp two, they're just talking about the bathroom.

[00:07:17]That's all they're talking about.

[00:07:18]They're arguing about the bathroom. But, camp three is talking about something that cannot be fixed with a policy sign on the door. And that is where scripture comes in. So, let's get to it.

[00:07:27]Y'all, when I heard this story today, the first verse that came to my spirit was 1 Timothy chapter 5 verse 8. And I need you to hear this. Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an infidel or an unbeliever. Let me give you all this in plain language. God says a man who does not protect his family is worse than someone who is who doesn't believe in him. Worse than the lost.

[00:07:55]Worse than an infidel. That is not my opinion. That is not a cultural take.

[00:08:00]That is the word of God. I want y'all to recognize that. All those people out there that's not taking care of their homes, you hear what the Lord says. So when Tyler walked his daughters into the safest available option, he was not violating a space camp too.

[00:08:13]He was fulfilling a mandate. A God-given mandate that this culture has spent the last over 20 years trying to shame out of men. I want to hold the tension because I'm always going to be fair.

[00:08:25]The initial discomfort from the women in that situation not crazy. I'm not here to drag anyone.

[00:08:31]We live in a world currently where real predators have used access to women's spaces for harm. A woman's protective instinct when she sees an unprotected man it's not irrational, y'all.

[00:08:43]But and there is a but. First Corinthians chapter 2 verse 15 says that the person with the spirit makes judgments about all things.

[00:08:52]That means we are called as believers to look at the full picture, not react out of fear or emotions. Not punish the innocent because of what the guilty might do. Because that's what the situation is about. This man had two little girls. He was washing their hands. He was doing what fathers are supposed to do. The problem is not that he was in the bathroom, people. The problem is that we have built a culture so fractured, so absent of present God-fearing, protective men that we don't recognize when one shows up. We have been so conditioned by this toxic feminist movement and by broken men that we started treating all men like threats. Y'all, that That wisdom. That is a harvest. That is a harvest of fatherlessness. And people have been fighting to kick the fathers out the home for a very long time. You reap what you sow. Proverbs 22 and verse 6 says, "Train up a child in the way they should go." Y'all, that training requires presence. I hope you understand. It requires a father who shows up even in the women's bathroom at a QuickTrip in Alabama when that is what it takes.

[00:09:59]Y'all, I remember my daddy would have done the same thing for me and my sister if we were out somewhere. And we were out a lot of places because we were always on the tennis courts. Knowledge is twisted. Now, I need to give y'all an update because Tyler posted a follow-up video once he got back to Oklahoma. And what happened next is exactly what I need what I wanted y'all to hear. I'm going to link in the description that video where he discusses it, but I want to share what he has said. Three police officers, three, responded to that QuickTrip. Here's what Tyler said, and I'm going to quote him directly. Here we go. "The officers let me know I was okay.

[00:10:28]I didn't do anything wrong. Thank you, officers."

[00:10:31]The police, the same ones that the man called to get Tyler in trouble, looked at the situation and then sent the problem child, the one who made the phone call, away. This is what he said he told them. "Taking two little girls into men's restroom could be viewed as negatively as me going to the women's restroom with my girls." Y'all, the officers agreed because that's common sense.

[00:10:51]Like, why would you want to take your little girls in there with your nose? A man could walk in and be whipping it out or whatever that men do in there. And those little girls would have had to seen that?

[00:11:01]Common sense. I'm glad the officers agreed. And then the officers ultimately asked the man to leave the store, Mr. problem maker. But here's the part that got me, and I love this part. Here's the part Tyler said he will remember the most. "The officers came, talked to my girls, made sure they felt safe, they put a good image of police officers for my girls growing up. The QuickTrip employees gave my girls free Icees, and they just made them feel loved and safe." His daughters are, in his own words, are safe, happy, and doing absolutely great. Y'all, that touched me. That touched me a whole lot because that is what was always supposed to happen. That was what it was supposed to look like. A father protects his girls, good offices confirm what's right, a worker shows kindness to crying children.

[00:11:44]The they shouldn't even have to be in that situation, but I'm glad, even though they were in that situation, it turned out positive. And Tyler, this man who just got screamed at in a gas station bathroom with his babies crying, Tyler said this. And this this this I I want y'all to really embrace what I'm about to say that he said. "I don't support anyone harassing anyone involved. I'm simply sharing what happened to my family. I hope the man who did this will come across this video and realize what he did was wrong." He also wants to let other parents out there that are in these situations to know that he understands what they feel like. And if anyone else comes across this video, they won't make that same mistake like what that man did.

[00:12:21]Do you understand that is a man of character?

[00:12:23]That right there, right there, that is a man of character. He was not vindictive, not running back to make it worse, just standing on what was right.

[00:12:32]All I can feel is Romans chapter 12 verse 17, which says, "Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone."

[00:12:40]Oh, that's exactly what Tyler did. Tyler just accidentally preached a sermon in a TikTok caption, y'all. So, here's God's verdict cuz you know it's coming and I want you to hear every word. Tyler did exactly what God designed a father to do. I know y'all don't know what a father looks like, but that's what it looks like. He assessed, he protected, he did not flinch, he did not leave his daughters to navigate a public restroom alone. He did not hand off his children to a random stranger. He did not put his comfort above their safety. That is a man walking in his God-given assignment.

[00:13:09]The man who called the police, now, he didn't see a father, y'all. He saw a threat. And that tells me everything about what this toxic culture has done to the image of a protective man. We told men, "Don't be too involved in public. People will think something is wrong." We told men, "Don't be too affectionate with your kids. Someone might film you. We told men, don't protect your daughters in a bathroom.

[00:13:31]Someone will call the cops. And then we have the audacity to wonder why men are walking away from fatherhood?

[00:13:38]You keep trying to emasculate men and you want to know why they don't want to be fathers? You keep pushing them out the house and you don't you don't understand why they they they they don't want to be fathers? You cannot shame men out of fatherhood and then be surprised when they disappear. Just in case you don't know, all of you toxic feminists that are out there. The real scandal of the story is not a man in a woman's bathroom. The real scandal of the story is that we have built a culture where present, protective, engaged, loving father is now considered suspicious. And believe all of this is happening right before Father's Day weekend. Crazy, right?

[00:14:06]God designed the father as a covering, a protector, a provider.

[00:14:13]And when the culture tries to criminalize that, when they literally call the police on a dad doing the job God gave him, y'all that is a direct assault on the family. And God's word does not change to accommodate the culture's confusion.

[00:14:26]The culture's confusion is not God's doing.

[00:14:29]It's your little G O D's uh doing.

[00:14:33]The synagogue of Satan doing. That's whose fault it is, okay? Cuz the God that I serve, oh, he is a God of order.

[00:14:41]I'm crystal y'all. I just gave you God's verdict. Okay, y'all. Before I let you go, I need a few things from you right now.

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