This is What Financial Freedom Looks Like | Ep. 22

追加: 2026-05-25

[00:00:00]Were all of us taught to think about money the wrong way? Many folks have been brought up to think financial well-being is really about building the biggest possible pile of money. But the wiser question may be what amount of cash flow actually buys back your time, lowers your fear, and let you design the life that you actually want to live. And that conversation has shifted in more recent years towards the idea of financial freedom. Whether that's traveling to Europe or or sharing the experiences with those that that you love around you or it's just, you know, having another bit of avocado on your Chipotle. Today I'm joined by Adam Cranmer. He's a CPA, an Air Force veteran, and a real estate investor with experience on both sides of the table as an active investor as well as a passive investor. Adam, welcome, man. Absolute pleasure to have you on the show.

[00:00:46]Excited to jump on Talk Shop and honestly excited to have you given your unbelievable background. Right. for those unaware. Uh, airman, got a military background there. CPA, got some acumen in the finance world. Also sales, so the guy knows persuasion, good EQ along the way. Just a a bevy of of of phenomenal traits in terms of the skill set in the background and sophisticated and experienced limited partner. So, just can't wait to jump on and talk shop, man. Pleasure to have you on the on the podcast.

[00:01:13]>> Yeah. Thank you very much, Brian. It's a it's a pleasure to see you, man. Uh, we've hung out a couple of times this year, so it's excited to see you again, even even on the uh the web webcam here.

[00:01:20]Yeah. No, likewise. Likewise. And hopefully we'll be in person in the not too distant future. But I think we're going to be together in Denver, if memory serves, in about a month or so.

[00:01:28]So, life is good, man. Hopefully, we'll have uh time to spend some time in person while we're there. But, um, in the interest of time and adding as much value as possible to the listener, let's just dive right in. You've now done a litany of different types of deals, and you've seen a lot along the way, some ups and downs, but you know, what would you say? What kind of investor are you today? right now today and what are you optimizing for now that you weren't optimizing for earlier in your journey as a limited partner?

[00:01:55]>> A passive cash flow investor today. So my focus is no longer on that that growth that home run cycle. It's all about limiting my downside. Spent a decade kind of building this this lifestyle. Um right now it's all about trying to get to that point of income replacement. Not not in a huge hurry to do so. I love what I do. Uh I actually, you know, don't feel like I' I've worked a day in my life. You know, the blood, sweat, the tears, uh remind me that I have. Um but this was a massive pivot away in the last, you know, kind of 3 years of investing where it was all a focus on growth. Now it is how do I find that income replacement? How do I do it as passively as I possibly can? Uh and frankly protect that downside. Uh that's the thing that will hurt me, will hurt my family is seeing that big dip. You know, those that big 40% correction in the stock market. I want no part of that. That's not me anymore. I want the steady active income. All about durability, income replacement at this point in time, which was a massive shift from, uh, years and years ago of of how do we maximize this and grow that capital as fast as possible.

[00:03:00]>> Fair. I mean, uh, great points. I mean, I think early in the journey, a lot of people are. If you're starting from nothing or a minimal base, you're trying to grow it to the end degree, right?

[00:03:08]That's kind of the the priority. But once you have it, right, folks realize you only need to get rich once. And once you have the base, then you really do focus on protecting the downside. So, um, when you were growing that base, right, and you were focusing on growth, do you mean focusing on growth from an active side of the table, right? Going out and actually buying deals yourself or even when you pivoted more to the limited partner side of the house, were you still focused on on growing the base even as a limited partner?

[00:03:32]>> You know, start starting out, how do I use as much leverage as I can to buy active real estate? How do I go and purchase these single family homes, these duplexes, etc. My wife and I got up to, you know, 23 of those at one at one given time. And that was all the blood, sweat, the tears of building that, leveraging as much as you could, using government money to, you know, put my 25% down, let them, you know, eat the 75% and and grow that as much as possible. And as we started to sell some of those down, that that switch was on the LP side, too. Was like, okay, my mindset says growth. That's all I've ever known. we've watched these properties grow, you know, and by the way, extremely lucky during co, right?

[00:04:11]That was the runup of run-ups on in the housing market. Uh, unfair, but those that played the game won during that time. Um, my initial years as an LP was that same focus. My my mind was telling me, go after the home runs, right? Grow the base as much as you possibly can. It wasn't until I I sat down and actually put pen to paper, right? that the CPA in me was like, you're making decisions just based on how you've always done it and and we started a decade ago. Like why are we thinking the way we're thinking? You're 40 now. Like like h have that discussion with yourself. Uh so it started out active, buy the buy the houses, moved into active, you know, active on the LP side where I'm going for growth. Uh, and it wasn't until probably the last year of of of life and investing here on the LP side that that pivot became extremely obvious that we hit the mark we were going for. We we don't need to do that. Let's keep the pace and build it from there. But even at a slower pace, I don't if if I get 7% 8% a year, we are good to go. Good to go. And I don't have to work till I'm 65. So that that's that's the goal of this.

[00:05:18]>> That's [clears throat] beautiful. I think importantly, right, you said you hit the mark that you're shooting for, right? That's um a beautiful way to put it, right? As you as you I've had thousands of calls with LPs over time now, and you hear the same sort of refrains over and over and over. Uh one of the first evolutions is to move away from traditional investment advice, right? Stocks and bonds and the financial advisor, everything that everybody's ever told you for decades and decades. You find out that alternative investments might be the easier path to the promised land of getting to freedom much much earlier upstream. But even then, there's levels to the game. Even after you start getting involved in the investment side of the house, most folks sometimes misallocate what it means to be involved in alternative investments, whether it's buying active real estate portfolio, whether it's single family homes and the like. And you build 10, 20, 30 of these and but all of a sudden now you have a secondary job, you know, blood, sweat, and tears. You're doing a litany of other things. You really don't have that lifestyle and the freedom that you really kind of have been seeking along the way. And then when you get into the LP side, still an additional evolution between investing in, you know, fix and flip style deals towards like the permanent income vehicle where it's don't lose my money, let's just get the cash flow and live life that we want.

[00:06:26]And to your point of hitting your number, the way that I like to think about it is there's a a few different a few different um a few different layers of it. First is the freedom number like you're talking about. And when folks actually sit down and put pen to paper, I think people are shocked when you sit down with your spouse and you think, "What do we actually need to replace our income?" It is a much oftentimes more modest number than you would have otherwise anticipated. Um because people have in their mind the traditional stocks and bonds of going and building this gigantic multiple seven figure, eight figure, and then beyond net worth to try to quote retire and then live off of it. But when you're just trying to create cash flow, oftentimes the number is significantly smaller to get you to the freedom number. Then after you determine that freedom number, creating what the lifestyle number is, right? So the freedom number is just to replace the income, live how you want. Then it's about lifestyle. Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? How do you want to how how how how much do you want to enjoy life above and beyond just the the freedom side of the house? But uh it's been interesting to hear that journey over and over and over from different limit limited partners along the way. So, you know, how have you felt now that you've kind of um you know, experienced what it's like to to to see that freedom number, have more of a long-term perspective, focusing on the cash flow? What's what's next in the evolution once you hit that number?

[00:07:39]What's what's next for you after that point?

[00:07:41]>> Yeah, you you explained it well. That that was that was one of my light bulb moments, right? I you know I know that you it's funny to have a light bulb moment at at all but even even at this age it was it was one of those it's like man if if all it takes is for me to replace my income with some asset whatever it may be stocks bonds alternative investments to the level of my expenses and I'm done. Um nobody tells you that which which is wild to me. Um but that that was truly that light bulb moment for me that this like you digging into these books you know that the famous Rich Dad Poor Dad where they're finally explaining that to you. I'm like where where has this been my whole life? Um but I think your question was around you know how how is that changing in our life? U one one of the things we're doing um you know we are moving to Spain here in it's it's a it's April now it's uh about 4 months uh moving to Spain to go live to Madrid. uh still will be working. have, like I said earlier, have no desire to stop working. But the fear is kind of gone, right? It's in the event that I lose my job and my wife lose her loses her job or something happens to our son and we require extra income or whatever it may be. Uh, not not to toot the Sunrise horn, but but there there's going to be a check coming in my, you know, in my account from Sunrise and from the 15 other syndications that I'm currently a part of because I'm making those selections that are based on exactly that parameter that I'm trying to hit. I'm trying to say my my expenses are they're too high.

[00:09:16]Don't get me wrong, that my expenses are too high, but at least I' I've got cash flow that can cover it, and I know I've got this much fluff uh that I can cut tomorrow if I need to. We live up here.

[00:09:28]We don't have to live up here. I can cut that. And that honestly like what has it changed in my life? I don't think it's changed a lot except for the mentality of it's going to be okay, right? If if something happens, we busted our butts for a decade to get us here to find the cash flow to understand how expenses work in our life. And we get to we get to move on, right? And just say like it's all right. The the bills are going to be paid. Our son's safe. We're safe.

[00:09:55]We're happy. We're doing the things we want. We can travel if we want to. Uh we we cannot take uh first class trips to Europe, right? That that's not in our budget. Like we we don't have that level of investments yet, right? We're not going to go spend 8 grand on a flight.

[00:10:09]Uh you know, but but if we can get economy plus and we can go to Europe, hey, we want, right? And and we're we're free to have that thought in our head.

[00:10:16]So hope that answers the question.

[00:10:18]That's kind of how I'm thinking. It's not changing my my daytoday. I'm not choosing to, you know, add the avocado at Chipotle, right? If I want to do that, I do it. But, you know, it's it's just a mentality thing. It's that removes some of the fear and puts a little safety back in there.

[00:10:32]>> The way that I succinctly put it when this conversation comes up is that I'm not chasing Ferraris. I'm chasing freedom. I want freedom for my family to do what I want when I want with who I want and just have freedom. Freedom of relationships, freedom of time, freedom of money. So that you could spend time on freedom of purpose, doing what you want when you want with who you want along the way. Love every bit. To me, the levels are financial freedom first, right? That freedom number. Then it's the lifestyle number. It's the fun stuff. If you want to go first class, it's the lifestyle number, right? It's it's get to that level. And then over and above that, it's legacy, right? It is now that I've got everything that I want freedom wise, everything that I want lifestyle-wise, now what? Now you keep going for legacy above and beyond purpose, giving away money beyond that because there's always levels to the game, right? There's always so much more that can be done, just driving more purpose. But, um, you know, with all the amount of experience that you have along the way, right? tons of different LP deals over time and so much experience actively passively.

[00:11:24]What do you believe that uh what do you believe about passive investing or or or syndications that most investors still get wrong? They still get wrong.

[00:11:34]>> I think the vast majority of folks tr have too much trust in the the shiny deck and not enough trust in the way that they look at that sponsor. Right. I I I think that operator quality I is the the most important thing you could possibly do. And I think that most investors look at this and they just say, "Okay, I'm looking for uh the highest IRRa, right? I I need something that's going to get me a multiple on invested capital of 3x, 3 and a halfx." Um, and I think that the like where they're getting it wrong is they don't have this ability to like to spot the fake, if you will. [snorts] And everybody has become so good at PowerPoint presentations. You know, we we the marketing is getting insanely good in that it's even even for people that have done, you know, tens of these, hundreds of these, it's still really difficult. We're we're fortunate now that we have Claude and Chad GBT and all the all the AI tools to kind of help us spot the fake, spot the BS, if you will.

[00:12:42]Um, but this is such a green field space, right? That you can still be unscrupulous and fake it till you make it.

[00:12:54]you can lose investors money and restart as something else because this is not some massive field that makes it onto CNBC and everybody knows about unless we reach the levels of of the the Ponzi schemes of the world. But I just think that investors don't put enough weight in finding that good operator, integrity first, the person who's going to tell it like it is in the good, the bad, the ugly. You know, I I actually don't care that much about your your good stories of how everything everything went peachy from 22 to 25. Like, okay, shocker. Um, tell me about the bad ones, right?

[00:13:29]Elevate. Tell me about all the bad stuff that happened. Like, how did this go wrong? And what' you do? Cuz you can't bat a thousand, but if you bat 300, you're probably in the Hall of Fame, right? And that's I just think that's something that a lot of investors miss is like they they're not focusing enough on the investor and they really really have to lean into that and and I think for lack of a better word I think we get a little lazy uh and we don't go to the events to meet the sponsors and to shake hands and see how they are after four beers right like that people change right you get that liquid courage but that yeah that's that's kind of my big thing there >> love that right so I think it's funny you're pulling from the sales background your EQ ability to spot the BS like you're talking about. Just getting to actually know people over time. It really does genuinely help to spend time in person with people because you can fake it on a presentation and all these myriad of things for a brief period of time, but the more that you get to know somebody, I mean, the more that somebody talks, the more that the truth comes out over time, right? Especially like you said with a little bit of liquid courage. Bet on the jockey, not on the horse. 100%. Every time an LP says that that's been in the game a while, 10, 15, 20, 30 deals, it always comes back to betting on the jockey. And I also think the reason it's been so hard the last decade, right, is because during an up market, everybody looks everybody looks good. Everybody looks like a genius, right? During an up market, and we were in one of the most profound up markets for like 15 years and all of a sudden, you know, how do you tell, right, when two different guys both generate a 15% rate of return? Which of those investors is the skilled investor and which one is the lucky idiot? It is not easy to determine that, especially during an up market. Not until the tide goes out do you really find out who's swimming naked and ultimately the cream rises to the top and the guys that were, you know, playing with the house's money and actually didn't really know what they were doing along the way ended up in a very precarious situation. Pause distribution, capital calls, total loss of capital, a lot of precarious stuff, right? But it's very hard to see that in the moment when it's happening. Um, and not until after problems arise. So from my perspective, right, trying to find out how people have done through multiple cycles, right? What happened during the good and the bad times? And honestly, the longer the duration of the track record, the better because then they will have been through multiple cycles. You will have seen how they performed during those periods of time because everybody's going to make money when you're in a decreasing cap rate environment unless they are absolutely ridiculous. That's the truth, right? So, um, very interesting. I mean, how has that shaken out in the last couple of of of, you know, years for you, as I'm sure some of your deals personally, obviously of friends of yours have experienced some pain along the way as well, but how have you seen that play out now that you're looking with a more clean eye?

[00:15:59]Um, how have you been able to dig in uh to this newfound era, right, in the new track record era with with so much blemishes? I mean, how do you view those those sponsors who may have had some of those those issues, right, in the last handful of years? How do you how do you, you know, deal with that today?

[00:16:16]>> Interesting to see now that, you know, I've I've held some for 2 3 4 years at this point in time. And boy, can you tell when they're naked in in that water? It is very obvious the the communication um sometimes starts off great and then dwindles. Sometimes the communication is just absolutely terrible. I've got a I've got a couple of operators that have horrible communication. Um, and you know, it's it's obvious that they don't want to discuss this. Um, but when when I look at organizations that struggled through, you know, they they bought in 21, they bought in 22 in u in Phoenix, for example. Actually, a a really good friend of mine um has had I don't know, she's she's probably batten five for six at this point in time, right? but she bought in Phoenix. Uh, and it was very unfortunate that it was it was one of her first deals.

[00:17:10]She, [snorts] like everybody else, kind of fell into that trap that that Phoenix was going to be the answer. It was going to continue to rise, that the Sunb Belt market was going to do everything that everybody promised. Uh, and that would be a total capital loss. I'm I'm not in that deal. U, I lucky in the fact that I don't like to invest in deserts cuz um I think we talked about at some point in time together, you know, I own a water treatment company. I think water is our is our number one concern in the world.

[00:17:36]I think that if we're going to have trouble, it's going to be with water, right? It's uh that's something that we can't we just can't get enough of and deselination is very hard. But anyway, um you know, I I don't invest in deserts, so I was lucky not to do that one. But um I I grilled her and I've known this woman for a decade and is and is one of my best friends in business, in life. Uh her family's fantastic. I visit her when I go out to Denver. Uh, but it is truly asking those questions of right. So, so we're betting on the jockey, Katherine. What happened? Like, why did you make those decisions that you did at the time? And and how would you change that now? Right? That's that's always my thing is like we we shouldn't be afraid because you have a scar or or a blemish. That scar tissue is fine, right? That that's how you learn. We all have scars in various fronts. We we hope that you know one one you know Sunrise fund 4 doesn't have a total capital loss of course right those are rough scars u but overall fund one fund two fund three fund right all of them gain money so so it it is what it is but it's it's true that question of how are you approaching it today what did you learn what were you thinking then how did you communicate that send me some of those emails like show me what that looked like when you were in the moment when you were just getting smacked on the head with the bat. What were you telling your investors? Were you hiding it? How long between, man, this is a total loss to that email? How long did that take? You know, was was that a like, guys, I'm being as open and honest as I can. I don't have the information today, but things are looking poorly, right? Like, and that makes a huge difference to me is did they continue to communicate? [snorts] Did they learn from it? Right? Are they going to avoid that in the future?

[00:19:22]That's how I look at that scar tissue.

[00:19:23]it it obviously is an immediate red flag for me that has to get over way before I even dig into the numbers um if you have any loss whatsoever. But uh that that's what's kind of going on in my brain is like did did you learn did this does the scar tissue remind you to not do that again? Uh that's that's the kind of best part of it. I think we all have one of those scars at least on our arms, right?

[00:19:44]That we're like well that was a bad decision.

[00:19:46]>> Love that. Yeah, of course. Nobody's perfect, right? I like to say that I'm a recovering perfectionist, but nobody is perfect. It's literally impossible, right? you hold yourself to a high standard, but none of us are perfect.

[00:19:55]Um, a couple points there. One, I I love the insight associated with not just the transparency, but the expediency of the transparency. Very interesting additional insight. I think very, very skilled. Great stuff. And then beyond that, a little nugget that I would share is um just entrepreneurial stuff. So, we got this tool called the experience transformer. Kudos to Dan Sullivan over at Strategic Coach. Absolutely phenomenal entrepreneur. Um, teaches entrepreneurs how to run businesses and the like. Been doing so for 50 years.

[00:20:21]And this tool, this experience transformer tool aptly named tries to help you extract all the things that that that all the learnings from that experience whether that experience is positive or negative. What are the learnings from that and how can we iterate and improve what we're doing moving forward to try to better everybody involved? Right? So just you've got to always be compounding, right? Knowledge interest compounds, right? As you know, but so does knowledge and you've got to actually be able to extract it the good and the bad.

[00:20:46]If a deal goes well, it doesn't mean that that's, you know, everything was hunky dory and you're perfect, right?

[00:20:51]You've got to still try to find ways to extract it. How can we improve? Small edges compound over long periods of time. So, um, beautiful stuff. I love the insight regarding the expediency of the of the transparency as well. That's absolutely beautiful. What What about um asset classes? Just a little bit of color in terms of what you're looking at right now. Um, asset classes, maybe a little color in terms of asset classes as well as capital stack. Like where are you looking at in the capital stack?

[00:21:14]Different investments, whether it's equity, debt, and just different stuff.

[00:21:16]What are you looking for in the in the current marketplace?

[00:21:18]>> Yeah, so I've I've actually made uh kind kind of thinking through this and if you know in in a in a couple of weeks I'll I'll be up on stage kind of talking through this, but I um am heavily leaning into uh how do I put this simply? Things I believe in, right? So I believe in cash flow. I believe in steady income and preserving my income. U I believe in things that that we need, right? Let's let's let's pick on sunrise for a second. Do do we need mobile home parks because housing is becoming affordable?

[00:21:51]Absolutely we do. And and we need a lot of them. And and while we can only make a dent by doing this, at least we're making a dent. Do we need affordable housing? Yes, we do. Do we need places to park? Yes, we do. Do we need more housing overall in those workforce housing places? Absolutely, we do. Uh I I don't believe that we need significantly more class A multif family. Um I think that we do need um some some more industrial and I'm and I'm looking at at that as well. Um I think self- storage will kind of never go away, but I think we might be a little bit past our peak on self storage. But it's it's like looking back into my heart and saying like, okay, I want singles and doubles. How do I get singles and doubles? I go after the things that I know in my soul we need.

[00:22:40]Uh I'm a firm believer and will forever be a believer in American businesses, but beyond that, real estate. And I [snorts] think that if we can solve the problems with real estate, manufactured housing, uh you know, class B, class C workforce housing, uh that's where I want to continue to lean. But before all of that, it has to cash flow today. I want money in my bank today. Whether it's a return of my own capital or it is from uh from from the property, whatever it is, I'm either delevering my risk by getting my capital back or I'm getting cash flow that I can put towards other investments. But I need you to show me today that this property is making money, losing money every month in this environment where we we are in a hectic time. Uh I I want to see some money coming back in which tells me that if we got a we get a dip, we get into some trouble, we're not talking about total capital loss. We're just talking about pausing distributions. And there's nothing wrong with that, right? We sometimes you have to do that to move forward. Uh but I'm looking at it that way. Um and then just to aid in my cash flow and and honestly just kind of uh invest in separate asset classes, I am looking at uh debt funds. Again, they're tied to real estate. Um, but looking to some in in kind of in many as many different areas as I can in the capital stack of okay, I want this one to be prep. I want I I'm okay if this one sits behind other ones. I want this one tied, you know, purely to the equity side for maybe a little bit more more cash flow but more risk. But the name of the game for me, steady income and shotgun approach of diversification. Just how how do I get it out there in the areas that in in my soul I know we need? Like that's how I how I'm thinking about this day in and day out.

[00:24:25]>> Absolutely beautiful. Right. So I'm going to refer back read a lot of books over time, studied a lot of different investors, right? Referring back to the circle of competence. Charlie Munger talks about this. Buffett talks about this all the time. Invest in what you know, right? You you have to you have to have an edge in the marketplace and you have to invest in things that you understand that you know better than others, maybe better than others that give you a little bit of an an advantage and an edge. So it's within your circle of confidence. Love every bit of that.

[00:24:49]And I could not agree more in the cash flow first. That's one of our evergreen principles, right? Cash flow first. At the end of the day, [snorts] the business models that are built on profit. We're going to we're going to buy a deal. We're going to put just a nominal amount of cash in. We're going to try to leverage it up to the gills leverage buyout style, right? 80% 85% LTV, whether you're taking mezzanine and all these myriad of different things.

[00:25:08]Get creative with financial engineering to try to drive the highest internal rate of return, right? Because you're trying to go for the growth, right? All the myriad of stuff. And you've got really slim cash flow along the way, maybe even cash flow negative. But the intent in that model of buy, fix, and sell is to try to get out as quickly as possible, get a big windfall on the back end. I always have felt that that's just speculation. It is gambling. It is gambling. And sometimes when you make a speculative bet, you win. But sometimes you lose it all. And I'm unwilling to do that because I've already been so fortunate to be in this crazy universe to to have already kind of made it in the eyes of society. Right? You make a little bit of money over time. You only need to get rich once and then it's about protecting the downside. So cash flow first. At the end of the day, if you're focusing on trying to grow NOI, grow grow profits, that's a good thing, but it is not the most important thing.

[00:25:53]Revenue is vanity. Profit is sanity. But profit is only an opinion. Cash flow is a fact. Cash flow is the only thing that matters. After tax, cash on cash return, you send a dollar out. How many dollars actually come back to me? It's the only thing that matters because it buys you time. It buys you time. It buys you freedom. That's what really matters at the end of the day from my perspective, buddy. Love every bit of it. It's a beautiful thing.

[00:26:13]>> Couldn't couldn't agree more. You know, I was I was thinking through, you know, I know you're a you're a baseball guy, you know, for former captain of the baseball team, and I was thinking, how, you know, what what analogy can I use to impress Brian, right? The analogy king.

[00:26:26]I was like, okay, Brian's a baseball guy. Okay, I want to be in this instance, I want to be Ichro Suzuki, right? One, in my opinion, one of the best modern-day contact hit, you know, contact and hit guys to ever play the game. Um, you know, I I came from the era of Sammy Sosa and Mark Magcguire, the home run race, like just all the incredible Everybody has their opinion on those two obviously, [laughter] but incredible, right? That but that's not my game, right? So, I looked at it said, "Okay, what's the analogy?" In 1997, u Sammy Sosa had more strikeouts than hits.

[00:27:03]And to me was just like, okay, there there it is. Right. I I'm not swinging for the home run at the expense of the strikeout, right? You you only need to get Rich once. And while that was very exciting, we everybody could not get enough of of that back and forth between them between the two of them. He's going to hit 62, ended at 70 something, whatever he hit. Um, incredible. But more strikeouts than hits, that that's a no for me all day long.

[00:27:33]Cash flow is the only real number. So I I it took me a while to come up with that. I hope it's worth it, Brian.

[00:27:38]Sorry.

[00:27:38]>> No, it's money. Love every bit of it. I love Ichiro. Most hits of all time if you include his stuff in Japan. Absolute stud. Rocket for an arm. He's a stud.

[00:27:45]Love that guy. Plus, he's got a hilarious sense of humor. He's a great guy, man. But beautiful, beautiful analogy. And yeah, of course, no any any number, no matter how large, right? No matter how large, any number multiplied by zero is zero. So you got to avoid the strikeouts. That's what you got to do.

[00:27:59]Avoid the strikeouts. And you can put it in a spreadsheet. Check it out. I mean slow steady compounding over long periods of time even at a modest rate right that flat rate if you're getting it every single year compared to the more volatile rate of return where one year you get 15 or 20% the next year you get zero or the next year you go down 15 or 20%. The slow steady guy that just gets 10% every year eventually wins the game. The it's the it's the it's the whatever what the the rabbit and the turtle whatever the whatever the analogy is right the turtle race the turtle and the tortoise in the hair. There you go.

[00:28:29]It's literally slow and steady wins the race. That's the God's honest truth.

[00:28:32]Real estate is not a get-rich style business over a short period of time with a low probability of success. Real estate is a build massive amounts of wealth over a very long period of time with a very high probability of success.

[00:28:43]But you actually have to be an investor.

[00:28:46]You can't speculate. If you do that eventually, you're going to get burned.

[00:28:48]It's going to hurt everybody dearly, yourself, your family. That's my personal perspective on the topic. I love it. Phenomenal background here.

[00:28:54]You've done a myriad of things, but given, you know, the background, the track record, all the things that you have done and are currently doing, what what is all of this ultimately for? What is this ultimately for?

[00:29:07]>> I love the terminology of of lifestyle by design, right? It's it's how do we pick the lifestyle that we want? Okay, there there's your end point. How do we get there? Uh [clears throat] for me, and I know we've talked we've talked about Spain, we've talked about the wine, we've talked about all the good things, you know, in our various conversations we've had together, but uh one of the things that I haven't really talked about was my my son. He his name's Winston. He's 9 years old. Um just an absolute spitfire of a child. I have no idea where he got it from me. Um he's um I'm a firm believer that it it's really hard to be um mean to others to be you know a nasty person if you travel the world. Uh I think the minute that you have the opportunity to fly anywhere get on a plane I don't care where it's to uh preferably outside of the United States cuz I think we are very homogeneous here. I understand that the New Yorkers are a little bit different than us Floridaidians. Uh but we are 98% the same. Uh but but go fly to Spain, go fly to Italy, go you know go go anywhere, go to Germany, right? They are all fundamentally different than us.

[00:30:13]Maybe 90%. Um but it's all about [snorts] when we got to this point, how do I design what I want my son to get out of this this wealth, this richness that we've created? And for him, it it's to see other cultures. is to to eat other food eventually to drink other wine, right? To go and learn from other people just like I try and do and educate others. But I want him to be able to experience as much as he possibly can in the world because I think that's going to shape the way that he designs his lifestyle, right? And and I want him to at least see the whole the world as it is. Go to Japan and see how they think about things differently than we do. Neither one of us is right.

[00:30:56]Neither one of us is wrong.

[00:30:58]go see how they do it. Design your life to be able to do that. And I think travel is that one thing that man, if if if I can use what I've accumulated by designing this lifestyle to push that on to him, I I'm an extremely proud father already, but man, that just pushes that to the next level of of success for me is investing in my son and obviously my wife and everything else. But if I can focus that on him and help him become a world citizen, I've done my job, right?

[00:31:27]I I I I did it. I checked the box as a dad and I'm ready to, you know, do the do the victory lap and retire in my rocking chair.

[00:31:35]>> Absolutely love that vision. Um, of course, I think each of us individually aspires to provide more to the next generation than we had when we were growing up. I share the sentiment. I I will confess that one of my fears is ultimately given the fact that we've been able to create some semblance of wealth over time and we will provide them with these unique opportunities that you know the children will um not know for want and trying to instill in them the idea of hard work and and try to avoid spoiling the kiddos along the way while they experience all these amazing things. Walk me through your thoughts on that. How do you how do you juggle these two things of wanting to provide simultaneously the most unbelievably profound lifestyle by design that you possibly can for your next generation while also ensuring that you're not um setting them up for failure by spoiling them along the way?

[00:32:28]>> Yeah, great question. And if I if I had the answer, I feel like I should write a book here and uh and sell it for millions and millions of dollars. Uh it since since we're admitting our fears that it's identical to mine. Uh I I grew up scraping by uh in Houston, you know, the reason why I joined the Air Force was because it it was a financial decision, you know, I had to get out of Houston. I had to make something for myself. Uh you know, and and I went through it. Uh you know, and uh my my son doesn't have to, you know, he he has lived on the on the right side of the tracks. He does not suffer from want by any means. Um it is it is a daily balance for us of ensuring that not everything's tied to money. All right there money does not make you a better person. Often times it makes you a worse person. Um but those of us that you know do it the right way and we give back to charity and we invest our time in teaching others and doing what we can.

[00:33:29]There's no shame in having wealth. But man, I wish I wish you would use it appropriately. That'd be great. Um, but it's it's a daily struggle that, you know, I I walk him through the fact that I'm never going to give you mom and my money. It it is our money. We earn that money. It is not yours. Will he get inheritance? Absolutely. Right. If we don't burn it all on wine, yes, he will get inheritance. Is he going to get some of the properties? Yes. I've already earmarked one of our um quadplexes for him, but it's not his today, right? It it is it's his wealth that he's building. He is a uh his trust is uh an owner in in every LP investment that we make. Um so, he will ultimately have that ability, but I continue to instill in him that small business is an incredible way to go. And if you ever get to that point in your life that you want to start a small business, that's where dad gets to come in and give you a really big interestfree loan that if you don't pay this thing back, so be it. I I I don't It's not about the money. But if you need seed money to not be afraid to go bust your butt and make it happen, and you need more seed money and more seed money, I will give and give and give until it hurts.

[00:34:44]As long as you're trying, as long as you're pushing forward. And I think I think my final point on this is they model what we do. And while I try not to work as hard as as I possibly can, right? It's always like, "Okay, how do I show him I'm putting in the work, but I'm still being a family man. I'm still being a dad." They see every bit of that. Unfortunately, he repeats everything I say, right? We have to say, "These are car words. We don't say those words at school, right? That's that's dad getting yelling at the people. We don't say those words. That's in here.

[00:35:20]You can say these words in this box.

[00:35:22]Don't say those outside of this box. Uh but it's just I think it's a modeling thing. I think you have to just do what you can and explain to them that money does not uh mean you're a better person.

[00:35:32]Some people don't have money. You know, it it is what it is. But we're going to work as hard as we can. Give as much as we can. You know, give until it hurts is one of my favorite things, you know. But I I don't know the answer, Brian. I I really don't. Uh it's it's other than my family safety is my number one concern in life is raising a spoiled brat. Um who's who's you know at 18 years old is going to come to me and say I don't want to get a job. I'm rich. Like >> you're not [laughter] you're not rich at all.

[00:35:59]>> You're not. Mom and dad have done rich.

[00:36:02]That's okay.

[00:36:03]>> The the way that I like to try to phrase it I and again I don't know I have all the answers. I don't think any of us do.

[00:36:07]We're all working through this together.

[00:36:09]This crazy journey called life. The way I phrase it is I don't want to rob my children from the ability to become self-made because I know what it did for me like you said to start a small business to work exceedingly hard to overcome enormous amounts of adversity over and over and over and fail forward over and over and over and just like bat 300.

[00:36:31]What does that mean? I failed seven out of 10 times and I stepped back up to the plate as if I was the best thing since sliced bread. You have to have that mindset and it just makes you a better man to have that backbone to continue to persist over and over and over. So I would not want to rob my next of kin of the opportunity to go do that for themselves. And so I haven't solved that riddle, but the closest I've come to it in modeling it was JP Kennedy who ultimately built the Kennedy dynasty in his book the patriarch outlines kind of what he did for his family where the wealth that he amassed in the dynasty trust that you're referencing, he did not provide that income to his kids until they were 36 years old. And it forced the kiddos from the time they were 22, paid for their education, but from the time they're 22 to 35, they got to go do their own thing. And by the time that they're that age, you know, if these are unbelievably phenomenal upstanding citizens or if they're going down the wrong tracks and also they know in that decade of late adolescence and early adulthood that they have the freedom that you're talking about. You go start a business, dad's going to give you a pretty good loan for that. Okay, please do. Right? You know, you have that freedom, a little safety net. you know that we'll be there if it really gets hard. If you're pushing as hard as you possibly can, you know that in the back of your mind overtly though, it's on you, right? It's on you. Go figure it out. So, anyway, this is my my contention. The best that I've seen so far. So, we'll keep it ripping. But I hope that that um adds value for for somebody out there. You've got such an amazing background, an amazing journey, and what I say is an amazing vision, an amazing vision of what you want to achieve with your family moving forward, right? um expat traveling to Europe now residing in Spain. I think you're a multiple uh country citizenship and then eventually potentially going to Italy downstream. I know a little bit about the background. It's beautiful, buddy.

[00:38:14]Um what is your paint the picture of your ideal day? Paint the picture of your ideal day.

[00:38:20]>> Thank you, by the way, for the compliment. It's it's um it's fun to hear other people say it, right? When you when you when you've you've busted your tail for so long and you're like, "Oh, actually, no, that's pretty cool."

[00:38:31]Um, [laughter] >> you should be proud, man.

[00:38:34]>> I ideal day. Um, running the Italian bed and breakfast. So, Spain is kind of that hop skip. Uh, I I told I tell everybody Europe's cool. Two, you know, 2 hours on a plane, you can be in, I don't know, 10, 15 countries. I don't know. Count them out. There's a lot. Um, ideal day is tying kind of everything together.

[00:38:54]And I feel like people are going to think I'm a wino here, but o owning an Italian bed and breakfast where I bring over um global citizens, Americans, right? People who think like I do that the world's a great place and we should see others and we should talk and we should embrace cultures and we should we should fight and we should love and we should be all everything in between. But it it is to wake up. it is to run that small business with 0% focus on making another dime. You know, can can I pay for my expenses for the day?

[00:39:29]Educating those people, those guests, should they want it, driving them around the small towns, letting them meet the locals, teaching them about finances and wine or whatever that may be.

[00:39:40]>> [snorts] >> uh hanging out with the family and doing it again, you know, and then, you know, when it's when it's summertime, we're like, "Oh, it's too hot in Italy, we fly to Sweden, we go to Denmark, we go somewhere that's significantly cooler or we go we go, you know, on the other side of the equator where we're where, you know, it's winter and we have that freedom because of the lifestyle by design that we can do whatever we want."

[00:40:01]But, uh, it just goes back to the fact of like I I just want to continue to educate as much as I can. I want to learn everybody's other c all the other cultures and learn as much as I can from other people. Maybe get in a fight in Spanish or Italian, right? That would be so fun to fight in a different language.

[00:40:18]U just, you know, doing things that that are just kind of goofy and and and setting the alarm clock because I want to get up, not because I had an 8 a.m.

[00:40:27]meeting, a 7 a.m. meeting of work. I want to set the alarm clock because I want to get up. I want to clean my establishment. and I want to make sure that I'm ready, that I'm mentally prepared to teach that next lesson, whatever it may be. If I'm a professor or I just run a shop. Um, it's just teaching others, setting my own schedule, going wherever the heck I want to go in the world. Um, and, you know, taking my family and friends along with me and in hopes that, hey, man, if you can afford a plane ticket, I'll give you free free food, free housing, you know, the week, the two weeks, whatever it takes. But, man, come see the world, right? Come come see it. Even if you get to see this small piece of Italy while I'm there, uh, at least you at least you made it there. At least you made it over the Atlantic and you can say, "I've now been to Europe, right? That's that's a huge win for me." And pick pick whatever you want. If it's not Europe, pick some other place. You don't have to love Europe like I do. That doesn't matter to me one bit. Maybe it's Australia for you, right? That's what I want for for US citizens because I think it's becoming more and more rare that we're not traveling outside of our own borders. And I think that's that's something that I'd love to encourage as I move forward.

[00:41:34]>> Thank you for dropping so much amazing knowledge here, buddy. And we'll round out with this one question. Okay. If somebody could only remember one sage piece of investment advice from your entire life, all of the experience that you've had along the way, what would that one piece of sage investment wisdom be?

[00:41:51]>> I I'm telling people to lean into those who have done it before you. So the the young Adam didn't want to listen to others, right? You Oh, you you're sage cuz you're old. Well, I'm a sage cuz I'm young. I I wasn't. I had no idea what I was doing. The blood, the sweat, the tears, and a decade of work is what what it took me. Um that one piece of sage advice is lean into the network.

[00:42:19][snorts] Look at others for guidance.

[00:42:21]Don't ever be afraid to ask the dumb questions. they they are, you know, it's a silly saying if there are no dumb questions. There are, in fact, dumb questions, but don't be afraid to ask them, right? So, lean into that. Go to your network and and ask them how it's done. Um, it's surprising to me the number of people I've gone to in my life, [clears throat] excuse me, that I've asked for those dumb questions. No, nobody sought to take my money. Nobody sought to, you know, say, "No, I'm not doing that." It could be a no, not right now. But they always come back. So you're some people are always willing to help other people. Most humans are pretty awesome, especially people in this industry.

[00:43:00]We are a nerdy group of real estate people of syndication people of LPs that like to talk about this stuff. I I you know I I don't care about the money on this side of it. My entire intent in life, if I can put something on my gravestone, it would be that you know, Adam enjoyed teaching others, right? and and hopefully someone somewhere learned something. Be it, you know, I love to teach about wine. I love to teach about real estate. I love to teach about money. Any of those things. If I have that one piece of advice, though, is is lean into the network. Ask the dumb questions and learn from learn from what they tell you. Just listen. You don't have to take all the advice, but maybe listen to some of it. Right? 18-year-old me, if I could go back, man, I could have saved a lot of heartbreak if I would have just taken that sage advice and just listened to some of my uh some of my folks who had been there before me. That would have been a big change for me.

[00:43:51]>> I I I couldn't agree more. Love every bit of it. That resonates with me. I share the sentiment, Adam. What a wonderful conversation. And thank you so much for sharing all of that wisdom with us here today. I I tell you what, I will take you up on that advice about wine and that recommendation. I'll need that at some point. So hopefully in the not too distant future, I'll be able to take you up on that. But for today, we'll get the heck out of here, guys. Until next time, you'd be great. You know what I appreciated most about this conversation with Adam is that it it brings investing back to the real question. What was it all for? What is this all for? It's easy to get caught up in the size of the nest egg, the projected return, or the next deal. But Adam's story is a reminder that cash flow is not just a financial metric. It is a fear reducer. It is an option creator. It is what can give a family the confidence to move, to travel, to teach, to build, and to live with much more intention. There were a few really key ideas that are worth sitting with here. First, your freedom number may be smaller than you think. If passive income can ultimately cover the real cost of your life, the game changes. Second, once you've built a really solid base, the priority shifts.

[00:45:05]You do not need to keep swinging for home runs. Sometimes the wiser move is steady cash flow, lower downside, and fewer strikeouts. And third, wealth is not just something that you transfer. It is something that you model. Adam's point about teaching his son through work, travel, generosity, and exposure to the world is exactly the kind of legacy thinking we want to highlight here. So the takeaway, it's not just invest for cash flow. The deeper takeaway is know what you're trying to buy with that cash flow. For most of us, the answer is not more money. It is time. It is freedom. It is family and the ability to live the life that you actually designed. Play life on offense.

[00:45:52]With that, we'll get out of here for today, guys. Until next time, you be