The Pick Me Trend Has Gone Too Far

[00:00:00]I'm [clears throat] just a girl.

[00:00:01]>> I'm not white. I'm spicy white.

[00:00:02]>> Like I know nothing.

[00:00:03]>> I'm so small.

[00:00:05]>> I don't wear much makeup. I like things that guys like.

[00:00:08]>> Need strong alpha males like Donald J.

[00:00:10]Trump. I'm just a girl.

[00:00:11]>> Can't park. Can't drive. Can't do >> I'm very very small and very stupid. I'm like a little kid.

[00:00:21]>> Pick me.

[00:00:22]>> Who's picking you girl? If that's how you act. A. You want to be picked by a interesting. Today we're talking about different types of Pikmis, infantilization, all of that. But I do want to start with this story going viral right now. It's about the voice memo guy. Voice memo guy is innocent and the women complaining about him are pickmies. Hear me out. This guy left this girl a voice memo after their first date. First, let's listen to the voice memo.

[00:00:44]>> Had a good time tonight. Definitely think you are lovely. Um, however, I would love to if we're going to go to your place on Thursday. I mean, I am looking to have that um physical intimacy um to see if like I am compatible with you. Um so, like if I'm going to come over like I would be hoping to like hook up, have have a good time, have like that romantic spark and that physical spark there um for my own sake. Um because it's hard for me to continue dating if dating someone and seeing them if I don't know if I'm compatible. So, I know you said I don't know about that. So, like I guess my thing is is like what would be the point of me coming over then if we're not going to like hook up and like cuddle and like be intimate with each other.

[00:01:33]Um, and if that's what you don't want, that's fine, but like I think we should just like end it here then, respectfully.

[00:01:39]>> Okay. The way that people were talking about this, it made me assume it was much worse.

[00:01:44]>> Although it is a strange way to ask for consent. I mean, at least he asked. He didn't wait until they were in person and pressure her. He said, "These are my intentions. If these are not your intentions, we probably shouldn't do this." Now, the bird brain pickme is calling this an ultimatum. Which reminds me that you all don't understand what multi-yllable words mean. It's actually a choice. See, an ultimatum requires some type of negative consequence. What is the negative consequence here? She doesn't get picked by this man. You can't go on a second date with a guy.

[00:02:09]But my question is, why would you want that if you're not compatible? If you're not about hookup culture, if you actually want to get to know the person first, I think that's a wise decision, then you don't want to be picked by such a person. So, there's really no loss here, right? Like, you just figure that's what dating is about, guys. You talk to each other, you learn what you want. If you're not compatible, you go your separate ways. Obviously, this woman who said no, who decided to, you know, post this voice memo, she did not like that. She could have just heard that and been like, "Wow, no, we're not compatible. Bye." They don't go on a second date. Oh no. Are you serious?

[00:02:44]Y'all be so afraid to let a man go. Let him go, sis. If you are dating someone and they clearly state that they want intimacy on a timeline that does not work for you, leave that man. Y'all two do not need to be together. You're not on the same timeline. You're not compatible. It's that simple. Some of the girls are so afraid to be alone that they end up saying yes to things that they should have said no to. Pushing their boundaries in a way that makes them uncomfortable. And then afterwards when it still doesn't work out because y'all were never compatible to begin with, you want to blame the men. You don't have to be picked by this one. You can go be picked by another one. There are other fish in the sea. I promise.

[00:03:18]Yeah, I feel like if you are confident in your own standards, you wouldn't be upset by this. Like, yeah, it's definitely strange. It's a weird way of going about this, but you wouldn't want to continue seeing someone after they have been honest about their intentions and it doesn't align with what you want.

[00:03:32]So, he's saying, you know, I'm looking for a relationship where physical intimacy happens very early on. If that's not something you want, then I don't think we're compatible and I think we should go our separate ways. I don't see the big deal here. Honestly, he's not saying you need to sleep with me.

[00:03:45]He's saying if we're looking for different things, we shouldn't continue seeing each other. Like, if I was on a date with a woman, I get a voice memo from her. She's like, "Hey, so I'm just looking at my schedule. Should I put you in for a hookup on our second date?

[00:03:58]Because if not, I don't want to see you anymore. So, I'm just like planning that in advance." that's not my style. That's actually really strange. I wouldn't be on board with that. So, I'd be like, "Okay, we're not compatible. Good luck."

[00:04:11]And I would end it there. I wouldn't post it on the internet and have a temper tantrum because there are plenty of women and men obviously be physically intimate very early on. However, most women do look to form some kind of emotional connection. Obviously, these two were not compatible, and I think a lot of women would not really be on board with this. But what's better?

[00:04:30]Having someone pretend to be like you, say what they think you want to hear, lie about their intentions, or just be blunt, yes, but upfront about it. I think that's actually better. What it comes down to is that nobody's entitled to, but nobody is entitled to continue dating either. Because he said, well, what would be the point of me coming over if we're not going to hook up? I actually do think that that's the weakest part of what he said because yes, it does come off as very blunt. And I do understand why someone would find that off-putting because it's almost like he's saying her company is invaluable without a much better way to phrase it, I think, would be like, "Hey, I think we're moving at different speeds." Something like that would communicate the exact same point without kind of sounding dismissive, I guess.

[00:05:12]But it's different than, let's say, he said, "Come on, if you liked me, you would." Then, yeah, something like that would be coercive, trying to guilt her into doing it. But that's not what I hear at all from this voicemail.

[00:05:22]>> First date, that's fine. like you want to get to know each other. I'm all about that. But like I am looking to have that physical aspect there and I don't want to continue seeing someone if I don't know if that's good. If if that's not there or not. You're not trying to hook up then like I think we should just uh go our separate ways.

[00:05:40]>> He just says, "Okay, this is what I want." I don't see how it's better to waste weeks of someone's time.

[00:05:46]>> Hey, fun fact, you can't pre-order consent. I saw that voicemail of a guy asking for consent in advance to hook up and test the chemistry between him and a girl that he met once to fulfill on the second date. He's not saying, "Hey, do you consent?" Let's say she comes over and he in his mind thinks, "Okay, so now I can do literally whatever I want because she consented." I seriously doubt that was the intention. He literally said, "This is what I'm expecting on the second date. This is what I want. Is this what you want? If not, we're looking for different things.

[00:06:16]So respectfully, we should go our separate ways. You guys are jumping to Oh my god, he's basically graing her.

[00:06:22]Consent is now implied for the rest of, you know, whatever they would have done.

[00:06:26]No. Why are you making [ __ ] up? I'm guessing that this outrage is probably coming from women who have been hurt in the past. So, they're having like, you know, alarm bells go off because of some trauma perhaps. I'm just not seeing why logically you would make this kind of jump. He's just communicating his preferences, which are strange preferences in my opinion. But he is allowed to have this preference. And it's much better to communicate this, be upfront about it early on rather than lie and try to deceive her. Like, what do you want? If this is the kind of guy he is, what would you rather him do? Oh, no. Take your time whenever, but then he's like subtly pushing you to do it the entire time. That would be worse.

[00:07:02]>> I think the threat that you're feeling, in order for you to now have a second date with this man, you have to do what he's asking you to do. But you don't.

[00:07:10]But you don't. The only reason why you feel like you have to is because you still want to be chosen by that man.

[00:07:18]This is what I'm looking for. This is what my timeline is. And if you don't want that, it's totally fine. You're super cute. Had a good time. But if not, I don't really want to move forward. I don't want to kick it. He's allowed to be like that. You don't have to like him. He doesn't have to be the man for you. He wasn't in your physical presence. He gave you the option from a distance to the side. The threat that I feel genuinely that y'all are feeling is the threat that now I won't be chosen if I don't do what he's asking.

[00:07:46]>> Exactly. And what's the problem if you will not be picked by this man? The man is not compatible with you. It puts pressure on the other person. You could say that with every deal breaker. It creates pressure because you can say, "Well, I don't want kids. I don't want to date a smoker. I want marriage. I don't do long distance. I want exclusivity before." Those are all conditions that force the other person to make a decision. Yeah. So, it does put pressure on someone. That doesn't make them coercive, though. You are just incompatible. What would you rather have him do to better communicate that hooking up was his goal?

[00:08:17]>> She was so butthard by it that she had to show it to the internet and expect everyone to side with her. I think if we all were more queer and understood what demiexuality was, we wouldn't be so mad about boys memo man, right? I'm sorry.

[00:08:28]What if we were all more queer? What the does being queer have anything to do with this? Because at the root of why so many people are mad about boys man is patriarchy, right? Patriarchy leads to a lot of different systems that negatively impact people and their thought patterns, purity culture and queer phobia. I want to talk about the que phobia because a lot of people don't know what demiexuality is. And what demisexuality is is only being sexually attracted to people that you have a deep emotional connection with. Right? So like a majority of women, we don't need a separate word for that. Enough.

[00:08:59]>> I'm demisexual.

[00:09:00]>> Okay. You're a normal woman. I see.

[00:09:02]There's a reason why all of the women in Aphab people coming out to defend voice note guy have a certain look. I'm sorry, what? Degenerate men target neurospicy queer and alt women fe because they have low social power. A fabs. Girl, when you're so woke your brain literally falls out of your skull. What are you talking about? It's actually because this behavior has been normalized in their dating experiences with men.

[00:09:27]Because unfortunately, men who want to treat women the way that voice note man treated that woman will target this specific type of woman or this specific type of aphab person. Oh my god. Like communicating your preferences. This is a good thing. No, his preferences did not align with what she wanted. That's the problem. It's not that he let her know beforehand. We have to be more queer. It's targeting the neurospicy queer alt women and fems. Buzzword buzzword. Buzzword making [ __ ] up. Oh, 4B forever. Okay, I see. Guys, just say you're upset you weren't picked. You shouldn't be upset when you're not picked by someone who you couldn't build a future with anyway. The whole point is to find someone you can get along with.

[00:10:05]That would make your life better, not make you miserable, which is what you would be if you're forcing yourself to do something you're uncomfortable with just to be picked. Are you okay? And the claim that it's somehow anti-gay, anti-quer, whether the person leaving the voicemail is a man dating a woman, a woman dating a woman, two men dating, the principle is exactly the same.

[00:10:26]Adults are allowed to have expectations around physical intimacy, and they're allowed to end things when those expectations do not align. Also, whether they have micro bangs or big glasses or look autistic, according to this person, none of that changes the argument. He is still allowed to be honest about what he's looking for. her and she's still allowed to say no. The reality, by the way, is that many men are looking for physical intimacy early on and simply do not admit it because that gives them a better chance of getting into bed with the woman. Would you prefer that or would you prefer that he is honest about what he's looking for? He's allowed to have standards just like you're allowed to have standards and both of you can walk away if those standards are not met. Next, pick me girl. I like men the way gay men like men. And I wrote a Substack essay talking more about this because my desire for men isn't always romantic. It's not always tender and soft and emotional or about how he makes me feel inside. Sometimes it's feral and primal and visceral.

[00:11:23]>> She's assuming that straight women only like men in a soft, pure romantic way, but gay men, they're feral. They're degenerate freaks. Sometimes it's feral.

[00:11:35]>> I watched Yahwi once, so I'm not like the other straight girls. I want men physically. Oh my god. Sometimes.

[00:11:42]Sometimes. This is coming off very strange. Girl, someone commented the heated rivalry effect. Wrote a substack as like gay man can't love tenderly.

[00:11:51]Yeah. What are you talking about? Has she been around a gay guy? Like obviously there are different kinds of gay men. If you're just going to circuit parties all the time, you're never in a serious relationship. Yeah, those men exist as well. There are also some straight men like that. And there are women who just want to hook up and there are women that are very committed. I mean, yeah, what are we doing?

[00:12:08]>> This is ridiculous and it's pure homophobia and you're scapegoating us and basically saying gays are deviants and it's okay for women to also engage in some deviant behavior, but because we are women, right? Cuz she said, "Not always." She said, "I don't always want a man in the way that gays women, but gays always want men in a lustful, carnal, unserious, purely physical."

[00:12:31]honestly extractive way. I love my partner the way that black people love their partners. Very carnal and beastial and anim animalistic, univilized. I've decided to write a Substack article about it called Nick Love.

[00:12:48]>> Gay men are capable of having that emotional intimacy as well. You don't need to rely on caricatures about an entire group of people to describe your own dating preferences. We're all pickme girls. Every single human feels like they want to be chosen. So, I don't want the Pikmi girls out there to feel bad about themselves because we all have the same inner workings and inner desires. I think that the the non-pickme girls have a little more self-control. Okay, so a pickme is someone who performs a version of themselves to gain approval, usually by putting others down, pretending to have interests or opinions they don't actually have, or minimizing their own needs to seem more desirable. Right? I'm so low maintenance. I'm not like the others. You can absolutely have Py men who change their personality, usually for female attention, and it's sacrificing authenticity in order to be picked. So, no, we're not all Pik Me girls or Pik Me boys. Oh, I hate Taylor Swift, honestly. Like, I just love Led Zeppelin. Like, it never gets old. I don't like either. But this is not the first time I hear this from Swifties.

[00:13:52]You guys know people are allowed to have different music tastes. Some people don't like Taylor Swift. If you're pretending to dislike something popular just to seem different and get the approval of women or men, that's one thing. But if you don't like Taylor Swift, how is that? Pick me. How? And some of you actually need to calm down with that. The more concerning behavior nowadays, especially within the Swifty community, is the unhealthy level of celebrity obsession. Look at the trash collecting at her wedding.

[00:14:16]>> Figure Swifties would want to never part with their wedding garbage so they can take it with them wherever they go.

[00:14:20]>> So it's pocket garbage. How much?

[00:14:22]>> Uh $25 each. The bigger cubes are $100 for regular garbage and 125 for limited edition.

[00:14:26]>> You made 50 of how of which?

[00:14:28]>> Of the small ones. Yeah.

[00:14:29]>> You made 50 small ones. Yeah.

[00:14:30]>> And what happened?

[00:14:31]>> Uh they sold out in 24 hours.

[00:14:33]>> Taylor Swift is not going to pick you, babe. It's not going to happen.

[00:14:36]>> Girls are like really into the summer. I turned pretty. But >> Oh, I literally can't imagine anything worse. But I'm actually obsessed with these World War II documentaries.

[00:14:43]>> Though I will say I'd rather watch a World War II documentary.

[00:14:46]>> Oh, don't look at my nails. I have never gotten my chest done ever. I actually learned how to change a tire when I was like seven and a half.

[00:14:51]>> How is that Pik me? Good for you. That's a useful skill. I love deadlifting. Love a core light, but like I'm still starting.

[00:14:59]>> I like hate martinis.

[00:15:01]>> I also don't like them. What? What is this? Can you help me?

[00:15:04]>> Have you heard of whey protein?

[00:15:06]>> The macros. You can't beat it.

[00:15:07]>> Nobody talks about Tony Hawk anymore.

[00:15:09]>> Sports. I love skateboarding, >> trucks, swings, sports.

[00:15:13]>> Sports.

[00:15:13]>> Oh my god, girls that like sports, they must be looking for male validation.

[00:15:17]Like, girls shouldn't like sports.

[00:15:19]They're definitely lying. They should drink martinis and listen to Taylor Swift like me because that's the only way to be a girl. If you're not like me, you're a pickme. Is that what you think?

[00:15:28]That's kind of sad that that's where your mind goes. Like, it really shows how male- centered you are. You don't even realize that many women genuinely enjoy those things. So, you must think, well, I don't relate to that. Many women don't relate to that, so they must be faking it for male approval. No, actually, different women like different things. You can like Taylor Swift, you can drink your martini. That doesn't mean every girl likes that. Another well-known example is Pearl Davis.

[00:15:50]>> Know why Pearl is available? Because even though she says the right things that men resonate with, she's masculine.

[00:15:56]Feminine women do not go online and sit on podcasts and argue with men all day long. Why not pick her? Because we couldn't marry someone that's like that and argumentative and fighting. You do everything that you can to throw women under the bus for the sake of looking good in front of men and those men go online and say stuff like this.

[00:16:14]>> Pearl built a brand around making many statements that aligned with the red pill audience. Even after all of that, there's so many men that she's trying to appeal to, who mock her appearance, who call her too masculine. And whether you agree with her or not, it really does show that abandoning your authenticity, which I really do think that's what she's doing. Especially when you take a look at what her ex-boyfriend and her old friends were saying, how she just completely changed. When you abandon who you really are for external approval and validation, it still doesn't guarantee acceptance in the very group you're trying to impress. Especially not when you're relying on this hypocrisy. Women shouldn't be heard. Women just go back in the kitchen. Except me. I get to run a podcast and make money by talking about how women shouldn't talk. That makes a lot of sense, girl. Reminds me of this one.

[00:16:59]>> We need strong alpha males like Donald J. Trump, Spencer, and our loved Charlie Kirk, who have secure borders.

[00:17:06]>> She needs to stop cutting Dean off. I'm not even a fan of Dean Withers, but this is crazy. Strong alpha males like Trump.

[00:17:13]Women on average do tend to score higher on empathy. In politics, that can sometimes translate into empathy when emotional appeals outweigh long-term consequences. So, you see this in debates around immigration. They see heartbreaking images of these families being torn apart. hear these stories that can influence how people support different policies without fully considering issues like border security, vetting, right? Like actually making sure people come here legally, how illegal immigration both affects those very immigrants and the people here already. That's a completely different argument from what she goes on to say, which is that women cannot be strong leaders. Women are not a monolith. There are women I would personally trust to lead far more than plenty of men. There are many extremist males on the far left that I wouldn't want in power. I don't think extremism is good in either direction, but there are also men whose politics I strongly agree with as well.

[00:18:02]So, it's not about an entire gender. We have to look at an individual's judgment, their competence, the ability to make difficult decisions. But of course, it's much easier to say women bad, men good, or men bad, women good.

[00:18:16]Like, we're mentally challenged or in kindergarten. POV, the most insufferable PIKMI GIRL EVER. LITERALLY, LOOK HOW BIG my sweatshirt is. I LITERALLY [screaming] like you can't even see me. Literally, it's just swallowing me cuz I'm so small. We have a sleepover tonight. I don't care that you got a girlfriend.

[00:18:34]Uh, bab in so long.

[00:18:36]>> Yeah, this so I'm so small routine. It's so performative and it's designed to make you seem more desirable usually to men. It's manufacturing an image instead of just being yourself, a grown woman.

[00:18:50]Florida.

[00:18:52][screaming] >> A great example of this in the music industry is Sabrina Carpenter.

[00:18:57]>> But how old are you actually?

[00:19:00]>> You're 16. Oh, no. You got time. So, where would you say right now? Like, how are you feeling? Would you say you're feeling quite sad? Would you say you're feeling angry? Or would you say you are?

[00:19:12]>> He also does. I'm so tiny. I wear baby doll dresses. I'm so small.

[00:19:18]men. That kind of persona, she combines it with the provocative stage performances with the childlike aesthetics. It's very uncomfortable.

[00:19:26]It's very disturbing. This fantasy relies on infantilization. Most of her fans are young girls who are watching and absorbing that message. I'm technically legal, but I look like a child. And because I look like a little kid, don't you want to put something big in my little house? So, that's weird. I think we can all agree that what I just said was deeply weird. So why is it that whenever Sabrina Carpenter says that on stage, everybody's okay with it?

[00:19:57]>> Because espresso. I don't care if it's She's just a girl. She doesn't know what she's doing.

[00:20:03]>> It's not like she poses in either booty shorts or like actual underwear holding oversized stuffed animals. Oh, wait. But it's not like she goes to playgrounds in booty shorts and poses with her back extra arch so her butt's sticking out.

[00:20:17]Oh, wait. But it's not like she recreates shots from Lolita, a film infamous foration of ped Oh wait. Seemingly references Lolita and like some of her album work.

[00:20:29]Oh wait, you know that thing she does on tour whenever she goes, "Have you ever tried this one?" and then does a bedroom pose on stage? The song she does that to is a song called Juno after the film that has a pregnant minor in it. And the line of the song like the main line of the song is make me your Juno. Make me your impregnated minor.

[00:20:52]>> You say you are >> the pick me girl. That friend or that person that in front of other people puts you down or calls you out. Calls you out for something that you have may have done. Maybe it's Botox. Maybe it's filler. Maybe it's fake lashes. Maybe it's fake hair. Maybe it's fake boobs.

[00:21:08]Whatever that may be, it's someone that calls it out or says it in front of someone maybe that you're flirting with or someone new that has no idea and doesn't need to know.

[00:21:16]>> Yeah, that definitely just sounds mean-spirited. That person's probably doing it for male validation or just to embarrass another woman cuz she could have easily just said that in a private conversation if she wanted to, but you're choosing to do it publicly to undermine someone else just to elevate yourself.

[00:21:35]so much harder than you. [music] >> Dolls are the trans women. By the way, this is a great example of actual pick me behavior to women that sell out women and panda to the woke left, usually in favor of men who believe that they are women. So, this video here basically comparing males who think that they are women to women that are women is pick me behavior. I mean, it really is pick me.

[00:22:00]You're still going after the approval of biological men because that's what trans women are. They can identify however they want. They can present as the opposite sex. That's fine. That's their right. But factually, biological males, right? And they are trying to be picked by them by what? By tearing down biological women. And they think they're being girls. That's saying, well, see the dolls, the biological men who are trying to emulate us, they're much hotter. You shouldn't hate the dolls.

[00:22:27]But why do you think it's a good idea to defend transgender women by putting down biological women's appearance? Would you say this about a cisgender woman who got a lot of cosmetic surgery? And then you'd be like, "Well, you're just jealous of her because she looks so much better than you because you chose not to do anything to your face. That's what you're doing." Except we're talking about biological men. Another one that's not like the other girls that I find real funny. There was so many mother in my com. She's not even Greek. She can't even speak Greek.

[00:22:57]How I feel after ordering Chipotle with a side of chips.

[00:23:04]You trying to impress Minion Trade? Ah, but boy nothing. Oh, you ain't got nothing to say now, stupid [ __ ] >> Mother say, "Oh, you're white, babes."

[00:23:14]No, I'm not. I'm not white. I'm spicy white. I'm Greek and Italian. I'm not from the mountains of the caucuses like a lot of y'all mothers. I'm from the Mediterranean. Okay. Greek and Italian.

[00:23:21]Spicy white. You can call me a crouton, not a cracker. I'm invited to the cookouts. I'm not calling the cops. You know that kind of white.

[00:23:28]>> Spicy white. What's wrong with just being white? Also, what is spicy white?

[00:23:31]Italian and Greek. Yeah, that's white.

[00:23:34]That's white. And it's okay to be white.

[00:23:36]But this comes across as trying to separate yourself from other white girls by implying you're somehow more interesting, right? You're spicy or exempt from the white stereotypes, right? I'm not like other white people.

[00:23:47]I don't call the cops. But now you're assigning negative traits to an entire racial group by saying that just to make yourself look more unique. So, is this not offensive to the very people you're trying to be picked by?

[00:23:57]>> And I love when people ask me where I get my coffee from when I bring it to work because it looks so delicious and it looks so good. My kitchen. It's called frappe. Greek ice coffee. Frappe, not whipped coffee like they like to say. So, Duncan and Starbucks could never could never frappe. A1 >> me with borch. Not like you mother saying borch. It's borchi.

[00:24:16]Anyways, >> a woman says I'm [clears throat] just a girl as an excuse for her dumbass actions. No, [ __ ] You're just an idiot. Stop blaming the rest of us for it.

[00:24:26]>> I hate this [ __ ] Also, girl Matt, shut the up. You're mentally ill. You need help. I can't stand these [ __ ] It's this incompetence. They romanticize it.

[00:24:35]It's all It all comes back to what?

[00:24:37]Infantilization.

[00:24:38]They want to be as close to a minor as possible because this is what they believe will attract males. It's disgusting. But it all comes back to that girl. Math. I don't understand anything. I'm so stupid. I'm just a silly girl. Girl, shut the [ __ ] up.

[00:24:54]Thank god I'm just a girl cuz what the is that? It's like some kind of code.

[00:24:58]You can ask him. You can learn something. But no, it's I'm just a girl because being a woman automatically means being incompetent. Google it, [ __ ] You don't understand computer code? Ask. Most people don't, including plenty of men. Ask. Learn something. The issue is that you're acting like basic helplessness is a feminine personality trait. You are performing incompetence because you think it's cute and attractive. Actually, it's nasty as to most men and most women. It's annoying when you, a perfectly capable woman who's able to learn new skills, who has the right, the privilege to get an education, learn about technology, figure things out, Google it, go to school, educate yourself, but you can't.

[00:25:36]You don't want to rather cuz you're a lazy bum. Not cuz you're just a girl.

[00:25:39]Cuz you're lazy and you want to generalize all women or sorry, girls.

[00:25:42]Because again, we're infantilizing ourselves, right? I'm just a girl. It's almost always in the context of like a dumbass decision and just complete incompetence. Like a woman will literally rear end somebody or blow their rent money on like a $2,000 shopping spree and be like, "But I'm just a girl." Tehe, no, you're not a girl. That's just trademarks of someone who's a dumbass and doesn't know how to take care of themselves or make good decisions. I have a problem and I need help. I just moved into this house and the water filter in my fridge needs to be replaced. I don't want to drink dirty water. So, one, how do I figure out what size filter I need? Two, how do I change the water filter in the fridge? Um, honestly, where do I buy it? Like, I know nothing. Also, I look giant next to my fridge.

[00:26:27]>> I know nothing. Oh my god, what's it called? Google, right? You can Google it.

[00:26:32]>> 53. I don't know why my fridge is like super mini, but yeah, >> we see them, girl. We see them. I need help.

[00:26:42]>> Mental help. I hope you get it.

[00:26:43]>> Nothing pisses me off more than when a girl does some dumb [ __ ] and she'd be like, "I'm just a girl." The you mean you're just a girl? I don't give a if you're a dinosaur. How about you stop blaming your gender and start taking accountability for your actions?

[00:26:52]>> I'm just a girl.

[00:26:53]>> Nothing pisses me off more than a girl's main excuse being, "Oh my god, I'm just a girl."

[00:26:57]>> Speaking of this parking and the whole joke of like women can't drive, it doesn't actually line up with the data.

[00:27:02]Here's some statistics from the Insurance Institute of Highway Safety.

[00:27:06]Male drivers are involved in about 71% of all US traffic fatalities. Even after adjusting for how much people drive, men are involved in about 48% more fatal crashes per mile driven than women. Men are also significantly more likely to speed, drive under the influence, and skip wearing a seat belt. That doesn't mean every man is a bad driver or every man is a good driver. And the same thing with women. There are good female drivers and bad ones. But acting like women are naturally worse drivers is just another stereotype that doesn't actually hold up very well when you look at the statistics. But then it would be hard to just say I'm just a girl and I can't do anything. I turn her now. Good luck everybody else. I'm the type of girl that you rarely ever meet. I don't wear much makeup. I don't have lip filler cuz it freaks me out. I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't vape. I do none of that. I don't party. I prefer to stay in on the weekends. I eat really healthy because I actually care about my health. I like Legos. I like things that guys like. I enjoy working on my own car. I don't dress all girly to try to impress other people. I just brush my hair in the morning and then go out. I don't over complicate where I want to go eat at. I'm a simple creature. But I think that's why I'm alone most of the time.

[00:28:14]>> Okay. Well, like you obviously have darker roots, so you dye your hair, so you don't just brush your hair. You are wearing jewelry. You're wearing eye shadow and mascara. You filled in your eyebrows, probably foundation on as well. You're wearing clothes showing off your figure. Nothing wrong with any of that, by the way. But girl, you're like most women. Except what does make you special is that most of your other content is you specializing yourself.

[00:28:35]>> I'm not like the other girls. You don't have to pay for dinner to see me naked.

[00:28:39]You just have to pay $1.99 a month. I actually have a fantastic pick me boy for you.

[00:28:44]>> I broke a nail again. How much you need?

[00:28:45]How much do I need for what? How much do you need to get a new set of nails? I don't I think about three things in this life. My family, which includes you, money, and my hobbies in that order. How much do you need? Um, you know what? I'm going to send you 150. If it's not enough, tell me I'll send more.

[00:28:57]>> Wo wo no. You can just send me like 70.

[00:28:59]It's okay. It's fine. What about your toes?

[00:29:00]>> What about my toes? Hold on. [laughter] Who the [ __ ] taught you that? Do you want to keep asking me stupid questions or do you want to go get your nails done?

[00:29:06]>> No, you don't have to do that. My paycheck is tomorrow and I can just go this weekend. It's fine. Really?

[00:29:10]>> If you're not in the car in 10 minutes, you're going to have a lot more to worry about than just a broken nail. You're going to come with me? Yeah. I'll just walk around Best Buy or something while you're in there and then we can get coffee after. Pinch me.

[00:29:19]>> My god. He knows about toenails. He knows about pedicures. But men don't know those kinds of things. Men don't have toes. Men don't have to trim their nails. This is a feminine thing. Imagine a conversation with this Pikmi boy and that Pikmi girl. She be like, "Well, I don't get my nails done. I'm not like the other girls." No, you don't get it.

[00:29:35]I'm not like the other boys. I'll give you $20 for your manny petty. And she's like, "What? But I don't understand money. I can't count. I'll count for you."

[00:29:45]>> Oh, your tire fell off.

[00:29:47]>> Pull over. You don't have a tire on your rim.

[00:29:51]>> I'm just a girl. No, you're a grown adult. Hearing a girl say, "Oh, I'm just a girl." When they're talking about their shitty ass driving, genuinely pisses me off because people don't realize how dangerous being a bad driver is. Like, that [ __ ] is not cute.

[00:30:01]>> I'm just a girl. Can't park. Can't drive. CAN'T DO [ __ ] WELL, LEARN.

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