This video analyzes how trauma survivors can become psychologically bonded to manipulative individuals, as demonstrated through Dexter Morgan's relationship with Lumen, where Jordan Chase exploits Lumen's trauma to control Dexter, showing how toxic relationships can form when victims seek connection with those who understand their pain, and how such bonds can lead to dangerous situations where the victim becomes complicit in the manipulator's harmful activities.
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Dexter S5 Ep 10 | First Time Watching | Therapist REACTS追加:
I can't watch.
I can't believe it. I can't believe this is over. Dexter season 5 episode 10 is here. Let's get into it. In the beginning.
Are we going back?
Something about to go down here and he has no idea. I will never put my family in danger again.
>> [music] >> Now that Jordan Chase knows Lumen and I are on to him, I need to plan for the worst.
Man, we fast forwarded all of a sudden.
Dexter was going in to visit grandparents. I thought he was coming out from the grandparents. Nope.
Got the housekeeper and nanny here.
Where are we going? What are we doing?
But apparently they fast forwarded to him finding out from Lumen, "They're on to us."
And Harrison's going to have such a good time with his big sister and big brother in Orlando. Oh, they're going to take all three? I'm getting Harrison out of Miami and Lumen out of that house. I haven't been apart from them since Rita died. Nothing is going to happen to Harrison. I wonder if she's going to stay there with them or she's just dropping them. Call me as soon as you get there.
Bye-bye. Bye, Dexter.
Now he's going to work.
Got to take out Jordan Chase. We'll be safe here. Jordan doesn't know about this place. He thinks we're at the house. What is Deb going to say? Now she's really going to be suspicious.
What the [ __ ] are you up to now? Man, this guy is something. Is that her, the one whose blood Jordan wears around his neck?
Yeah, you know, she's the same age as Jordan and Cole and Boyd. Mhm. I think she was the first victim. How is she still alive?
I don't know. I hope she can tell us.
We're going to talk to her today. All the trauma, being abused, being tortured way back maybe.
And then, you know what trauma can do to you sometimes? Leads you to addiction.
It can lead you to a life of violence.
It can lead you to tons of unhealthy relationships. It can completely mess with your head to where your entire life implodes and falls apart. That's why recovery is so important. That's why therapy is so important.
And so, I think that's what he's linking up. Maybe she was way back, first victim.
And she her life just completely just fell apart after that. And it's because of that trauma. It's terrible. Terrible to be treated this way.
Settle in.
>> Stay inside. Don't open the door.
Don't answer the phone, either.
To anyone. To anyone.
Especially Liddy. New evidence has been found. Like, maybe the evidence discovered itself.
>> As you know, Cole Harmon was our original suspect in the case. Until I pointed them toward Boyd Fowler. He is now our main target again. A target you'll never hit. He's already So, you got Morgan back. Yeah.
Thanks for that. It's what you wanted.
And he's making it hard on her.
So, I'll keep you posted on the case.
This is really difficult with >> [clears throat and cough] >> Angel because, you know, he loves her, he wants to spend his life with her.
It's kind of like a fine line of how far you push it to like, I'm going to make you suffer here. And I agree that when somebody really does you wrong or or does something wrong, you need distance. I think that's very critical.
I think she's felt it. Because I think when you create emotional distance and physical distance from somebody that you really crossed a line with me.
So, I'm I'm going to still be here. I'm not going to be rude and cruel to you.
I'm just not going to be available to you. That it makes her feel. And that's when she said, "Can you stop sleeping on the couch?" And he's like, "There's a distance to go."
She gets that and she feels in her gut like, "This is a bad one. I screwed this up. This is not good."
But, I don't want him to continue going on to torturing her.
Not literally, but just try to make her grovel.
And hopefully he can start to be a little kinder to her. It doesn't mean he go back to normal, but just appreciate like, "Thank you. I appreciate you acknowledging that. Like, that means a lot to me."
Instead of, "I'll keep you posted on the case."
Anything else?
Because in truth, he doesn't know how to do relationships this way. When he feels wrong, he wants to go beat somebody up, or he wants to go sleep with another woman, or he wants to you know, he he's not successful in the past with relationships. So, he doesn't know how to reattach to her, which he needs to.
She's trying is what I'm saying. She screwed a lot up, and I'm I know that, but I see her trying, and he needs to at least recognize that part.
Otherwise, she's going to say, "You know what? This isn't working. Done." Mr. Harmon hasn't worked here in more than 2 weeks. What?
You should probably talk to Mr. Chase.
Cole Harmon is wanted for the rape and murder of at least five women. Hold on a second. I det- If you want this episode or any episode of Dexter fully unedited, head over to Patreon. The VIP tier is over there. It has everything unedited and way earlier than YouTube ever gets it. It has a chat room for me and everybody else and you to come chat about Dexter about, and a great community to boot, and other content. VIP tier, Patreon, try it. It's worth it. Is there some reason you needed to antagonize him like that?
Yes. Girls are being raped, tortured, and stuffed into barrels. Two rapist killers are directly This is the part she doesn't know super well how to do.
It's just play kind of the political game, work your way in there, learn how to handle the situation so you get the most out of you can. She kind of just pushes her way in, and and I get it. All this has happened, but sometimes you have to try to say, "How much can we get out of this?" rather than I just want to try to bully him into it. Who are you?
We're trying to track down some information on Jordan Chase. The Jordan Chase? We understand that you know him.
Do I look like the kind of person that knows Jordan Chase?
Do you mind if I show you a photo?
I told you I don't know who any of those people are and I want you to go.
>> Emily.
I don't see any blood.
You think we'd call you here for nothing?
Kid gloves, okay, that's going to tell us which scumbag friends he's been talking to.
Kid gloves?
Cole Harmon's blood left there when Lumen hit him to save me.
Cole's car is still in the driveway.
It's not like he got up and ran. It's like he disappeared or he got disappeared.
DVDs, they're in that lock box.
>> [crying and screaming] >> 13 discs, they're all numbered. Lumen was the last victim. That would make her number 13. Oh, no. Oh, no.
Lumen's 13.
As soon as Deb sees that, she's going to know this is that girl.
It's all over.
Dexter's over. It's ending at season 5, everybody. No more Dexter.
She's going to see that DVD.
She's going to see it's Lumen. She's going to see that Dexter somehow is involved with her. She's going to see that Quinn is right. Quinn is going to know that Dexter's thing. Liddy's going to have the evidence. It's all going to come together for the end of Dexter season 5 and in season 6 we have the birth of Harrison Morgan who's going to all of a sudden be 13 years old and killing people. They're going to skip 12 year 13 12 years and move right on in to the next Morgan killer.
That's my prediction.
Just kidding.
Oh, he's got to be just dying right now.
He's got to get a hold of 13 and corrupt her something.
He's got to. He's got to. Despite having considered myself a monster for as long as I can remember. I can't believe he's not trying to get to 13. It's hard.
There are some seriously [ __ ] up [ __ ] in there. And if Debra gets eyes on Lumen's DVD, she'll know everything. It will all unravel. That's right. It's over. Cole Harmon's emails and phone records are up. Do you want to go through them? [ __ ] yes. Let's see who he's been talking to.
What if he said something about Dexter?
Oh, he's got it.
He's going to replace. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Chain of custody, chain of custody. He's going to tamper with evidence.
Last time someone came in here, she nearly killed me. Which frankly would be better than going through another one of these DVDs. Each one, same creepy place.
You know, it's crazy for Masuka to say that with all he talks about and and alludes to that he even thinks it's messed It is messed. It's completely horrible stuff. But the fact that he's saying, you know, this messed up stuff is big.
He's nearly there.
Yeah.
That is weird.
Dexter! Back, back, back. I'll I'll just I'll leave. Did he literally just pull the switch? They found this.
Don't show that to >> a holes. No, don't show that to her.
That's the worst thing that she could ever see.
>> you, they made DVDs of everything they did. Oh, that's the worst. Nope. Did you watch it?
Only enough to make sure I had the right one.
Are you sure you want to keep it? No.
>> [snorts] >> Mhm.
I know that you risk your life every day that you're with me. You've been my only way through this.
Oh, serious trauma bond. Well, I guess we both met each other at the right time.
Mhm.
She's watching it. Never should have watched that. Needs so much therapy. The DVDs, Lumen watching at home, Deb watching here, both wanting some sort of resolution.
What these women went through, I don't know, maybe it's a [ __ ] blessing that they're dead. No one could go through something like this and have a life again.
There's Lumen. People may be stronger than you think. Believe me on this one, you're wrong. There's no coming back from something like this.
They're kind of the same people. There's no coming back. Those two guys at the warehouse. You know, one of them was a dentist? A kids' dentist.
Dan Mendel. Well, it turns out he and Cole are buddies.
Wow.
Someone is taking these guys out.
Who?
Well, at first I thought they were turning on each other.
Number 13.
And you know the first person that came to mind?
Me.
This is what happened to me.
Is it also what happened to you?
Wow.
That's one way to relate. I need you to tell me what happened to you. Can you do that?
Lumen's pretty damn strong.
They were just like everybody else.
Except Jordan. Only he wasn't called to Jordan then. He was Eugene Greer.
That's him? That's Jordan Chase. Wow.
I woke up in a cabin. My clothes were off, and I was tied to a bunk. [music] Summer camp.
Eugene never touched me, but he got those guys [music] going.
He talked them into it.
Told them to seize desires. They did.
It's a Plato thing.
I got dressed and they made me take their picture.
She took that Who's this one?
Alex.
Alex Tilden.
He's the fifth.
Oh my goodness. This is uh too much to take. Yeah, you got a pen?
What is he doing here? Just uh leaving a note for Joey. I'm an old friend.
Joey?
You're Harry's kid, right? Blood guy.
That's right. And your sister, Detective Morgan. Usually it's a boy child ends up doing the police work, not the girl. But here you are in the geek squad. Yeah, blood's better suited me more. Oh man.
They'll be right down.
Got to go.
So long.
Dexter?
Man.
Look at this.
It's from Detective Quinn. It says his name there. See, surveillance cameras, wireless mics, and a portable wireless recorder monitor. Be right back. Thank you. I can't believe how how is he able to go in and just do this? She said she was afraid of her father. He hated her friends. He hated the way she dressed.
Oh, the way this is setting up to a finale. I feel like this should be the Is this the final episode because it feels like everything's culminating here.
He manages to get into the station to get a request signed. Somehow miraculously has graded signatures, especially Quinn's.
Gets this going to get this equipment to surveil everything. These two are in cahoots literally down at the police station, I guess. What? I hope she's not there. She needs to be as far away from this stuff as possible.
Jordan's whole philosophy, transforming your life, blah blah blah. It all came from destroying hers. That moment turned Jordan into a monster. Mhm.
Did Emily name the other one in the photo? Yes.
What? I want to be the one to do this.
It's one thing to watch it, it's another thing to actually do it. I know. It'll change you. I'm already changed. Already broken.
Your name turned up on a list of acquaintances. We're talking to everyone on the list. You two talk on the phone a lot? Uh, we're in a fantasy football league together. I was trying to get him to give up a player all season.
Have you heard from him lately? No. Mhm.
What's going on here?
Jordan Chase? Jordan Chase? He's messed up in this? Do you know him?
I never met him. No, I've always wanted to. If you do hear from Cole, Why?
Thank you.
Better get on the phone to your cronies.
You really think a vigilante is killing off these people one by one? Anyone who knows what these guys are up to would probably do something pretty extreme.
Watch the tapes again, you'll get it.
Mhm.
But I did get you something. Oh.
A present?
Our own gloves. They're just like yours.
This is like they're beginning of dating. Like he's got somebody to bond with here.
I don't think it actually turns him on, but I think it it attaches him to her.
Now we have to be especially careful not to leave anything behind. No fingerprints, no evidence. He's on his way back to his.
Oh, wow. He's listening to all this?
>> [sighs] >> Oh my gosh, he's been in his house? His bank closes at 7:00. We have to be in and out of his house before he gets back.
Wow.
So, is he just going to follow him around cuz he's not surveilled on them, just his place?
One of these days you've got to teach me how to do that.
Oh, humor injected.
There's 13 pieces of jewelry, 13 trophies.
That's hers. My grandparents gave me this when I graduated from high school.
Got to take it.
>> it the night they took me.
>> So, he knows.
This is mine.
Man, ceremonially putting it on in the place.
I'd be getting out of there.
Put the jewelry back.
>> inconspicuous and secure. Like this? Maybe it's true that pairs survive better in the wild.
>> Mhm.
It's not easy talking to a stranger, but I did it anyway for you.
You told her everything.
About what happened at the camp.
>> It was hard, but yeah.
I can't this thing is creeping me out, man.
This is too much to handle. Season 5 of Dexter is peak.
I cannot believe how good this is, but how creepy it is.
He's got her mind controlled and manipulated as a thing of her blood on his neck. Like that is her that is his project or he has just completely manipulated her and had her talk to them or at well, to Lumen about all [sighs] the details.
So, he's finding out behind the scenes what Lumen and Dexter have no idea about.
Almost like he's one step ahead of them.
I literally can't believe this while they're find to try try to find a kill room for this guy.
Now what?
Because she's going to know about it, too, probably. I told her the truth like you said, even though I didn't want to.
Set her up to do that. The girl you talked to was making waves, but everything's fine now. How did she still sit with him? No one could ever take your place. You know that, right?
Oh my gosh.
Do you know how special you are to me?
Why is he looking forward?
Why when she touched his right arm and did he reach the other one over?
And he's still looking forward.
See how he's looking forward?
Is he in a trance?
Is she imagining this?
No, he see he did look up at her.
Eugene Greer has arrived.
I've helped a lot of people over the years. Many of them were broken individuals going through very difficult periods in their lives. Is that what you call this? Someone who's going through a very difficult period in their life?
Wow. I want to do anything I can to help you find the people who did that, but I swear no one is more disturbed than I am. The people I've helped could be responsible for something like this.
It's just a cheek swab. It won't take but a second. You don't have to do this.
Dexter will HELP YOU.
WHAT?
>> [laughter] >> HEY, HOW'S IT GOING?
Dexter knows through Lumen that Lumen talked to to Jordan and Jordan they're all in the loop now. This reminds me of Arthur Mitchell.
Dexter Morgan that we all know what's going on here.
We're just trying to figure out how this chess game's going to end.
I was hoping we'd have the chance to speak again. We don't have anything to talk about. What he doesn't know is that Dexter is who he is, but I would think a guy like Jordan as smart as he is would figure out since he's connected with Lumen and these two are together.
Lumen is the one that's had this stuff happen to her and got away.
That Dexter must know she got away.
I would think he would put two and two together and figure out that they're both on him because of that. And then I would think Jordan would be smart enough to figure out that maybe that's why my head of security is gone all of a sudden.
Maybe they had something to do with it.
Often people get involved with someone who is toxic to them, unstable, and dangerous.
Lumen?
>> happen.
You're just now putting your Look at them all watching out there. I employ you. Don't invite another one for yourself or for what's left of your family.
Brett. Because this DNA test will clear you and leave you all to me.
And to her, your time is up.
Tick, tick, tick.
Thank you, Dexter.
I'm here for you. Don't forget that. And soon I'll be there for you.
I appreciate it. Oh, I love it.
What else did Jordan say? That you were toxic and dangerous, that I was on a self-destructive path. That sounds like a threat. It's interesting how he has this entire set of like knives and kind of weaponry.
But he kind of just does one thing.
I mean, he cuts the cheek.
But then he just now at this point stabs the heart.
It's been forever since he's been, you know, almost like torturing anybody where he's running saws and blades and cutting off different parts of the body.
Now it's like he just goes straight to the kill.
Doesn't need all the weapons, but he loves them cuz it's his like setup.
Ew. Boy, she is full-blown Dexter.
>> you think? Like she's becoming Dexter.
I think it's a turn-on.
Cute.
I look stupid, don't I?
>> so bonded to her.
Perfect.
Really?
He's never seen this before in a woman.
Not even Rita.
These are beautiful.
Nobody Nobody else could understand.
But she does.
Tonight's the night.
The other way. Practicing.
Mr. surveillance.
I wonder if he's recording all this.
Mouth wide open.
Right on schedule.
This is so sad. He's He's one step ahead of them.
And Jordan's not calling the cops.
He's taking matters into his own hands. Got plenty of security. Got plenty of people to take him down. Dexter going down. I'm telling you, season 6 doesn't happen.
Even though everybody says it does, it doesn't happen. Based on what's going on now, Dexter Lumen about to go down.
Possibly murdered, but for sure being taken in by the cops. I don't know if Jordan's going to call them like last minute, try to get them arrested, or if he's just going to take him out himself. But this is the end for Dexter.
Detective Morgan, please.
Wow. Those images you showed me haven't been able to get them out of my head.
Just want you to know I've always considered myself a friend of the police. Gloves Thank you.
Friend.
Friend.
Alex Tilden called you. What What did he want?
>> said that he was looking for Cole Harmon. And he wanted to speak to Cole about a flight he needed to arrange. I hope it can be useful.
Thank you, Mr. Chase. So, he wasn't trying to turn him in. Saddle up. Looks like our fantasy footballer is leaving town.
So, this is Okay. I was thinking they were going since Jordan was out there, I was thinking they were going to Jordan's house.
Now, we're back at Alex's house.
>> [sighs] >> So, Jordan was outside of Alex's house.
I for sure thought he was going to set But maybe what they're going to do is is try to go to Alex's house. Is he trying to get them?
Cuz as far as they know, they don't associate Alex and Jordan.
I'm guessing now what he was doing was setting it up. So, he's talking about a flight.
And so, maybe they're going to go by his house. They're going to find Dexter and Lumen there.
Taking out Alex.
And Jordan just signed his death warrant. No! NO!
NO!
NO!
>> [screaming] >> NO!
>> [screaming] >> NO!
THIS IS WORST-CASE SCENARIO, isn't it?
I mean, I think they're going to end up at his house.
I don't know, man. I'm scared. I'm scared for Dexter and Lumen.
Who are you? They didn't even tape up anything on his head.
It's for her.
Who?
I think you know. Oh, no, no, no, no, no. Oh, no, no, no, no, no. This is Oh!
Too stressful.
You You really have this all wrong.
Save it for her. What's the address?
Alex Tilden, Miami.
>> no.
The end of Dexter.
Debra's finally going to find out my brother is a serial killer.
Lumen's going down with him.
Quinn is right.
The entire show disappears. I don't even think there's an episode 11, is there of this this season? This is the end.
How late do they work?
The door was open?
I can't watch.
I can't believe it. I can't believe this is over.
They're next door?
They're next door. It wasn't It wasn't me. And it was It was Jordan.
It's all Jordan. He has this way of getting inside your head, getting you in touch with your I don't understand because I saw them go into into Alex's house.
He saw them go into that house. And then how they end up next door?
Because they They went into Devon Quinn went into that room. And we don't get to see what they saw. You made me do things I never would have done.
>> She pressed right where he did.
Dexter Dexter is loving this.
I'm a banker. I can get money, lots of it. We can work this out. Just tell me.
What's this going to cost? Just give me a number.
Your life.
13. Oh.
13.
There's a first time [music] for everything. A first step, a first word, a first kiss, a first kill. [music] Somehow you know when the time is right. And for the heart.
Mhm.
>> [groaning and screaming] [sighs] >> She's going to do it 13 times? Should lock down the airports in case he tries to flee.
He's not going anywhere.
Look at this. Looks like a partial footprint.
I mean, come on though. It's a yard.
Remember at Boyd's house that [ __ ] hair book?
It had 12 pieces in it, but there were 13 DVDs. One of them didn't get their hair taken. So, what are you saying exactly? Well, what if one of them escaped?
Oh my gosh.
Harry tried to mold me into the image of the >> away. he thought I was. Oh, why am I celebrating? What am I doing?
How into this show am I that I'm like, they got away. They did it.
What am I doing? And did they already go out on the boat and everything?
How did they get out of the house? How did they get And this is where they're going to bond.
Are they going to sleep together?
He told me to flee human connection.
Going to be a sex moment.
Door's unlocked.
Oh, wow.
Did you notice that?
How she took the shirt off that way behind him to keep his hands bound. I don't think that's in like a sexual fantasy way. I think that's in a security way.
For her to feel safe that he's not going to do anything to her hurt her.
But she can't help but go towards him. She's They're just so bonded at this point.
That the passion is that intense that she wants to feel that connection.
And I'm assuming sleep with him.
Trying to heal all those wounds, all the trauma.
He didn't know what to do.
She takes it off of him. She trusts him.
Man, she must really trust him.
But with Lumen, I'm someone different.
In her eyes, I'm not a monster at all.
It's what he's always wanted. He said it all the way through the beginning and through Rita.
Nobody really knows me and if they knew me, they would be the I would be disgusting to them and they would want anything to do with me. And now I found somebody who really knows me.
And you know what?
She actually likes me for the real me.
This is the ultimate bond for him.
Oh, nothing can ever happen to Lumen because I I think that that would just break Dexter fully into pieces. Not that this is a great thing that he's doing every day, >> [music] >> but I'm telling you that would be the end of Dexter seeing somebody so attached to him and so bonded and so understanding of who he is and then the loser I please don't let that happen.
But I've no idea how the ending of that happened because Deb and Quinn were right next door.
So they took him out and they went next door to the other place to find the kill room.
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>> [music] [music] >> Mhm.
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