Why You Keep Reacting the Same Way (Even When You Know Better)

Ajouté : 2026-06-03

[00:00:00]You know what you should do?

[00:00:01]You just don't do it.

[00:00:03]You've had the insight, maybe more than once.

[00:00:06]You understand why it keeps happening.

[00:00:08]And then your partner does the thing and you react exactly the same way that you always have.

[00:00:14]Not because you're weak, not because you don't care.

[00:00:18]By the age of seven, most of what you believe about love, about what it feels like when it's real, what it means when it's absent, how much of you self is safe to give, is already set.

[00:00:30]It's not running in the background.

[00:00:33]It's running the show. And the question isn't what you know, it's what's wired.

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