Modern Society Realizes Men Have Completely Withdrawn From Participation

追加: 2026-05-04

[00:00:00]Not your fault.

[00:00:02]>> You're right.

[00:00:04]It's not my fault.

[00:00:07]It's your >> Yo, what is going on, guys? It is Taylor the Fiend back again. And today we are taking a look at women losing it because men are simply done. Don't forget to leave your thoughts and your comments.

[00:00:21]Make sure you check out the members area down below if you are interested in more weekly videos. And let's just jump right into the video. So, I overheard a conversation last night. It was a group of four girls at dinner, and one girl was telling her friends about her new fling. She described it as a casual hookup type thing, but claimed he was super respectful despite not wanting to commit. Her friend then asked why he was so scared to commit, and this was the moment that I had to physically restrain myself. Here's a shocker, girls. Men aren't scared of you. This guy's basically at an all you can eat buffet minus the fee. He has it made. If you want him to look at you as girlfriend material, start carrying yourself as that because hook-ups won't make him love you.

[00:00:59]>> It seems like modern women think that bedroom fun is the only thing that they need to provide to men, but many of them fail to realize that is not going to keep a man around longterm at all.

[00:01:10]>> Why don't women typically approach men?

[00:01:12]Um, I feel like if a woman is confident enough and she feels like she looks really good right then and there, um, and she's not, you know, maybe introverted or shy, she would definitely go and approach somebody.

[00:01:25]>> If a woman chooses to approach a man and shoot her shot, is she more or less likely to be rejected than if the man approaches a woman?

[00:01:32]>> I feel like men are more likely to be rejected.

[00:01:35]>> Yeah.

[00:01:35]>> So, why do you think that women fear rejection when they're far less likely to be rejected?

[00:01:41]Because women are just more sensitive.

[00:01:42]They have more feelings into it. I feel like men, they're used to being rejected. They're used to being turned down, but women aren't. So, when they get rejected, they like feel it more personally.

[00:01:52]>> It's because a lot of modern women have very fragile egos and they hate hearing the word no. It's crazy how many of them have never actually been told that word.

[00:02:01]Guys, I mean, seriously, can we please debunk this myth that a lot of women are going out on dates with men they're not even the slightest bit interested in just to get a free meal? Like, you guys really think we are that hardpressed for a steak dinner that we're going to fake the funk to hustle it out of you?

[00:02:20]>> I can debunk this myth. You ready?

[00:02:23]Plenty of articles. Ready? No, that doesn't help. Let's try another one.

[00:02:30]That's No, no, no. Let's try another one. It's got a name to it.

[00:02:34]>> It's not a question of poverty. A lot of modern women use men for food out of sheer entitlement. Even if they don't need to, they're not going to be homeless or starving on the street. They just want free food from men because they think they deserve it.

[00:02:47]>> Wait. Um, let's try.

[00:02:52]Now, it seems like, right, how can I debunk this? Maybe Tik Tok will have some ideas. My boyfriend and I were talking a little while ago about the concept of what a foodie call is. And he was like, "What is a foodie call?" And I was like, "It's like a booty call, but for food." So, studies prove that one in three women go on dates just for food.

[00:03:09]According to a new study, many women are choosing free meals over relationships.

[00:03:13]The study in the journal social psych, >> there is no hiding it at this point. A lot of modern women have no problem using men for all they are worth. You can go you can check out Tik Tok videos for some uh proof of that.

[00:03:25]So, my guy >> I'm trying to debunk this myth and it's not working.

[00:03:31]H Oh, I know. I'm Matthew for Channel 4 News and I am with one random person from the street named Becky and we're going to ask her a question. Becky, do women use men for food dates? No. There we have it. One person's opinion is absolute fact. It does not happen.

[00:03:47]Complete myth. Thank you very much. Back to you in the studio. I think it's crazy just how many modern women think they can reject reality and just replace it with their own reality that they completely made up. That's not how it works at all.

[00:04:01]>> Now we've debunked that myth, let's take a chain to reality town for a second, fellas. There are women out there that will use you for a foodie date. I've got friends that actually brag about this. I know one person that's been on five dates in a week just to get a belly filled with food. Get your mind out of the gutter. And this is why it's ideal for a man, if you're going to go out on a date with someone, take the lady on a coffee date, make her a picnic, go for a walk, see if that lady is going to invest time into you and not what they can get from you, because you might just turn into a one night buffet stand.

[00:04:41]>> If a woman is genuinely interested in a guy, she's not going to have a problem going on a coffee date. It's when the women are uninterested that they have an issue with this.

[00:04:51]>> If you're scrolling through Tik Tok right now, instead of doing something you're supposed to be doing, >> just add me as a friend.

[00:04:58]>> Would you ever date a woman that's a nurse?

[00:05:00]>> Nurses are known to be the biggest cheaters. They sleeping with other nurses, men nurses. They're sleeping with the doctors. They love them some doctors. If your girl is a nurse and she has a hot doctor that she works with, chances are them late hours they getting their freak on. He's in the on the side of the nursing bed while you waiting for it at home.

[00:05:21]>> There is a reason why nurses are considered the most undesirable women to date.

[00:05:26]>> Why is everyone so [ __ ] stupid?

[00:05:30]Why aren't more people encouraging like me?

[00:05:34]>> You know what I love? Oh my god. Sorry.

[00:05:37]Um, I just love a good roast beef sandwich, especially Arby's.

[00:05:42]>> I would say mentally I am not well.

[00:05:47]Physically also no.

[00:05:53]Spiritually, no.

[00:05:57]>> She has no rights to talk about that.

[00:05:59]She is the one who most likely filed for the divorce.

[00:06:03]>> Oh, got your [ __ ] Notice how there's nothing in my hand. You lonely [ __ ] >> SHOUT OUT TO MY EX. CUZ IF WE WERE still together, >> I wouldn't be LIVING MY BEST LIFE.

[00:06:28]WHY' YOU do that?

[00:06:34]>> They're 11 year olds. You're 80.

[00:06:36]>> They're alive.

[00:06:40]>> Kicking a kid after being rude to him is a whole new level of shameful behavior.

[00:06:46]Have you ever heard the expression, the longer I stay single, the more selective I become? This is a [ __ ] fact. And the reason why is because the longer you stay single and genuinely enjoy your vibe, you know, up your standards.

[00:07:04]You're doing things to take care of yourself. You're living your life.

[00:07:07]You're actually loving life. That becomes your new standard. Okay? There's a lot of [ __ ] you're not going to go for. There's a lot of [ __ ] you're not going to tolerate and a lot of [ __ ] you're not going to put up with because you don't need to. You're literally doing everything for yourself and enjoying your life. Why would you lower the bar and lower your standards for someone to come in and start stressing you and adding chaos to your life? No thank you.

[00:07:33]>> That is not a saying. She just made that up and is trying to gaslight everyone into believing her.

[00:07:52]Recording yourself crying over a breakup is just a desperate plea for internet attention.

[00:07:58]>> What is one thing that you've never told your ex?

[00:08:01]>> Our trainer. Like I had a trainer and he was training me for a while. Like I met him at my apartments. like we were both doing laundry at the same time and he like propositioned me one day. He was like, "Can I give you a massage because you're so tired from training, right?"

[00:08:16]And I was like, "Okay."

[00:08:18]>> And it was like at me and my ex's house.

[00:08:21]So that's really >> She knew exactly what that guy wanted.

[00:08:24]That is why she clearly does not regret cheating >> up, you know. But like, yeah, I used to and I for like a year a Yeah, I'm going to get in trouble for that one when he sees this. But yeah, it was for like a year and I even like even when I moved, he like came to see me. So yeah, we for like a year.

[00:08:43]>> So your ex had no idea you were cheating on him?

[00:08:46]>> I wasn't cheating. Like we had an open relationship and then we broke up.

[00:08:50]>> So it's like through the open relationship part, but he didn't know that I was him. I wasn't supposed to any of our friends or anybody that we both knew. So that was the bad part.

[00:08:58]>> How do you think he would feel?

[00:09:00]>> Really upset. He'd be really upset. I feel like he'd be sad. Open relationships are just a dumb idea in general. Women like this should just stay single.

[00:09:09]>> But like but he's done too. So I'll just be like, "Hey, like remember that like this is that it's the same thing."

[00:09:15]>> Was he better at being a personal trainer or better at whatever? He's a horrible trainer. Her trainer.

[00:09:22]>> Okay.

[00:09:23]>> All right.

[00:09:24]>> That is exactly why those are dumb. She just uses his experiences as ammunition against him.

[00:09:30]>> All right. Not going to lie, I was really feeling myself yesterday. So then I decided to make a Tinder profile and seek validation from men who I don't know. And then I asked somebody out to go get drinks with me. It worked out. I guess it was time to get dalled up, but honestly, it was for myself. And then my highlighter decided to eat. I started getting overwhelmed while I was getting ready, so I did some breathing exercises to calm myself down. My hair is at the point where my bangs are a little too long to be fringe bangs, and I don't quite know how to style it. I'm really not too sure what look I want to go for anymore, but >> she literally admitted that she's getting dressed up for her, not for the guy that she's actually meeting. But I think this works out. I don't know. I decided to wear a graphic tea out and just tie it up and this asymmetrical skirt that I was super nervous to wear because um yep, fit check. My foot is showing. I haven't worn these boots since living in Boston and I'm excited to take them out again. And this is what I look like without the jacket. All right, bye-bye. That woman is far too old to be dressing that way, and it is for no reason whatsoever. This story just took a crazy turn. Remember the punt god from San Diego State who was drafted by the Bills and punted the ball 82 yards in a preseason game? Well, for reasons I can't say here on TikTok, Matt Arza was released from the Bills after certain accusations about him at a college party came out last August. I outlined the full scope and timeline of these allegations in the newsletter I dropped today linked in my bio. Now, at the time, these accusations involving Arisa and two of his college teammates were so disturbing that the Bills released him after taking him in the sixth round that same year before he ever had the chance to take a regular season.

[00:10:59]>> This guy was just going to be set for life with his sports career. You can guess what a woman did and snap. But now, it's come out that these accusations that destroyed Arisa's career were completely false. Now, before we go any further here, I want to echo a sentiment shared by fellow creator Bladen Kirk and say that we should always heir on the side of victims in cases like this as to not discourage other victims from sharing their stories. But in this case, it's come out that Arisa wasn't even at the party at the time that the once alleged incident took place, which leaves us with just one question. Is Matt Arisa's career still over? Well, his attorney says that several teams have been in contact with the once highly touted punting prospect. But as of right now, Arisa remains unsigned. But if the NFL has shown us anything, it's that they don't have a problem signing people who have actually been convicted of crimes.

[00:11:38]So, I'm sure Arisa will find his way back on our roster sometime soon.

[00:11:42]>> Even when a man can prove the accusations are false, he is forced to carry the stigma forever. Anyway, >> we need to talk about why the person that falsely accused Matarza for what he did last year is not getting anywhere near the treatment that he got just a short year ago. Now, we all know the story. We all know the allegations, but this kid literally got cut from the Buffalo Bills after the story came out.

[00:12:07]Months later, we heard that no criminal charges were being prosecuted on the guy. And it wasn't until yesterday when we heard exactly why no criminal or civil charges were going to be placed.

[00:12:19]>> Despite his ironclad alibi, he still had to fight for over a year to get the charges dropped.

[00:12:26]>> Why, you might ask? Because he wasn't even there. He was not even there. This was according to discovery. He was gone by 12:30. 12:30 a.m. before the alleged incident happened.

[00:12:41]It's number two. Number two, this girl lied about her age. And apparently in the state of California, as long as it's objectively reasonable to believe the liar, then there's no malice toward it.

[00:12:53]But that's beyond the case. It's still disgust.

[00:12:55]>> False accusations can completely destroy a man's life. No wonder men are walking away.

[00:13:02]>> But this is even where it gets saucier right here. It looks like the blank was more so consensual. So, you know what that means, ladies and gents? That essentially means that the liar, that's what I'm going to call her from now on, was a part of a movie that she was ashamed of, completely consensual, and she decides that, hey, I'm going to ruin this one guy's life so I can get some attention.

[00:13:35]It is horrifying how a woman can retroactively just withdraw consent at any time like that.

[00:13:41]>> And a little bit of clout. Look, I do want to go out and say that say for example that this turned out to be the opposite, then I want that guy to be nailed to a steak, but where I have an issue is is that these false accusers just get completely let off. Matt Arza lost his career, lost his reputation, and he is never going to recover. Just look at Shawn Open. Same thing.

[00:14:10]Absolute nonsense.

[00:14:11]>> Women who falsely accuse men deserve jail time, not a mere slap on the wrist.

[00:14:16]In my opinion, >> the woman that falsely accused Matt Arisa needs to be held accountable. I mean, not only did she tarnish his name, but she also tarnished his career, to which she seemed pretty happy about.

[00:14:27]Matt getting cut from the team definitely was a boost for me. I was really starting to feel hopeless and I'm sure he also felt hopeless after getting cut from a team after just being drafted as a punter.

[00:14:40]>> Wish that he was never drafted.

[00:14:42]>> And I guess I don't understand how his name was publicly tarnished while we still don't even know the name of hers because it's easy to hide behind a screen. But she needs to be held accountable.

[00:14:51]>> Not only did she destroy this man, but she's also allowed to remain completely anonymous. The woman who falsely accused Matt Arisa has stopped pursuing her lawsuit. But this is after she asked him for a settlement and ruined his NFL career.

[00:15:04]>> Offered a settlement to remove me from the case for $50,000. I'm not willing to pay money to someone who damaged me and lied about me and uh and caused a lot of harm to me and my family. I'm not willing to do that.

[00:15:16]>> We all hope some NFL team gives Matt Arisa a second chance. Demanding a payoff after you ruined a man's life only makes sense to a modern woman. It seems that is absolutely disgusting.

[00:15:28]>> In today's polarized world, is feminism dead? I saw your hand.

[00:15:32]>> I think that depends on the definition of feminism. I strongly think that feminism is more of an action than an identity. I would say it's uplifting all women, in which case it's very alive. At the same time, um if we do follow that definition, feminism has splintered off into so many different areas that you can look at, um people like Cheryl Sandberg who say you should just get another nanny if you feel oppressed. And if we're talking about that kind of feminism, um yeah, it's pretty dead.

[00:15:56]>> I think feminism um isn't actually about equality. It's about equality when it benefits us. I think feminism is really about women wanting special privileges and treatment at the expense of men often. And I think it's alive and well.

[00:16:08]Sadly, >> feminism doesn't uplift anybody. It just makes all of its followers bitter, angry, and miserable. If women think that feminism is good for them, they are completely lost at this point.

[00:16:20]>> As a society, women are treated differently. Like, >> I think as a society, women are very privileged over men.

[00:16:26]>> I think we're privileged, but I don't think we're priv privileged over men.

[00:16:29]Like, I feel like a woman should feel safe like walking home at night alone, and I don't feel like that's always the case for something like that. A man walking alone at night in the city always feel safe?

[00:16:40]>> Probably not. But I think a woman a man's probably worried about being beat up. A woman's worried about being >> It almost sounds like she has no problem with men getting beaten up by criminals.

[00:16:51]>> Did you also know that if you factor in prison, men are actually a higher share of victims than women are?

[00:16:57]>> Such a different That's not like they're not in a >> I'm just saying the world is not fair and bad things happen. What I'm looking for is actual evidence that women are somehow uniquely oppressed as a group by men.

[00:17:08]>> I feel like the only reason I have my >> And if you start your statement with I feel like, that's by definition not going to be factual. That's going to be just opinion.

[00:17:16]>> The only reason I have my opinion about the way women are being treated is because of how I've been treated and how I've seen my friends be treated.

[00:17:23]>> It's actually a very simple rule. If you choose horrible men, you can't be surprised when you are treated horribly.

[00:17:29]>> Anecdote. If there's tons of women coming together, there's a message there.

[00:17:34]>> Oh, okay. What if a bunch of Trump supporters come together on January 6 and say, "We really feel like this election wasn't fair."

[00:17:42]>> If if if >> I mean, it has to be proof that it's true cuz a whole bunch of people came together.

[00:17:47]>> Black people stormed the capital, they would have all been they would have >> Black people were allowed to riot in the streets and burn down entire cities for a whole summer and nobody went around them. They love to respond to logical arguments with, "Oh, that's totally different." But it's not. It is the same.

[00:18:05]>> You say the extremes when people don't say the extremes and they don't like the truth. They like say the exceptions. If I would I jump off a cliff if he told me to. Come on. Do you honestly think I would? You don't know.

[00:18:17]>> Please don't.

[00:18:17]>> Come on. I If people really think that, then >> if you were in danger in a mountain cat, you would. You would.

[00:18:23]>> Of course. But this is what upsets me is that because my view is actually the truth that people think, "Oh, she was the truth."

[00:18:30]>> It just is. Look, look around. So, you're telling me that any a thriving dynamic, whether it's sports, whether it's law enforcement, whether it's a a Fortune 500 company that they put coins in every day, one person decides who leaves. No, that is not how it goes in life. There have in any successful dynamic or business or entity, there is one leader. Just because that leader is a man, it doesn't automatically mean that it's oppression. If you would like to get early access to videos, weekly lectures, and case study breakdowns of human behavior, make sure you check out the members area link below in the video description. Otherwise, make sure to click on one of these videos on screen now if you enjoyed. Make sure you take care of yourself and I will see you in the next one. Peace.