Honest Pregnancy Q&A | Answering Everything…

Added: 2026-05-05

[00:00:00]Jesus showing hold on.

[00:00:19]>> What's up YouTube? It's Jazzy Nick and today I'm back with another video.

[00:00:24]So I know y'all can see by the title of the thumbnail. Today I'm going to be doing a updated Q&A. Yes, y'all. We got to do a Q&A. I know y'all got a lot of questions. I know y'all want to know some things about me and my pregnancy and my baby and what's been going on, how I've been feeling, all this other stuff. So, I'm going to give y'all a little pregnancy update, a Q&A. But before we do a Q&A, let me give y'all a belly bump update. You know what I'm saying? Okay, so this is how it's going right now.

[00:00:54]This is baby boy in the tummy type stuff.

[00:00:59]This is him.

[00:01:01]He in the stomach. He chilling. He chilling. He growing. He getting bigger.

[00:01:07]Yes. Yes. Yes. Y'all in the booty gap.

[00:01:12]All right. Let me stop. Let me keep it PG. But um yeah. So yeah, I posted on my Instagram some questions. Let me also put these on cuz I need to make sure I'm seeing. We going to see what y'all Well, I said some questions for y'all. I posted on my Instagram some questions for y'all to ask me. So, we fa to see what y'all ask. But, let me put my glasses on, y'all. And yes, I did get some new glasses.

[00:01:35]Okay. Anyways, camera is mad far. The little tummy box. Okay. But yeah, I did get some new glasses and I love them. They real to y'all.

[00:01:45]These prescription in these too, by the way.

[00:01:49]Got some prescription in these glasses.

[00:01:51]CL that T. All right, let's get into the video. Y'all, y'all asked some good stuff, so we finn to get to answering.

[00:02:00]You know what I'm saying? Know what I'm saying? So, I don't know where we going to start off. Y'all asked a lot of good stuff. First question is, how is the pregnancy going? Okay, the pregnancy is going real smooth, you know. Real good.

[00:02:14]Real good. So far. So good. So, so far so good. First trimester, not so good.

[00:02:20]I'm in second trimester right now, y'all. And it's going good. I feel normal. I still be getting tired here and there when I'm doing extra stuff like doing more than I usually do. Of course, I'm pregnant. You know, they say when you're pregnant, feel like you're running a marathon because you're growing a human inside you. But other than that, it's been going good. I've been eating, eating good, not feeling sick. Just I've been feeling good. Like, as long as I'm feeling good, that's all that matters. and my baby in there doing good. That's all that matters. Okay, clock dead. Did you have morning sickness? Honestly, y'all in first trimester I did have morning sickness.

[00:03:00]Like it wasn't even this the bad morning sickness where I'm just throwing up, throwing up, throwing up cuz honestly I ain't have that bad of a morning sickness. But first trimester was still bad. I was still feeling sick. And I had the sickness where like I was feeling nauseous and I couldn't keep food down my throat and stuff like that. Like it was hard for me to eat. You know what I'm saying? And I did throw up a couple times in first trimester, but it wasn't a lot. And that should have been my sign that I'm having a boy because they said when you have a girl, you throw up a lot. So that's T for me.

[00:03:37]And I'm having a girl. And I ain't been throwing up a lot. I probably threw up like five times out of this whole pregnancy. six times out of this whole pregnancy first trimester. It wasn't just like bad to bad throwing up and I'll throw up food that I didn't like.

[00:03:51]It was just weird in first trimester.

[00:03:52]Like I never felt something like that.

[00:03:54]Like I'm super hungry but I can't keep food down. Then when I do eat I'm hungry again. Like I don't know. That was like really new and a different experience for me. And I'm glad I'm over that stage y'all because let me tell y'all something. I wouldn't even be sitting right here doing this video right now if I was in that stage right now. Okay.

[00:04:12]What is you going to name your child?

[00:04:14]You don't have to tell us. Everybody's asking, "Did I come up with a name for my baby? What am I going to name my baby?" And the what the what the whoop.

[00:04:23]Yes, I did come up with a name for my baby. And no, I'm not going to tell y'all yet. And thank you to the people that's um respecting that boundary from me cuz I don't want to tell y'all yet, of course. But I did come up with a baby name and y'all will know, but I don't want to tell y'all yet.

[00:04:42]So, that's just that. So, people that keep asking for baby names, a baby name video.

[00:04:48]No, I won't be doing a baby name video because I already came up with a baby name. I don't even know how the baby name video works. Like, how does that work? Let me know in the comments. I got to look that up and see what kind of video that is cuz I could still I could still probably do that just for y'all.

[00:05:02]Just for my supporters. Okay. What's your pregnancy cravings? And how do you feel about being pregnant so far? Okay.

[00:05:08]So, my pregnancy cravings, y'all, I I really thought cuz y'all know like other people, they really do be having weird pregnancy cravings. I thought I was going to be one of those, but honestly, I have no weird pregnancy cravings. I don't know. But I'm in second trimester and stuff is going pretty smooth. No weird cravings, but someone did ask what's my pregnancy cravings. I do have some cravings, but not weird cravings.

[00:05:33]if you know what I mean. Like not no ketchup and pickle type stuff or mayonnaise and you know what I mean. You know my cravings are I like dairy dairy stuff like milk and cereal ice cream, vanilla ice cream, Oreo ice cream. And then I also like salty stuff. So I'm more on the salty side, not the sweet side. Well, the ice cream is kind of the sweet side, but I'm It's really not like I'm I really don't crave sweet stuff, but it's salty stuff and then milk and cereal. I love cereal. Like, any type of cereal. I love milk and cereal. Like, I can eat cereal any time of the freaking day. And I love ice cream. And then chips. I love hot chips, y'all. Like, you know, I've been trying to limit the hot chips. Like, I ain't been eating that much hot chips, but I love chips.

[00:06:23]Chips in general. Like, I love chips. I don't know what else to say, but you know, the girl been trying to limit that. So, we ain't going to talk about that. We ain't going to talk about that.

[00:06:32]Someone said, "Do you get mad when you don't get your way?" Do I get mad when I don't get my way? Hell to the freak.

[00:06:38]Yeah, I get mad. I get mad when I don't get my way. Especially when I'm pregnant. Like, don't tell me no. All I need is a yes. A yes. A yes. A yes. I need that. I need this. Yes. Yes. Yes. I need a yes. Like, go get it. Go do it.

[00:06:50]Like I say, like you know, not no controlling stuff, but you know, when you pregnant, you more needy. Like, you need more things and you like, you know.

[00:07:00]So, yes, I do get mad sometimes, especially when I'm aggravated and not in the mood. Cuz I do get aggravated sometimes, not in the mood. Like, you know, little stuff. you don't go get me that or you don't come when I say come or like you know that sounded weird but you know what I mean like far I'm like let me give an example with my man so if my man is somewhere and I want to be with him and like I just want his comfort and love and he don't come he say hold on I'm doing this I'mma get mad stuff like that or he don't go get that for me or go pick that like you know when I say do it right when I say do it I'm going get a he do it most of the time. But you know, I'm pregnant. Your girl be more needy and then I be having mood swings. Like one second I could be so happy and lit and one second I could just be snapping on them. Like it's just so weird. That's just how it works. You know, for the emotional side, I haven't been like on the emotional side for me to get emotional. The only person that can really make me emotional is my man. Like I don't know why cuz all I want is my man while I'm pregnant. So he the only one who can make me emotional like in any way. like if he talked to me in a certain tone, if he yelled, like anything like that, that's the only way I can get emotional. But other than that, I haven't really been emotional. I had a time where I was super emotional, but it's not like a bad thing. Like I could be emotional and sensitive with my men, though. For sure.

[00:08:29]For sure. What is the hardest part about being pregnant? Also, did you already think of baby names for the baby? Okay.

[00:08:36]Honestly, the hardest part about being pregnant is being judged. That was really the hardest part. It's being judged and just being judged that I'm pregnant. Like that I'm pregnant and I'm 19. You know how other people be in the generation how how the old heads be even though they generation was way worse. I was getting pregnant at 15, 16, etc. And I'm 19. But it's just being judged. Like that's only the hardest part. I thought people well it's not being judged no more. I really don't care but that was like in the beginning I was scared of what other people was going to think of me or stuff or how they going to look at me stuff like that like I don't know I don't feel like that no more like I don't have no feeling about that no real feeling about that. So yeah I don't care what people say at this point. Everybody already know I'm pregnant. The internet know I'm pregnant. So it's like it's my life.

[00:09:34]deal with it whether you like it or not or don't even watch me like period. But yeah, um how far along are you and does it hurt? Well, all y'all need to know is I'm in the second trimester and no nothing hurts. The only thing that you're going to feel is well that I feel right now cuz it's different for everybody. That I feel right now is pressure down there. Just pressure. I don't empty that bladder, baby, you going to feel pressure down there. You just got to go pee. And when you pee, it's normal. You feel relief. You just have to make sure you pee because the baby is sitting on your bladder, on your uterus, or whatever you want to call it.

[00:10:07]Okay. Other than that, no, nothing hurts. Feel tight stuff, random stuff in my stomach, but it doesn't hurt. It could probably feel uncomfortable. It probably feels uncomfortable, but it doesn't hurt. I don't know how to explain it. It's just nothing's painful.

[00:10:19]The real painful part is when I'm going in labor and about to give birth. That's the painful part. Being pregnant is not painful. That's not painful at all. And then I'm also feeling the stuff. Someone said, "Is the is baby boy moving a lot?"

[00:10:32]See, that's what I was going to tell y'all. Baby boy is moving. Y'all tell me how I woke up. He wasn't moving this much until I woke up like this morning and I felt a whole bunch of kicks. Like it felt like thumps. Like he was just But I felt it in a little That's how it's like sounded and feels. That's how it's giving it sounds. But that's how it feels. It was like in my lower like right here. That boy was like he punching me, but I know it was his long legs and his long his long feet. And I just realized I should have had my microphone for this video cuz I hope the audio is good. Like I have a microphone that go to my DJI. I just realized I should have had that for y'all. So let me know if the audio is still good. Any weird snap combos? No, no weird snap combos. Is there one thing you don't like about being pregnant?

[00:11:26]Honestly, I love my son. I love that I'm carrying him um helping him like developing him to come in this world or whatever. But the only thing that I didn't like is that I'm freaking big and I can barely fit clothes. It's not really nothing that I don't like. I love my little bump. I love feeling him. I love knowing he's here with me in my stomach 247. The only thing is not being able to fit your clothes and just looking big and certain stuff. But I'm still tea. So that's what happens when you have to grow a baby. Boo. You got to grow a baby. Another thing is having to pee every second. Don't get me started on that. I know for the pregnant pregnant moms that's watching, y'all be having to wake up in the middle of night and pee every freaking second. Like I'll wake up in the middle of the night, drink some of my water cuz it be on the side cuz I be like waking up thirsty and this water be hitting in the middle of the night y'all. Cold water be hitting in the middle of the night. especially while I'm pregnant. So, I'll drink some water and then go back to sleep cuz mind you, I still be tired. 10 seconds later, I'm going to the bathroom again. Then I lay back down again. 10 seconds later, I'm going back to to the bathroom to pee again. I got to pee every second. Not 10 seconds later, but like you have to pee a lot because the baby is sitting on your bladder basically. So, that's that's the only two things. Nothing really nothing else really doesn't bother me. I'm enjoying it. I'm enjoying my bump. I'm enjoying the love. I'm enjoying growing my son. Do you want a different gender than what you got? Low key, when I first found out I was pregnant, I didn't care about the gender. I was just hoping for a good, healthy baby. I was just happy I'm having a little baby either way. But my sisters, oh yeah, baby, they was caring about their gender real real real bad.

[00:13:13]Like it's to the point that I end up like cuz when I knew it was getting serious, I end up like, hm, do I want a girl boy? And then I end up wanting a girl. But then I had a feeling it was a boy before all of this. Before the general, I just had a feeling it was a boy because I was craving salty stuff.

[00:13:30]And I barely had sickness. And you know when you pregnant your face breaks out bad. It said when you pregnant with a girl your face breaks out bad. My face was breaking out bad. It was breaking out on one side cuz before I got pregnant this side been was breaking out but other than that it hasn't been like breaking out bad as you can see or whatever. I don't know. So, I just had a feeling a feeling it was a boy and I just you a mom, you know, you know what you have before you even find out. So, I just had that feeling it was a boy, but I guess I wanted a girl. I just knew it was a boy. So, I wasn't even really shocked that it was a girl. On that gender reveal when Pink came out, I was shocked when I when it Pink shot out cuz I really thought I was having a boy.

[00:14:12]Well, I am having a boy, but after she announced that it was a boy, I wasn't shocked because I knew I was having a boy, but I was shocked when Pink came out cuz I I didn't think I was having a girl. But I'm having a boy and I love my son. Um, it was 50/50. I didn't know whether if I wanted a girl or a boy or it was more of I know I'm having a boy, but I'm wanting a girl. You know, I knew he was a boy. Let's see. What did your boyfriend say about you being pregnant?

[00:14:39]Um, he was shocked. He was like, "Wow."

[00:14:42]Like, he was like, "This ain't real." He didn't think it was real either. He was shocked and that's it. He was just shocked. He didn't think it was real.

[00:14:51]But other than that, overall, how does he feel about me being pregnant? Of course, he's happy. And especially because he's having a son. So, yeah.

[00:14:59]Someone said, "Did you plan your pregnancy or wait, how did y'all say?" Oh, someone said, "Not a question, but hope your baby is healthy and you have a success a successful pregnancy." Thank you, Bookie. And I also got God. So, I know I'm going to have a successful pregnancy. Can God first?

[00:15:17]Thank you. Thank you. Okay, stop yelling. You not start with that itchy stuff cuz last time I was itchy. I was like, "Why is you itching throughout your video?" Girl, you don't know. You don't know. That video I posted with the story time, you was like, "Why is she itching in the video? I can't itch."

[00:15:32]First of all, when you're pregnant, your skin gets more tight and dry, especially first time. That's why I always oil up my stomach. So, you end up getting itchy, but you're not supposed to itch cuz when you itch, I heard that causes more stretch marks or whatever. But yeah, that's why I was itching if you got a problem. I was just feeling itchy. Feel itchy like a Let me stop. It ain't like I'm dirty, but I was just itching. And that's why I be keeping oil on my stomach because it's stretching and growing and it causes you to itch. Go do your research before you talk about a pregnant woman. I feel like nobody should have no opinion on a pregnant person.

[00:16:08]I'm going stop saying that anymore. Um, but yeah, I've been putting oil and lotion. That's why you got to keep your skin and your body oil so you don't itch, but itching is normal. Everybody itches, pregnant or not. What has been the biggest surprise about your pregnancy?

[00:16:23]Nothing. I mean, I'm not surprised. Like it's not like I was dumb and I didn't know nothing about pregnancy.

[00:16:32]Like I don't know nothing. It's not like nothing surprised me. Like all of this was going to happen. Like I knew a lot comes with growing a baby. Your body changes. You're going to feel things.

[00:16:46]You have constant appointments. They have to put needles in you. They have to do all this stuff to make sure everything's healthy and good. So yeah, I really have no surprise. How did I react when I found out I was pregnant? I was shocked, too, boo. Like, I ain't believe it. I'm like, this is not real.

[00:17:02]Like, it's not real. There's no way I'm pregnant. Like, I never knew I would get pregnant at this age or this time in my life. Like, I don't know. But God did his thing and God knew that I was able to handle this and able to have a kid right now. Like, God trusted me to be a mom. So, I'm going to do my job as a mother. They said, "Are you going to get Epidora or you going to do a natural birth?" Okay, y'all. When I first was pregnant, y'all, I was doing my research on everything, which I don't recommend because you start looking at other stuff and other people and other people experiences, you're going to scare yourself. You're different. Like, don't worry about other people experiences.

[00:17:42]Don't stress yourself about that. Enjoy your pregnancy and just enjoy it. When the time come, the time will come and you going to be ready to push that baby out. But when I first was in my pregnancy, I was thinking of doing a natural birth because there's not much to say. If you want to know more about natural birth, just go look it up. It's just you're doing a natural birth, a natural birth in water, like a water birth and warm water. Um, they said it helps the baby come out easily. It reduces the pain, all this other stuff.

[00:18:11]But I end up changing my mom because as a first time mom, baby, I'm going to want that epidural. I don't know what that pain feels like and contractions. I don't know what my contractor is going to feel like, but we'll see. We'll see how it goes when I dang say I I just broke my necklace almost. But yeah, we'll see how it goes like when the time come and I and I actually start going into labor and my water break. So yeah, but other than that, I'm not going to stress or think about that. When the time come, the time will come. And I know I'm going want to push out that baby cuz that's what everybody like other moms been telling me. And I've been seeing other stuff like the baby gonna just come out. The baby gonna come. But yeah, when I was I was doing my research, seeing all that stuff, but I was thinking of the water birth. But they but then I also changed my mind cuz they said water birth can cause infections cuz stuff is I don't know.

[00:19:03]There's just so many different stuff.

[00:19:05]But everybody got their own opinions and own prefaces of how they want to give birth. So good luck to you if you're a mom and you giving a water birth or natural birth or epidur. Hope you have a safe delivery either way. How do I feel about being pregnant so far? I feel good. Like I feel like I'm ready to see my son. I'm ready to be a mother just holding my baby and just hearing.

[00:19:32]Yes, y'all. I'm ready to give him his bottles. I'm ready to do all the mother stuff. Change his diaper, take him to sleep. I'm ready to do all the mother stuff, you know, cuz I am this big.

[00:19:46]My hand this big. What have you been using to prevent stretch marks? I've been using this coconut cocoa butter oil. I'll try to put on the screen screen. I've been using Joa. I don't know how to pronounce that oil. Hoba oil. Joba. Joba. Jojoba oil. And I've been using bio oil. So yeah, I have not been having no stretch marks. I'm grateful for that. That's the little three oils I've been using. I'm trying to put them on the screen. And also I think um stretch marks can be genetic.

[00:20:15]So if you do get stretch marks, there's literally nothing wrong with stretch marks. Your mother, you're bringing life in this world. So stretch marks doesn't matter. How your body is changing doesn't matter. You still beautiful inside and out, boo. You grown a kid.

[00:20:28]That's what makes you beautiful. Anyways um cuz yeah, I be feeling big and ugly sometimes, but girl, when I do my hair, I look in the mirror and the face card don't decline.

[00:20:43]the girl I'm te big or lot I'm te you know what I'm saying wide nose small nose girl baby I'm tea all I got to do is get my hair done just get your hair done get your hair done you going to be cuz y'all know when you're pregnant we don't get our hair done that much we just be walking around just carrying life looking a mess sometimes it's okay if you do look a mess okay were you planning to have a baby at your age no I was not planning a I was not planning to have a baby this was unexpected like I said God just br this baby into my life.

[00:21:16]And yeah, it was not blame. Someone did ask me what age did I expect to have a baby. I expect to have a baby like 20 something. Well, I'm about to be 20, 20 something, 30.

[00:21:29]30 was kind of old to me cuz I want to be a old parent with a like a old parent with a cane with a young kid. But 20 something 20s almost to my 30s. Just kind of probably at the end of 20s. I wanted a baby, but I'm going to be 20 soon. But hey, it don't matter. I'm still having a little baby. So, I got to answer some more questions. Y'all is teed up. Someone asks, "Does your mom only talk to you because you're pregnant?"

[00:22:00]Honestly, I don't know. I would hope not. We text here and there. It's not no real talking like um I just been being cordial. Been trying to keep things cordial still. It's not been no real, you know, extra stuff. She's happy or whatever. That's good. But I would hope not. She's I would hope not. That's all I say. I would hope not. I don't know if she is or not, but I would hope that she's not just texting me or talking to me because the baby.

[00:22:32]But I have my own feelings, but I ain't going to say it on the camera, too. But that's just how I feel. But I'm glad she's happy to be a grandma. That's all that matters. But um our bond is not fully there yet. But I guess it takes time. I'm just keeping everything cordial and cool. no extra stuff, no beef, no internet things. So, yeah, I just want to keep things, you know, real cordial, but yeah, like I said, I would hope not.

[00:23:03]How do your siblings feel about you becoming a mom? Y'all also ask, um, does Desi know? Of course, Desi knows. Desi knows she auntie, and they're all happy.

[00:23:13]Everyone's happy. King also knows, too.

[00:23:16]King is happy to be an uncle. And my sisters are happy to be aunties. But how they felt at first, they didn't expect it to be me. They expect it to be like the older ones. Like they expected to be the older ones. So yeah. And y'all going to keep asking about my sister like she's safe. That's all you need to know.

[00:23:34]Like I don't know all that extra stuff.

[00:23:37]Do you plan on having more kids after your boy? It's always going to be enough. Like just no. I don't. Like we will see. The future will tell. I don't want a kid. Right after my kid, obviously. Did you tell your family first or announced it online first? Um, I actually told my family, like my sisters and stuff. I didn't tell my parents. I told my sisters and stuff.

[00:24:00]Hold it in for a couple months and then announced it online. They said, "How did I announce it?" I'll put the video right there. I did a little um Tik Tok to lotto sound. It come.

[00:24:15]Okay. Now, y'all gonna see that on top, but you're not going to see the audio.

[00:24:17]Just go to my TikTok. You want to hear the audio, but that's the audio to it.

[00:24:20]How is life going? Life is going good.

[00:24:22]Everything's not peaches and cream, though. Just know that. Will you tell us your baby name once he's born? Yeah, probably when he born, but I won't show y'all face super fast. I won't show his face super fast. What am I saying? Oh my god. Is you going to start making a nursery? Yes, I'm going to start all of that. Soon as I start doing all that, y'all, I'm going to record it. Just be patient. It's coming. I'm moving at my pace of when I want to do things. So, just bear with me. Will you let your parents see the baby after?

[00:24:50]Honestly, um I have no real answer for that right now cuz I don't know. I just got to see how things go. It's It's how they are and stuff. Yeah, it's no real answer yet. I got to see how they are.

[00:25:03]So, I don't know. Right now, I'm protecting me and my peace and all that. But seeing my baby and things are still the same and nothing didn't change is enough. If things are changed and everyone is being better and trying to grow, mature up, not do the same things, then yeah, right now it's no, not really an answer cuz I got to protect my baby and I got to protect my peace and myself. So, I don't know about seeing the baby yet.

[00:25:38]Did you tell your dad and how does your dad feel? Honestly, I don't know how my dad feel. I would hope that he's happy.

[00:25:44]I don't care how he feels though. But um if you ain't happy then cool. If you happy then cool. Like at the end of the day I don't care. It's my life, my baby.

[00:25:53]You don't control me. You don't control my life. But um I heard a few words that he said and I wasn't surprised. I don't know what he said. It was like oh like he he never text me and told me congratulations. No shade. Just get that out of there. Is what it is. My mom text me congratulations. She's overly happy of course, but I don't know about him. A dad going to feel how he feel and but we ain't bringing that energy over here because you know like I don't care. Like just don't care. So yeah, I think we going to end it right here. Y'all y'all ask some good questions and I'm going to end it off right here cuz my camera Oh, it's on 4%.

[00:26:38]Ah 4%. I'm I'm trying to see if I ain't miss no questions. Do you still miss Dub Smash? This is off topic. Someone asked if I still miss Dub Smash. Uh yeah.

[00:26:48]Y'all used to be a Dub Smash Queen. If you know me, you know I used to do Dub Smash. Used to be hitting the Wo.

[00:26:55]If y'all could find some old dub smash videos of me. Send them to me on Instagram or Tik Tok. You should make a song with your boyfriend. Girl, I am not making a music. You are so funny. Are you going to make a couple YouTube? Not thinking of that yet. No. Um, y'all be asking for my man. Oh, y'all know who my man is. Just go to my Tik Tok. Go to my YouTube. That's my man. He don't got to be on my camera all the time. This is my YouTube channel. And he don't like being on camera all the time. But yes, my man is here. Y'all be asking, "Who's the baby?" Like, "Okay, y'all go look at my channel. Go look at my videos. He's literally on there. He's just not a internet influencer type of man, and which I'm glad. He's not no internet person like my dad." No, we don't talk at all. I don't know. But yeah, we going to end the video off right here, y'all.

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