🔥The Narcissist THOUGHT LEAVING YOU Would TEACH YOU A LESSON! Instead YOU TAUGHT THEM ONE!🤯

追加: 2026-05-20

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[00:02:08]Okay, let's talk about it. I want to talk about the fact that the narcissist thought leaving you was going to teach you a lesson. Instead, they learned.

[00:02:19]Ain't y'all Look, ain't that good, y'all? We about to get into it. Ah, yes, we are. Birds. Okay. Think you gonna teach me a lesson? Who? Who?

[00:02:34]Where? Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:02:37]Yeah. cuz some of y'all weren't even uh even healed completely, but you decided, listen, I may not be healed completely from this relationship or whatever it is that I'm going through right here, but what I do know is that in this healing space, I won't be healing with you around. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz you can't heal where you got you. You can't heal in the space that broke you. Okay. Can't do that. You got to be able to get away from that situation and be able to do something different. Get in a different environment so you can understand who you are and what you sustained.

[00:03:15]Y'all hear me in that addiction? Because I don't even want to call it a relationship really. I mean, is it even?

[00:03:24]No, not really. You know, you dealing with somebody that is absolutely insane.

[00:03:28]you know that that has a mental health disorder and we did not know that. And I'm going to tell you something, the more you learn about this type of abuse and understanding the spiritual side of it is is more assurance and you going to do the work on yourself and healing and getting to that place of wholeness. That is going to be your safeguard against these clowns because you will have ironclad boundaries. Mhm.

[00:04:01]That these backwards walking giraffes they can't back up over. Okay. That boundary I mean not walls but fences but the fences is so high that giraffe ain't getting back through there.

[00:04:14]So y'all I'mma tell you something. When you learn and you understand and get this knowledge and you begin to really take it in and to uh understand what this thing is all about, it changes you.

[00:04:28]It changes your mental perspective on what you actually endured in that situation. Now, does it is it a miracle and cause you to just be healed all of a sudden? No, not all the time. Sometimes people do take it as, you know what, this is my ticket out. I didn't know what I was going through, but now that I do, yeah, this is my ticket out and I won't be returning because what I do understand is that this right here is not love. Period. It's not love, y'all.

[00:05:00]Ain't nothing about it is love. And so, when you really look at the whole situation in totality, what the narcissist really wanted you wanted from you wasn't love.

[00:05:12]They actually wanted loyalty.

[00:05:15]Yeah, they did. That's what they wanted.

[00:05:18]These clowns wanted loyalty. Loyalty for what? For them to be able to treat you any any which way kind of way. How I mean up and down all around how they wanted to. And guess what? You were going to take it. You were going to sit there in that mess and just say, "You know what? I guess this is just what I'm going to go through. This is just my my plight in life. This is just what y'all let me tell you something. I want y'all to hear me and hear me well.

[00:05:46]Hear me and hear me well. Okay, that narcissist whenever you see they don't understand that when you get tired, you going to change.

[00:05:58]The narcissist, let me tell you something. These birds don't ever get tired. They don't ever get tired. They do what they do because that's who they are. When you're being controlled by an entity and that entity is a dark one, that thing don't never let you get any rest. That's why a narcissist is always up, always in mischief, always doing something. But see, where they messed up was when they thought that they were going to leave you and that was going to teach you a lesson. Baby, let me tell you something.

[00:06:30]You sat there and got to thinking about all of the things that that narcissist had done to you. You started looking at your bank account. your bank account looking different. Okay? Because ever since that that clown came into your life, you spending money left, right, and center. Okay? You you couldn't get ahead for nothing. Okay? You felt so drained dealing with the narcissist. Every time you turn around, it's something. Okay?

[00:06:58]And I'm going to tell you something.

[00:06:59]It's not just with the narcissist, but their family, too. Because it's a clan of crows. These ones always got some drama going on somewhere. Always got something happening in the backdrop and you just like what is going on? Your mind is so clouded and convoluted with trash and everything because that's what the narcissist wants. They want you to stay confused and you know in that space of being just I mean everything is just so convoluted around you. But I'm going to tell you something. You realized that the narcissist started crap just to keep that control chaos going on in your life at all times so you could never wake up and realize what you were actually dealing with. Y'all listen here.

[00:07:48]Let me tell you something. When I got tired of that bird, I'm going tell y'all just like y'all you you sit you get back you sit there and you become you reflect. You become reflective on everything. And some of y'all was still with the narcissist when this happened.

[00:08:02]Okay? It wasn't during that that space of the discard. You you did that. You kept you started to reflect when you were actually still there. And so you just thinking all of the things that I have done for this clown, everything that I mean even right down to the children. Some of sometimes the children weren't even yours. Okay. You doing more for his kids or her kids than they doing for the for the children themselves.

[00:08:29]Okay? Cuz the narcissist don't care about their children. You know, they don't love them. They use the children for supply as well. You know, when the children are doing well and all is well with the with the children, then you know, it's just, oh, they get bragging rights, okay? They get bragging rights and and so they don't love them.

[00:08:48]And then you you are stepping in as a status piece to them a lot of times because guess what? You help them upgrade their game just by how you who you are, what you do, how what you bring to the situation, the light that you bring to the situation. And people around the narcissist is looking like, "How you laying this?" Some of y'all going to testify in the comment section.

[00:09:10]Yeah. Some of them even said it to your face. How in the world did he get you?

[00:09:16]Or how did she get you? You know why they were asking that question? Because they understand what you're dealing with. You just didn't know. You didn't know. I didn't know either. Okay. I didn't know. Didn't know what I was dealing with. But the people already know who these clowns are. And that's why they would ask those questions like, "What is going on here?" But I'm going to tell y'all something. Listen and listen. Well, when you got tired and you sat back and reflected on all of that and that narcissist got there to that that uh devaluation and that discard.

[00:09:52]Mhm. Yeah, they did. They got right there to that space and then they thought that oh because you had now and now that you have reflected on, you know, you've been reflective over all of the things just just sitting there just thinking about it. Okay. They thought that once that discard happened that I'mma this what they they were thinking.

[00:10:15]I'mma go ahead because now you challenging me. You're telling me that I can't do this or you you're you're giving me nose. This is the narcissist talking.

[00:10:25]Yeah. I got to press the reset button and go ahead and hit hit that uh discard. Baby, when they hit that discard, they wish they hadn't. Don't they? Don't they wish they had not done that?

[00:10:40]Oh y'all, they wish they hadn't have done it. You know why? Because when they hit that discard button and thought that they were going to treat teach you a lesson.

[00:10:50]Oh, they they you know what actually they got schooled. You took them to school. They messed around, hit that discard and then went on over there to that new supply. You sitting there thinking about all you still reflecting over all of the stuff that happened.

[00:11:08]That narcissist got over there with them. About two, three months later, that narcissist is coming back or trying to come back. You know, they out there hoovering. You know, they they showing up. They trying to get you. They trying to get you to uh they showing up showing up at the front desk at your job or wherever they going. You know what I'm saying? Trying to find you. And honey, when I tell you it was zero response, zero response. See, when a narcissist wants to pull you back in, they're going to try to devastate you, okay? when they send you away hoping that whenever they come back because of the level of devastation that they had, you know, that state that they had uh they thought they put you in by leaving. They think that, okay, that's going to hold them until I get back. Baby, you showed that bird a thing or two. It now No, no, no, no. It didn't teach you a lesson. Your the abuse taught you a lesson. Okay. Not that discard. That discard was your opportunity to take the narcissist to school. Baby, let me tell you something. You got you after you got done thinking about all of that stuff, you went on ahead and said, "You know what? I'm going to go ahead and sign up for therapy cuz I need some. I'm going to give me a life coach because I need to understand what this bird has just done to me. And I need to understand, okay, how am I able to or how can I fix this thing spiritually?" Because I already know that I'm going to need some help right there, too. Because guess what? You understand that what that narcissist was issu issuing out and dulling out to you on a daily was definitely demonic. And you need some help to get that oppression up off of you. Baby, you signed up. Got you some deliverance. Oh, you signed up and made sure that your wholeness was going to be the thing that you ascertained out of this whole situation, your healing and your wholeness. Mhm. So then that narcissist came back again cuz you didn't answer the first the uh first Hoover. You know, they came back again.

[00:13:15]They said, "You know what? I I'm going to put a little I'mma put a little sugar on top of this. I'm going to send some flowers. I'm going to uh I'm going to send a cash app or two. I might say they might have sent a Venmo or PayPal. Uh maybe they sent a zel to you." Mhm.

[00:13:31]Yeah. You said, "Okay. All right. You want to send flowers?" I Okay. I I can't do nothing about the flowers. I just throw them in the trash can or if you want to keep them, you keep them. May, you know, beautify your table or whatever, but you still ain't answering.

[00:13:44]You still not do I mean, you literally shut the door. You slammed it right there. And that narcissist, that narcissist is now being schooled on the new you. Mhm. They learning something right now. I'm going tell you something. They are learning. And don't you stop teaching that lesson. And the way you teach it the best is to stay away from these clowns. And that's what you are doing. I'm going tell you something. You talk about a master instructor, that's you.

[00:14:18]Yeah. Your healing and your wholeness will cause you to be a master instructor to manipulators and narcissists just like the one that you got rid of. Baby, let me tell you something. That wasn't a treasure. It was trash.

[00:14:32]Yeah, it was. It was trash. And the narcissist knows that. They know what time it is. So now that they that Now they got schooled on the new you. Guess what? That who who is the biggest loser?

[00:14:44]Oh yeah. They the biggest loser. Yeah.

[00:14:47]All you got to do is sit back. Just sit back and start to think about what that clown did. Mhm. Yeah. When you do that, you already know what time it is. You are going to you are going to absolutely when I tell you you're going to absolutely get yourself together because you know without a shadow of a doubt that that right there is not love.

[00:15:10]Because see when you begin to love yourself, you going to put some boundaries up and you're not going to allow people to just walk over your boundaries and to just tell you anything like it's cool. Yeah, that's what a narcissist does. They don't care nothing about what you think. They don't care nothing about uh uh well, excuse me, is this affecting you in a in a way that is going to be detrimental to you. They don't care nothing about that. All they want is for you to be uh sub uh completely submissive to them and all they want is to control you 100%.

[00:15:48]See, you got to let them know and you did. As TI said, you gotta let them know that's my boy, y'all. Love me some TI.

[00:15:59]Okay, so yeah, there it is right there.

[00:16:03]Yeah, that narcissist thought that you were going they were going to teach you a lesson, baby. Instead, you took them to school. Good for you. Kudos.

[00:16:15]Let me clap for you cuz I'm I'm proud of you. If that's what you did, I'm proud of you. Go ahead.

[00:16:21]Don't never stop teaching these clowns a lesson. All right, so family, listen. I love y'all. Y'all be real good to yourselves, okay? And I'll see you on the next video, fam. And I will see you all healed and whole at the top. Shalom, family. base.