This Is Why So Many Women Are FAILING Terribly At Dating

[00:00:00]Average men have average lives.

[00:00:01]>> Do I think average >> average men have average lives?

[00:00:05]>> Okay. Yes. I don't see the issue is average women believe that they deserve a better than average life.

[00:00:10]>> That's the problem. Average men accept the fact that they can get an average woman. Average women believe that they deserve a better than average situation.

[00:00:16]They overly watch social media and they compare themselves. The thing about social media and I think that the problem is an emotional person having access to too many people's opinion affects them. They start comparing themselves to what's not going on in their life. A lot of men that I talk to that's having problems in their relationships is because their girl is overly watching someone else's lens too much. They sit there and oh such and such is on vacation and such because I feel like most women are in competition with each other. And I think that your Birkin bag, your Louisville, I would hate it if you got a Pathmark bag if you don't care. But again, your 50und 152,000 $20,000 bag is for other women.

[00:00:49]It's not for me.

[00:00:50]>> It's not for a man because I have never in my life heard a man say, "Yo, I got a bag. She got a Burky bag." I ain't never heard that in my life.

[00:00:56]>> I agree. You ain't never said, "Yo, you see our red bottoms >> bougie heat."

[00:01:00]>> I ain't never heard that in my life.

[00:01:01]>> I agree.

[00:01:02]>> Right. But again, when you sit down and have these logic, I say, "Why do you want those red bottoms?" Because you want to compare and contrast to what's going on selectively in society, what you want to see. Visually, you want to fit the aesthetics of the wealthy.

[00:01:13]Visually, you want to fit the aesthetics of the woman that look like she being kept. Visually, you want to look like you travel out having fun rather than enjoying what's in your household. Most people can't enjoy their household because they're too busy watching other people's houses. That's the problem with social media. It gives uncomfortable people too much access to people too much. You're not secure with yourself and you and you watching everybody and that's a problem with >> I said it to T before we came on and I said I feel like a lot of men right I said to you present themselves >> to be like they have it like that and that's why a lot of women >> feel like they deserve more than they deserve. Right? Like you have a lot of men out here that is like I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that. I'll pay for this. I'll pay for that. And then they set that standard. I'm not saying it's right guys. They set that standard for other men. So you have these women feeling like, well, if he did this, if Tyler did this, I'm not dating Q if he's not even doing that. Feel like every man should do that.

[00:01:59]>> Then you have a bum baby father.

[00:02:01]>> Then you have a bum baby. You have a whole bum baby father. And now you create these diabolical standards.

[00:02:06]>> Mhm.

[00:02:06]>> When you was giving your most intimate prize to a loser and that don't make sense. It don't add up, >> man. Guys, y'all already know we've seen countless things like this. And if you guys want to follow for more, you guys can check him out. So, the gentleman's name here is QA Boss 516. You guys can follow him on he's on Facebook, but he's also on Tik Tok, which is where I got this video, or I'm pretty sure he's on Instagram as well. Cute Boss 516, right?

[00:02:37]And this is a conversation in the advent of social media with comparison and women constantly comparing and women doing these things and they say they do it for men including the BBL has been a long drawn out conversation that women will try to argue and it's basically none of it's done for men at the end of the day. Only time things are done for men is if it's your profession, right?

[00:03:03]If you're in the X industry, if you're a booty clapper, if you're a mattress actress, if you're a professional 304, then you do things for men, right?

[00:03:14]That's the only time. But dayto-day women, y'all ladies are just comparing yourselves and just trying to be like other women, trying to make it, like you said, you are trying to make it look like you have it. Even the brokeest woman will buy brand names, be driving in a hoopia, don't have a car at all, or go back to a raggedy apartment that's completely jacked up. And a lot of you say appearance is important, but you don't have to break the bank to do it.

[00:03:40]You don't have to cop bootleg to do it.

[00:03:43]And this is what they see on television and social media. Women do think that they're entitled to certain things or that they can do better. hypergamy becomes worse at this point and it makes a woman never satisfied, especially with the access that women have. You have hundreds of dudes when we talk about dating apps and if you converse with a woman who's on a dating app, she'll tell you it's overwhelming. That's the first thing she'll tell you because you have hundreds of guys trying to get at you, trying to take you out and it overinflates your self worth, if you will, when that's not actually the truth. It's just a bunch of dudes trying to squirt, right? But you see this woman with a BBL. She never worked out a day in her life and you're like, "Well, I don't work out either. I can go get a BBL, too. I can pull the same men." And a lot of women who get these BBLs, they will say, "I did it for attention."

[00:04:39]I love the attention of not just men, the women. To be accepted and have other women want to be like you, I think, is most women's dream. They want to be admired by other women and say, "Hey, I wish I like to look like you. I go to the gym to get compliments from women.

[00:04:58]Even if they do compliment me on my ass." I've heard women tell me this.

[00:05:01]They love when a woman comments or compliments them on their ass, but not don't let a man do it. Craziest is ever.

[00:05:10]Craziest thing ever, right? But that's just what it is.

[00:05:15]If we got rid of social media, right? I'm just saying for example, let's say like Escape from LA. Not to say that the internet was out in that movie, but that movie Escape from LA at the end what Snake did, he basically, you know, shut down the whole grid across the world, put it back into Dark Ages, if you will without any of this, right? Things would change. I'm not saying the fundamental toxic female behavior wouldn't be there, but women are able to truly showcase who they are through social media.

[00:05:54]And a lot of women are very impressionable, so they copy other women. Women are so impressionable that a woman will do things just based off another woman telling her things that she would never do. sexual things, things in terms of pulling off a 187 if you will, deleting somebody, getting clapped by dozens of dudes at once. Women will do this because the of the influence of another woman. This is the type of power that women have, not just over women, but o over men, too, just because they have that magic box.

[00:06:34]So, a lot of the things that you women are doing, a lot of the behaviors that you're doing, a lot of the things that you think is based off of what you see.

[00:06:42]Like I told you, I had a woman asked me to send her a ride, order her a car on the first date. Where the hell do you get that from? Social media.

[00:06:52]And a lot of you are missing out on good guys. A lot of you are missing out on good people because you think that you deserve more than what you actually have. And what happens with people like that is you end up with nothing. I'm just telling the truth. You guys know this. A lot of these women are single, unhappy, childless, never get married.

[00:07:10]They just go through life just thinking that they're perfect. Every woman is the exception. Every woman is the exception.

[00:07:17]I'm better than her. I got more money than her. And if you guys really knew what go what goes on behind closed doors, what women are doing, the credit scores, the way the houses look, things are in disarray. But she looks like a million dollars when she's out and about.

[00:07:35]I'll just be honest, guys. So, I'm going to get off of my soap box here and we're going to move on and let me know what you guys think. Comment below. Like, share, comment, and subscribe. Much blessings and abundance. Stick around for the next videos. It's going to pop up on the screen below. That's where I'm going to see you guys at. It's your favorite everything. This is wisdom.

[00:07:54]Look, I'm the best. Let's run it up to a million. Quit playing with me. Peace.

[00:08:00]I I feel you.