Is Emetophobia an excuse to do THIS? 

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]Oh, immediately. Yes. You know, that's not fair. I probably wouldn't throw him out. I'd probably just give him up for adoption. But yeah, no, he um he'd be long gone. Long gone. Yeah, absolutely.

[00:00:12]Wild way to start a video. I know.

[00:00:15]Hello, my fellow concerned friends.

[00:00:17]Thank you so much for showing up and watching and supporting me every single time I post. It genuinely means the world to me. And if you're new here, hello. Welcome to my channel. Thank you so much for clicking on my video. out of all of these other videos you could have clicked on, you chose mine. I really, really am appreciative of that. I hope that you stick around and you get something beneficial from my content today. I have said this now, this is the third video, so some of you might be getting sick and tired of hearing me say this, but I have made a second YouTube channel, Danielle's Ramblings, where I will just be rambling. For example, my first video that I posted, I was talking about the break that I took recently and the whirlwind that has been happening in my life that I have been trying to navigate and uh figure out as a mentally ill and very easily triggered person, especially when the triggers are foster care. Okay. Um, so I will be just like posting videos about likes, interests, like whatever. I don't know, rambling, rambling about stuff that is not very important and I don't think is very uh appropriate to share on this channel because this is a huge heavy advocacy and awareness channel where we talk about things that need to be highlighted and we need to bring awareness to things that are not talked about a lot. Parents need to know things. Law enforcement needs to be up to date. We are building a community of angry advocates over here and I would much rather have a different separate place to be a little more silly or talk about not very serious stuff.

[00:01:38]So, if that's something that you would be interested in, definitely go check out my second channel below. And I am really thankful for all of you guys who have already went over there and subscribed and interacted with my last video. I genuinely genuinely appreciate it. Parenting is not fun most of the time and it is quite disgusting a lot of the time. And that's coming from a mom to multiple who loves her kids so much.

[00:02:02]My kids are my entire world. But I am not going to lie to you like I was lied to as an exeangelical and tell you that parenthood is the best thing, most joyous thing in your entire life.

[00:02:12]Because guess what? It isn't number one for everybody. It's not. A lot of people don't want to be parents and they should not be pressured into being parents, but number two, it's nasty.

[00:02:23]the potty training, teaching how to eat food normally, the messes, the messes, and the sickness.

[00:02:34]The sickness is absolutely the worst because kids, young kids don't know their body. At least they don't know how to like pinpoint where that pain is coming from and describe to you what is happening in their body and what is hurting so that you can help them. They also do not have it within their internal wiring yet to know that when I am about to upchuck, I need to make it to the nearest toilet or trash can or or or some receptacle that is not the floor, myself or the bed. Right?

[00:03:05]Children can't do that yet. That's they need you to be there for them to wait on them hand and foot to learn how to listen to their body, learn how to communicate what is going on in their body, and learn how to listen to their body when their body is telling them, "I'm about to throw up." instead of letting them be confused about why they're feeling that and then vomiting on themselves or on the floor last second. Okay? Uh as parents when we enter parenthood, these are things that we should be prepared for. We should be prepared for it to be inconvenient. The most inconvenient thing you will ever do in your life is be a parent. Quote me on that. Okay? The most inconvenient thing you will ever do in your life is be a parent. It is not meant to be convenient. You quite literally made the decision to raise a human being.

[00:03:51]You essentially decided to raise a computer from I mean I guess infancy.

[00:03:58]Raise a computer chip and create it into the big ma magnificent brain that is our computer chip. Except you don't want to actually go through the messy arduous process of getting those wires in the right place and actually being able to construct it. It's inconvenient. I don't want to do it. It's too hard. or in this mom's case, it's too yucky. I have a metophobia. It's too yucky. I, as a mom, just I can't be around my sick kid. So, I'm going to send my sick kid to sleep outside on a dog bed in my driveway. I have been tagged in this video a million times. A million times I have been tagged in this video. And I'm not going to play the video because it just has music in the background and it's just her walking like around like kind of doing like a a pan panoramic. Is that what it is? Like panoramic kind of shot.

[00:04:47]Not really panor I don't know what I'm saying. Uh she's just showing the setup.

[00:04:51]Okay. And I'll put a picture in right here. Uh I'm going to have the actual child blurred obviously. But as you can see, dog bed setup. I mean it looks really comfy. Got some books there, some entertaining stuff. Dad's behind him patting him giving him comfort. But her text on the screen literally says, "Point of view. You have amophobia, so your toddler's stomach virus gets moved to the driveway." Obviously, the internet was in an uproar about this and I'm angry about it, too, just based off of that very first video. Like, as a mom, if that would have just come up on my for you page, which I was tagged in it a lot and I was still like, "What?

[00:05:29]I Why are you a parent? you don't like yucky stuff yet you had kids. And we go on to later find out because I was scrolling through her videos, she tried really hard for this kid. Like went through multiple rounds of IVF and other very traumatic things to have this child. I would have thought in that whole time you would have been able to pick up a parenting book and learn about how gross it is. People like this drive me crazy because they think having a child will like fulfill some part of them and it's like an accessory. They literally, in my opinion, they view their kids as like accessories and they don't want to have to put that much work into it, but they really want a kid, right? Because it would complete their family. A lot of these people genuinely do not feel like they will be satisfied or fulfilled in life unless they have a child for various various reasons. I know me specifically coming from the seven-yearish, but I I was not a Christian for very long, but my god, it felt like my whole life, dude. Um but for during that time that I was converted into Christianity uh and then I deconverted I deconstructed decon converted yeah it was heavily pushed that like as a woman in particular I am not fulfilling God's will for my life if I have a womb that can have children and I choose not to and that was a lot of pressure on me like as soon as you get married you need to start having kids that that was like the standard in the church and As much as I love my kids, um, and I wouldn't have it any other way, everything worked out somehow beautifully. I hate that.

[00:07:02]I hate that so much that I felt like I would not be anything worthwhile in life unless I had children that I could pour into and treat in all the ways that I wasn't treated. But that's not true. And so whatever background it is that makes people feel like they will not be fulfilled until they have a family doesn't matter because they don't prepare themselves in the meantime. The family, the mom that we're looking at today, obviously went through a lot to have this child. And yet, from what I can see in the subsequent videos following the one we just looked at, it really seems to me like in her mind, she has it all figured out. She is the perfect mom. She does not need any tips, tricks, ideas. She's got it 100% figured out. She doesn't need advice from anybody. She is a great mom and she's not going to let anybody tell her any differently. As a mom, that's always a really big red flag to me because I like to think that I'm a very good mom. But honestly, in my opinion, I won't know that until my kids are grown.

[00:08:02]I will claim that I I am a damn good mom. You can't tell me any differently.

[00:08:07]Like, I do nothing wrong. I will never claim that until my kids tell me that themselves. I'm not gonna sit here and say I'm a bad mom probably and like be all mopey and poopy dupy on myself. I know that I'm a good mom, but I'm not going to sit here and like what we're about to see today and like act like I'm the saint of all mothers until my kids get old enough to critique what I have done. That is the only time I think that I'll be able to sit back and say, "Ah, I did it." Because motherhood is constantly stressful because you're constantly trying to put your kids first, their health and their needs and everything else first. And you're constantly asking yourself, "Am I doing them enough? Am I doing enough? So, yeah, it's a red flag to me when parents don't think that they're doing like they don't think that they need to do anymore. They don't need to learn anymore. They have it all figured out.

[00:08:47]This is such a red flag to me. But I want to see I want to show you guys how people responded and what her explanation was for having her son outside because this is a wild ride.

[00:09:01]Like the one video starting off, I'm like, "Okay, this is bad enough. Maybe it's a joke, a bad joke, but like whatever." these subsequent videos. I'm like, "Girl, log off of your phone.

[00:09:11]Please log off of your phone and actually go talk to somebody about this because then maybe they will knock some sense into you." Okay, so some of you parenting experts are acting like I banished my son to the driveway with a loaf of bread and no supervision. Um, number one, he wanted to go outside.

[00:09:24]Now, I am a severe amophobe. So, hearing that from my stomach bugged toddler was very welcome. I was so happy he wanted to go outside. Also, because fresh air, vitamin D, that's amazing for you when you're sick or you're not feeling well.

[00:09:39]So, because I wanted him to be out, be comfortable outside, I brought out all these blankets and pillows so that he could get cozy on the driveway. Um, even though he just wanted to be out there and walking around, we had a spot for him that he could lay down. He also had unlimited iPad access, which as parents who don't do screen time, this was like a once in a-lifetime treat for him. He also had two doting loving parents catering to him the entire time. We did not leave his side. When my husband and I felt like, okay, that's enough fresh air cuz it was starting to get a little warm, we brought him inside and let him lay on the couch, nap, took care of him.

[00:10:19]Okay, I promise you, he is not going to grow up feeling like he was a neglected little sick poor child. Okay, he's very loved. He was pampered and now he's just back to his silly self and I'm here as an amophobe in my three-day panic fearing that I'm gonna be getting this now um and dealing with that. But I promise you the boy is doing well. He's good. He's love. She should have just left this here. Like she really should have just left this here because in hearing her explain, I can kind of see now that yeah, it probably was just a joke video. You are not very smart to think that that would land well. Okay.

[00:10:57]When people on the internet see a child sleeping in in the driveway, it doesn't matter that his dad's behind him or not, and you yourself implied that you kicked him out because you just didn't want germs in your house. Yes, the internet is going to respond poorly. Now, in her response, I totally see where she's coming from. Okay. Yes, as a mother, my kids have definitely wanted to be outside when they're not feeling well and they want to feel that sun on their skin and get a good nap, maybe under a tree or something. Yeah, I'm not going to say no to that. Just because you're sick does not mean you have to stay in your bed. You go where you are comfortable within reason, of course.

[00:11:32]Um, should have just left it there.

[00:11:34]However, the thing is is she doesn't leave it there. Okay. Um, oh yeah, and also especially because he had both parents outside supposedly and he was being pampered, taking care of, whatever. Should have just left it out there. All right. But she doesn't. She does not leave it out there. She literally continues to go on and respond to like as many hate comments as she can. Not really. I'm kind of over exaggerating, but she makes multiple multiple videos. And I also noticed in these videos, I feel like her story is changing a little bit. Even in this video that I just played, I'll like replay the clip for you, but she like Freudian slips herself. She's like, I wanted him out. I mean, I wanted him comfortable outside. And it's like, did he want to go outside? Was this his idea? Or did you like coers and persuade him to go outside because you were inconvenienced at his vomiting?

[00:12:18]>> Fresh air, vitamin D. that's amazing for you when you're sick or you're not feeling well. So, because I wanted him to be out, be comfortable outside.

[00:12:26]>> The next video I'm about to play for you is of her in a car responding to a mandated reporter who told her that she wants to report her. Like, if she knew the name and the area and everything, she would report her. And I personally, especially like knowing like, okay, he had parents outside. He wasn't left alone. And allegedly it was his idea. I'm only about to say what I say if it was absolutely his idea. I think that that's kind of like blowing out of proportion to report someone for letting their child be sick where their child was comfortable being sick. I do think that that is ridiculous and insane to me.

[00:13:06]Okay, I think that that's insane. Like, come on, dude. Like, really, honestly, come on. Um, it's a sick child who allegedly wanted to sleep outside. He was not left alone and he was being cared for. That's very extreme to want to have a child removed from that kind of home. However, however, number one, we still don't know if it was his idea and I'm going to prove that later on. Okay? So, like I only stand by that if it really was his idea and she's not like forcing him to do something strange like that. Okay?

[00:13:35]Number two, in these two subsequent videos, she is responding while filming herself driving in the car. And like there's multiple clips where she had to like go through and edit it or like stop and start the video. And the first video, I think it's the first video. I'm not going to play the whole thing. I think it's the one where she's like, you know, like basically cussing out this mandated reporter and it's like, "Try me. Try me. Make that report. Try me."

[00:13:58]It's like 4 minutes long and cut up. So, like, dude, and there's another video where she is driving also cut up. Like, how how mad were you that people were concerned about the safety of your child because of a video you posted? Okay, I wasn't even going to entertain this, but this has gotten so comically out of hand that I I just cannot stay silent anymore.

[00:14:24]Please, please report me. Um, I would love to see what the report looks like.

[00:14:31]Um, is it that I had my kid outside getting fresh air when he wasn't feeling well? Um, is it that I made sure that he was in a shady spot so that the sun wasn't beating down on him when he wasn't feeling well? Is it that both of his parents stayed out with him all day until we told him to come inside and get rest, even though he wanted to be outside right next to him all day? Um, not really sure what the report is, but I would love to see it. Um, the only people I'd feel bad for are the people you're reporting it to because then it's a waste of their time to have to look into this report. That video is 3 minutes and 47 seconds long. And I am not going to sit here and make you listen to all of it. It is ranting and raving and I did nothing wrong. You guys are all blowing this out of proportion.

[00:15:29]Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. And to an extent, I do agree. Like if what she is saying is true, if what she is saying is true and her child her child came to her and said I want to go outside while I am not feeling well.

[00:15:44]Yeah, this is like like ridiculous. Like why why would you want a child to be removed from a home where the parents are okay with the child going wherever they feel comfortable being sick? Okay, but what's not making her look good is sitting here like try me. Go ahead and report me. I'd like to see what's on that report. One. Yeah. two good loving parents. Like it's that attitude that does make people want to report you.

[00:16:07]Like and not that I agree with it, but like it's a little concerning like how angry you are at people because of your fault. Like this is all your own fault.

[00:16:19]It's genuinely all your own fault. And she continues to go on for 3 minutes and 47 seconds driving ranting to a mandated reporter. like the unhinged behavior is not helping the case at all. I can understand that she is feeling really defensive because, you know, like according to her, he really did want to be the one to go outside and she's probably feeling like a lot of like, you know, internal anger, but she's directing it in all the wrong places. She needs to be directing it at herself. And take this as a learning lesson that number one, I need to be more careful about how I word things and make it clear that it's a joke. And number two, maybe I just don't post my child online and all of this could have been avoided. But no, none of it's her fault. It's everybody else's fault because nobody knows how to take a joke.

[00:17:06]Nobody understands meophobia. And like I said, it feels like the story continues to change throughout. Um, I would love to read that report.

[00:17:15]Some of these comments I am thinking of printing them out and hanging them on my refrigerator because they are so entertaining. You guys are acting like I threw my son in a dumpster in a foreign place and ran away. Like I said, I can understand her frustration if once again it was the son's idea and she was just doing what her child was most comfortable with. But you're not helping your case by being like, "This is so funny to me. People think I hurt my kid.

[00:17:43]That's so funny. I'm actually going to print off comments of people thinking I hurt my kid and post them on my fridge.

[00:17:50]That none of this is funny.

[00:17:54]Like literally nothing about this is a laughing matter. Oh, immediately yes.

[00:17:59]You know, that's not fair. I probably wouldn't throw him out. I'd probably just give him up for adoption. But yeah, no, he um he'd be long gone. Long gone.

[00:18:08]Yeah, absolutely.

[00:18:10]>> Right. because that's really going to help your case. That the the heavy sarcasm on harming your child is really going to help your case. Like none of this is funny and it does not make you look like a good mom. Like so seriously, it should have been done and over with at that very first explanation video because as a fellow parent, like I know a lot of people who aren't parents would probably still be like a child should be in their bed when they're sick. I don't believe that. I believe that wherever my child feels comfortable within reason is where they deserve to be. And if that's outside on a hammock or outside on a clean dog bed, whatever, dude. Whatever is going to help you feel better. Um, but once again, she she uh came to the internet in a way that says, "I don't like my kid sick, so I make my kid go outside." and now is arguing with people and making jokes about harming her kid and making jokes about printing off hate comments instead of simply being like, "Guys, like, believe it or not, it really was a joke. It was a bad joke and I should not have made the joke. I do not force my child to go outside. Like, it really could have just ended there, but no, we have to keep it going." Okay, just wanted to give you guys a quick update. Um, I just got into my warm, cozy bed. My son is still um on the driveway. We think it's best to just leave him there overnight. And I think it's fine because generally the coyotes only go in the backyard and not in the front or on the driveway. So, I think he'll be good there. And then I'll check on him in the morning. He has everything he needs out there. Um blanket, pillows, I gave him some water. Um, zombie suggested like a a barf bucket. So, um, I just took like our big garbage can and wheeled it next to him. So, if he needs um he could just use that. He can't actually like reach the top of the garbage can, but like I think if he if he dumps the garbage over, he might be able to like kind of get into it from the side. So, yeah. Um, I'm going to rest and relax in my king-size bed and get a good night's sleep and I will check in on him in the morning and I'll let you guys know how he's doing. Have a great night. I could not imagine making jokes like that about my kid.

[00:20:37]There's no amount of people accusing me of being a bad mom on the internet that would ever make me get online and say something like that.

[00:20:45]like this is not helping your case because the internet does not know if you're joking or not. You know if you're joking or not. The internet does not. It does not matter if you're being very clearly sarcastic. Parents, you need to understand that even if you are a good parent, if you portray yourself as a bad parent online, you will get real life consequences.

[00:21:07]Imagine somebody sends that video without context to CPS in your area.

[00:21:12]Lady CPS is not going to be like, "Oh, but it was probably satire. It's probably just joking." No, they're going to hear that a child is possibly sleeping outside with no supervision and the mom is sitting here like joking about it online. And I know a lot of people are going to hear me say that and be like, "Oh my gosh, Danielle, like that's nobody would. Nobody would. You don't know that, though. Why would you play with fire like that? None about nothing about this is is funny. It's not comical. As a mom, I'm highly disgusted.

[00:21:44]I would never say these things about my child as a joke. I don't think that that's funny.

[00:21:50]I don't want to think about my child being uncomfortable. I'm not going to sit here and create a scenario in my head to share with the internet about how I harm my kid because that's what they want to hear.

[00:22:01]This unhinged behavior is so wildly concerning. And it's such a red flag to me as a mom because it tells me like once again like you don't think you do anything wrong. You don't think that you need advice that you need guidance. You think in your mind it's my kid. I have it all figured out. And that is dangerous as parents. We need community. We need guidance. We are not going to get it right 100% of the time.

[00:22:30]And we need to be humble enough to listen to people when they tell us, "Hey, what you're doing is harmful. what you're doing is not as effective as maybe this. We need to be receptive to that, right? Because our most important priority to us is our kids growing up into happy, happy, mentally stable, welladjusted adults, right? Not our own egos.

[00:22:54]Which one do you care about more? Your ego being hurt because you were wrong or making sure that you're giving your child the absolute best chance at adulthood possible? And unfortunately, way too many parents care more about their ego than the actual well-being of their children. The next video she posts, I'm not going to be playing for you because she gets her child to get in front of the camera to perform for the internet being harmed.

[00:23:24]What is the point? Like genuinely, what are you doing?

[00:23:29]I am horrified and disgusted. Here is a screenshot from the video. But what you are seeing, the big black box that I have drew there is her child. And she essentially starts the video by being like, "Hey, why don't are you tired? Why don't you show everybody where you sleep? Show everybody where you sleep because I just don't take care of you because I just neglect you and you're not really part of the family." Blah blah blah blah blah. And the kid gets inside the dog crate and is like, "I'll shut it."

[00:23:58]The fact that you as the mother of that child sat down and really let strangers on the internet get to you so much that you thought, hm, you know what'll really show them? I'm going to make my 2, three-year-old get on camera and act like I neglect him.

[00:24:21]That'll really show the internet.

[00:24:24]That's a person, by the way.

[00:24:27]that that's not a toddler forever.

[00:24:29]That's just one short stage of life and that toddler is going to grow up to be a teenager and then an adult and somebody who has access to social media and can see what you were posting about them. Do you really think that this kid's going to think that this is funny?

[00:24:46]Do you think that he's going to look back at these social media posts and see the original video that you made and then all of the subsequent videos and really think to himself, "Wow, I had a really level-headed mom who really only had my best interest first and she was completely willing and open to hearing people's criticisms and guidance to give me the best chance at a future possible."

[00:25:06]No, that's not what he's going to think.

[00:25:08]It's going to be embarrassing.

[00:25:12]And it's going to be not only embarrassing because that's his mom posting that stuff, but it's going to be personally embarrassing that without his consent and against his will, he was forced to participate in his own humiliation, his own family humiliation. Because nobody's making fun of the kid, everybody's making fun of his parents, which in turn will pass down to him.

[00:25:34]That will trickle down to him.

[00:25:39]This is embarrassment. like the sh the shame you're bringing on your family.

[00:25:42]No, but seriously, all for what? To prove yourself to the internet? To prove to the internet that you're a good mom?

[00:25:49]What do you have to prove, dude?

[00:25:52]I It makes no sense. It's disgusting to me. And the fact that she is pulling her child into this and literally instructing her toddler to act like he is being harmed and get in a crate while being surprised that people feel like she is not a very stable mother. after the original video, uh, driving and ranting and filming in her car at a CPS mandated reporter or whatever, and then instructing her child to get in a dog crate, making a whole video talking about how she's harming her child as a joke, satire. What are you doing? This is the last video I'm going to play for you guys because she has three more after this one. One is once again of her child where she has like the caption being like, "Oh, neglected child gets to like play for the first time today."

[00:26:38]Like I'm grossed out as a mother. This is your kid's digital footprint. Like and you you ego your ego is bigger than your love for your kid. I'm serious. Your ego is bigger than how much you love that child that you worked so hard to get.

[00:26:55]You are willing to embarrass him on the internet. I don't even care about you.

[00:26:59]You're embarrassing your kid at this point, dude. He's just trying to live his life. He doesn't know about all this drama. He doesn't know what's going on.

[00:27:06]He doesn't know what you've been posting about him and what people are saying about him and your relationship. He doesn't know any of this. Only you know that. And you are knowingly putting him in this position for this to follow him for the rest of his life. I am genuinely sickened at you. Like actually sickened all because you couldn't take the heat and admit that you made a bad joke. If you are already thinking that she's unhinged and it can't get any more unhinged, let me show you this, babe.

[00:27:37]Babe, we have to hold off on having any more kids.

[00:27:42]We can't have any more kids because someone on the internet said we should hold off on having any more kids.

[00:27:50]I don't know. Some just some strange person on the internet. Well, everything that you eat on the internet's true.

[00:27:58]Well, should we just get a cat? There was no one there.

[00:28:03]Babe was not there.

[00:28:06]She literally did all of that by herself.

[00:28:13]I mean, yeah, you should get a cat if you are not able to educate yourself on how to be a parent, what to expect as a parent, etc., etc., etc. Yeah, you shouldn't have any more kids. Because she goes on in the last two videos, which like I said, I'm not going to play them for you because at this point, it's just like a lot of repeating the exact same thing except little details change.

[00:28:32]Because in one of the last two videos that she posted, she talks about how she wanted him to go outside and asked him, she asked him if he wanted to go outside because he was throwing up on the floor and in the hallways and she was home alone and he threw up and she had to clean it up and then when she tried to get him to go to the bathroom, he threw up again in the hallway and then she tried to get him to use a bucket or something and he didn't want to. So then she asked him, "Do you want to go outside?" Well, that changed, didn't it?

[00:28:55]That that varied a little bit from the very first explanation where you said he wanted to go outside. So, we woke up. I told him, "We are going to go to the farmers market at a local farm." He was so excited to go. He loves the farmers market and specifically this one because it's on a farm with a ton of animals.

[00:29:14]Then, we were in my room, this room, and out of nowhere, he started vomiting.

[00:29:21]And he vomited all over my room. Walked cuz he he's little. He doesn't know what was happening. And he vomited all over.

[00:29:30]He was like walking around. Didn't know what to do. I asked his mom, rubbed his back, made sure he was okay, told him he was okay. My husband was not home. So I, even though I have a metaphobia, put my child first, much to your dismay, and got on my hands and knees and cleaned up the whole room as a mom would took care of him. And then I said, "Let's see how you feel because maybe it was something you ate.

[00:29:59]you got it out. Um, maybe you're not sick. Fine. Then we walk down the hallway. He throws up again. Grabbed like a bucket for him. He did not want to throw up in the bucket. He wanted to throw up on the floor. Fine. He's two.

[00:30:13]He doesn't know what's happening again.

[00:30:15]I get on my hands on my knees. I clean it. I clean him, take his clothes off, wash him, and then I say, "You know what? I don't think we're going to go to the farm today because your belly is not feeling well." And then he was really upset. He didn't understand why we couldn't go to the farm. So, I said, "We can go outside here if you want.

[00:30:35]It's really nice out." So, he wanted to go outside. If he actually wanted to go outside, no problems here, except for your unhinged behavior. Driving and filming and Tik Tok and like freaking like saying, "Try me" to a mandated reporter. Unhinged. Talking to yourself unhinged. All of this is super unhinged.

[00:30:54]But at the end of the day, like I said, if it was his idea to go take a nap outside, at worst, she had a horrible joke and can't take accountability for it. But based off of her last two videos, I have a hard time believing that he was the one who asked to go outside because she's sitting here talking about how inconvenient and grossed out she was that she had to clean up her own child's throw up because he's sick and coercing him. Let's call it what it is. Her saying, "Hey, do you want to go outside?

[00:31:21]You want to go outside?" Of course, a kid is going to say he wants to go outside. He's thinking of playing. She even says that that he was walking around and playing and stuff because you asked him to go outside and his mind isn't going to rest. His mind's going to playing.

[00:31:33]That's not his choice when you put that thought there in the first place. It is your job as a parent. Like if you genuinely thought going outside and him getting fresh air, if that was the only reason, if you thought that that was the only like that was the only reason you thought that it was a good idea to take him outside, even if he's not asking, I'm not saying anything then.

[00:31:52]That's an actual reason. It is not an actual reason to force your kid to go outside cuz you don't like that they're throwing up on your floor. That's going to happen.

[00:32:02]That's why we have carpet shampooers.

[00:32:03]That's why we have mops. And if you didn't know this, fellow parents, let me clue you into something that makes vomit time so much easier. I don't know how this would work on carpets, though, cuz I've only ever had hardwood floors. Um, cat litter. Okay, you throw up, your cat, your cat, I guess your cat, your kid throws up, sprinkle some cat litter on top, leave it there for a little bit, and sweep it up. It makes it so much easier. Obviously, please disinfect your floors afterwards, but and also don't use dirty litter. like use fresh litter.

[00:32:34]Obviously, um that works like a charm.

[00:32:38]Just because it's inconvenient to you does not mean that you can inconvenience your child.

[00:32:43]Children are an inconvenience. They're meant to be. And if you actually wanted to be a parent, you would have known that. All in all, to conclude this entire really honestly concerning and heartbreaking and weird situation, um if he himself genuinely was the one who wanted to go outside to rest, I think people are overreacting after, you know, we got that information that it was his idea, I think continuing to say, "No, you still deserve to have your child taken away," is like insane.

[00:33:11]However, I don't think that's what happened. I don't I think that she coerced him to go outside because she felt inconvenienced and grossed out by the vomit. She even said in one of the other videos that he was vomiting all over the driveway and so she can just rinse it off. Hey, win-win, right? I don't think that this was his idea. Now, do I still think that that is grounds to, you know, get CPS involved in a family and stuff? I don't know.

[00:33:39]I don't know.

[00:33:40]Because if that's the only thing that happened, I mean, is that the worst thing in the world? I don't I don't think so. But we don't know everything, right?

[00:33:51]That's why these things need to be taken seriously.

[00:33:55]And so I hope that she is able to talk to somebody who can help her get her head on straight because she is clearly not in a good way mentally right now and clearly not making rational and thoughtout decisions and she is quite literally exploiting her child to defend herself. Yes, I at this point I do hope somebody talks to her and that she can realize that she does not have it all figured out and that it is okay to take criticism. It is okay to listen to differing opinions and uh mirror it to yourself a lot like compare it to your own. I don't know what I'm trying to say. I think you guys get what I'm trying to say though. That's okay. I hope that she talks to somebody and is able to realize that so that her son is not exploited anymore and used as content to help boost her own ego or further rage bait people online. cuz in another video that's what she said is like, "Oh, well it wasn't rage bait, but consider yourselves faded now and you're posting like yeah, somebody does need to step in. Somebody does need to tell you that, you know, it's okay to make a bad joke. It's okay as a parent to take your kid outside to give them some fresh air whenever they're sick and stuff. As long as you're not literally kicking them outside and like neglecting them, obviously, but if you're there, you're taking care of them and stuff. You made a bad joke. you need to own it and you need to stop exploiting your kids and you need to find somebody to talk to instead of ranting and raging at strangers online. I hope that that happens. I really really do. A lot of people were comparing this to like the Ruby Frankie situation and stuff like that. And you know, I think that that's really insensitive um to the Frankie children, you know, because the things that were happening in that home were far beyond a kid was sick and the mom just wanted him to sleep outside, right?

[00:35:38]I think that we do need to level our heads a little bit with those comparisons. I still like if she coerced him or just made him go outside.

[00:35:48]Do I think you need your kids taken away for that? No. But I definitely think that that deserves some talking to and and looking into and you know like hey mom um are you sure you're not going through any postpartum stuff still to have like all these anxieties? like is there something deeper that we can work out so that you're not feeling this intense fear, you know, etc., etc. I don't think that a child should just be immediately taken away. I think people often forget that postpartum mental health is a very real thing and women deserve so much more support than we get. And yeah, postpartum lasts longer than 6 weeks.

[00:36:22]It lasts years for your body and your mind to fully recover from that roller coaster. However, that is not an excuse to not get help.

[00:36:34]If you have a lot of people online saying, "Hey, like okay, a bad joke, I guess, but like you are acting really unhinched." That's a time to maybe go talk to somebody.

[00:36:44]And that's not a bad thing. That does not make you a failure of a mother to struggle with severe mental health problems postpartum. I understand.

[00:36:55]My first manic episode was after I had my last child.

[00:37:00]And I thought that it was just normal postpartum depression, baby blue. But it was actually it sent me into my first manic episode and I was struggling. I mean like I genuinely thought that everybody out around me was like out to get me and I was like got to keep my baby safe like I'm you know what I'm saying? And it's because I was going through something so severe mentally that I was not aware I was going through. And I am so glad that I was able to get help. But had I acted like everything was fine and my thoughts were rational, um there would be some trouble there, right? Because it wasn't rational to think that everybody is out to get me, just like it's not rational to think that the most logical thing to do because you're scared of getting sick is putting your child outside. Okay, again, I don't think you need your kid taken away for that, but I think that clearly with all of these subsequent posts, in my opinion, I think that she needs to talk to somebody. I personally think that there might be um some postpartum, you know, mental health things going on here. Um and I think it's really sad that she feels so defensive to the point that she has to uh what am I saying?

[00:38:03]Exploit her son in order to further rage bait people on the internet just to feel like she has won. Like I don't even know how to describe the feeling that I have when I think about the fact that this little boy is just genuinely existing and thinking that his mom is recording him because he's cute and you know memories and stuff like that. Like this is his childhood.

[00:38:27]He doesn't even know what a hater is. He doesn't know what a negative comment is, what a hate comment is. He doesn't know what CPS is. He doesn't know what all these fears and insecurities are.

[00:38:37]And you're putting it on him while he's just playing. It genuinely makes me want to cry like because I have little kids and um I could never imagine just recording them like they don't think about social media like they're not thinking about that. They don't even know about it. I could not imagine like looking at my precious little babies who I know I have not hurt, you know, and like having the whole internet tell me you're a bad mom. I could not imagine feeling like oh look my kid's playing with a toy. Let me record my kid just playing with a toy. Like they're just being kids. It really I'm trying really hard not to cry cuz like my makeup on and stuff, but I don't understand that at all. Like it genuinely it really is that deep. It really is that deep. It really is because like kids aren't content. They are literally just trying to exist and they're just off in their own imaginatory wonderful happy world and you are recording that just to get hate online.

[00:39:33]Like record yourself, dude. Like all of this at the expense of a kid. I that's all I have to say about this situation for now. Obviously, I really hope that she gets offline and somebody comes and talks to her and gets her the mental help that she needs. And I'm not one to diagnose or anything, but I am I have been postpartum multiple times.

[00:39:55]I have been. And I'm not an expert, but I feel like I'm seeing a lot of familiar things and this behavior and the panic and the anxiety and the feeling like you have to prove to yourself that you're a good mom. And I hope that she gets the help she needs so that she can be a more fully present mother for her child, so that she can get over her fears and anxieties of sickness. so that she can be more fully present in those moments of sickness and allow her child to actually have the choice of where he lays down when he is sick. But that's all I have for you guys today. Um, if you enjoyed this video, don't forget to like and comment your thoughts down below. I'm very interested to see what you guys have to say. I just really feel like this is a postpartum mental health issue sort of thing that could be, you know, greatly helped and fixed with the right therapy and possibly medications.

[00:40:49]And I just really hope that she is receptive and accepts that kind of help for the sake of her child. Gosh, I hope for the sake of her child, she stops freaking posting him. Whole thing is really, really sad. But yeah, that's all I have to say. Um, don't forget if you guys are interested, I do have my second channel, Danielle Rambling. So, if you want to go check that out, definitely do. I would really appreciate that and I would love to see you over there. But that's all I have to say about this, guys. Again, thank you for watching. I'm upset. I'm really like I feel like I have like have a hole in my stomach, but I don't even know what to say. Like genuinely, my heart is like broken for this child. But yeah, I'll see you guys on the next one.