Why Some White Women Say They Won't Date Black Men.

[00:00:01]So, do y'all know that phrase, once you  go black, you never go back? Yeah. Um, that actually means once you go black,  you never actually go back to them.

[00:00:18]I don't know. Like, just the way they are, they're  just too extra. Like, I should just do that.

[00:00:24]To all you people saying that I wouldn't be with  Isaac if he wasn't rich, you're stupid. I wouldn't be with him if he wasn't an NFL player. Get it  right next time. You guys know, you guys know I'm I'm very open about this. I like 6'4, brownkinned,  tatted up dreads. That's my type. But hear me out.

[00:00:45]Hear me out. Outside of sex with them, they [ __ ]  suck. rather date the quarterback or the star of the basketball team. Star of the quarterback.  I'm not into black eyes anymore. What black eyes do you? I don't know. They're just like two. I  can't say that. I can't say that. I can't. People started judging me in the comments that I only  choose a man based on genetic material. Blue eyes, white skin, tall, blonde. you know, easy for you  to say because most likely your characteristics have dominant genes like black skin, brown eyes.  And I never said that this characteristics are bad. I just said that those are not my preference.  I personally would not have children with a black man. I want my child to have be raised in a loving  household with a present father and especially a working father so that I can stay home and take  care of my kids because I want the school system raising my kids. What would you rather date a  white guy or a black guy? I like white boys. So why a white guy and not a black guy? I like the  flowy hair. They're easier to like manipulate.

[00:01:58][laughter] What's your type? I've dated Puerto  Ricans and whites. You never date a black guy? No.

[00:02:05]Would you be open to doing that? I don't know. I'm  kind of scared. Scared? You're scared? A little bit. You're worried I might be a little a little  big. No, I'm worried they might cheat on me. I did not expect that. Black men don't cheat. That's  what I've heard. You think that uh they you may get cheated on? Yeah. That could have gone better.  There's one race you would not date. Black. Yeah, two. Yes, very black. Why? Because they shout  when they speak. It's uncommon to see to see black people very angry people. What's one race you  would not date? Black guys. Why? Um I can't handle it. Handle what? You know, I don't know. All of  it. Okay. What's your type? Like brown Mexican boys. [music] Really? Yeah. Not black. Black.  What race would you not date? [music] Really?

[00:03:05]Yeah. Rate me 1 to 10 then. A five. Average. Okay.  Okay. Okay. You like snow bunnies? Do you not like racist ass? How? It's a type. You got to like  black people nowadays. The [ __ ] Why don't you stop me? Um, no. I'm not even that scary.  Yeah. Well, like Yeah. Sometimes sometimes you guys are a little scary. Scary. What about the  lights? No. You're telling me you don't like Chase? No. You don't like Chris Brown? [clears  throat] No. What? You like Justin Bieber? Uh, no. Not even that. Not him. No, because  he's kind of a wigger, you know. A wig?

[00:03:52]Wow. A [laughter] I don't go for black guys.  I'll date you. Tall 680 black man. I don't go for black guys. I've never been with a white  guy. You know it's a first time for everything, right? First time for everything. But it's never  going to happen. Sweetheart, what are you talking about? You're so tall. If you were like white,  I would. That's got to be racist. [music] Just a type. Everyone has a type. Okay. If you  were the whole point of me taking you out, my whole point of period is to show you my  type of life. What I want you to be a part of. That's the whole point of Brady Bunch.  Are you serious? I'm good on you. I want to be with you. I'm good on you. You still want to  be with her. I'm good. Go ahead. [clears throat] This is [laughter] your thought. You supposed to  have family. What the you doing with this stupid part of our family? That kind of stupid.  And they going to sit there and do that.

[00:04:41]That's stupid. So stupid. Come [laughter] on,  man. Why y'all entertaining this? Because what the entertaining? This is ridiculous. Like, I  cannot believe. And then he going [laughter] to sit there. He going to argue with them. Like this  is stupid. You do we not give you enough and then you like black and then a black [ __ ] to top it  off with a attitude and a damn mouth like every other black [ __ ] What the can? So some white  women are proudly saying that they would never date a black man. But why is it just personal  preference or is there something deeper? Hi guys, welcome back to unfiltered for you stories.  Now, Tik Tok is exploding with white women sharing and saying that they can never date  a black man. Some of them have dated them and it seems the experience wasn't good. But  also down in the comments of those clips, it's an absolute battlefield. And of course, some  people are uploading them while others are calling them out for stereotypes and double standards.  So, we are going to be reacting to these clips, break down the arguments, and asking one  question. Why do some people feel the need to announce who they would never date? Grab  your popcorns because this conversation is about to get interesting. Let's jump into it. And  remember to subscribe if you're new here. Don't forget to share your thoughts in the comments.  Rather date the quarterback or the star of the basketball team? Star of the basketball.  Quarterback. I'm not black eyes anymore.

[00:06:13]What black guys do you? I don't know. They're  just like too I can't say that. I can't say that. I can't [music] for TV. It's totally  fine. They're like ghetto. I just like it.

[00:06:25][laughter] Oh, good heavens. Nah, these are the type  of girls y'all like. Like, [laughter] nah, no offense to any Caucasian lady or Caucasian woman out there. [music] You feel  me? that y'all not my preference, but like no offense to y'all, but this is  what y'all [ __ ] like. Like, [laughter] nah, you see how she said it? Yeah. No,  she she they don't [ __ ] with y'all for real. I'm not going to lie. A  lot of times when they see us, all they see is a piece of meat, bro.  I'm not going to lie to you. Now, this is not every Caucasian person. Don't you  feel me? Let's be smart. Let's use our brains.

[00:07:05]I'm not talking about every single one of them.  But most of them are kind of like this. [laughter] And I'm saying this from experience because I've  gone to an all-white school or predominantly white school, so I know what the hell I'm talking  about. Bro, this is how most of them think of us.

[00:07:20]Like even if you're the most nerdiest black kid,  you still the same [ __ ] It doesn't matter, bro.

[00:07:29]I don't know. Like just the way they are, they're  just too extra. Like I didn't do that. I don't know. I was tagged in this and I don't really  see a problem with it. It's her preference.

[00:07:38]is probably what she's deal dealt with. She's  probably dealt with men that are very emotional that that are black. There are some men in the  black community that are very emotional. Are there reasons behind it? Yes, but I'm not about to  talk about it. You also have the conversation cuz if you go in the comment section of that video,  you see a whole bunch of women talking about, "Oh my god, now they know how it feels." It's the  truth. Some men are more emotional than others.

[00:08:04]It's the same way I could say. I can't really say  it because it's generalizing all people, but you could say Latinos are crazy. It's a known, it's  not a known fact, but from my past experience, if I'm dealing with a Latina, you know they're  going to be crazy. You know, you can't play with them. You know, you might get killed for doing  something wrong. They not someone to play with.

[00:08:25]Everyone has a preference. Everyone has their  opinion. It doesn't mean I'm about to get offended over it. Okay. To all you people saying that I  wouldn't be with Isaac if he wasn't rich, you're stupid. I wouldn't be with him if he wasn't an NFL  player. Get it right next time. This is insane.

[00:08:47]This is insane.

[00:08:53]And we wouldn't have these  problems if American African men would get over their low racial  self-esteem and stop bunny hopping.

[00:09:07]Stop bunny hopping.

[00:09:12]Because when the party's over, those white  women are coming to collect. Oh, they're going to collect. They're either going to take your  money or take your good name. Oh, they're going to collect when it's over. When the party's over,  the snow bunny is coming to collect. She's going to collect money or she's going to collect your  name. You're going to pay for swimming in that yogurt. So, what's your name?  Aya. Okay. I'm Stephen. It's a pleasure to meet you. You might do  a 360 for the people real quick.

[00:09:57]It's like a 180* 2. So, it's 360. I like to make  the rules. I like to make the rules. Oh, you like being in charge. I miss ma'am. I miss ma'am. All  right. So, look. What we're trying to figure out is when you're dating guys, does he have to be 6'  for you? He doesn't have to be, but if he's not, he has to like have something more. So be sure  he's got to have like a personality or money.

[00:10:19]Like what's the what's the things he needs to make  up for? Personality, money. Exactly. You know, other things. Oh, other other things. Other  things. [laughter] Hey, she kept it P though. How much money does a guy should should a guy make?  Like what what's the best deal? More than me. Uh six figures. Six figures. Yeah. So if he's making  like the same or slightly above or absolutely same thing. Okay. No exceptions. No exceptions  on that. Damn. Like physically when you see a guy like what you like? Uh athletic. Athletic?  Yeah. Okay. Okay. Are you usually like what's your ex? You like white guys, Latinos, black guys?  What's usually your type? The black eyes. Damn it.

[00:10:58]What do you mean by that? It's rare out here. I  don't hear that often. Really? Yeah. I'm trying to switch it up, you know. Oh, wait. You trying  to get off the black? Yes. Wait, what happened? I lied. I lied. No, I I think I know what happened.  He was probably what, like 6'2 plus, probably some sort of athlete or something like that, and  thought he was just disrespectful. See, you know, there's actually a study from Duke University  that said guys under 6 foot statistically have better relationships than guys over. I believe  that. What's your name? Madison. Madison. Yeah.

[00:11:31]I like your outfit, Madison. Thank you. Where you  from? Texas. Look, like Austin, Dallas is a Dallas woman. What's your type of a man physically? A  gym guy. tattoo, piercings, blue eyes. You got to be white. You know what I'm saying? And tan skin.  Okay. It's either a light skin or a white boy for me. Light skins or white boy? That's for me. Yeah,  I knew it. What about the dark skins? Any dark skin love this year? There are players. I'm not  dealing with that. Light skins aren't. No. You're a liar. I'm guessing height's important for you  when you're dead. Yeah, it is. What's the minimum height you can work with? He has to be six foot  and up. I can't even care. I can't go any lower.

[00:12:12]My ex was short and I'm not about it. That's just  one person though. You know what I'm saying? Like I know, but I want to be wearing heels and I want  him to be taller. Yeah. So I'm guessing my height will bother you with heels. Yeah. So what if my  height was in other areas? Oh. Um would that make up for it or heels? No. Damn. Damn. Damn. Damn.  So, do y'all know that phrase, once you go black, you never go back? Yeah. Um, that actually means  once you go black, you never actually go back to them. Okay. That's what that means. Because I've  been with nothing but black men my entire life and I can honestly say worst decision ever. Okay. If  I could go back in time, I would. And uh that's something I would definitely change is being with  a black man. Okay? My dad used to always tell me, "You need to be with a white man. You need to  have white kids, blah, blah, blah." And I would always be like, "Um, no." Because I liked black  men, but I should have listened. So, if you are a white girl and you're considering being with a  black man, I would honestly think long and hard about that one. I ain't going to lie. When I see  the preferences talking like this, I'll be like, "That's what you get." Because it's so many women  that get on this app and tell y'all what's going on. And [clears throat] then there's a few men out  here that step up and tell y'all what's going on, too. But y'all don't listen. Y'all be  listening to black men tell y'all that, you know, y'all more submissive and this why  they respect you more and y'all be listening and blah blah blah. and then you get left with  a baby or you get done wrong because you thought that you was gonna get treated better because you  were sold a lie. That what you get. Like when it come to stuff like this, situation like this with  the preferences, I just say that's what you get, bro. Yeah. Talking about once you go black,  you never go back to them. Well, when women when black women were trying to tell you to not go  black at all, you decided to come over here. You decided to not listen to your dad. All right. If  black women telling you what their experiences is with black men, then why do y'all be thinking that  you going to get some type of special treatment?

[00:14:45]How many examples do you need in order for you  to start listening to them? Should have listened to your dad, too. People started judging me in the  comments that I only choose a man based on genetic material. Blue eyes, white skin, tall, blonde. You  know, easy for you to say because most likely your characteristics have dominant jeans like black  skin, brown eyes. And I never said that these characteristics are bad. I just said that those  are not my preference. My probably I have to put a disclaimer [laughter] on every video because  everybody is so offended also like your child will definitely look like you. You have dominant  jeans. If you have blue eyes and blonde hair, you have to go for somebody who has blue eyes and  blonde hair because otherwise your child won't look like you. Imagine I carry this child for nine  month 9 months, go through all the tortures in the world and then he doesn't even look like me. No  thank you. Like I don't want that. You guys know you guys know I'm I'm very open about this.  I like 6'4 brown skininned tatted up dreads.

[00:16:03]That's my type. But hear me out. Hear me out.  Outside of sex with them, they [ __ ] suck. They suck. They have no personality. They cannot carry  a conversation. We get it. If you wouldn't have torn your ACL 7 years ago, you would have gone to  the league. No, I don't want to watch your high school highlight tape. No, I don't want to smoke  weed. And no, I don't want to play 2K. Literally, you heard it here. You heard it first, out of  her own mouth. This is what I mean when I say white women don't really like black men. They  have a fetish for black men. A fullblown fetish.

[00:16:48][clears throat] Because she even said out of her  own mouth, "Yeah, that's my type." But that's her type physically. That's the type she likes to  have sex with. That's the type that she likes to pull out her fantasies with. Fetish. You don't  like him for real. You just like the way he look and you like the way that he he beat the duties  down. That's that's that's what it is for you.

[00:17:10]Fetish. Fetish. And it's always so crazy because  the type of black men that go for white women like that are always the one that are like, "See, this  is why I date white women because white women are so much better. They do things so much better.  Better better. Better better." Yeah. [ __ ] black women. All about white women. You have  snow buddies. They don't like your ass either.

[00:17:32]Baby, they don't like you either. For real. They  don't like you either. Like you sitting up, you sitting up here saying how much you don't [ __ ]  with black women. [ __ ] black women. Black women this black women that talking so ill about them.  When in all reality, these black women don't like you either for real. They don't. They fetishize  over you. They like the fantasy of you, the thought of you. They don't like you for real. They  don't like you for real. But also to her points, and I can say this because I'm a black woman and  I only deal with black men. I personally myself, I don't date outside my race. People who do,  do you. But me personally, if it ain't black, I don't want it. Okay? So, I can attest to  this because I only mess with black men.

[00:18:13]I hate to say that she has a point. I hate to  say that she has a point. A lot of black men, which really bothers me and hurts me because a  lot of black men do have more to offer, but they don't put it out there that they have more to  offer or they don't try to have more to offer.

[00:18:27]A lot of black men lead with their pockets or  with their looks. Cuz when I look for a partner, what I'm looking for are your morals, your  values, your spiritual outlook, how you handle things emotionally, how you are mentally, how do  you feel about mental health? Like what? A lot of factors go into how you are as a father,  as a person, you know, a man in this world.

[00:18:53]And a lot of black men think, "Well, I got money  and I look good." I I don't give a [ __ ] what you got cuz I can get that for myself. How are  you as a person? Cuz guess what? You could have a million dollars today and lose all that [ __ ]  tomorrow. If I left you after you lost that [ __ ] I was literally only with you for the money. I  didn't I wasn't with you for you. Which means I didn't truly like you. Like that white woman  said, she with you for the dick. She don't truly like you. She was with you for the dick, which  is sad. that in itself. And I really hate that she made a good point because [ __ ] her making a  point on black men. Honestly, I hate that. I hate that she made a good point, but it's true. A lot  of y'all have nothing to offer for real. And I know a lot of people are going to be like, well, a  lot of guys are going to be like, "Well, you make all these [ __ ] excuses." No. When it comes  to a relationship, what do you have to offer?

[00:19:46]You always ask a woman what she has to offer, and  you go to materialistic things. I don't look for materialistic [ __ ] I don't because materialistic  things could be here today and gone tomorrow. How is your mental? How is your emotional? What are  your morals? What are your values? How are you as a person and a partner and a father? That's what  I want to know. Cuz if all those things are good, everything else is just going to fall into place.  Everything else is just going to fall into place.

[00:20:14]And this is why I want black men to just be  better and think more highly of themselves and think better of themselves. So stupid ass ticks  like this won't be a thing because you're better than that black man. I know you are. I know you  are. I know you are. So I need you to get that way in me. So from what we have heard, of course,  each one has a personal preference for whom they want to date or whom they want to spend the rest  of their life with. And having a preference isn't bad. But sometimes making your reasons seem like  stereotypes, kind of races, and generalizing a whole group of men is what makes us to wonder like  really was it necessary? We have he had some of them saying that they are not interested in black  men just because of the black men's hair. Like I think black people's hair. Some of them want the  long silk soft hair and not maybe the coiled hair, the curly hair, the dreads or whatever that black  men have on their heads. So nothing can be done about that because that is a natural thing like  that is how people are created. There are some things that you cannot change. Then this reason  that some of them have also shared that they fear to date black men because they may be played.  It's like some of them are saying that black men are cheaters. They are players. I don't know  what some of them based on to give that reason but like we know of course men are men some black  men it is true they are players but this does not mean that all black men are players or all  black men are bound to cheat on you when you date them or when you marry them. So that seems  to be a stereotype about black men. Of course, some are talking about the loudness like they are  saying black men are loud, they shout, they are always angry people. I think this is also another  stereotype because I don't think all black people are like that or I don't think all black men are  like that. It depends on how someone is brought up and it also depends on the situation at hand. One  there is scared of the BBC. That is just a fetish and a stereotype. While others are ying for the  BBC, they are those who are running away from the BBC. So this world sometimes confuses you. I've  also heard this one a lot. Some white women say they are scared of black men. Is it because of  their appearance? Is it because of their build?

[00:23:20]But I think it is also an influence from history  where they have always said that black men are dangerous. You shouldn't be near them. So some of  them still have that mindset while they are those who maybe had a certain experience with black men  and they're like I'm scared of black men. Again, this one really got me referring to black  men as being ghetto. Those who know ghetto, you know what it means. Maybe the behavior of some  of the black men that she dated before or that she met before. I think we can also say that this is  a stereotype by this white girl. It's not true that all black men are ghetto or all black people  are ghetto. Like I said, having a preference is someone's choice. And some of them who are talking  about not wanting mixed children, that is also a personal preference, just like any other race  that try to protect their own race. Of course, this is a two-way thing. You may see it as racism  at first, but remember some of them they say I can date a black man, but having children with  that black man, I cannot do it because I want my children to have my futures said the blue  eyes totally white skin like totally a white person just like even a black person may say I can  date a white man or a white woman, but I can never have children with a white man or a white woman  because I want my children to be black, to look like me. Then someone is saying that black men are  disrespectful. Like I said, this is generalizing.

[00:25:20]Not all black men are disrespectful. And this is  a funny one really that got me. Some of them just want to have the BBC. They want to have fun but  not wanting black men for long-term relationships because of the reasons that one of them there  gave for example she said outside of the fun there's nothing else that a black man is good at.  I don't know what kind of end she was meeting but how do you generalize that outside the bed a black  man cannot offer you any other thing. This shows that some of these white women are not after  having long-term relationships with black men, but they just want to have fun with them and  waste their time. And we can relate that to this one saying that she wants to get married.  I think she wants to be a traditional wife or a stay at home wife. So, she wants a man who will  go to work and provide for her. as if black men do not have stay at home wives. As if black men  are not providers. Of course, there are those who do not. Just like in any other race, I want  a man who will be a present father. That is also something that she talked about. Of course, that  is a stereotype that is out there also. And yeah, we have those cases. We have seen them. We have  heard women talking about that. But we cannot still generalize that all black men are absentee  fathers or once you date a black man you become a single mom. I think it also depends on the choice  that you make sometimes. But anyway, we don't blame her because it's a stereotype that has been  going on or circulating for a long time. So those are just my personal opinions about what those  white girls and women are sharing or giving as reasons as to why they may never date or can never  date black men. So with that, please share with us what do you think about this. Thank you so much  for staying with me and let's catch up in the next