DISCUSSING MARRIAGE 💍👀 | EP. 32

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]There's a lot of people >> [music] >> get married for the title. They get married for the [music] aesthetics, the Instagram, the ring, whatever that looks like without understanding that a real marriage [music] takes work and it's two people choosing each other every day.

[00:00:16]What's up? What's up, y'all? Welcome back to another everyday hustle vlog.

[00:00:20]Appreciate y'all being here. Here with Mika Boo. And we are going to activation the infinite space explorers.

[00:00:28]We're going to space. Okay, that's how we starting our day. We're going to space.

[00:00:32]You ready? Are you intrigued about space? I want to see Jupiter and the moon. Cuz boys get stupider there? Yeah.

[00:00:39]I want to see where you guys come from.

[00:00:40]You want to see where I come from? Yeah.

[00:00:42]Okay.

[00:00:44]Um but yeah, we going to space.

[00:00:47]I'm taking y'all behind the scenes.

[00:00:49]All right, we about to take off.

[00:00:51]>> [music] [music] [music] >> All right, we got our VR sets. This is a very unique one. It got like the mic headphones connected to it.

[00:01:10]We are really going to the International Space What they call ISS? What is I station?

[00:01:15]>> Space station. International Space Station, yeah.

[00:01:18]I'm excited. If If it's one thing I wish I could do is is go to space for real.

[00:01:23]Like insane. I can see her soul. It's illuminating.

[00:01:30]Can you see this?

[00:01:32]Your hands? Yeah.

[00:01:35]Oh, wow.

[00:01:37]>> [laughter] >> All right, let's let's stop playing around. Let's go to space. Okay, fine.

[00:01:42]We got aliens to Okay.

[00:01:44]>> potentially see.

[00:01:52]>> [music] [music] [music] >> Hey y'all, I am literally going over Earth and it just looks unreal.

[00:02:22]It actually looks real.

[00:02:24]Unreal and real at the same time.

[00:02:29]Hey y'all, this was a really cool experience.

[00:02:32]This is probably the closest Although I do believe in our lives in our lifetime we might end up in space or go to space. What y'all think?

[00:02:43]But until then, this is the closest we're getting to space.

[00:02:46]Highly recommend if you're in the if you're in Atlanta, you definitely want to stop by this ex- this exhibit. Link in the description. I got even a special discount offer y'all.

[00:03:00]We having a daddy and daughter little self-care day. Yes, I am. Samiyah needs some self-care products and then I promised her's I promised her she'll get her nails done, too.

[00:03:12]All right.

[00:03:14]So, yeah. It's Samiyah's day. My day, not Iyah's day.

[00:03:20]I miss Iyah.

[00:03:22]Oh my god.

[00:03:23]Okay, it's about you though.

[00:03:25]Walking into paradise, y'all. Oh my god.

[00:03:27]Yes. I I just love shopping so much.

[00:03:32]Samiyah, your budget is $100.

[00:03:35]Can you please No, I don't have a budget. My budget is a million dollars.

[00:03:40]Can you please hold this?

[00:03:50]Okay. Okay. So guys, this stuff So guys, this is Starface and it's for your pimple patches and as y'all know I'm going on to be a teenager and we get a lot of pimples. So of course I need Starface. So yes let's put that in there.

[00:04:05]LeBron James. LeBron James. That's our basketball. You guys for the girls we already know this is our basketball.

[00:04:12]LeBron James.

[00:04:14]Oh.

[00:04:17]You know it's tea when you see them two fingers touching.

[00:04:21]I feel like a lot of face mask like makes my skin break [music] out you guys.

[00:04:26]Low key. Hey y'all Sumayah is running my pockets y'all.

[00:04:30]I feel like I'm being taken advantage of.

[00:04:34]Don't worry you're not. You're not.

[00:04:36]Time to pay with not my money with my dad's money.

[00:04:39]Yeah.

[00:04:55]And I didn't pass my budget. I didn't even pass my budget.

[00:04:59]I did not pass my budget.

[00:05:01]I did not pass my budget exactly.

[00:05:03]Mission accomplished of course for some reason when you go to Target you also got to go to Starbucks.

[00:05:11]I don't know why. It's like a bundle.

[00:05:14]Shop and drink mocha or matcha.

[00:05:19]Get my nails And then I get then you got to get your nails done.

[00:05:23]Okay guys I got my caramel Frappuccino.

[00:05:27]I love I've I've been getting this for so long.

[00:05:40]The light.

[00:05:41]It's the light.

[00:05:43]It's the I need.

[00:05:45]Is that what you needed?

[00:05:47]A self-care day. Now she wants to get her nails done.

[00:05:55]Miss my Aya. Where she at? Oh my god.

[00:05:58]Babe.

[00:05:59]Mhm.

[00:06:00]I got a question for you. Mhm.

[00:06:03]So, let me know if you agree to this or not.

[00:06:10]Do you think people who get married You know how like your license, your driver's license, passport, all kinds of license expire after a certain amount of time? Mhm. Do you think that should be applicable to marriages as well where you have that you know you can renew it if it like it's it's term every 5 years?

[00:06:37]No.

[00:06:38]It's called death row.

[00:06:40]You think it's death row? It's called death row.

[00:06:43]Once you're married, it's death row.

[00:06:46]Okay? That's it.

[00:06:48]I mean one could argue that you know, every 5 years both parties should decide whether they [music] want to continue this.

[00:06:58]>> No. You don't. No. No.

[00:07:00]You make a lifelong commitment. What I do think should happen is when people want to get married, I think it should be mandatory that they have premarital counseling and classes >> got you you got to understand >> curriculum that prepare them for marriage. I think that should be a requirement for people who want to get married. That's a complete um some type of curriculum.

[00:07:23]Okay.

[00:07:24]Again, I'm playing [music] advocate here.

[00:07:26]Um Everything that involves the government is expirable or requires renewal. So, just like marriage, we involve the government in it. We use their laws for it.

[00:07:43]>> Why is marriage not you know it doesn't have a term and you know I could see the argument and I think maybe it would save a lot of homes as well where people are they feel stuck to death row like you're calling it and it creates the opportunity during that you know 5 10 year term to really assess you know what I don't want I haven't been happy here and my term you know I'm I'm done this term like I want to move on. So just get a divorce.

[00:08:15]You don't get to come in somebody's life and build a life with them take vows get married and think that you just get to walk away because you want No no.

[00:08:25]It's a waste of somebody's time.

[00:08:27]No.

[00:08:30]No.

[00:08:31]Okay what if both sides? Do you have to renew your birth certificate?

[00:08:37]Come on.

[00:08:38]It's not applicable.

[00:08:40]It's a it's a certificate.

[00:08:42]Yeah it's not a license.

[00:08:44]They give you a marriage license um Again it's just it's just an interesting question y'all chime in let me know.

[00:08:53]You know so you don't vouch for that approach. I think it's 50 I'm 50/50 with the idea.

[00:09:03]Um I could see the benefit of it but at the same time you know So time out you believe that >> But you got to understand >> a renewal.

[00:09:12]Yeah both you can do that without being married.

[00:09:14]>> Both parties can decide at the renewal period.

[00:09:18]>> do that without being married.

[00:09:19]>> [music] >> Well You can do a inventory of your marriage.

[00:09:21]>> Well let's look at the reality of marriages.

[00:09:24]Well like they say what 70% 80% already going there. Are you going where?

[00:09:29]Divorce. Because they don't have the extra curriculum to educate about what marriage really is. lot of people get married for the title, they get married for the aesthetics, the Instagram, the ring, whatever that looks like, um without understanding that a real marriage takes work, and it's two people choosing each other every day over and over and over again. [music] And that's what it is. It changes you as a person, and yeah, people like to quit marriages when things get hard, but the reality is do the work.

[00:10:09]A lot of marriages fail because first of all, top one, money issues.

[00:10:14]The second one, illness.

[00:10:18]The third one, a matter of communication. People can't communicate.

[00:10:24]You want to change somebody, which you should change in relationships, but it should be for the better.

[00:10:29]But, yeah, when people say "unreconcilable differences", that just means that y'all don't see eye to eye for one reason or another, and y'all don't want to do the work. One person or both people don't want to do the work.

[00:10:43]That's my take. Marriage is not a piece of paper. It's a commitment to another person.

[00:10:49]>> [clears throat] >> It's a devotion. And you have to choose that person every single day.

[00:10:55]Okay. So, yeah. That's my take. Y'all chime in below.

[00:11:00]I think this is an interesting, [music] um, aspect of marriage.

[00:11:08]Let me know.

[00:11:09]Let me say time out.

[00:11:10]One more question.

[00:11:12]So, you would want to renew? I never said I. I'm just being hypothetical in this entire conversation. I'm bringing up to the to the I see all views of everything of everything. I mean, at the end of the day, this is not a law that that is in play. It's not It will likely never be in play. Clearly, the marriage involving the government is a business and they don't want a term.

[00:11:37]So.

[00:11:37]>> Uh, it's not a business.

[00:11:39]>> It is an absolute business.

[00:11:40]>> It's It's not just business cuz really, we can go a little bit deeper.

[00:11:45]Where in any religious >> [music] >> text does it say renew a contract for marriage, right?

[00:11:55]Where Where does it say that? It says once you get married, that is your person.

[00:12:00]You're not supposed to get divorced unless it's certain things that happen and blah blah blah.

[00:12:05]>> at the end of the day, the reality, the numbers, let's talk about num- If more than 50% of people are getting divorced, all the stuff you're talking about that is irrelevant.

[00:12:15]>> you this thing.

[00:12:16]>> The reality is what is what I'm speaking about.

[00:12:19]>> Okay. Are there statistics that you're talking about? Does that apply to the United States? Oh, may- big time. Or does it apply to the world? Uh, the Western world. The United States.

[00:12:31]Correct.

[00:12:32]>> So, let's just start there. The United States is >> We're not We're not involved We're doomed. The United States It's no culture. It's no morality.

[00:12:41]That's why there's certain things that are uncommon that are unnatural that people in America think are acceptable.

[00:12:48]America does not count because there's no culture and At the end of the day, it counts We live here. We We We abide to the law there.

[00:12:54]>> choose to be here. I want to leave.

[00:12:56]>> can't abide to the Ghana laws. I'm afraid to tell you that.

[00:13:00]>> Um, >> Pack me up. You can go. Get out of here.

[00:13:03]I Yeah, you want to run away from the country.

[00:13:04]>> argue. Okay, you can go. Are you ready for three wives, four wives? You want three wives, four wives? Are you ready for that conversation, >> [music] >> right?

[00:13:12]>> [laughter] >> You talk to Time Out. Time Out.

[00:13:15]Time Out.

[00:13:17]This is how it go.

[00:13:20]This is how it go.

[00:13:21]>> [music] >> You can't tell me now.

[00:13:25]This is how it goes.

[00:13:26]>> [music] [music]