In relationships, toxic patterns often emerge when one partner consistently dismisses the other's feelings, avoids accountability, and engages in gaslighting behaviors, creating a cycle where the victim feels unheard and undervalued while the other partner becomes defensive and manipulative.
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Freshie - My Time (Official Music Video)Added:
I remember when you used to sing to me.
Oh, I'm so tired.
Oh my god, my feet hurt so bad.
Then I have to go in here and deal with this attitude, too. Oh my god.
Really not looking to What's wrong?
I mean And I got some tea for you later, too.
I said what I said.
Yeah.
Hold on, girl.
I'mma have to call you back.
All right, bye.
So, what? You're just going to ignore me?
I didn't feel like arguing.
You didn't feel like responding. That's the difference. I call you, I text you, do everything I need to do to get in contact with you, but you can go outside and be on live with your friends, be at the club, and you didn't even come over to talk to me last night. Like, what the [ __ ] is that?
>> So, you keeping tabs on me now? That's what we doing? I'm not keeping tabs on you. I'm trying to figure out why the rest of the world can access you, but I can't talk to my girl. Cuz every time we talk, it turns into this.
>> No, it turns into this when you avoid my feelings or any conversation with a problem. You always make everything seem like it's too much before I can even get a full sentence out.
>> Maybe you just don't know how to let [ __ ] go. It's not about letting things go, it's about avoiding accountability.
You always want me to show up for you when you try to check me for something.
So, now I'm avoiding accountability.
Why? Cuz I didn't text you back fast enough? No, for making me feel like whatever I have going on doesn't matter to you. We got into a whole argument last night about what you did to me. I brought it up to you for the first time, but then you spent all day today disappearing and not responding to nothing.
>> You're making it bigger than what it is.
No, you're always minimizing it. And I'm tired of it, man. You're gaslighting me again. I've had enough of that.
>> So, now I'm gaslighting you. Here we go again. When you flip things and make it into this [ __ ] and make me feel crazy for it, absolutely. Like, even right now, we're not even talking about my issue last night. You're deflecting, again. Maybe you're just too sensitive.
[music] Maybe you're just insensitive.
Look, everything doesn't revolve around how you feel in the moment. And I feel like that's selfish for you to feel like it. I'm selfish because I don't want to sit around and argue all day and cater to your feelings?
>> No, it's selfish when you disappear when it matters the most.
That's not taking space. That's emotional neglect.
>> So, now I'm neglecting you. Look, I'm tired of holding my tongue for peace.
When I'm trying to talk to you and we can't have direct solutions for [ __ ] that's when I have a issue.
>> is what your ex was talking about.
No, what she said was I was too emotional, that I was too sensitive, and that my tone was off. But, in reality, she Ignoring my feelings, flipping everything whenever she had the chance to, not truly addressing the problem that I'm bringing to the table.
You're doing the same thing. I recognize the patterns. So, tell me how you any different. Cuz I'm not about to sit here and be every time you're feeling triggered. You came at me with a tone like I'm already in the wrong, and when I react to your tone, you don't like it. I'm selfish, I'm insensitive, and I'm now I'm a narcissist.
>> even saying all of those things. And to be honest, I'm not even triggered right now. I'm just responding to you. You just don't like what I'm responding to.
Period.
You know what, Fashie?
After all these years, I'm done.
So, you're just going to break up with me? For good this time, too.
>> [laughter] >> I'm not going to lie, y'all funny as hell together.
Yeah, real funny.
So, which one of y'all more toxic?
You know Fashie emotional as hell.
How you deal with that?
I mean, you just have to deal with her moods, [music] babysit that sometimes.
Why do you always do that?
Do what? You be trying to play me like I'm a joke in front of everybody. You don't talk to me like that when we're by ourselves. You tripping. It was just a joke.
That was not a joke.
Oh my god, see, this why I don't like going out with you cuz every time we go out, you do this.
You know what? When we get back, I'm staying with my friend tonight. I'm not doing this with you again.
I'm trying to love you for real, but like every time you really on, you know what I mean?
Don't matter what I do, matter what I don't.
>> [music] >> I'm trying to love you.
>> [music] >> I've been alone down this road before.
Tell me how you're different. You want me cuz my love is pure. Then you get dismissive [music] if it ain't your way.
But, it's toxic.
We're in a cycle.
>> [music] >> I don't want to love the right way. And I'm trying, but you [singing] won't listen. You'd rather hurt me cuz it's easy. Yeah, I'm trying, but [music] this tension. You'd rather push me fall or leave me. I don't deserve [music and singing] this. I don't deserve this. I know my heart is bleeding. I don't deserve this. I [music] don't deserve this. I tried, but I was I've been alone down [music] this road before. Tell me how you're different.
You want me cuz my [music] love is pure.
Then you get dismissive if it ain't your way.
But, it's toxic. [music] We're in a cycle.
I don't want to love the right way. I've been given to >> [music and singing] >> leave you. You got the heart I'm needing. You know I've [music] been around so long. So, trust me, girl, just see it. If you going to play me like the [music] other guy, trust me, I believe it. My heart is open up for love. But, play the role you're leading. [music] This ain't true.
More [music] like chance again.
This ain't cool.
This ain't true.
>> [music] >> More like chance again.
I've been alone down this road [music] before. Tell me how you're different.
You want me cuz my love is [music] pure.
Then you get dismissive if it ain't your way.
But, [music] it's toxic.
We're in a cycle.
I don't [music] want to love the right way.
>> [music] [music] [music]
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