White People Have Had ENOUGH!

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[00:00:00]Even if you're trying to be nice and relatable cuz I'm not your sis.

[00:00:03]>> Oh, you don't like it? Well, we don't like it that your race is responsible for 50 50% of all the homicides in this country. See us? NO.

[00:00:12]>> I DO WITH MY BLACK SISTERS.

[00:00:21]>> Hey cousins, happy Tuesday. I hope you all had an incredible and meaningful Memorial Day weekend. It's more than just a long weekend. It is a time where we can really reflect on all the people who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our country. So, thank you to all of the men and women who have sacrificed so much to serve in the armed forces. Now, one of the things that I noticed all over social media this weekend was just that black fatigue is becoming more and more and more real. And I fear that we are all feeling it. And it's frustrating for me because I keep saying that I'm rebranding as less of a [ __ ] But but the coonery keeps on coming and I fear I might just have to get back into my coonry bag today. So y'all know the vibes. Be sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe. Welcome to Respectfully.

[00:01:11]First of all, if you guys have been watching or listening to me for a while, you know how I feel about the black community. I love being black. I am blicky black. I'm the blackest person in LA County. I'm darker than Kelly Roland.

[00:01:22]Okay. I love the black community. I love the joy that we have. I love the cool things about what we have contributed contributed to culture. I love all of that. I love our history. I love the truth of the black American story. I love all of that. But that being said, I am always the villain and I am more than willing to be the villain to call out the things and the behaviors and the mindsets and the the the delusion that needs to stop within the black community. If you guys saw just last week, um, we and we went viral all over the weekend, you know, with some of the clips and the reactions that I did, uh, just talking about these ghetto graduations that have been going on.

[00:01:59]And, you know, I can't stop thinking about the tweet that I first saw about the black graduations where this white woman had posted and she got all this flack for it. She said that she's so happy that she's going to a mostly white affluent graduation because she won't have to worry about the hood ry that we were seeing at these other ceremonies.

[00:02:19]So, at the end of this episode today, I want to actually go through some of the comments of what you guys were saying to me about that because across platforms, there were probably about 40,000 comments at least just on the topic and the fact that I was someone that condemned it, that is condemning these ghetto graduations and all the craziness that's happening there. But here's the thing is with black kids. Yes, I'm happy to see black kids having joy. I'm happy to see black kids graduating. But first of all, it's like what are you celebrating? So many of you kids are graduating and you cannot read. So I'm going to continue emphasizing that point. But the bigger point and the bigger issue that's there because even if they all had stellar grades, stellar literacy scores, which they don't, but even if that were the case, we still need to teach decorum. We still need to teach time and place. And we should not be putting this mindset on blackheads that you can just act a fool and act ratchet and be degenerate just anywhere that you want to be. That's exactly why our society and why our community is doomed now. Okay. So, I want better for the black community, but the black community first wants has to want better for themselves. But for far too long, we have run into this entitlement that is just getting worse and worse when it comes to the black community. And I hate to say it cuz you know, I love to say shout out to black women. We love black women here. black women are so, you know, powerful and educated and creative and beautiful, etc. However, a lot of you are delusional and entitled, and it's getting out of control. It really is. So, first, there's two videos I really want to react to today. There's one, this was the first one I saw on Twitter right before I went over to TikTok and saw even more black fatigue happening. But, let's just unpack this video of what happened on an airplane over the weekend.

[00:03:59]>> Why Why are you asking you to excuse me?

[00:04:02]Not. Why?

[00:04:04]>> Why is you sitting here right here?

[00:04:05]>> Why are you so special?

[00:04:07]>> Cuz I'm trying to get to the front.

[00:04:08]>> Yeah, we are all trying to get to the front. We all paid the same goddamn money.

[00:04:11]>> Okay, but I'm saying, sir, I'm just telling you, excuse me. If you move >> cool and the door ain't open.

[00:04:16]>> I'm just saying though, it don't matter.

[00:04:17]>> It don't matter.

[00:04:19]>> Before we get into the rest of this video, let's just like acknowledge a few things. First of all, it's always a woman of width. More often than not, it's a woman of width that has this extra level of I'm a fat sassy black woman. You have to listen to everything that I say and I'm going to break all rules of decorum because I'm a fat sassy black woman and you have to bow down to me because and if she ends up being a lesbian and an immigrant, boom, victim bingo. But that being said, it's like I already can't stand the people who stand up immediately on the plane. It's one thing if like you literally just want to stretch your legs on like something international, but the way that people leap up and like crowd the aisle on planes like gives me so much anxiety and it just grosses me out cuz why are you guys all breathing on each other when there's nowhere for you to even go at this point? But here she is, this girl all the way in the back of Spirit Airlines flight and she's getting angry because the guy that's in front of her is not going to move cuz and it's like I understand him. It's like move for what?

[00:05:16]Move. Make me squeeze up against the seat. Just think about the logistics here. You're going to make this man who's not a small dude squeeze his body up on the aisle seat like this so that you can take your big husky behind probably musty after this long flight.

[00:05:33]Probably musty. You're going to be greasing past him. He doesn't want to deal with that. And then you're going to have to do that for every single person.

[00:05:40]Now, if it's one of those situations where you have a connecting flight, say that. Say, I have a connecting flight and I have minutes to make it. And usually if it's a civilized airline, they will actually announce that for you and say, "Hey, if you are going to be if you are scrambling and going to have to run through the airport for your flight, come to the front." But no, this is just a girl who just feels like a grown woman, mind you. This is a grown woman of width who feels like everybody owes her something and that because she's the sassy black woman, she deserves to be in the front of the plane. And so you have two men here who both clearly have black fatigue. And one thing that shocked to me throughout watching this whole video, I was surprised I didn't hear a slur. I was getting ready for one of them to call her a slur because they were both packed. But there's the guy that's in front who's like, "No, I'm not going to move." And then there's the guy behind that's like, "Ma'am, what are you doing?

[00:06:26]Why are you being this entitled?" This is what I mean when I say white people are fed up. They are fed up with this behavior. But let's continue.

[00:06:34]>> Get up to the front.

[00:06:34]>> Yeah, we all are.

[00:06:35]>> Everybody is.

[00:06:36]>> Excuse me.

[00:06:36]>> Clock. No, thank you.

[00:06:38]>> She always like this. Oh, sorry. You don't know her.

[00:06:40]>> No, thankfully. I just move you the out of my way and I'm assaulting.

[00:06:44]>> Yeah.

[00:06:45]>> So you won't move.

[00:06:46]>> Why are you?

[00:06:47]>> I'm actually say excuse me >> and I'm saying no.

[00:06:49]>> Okay.

[00:06:50]>> I can say no.

[00:06:51]>> I don't have to say yes. Do what?

[00:06:53]>> You don't do I need to say yes, >> sir. I'm saying excuse me.

[00:06:56]>> And I'm saying you just going to block my way.

[00:06:58]>> Yeah.

[00:06:59]>> So if I hit you >> and you got 30 witnesses on you, man, with the red hair, you'll get arrested and then you will get a lifetime flight ban. You want that?

[00:07:09]>> Okay. But what I'm saying is I'm just saying excuse me.

[00:07:11]>> WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS you think that you are more special than everybody else on this god.

[00:07:15]>> Excuse me.

[00:07:16]>> Excuse me.

[00:07:18]>> The crash out at the end is everything.

[00:07:20]So it's like, okay, let's just clear the air. Immediately she resorts to the violence.

[00:07:26]Happy Father's Day. It she goes straight to violence. She immediately is like, if I hit you, I'm not I'm going to go to jail. It's like, yes, ma'am. That's what happens. You have consequences. So, you're going to assault a man because he doesn't want you to cut in line. If you And how about this, brokiana? If you want to be at the front of the plane as soon as the plane lands, buy a ticket that has you in the front of the plane, you know, cuz I'm someone I I hate to sit in the plane when it's like taxing and stuff. So, I will try to intentionally find a seat where if I'm not in business where I'm like in the, you know, premium economy area, I will try to sit as close to the front as possible. So, I book my flights as far in advance as possible. I'm checking for the seat map to see if I can get a better seat. And if when I when it's a reasonable price, I'll upgrade to business sometimes. Why? Because I want to get in and get on and off the plane as soon as possible. And I'm willing to use my little coins to do that. Why didn't you? You just feel entitled like you should be getting off at the same time as first class when you didn't pay that price. You're all the way in the back, girl. You better sit there and cross your legs. You are not Rosa Parks.

[00:08:27]You're not Rosa. Okay? So, you need to stay in the back until it is your time to come to the front. And then like the guy that's behind her that's like really giving her the business. I just love to see it right here. You have like it's what is that phrase? It's like immovable object unstoppable force and they are just clashing with each other because this is the behavior that we need that the guy with the red hair, both of the white men here, shout out to the white men because they did exactly what they should have done. They stood their ground. They weren't disrespectful. They weren't calling her out of her name.

[00:08:58]They didn't call her a slur, which I'm sure that they were tempted to do so, but it's like this woman is just being so audacious and this is the behavior that has white people exhausted because this is just one of many examples. And I intentionally showed this one first cuz I didn't even want to show an extreme example. It's just these are the day-to-day things that black people keep doing that is giving white people and everybody around them fatigue. Because if I were on this plane, I would have been mortified cuz I don't know what it is, what the chokeold is that's on me, but there's nothing that makes me more embarrassed than when there's a black person in the room with me doing something ghetto and embarrassing. It's like I talk all the time about how I hate the stereotypes that are put on our community, but at the same time, how can I be angry at the stereotypes when you are conducting yourself in a way that is attributing to the stereotype? You are being the stereotype. Okay, this is not okay. You see it with the graduations.

[00:09:50]You see it with all these YNs who keep wreaking havoc everywhere during spring break. You see it I saw this video that went viral over the weekend of this black woman got mad about something at Walmart. So she got up on like the cash register and started dancing and twerking and screaming and throwing stuff. It's like yeah, do white people do it too? Yeah, but rarely rarely if you want to talk about it per capita per capita is not a conversation you want to have with this in this conversation. More often than not, you barely even see Latinos doing this. You don't see You for sure don't see the Asians doing this. The Jews are somewhere minding their business and getting their shackle up. So, it's like the only people you really see doing this are the I almost used a different word, but it's the black folk. And I'm tired of it. I want us to be better and to be viewed as better, but you guys are not get you guys are not becoming better. You're worsening by the day and it's out of control. So then I I saw that video and then I was so mortified by that video. I immediately went over to Tik Tok and I cannot make this up. I immediately opened Tik Tok and this was the first video I saw and this white woman, shout out to this white woman. She was standing on business. She was not playing any games.

[00:11:04]>> Dear white women, >> here we go again. How can I help you?

[00:11:08]>> I don't want you to call >> Just off the rip. Off the rip. letting you know that she is tired because yes, this is such a trope that needs to stop.

[00:11:19]I see these videos all the time of black people being like, "Dear white people, why are y'all always trying to tell white people what to do? White people are doing just fine." And I'm sorry, I'm really getting into my coonery bag right now. But I'm sorry, black people can't be constantly telling white people what to do while our community is in shambles. And then if you really want to go banan on it, not only are we in shambles, but like our international cousins are also in shambles. like the equivalent.

[00:11:48]I'm sorry, but if you look at pretty much all the European countries, I think literally all the European countries, they're quite welldeveloped. They're doing well. They have tech. And even if they aren't thriving and rich, they have culture and they have some type of sanity within their society. Then you go to Africa and they're like still breaking watermelons with rocks that they find. And then they're like fighting for scraps of the watermelon.

[00:12:10]are like living like, you know, I don't want to say like living like animals cuz that sounds really dehumanizing and I don't mean it to be dehumanizing, but like on a serious note, it's like so many of these nations and tribes in Africa are so far from developed, it's like egregious how they could still be living like that in 2026. And then some people are like, "Oh, they're happy.

[00:12:29]That's their way of life." No, it's not.

[00:12:31]Like these people are like, "Yeah, it's their way of life, but it's their way of life, not by choice. These people are completely secluded from society and they have very low almost anim animalistically low IQs in some of these places. Like they would love nothing more than to get out of that type of living situation if they even knew that that was an option for them. if they even know how other people around the world are living. But that being said, it's like between what's happening in parts of Africa versus the entirety of Europe and then you have how the black community is today where, you know, white kids can't read either at a lot of these schools, but black kids for sure are low on the literacy scale. If you look at the percentage of how many of these kids are illiterate, it's like over 70% of these kids are like below literacy standards. Um, it's pretty egregious. It's very sad. So, when black people are constantly telling white people how they need to live, it's like, girl, you are not reading the room.

[00:13:21]Maybe it's cuz you can't read.

[00:13:24]>> Let's press play.

[00:13:25]>> Sis or girl, I I thought this for years and I was afraid to say it because y'all get very offended when you're told not to.

[00:13:32]>> I'm sorry. Did you say when we're told not to? Yeah. I don't care what color your skin is. You don't have any type of jurisdiction over telling white people what they can and cannot do. Not only will I call you anything I want, sis, but I'll do anything I want and I'll say anything I want without your approval.

[00:13:51]Thank you very much.

[00:13:52]>> On to appropriate things.

[00:13:54]>> First of all, when it comes to this white woman, I have heard enough. Give this girl her baddie chain.

[00:14:02]We are giving this diva right here her batty chain because she is standing on business. Once again, I love to see a as if kind of white woman standing on business. And you know, like she said, black people, you do not get to tell white people what to do and how to live and what to speak and how to communicate all of this just because of slavery.

[00:14:21]It's like you can't blame everything on Christopher Columbus. I tweeted just this morning. I saw this video. I saw two videos of one was a three-year-old and one was a literal like newborn child smoking weed with their black family members. And I can't even like play the clip because it's child abuse and it's just so egregious. But it's like you can't blame you can't blame Christopher Columbus for that. Okay. So stop trying to blame everything on white people and then acting like we are the boss of white people or not reverse racism, but like the racism is not going to reverse in the nature of like we're enslaving the white people and putting them in boxes that they can't escape. It's just not going to happen and it shouldn't happen. It's very ignorant for you to think that that's going to happen. But the bigger part of this, and I'm surprised that um my good sis, this good white sis over here didn't address. It's like, what is it with so many black people getting so offended when white people are nice to them? It's like calling you sis. Now, I can understand cuz I will add some nuance into this in defense of black women. There are times where I've seen where a white person will say cis in a derogatory way and it's like it feels antilack because that's a part of like black, you know, rhetoric and like the way that they communicate or black people communicate with each other often. But it's like at the same time it's like to to just make this boilerplate you're not allowed to call me sis. It's like god forbid they try to relate to you. That's like if I got mad at every single person for calling me bro. If you're a white person you can't call me bro. Like that's it's just doing too much. It's like you're making an issue out of nothing. And it gets to the point where it's like white people are demonized so often and told that don't call me this, don't do that, don't embrace my culture, don't acknowledge my culture. But then it's like the second that they do that then it's like oh well you're being racist and you're self-segregating. It's like well what do you want them to do? The white people literally cannot win. And it's like and you're putting them in a position where it's like there's no winner or loser dynamic. It's just like you just making it to where everybody is just miserable and awkward and creating this racial tension that does not need to be there. Like this issue actually just makes me want to crash out every single time I see something like that because it's like again, God forbid they're actually nice to you and acknowledge you and want to relate to your culture. It's like that's the worst thing in the world. It's like you guys are turning MLK's dream into some kind of modern nightmare and I'm not having it. Let's continue. not to say things.

[00:16:38]YOU'RE JUST LIKE, WHY? WHY CAN'T WE HAVE IT ALL?

[00:16:41]>> ONCE AGAIN, you don't get to tell me, Jack. And have what all? A car that you have, a roof over your head, clothes on your back, food on your table, a job, family and friends that love you. I have all those same things, too. So, WHAT DO WHITE WOMEN HAVE that you don't? Cuz I know it's not opportunities, >> but I don't like it. I don't like when you say s.

[00:17:04]>> This girl is not having it. I actually I stopped watching the video early when I first saw the clip because I immediately bookmarked it and sent it to my team because I'm like I need to see this video in full and I want to react to it with my cousins. But this woman is just she's packed. She is not having and she's one of our cousins here too. I actually saw that she's a supporter. So shout out to you Diva. Um yeah it's just what what opportunities what do you not have that white women have? Like why are you why is there still even this mindset of white people have something that black people don't have? Okay. If anything, black people have so much more privilege at this point when it comes to DEI and affirmative action and everything. Like, oh well, affirmative action benefits white women, too. But we all know who actually needs it. No shade.

[00:17:47]>> Even if you're trying to be nice and relatable cuz I'm not your sis.

[00:17:50]>> Oh, you don't like it? Well, we don't like it that your race is responsible for 50 50% of all the homicides in this country. See us? No. I DO WITH MY BLACK SISTERS.

[00:18:08]I understand this diva. Can we give her two batty chains? Give her another batty chain because honestly, if I y'all would really hate me if I were white, okay?

[00:18:22]Cuz I know that people don't like me because I'm a [ __ ] allegedly and I'm an Uncle Tom and whatever, but it's like I love being black. But that being said, like me loving being black is what holds me back from really putting my foot on some of your necks sometimes. No shade and no pun to George Floyd. But when it comes to this white diva here, she's calling it out. She's calling out like the fact that how can you constantly demonize white people when it's black people that are wreaking havoc within our own communities. Okay? So many of the reasons why we can't have nice so many of the reasons why we can't have nice things are because of other black people. Okay? Okay. When people talk about, oh, there's no opportunities in these communities. You know why? Because when there's constantly crime, it drives out the opportunity. When you're constantly robbing the stores, the stores are going to leave and go somewhere where they're not going going to be robbed all the time. And when the stores leave, so do the jobs. So, it's like, I don't understand why people don't understand this. And you know, President Trump, shout out to President Donald Jacoan Trump. He tried to make the opportunity zones. And I think he actually did make some, but it's like so many of them will get destroyed because the black community is always robbing their own resources. And when I say that, I'm saying it more generalized.

[00:19:30]You guys know what I mean. And I'm not saying like every black person cuz obviously it doesn't apply to me or like to my friends or anything like that. But when it comes to a lot of these more, let's say, urban, aka ghetto, black communities that can't keep anything sane or nice there, it's because of their own behavior, their own gun violence, their own their own theft, their own chaos, their like fighting each other, all these different things.

[00:19:53]And then people get mad about overpolicing. It's like, well, the police are the only ones that are trying to keep order over there. You wouldn't need overpolicing if you weren't doing an excessive amount of crime. Point blank period.

[00:20:05]I do with my black sisters. Ah, >> nothing says racist more like separating women by their skin color instead of the fact that way I'll have a >> I had a comment from someone on one of my videos on Instagram and she was like, "Sis, you're cooking." And she did the little with her white fingers and I was just like, "No, >> I can call 911 for you if you want. I'm so sorry that a threeletter word sent you into the endless universe. The only reason it upset you is because that woman was white. Which means again, you're separating somebody's importance or value by skin color, thinking your skin color is more important. It's not.

[00:20:45]It is not. It's not any more important than my skin color. It's not any more important than an Asian person's or a Latino person's skin color. But somehow you seem to think that you carry the umbrella for all rules for all skin colors, namely white people. Once again, your name is Britney. Brittney. That is the whitest name I've ever heard. Come on. You're not selling out on your race, are you? You should change your name. I don't know, Brua or something. Maybe that way you'll feel like you fit in more in the human race that you divide by skin colors. You make me physically ill, Brittany. It's Britney. You whine and complain every day because I was born with white skin and blue eyes. I'm so sorry. Should I apologize to your ancestors for that? Should I apologize to your parents, your co-workers, your friends? I'm so sick of this black entitlement. And guess what? It's called black privilege now. It's what you think you have, yet pretend that white people have because I don't have any more opportunities as a white woman than you have as a black woman. Name one opportunity I have that you don't. Oh, what's that? You can't. That's what I thought. I'm gonna go watch my white TV show on my white couch in my white house.

[00:22:08]All the way off.

[00:22:10]>> Look, I Here's the thing is I understand her. I understand why she's mad and she didn't say anything racist. She didn't Well, the br the brua part was crazy, but I understand what she's saying. It's true. Okay. It's valid. It's like, oh, come on now. You can't keep blaming white people for getting frustrated when they're constantly being dehumanized, kicked out of spaces, you know, treated like we're in civil rights movement, except the racism is now on white people. I'm not having it. In the same way, I wouldn't condone this behavior if it was towards black people, I'm not going to condone it towards white people. And white people, some of you, you have to get a backbone. A lot of you lost your backbone. Not my audience, cuz I know y'all clock me down if I don't make that clear, but a lot of white people lost their backbone during the BLM riots because they felt so guilty because they thought that everything in our country was racist. But enough time has passed. And I mean that of many eras, enough time has passed that I can't stand white guilt. If you weren't a part of slavery and discrimination, then you should not feel guilty. If you were a part of that and you're that old, then it's like, okay, just be a decent person now and just acknowledge and teach the people around you that you, you know, don't support segregation anymore. Like, I don't know.

[00:23:22]It's different times. Like, you don't need to be going around apologizing and acting all cringe. What we need more of is we need more like this diva here who just got two baddy chains. We need more people like her that are going to stand on business and be like, "Just because my skin color is white doesn't mean that you get to just boss me around." Okay?

[00:23:40]I'm not saying that we need to have a race war, a tribe war. We just need it to be clear that every race has people of strength that are not going to allow themselves to be dehumanized and belittled. That's the point that we are at because white people are sick and tired and fed up of ghettohood ry of the crime of the different chaos that's being wreed by black people, the havocing that's happening just to then be told that they're the villains.

[00:24:07]Crazy. It's all insane. So, cousins, that being said, last thing I want to do before we wrap up this conversation today is I do want to go through some of these comments that were on the graduation video. And if you haven't checked out that video yet, um where I sat down with our friend of the show, Tiffany Marie Brandon, go and watch that episode and all the short clips we did about it. But, Country Will, what were some of the clips you or some of the comments you found?

[00:24:32]Okay. Well, first let's actually show the video. Let's remind people the video.

[00:24:38]And yes, I changed the music cuz look, I am dead wrong for changing the music cuz it was something hood ry coded, but I was like, "No, I just cuz here was the thing." Can we play it again? I just knew that the juxaposition of the music, something refined and civilized paired with what this event is, and then paired with the behavior that's going on here, you sometimes have to just change the sound to realize how insane and ridiculous the situation is. So, that's what I did. This was my point. This was my post that went viral over the weekend. And the comments have been a blood bath. Again, there's like between this and my other reactions to this graduation ceremony, there's over 40,000 comments of people trying to argue with me. So, let's argue cuz I got time. So, I will say the glue is strong in these wigs.

[00:25:31]You know what? That's a great point because that girl was hitting it with a whip whip. Wow.

[00:25:39]She said stiff wear. That wig was everywhere. Everywhere, but it stayed on her head. It stayed on her head. So, I'll give her that. How did they graduate? I already commented replied to this one. 95% graduation rate, 35% literacy rate, which is insane. Why are they mostly barefoot? I don't know, but that just feels unsanitary. And shout out to the one girl with the orange hair. She was the only one that kept her shoes on. Past and future fatherless homes. Oh, I fear he might have a point based on statistics per capita. And it's like, what can you say? How can you be mad at people and be like, "Oh, that's racist."

[00:26:12]It's like they're acting like degenerates, so you expect them to be degenerate.

[00:26:17]Was graduating. That's surprising, I guess. So, okay, this is a hot take. And a lot of people think that I'm being mean when I say this or that I'm being just like a [ __ ] but like can I say something?

[00:26:28]I'm really sick and tired of acting like graduating high school is this massive groundbreaking achievement within itself. Like it's one thing when you graduate with honors. It's one thing cuz like not everybody can be validictorian like I was. But that being said, it's like you have to do the bare minimum of what the law tells you to do to graduate high school. Okay? You go to school.

[00:26:48]High school is not like high school is challenging. Don't get me wrong. like especially you're young, you're growing, there's the social elements of it.

[00:26:54]There's you never know what people are dealing with at home. Um and it's like just preparing for adulthood. So yes, it is a huge deal in the sense of it's very pivotal in your life and how the rest of your life is going to look. You're getting ready to hopefully go on to bigger and better things. So I think it is a celebration that is worth having.

[00:27:13]But why do we act like it's this in in 2026? Why do we act like it is the most difficult thing in the world to graduate high school? Like I constantly see these posts, and I hate to say it, but it's largely by black people where they're like, "They said, "My baby couldn't do it. I always believed in my baby. I knew my baby could do it." Graduate high school to get a diploma.

[00:27:36]Is it that hard? All this gyating and throwing your neck around, it's like, "Okay, great. You're on the next step to go be a nail tech." And that's a beautiful thing. Shout out to the nail techs. But it's like why are we acting like being just the high school diploma alone is like the greatest AC. You get what I'm saying? Tell me in the comments if I'm like just being harsh, but it's like I think it's so weird when people act like there's so much opposition just to graduate high school. It's like let's be so for real. It's a great thing. It's worth celebrating. I'll fly back to my families and go celebrate graduation with them. But it's like I'm not going to sit here and be like, "Oh my gosh, this was the most difficult thing ever.

[00:28:14]Like you didn't skip class." It's like come on the bars in hell. That's just that should be bare minimum for today's standards in education. Especially at a time where like you have schools if anything it's more insulting that we have so many people graduating high school because you have n again the school like this 95% graduation rate but only a 35% literacy rate. These kids are graduating high school without the ability to read without the ability to do math. So without these basic skill sets. But what again is so impressive simply about the fact that you graduated that we are constantly telling black kids it's the greatest accomplishment in the world like it's it's so backwards to me. I just will never get it. But maybe I'm just too harsh and maybe I'm not woke enough.

[00:28:56]So few people understand time and place.

[00:28:58]Thank you. That's all I was trying to say this whole time. It's like I'm not mad at the black kids for having fun.

[00:29:03]I'm mad at the fact that we're not teaching the discernment of time and place. Like I like to get ratchet. I like to turn up. I like to go to the club. I was at the clubb over the weekend. Okay. I like to have a good time. When I was in high school, there's probably still videos out out there of me being a degenerate when I was like 18, 17, 19, and even 28. So, it's like all these different times in my life.

[00:29:23]Like, I have turned up, but I don't turn up at an inappropriate time. You would never you would never catch me at a formal ceremony like that like gyrating and doing all that kind of crazy stuff.

[00:29:35]That's wild. That's so wild. And again, it's like we constantly tell black people, you can just be ghetto and ratchet anywhere you go. Be yourself all the time. No. Suppress it. Suppress it until you're in the right time and place. Because every demographic has parts of their culture that they hold back until they're in the place where it's appropriate to do it. Why do black people feel entitled to be loud and ratchet and ghetto all the time? It's like, and again, it's not all black people. I'm doing a lot of generalizations today, but you guys have, if you've listened to me long enough, you know what I mean. It's like, it's just frustrating.

[00:30:08]No stereotypes were harmed. Oh, I will say my cousins are the most creative people in the world cuz these these comments are low-key a key.

[00:30:19]These are a key. No stereotypes were harmed. Is crazy.

[00:30:23]But it's valid. It's valid. If the stereotypes are applying, they're applying. What do you expect to happen?

[00:30:31]They're going to continue to like gh these these stereotypes are nowhere near going away because of behavior at formal events like what we just saw here. If they were native and I did reply to this one. I really want to unpack this one.

[00:30:46]So, I'm glad this one got pulled. If they were native and had feathers and bells, would that be an issue? Like, I get what you're saying, but now people can't let loose after graduation. I normally agree with you 100%, but I don't know. And again, and I love this person that she commented and that she said she disagreed and that she didn't unfollow me because I always say you are allowed to disagree. It's literally in my Instagram bio, you're allowed to disagree. And with my people on YouTube, it doesn't matter what audience you guys um or what platform you guys know me on or from. It's like I love discourse. I love being able to disagree. And you guys have seen here, I've changed my mind on certain things. I even changed my mind on this topic before I uh made my first video. I actually deleted my first tweet and acknowledged why I deleted it. So it's like I have the right to change my mind and you have the right to try to change my mind. But that being said, it's like decorum is required for a civilized society. Turn up at the afterparties. This is not an ancient tribal celebration. So this whole analogy of let's do like what if they had on native feathers and all that dancing around. It's like that would be a tribal situation and that would be different. That would be actually a tradition that has gone on for what centuries, however long the Native Americans have been doing it. But then I have and to play devil's advocate, I did see that this is apparently somewhat of a tradition, but this was disputed. But I saw some places saying that this school they have a tradition of having these like more ratchet turnup graduations. And I would think that that would be cute and cool and everything, but what about the tradition of teaching kids how to read?

[00:32:13]What about the tradition of kids graduating with actual literacy and competency and the ability to do math?

[00:32:20]That's what I would like to see. That's the tradition that I want them to bring back. But here it's just buck wild degeneracy at an event that should be, you know, holding a formal standard and I will stand on that comment. But yes, some of these kids, they work hard for their diploma and I understand it. And like look again cuz I worked hard for my diploma. I had many nights where I cried and was exhausted and was tired and was so determined to make history in my school being the first black valadictorian, which I did. And that being said, it's like, and I'm not saying that you have to be validictorian in order to struggle in high school. It is something again worth celebrating. is something that is not necessarily easy to achieve, but I think it's one of those things where it's like, yes, we should celebrate it, but let's not put the weight of the world on it as if they just got their doctorate. As if they really just like went through the most unbearable amount of trials and tribulations. Unless some of them did, like unless some of them went through like hell, but I really doubt that every single person in that room went through enough to justify that kind of behavior.

[00:33:14]And if you did go through that much and you did work that hard to get your graduation, I would think that you would want some decorum and some class at your event. so that it actually rather than just being memorable, it's meaningful and that it's actually something with like some civility as you get ready for this next chapter. But at the after parties is where you should turn up. And yeah, nobody got hurt luckily. Well, I saw some videos of people fighting in the stands, but I'm not sure if that's the same graduation ceremony. But it's like nobody got hurt. So, it's like it's not the biggest deal in the world, but at the same time, I just think it sets a bad precedent for all of these people who are becoming hopefully functional members of society and their next steps.

[00:33:52]But that's all I have to say about that.

[00:33:54]White people, are y'all tired?

[00:33:57]Let me know in the comments section if you are tired and if you have black fatigue and if you understand what I'm saying or if I'm just being too harsh.

[00:34:04]Cuz sometimes I get jaded too. Sometimes I get to the point where it's like I just have to get so deep into my coonery bag in order to like let out this steam and this frustration. And the frustration stems from the fact that I want to see my community be better. And I think you guys are on the same page as me on that. But let me know what you guys think. Be sure to like, comment, share, subscribe, sh tell your friends all about Respectfully Podcast. And by the way, we are on Apple Music and Spotify. Shout out to the people who are listening in. And I will talk to you guys soon.