Women - "i don't Need No MAN!!!!" how women use men

Added: 2026-05-10

[00:00:04]Welcome back to Chow Time Pods. You're host. I get views today from Dr. Aurora Teraban.

[00:00:11]I'm Dr. Orion Taban and this is Psychax Better Living Through Psychology. And the topic of today's short talk is I don't need a man. So, it turns out that certain people generally women can take offense at some of my content. And one of the things that per >> which is crazy because how the doc lays everything out is very you know scholarlike very you know that he's not attacking anybody in a sense he's just pointing out data points seems to get under a lot of people's skin is my use of numbers to describe women's physical attractiveness. Apparently this is objectifying misogynistic abusive etc. And it's actually none of these things.

[00:00:55]>> Nope.

[00:00:55]>> And it's fairly easy to demonstrate why >> in the first place, women can and do evaluate men in the same way. I mean, that's what evaluate means.

[00:01:08]>> I mean, it's just they don't really use these number systems or these tier systems the same way we do, but it's almost the same system in a sense because it's all tiered. It's layered.

[00:01:20]It's people at the bottom, people at the top. So, it's just always a tier system.

[00:01:25]>> It means to assign a value to. The only difference is that women typically don't use concrete numbers. Yeah.

[00:01:33]>> They use abstract quantities. The thought process behind phrases like, "He's not good enough, you could do better," or, "He's an upgrade," >> all require women to perceive hierarchies of value in men, correct, >> to have any meaning whatsoever.

[00:01:52]>> That's why we say it. Everybody judges.

[00:01:55]I'm Judgy McJudson. I say it all the time. As soon as I see someone, I'm going to judge them. What they're wearing, how fat they are, how tall they are. I mean, height has nothing to do with much, but there's still some judgment value that still gets put on someone because of their height. So, we can't get away from it.

[00:02:16]>> And a behavior that is common to both genders, but is only a problem when one gender does it probably shouldn't be labeled as sexism.

[00:02:25]>> That would be kind of like arguing that only white people can be racist or something ridiculous like that.

[00:02:31]>> True. In any case, as I explained, >> I mean, I'm sure that's actual an actual argument, though. So, >> in chapter one of my book, the evaluation mechanism is baked in to human neurosychology, just like logic.

[00:02:47]>> I say it all the time. We're all judggers.

[00:02:50]>> We need it to survive. And it because it literally lets us know what we should approach and what we should avoid with respect to achieving our self-relevant goals. Without the valuation mechanism, everything would kind of be equally good and equally bad, which would make it extremely difficult to navigate through life.

[00:03:13]>> True. Like we couldn't even rely on emotional reactions as our emotions generally contain approach avoid behavior stimuli that are rooted in the evaluation mechanism. It would just be instinct or machine learning.

[00:03:28]>> Ranking women is also completely grounded in the empirical literature like almost by definition. How do you think any study that researches physical attractiveness measures physical attractiveness? Oh yeah, like scales >> often on a scale of 1 to 10. Like that's how researchers know who's attractive and who's not. And it turns out women are differentially attractive to men.

[00:03:58]Yep. And the strange belief that possess the popular imagination that all women are equally beautiful irrespective of their physical attributes.

[00:04:06]>> They all say that because they don't want to hurt any of each other's feelings. But ladies, some of you guys are ugos. You got to admit it about your friends.

[00:04:15]>> Only survived from like the ascent of wokeness in 2015 to the creation of Ompic in 2025, which granted is still a long time to be deprived of sanity. In any case, using a numerical scale to evaluate female attractiveness is an empirically supported methodology.

[00:04:35]But my fundamental point for this episode is that women >> are just as guilty of objectifying >> I feel like they're worse. It's objectifying us for our money and the potential of what we can earn.

[00:04:48]>> Men than men are of objectifying women.

[00:04:51]In fact, women might be more guilty as their objectification is much more prevalent and hidden in plain sight. And the most common way this is expressed is something that I hear over and over and over again from women who take issue with my content. Namely, I don't need a man. Why would I ever ever serve a man?

[00:05:15]Why would I ever ever provide value to him? I'm not his mommy. I'm not his slave. I don't need a man.

[00:05:24]>> Again, so many women think this way because college indoctrinated these women into thinking this way. I'm sure a lot of women grew up wanting families, wanting, you know, playing with dolls, doing very feminine things. And then college and high school, I'm sure even high school had something to do with it, plus society slowly masculize women.

[00:05:48]And because you've probably heard this yourself, you can help me with this next part. Why don't these women need a man?

[00:05:57]Like, what always, always, always comes after this? Help me fill in the blank.

[00:06:02]I'm strong, independent.

[00:06:05]Oh, I can do all better by myself. Is that the one he's going to >> I don't need a man because what do women say? I don't need a man because I already have plenty of love and support.

[00:06:19]>> No.

[00:06:20]>> No.

[00:06:21]>> I make my own.

[00:06:22]>> Do they say, "Well, I don't need a man because I already have regular consistent sex."

[00:06:28]>> No, that's not it either. Oh, do they say I don't need a man because I already have a constant companion with whom to share my life?

[00:06:38]No, that's not it either.

[00:06:40]You know how the statement always, always, always ends, don't you? What these women always say is, "I don't need a man >> because I have my own money. I can pay my own bills. Thank you very much."

[00:06:58]You see, this is how women tell on themselves.

[00:07:02]>> Yeah. They just objectified men into ATMs. If you don't need a man because you have your own money, then what does that tell you? Women think they need a man for >> money.

[00:07:15]>> I mean, these are their own words here.

[00:07:18]>> Yes.

[00:07:19]>> If you don't need a man because you can pay your own bills, the implication is that if you couldn't, then you would need one. And in this way, men are objectified as financially exploitable resources. And this is much much much more common than the objectification of women as sexually exploitable resources.

[00:07:43]Like I have never ever heard a man say on TV, in a movie, in a song, I don't need a woman because I can make myself orgasm. Thank you very much.

[00:07:56]>> I mean, we are very good at our own orgasm. I I can admit this.

[00:08:02]Like have you I mean can you can you even imagine?

[00:08:08]Here's the thing >> is him saying that it's just like ridiculous in its own.

[00:08:14]>> Men can and do utilize women's physical fitness in their mate selection process which can and does result in the objectification of women. And women can and do utilize men's financial fitness, their resources, their lifestyle in their mate selection process, which can and does result in the objectification of men, >> of course.

[00:08:38]>> And you know what my advice is to both men and women who choose to become upset over this?

[00:08:44]>> Get over it.

[00:08:46]>> Get over it.

[00:08:47]>> My doc. My doc.

[00:08:50]>> Get over it.

[00:08:51]>> Right. This has been going on for hundreds of thousands of years. It is baked into our biology. It is so invisible in our culture that most people, unless they go out looking for it, don't even notice it happening.

[00:09:08]>> True.

[00:09:08]>> It is not going anywhere because it's just the way it is. And you know what?

[00:09:16]That's okay. Like a >> you just got to be able to to know what's going on. take the red pill and navigate through life the way you want to live. That's the whole point of all of this.

[00:09:28]>> Evaluating each other might not actually be bad, wrong, or immoral. Those are all judgments that people choose to place on top of reality. And that's not actually something that they have to do. In fact, if you're going to apply judgments, there's probably more evidence that evaluating each other might actually be good in that. I mean, that's all of mate selection, right? Do you want a horrible mate? Are you just going to mate with any random regular dear ugo or something out there? No. You're going to select for very specific features, very specific traits and very specific like goals and aspirations of a person.

[00:10:14]>> That it facilitates the perpetuation of the human species by guiding individual reproductive behavior in the direction of health and safety cues that increase the likelihood of offspring survival. So >> yeah, skinny wife equals probably likely to have a lot of a lot of children and stay healthy for a while. Oh, you know there's that.

[00:10:35]>> In any case, that's what I got for you today. Any woman who doesn't need a man because she has money inadvertently reveals that she believes that that is what men are good for. Otherwise, the existence of her assets would be entirely irrelevant. Stay safe out there, boys. What do you think? Does this fit with your own experience? Let me know in the comments below. And please send this episode to someone who you think might benefit from its message. Shout outs to the Doc when he did the I was just like, "Wait, did he copy that for me?" Nah, probably not. He probably doesn't watch my my videos or anything, but shout outs to the doc.

[00:11:09]Always wonderful takes, you know, I learned so much. I don't cover him as much because I used to cover him a lot, but most of you guys didn't really enjoy the content. So, but I always see important content that he does, so I try to shove it in every so often. Please like, subscribe, comment down below. I really appreciate that. And catch you guys next time. Ciao.