31 minutes of Men NOT tolerating Womens DISRESPECT

[00:00:00]Put the phone down because you >> do you see me on my phone?

[00:00:07]>> What happens when men stop tolerating disrespect from women? Like the video.

[00:00:10]Subscribe if you're new around here. And stay cautious, fellas.

[00:00:22]Send that to the Bengals. I'm not an NFL insider. I just know what's what's going on. Facts. Send to the Bengals. The Bengals need a defensive lineman and who was guarding him from the girl to the Cleveland Browns. They need an offensive guard. You y'all better go protect my goat Shador Sanders. Facts.

[00:00:40]>> Yeah, she only did that because there was a man between them. That's a coward's move.

[00:00:43]>> The match should just pop and we going to talk about that.

[00:00:45]>> Yeah, I just swap him because in my chat boy, you like different different.

[00:00:48]What's wrong with you? Get a tight. Get a freaking tight up [ __ ] Get a tight and then you're going to tell me about, OH NO, I DON'T LIKE HER. Oh no, this not my type. But she really your type. You [ __ ] skinny yellow and big girl. No, make a type cuz we do feel some type of way. Pick a type, stay there. You like skinny girls, stay there. You like thick girls, cuz you know we going to gain weight. Some of us, not all of us, cuz it ain't me. But please make a type. I don't like that. I hate that with a passion. Like, why would you want to dibble and dabble all the goddamn time?

[00:01:17]You getting old. You white.

[00:01:19]>> You pissing me off talking about I like skinny. I like that. I don't go do I don't like that. You pissed me off on that. All right.

[00:01:25]>> You was doing great and you just went >> All right. All right. All right. All right. Let let him talk now. Let him talk now.

[00:01:30]>> HE'S NOT GOING TO SAY NOTHING. He going to be >> How you feel? Let him talk. Yo, come on.

[00:01:34]Hey, for real. How you feel about that?

[00:01:36]There's a lot going on right now.

[00:01:38]>> I feel like I dodged a bullet.

[00:01:42]>> You see, you see you you see the personality.

[00:01:44]>> You got too much patience for me.

[00:01:45]Boring.

[00:01:46]>> Let him talk. Let him talk.

[00:01:47]>> Right. Fine.

[00:01:48]>> That been happening since the beginning.

[00:01:49]You see, you can't talk. That's that's what's happen.

[00:01:51]>> I'm anxious. I'm an anxious person. You don't know me.

[00:01:54]>> Now, you just get >> I'm actually quiet in real life. Ask him. Unless I piss you out.

[00:01:57]>> Got to let him talk. Let him talk. I let you go.

[00:02:00]>> I really All right. Sorry.

[00:02:01]>> Not just to show them >> there. That's why I'm like, "Sorry for the show." Go ahead. I'mma let you talk.

[00:02:05]I really don't want to hear.

[00:02:05]>> That's what she been doing to a few of them. You get an insight of You got an insight of what what's to come. Also, also look at what she spoke about. You know, thick girls, we might get fat. You know, that's another bull. That's another bullet you do. And she said it herself. She She said, "You know, >> they get fat cuz they have babies."

[00:02:21]>> All right. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on.

[00:02:22]Wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, wait.

[00:02:24]Quite a sec. Don't direct it to me, bro.

[00:02:26]Like I don't agree with it. I don't agree with nothing.

[00:02:29]>> JUMP IN THERE.

[00:02:31]>> SO YOU ASK so you ask so you ask how I feel about it. I'm saying that I feel like I dodged a bullet. She's been aggressive. I I don't have to do it that way.

[00:02:39]>> Okay. You know the funny thing too also you know you are listen you are American so I would know that you wouldn't understand me. You feel me? Because you may think it's aggressive American aggressive but it's not American aggressive. And I don't put my hands on people because I don't like people putting their hands on me. Sh.

[00:02:56]>> I talk a lot. Yes. Because I like to get my point across. I don't care what you saying.

[00:03:01]>> It's about me right now.

[00:03:02]>> Keep the mic with you.

[00:03:03]>> Okay. So, yeah. You could be like Jama.

[00:03:06]>> We going to wrap that up. We going to wrap that up. I'm Jamaican.

[00:03:09]>> All right. Well, you don't look it.

[00:03:10]Let's go next.

[00:03:10]>> Yeah. Tell me you're a narcissist without telling me that you're a narcissist. The lack of respect speaks volume. He definitely dodged a grenade.

[00:03:17]If I was in that host's place, I would cut her mic off. But it's a good thing that she talked that much actually because let people talk long enough and they will show you everything about them.

[00:03:26]>> Put the phone down because you're [ __ ] >> I'm [ __ ] >> Yeah. Do you see me on my phone? We're ex-wife.

[00:03:32]>> Who are you?

[00:03:33]>> Who are my name is Michelle already?

[00:03:35]Excellent. And you can do that. Guess what? This man is going to kill you.

[00:03:39]>> Who?

[00:03:39]>> There's so many. Maurice.

[00:03:41]>> What the Maurice?

[00:03:42]>> Yes.

[00:03:42]>> [ __ ] Maurice.

[00:03:43]>> You can't say that.

[00:03:44]>> Just did.

[00:03:45]>> Oh, okay. All right.

[00:03:47]>> What's your problem?

[00:03:48]>> What you mean your problem? You have the Harry Potter. Did you bully Broadway?

[00:03:51]Did you overdose her?

[00:03:53]>> What?

[00:03:53]>> What? Yeah, because you have the Harry Potter.

[00:03:56]>> Okay. Okay.

[00:03:57]>> Okay. Put the phone down because you're [ __ ] >> I'm [ __ ] >> Yeah. Do you see me on my phone recording you?

[00:04:04]>> No, cuz you go you go viral on my story.

[00:04:06]I don't know about you, but people you can tag me. Tag me. See my >> I don't need those things.

[00:04:12]>> Look at me sitting down.

[00:04:14]>> What I said to you? I'm looking for my killer. That's why I'm saying >> what you looking for. I'm looking for my killer. Your killer. See, you see how [ __ ] he is? Y'all see how [ __ ] No one's Look here. No one's here. He is.

[00:04:25]He has his phone out because that's if I slap the [ __ ] out.

[00:04:28]>> Do it right now.

[00:04:29]>> I slap the [ __ ] out your [ __ ] >> Do it right now.

[00:04:31]>> What the [ __ ] is going on, fellas? You got to let me know if you are from New York. Is this how people flirt over there?

[00:04:48]>> [music] >> Get the [ __ ] out of here with this [ __ ] Y'all have been saying all the time that y'all strong and independent.

[00:04:56]So, be strong and independent.

[00:04:57]>> I'm homeless. He has my $1.4 million house. And he he filed two restraining order on me. I really don't know why except he's jealous. I'm on black dick and so now he filed a restraining order.

[00:05:09]What the [ __ ] did I [laughter] just Listen, I'm assuming that she cheated and he kicked her out.

[00:05:13]>> Why can't you just be a normal parent?

[00:05:15]>> Cuz you're not a normal child.

[00:05:16]>> Oh my god.

[00:05:17]>> Do you think they speak Gen Z?

[00:05:19]>> Dad.

[00:05:20]>> Hi there. Welcome to Starbucks. How can I get started for you?

[00:05:23]>> Uh, not chat. I actually just needed some advice.

[00:05:26]>> I'm sorry. Did you say advice?

[00:05:29]>> Yeah, sorry. Yeah, my daughter's giving unemployed energy around the house and I need like a a punishment with some aura.

[00:05:35]>> Dad, no punishment or aura in it. Shh.

[00:05:38]Okay. What happened?

[00:05:39]>> Uh, she's been farming miss chores like it's a full-time job.

[00:05:43]>> Oh my god.

[00:05:43]>> Uh, do you have a lawn? Maybe she could mow it.

[00:05:46]>> Oh, wait. The whole summer? That's actually peak.

[00:05:50]>> Good.

[00:05:51]>> I mean, I meant just once.

[00:05:53]>> Nah, you absolutely cooked, fam. Whole summer it is.

[00:05:56]>> Okay. Um, now did you want to order anything?

[00:05:58]>> No, we straight. I just pulled up for the free parenting advice.

[00:06:02]>> Have you ever cut the grass before?

[00:06:05]You're going to learn today.

[00:06:08]You're [music] cooking gang really showing that RZ.

[00:06:12]>> Bro said every word in the Gen Z dictionary. My daughter's giving unemployed energy around the house.

[00:06:19][laughter] The accuracy. The accuracy.

[00:06:22]>> Biggest loser of the World Cup isn't Messi. It's not Ronaldo. It's this poor bastard here. Now, this is Lamin's girlfriend. You probably saw her during the World Cup. He's been posting her a lot. She was even helping him getting ready for games. But before she was Yamal's girlfriend, she was with this poor guy. He thought he was probably winning the game of life. He'd been going out with her for 5 years. She's beautiful. She's commenting on his photos. I love you, babe. Lin sends her a DM. Two weeks later, she's sitting on his lap at the World Cup. Let me tell you something, boys. You think you're safe. You're with your high school sweetheart. Life's good. But all it takes is a 19-year-old football superstar with 50 million Instagram followers to send her one DM and it's done. She's gone. There's nothing you can do about it. And this isn't a one-off. Your mom's got a new girl every tournament. I'm just saying be mindful cuz if Instagram doesn't already have your girl, Lin's going to get your girl.

[00:07:03]>> Shout out Lin. the goat. And yeah, fellas, she's not yours. It's just your chin. Lame and Yamal probably saved him from this girl right here.

[00:07:11]>> What does a GUY GOT TO DO TO TAKE YOU HOME from the bar?

[00:07:13]>> Baby, you got to show me that money and you got to spend that money on me.

[00:07:18]>> So you SELL [ __ ] >> [ __ ] NO. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER.

[00:07:22]>> What do you mean?

[00:07:22]>> That's what it sounds like.

[00:07:24]>> You got to show me the money at the bar.

[00:07:26]You got to spend that money.

[00:07:28]>> So a [ __ ] got to have money, but he don't got to pay for it, though. He just got to HAVE IT.

[00:07:32]>> OH, NO, NO, NO, NO. YOU DON'T. NO, NO, NO, NO, NO. I DON'T SELL my [ __ ] But >> what do you do with it?

[00:07:39]>> Baby, if if I know your worth and you're going to take care of me, then you can get it.

[00:07:45]>> I feel like we're belly to belly right now.

[00:07:46]>> Oh, we are. We may hold 40 bucks.

[00:07:49]>> Hell no.

[00:07:50]>> Yeah, they're all selling it at this point. Just different terms and agreements. It's a sad world we're living in, fellas.

[00:07:55]>> No, you walked away from me.

[00:08:01]>> Okay.

[00:08:03]>> [clears throat] >> Raai >> this is the point of view from her angle. I covered this on the last video if you want to go check it out. She [ __ ] around with the wrong one. Damn.

[00:08:20]>> Is it good?

[00:08:21]>> Mhm. You want to try it?

[00:08:25][laughter] >> Oh, that's so cute. So cute.

[00:08:33]Jennifer Lopez has been divorced four times now. And it's not hard to figure out why. This woman has nothing to offer except fake boobs, Botox, and tons of drama. And Ben Affleck is also a cuck because he was engaged to her back in 2002 and then they split up and they got married in 2022 and then divorced. It is 100% his fault for marrying a woman who's been divorced three times. What makes you think it's going to work this time? She is 100% the problem. Women in Hollywood aren't feminine. They're all feminists. And most men in Hollywood aren't actually masculine. They're just famous cucks, including Travis Kelce.

[00:09:11]Don't be fooled. Taylor Swift is the new JLo. Give it a couple years and she'll be releasing her divorce album about how she's more free after divorce. How a man was just holding her back and that being single at 40 is living the life.

[00:09:26]Everything in Hollywood is just propaganda and programming. This is why following celebrities is low IQ behavior. You're being conditioned and most people don't even realize it.

[00:09:38]>> Absolutely correct. 100%.

[00:09:39]>> That's a good one. If your husband lets a female coworker fix his plate at a barbecue, but you're there. Why does this [ __ ] fix a plate?

[00:09:49]>> See, y'all be asking the wrong questions. The real question is, how did she beat you to the plate fixing?

[00:09:54]>> Facts.

[00:09:55]>> How did you manage to let her beat you to fixing the plate? That's your problem, man. You mad at the wrong [ __ ] things. Spongebob told y'all, man. When someone needs to do a job, they get someone with a job to do that job. You're not doing your job.

[00:10:12]>> That plate should be in front of you before you even think about food. That's a sign that you have a good woman in your hands.

[00:10:18]>> I pledge allegiance to myself to never [ __ ] with a broke [ __ ] And if I do, I'm always a weak ass [ __ ] [ __ ] with no standards and morals. And I will always ever be a broke nigga's [ __ ] >> Man, I'm just going to read the comments. Lineup full of zeros. Bottom of the barrel won't stop shove.

[00:10:35]Translation: I pledge of allegiance to myself to never [ __ ] with a treadmill.

[00:10:38]Go [ __ ] with a diet, bro. Combined weight of a tank. The gym is a nice place to start.

[00:10:43]>> Look how cool that boat looks.

[00:10:45]>> I mean, it's okay.

[00:10:47]>> I mean, it's better than your boat.

[00:10:49]>> And I guarantee his wife is way hotter than mine.

[00:10:53]>> You want to play stupid games? You're going to win stupid prizes. That's it.

[00:10:56]>> Maybe you want to come home with me after this.

[00:10:58]>> Not tonight.

[00:10:59]>> Why not?

[00:11:00]>> I don't like that you asked that.

[00:11:02]>> Why? [music] >> That's just a little weird. It's our first date.

[00:11:07]>> Yeah. Well, this is what happens on a lot of first dates. So, >> not the ones I go on.

[00:11:12]>> Well, [music] maybe I could change your mind this time.

[00:11:18]>> Yeah.

[00:11:19]>> Nope.

[00:11:20]>> Yeah. I I I don't really take no for an answer on these type of dates.

[00:11:25]>> I'm actually going to head out.

[00:11:28]>> Well, I'm going to >> Well, yeah. [music] Don't.

[00:11:30]>> Yeah. No, I don't like what's going on.

[00:11:32]>> Yeah. In the caption, it says it's just a skip. But fellas, don't be saying weird [ __ ] like this on dates.

[00:11:38]>> Are you seriously doing the dishes now?

[00:11:40]I asked you 5 hours ago.

[00:11:43]>> What are you doing? I asked him to do this hours ago, and he's only doing it now because he heard me walk in. This is why we always fight and have problems because he acts like a child.

[00:11:53]>> Hold on. The dishes are getting done right. So why are you still choosing conflict and calling him a child?

[00:12:00]Because he didn't do them when I asked him to. For someone who doesn't want him acting like a child, you sure do sound like his mother. This isn't really about the dishes. This is about your need for control. You don't feel safe unless things happen on your timeline. I just hate coming home to a messy house. Like I feel like I can't relax when it's dirty. Then lead with that.

[00:12:24]Communicate that. Not criticism. What difference does that make? I already asked him to do it. How does asking nicely change anything?

[00:12:32]>> Oh my god.

[00:12:33]>> Because because before you were making demands.

[00:12:35]>> Thank you.

[00:12:35]>> And now you're making a request and giving him the opportunity to show up for you.

[00:12:40]>> Thank you.

[00:12:41]>> Control will always create resistance.

[00:12:43]>> Yep. But clarity and vulnerability create cooperation and connection.

[00:12:49]>> Hey, next time can you have the dishes done before I get home? It helps me relax when the space feels clean.

[00:12:59]>> I promise you fellas, this was not about the dishes. This was just about control.

[00:13:03]She wants to dictate what goes in the house. And if you're married to a person like this and this happens to you all of the time, you should call out that [ __ ] because it's just going to keep happening over and over again. And if the behavior doesn't change when you call her out, you need to end that relationship.

[00:13:27][music] >> Every time I try to do anything, >> you barely take your dog outside.

[00:13:34]>> You don't take him outside.

[00:13:34]>> I barely get you to take your dog outside.

[00:13:37]>> So, yes, I micromanage you all the time being like, "Hey, can you do this? Hey, do you mind doing this while I'm doing this?

[00:13:42]>> Then I get home and he's still in the cage.

[00:13:44]>> You have to >> Oh, I guess you do need that, >> bro. I mean, I'm not I wouldn't be surprised though hearing this conversation how you p push the goalpost. Are we really that surprised?

[00:13:55]You might be the nagging woman and that's exhausting.

[00:13:59]>> It's exhausting.

[00:14:00]>> Trying to look like a victim as well.

[00:14:01]>> So why are you nagging all the time?

[00:14:03]Just let me do what I need to do.

[00:14:05]>> If I quote let you do what you need to do, you're just going to be on your game. You're just going to be trying out cars >> and on his phone constantly.

[00:14:13]>> Yes.

[00:14:14]>> Yes. You spend more time a day on average on your phone than he does, by the way.

[00:14:18]>> At night time, for sure.

[00:14:19]>> Doesn't matter.

[00:14:20]>> When the kids are asleep, >> the weekly average, >> the daily average 4 >> 47 458.

[00:14:27]>> You beat them.

[00:14:30]Everything you're bitching about, the moment I actually dig in, you have to push the goal post because you're complaining about something that you equally do. If not, >> but I don't get on my phone and Okay, so I'll get on my phone when [ __ ] is done.

[00:14:43]When laundry is done.

[00:14:44]>> Bro, you're on Facebook every day.

[00:14:45]>> She's on her phone when everything is done while saying nothing is ever done.

[00:14:49]They always complain about flaws in others that they have themselves. Take some accountability and stop with your BS.

[00:14:55]>> Y'all going to have to get used to sharing because as of right now, it is a hundred women to every one man. So, either you going to switch to the other side or you going to do some sharing.

[00:15:05]Pick and choose. you know, um, you were taught as a very young woman to share.

[00:15:10]They taught you in grade school to share. I don't know what's going on. If you can love more than one kid at a time, then a man can love more than one woman at a time.

[00:15:21]>> 100%.

[00:15:22]>> And a lot of people downplay polygamy and, you know, they preach monogamy. But think about think about how many monogous relationships have failed due to a guy wanting more than one. And you know, people would say, "Oh, I could never do that. You're probably doing it anyway. You just don't know.

[00:15:42]>> That's just real life."

[00:15:42]>> But a lot of women would rather not know. I don't believe in restriction.

[00:15:46]And I feel like a lot of people, they they they get with their person, their life partner, their, you know, whatever, and they have regrets later on in life.

[00:15:54]And a lot of times people end up hating their spouse or hating their partner because they're like, "The only reason why I can't do this is because I'm with you. I never want our relationship to be like that."

[00:16:03]>> What's wild to me is, and what's crazy is there's modern women out here that have no problem talking to men in relationships or or married men, but they draw the line at sharing. Like, make it make sense. Imagine how much propaganda it took to convince girls going to the club and being materialistic is what will make them happy. Be careful. You be called a pickme for just saying the truth.

[00:16:23]Imagine it's raining and you're in New York City and if you've ever been to New York City or in France and it starts raining and people start selling umbrellas on the street. Those $5 $10 umbrellas, they're not worth much, but they get the job done until you get home. Imagine you have that man. You have the man that gets the job done.

[00:16:45]Isn't anything special, but he gets the job done. That man, no matter how little you view him, is made to handle the rain. You were not made to handle the rain. But you were made to hold up that which can handle the rain. If you didn't have that umbrella, you would come back home smelling like what poured on you.

[00:17:09]>> When a man comes back in as that umbrella, he gets dried quickly, water repellent. It falls off of him. And no matter how equipped you thought he was, he still was built for the rain. The difference also, some of you want that Neiman Marcus umbrella. Some of you want the wood handle. Those things are heavy.

[00:17:34]And if God gave you a man like that, then you have to be the woman that can hold up that man. Because an umbrella that is not used, it can be for the rain, for the sun. It shields, it provides shade, it allows what's under it not to be touched. We are the vessel, not weaker. We are the vessel that was meant to let the one that God gave us be held up and used for what he was made.

[00:18:02]So now, as a wife, I want to say, I don't want to get wet. I don't want to sunburn. My skin's not built for that.

[00:18:10]So instead, I'm going to let the man be who he was meant to be. And if God gave me, which he did, my man's about as heavy as this table, that means God made me capable of holding him up. If my man is not doing what he was made to do, it's because I as his wife am not holding him up.

[00:18:32]>> Bro, this is like pole shooting my ears.

[00:18:34]If you as a woman looking for a quality man, then you have to be a quality woman. This analogy is everything.

[00:18:40]Marriage is not for the weak. Many aspects of life are similar but not the same. In marriage, both have a position to play. And there is so much more. But this is a great example from a seasoned woman explaining her position as a wife.

[00:19:07]Babe, do you remember that time that we came here?

[00:19:10]Did you see that big ass carnival that we could bring the kids to? Look, it's on again.

[00:19:21]All I see is MJ right now looking at her with that disgusting face.

[00:19:26]>> You want You want equality? Then we need 50% of women in wastewater treatment, garbage collection, >> oil rigeling, >> every all the dirty, dangerous, difficult jobs. No, no, no. It's not just the cushy office jobs. No, no, no.

[00:19:42]We want you in there, ladies. You should be digging graves in ditches. You should be embalming dead bodies. You should anything that the men are doing that's dirty, dangerous, and difficult that makes this country run. Equality is when 50% of those jobs are held by women.

[00:19:58]Until then, shut the up with your women's equality [ __ ] Shut the up with your feminism until 50% of these jobs are held by women. Then I'll take you seriously.

[00:20:08]>> Yeah, these other women be like, "Yeah, feminism and equality." But at the same time, they say men need to cook, clean, buy everything, and work 12-hour shifts.

[00:20:16]And by the way, if equality and jobs really did happen, only 5% will survive.

[00:20:24]>> Wait, what's your name?

[00:20:26]>> Lock the door.

[00:20:27]>> Why? Why the fridge always protecting us, BRO?

[00:20:31]>> I REALLY TRUST the Lord's timing because whenever I'm going to be married and I can live with a man, I can't keep living like this.

[00:20:41]I can't keep living like this.

[00:20:44]Jesus.

[00:20:48]>> Oh my gosh.

[00:20:50]>> I need to live with my husband. I can't.

[00:20:53]>> Is it even funny? Like I'm going to start crying.

[00:21:03]>> Yeah, you don't need it, man.

[00:21:08]>> It's almost in the comments. Look at this [ __ ] The men in the factory doing the Lord's work, making these lids extra tight. So, women need us again for for at least one thing. [laughter] Me watching movies where the girl leaves the billionaire guy for the poor guy because of true love. Listen, I'm rooting for love. I really am. But let's not act like I don't have any questions after this, okay? Because the movie always makes the billionaire unbelievably easy to leave. you know, he's handsome, he's successful, he lives in a mansion, he owns a yacht, and his only flaw is that he answered one phone call during dinner. And suddenly she's running through the rain [laughter] toward a guy whose biggest asset is he's nice, you know, and every time the movie expects me to clap after that, you know.

[00:21:57]Meanwhile, I'm sitting there wondering if anybody involved has recently checked the housing market. I just >> The poor guy always wins, too. Always.

[00:22:04]And it's not because he has a better plan. It's not because he has, you know, greater stability just because he taught her to enjoy life again. You know, he saw her. I brother, life is significantly easier to enjoy from a beachfront property. Okay, let's be reasonable, okay? And the funniest part is the movie ends immediately after she chooses him. Of course, it does. Yeah, because the sequel would just be the two of them discussing rent. So, yeah, I'm not saying true love isn't real.

[00:22:29]>> They don't show that. I'm just saying that >> Hollywood loves ending the story exactly one scene before the budget meeting.

[00:22:36]>> Yeah, he is nice until rent is due. And fellas, this is just about the cheating propaganda that they trying to push all the time. Best example, Titanic.

[00:22:44]>> Dad, why did you put the ugly hose next to the pretty hose?

[00:22:48]>> Well, that's because the pretty hose ain't really actually that pretty. The ugly hoes make the pretty hose look prettier.

[00:22:55]>> If you get it, you get it. Pleasure to meet you. My name is Sammy D. Can I cross? Come on in, Sammy.

[00:23:01]>> Nice to meet you. You're very beautiful.

[00:23:03]>> Thank you.

[00:23:04]>> Looking very fertile.

[00:23:07][laughter] >> That's a good thing. You know, if you want to make this house a home, >> oh, >> if you do decide to go Asian, let me see this again. You'll never have to worry about these nails again.

[00:23:21]>> Yeah, fellas. This game need to be studied. Take notes. Take notes. He had her squeaking, bro. What the what?

[00:23:27]>> And if y'all out here saying that all men ain't [ __ ] make sure you include your son. I don't care how old he is. 4, 5, 10, 25, 55, 65, damn near 85. I don't care. Include him, too, since that's your mentality. And the same thing goes for the men. [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] Your daughter ain't [ __ ] either. Don't matter her age. Include them, too. No, that don't count. They my kids. vote [laughter] >> 100% across the board. Across the board.

[00:23:59]I agree with this.

[00:24:00]>> Some women only want leadership until leadership disagrees with them. Then it's toxic. It's controlling. Then it's a problem. Sis, you pray for a man who leads. You said you wanted someone with vision, with direction, someone who makes decisions and stands on them. And God sent you exactly that. But the moment his leadership doesn't align with what you already decided in your head, now he's controlling. Agreement is easy.

[00:24:23]Anybody can follow when the direction feels good. The test of trust is when you don't agree. When his decision does not match your preference, when his direction feels uncomfortable. That's where relationships either grow or they break. A man can't lead a home where every decision requires preapproval from the person who asked him to lead in the first place. He's going through the motions of authority while not having any of it. And eventually, he stops trying. He realized that the position wasn't real. You gave him a title with no power behind it. [music] And here's what nobody wants to hear. If you only follow when it's easy, you're not following. [music] You're just allowing. And a man knows the difference. He feels it. He knows when his leadership is respected and when it's just tolerated. Tolerated leadership produces a passive man [music] every single time. You're going to watch him shrink in real time and wonder, "What happened to the man that I fell in love with? What happened to the man that I married?" Now, this has nothing to do with blind obedience. This has nothing to do with the woman having no voice.

[00:25:22]>> Fellas, you got to always know the difference between pouring into a garden or the sand. Don't go to where you're tolerated. Go to where you're respected.

[00:25:30]>> One in three genzers will never get married ever. And one in four are projected to never have children. This is unprecedented. Literally millions of young adults today, men and women who are never going to have the experience of of being married, taking your kids to soccer games, traveling with your kids.

[00:25:48]>> A lot of that I'm finding is attributed to our generation's narrative that you're going to be really miserable if you are married to someone and if you are constantly having to do on your children. And I'm seeing this growing discourse on Tik Tok especially that the best thing you can possibly do for your life as a young woman is to be radically selfish. that your time belongs to you, your job belongs to you, your stuff belongs to you, your vacations belong to you, and all of that will poof go away the second you have a baby, which isn't true, by the way. What can you tell us about happiness as it relates to marriage and kids?

[00:26:18]>> We see in the data, married mothers in America are about two to three times more likely to be very happy compared to their female peers who are single and childless. And we're also seeing to Isabelle a growing happiness divide between not just men but also between women who are you know married and unmarried where the married women are doing much better on the happiness front and happiness is really kind of crashing or unmarried both men and women. There's this disjunction between what people think is true about marriage and women and what actually is true. I think we have to acknowledge too that being a parent is stressful and there so many things that you know are challenging about being a parent. the loss sleep when the kids are little, the financial stresses of raising kids. I mean, there's just innumerable stresses and strains, right? But I think it's important for us to also appreciate that the best things in life tend to involve suffering and stress. So, like if you're a top tier athlete, if you're a top tier podcaster, whatever it might be, like it does entail sacrifice and stress. And I think the thing is the same thing is true when it comes to being a spouse and a parent that yes, it's deeply challenging to be living with the same person for your life. Um, to be raising kids across the life course.

[00:27:24]Nevertheless, when you look at kind of the alternative, what you see, you know, unfortunately, is that people who are single and childless today are much more likely to be lonely.

[00:27:32]>> Yeah.

[00:27:33]>> They're much more likely to be unhappy.

[00:27:34]We've seen unhappiness among young adults who are single doubling since 1980 in America.

[00:27:39]>> Wow.

[00:27:39]>> And they're much more likely to say their lives are not meaningful. Right.

[00:27:42]And so this is what I think is not being kind of conveyed in this kind of Tik Tok discourse or in this elite discourse sometimes that is discounting marriage and parenthood is people don't appreciate how much meaning and joy and just a sense of sort of there's someone in your corner when you're married and when you have kids like your life is just so full.

[00:27:59]>> I think feminism and no divorce laws are the main reason and cause for this problem and also the economy. It's extremely expensive to afford anything nowadays.

[00:28:09]>> Hey that I'm tired. I this is this is the analogy, right? I can work all day, go to the gym, wake up at 5:00, do all the things, right? By the time I get back home at 8:00 a.m. I've had an entire day. I can kiss my wife, get my son dressed, brush his teeth, put him together, uh get him to school, go to work, do all the things, right? And it's interesting that in many of these conversations I have with men, they say, "But my tired is not validated because my wife or my baby moms will always have this on me. I carried the baby for 9 months." So now it's not the fact that people aren't aware that men are tired.

[00:28:44]They just don't believe that it is attributed that they can be.

[00:28:48]So unless you've had a baby and I'm not having that conversation regarding like anatomy and biology, but but unless you can have a baby, then it's this conversation of so I can't be tired >> or my tiredness is actually uh antiquated and you now call my tiredness laziness.

[00:29:06]So this concept is that I believe that when we think about one of the biggest wars that men are fighting, I think that many men stay busy because they do not want their tire to be seen as lazy. So I'd rather kill myself to the point where my body shuts down than to take a nap.

[00:29:30]Cuz if you're married, it's always right when you sit down. Hey babe, >> you know what it sounds like? It sounds like these mother women just want to offload out of men because they can't see that they're the lazy one and they hold you with I carry the baby for 9 months. We don't deny that it's an easy thing to do. But if you're going to offload out of a person just because of that. You need to check yourself.

[00:29:50]Actually, >> your chromosomes are XX and you're young, you menrate. If you're XY, you don't.

[00:29:56]>> Correct. But what about trans men and non-binary including a whole group of >> They're women dressed as men. You are not a man. You can pretend to be a man and that's okay. That's perfectly fine.

[00:30:07]Live your life. Tell me what a man is.

[00:30:09]>> What's a man to you? You define a man for me.

[00:30:11]>> You have chromosomes that have X and Y.

[00:30:13]That's what a man is.

[00:30:14]>> So why are we just looking at the science of this as an when when we've learned sex and gender identity are two very they're completely different things.

[00:30:23]>> They're not completely different.

[00:30:24]>> They are completely different.

[00:30:25]>> Completely different words.

[00:30:27]>> And sex is what you're born with. The sexual reproductive organs you have.

[00:30:31]gender is what you identify with.

[00:30:32]They're completely >> I don't accept that distinction. You have to argue for it. You're just giving a conclusion. You're you're just making it up. People who hate the truth are because they see they see the truth as hateful. If if you want to identify in any way you can, you're free to do so.

[00:30:47]But that does not mean that the rest of us have to join that illusion. I disagree with you. And so you call it hate. But there's no hate in my heart at all. So that's >> you are being hateful when you tell somebody that identifies as a man that they're not a man.

[00:31:02]>> That's not hateful. That's a fact.

[00:31:03]>> It sums it up perfectly in the end.

[00:31:05]That's not hateful. That's just a fact.

[00:31:07]And that's what these lunatics, mentally ill people don't understand. And you notice that he's the calm one and they're the one getting offended by what he's