Jealous Man Complaining About Not Getting Successful Woman's Attention

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]So, I started talking to this young lady, right? And as soon as I got her Instagram, all her highlights, I swear on my life, bro, every single highlight was a different country, a different location.

[00:00:14]Crazy. Like different places. And and she's a nurse. If you know, you know. But once I saw that, that was already like a red flag kind of for me.

[00:00:25]So, I'm like, damn. like I'm not I don't I'm not taking nobody serious anyway.

[00:00:29]That's the best thing to do anyway. Like I have no expectation or stuff. But once I saw that, I kind of knew what was up.

[00:00:34]And then also too, like she gave me first of all, she gave me her number and we was texting, you know, back and forth for like two days, left me undelivered.

[00:00:45]After that, I'm like, I'm not I don't give a [ __ ] at that point no more. Like I'm not about to text you back or anything like that. Like if you never hit me back, I don't give a [ __ ] like I'm about to I'm about to remove you from my Instagram and unfollow you anyway and delete your number. Like I don't give a [ __ ] at that point. But I'm just saying like when you see that on their page on their Instagram and [ __ ] bro, just know that they be everywhere with everybody. So, and they rosters be long as [ __ ] too. So, I'm not worried about it. It just when I saw that, that was a sign for me right there. Like, okay. Like, I already knew it was coming. to sit up here and to project and deflect your flaws on this woman.

[00:01:25]To project and deflect your flaws and your failures on this woman and then you sitting up here talking about she left you on red after y'all was texting back and forth is because she probably realized how lame you are.

[00:01:42]Just like how it's very lame for you to be sitting in this car complaining about this woman. That's very lame activity, bro.

[00:01:50]very lame to sit up here and deflect and project your flaws on this woman because of her career, because of her skill set of being able to travel the world, probably sightsee, something that she probably like to do, and being a nurse, something that she probably enjoy doing.

[00:02:17]and to project and deflect your insecurities because you probably not able to travel the world. You not a you probably not can't afford it.

[00:02:28]So you want to cancel and write this woman off as she's probably out there for the streets and she probably out there doing this and doing that with all these other dudes around the world to project your failure on this woman like that.

[00:02:43]And then this the thing. This is why a lot of y'all men, you got to understand.

[00:02:47]This is why women call you sassy.

[00:02:50]This is why women call you sassy. This is ungodly sassiness.

[00:02:58]This is ungodly, unforgivable sassiness to the 10th power. And this why I try to tell so many women cuz I as a man with daughters like myself, this why I try to tell a lot of women. Go get your go do what you got to do.

[00:03:17]Go provide for yourself. If you want to go back to school, if you want to become a nurse, go into real estate, go into law school, do whatever the heck you you want to do and what you got to do because it's so many men out here. It don't matter what a woman do. It don't matter what a woman do. It It don't matter what a woman do. Y'all dudes gonna find something wrong.

[00:03:42]Y'all gonna find something wrong in the whole grand scheme of it, bro. If you broke, just say you broke, bro. It's okay. Everybody have a downtime in their life financially. But to use your downtime, your failure to project that on that woman like that.

[00:04:01]Dude, if you broke, just say you broke.

[00:04:05]Broke.

[00:04:08]Broke.

[00:04:10]Broke.

[00:04:12]Just say you broke.

[00:04:14]Don't Don't walk around here pissing and and and and and throwing crap and smearing it on the wall on your way out the door because this woman don't have interest in you. This woman probably have enough experience to know the red flags of what she's dealing with. And that's probably why she left you on red.

[00:04:34]That's probably why she left you on red.

[00:04:38]And see, I'mma have this ugly sidebar conversation because a lot of men, this this the thing. A lot of times y'all try to tell women, "You need to pick better. You should have chose better. You should have picked better."

[00:04:52]you chose them.

[00:04:55]And this is a prime example of what happens when a woman chooses better.

[00:05:01]That's what a lot of men got to understand this. When y'all try to tell women to choose better, you should have chose better. You should have picked better. Understand that sometimes a lot of times these women choose themselves.

[00:05:14]That's picking better. That's holding themselves accountable as women. Y'all so fixated on women being held accountable, right? And when y'all sit up here and you try to tell women, "You should have chose better. You should have picked better." When they say, "You know what? Let me hold myself accountable for dealing with these dusties." And you know what? Let me hold myself accountable and let me choose better. Let me choose myself for a moment. And then when a woman choose herself, go back to school or develop her skill set, her career, then there's something wrong with that.

[00:05:50]Y'all, that's what I'm telling you.

[00:05:51]Y'all got to realize that ain't the flex that y'all dudes be thinking y'all be trying to flex on when y'all be trying to flex on women trying to tell them to choose better and all this other stuff.

[00:06:01]And when they choose themselves, that ain't the flex that y'all think it is when y'all be trying to laugh and troll and have these little straw man arguments.

[00:06:15]Understand that when a woman choose herself, that's a part of choosing better. It's not gonna always trying to hop over here to a different type of man or this type of It ain't always the case.

[00:06:29]A lot of men got to understand this.

[00:06:34]You ain't a lot of y'all you think you the prize. Stop thinking you the prize.

[00:06:39]Stop thinking you the prize.

[00:06:42]And that's the sidebar conversation we got to have when y'all Another thing when y'all tell women to choose better.

[00:06:50]The reason why these women are choosing themselves is because just like what I've been talking about for the past couple months, domestic violence, how a lot of y'all men, especially black men, you can't control yourself. You can't handle rejection. You don't want to you can't handle when a when a woman in particular, a black woman want to move on. All these depressing stories I've been covering, you know, women being taken out, being killed at the hands of their husband, being taken out by at the hands of their boyfriend, their fiance, and that's them choosing better. That's them choosing to be away from hurt, harm, and danger. That's them choosing better.

[00:07:30]Another way you telling them to choose better, less and less black women are giving birth. If y'all want to look at it, look at the statistics. Birth rates are down amongst black women. They're choosing better because black women are three times, four times likely to die during childirth. So that's why they choosing better. They're choosing to not get pregnant so they don't have to deal with these janky doctors, these janky nurses, and some of these janky sorry men.

[00:08:01]I'm going to say it.

[00:08:04]I'm going to say it. I'm gonna put an address on it every time.

[00:08:08]So all this stuff, man, it the bullying tactics, the shaming tactics, and all this other stuff that it's not the flex that y'all think it is.

[00:08:19]It's really not the flex. And and and if y'all think y'all shaming like y'all shaming tactics are working, it ain't working, dog.

[00:08:31]It ain't working.

[00:08:34]Not at all.

[00:08:36]Not one bit.

[00:08:39]So that's why I say, man, all the time, uh, do what you got to do. And, and that's what I'm trying to understand.

[00:08:46]Until a woman is taken off the market by a man with some godly intentions.

[00:08:54]until a woman is taken off the market until meantime further notice and she's single and she wants to provide a certain lifestyle for herself as a single woman. Riddle me this. What is she supposed to do?

[00:09:08]You want her just sitting there being down and out, being a bump on a log, no skill set to provide for herself, huh?

[00:09:22]struggling to keep her lights on.

[00:09:26]Uh uh uh the repo man looking for a car.

[00:09:28]Hey mama, can I borrow your garage? I need to park my car over there. The repo man keeps circling around my apartment complex looking for my car. Let me come over there and borrow your the other Can I come over there and clear the other side of your garage off so I can put my car in there?

[00:09:46]Is that what y'all want? Is that what y you want a woman down and out? is like, is that what you you would be attracted to as a man? Seriously, no. You wouldn't want that either because guess what? You going to move the goalpost and then you going to say you don't bring nothing to the table.

[00:10:03]So that's why I say it's dang if you do, dang if you don't. Y'all got to start understanding these ungodly sassy behaviors and these double standards that some of y'all men have when y'all try to project y'all failure on women and you tell women to choose better.

[00:10:21]This why they're choosing better in so many cases cases and instances they're choosing themselves.

[00:10:29]I just don't understand that. What is a woman supposed to do until meantime further notice of a man with real godly intentions taken off the market? I'm really just trying to compute that. I'm trying to understand that. I can't understand it. It I can't make sense of it cuz it don't make sense.

[00:10:47]That that is the operation of chaos.

[00:10:50]That is the enemy. That is demonic.

[00:10:53]Demons, chaos is not meant to be understood. It it won't be understood.

[00:10:58]And that's why I have a hard time with understanding whatever. But anyway, man, uh, leave your comment down below. Uh, let's have this com conversation in the comment section. Uh, but do what you got to do, ladies. Do what it do what you got to do. If choosing better is choosing you for a season for until further notice, do what you got to do.

[00:11:19]God bless. Peace.