She Wanted Him Out, But Police Took Her To Jail

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:00:00]He did sign a sister's arrest form. Tell you right now. Okay.

[00:00:03]So, you're going to have to go to jail.

[00:00:05]For how long? That's not up to me.

[00:00:12]A domestic argument in California quickly escalated when Haley tried to force her boyfriend to leave the house, but after a phone was thrown and damaged and police were called, the situation shifted from a personal dispute into a domestic violence [music] allegation.

[00:00:27]How's it going, man?

[00:00:28]Can you come out here? Talk to me.

[00:00:32]What's going on, dude?

[00:00:34]I'm almost She's in the house. Katina.

[00:00:39]Katina.

[00:00:40]She's trying to kick me out.

[00:00:42]Cuz I caught her up in lies and [ __ ] with her boyfriend.

[00:00:46]I remember the last time I was out here there was issues with like another guy.

[00:00:49]Right. So, is it the same issue?

[00:00:53]Another guy.

[00:00:53]>> Katina.

[00:00:54]And then so she come up in the my room trying to kick me out and [ __ ] And I wasn't even doing that until her because her boyfriend was texting her talking crazy to her. Talking What does that mean?

[00:01:08]Apparently he was threatening her or some [ __ ] And then she took my phone while we were upstairs, wouldn't give it back at all. She come out here, opened the door, threw my phone, literally [ __ ] cracked it.

[00:01:23]And then she threw my [ __ ] out here and then I tried to go back in and she uh She threw this stuff out. Yeah.

[00:01:32]And then she tried uh blocking me from going back in the house.

[00:01:36]And then when I got into like the doorway where uh the side that he's standing on, Uh-huh.

[00:01:42]she [ __ ] just started hitting me. What'd she hit you with? Just her arms and [ __ ] And then she went crazy. Did you need medical attention at all? Okay.

[00:01:53]So, she started punching you? She she started slapping me and [ __ ] How many times did she slap you? How many times did she slap you?

[00:02:00]She hit me like at least five or six times.

[00:02:04]Okay.

[00:02:05]And just your arm? Well, yeah, cuz I like blocked my [ __ ] body and [ __ ] Okay.

[00:02:11]And then that's when I called you guys.

[00:02:13]Okay.

[00:02:14]And have you been out here ever since?

[00:02:16]No, I was inside.

[00:02:18]Dispatch had us separate, so I went to the bathroom. So she hit you a couple times. And she threw your cell phone.

[00:02:24]Yep.

[00:02:25]And threw my [ __ ] up.

[00:02:27]Okay.

[00:02:27]And after she hit you, what happened? I called you guys when I was on the phone with dispatch. And where were you at now? In the bathroom. In the bathroom.

[00:02:36]Okay.

[00:02:38]Um so she hit you in her arms, so she used both hands to hit you?

[00:02:41]>> Yeah.

[00:02:42]And then she before all this, she refused to give me my phone so I could try to find somewhere to go cuz I have nowhere else to to go. My dad's in Iraq doing recon [ __ ] so I have nobody else to go to.

[00:02:53]Okay.

[00:02:54]And then she could have easily left and just went to her [ __ ] mom's house or something. And you guys have kiddos inside, right? Mhm. There's two of them upstairs sleeping.

[00:03:01]>> Are they uh you're both parents of the kiddos, like biological parents of both of them?

[00:03:05]Yep. Okay. Well, I was going to say cuz I wasn't going to a [ __ ] group of this [ __ ] Okay. What were you looking to have done tonight? Either her removed or her best friend of the night and go to her somewhere else, somewhere to go cuz I have nowhere to go. Okay.

[00:03:17]How much Literally no nowhere to go.

[00:03:19]What kind of phone you got there? It's just one of those Obama phones. Okay.

[00:03:23]The little blue one. How much do you think that cost? How much do you think it would cost to fix that?

[00:03:29]>> man.

[00:03:29]I'm sure. 200 something, you know?

[00:03:32]You don't know how much it would cost to fix the screen and stuff?

[00:03:34]>> Mhm.

[00:03:35]Honestly, I don't. Okay.

[00:03:37]I haven't had to look into it for this one yet. Yeah. Do you think it would Maybe like 40, 50 bucks, maybe. Okay.

[00:03:44]Let me go talk to her real quick. Okay.

[00:03:47]Hey Haley.

[00:03:48]What's going on tonight?

[00:03:50]I just want to know.

[00:03:51]Okay.

[00:03:52]That's not all that happened right? What happened right? I threw his phone out the door. Okay. You threw his phone out the door. Why did you throw his phone out the door? Because he wouldn't leave.

[00:04:01]Okay. Well, he has standing here, does he not? Like he lives here.

[00:04:05]Mhm. For 2 weeks.

[00:04:07]He's not here before and he was living here. That was months ago.

[00:04:10]>> he took he he willingly left and went to his sister's house and stayed there for about a month. Regardless, you took his phone and threw it out. What else happened?

[00:04:19]I As soon as I threw the phone out, I went to shut the door and he stepped in the door. Okay.

[00:04:24]Then what happened?

[00:04:26]That's it. That's it? And then he was like, "I'm calling the cops. You put your hands on me and this and this." And that that's that's all that happened. I slammed the door shut on him. Okay. You didn't touch him at all? No. You didn't hit him?

[00:04:38]>> I did not.

[00:04:40]Okay. No.

[00:04:41]I did not put my hands on him. Okay. So, we look at the video footage from that camera right there. I did not put my hands on him.

[00:04:47]Look at it.

[00:04:49]Please. It's not going to show you slamming the door.

[00:04:51]>> No. Not going to show you pushing him.

[00:04:53]No. Nothing like that. No. Okay.

[00:04:57]I slammed the door shut on him. That's the only That's the only camera that's Okay. Sit tight right there for me, okay?

[00:05:05]What's that, dude? I said that's the only camera that's over here.

[00:05:09]This one right here? Yeah. Okay.

[00:05:11]And she's pretty adamant that she didn't put her hands on you. I hope it shows it.

[00:05:14]And you put your hands on you.

[00:05:17]Okay.

[00:05:18]So, you just wanted him out of the house.

[00:05:22]What Like, how did this Because >> How did this all start? My ex-boyfriend and him, he he invited my ex-boyfriend over last weekend and they were drunk for 3 days straight together, going back and forth about me and this and this and that, talking about how they both have the way they have sex with me, this and this and that. We've been fighting about this for the last week. And I was I'm just over it. And then he starts texting him tonight talking about I'm with Raheem and this and that. Hold on.

[00:05:51]How's it going, man? How you doing, bro?

[00:05:53]You got Do you have Do you have access to that camera on your door right there?

[00:05:57]Does it work?

[00:05:57]>> Uh My wife does. She's not home. She's not home.

[00:06:01]Uh is she like available by chance? I can try and get a hold of her. Yeah, I'm I'm just trying to get like some video, something that may or may not have taken place like right here. Yeah, I can try and get a hold of her, but If you don't mind, bro, that would be like that would be awesome.

[00:06:17]Thank you.

[00:06:18]Anyway, sorry. Sorry to cut you off. Go ahead.

[00:06:22]Um he started texting us and I was talking to some guy Raheem and then Zay started texting me sideways talking about you're with Raheem and this and this and that. We better pray for you and your little babies and this and this and that.

[00:06:36]I think he said He said you two and your two kids for goodness sake. I'll keep them in my prayers and then um Who is this, your ex-boyfriend? Yeah.

[00:06:45]But these are all things that he were told he was told by AJ, which are not true. Who's AJ?

[00:06:51]Yeah. Okay. Did you see anything?

[00:06:54]Yeah, I didn't see any of it. I just heard the yelling.

[00:06:58]That guy walked out. He's going to try and call his wife. Does he get access to the camera?

[00:07:03]I did not put my hands on him. I just I did I slammed the door on him. I did. I slammed the door trying to shut it before he came back in.

[00:07:12]Okay.

[00:07:13]But you threw his phone out here, too.

[00:07:15]Correct? Yes, I did do that.

[00:07:18]And why did you throw his phone out here? Cuz he would not leave.

[00:07:21]I've asked several times in the the last week just for him to get out. I just want him out.

[00:07:27]There's always fighting. I can't do this [ __ ] I don't This is my house.

[00:07:33]I understand that.

[00:07:34]My lease, my kids are on it and he's not on [ __ ] I understand.

[00:07:40]But I mean for that to happen, California is very uh they they favor the person. Like they don't they don't they wouldn't favor you because you're on the lease. You know what I mean?

[00:07:51]Um it's really easy to create standing at a residence in California.

[00:07:56]So, what I would recommend to you is to go through the formal eviction process.

[00:08:01]Okay? And I have been formally evicted and I know that's obviously probably I know. I'm going to be dead before he gets out. What do you mean?

[00:08:11]That man has put hands on me. We have police records. I'm I cannot do this, Jake.

[00:08:18]He cannot.

[00:08:20]I need him out. We He was almost arrested in Eureka for putting hands on me, putting bruises on my body. I have bumps on my head. I cannot keep doing this. Okay. Why wasn't he arrested?

[00:08:33]Because I said I don't want to press charges and I left. I left. I'm not leaving my house.

[00:08:39]I need him to leave my house.

[00:08:42]Okay.

[00:08:43]So, let's get back to what happened. So, there was some conversation between him and your ex I know what he told authorities and I told him I can't do this, Jake. You're going to be talking [ __ ] about me, causing people to threaten me in my home. You need to get out. I let you stay here as a courtesy so you had somewhere to go.

[00:08:59]Okay.

[00:09:00]And then what what happened after that?

[00:09:03]Like what happened leading up to you throwing his phone? I took his phone from upstairs. I came downstairs. I sat on the couch. I I told him multiple times, "Please, step outside and I'll hand you your phone. Please leave and I'll give you your phone. Please, please just leave. Like please."

[00:09:16]And that's He said, "No, no, no. I'm not going anywhere. I'm not leaving. I'm not doing this. I'm not doing that."

[00:09:23]And I I threw the phone outside. Not my brightest moment, but I did. I threw the phone outside. He went to go get it and as soon as I went to slam the door shut, he was already in the door stopping me, shoving me and the door backwards. I got stuck behind the back of the door.

[00:09:37]I did not put my hands on him. Watch me over here real quick.

[00:09:42]Okay, so based off of what you're telling me, man, they're both misdemeanors in California. Um they're hurting you.

[00:09:50]What's How long have you guys been together? We were together for like 6 years. You were together for 6 years.

[00:09:55]How long have you guys been broken up? A month.

[00:09:58]A month. Do you guys have two kids in common, correct?

[00:10:00]Uh How old are your kiddos? Uh two and one.

[00:10:05]Two and one. Okay. Um are you guys even though you guys are broken up, are you guys still in like a sexual relationship? Anything like that?

[00:10:12]Uh we had sex a few days ago. Okay, so I'd say yes, right? So you were dating for 6 years. Were you dating or were you married for 6 years?

[00:10:20]>> dating. Dating for 6 years. You got two kids in common. You've had sex as early as recently as a few days ago. Mhm.

[00:10:27]Okay.

[00:10:28]Um so based off of what you're describing to me, they're misdemeanors, right? So because you were in a relationship, you guys have two kids in common. Um that would qualify as domestic violence in California. But because you don't have any injury, correct? No injury?

[00:10:47]And it was this one. I like it's still stinging, but like It stings? Yeah, but it's not >> that's a complaint of pain. Yeah.

[00:10:53]Okay. So you got no formal no formal injury, right?

[00:10:56]>> No.

[00:10:58]Okay.

[00:10:59]Um And it Oh, I might use scratches [snorts] there.

[00:11:03]I don't know.

[00:11:05]All right, it doesn't I'll be honest, it doesn't really look like it to me. Yeah.

[00:11:08]Uh because there's no like visible injury, it's going to qualify as misdemeanor domestic violence.

[00:11:13]Uh the other issue is your phone. It's technically vandalism.

[00:11:17]Okay.

[00:11:18]So where I'm at, um in California, they're both misdemeanors. I didn't witness these misdemeanors. So what would need to happen would be that you would need to sign a citizen's arrest form for um the vandalism to your phone. You said it probably cost like Like 50 bucks. 50 bucks, so that would So that would be misdemeanor vandalism because she openly admitted to throwing your phone and there's clearly damage to your phone to your phone screen. So you would need to sign a citizen's arrest form for that because I didn't witness them. Is that something that you're willing to do?

[00:11:50]Okay.

[00:11:51]So essentially what that entails is you sign a citizen's arrest form saying, "Hey, these things, although Deputy Farmer didn't witness these things, these things Yeah, the phone was damaged. true and forth, you know, everything's true. If it came out in court that these things weren't true for some reason, and I'm not saying they're not, but I just give everybody the spiel.

[00:12:09]If it came out in court that these things weren't true, uh you could be held civilly liable, which means she could civilly sue you, you know, whatever comes out of that comes out of that, you know, what I mean?

[00:12:19]They could get you for money, get you for, you know, realistically anything that you'll Okay. And you you understand that?

[00:12:26]>> Yeah. It also says that you're going to um show up in court. You're not going to just like just fall by the wayside.

[00:12:32]You're going to show up in court, whatever court appearances it may take.

[00:12:36]And I would possibly be testifying on the domestic violence aspect, but the vandalism aspect would be you. So anything related to the vandalism aspect vandalism aspect, you would show up in court and testify to that. I wouldn't testify to that. Well Okay. Does that make sense? Yeah. Is that something you're willing to sign? Yeah. Okay. Um if you could just hold your phone up for me so I can document the condition.

[00:12:59]And it wasn't damaged in any way, shape, or form. Uh just up here. And this was damaged prior. Yeah. Okay, but this was not damaged prior. Okay.

[00:13:06]>> This right here was.

[00:13:10]That top part was damaged.

[00:13:12]>> was, but This was not. This was freshly damaged tonight when she threw your phone. Yep. Okay.

[00:13:18]All right. Uh I got to grab a form out of my car and fill it out real quick.

[00:13:21]I'll be right back with you, okay?

[00:13:24]has an opportunity to sign a citizen's arrest form on that. I don't know how that's going. I'm just trying to be honest with you about what's going on.

[00:13:33]He did sign a citizen's arrest form.

[00:13:34]Tell you right now. Okay.

[00:13:36]So, you're going to have to go to jail.

[00:13:38]For how long? That's not up to me.

[00:13:41]Okay.

[00:13:42]So, come here. Come here. Come here.

[00:13:44]Come here.

[00:13:45]>> [laughter] >> Put your hands behind your back for me, okay?

[00:13:48]Put your hands behind your back for Okay. Do you have anything inside that you need that you want to go to jail with you?

[00:13:54]No.

[00:13:56]Just your phone in your back pocket. Is that all you need?

[00:13:59]Yeah, shoes on me. You want shoes?

[00:14:02]Yeah. You want some If you can, we get you socks? You probably don't want to be barefoot in there.

[00:14:07]Can I grab you something? I'm going to get your phone out of your back pocket here, okay?

[00:14:12]>> [laughter] >> I don't want to go to jail. I don't [gasps and laughter] want Okay.

[00:14:18]Come on.

[00:14:19]Come on.

[00:14:20]Stay right here for me, okay?

[00:14:21]>> [laughter] >> All right, take your vape out of your hand.

[00:14:25]What the [ __ ] Can I talk to him for a second?

[00:14:29]I don't want to talk to you.

[00:14:32]Okay.

[00:14:32]Go ahead and have a seat.

[00:14:34]Go ahead and have a seat, please.

[00:14:36]Please, can I say bye to my babies, at least? I already got you in here, Chris.

[00:14:40]You You're already out here. I can't let you go back in the house, okay?

[00:14:44]Go ahead.

[00:14:46]What the What the [ __ ] The incident ended when her boyfriend signed a citizen's arrest form, leading to Haley being handcuffed and taken to jail. One heated decision during an argument turned the situation into serious legal consequences. But, do you think this outcome was fair, or did the situation go too far? Let us know your thoughts below.