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>> Oh my gosh, Meadow.
Season 3, episode 8 of Sopranos is here.
A therapist watching Sopranos. Pure genius. Mental health is everywhere.
Without further ado, it's time for Sopranos season 3, episode 8.
>> [music] >> frat party.
>> Frat party. Here's the roomie going to the frat party. Neon all over the black light working.
And what is her name again? Kaitlyn.
It's just Oh, Kaitlyn is bent on self-destruct. There are so many college students that go under the radar undetected that they're having really life like life-changing problems in their life and and people don't notice it.
Please pay attention to your college students because when they go off to college, it's a big change. It's a lot of them can't adjust to >> Hey. Oh my god, >> Vetto looks like really grown up.
Extensions.
>> Hug me. [laughter] >> You have to try it. I'm so not depressed anymore. Try what?
>> Whatever the drug is. Yep, there you go.
A little X.
>> Your friend.
>> What the [ __ ] is he doing at Colia?
>> Guys, [ __ ] cute.
>> Coming in. Here's a whole new operation for me. I can come up and work some deals, make some money, be the dealer local.
>> You like that?
>> I choose you.
>> Oh my gosh. So Jackie, you're in a fragile >> ruckus chapter since freshman year. I came up here to see you.
>> Got any more X?
>> Oh no.
>> Watch out, Jackie Junior.
>> Don't tell that.
>> I don't even talk to him anymore.
>> It's over. Here we go. Don't let something happened to her. PLEASE >> READ UP AND SUCK MY DICK.
>> OH, RALPHIE.
[sighs and gasps] The guy I cannot stay at all where they shooting craps here.
I just >> Hey, how are you? [ __ ] fight your de.
You don't come say hello.
>> What's this? A new suit.
>> Huh?
>> Tony don't let anything bother him.
>> He's the boss. They come to him.
>> I'm on a roll here.
>> You'll be on a slab. You keep it up.
>> No kidding. You don't go say hi to him.
Well, Anthony, >> show respect.
>> Want a drink?
>> Another time, Anthony.
Another time.
>> I think he wants to like knock his block off right here. I really do. I think he just the disrespect.
>> Let's whack this [ __ ] sucker and be done with it.
>> I'm here to enjoy myself.
Wow. The two of them hooking up, they do each other forever.
>> I didn't know they did that.
>> Wake up.
>> Oh no. Oh no.
>> You drank too much [ __ ] tequila. Come on. I can't stop.
>> Oh no.
Don't do anything.
>> Another time, Anthony. [ __ ] sucker turns his back on a boss.
>> That I couldn't believe.
>> Look at him and put one of his [ __ ] head.
>> That's what I was thinking.
>> Frankly, I was a little surprised.
>> Oh, you're going to start on me now, huh? He disrespected that bean.
>> Yeah, >> it was a tragedy. The fact is though, she was not related to you by blood or marriage. She was.
>> Here we go with the rule.
>> Ralphie's a made guy tone. All things considered, he's got a legitimate beef.
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Patreon. VIP tier. Has everything unedited. All this content's unedited and way earlier released than YouTube ever gets it. Oh man. Sylvio, I've liked him this whole time. And then all of a sudden, especially after that last time, grabbing that girl out of the house, bringing her back into there, and she wouldn't have died. Well, we don't know that she wouldn't have died that night if she hadn't have been pulled back in that way. And well, she didn't get died that night. Anyway, long story short, he didn't care. He's treating her like a piece of meat. You're coming back into your work because you got to pay off your debt to me.
And Ralphie could care less. He'll kill somebody, a woman defenseless, just because he can. It's something about this made guy thing where you are untouchable once you're a made guy. But that just doesn't I don't know. How does that work with Junior trying to take out Tony? Because Tonyy's a made guy, right? So why are they touching each other if they're all in the the leadership position? Tonyy's trying to play his cards, right? I would suggest something in the way of uh of an apology.
>> Absolutely [ __ ] not.
>> Do something.
>> Silvio, >> give him a piece at the casino. We're partnered with New York on that and I don't want him that close to Johnny S.
Good. Bump him up to Captain [ __ ] Captain.
>> Can't stand him, man.
>> The look on Tony's face when I turned down that drink. Buy me a drink. [ __ ] you. He knew it was wrong what he did.
>> He's the boss. He could do what he wants.
>> Boss or no? You don't raise your hands to another made guy.
>> Joe vote for Mo.
>> I'm supposed to go over there for Thanksgiving. Me and Ro Tony's.
>> Really?
>> [ __ ] him and his turkey. I got to shove a drumstick up his ass.
>> How do you deal with all these egos?
These all these guys who think they're so >> amazing, >> Reverend. Happy Thanksgiving. Model. Who needs it? Oh, come on. T >> in the bad bing. Thing with turkeys, they got no sense of direction. They're on their way to the food emporium. And now look, >> what's this here about Ralph Ciferetta?
He refused to have a drink with you at the club.
>> He refused to drink cuz she's a despicable [ __ ] that I [ __ ] slap in a moment of very justified anger.
>> That sounds like a problem.
>> That [ __ ] [ __ ] supposed to come to Thanksgiving or Ross? No way he'll show.
I'm going to give me options. That [ __ ] shouldn't even be there in the first place.
Who's going to be there >> besides us? I don't know. Karm's parents.
>> Great. How about Meadow?
>> So, Thanksgiving, who's all coming this?
>> Everybody's want to know.
>> Jackie's probably not coming though, right?
>> Oh, I don't know why.
>> I have class. I'll see you Thursday.
>> All right. Bye, [snorts] >> man. She's something else.
>> Here's a third.
>> Oh my god, it's huge.
>> I need you to call Rosalie and cancel with them.
Thanksgiving? Why?
>> Just do it. All right, enough of this Jetson [ __ ] Then I'm going over to Mr. Spacy's house for dinner.
>> I was just talking to >> the Jetsons.
And my excuse won't be nearly as nice as yours.
>> Spicely.
>> Oh, got to love the Jetsons.
[snorts] >> Is your stomach still >> not having any attacks?
>> Woodt trim package, GPS with everything.
Only 7,500 miles. Oh, she's in a waiting. He's in a waiting room.
>> I don't think it's going to last till Saturday.
>> They both have the same time.
[clears throat] >> Like you never run into >> This is when I usually come. I'm trying to uh quit smoking.
>> A serial killer. I murdered seven relationships.
>> I'm pretty sure you said Tuesday.
>> I did.
>> I'll come back next week at the same time. And uh no problemmo. Actually, it is a little difficult getting away from work.
>> See, >> doctor, >> I could see you tonight at 7.
>> Yeah. Yeah. How hard was that?
>> He's something else, isn't he? He just works it and she watches.
It's happened. It's happened to me.
Double booking appointments.
What did I say? It's easier nowadays with text messaging because I put everything in text where it's it's printed and people can look. But in the old days, like 20 30 years ago, you know, a lot of times it's word of mouth. So it's like you said Tuesday at 6 and whatever. And so yeah, whenever I double book like that, if Tony gives up his time, I have to give him his time free. So that's kind of my policy that if it's my fault to double book, your next appointment is free. And I usually try to take the one that does need to be there the most. And uh but it's tough when both people really want to be seen. It's tough. Got to do some on the fly. But it's happened. Gosh, I hate that feeling.
>> I just got off the phone with mom.
>> What's the matter?
>> It's my father. They had some troubling test results. Something to do with his white blood cells. And of course, I'll let you know when I know anything more.
>> Take care, sweetheart. Bye.
>> All right. Bye-bye.
>> Here we go. Let the games begin.
>> Karm's father, he's sick. She had to cancel Thanksgiving.
>> He knows.
>> It's a management problem. It's it's a situation with an underling. Now, it's partly my fault, but he never should have done what he did. Caused a early retirement. Somebody else.
>> I could read between the lines there.
>> Listen, I want to I wanted to ask you about the the girl, you know, that woman that was here today, the Mercedes sales lady. I'm very sorry about the confusion.
>> What does somebody like that need a shrink for?
>> I can't.
>> She looks beautiful.
>> It's like she looks great. She looks put together. She's a great business woman.
She's just You can't look at somebody on the outside and see whether they need therapy. And by the way, therapy is not just to fix people who have problems.
It's meant to keep problems away. It's it's no different than a financial advisor, a doctor you go see, a physical uh a trainer you might go see at the gym, a nutritionist that it's the same thing to try to help mental health. And if people did therapy like with good therapy, you would see, you know what, I don't always have problems when I go see a therapist.
But maybe that's what keeps the problems away. Like life still has its issues, but you learn to deal with it better.
>> You just got to leave.
I usually don't have clients that just get up and leave.
>> You know, it's after hours. Stop. You want me to walk into your car?
Yes, I would.
>> No, thank you.
>> Oh, >> I have some work I have to catch up on here.
>> Pro trauma.
>> Anyone for a turtle? Aaron. Honey.
>> Hey.
>> What? [laughter] >> Honey.
>> Just her age. It's so sad. But >> you know I love you more than anything in this world, right? I know things haven't been so good with us lately.
It's just anything will ever happen to you.
>> Everybody, come on. Dinner.
>> That that relatability of seeing that young girl die and knowing it's Meadow's age, anything could happen. He's not in control anymore. She's out in the world and he just really wanted her to know.
And he really loves her. He does. And I think she really loves him. It's just they're so much alike.
[clears throat and laughter] I don't >> almost time for turkey sandwiches.
>> I'll put more coffee on.
>> It's a Boston strangler. Jesus, ma.
>> I'll get it. It's >> going to be Jackie Jr. looking for Meadow.
>> I just figured I'd see if Meadow wants to do something. See a movie, whatever.
>> Sure. Sure. I mean, I was going to go over to Hunters. You want to go?
>> Whatever.
>> I'll be down.
>> A soprano and a little >> Oh my gosh. Here she goes.
>> Why don't you just beg and come to Dubs?
>> Hunter is expecting me.
>> Oh my gosh. Are they like wanting to hook up? It just seems awkward to me and potentially dangerous.
>> Don't you have midterms, too?
>> I don't even go anymore.
>> What? Why?
>> What? Did you ever think of applying to FIT? Supposed to be a good school for that.
>> Come on. Come to those. I want to be with you so bad.
>> You won't go with me, but you'd go with that black guy.
>> It's not that I want to go. I've been hurt. Just give me some time. Okay.
>> Men will be men. Boys will be boys.
Wish guys weren't that way. She was being nice about it. We were young when we got married, but those two emotionally they are much younger than we were.
>> Until then, >> the MercedesBenz Coup. There's that lady.
>> They're going to get one of those.
>> Want a Mercedes? Go ahead. It's a cute car.
>> He's got other motives.
>> He disinvited Ralph to Thanksgiving. No [ __ ] >> They They eat more food in this show than any other show I've ever seen.
There is food all the time. I wonder if on the set they really ate all this food. Like they just sat there and ate because they had to otherwise you'd be stuffed all the time. It had to be very like concentrated at different points.
Just a little bit at a time cuz it seems like they eat every like scene.
Disinvited Ralphie.
>> How things going over there? You know, with our friend.
>> He's still breaking my balls though about taking orders from me. Plus, now with you and him and all that other [ __ ] there.
>> You know, it's your job to make my job easier.
>> He's a frustrating guy. got a personality disorder.
>> We're in the middle of a major renovation at the house. I got two kids getting ready for college soon.
>> Hey, hang in there. You're doing a good job.
>> It's like [ __ ] All the life stress is getting in the way. Make you make shortcuts.
>> You see those bags? [ __ ] stress is killing him. Maybe he wants my [ __ ] job.
>> It's a matter of honor this Thanksgiving.
>> Little putting green there.
>> I'm telling you, John, he's not leaving me a lot of options here. Don't talk crazy. You want to commit suicide? Pills are a lot easier.
>> That regular old folding chair on that nice house.
>> You brought this on yourself with that girl.
>> A, she was a whoa. B, she hit me.
>> Tony, I'm sorry.
>> [ __ ] that. What good would it do?
>> It might save your life.
>> He hit me.
>> He was wrong. Believe me, he knows. He's higher up on the chain than you are, though.
>> He's running scared since you cancelled that dinner.
>> Your opponent is of caleric temper.
Irritate him.
>> Yeah. Well, >> that book, >> you know what he did? That poor girl just had a 20th birthday.
>> That was what he mentioned. I threw cold water on it right away.
>> It's just the way they work these deals.
No, he didn't.
>> I talked to him. He's delighted you want to see him. [sighs] >> He's trying to work it. He's trying. The >> [ __ ] you doing up before noon? I'm moving out over the doves.
>> Been boy reserve you in Israel got called up.
>> God bless America, huh? You find yourself short on X.
I know a guy >> that [ __ ] your future father-in-law pulled over for Thanksgiving. He knew I had no intention of going over there.
He's trying to save face, so he stooped solo he had his wife lie to your mother.
Whatever you need, give me a call.
>> Boy, he's sleazy. Her supervisor looks at her crosseyed. She wants to talk about how her father laughed at her when she fell off her bicycle when she was seven.
>> Therapist issues.
>> You've been through such trauma. It takes tremendous strength of will and inner resource to soldier on as you do what you want.
>> Mhm.
>> I try. I really do. It's >> maybe she came back.
>> Hard sometimes.
[sighs] needs to back off a little.
>> Patient soprano. How How's all that?
>> He offered to escort me to my car. I almost fell in his arms crying.
>> What you needed?
>> Oh, look at this.
>> Ry private meeting here, Anthony.
Wow.
Cold intro.
>> You want to see me? [laughter] >> You know to apologize.
>> So, >> dang, bro.
This is uncomfortable.
>> I said some things and I did some things that I'm sorry for. It's not going to happen again. What' you do?
>> Making him say it.
>> I'm sorry, Tony.
Okay.
>> Anything else?
>> Wow, man. He's sending a strong message of we're not going to just like work this out. A little bloated from Thanksgiving.
>> Thanksgiving 1982.
>> [ __ ] turkey. It's like spacula in my bowels.
>> Nothing moves. You want me to run up to right aids and get you some Metamucil?
>> Nah, >> Metamucil. I take that.
>> [ __ ] didn't even invite me to sit down.
>> It's pastoring. It's part of the game.
>> [ __ ] the game. He's going down.
>> Oh, what are you [ __ ] stupid coming in here?
>> I don't give a [ __ ] >> They're my children. Thorn, >> you seriously cannot be >> Junior just trying to recover. Watch some leftover turkey and uh stuffing when I go.
>> Keep it. Everything goes through me. And these drafts, I should be down in Bokeh.
>> It's like the [ __ ] Amazon jungle in here. [laughter] What's a thermostat say?
>> Don't touch it.
>> Where did you ever work for somebody named Trillo?
>> There was somebody named Trillo. He had seven daughters. I can't remember.
He's freezing and Tony's sweating.
[sighs] Look at >> all the pills in the bottles.
>> So I take Gigi out. What kind of message does that send?
>> That you're indecisive and unsure of yourself.
>> Exactly. Who the [ __ ] would I replace him with any? What the [ __ ] would I answer?
>> Who says there is one? That's what being a boss is. You steer the ship the best way you know.
>> Yeah, that's true.
>> How much longer, Skip? I got to take a leak.
Did he pass out? Sometimes you can do that from squeezing too hard.
>> What the [ __ ] are you looking at? Call 911.
I don't feel a pulse.
>> Oh no, he died.
Sorry.
>> He took care of that problem.
>> Was a good man.
Never said a bad word about anybody.
[laughter] >> Wow.
>> Oh, Ralphie.
Wow. What do you do now?
>> I got to go uh rotate my puck shoulder.
>> You wanted to see me? Sit down making your captain.
>> You are.
>> Wow.
>> You're not going to be sorry. Thank you.
>> What else?
>> You're going to be making a lot more money, Ralphie. So, don't question. You want a captain? Your captain.
>> I've wanted this so [ __ ] long.
>> You know what they say, be careful what you wish for. You just might get it.
>> Mhm.
>> We going to have a drink together or what?
[laughter] He's not giving him an inch. He is not happy with this. He had to do it though to make peace.
>> Did you [ __ ] her yet?
>> Her body is mad ripe. She's screaming for me, man.
>> [laughter] >> You didn't [ __ ] it yet.
>> Guys are guys, >> you said you were going to take me.
>> Go sit down.
>> [ __ ] brat.
>> Madam, god damn it.
>> She's like, "You don't know who I am. I don't care."
She is gone.
[screaming] >> Oh my gosh.
Maddo, >> but your car.
>> [ __ ] the car. Call it install.
>> Oh my god, Jaggy. I am so sorry.
>> As long as you're okay. I don't know what I would have done if you would have got hurt.
>> Oh man.
>> I should have taken you to bass like you wanted.
>> You love the car.
>> It's all right. Come on. Let's get you home.
>> No.
>> I want to go with you.
>> You sure?
>> Oh, no. Meadow. Meadow.
Mercedes want the optional fan.
>> I found you.
>> That's a good question.
>> And uh we can match up your stories of yesterday.
>> She's like, I know you from therapy.
>> What if I take it for a test drive?
>> You have to be accompanied by a sales rep.
>> Anybody available, >> Dale?
>> Yeah. I'm >> going out 600.
>> Thanks. Here we go. Tony.
>> Hello, Jennifer. It's Gloria Trillo. I'm really sorry, but I can't make it today.
>> She's hooking up with Tony.
>> Everything all right?
>> Yeah. Yeah, fine.
>> Great.
>> What was with >> Oh my gosh.
I I can't [laughter] believe I just There's no words. There's no words.
>> Do you want to reschedu?
>> No, it's okay. I'll just see you next week at the regular time.
>> Okay, I'll see you next week.
>> Yeah, sounded familiar, didn't it?
>> I can't believe it.
[music] >> Hey >> [screaming] >> That is so good. Casey Chambers, the captain.
Could never get enough of this show. I can never get enough of this show.
Oh, I can't believe it. Tony goes in, the voice is heard. What is Dr. Melie gonna say about that? And what is Tony doing?
He just can't stop touching the flame.
Even a child knows to pull their hands away from the flame. Come on, Tony.
Having to make Ralphie captain. I don't even want any part of that. I just want this part of the show. I just want to go away. And Meadow with Junior. There's so much bad in this episode for me. I don't want Meadow with Junior. [music] I don't want Ralphie to be captain. I don't want Tony hooking up with this girl.
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>> I got friends here, man. LET ME CALL MY MAN CARLO.
>> I SEE YOU HERE AGAIN. I'm going to crack your head.
>> Oh [ __ ] >> The Sopranos season 3 episode 9 is up today. We are getting close to the end of season 3. Without further ado, it's time for the Soprano season 3 episode 9.
>> Happy birthday.
Happy birthday, baby.
I love you so.
>> What's this?
>> What's this? They have such a twisted relationship.
So weird.
But she loves this part of it. She loves it.
>> Here me, >> man. There's a ring.
>> Happy birthday.
>> I don't know what he buys or what he takes.
>> Oh.
>> Mhm. Give me some.
>> Look at the ring your father gave me.
>> I already saw it. I was going to wrap it, but it's wasteful to the environment.
>> Thank you, young man. [laughter] >> The Matrix. I haven't seen it yet.
>> What up, Aelli?
>> Hello. Happy birthday, mama.
>> Oh, wow.
>> Celebrating her today.
>> See what your father got me.
>> Big ring.
>> Happy birthday, >> boy. Meadow's really changing. like growing up like the adult. She's always beautiful, but just very woman like she's just changing this season drastically from off to college to now this appearance and the way that she looks here. I kind of wonder how much she's going to go against the system or become a part of the system with what they have. You know, she's grown up seeing Carmemella just play the role.
She hates it, but she can't let go of the what it gives her to be that wife and that mother in this life she has.
And she's grown up watching her dad just twist and manipulate and control everything and then just be this gangster mafia guy. So, there's a part of it that's alluring and enticing and attractive. There's a part of it that's that's disgusting for her. So, which way is she going to go?
>> A day of beauty and pampering at the Belladonna Day Spa. It's in Soho. My friend Bacha says it's awesome. Massage, mud treatment, everything. I got myself one so we can go together. I put it on your [laughter] >> I put it on your credit card.
>> Make this place in the 21st century.
>> Yeah, it's like permanently 1987 in here.
>> Godamn Vikings. Nobody misses the extra point.
>> Gambling.
[gasps] >> Bet with your head. No over it.
>> You're still [clears throat] a partner.
You got a problem with us?
>> Wow.
Happy birthday. [singing] >> The gang is all here.
>> Did you invite some stray dog up here?
>> You sure the food?
>> Sorry I'm late.
>> Oh, here he is.
>> Happy birthday, Con.
>> Oh, Jackie, you didn't >> farm.
>> All right, come on. Let's go. The wax is melting here.
>> See, I could see Meadow ending up with him just as a um part of the family. You know, she could play that role.
They'd be miserable but happy kind of.
Happy birthday, Carmela.
Happy birthday.
>> Oh, what a happy family.
>> No champagne. The good Lord doesn't want us [snorts] to drink alcohol.
>> Didn't Jesus drink wine?
>> He was Jesus. Tone. We can't make comparisons.
>> Oh my gosh.
[laughter] He doesn't drink, but she comes out of the bathroom with a little [snorts and laughter] little white stuff on the nose.
>> Is it all right if I sleep at Egon if I promise to be in bed by one?
>> I ordered one for you so you don't disappear when I send you to the market.
>> Lights out by one in bed by 12.
>> Lollipop.
>> Be careful.
>> I smell fish. [snorts] >> We're near the ocean >> now. I smell piss.
>> [laughter] >> Boy, is he going to take over this club?
>> What?
>> It's yours.
>> What [snorts] is >> This is the Lollipop and Long Branch.
This is your club.
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>> Oh my god.
I can't believe it.
>> Wants her to have a place she could spend her time.
>> Thank you, Christopher.
I'm so excited.
>> Can we change the name?
>> Whatever you want. [laughter] >> This is Rocco. He works for you.
>> Oh, Rocco lost the club over gambling.
The cake on a star.
>> Tony, is there anything you need to tell me >> about the ring?
>> I don't know.
>> You didn't buy that little car you were talking about.
>> Mercedes look like a douchebag in one of those.
>> Jean Kuzammano calls those sports cars midlife crisis mobiles.
>> What the [ __ ] does she know?
>> Looks good to sit in bed and just eat some cake.
>> I don't ever do that.
He just does kind of whatever he wants.
You know >> what?
>> I don't know. I'm not thrilled about this thing with Jackie and Meadow.
>> I know. I'm not either.
>> She came home and he came over so that they could go out tonight.
>> So what? He's a good kid. Comes from good stock.
>> He's been on his best behavior lately. I can't deny that. I just never pictured Meadow with someone like him.
>> Someone like him.
>> Like Tony.
>> Well, you talk to her and I'll talk to Jackie Jr. Here's your Edgar Allan Poe paper.
You >> did it already.
>> Writing for him.
>> I would have done it myself. Was going to do it. I just couldn't get through the books.
>> I don't know that he's that smart.
>> Never should have took literature of obsession. I owe you big time. Thanks.
>> He's a player.
She just she just God surprised me.
Get set. Go.
>> Don't know what you're getting into.
>> I kicked your asses. You cheat.
>> Oh my god.
>> They didn't even get to the wall.
>> Hey guys, we got Mr. Goodwin's office open. Check it out.
>> Oh my gosh.
>> Come on.
>> Oh, these people.
[laughter] >> Delinquents.
>> Come on. Let's go. COME ON.
DON'T CUT YOUR FACE.
>> Could have had a call last year, but just burned your nose at it.
>> Eric's car. Is it a sick joke? They interest you to know that his father's now in a mental health facility in Nevada.
>> Wow.
>> Why don't you just wait and see? We just want to make sure that you take advantage of all the city has to offer you culturally, socially, educationally.
>> Carmela's right here in terms of especially as parents, our children go to college. I want you to get everything out of you can. And most people don't, but it's such a true statement that I want you to take advantage of, especially in New York, of everything they have to offer to learn everything you can about your classes to be able to experience the culture, the city, the history, just museums, all of that stuff. It is the best time where you're so unencumbered. You don't have a career, you don't have a house, you don't have a car, you don't have children, you don't have bills to pay.
like it. It's the perfect time.
She really is. I I think Carmelo wants Meadow to get out. I think she wants her to get out in the world, find a regular guy to marry and have a regular family and not be tied up in what they live in every day. Tony wants her to stay in the same >> family. Morning.
>> Okay, AJ, try what I told.
>> I will. Thanks, Jackie.
Oh boy.
>> The wall of pride. What kind of animals?
>> I don't think they stole anything. They just did a number in the place. They left this.
>> Let's find out who ordered pizza last night.
>> That's in my box. This pie was found at a crime scene. My pizza never hurt nobody.
>> Come again, sir.
>> You don't find any bacteria in here?
>> It's a custom job.
>> How's that, sir? Double meatball, pepperoni, sausage, peppers, onions, extra mozzarella. This pie fit a pattern. Come again, officer.
>> Any customers order this combo on?
>> They're doing the old drag net thing here. You know, the back and forth. The I love this. Just a back and forth. Back and forth.
>> Word to the wise. What's that?
>> Technically, you're an accessory after the fact.
>> Made a pizza.
>> Do you know how serious this is? Answer me right now.
>> Yes.
>> I don't think he cares.
Why did you do it? Do you hate the school? Do you have a problem with someone there or something?
>> Wants to fit in.
>> We just did it.
>> And if they were jumping off the George Washington Bridge, would you just do that, too?
>> No.
>> Tony, look at him.
>> They're going to call you.
>> Just when everything was going good, huh? You're going to miss the big game.
You're screwing everything up. Your football career down a drain.
>> Con on your half. It's all about the contrast. The crispness of the beans, the smoothness of the cheese.
>> Uh, no, I'm fine.
>> Bonapit >> tastes like mozzarella string beans.
>> You have a car.
>> I want the honey pasta. I like to make a toast to the blossoming friendship between our two children.
>> I'm very happy to see my son. You did a great job. She's a wonderful girl. Oh, thank you. Salute.
>> It's nice to see our families united.
Oh, United.
>> There she is. Oh, boy. He's back.
>> You know what though? If you wait inside for me, I'll be in there in just a second. Okay.
>> She just goes from guy to guy. That's part of why she's in therapy.
>> Been shopping.
>> It's for you.
>> Very beautiful.
>> So are you.
Oh, Tony.
>> What are my chances of kidnapping?
>> I'm closing on a car.
>> Come on. Let the Hans and France do the paperwork. I'm going nuts thinking about you.
>> Got to work.
>> Oh my gosh. Right there at the dang dealership.
>> Come on. Come on. I'll take you anywhere you want to go. The Pierre Sherry Netherlands. You pick it. Come on.
Anywhere you want to go. He is not like taking no for an answer.
>> Want to go to the zoo?
>> The zoo?
>> Yeah. Try to get there once a year.
>> All right, we'll go.
>> I'll call you.
>> Oh, wow.
>> Amazing thing about snakes is that they reproduce spontaneously. They have both male and female sex organs. That's why somebody you don't trust, you call a snake. How can you trust a guy who can literally go [ __ ] themselves?
Paulie >> friend of mine's a brother's a bartender there.
>> Don't you two got class tomorrow?
>> She's got a 2:00 and I'm off.
>> How many days off they give you a ruckus?
>> Not going really.
>> I'm going to be very protective over her. You can understand that, right?
>> Of course.
>> So if you want to spend time with her, I want the best from you. If you're in school, you got to give it everything you got.
>> Yeah, right.
I >> know I've been saying this to you all along, but now it's different. You understand what I'm saying to you?
>> I just got an A on my lip paper.
>> You did?
>> Yeah, cuz she wrote it.
>> He's the guy who did all the the Vincent Price [ __ ] right?
>> Guy smoked opium and married his cousin.
He's from the Bronx. You believe that?
>> So, you got an A, >> I'm doing good, Tony.
>> Let's keep it that way. Keep your father in mind.
I'm very excited to have from you our very first band. Please welcome the Miami relative >> arty.
[music and singing] >> You're loud.
>> Hey, what's up?
>> Let's go.
>> I got friends here, man. LET ME CALL MY MAN CARLO.
>> I SEE YOU HERE AGAIN. I'm going to crack your head.
>> Oh [ __ ] >> Oh man, they're at the zoo.
>> I think mother you guys ever smell yourselves [laughter] cuz you're killing us over here.
>> Probably right, huh?
>> Except for you. What you got on even a baboon would love. You know, she's so used to being sexualized and being sought after. It's kind of her allure.
It's what she does. You know, that she can't be seen for who she really is.
Go to the zoo, look at animals.
It is a fascinating place to see how these creatures exist. And she's looking deeper into the animal. He's just looking at a gorilla there. Like, it's whatever. But she's seeing something different and all she wants to do is be seen. But she keeps picking people who will, you know, use her and um, you know, take take advantage of her and not see her for anything other than the external appearance and what she could offer them. And that's why she's in therapy and that's why relationships die after one after the other.
>> Tibetan talisman for protection. I knew it. I knew there had to be something.
>> What is wrong with that? It's a Buddhist symbol.
>> My sister was a Buddhist. She's a whack job.
>> I see. So, I got to be >> The first noble truth is life is suffering. But the Buddha preached joyful participation in the sorrows of the world. So, you make a sale. You don't make a sale. It's a tiny little thing.
>> He's not that deep.
>> What's so funny?
>> You came here today.
>> What? The zoo? I said zoo when you came.
>> Was this a [ __ ] head trip? No.
>> You're very sweet. You came. I'm crazy about you >> already.
>> Okay, class. Come on this way. Stay together. Come on.
>> Oh no. This is not good. This is not good.
>> Take your kids to the Bronx.
>> Yeah.
>> Now we're here.
>> See you later.
>> What was that? Oh, that was my hot on [laughter] >> between the Buddhism and talk about the family. Poor you. Let me see. It's really gone. Are you lying?
>> It's interesting the diversions that are being taken this episode into just different areas. They're bringing in new people and they're bringing in new situations. You've got Anthony Jr., you've got Meadow and Jackie Jr., You've got Tony with I don't know how long she's going to be around, but are they going to meet up in therapy one day, the two of them? Like, oh, here we go into the hiding.
I just don't know about getting it onto the zoo. That just seems like gh too many germs.
>> Big old python up there.
>> So, I asked around. I heard about some guy uh multis something. Some made guy in the Soprano family was running things. Now >> multisome.
>> What did I tell you about my man Jackie?
You know my father was >> the the golfer. You open >> Chris and me associates. You got nothing to worry about. I'll call Carlo in a couple days.
>> Meeting over.
>> Working deals on the side.
>> This consideration has only been arrived at based upon Anony's academic performance.
>> His academic performance.
>> He's brought his GPA up to a C minus. So what is the punishment? We should >> they give money to the school.
>> You know now uh I mean you're kind of >> undermining the >> it's not only skill that Anthony has shown on the football field. It's leadership qualities as well.
>> We feel that it would be against his best interests and the teams.
>> The teams.
>> You completely sold us out in there.
>> What I do?
>> That they are not punishing him at all, Tony. And you went right along.
>> Yeah, they're not. That whole thing was a disgusting charade so the [ __ ] freshman football team can win the big game.
>> We've been waiting for years for him to get off the couch. K, this is good.
>> Hey, we should keep this in the family.
Punish him at home. He ain't getting off that easy >> overall.
>> There we go.
>> My sales are way up. And my performance has been commended by MercedesBenz USA with a little plaque.
>> What's going on with your social life?
>> Nothing.
>> She's not going to tell. But it's okay.
>> What I'm going to say is a little delicate.
>> This is the hard part of therapy, y'all.
She because she's on to something. But there's so many times in therapy where as therapists, we will sit with somebody and say, "I'm not getting the whole story or I'm getting the story they want to tell me." And I don't know that any of this is benefiting. Like I would say to her, I I I'm not sure what you're doing here. Like I know you're updating me and telling me what's going on, but there are a lot bigger things we have to talk about than just how's life going.
Good. Okay. That she's like she's holding back. She's not really talking about things and people go up and down.
That is not getting the full story. And so I think she's going to call her on it.
>> When you called me last week to cancel, I heard a man's voice.
>> My car broke down.
>> Why? Could have been the mechanic.
>> I see.
>> Can't do this work.
>> That you put [clears throat] it to me that way.
>> Oh my gosh.
>> Why?
>> Well, I don't pay you to be under your surveillance.
>> Here we go. You're my customer. I pay you to do what I want to do. Well, what I say to people a lot of times, and I know people might get offended by this, but having done this 30 years and come from the bottom to climb out of it, I have so many people wanting to come in to change their life, to work on themselves, to get better.
I I would be sitting here with her. You know what? That's a great point.
And I don't feel like you're being honest with me. And if we can't be honest in this room, then there's no point in us sitting here because I'm not here just to be paid by you to sit here.
I'm here because I have a skill, an ability, and a willingness to work with you. And if you want to get better, let's get better. But you brought all these issues up before, and now all of a sudden everything's just cool and it's chill. And you're offended that I bring something up that [snorts] smells funny to me. So, it's okay if she doesn't want to do the work here. Like, I have other people that want to come in. I just don't It's interesting that you get defensive with me on this. What do you pay me to do? Because I I got a lot of clients. I could just sit. They could pay me every hour.
Come in and I could sit and just listen.
But you know what those people say?
You're not helping me. And then when I try to help them, you know what those people say? Like her, I didn't ask you to do that. I don't want you to ask me questions like that. It's a double bind here. This is a could be very much found in a borderline personality client, but she is very manipulative. We know the behind the scenes, but even if Dr. Melie doesn't know she sniffed it out enough to I would be like, "Okay, what do you pay me for then?" Like, I I don't have to have you pay me. You don't have to be here.
>> You came to me after attempting suicide.
Wake up with Barry. Exactly.
>> I think it's very unprofessional of you to confront me this way.
>> Suicide is something I take very seriously.
>> It's my job.
>> Is he trained to give those diagnosis?
>> My car broke down.
>> You're lying. I mean, >> and spend money.
>> All right. I'll take it upstairs.
>> Here goes the conversation.
>> You got a lot of balls. You hear what I said?
>> Yeah.
>> What' I say?
>> No.
>> End of chat.
>> Okay. Thanks.
>> You don't want to be seen with him or around him.
>> It's all taken care of.
>> Thanks, man.
>> Just can't do it in in time. Everything will be revealed to you. Couple of weeks, you'll be back inside. Don't worry.
>> That's the way it is.
>> Your father and I have discussed your punishment. You're grounded for a month.
That means no Nintendo, no DVDs, no skateboards, >> and no computer. I use a computer for school. Get the typewriter out of the basement.
>> I love this.
>> Okay. Or not, you got no choice. Number one, you go to the garage, you clean it out, you make it neat and organized.
>> Jackie Junior did that the other day.
>> See what I'm saying about him? You know, you [snorts] ought to take less. Kids pre-made a record cuz he finds time to come down here and help out.
>> And you're going to clean the gutters.
>> What gutters? on the edge. The things that collect the water.
>> I don't know what you mean.
>> Don't get smart with me.
>> I don't know.
>> The drain pipes for the rain.
>> Doesn't [snorts] know what gutters are.
Does he really not know what gutters are?
>> I called you once.
>> My man Jackie said, "As long AS I [ __ ] NAME DROP ME."
>> We going to take a walk.
>> Wow.
>> Right arm's still good. No.
>> Oh my gosh.
>> You think that's funny?
>> Sorry.
>> Gosh. Tell me what happened.
>> You didn't give a [ __ ] I don't think they like you.
>> Can you give me the thing?
>> You should get the nurse to help you.
That's what they get paid for. Maybe she'll be fine and give you a cheap thrill.
>> Jackie just clueless. He's just not who you want me with at all.
>> Hello, Callie. Hey, it's your sister.
Look at >> the amount of pasta they're making. Oh my gosh.
>> Back in the pot. Yeah. And a little gravy.
>> Gravy.
>> But if you're looking to make a point, you might want to go with something bigger. Uh, >> it's not really for intimidation. Just in case.
>> I go with the 38. You can have this one.
I got another one under bed.
>> The gun's just different places.
Well, Tony just infatuated with her and he loves people who love him.
and she just wants to be that girl.
>> Walk in trouble.
>> Then I don't expect anything from you.
Well, kindness.
>> Okay.
>> You really are in love with yourself, aren't you?
>> No. Both of y'all are peas in a pod. I >> mean, there's like a bunch of alternates you could have said. You'd deprive yourself of nothing.
You think of ve?
>> She's looking for so much like semblance of control in her life and she can't find it. You know, she's got this gorgeous body. She's beautiful. She's got this seductive style, but it's all guys want. And that's where the suicide attempt comes in or the failed relationships that she can't just be herself. So she uses that to try to get control of men only to end up all alone because that's really all they want from her is the physical stuff. She doesn't know how to actually have good healthy boundaries and have people wait to get to know her and to care about her rather than her body. So she goes straight to bed.
>> Some of my accounts were in bad neighborhoods.
>> I know why you lie, but you don't have to. Can I hold it?
She's doing uh [laughter] >> to him what she wants to do to her >> almost like giving herself advice.
>> I mean, we're paying a school. We're buying a service. And if it's their opinion that it shouldn't get treated too harshly, I mean, you got to listen to the experts, right?
>> Total joke. He's a [laughter] joke with this.
>> She's like bored. It's like this is boring. Don't come to therapy without something to come to therapy for.
Friend of mine once said, "Therapy always works when I'm honest."
Always works when you're honest. And the second thing he said was, "I have to tell myself, I'm going to talk about what I don't want to talk about when I go to therapy." Remember that. Talk about what you don't want to talk about. the things that don't you don't want to come up about your life, about your past, about what you're struggling with.
Don't go to therapy and have this happens, believe me, more than you can imagine, for a therapist to have to dig and pull and grind to get stuff out of you. You should go into therapy with an idea of what you want to talk about.
Maybe not how to fix things, but this is what I've struggled with. These are examples of things that have happened to me, and this is what goes on in my head.
instead of talking about the kid and the football team and the school and all that.
>> Otherwise, she's gonna be bored. She's This This is bored therapist right here.
>> You do look happy, I must say.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, sometimes you got to get away and stop and smell the gorilla [ __ ] It's good to be in nature, though.
>> And the zoo made you happy.
>> Yeah.
>> Who'd you go with? That's what I'd ask.
I mean, typically we don't just go by ourselves.
>> Think a lot of it's cuz of you, too. put a lot of time into me.
>> He's blowing >> now. It's It's paying off.
>> It's BS, Tony.
>> And how willing you are to be honest with yourself and with me.
>> Well, I haven't proven >> to joyfully participate in the suffering of the world.
>> Oh, here we go. He's going to say he's going to say something that she said and I think she's heard that in a session with that other girl.
Put two and two together. Well, I lived in Jersey my whole life.
>> I mean eastern in terms of Asian like Buddhist or Dowist.
>> Sonzu, I told you about him.
>> We have to stop now.
>> Yeah, >> this is the uh >> co-ay I owe you from last month.
>> You You gave me too much.
>> Well, I gave you a little extra for the good results this week.
>> I can't accept it.
>> Give me your favorite charity. You better get your phone. I'll see you next week.
>> Put it to your balance. You have a credit.
>> Hi, Jason.
>> How are you?
>> I hate all of them.
>> Who?
>> My patience. All of [laughter] them.
No concern for what I do.
>> I feel this so much.
>> [ __ ] them. Quit [laughter] >> right now.
>> Quit.
>> That doesn't sound like a bad idea.
>> I love it. I love it. How are you?
>> You got to know I love it because of what I do. She's not saying she hates the patients. She hates them as people.
She hates that they come in, they waste her time, they waste their time, they waste their money, and they can't be honest. That's all she's saying. So behind the scenes as therapists many times we will say I can't take it because I'm going in and I want to see something happen but all of a sudden I get somebody I know who's either lying in my face telling me a story don't have anything to talk about and we're wasting our time [laughter] so we can appreciate this because it happens.
>> I need to buy a couple of expensive books.
>> She's got money now.
Wonder if those people in that window are watching them film.
>> They look like they were staring out the window.
>> Right. Let roll down >> playing some craps.
>> Oh no. Junior, aren't you supposed to be at school?
>> See, you shouldn't have listened to me.
It's your hand.
>> I would have hit anyway.
>> Come here. I want to talk to you, man. M >> day. Now get your money and get the [ __ ] out of here.
>> Sorry, Tom.
>> I want to see you here again.
>> Smarten up.
>> Otherwise, get away from my daughter.
Lot of scene switching at the end.
>> Oh, Tony.
>> I have to say, you were right, Tony.
Jackie Jr. has really surprised me. He's been a perfect gentleman.
>> He takes it to the side.
>> Now she's on his side. [laughter] >> He's not so the gunners. AJ.
[music] Oh, so much going on here. So many lies that are happening. So many lies. Jackie Jr.
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Oh no.
>> Big mouth Billy Bass. What is that?
>> Oh, those are good.
>> Oh no, he doesn't want to see that. No.
>> But let's go. Soprano season 3, episode 10.
>> I'm an Asbury. I'll beat your boat in 15 minutes.
>> No, I got a meeting. I'll come there after.
>> I love this scenery. Love this. I want to go there and see it.
I always wonder if it's really that cold when they're taping.
Lot of bad stuff has happened around there.
>> Simpson's attorney is outraged. Brett Goldman is philosophic and >> Jersey there to fried his worthless ass.
He shut down his golf course. Now >> going back to the days of OJ. I don't know if many of y'all were around at that point in 1994, but I think it was 94 95 because I remember the Rockets player here in Houston. The Rockets won the championship that year, two years in a row. And it's going on during the chase for OJ and all that and this whole time span of a couple years of this trial and such news in the country if not the world and just different parts of the world and how they perceived this trial going down especially in the end was seeing kind of OJ after the fact and how things went down with him and I don't know man it was kind of one of these things where you look back now with DNA because it was so new back then nobody really knew DNA evidence was that now if it happened today, uh the guy would have been toast. Like there's no way he would have made it through trial with all the DNA that was around. But back then, it's like this is voodoo.
This is weird. You can't prove it. And plus, they probably screwed up the crime scene and all that stuff. Needed Dexter back then. That's who they needed.
Anyway, I wonder what he was pondering looking over the ocean. Wonder if he's pondering his life. You know, he he's got this infatuation now. And it's like for Tony a buffet. He can never get enough. He can never be satisfied with what he has. And that that's good enough.
>> There he is. Chef Lee fat.
>> Oh my briefs. Oh, >> going back to the past with [ __ ] This is going back a flashback.
So I think maybe this is what he was flashing back to then.
Back to the day. Junior's looking for a way out, but he's got that iron rod up his ass. Said he was in line to be boss.
Now he's got to take orders from somebody used to fetch him as Sam Bua.
>> Hey, is he going to sit down or not?
>> If Tony will guarantee his safety.
>> So, this is, you know, back in the day with Tony, Jackie, Junior. Junior being the older guy, doesn't like taking orders. Jackie was kind of the man. Jackie was the man.
Tony kind of followed underneath him.
[ __ ] underneath Tony. You deal with the Tony. Tony take care of [laughter] it.
>> Thank God. Come get seasick.
>> We're staying home this year so Jackie can study for his SAT.
And >> Matt and Kevin right behind him.
>> Hey S, you need money. You come to me.
You hear what I'm saying?
>> Don't be moving at H no more, puss. Too risky.
>> He's too deep in.
>> I always wanted a house by the ocean.
Maybe you had another life.
>> So he was just reminiscing back to when things were the way they were and now they're gone.
I'm just uh thinking about our former friend who >> [ __ ] Not >> rough. He's holding up the contractor for more money. He's got the site shut down on a strike. Angeli can't work.
>> Pulling your [ __ ] book against millions going to roll in off the esplan.
>> I figured you'd take a side.
>> It's always something. They're all trying to get something off somebody else for something else.
What a lifestyle. Another [sighs and gasps] [yawns] attack.
>> You're not going to like this next bit of news either. Janice is insisting on cooking Christmas dinner this year.
>> Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
>> I'm doing Christmas Eve. You want to >> She looks pretty.
>> I was feeling good. All of a sudden, I'm back to square one. Had another one of those attacks this morning.
>> Are you taking your medication?
>> Not every day, but >> is that what the prescription says?
Another thing to feel bad about.
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Go there. Patreon. VIP tier. He complains about not feeling good. He complains about not getting better.
She gives him the prescription or the homework. Literally a prescription and literally some homework.
He doesn't do it consistently. And then he gets upset with her when she calls him on it or brings it up because it's another thing for him to feel bad about.
This is perfect therapy stuff, y'all.
There's an easy way to do therapy, and that is to be honest, and that is to be willing, and that is to be intentional with what you're there to talk about. It's not to show up and see what the doctor can find out. It's not to show up and see what the therapist is going to ask you to see if you can talk about it. It's for you to go in and say, "Why am I here? What do I want to be different in my life than is happening today? How do I want my life to be different six months or a year from now than it is today?
And by either by the way I feel or by what's happened to me and what am I willing to do to li how willing am I to listen to what the professional says? They're not always right about everything, but am I willing to look at what they say and am I willing to try whatever they offer?
That is the downfall of therapy. So, he's picking and choosing what he's bringing in. Have another one of those attacks. I'm back to square one. Well, the first thing she's going to say, "Are you taking your medication? Are you communicating with your wife? Are you being honest? Are you sleeping around?"
She's just going to go through the list and it's going to be like, "Well, maybe that's why the anxiety attacks are still happening." I could tell you 100%. The reason a lot of the clients I see keep struggling in life is because they keep doing the same things they've been doing. So, if you keep doing your life the same way you've been doing it, it is going to produce the same results.
Definition of insanity. But going out and trying to do it different is hard.
It is hard. I get that. But it takes effort. And he's just not given the effort.
>> I'm supposed to write everything down for you. Look, just a list of [ __ ] I got to do for Christmas.
>> Oh, the pressure we put on her this time of the year.
>> I call it stressm. stress miss.
>> Okay, let's do the drill. The attack?
What preceded it?
>> Well, yesterday I went down to the shore to get my boat winterized.
>> What happened?
>> Thought about the past.
>> Started thinking about this thing that happened years ago and I haven't thought about it since it happened.
>> Tell me about it.
>> I can't. I can tell you it was a friend of mine and I found out he was working for the federal government.
>> Enough said.
>> I see.
>> I ruined your Christmas.
>> [laughter] >> I don't know why Janice um grinds my gears all the time.
It's it's so there's so much extreme.
It's just everything is intense.
Everything is know 100 miles an hour. What is that?
Like a jug of wine there or something?
And he's got the diet coke. They got the water out. The just the house is just and here we are. We're creating music because she's a free spirit and that's what she wants to do. There's no real stability with her. Like she wouldn't be in this position in Ma's house unless it was Ma's money or Ma whatever Ma left her because she was out in like San Francisco or something with them or she was with the younger dude then, wasn't she? It just kind of having a job. It's so difficult because she wants to live this fantasy life but doesn't want to do the dayto-day work to get there. Like have a job, earn money, save money, try to climb the ladder.
My brother I hope you guys come on in. Hey, we're just working >> on a fused box.
>> No, we're making it.
>> What is this? Narcolepsy again with old Aaron.
He's doing fine making music. They come over. He passes out on the couch all of a sudden.
>> God, the poor thing.
>> Oh my gosh, the can spilling.
Oh, look at the countertop. This is just not like their house.
>> I'm not coming to eat here unless this pigsty is cleaned up.
>> It's my wrist, Tony. And the perkans aren't even working anymore.
>> Pop the perky.
>> You don't need rubber gloves.
>> Get started. And uh we can work on the stock. Oh, look at this. What a disaster, y'all. Open jars. This is not how Tony does things.
>> Well, apparently there's nerve involvement. I I may need an operation.
[laughter] >> Carmela is just like >> Christianity is more about a business with the CCM.
>> The what?
>> Christian contemporary.
It's the fastest growing marketing sector in the music business today. Was she not just playing the guitar with music and doing just fine and now all of a sudden Tony shows up and her wrist hurts?
>> Really hurts, huh?
>> Yeah. Dennis >> got to get him to do something for her.
Maybe. Russians >> to sell out your friends and save your own ass. It's despicable. That's one ride I would have loved to have been along on.
>> Yeah, me too.
>> Enough of this [ __ ] Put up the [ __ ] decorations.
>> We still got to somebody to play Santa.
>> There was a lot of sadness on the block.
>> Nothing a Christmas ham couldn't fix.
Come on, T.
>> [ __ ] stop. All right, find somebody else to do.
>> This is kind of cool to see the holidays here.
>> Then send it to the aisle of men to your bank account.
>> Nice.
>> What's he gonna do? Now, all I know about this guy is he drives a livery cab and he wasn't very nice to someone important to me.
>> Don't think another thing about this.
I'll find him. I'll kick the [ __ ] out of him.
>> I'm going to do this. This [ __ ] is mine.
>> Tony needs to stay out of stuff so he doesn't get busted.
>> Whoa, that was awesome.
>> [panting and sighs] >> Man, nightmare.
>> Now they can talk freely. They didn't even know it.
>> Next week, Simpson faces another challenge. The Goldman attorney is seeking access.
>> Let's sit down.
>> So, what are you getting your Guma for Christmas?
>> Guma. Cash.
>> What are you getting on?
>> She did me a favor. She went to Morocco over the holidays >> on her own. She paid for it. She went to Morocco. Who is she? Bada bing Crosby.
>> Oh, she's not one of those girls. She's got a real job. She sells Mercedes.
>> That's his Gumar. That's his side chick.
This it this is the sad. It's the reality. Kind of like people say with Dexter, you know, it is what he does. He kills people. He tries to kill people the right reason. But in this show, it's like they sleep with other women. that's what they do and it's just an accepted kind of thing. Look the other way. But still, it's like this is what a life to live. What a way to treat women and what a way to to constantly need action like that.
>> Too good to be true.
>> Speaking of which, who's that piece of ass? Oh, Maron, look who it is.
>> Oh my gosh.
>> How you doing, man?
>> Fine, Tony.
Listen, I thought you'd want to know. Two guys over there at that table.
>> I think they're FBI.
>> I'm kidding.
>> I'm kidding. Enjoy.
>> Trying to screw with him.
>> You vilify a man behind his back and then you smile in his face.
>> Something's got to keep customers coming back and it's not going to be your most shad the raviolis lately.
>> Wow.
>> Mr. Valdez.
>> That's me.
>> [laughter] >> Oh boy.
>> I know. You >> get these two in your car.
>> Maybe someone I don't know.
>> You're in big trouble.
>> No, you're the dancer going to drive.
>> No, no, no, no. You, you. It's you.
>> No. [laughter] >> Airport, right?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Let's go. Come on.
>> Interesting. I thought that was the guy they were going to beat up.
>> Was Charmaine there?
>> Yep. [snorts] >> She looks good, doesn't she?
>> Only disappointed. Her husband dumped her. You thought she was going to look like a crow?
>> A crow?
>> A crone. A troll.
>> I don't know.
>> Holiday traffic. My head is clanging like a bell.
>> What about Karm's gift?
[screaming] >> Hello, >> Jesus.
>> MERRY CHRISTMAS. I KNOW.
>> SANTA, you still haven't got one.
>> You want to do it? Me? What do I know about kids?
>> They're not rap, but this way they can see what they get.
>> Tell Junior thank you.
>> What?
>> Ho [ __ ] ho.
>> Ah, there's Santa.
>> You ask them what they want for Christmas. You give him a nice toy and that's the end of it.
>> Nah, not me. I can't.
>> Yes, you can.
>> I can't. I'm shy.
A strange and macob Christmas story.
>> Oh my gosh, the duck. Look at that livery driver.
>> Livery driver eager Parnaski was found trapped under Santa's sleigh and severely beaten inside the window.
>> That was him.
>> Aaron. Honey. Honey.
>> Yeah.
>> I I think I know what's missing from the song. It's the brother concept.
>> He ain't heavy.
>> No.
>> So, where's Jackie tonight? He had to go visit a friend of his in the hospital.
>> Oh no. Who?
>> Someone from school. They think it's appendicitis.
>> Oh my god. So you and Jackie are getting pretty close, huh?
>> Doesn't know how to talk about it. Not much opening up in that family.
>> Get the [ __ ] out of here.
>> Where too? Who gives a [ __ ] >> I go to the strip club. What a what a shift.
>> Wow.
[music] Please tell me that's not Jackie Jr.
>> Tommy >> I can't.
It's [laughter] like in the comments so many people that are like there should be a drinking game when Tom says I can't. It would be wasted people everywhere. I just can't. I can't even believe what I'm about to see. I look on his face. I don't even want to know what he's about to say.
Jackie is a snake. He's no good. Stay away from him, Meadow. But she keeps picking bad people for her.
The example.
And Tony, I don't even >> It's not what you think.
>> Interesting. her top like it was back on when she was moving away but it was off when she was there with him. Oh, I don't want to go with you tonight.
>> I just want to talk to you.
>> I don't want to talk. I don't want to talk.
>> It's a bachelor party. My >> first time getting dunked on. Kind of nervous. It's always a bachelor party.
>> Shut up.
>> He said he told you.
>> Put your hands up. PUT YOUR HANDS UP.
>> He told you.
>> You [ __ ] [ __ ] piece of [ __ ] All I did was tell your own man what a good kid you are and all you do is [ __ ] hurt me.
Oh no.
[gasps] Huh? Nice. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You bottom down.
>> What do you mean?
>> Gosh, >> you bottom out.
>> Stay away from my daughter. It's all I can say. Oh my gosh. This is terrible.
What do you say to Meadow now?
>> Where were you last night?
>> Nowhere. Wasn't anywhere. I was the monogamy poster boy. Swear to God.
>> Oh, please.
>> Just drink it out of the jug, Tony.
>> No, I break up with the so-called Russian [ __ ] I'm towing the line. And this is the thanks I get.
>> You're not towing the line. You're getting it on with the car salesman.
It's like just boning the sales lady.
Tony, just be honest. There's so much dishonesty.
He just he he believes I didn't do anything.
>> Yeah, you did in high school.
>> High school?
>> Don't try to deny it.
>> Oh, >> go back to high school.
>> My wife had her doubts about Jackie Jr.
I kept defending the little two-faced prick.
>> Do you feel responsible for their relationship?
>> Well, Meadow thinks she'd still be going out with the Oreo cookie if it wasn't for me.
>> Well, that's true, isn't it?
>> Look, the question is, what am I going to do about Jackie? Should I tell my wife Meadow? Jesus, she's break her heart if she knew.
>> On another subject, >> the old saying, bad news never gets better with time. I want you to remember that. Just remember that. Bad news never gets better with time. If there's bad news that needs to be brought to light, it's not going to be better next week, next month, next year. It's still going to be bad news when that happens.
The sooner you can put something out in the open, let it be what it is, and move forward with life, the better.
Otherwise, it can get worse and worse and worse.
Just know that. So, it's better to lay all the cards on the table. It's better to sit down at the house and say, "Meetto, I have to just tell you what I saw and let her live with it." She going to blame him anyway. But still, rather than her finding out later and finding out the dad knew later, that would be worse.
your friend who was working for the federal government. Granted, I get most of my information from the movies and Bill Curtis. But I was thinking she pressed his buttons there.
She pressed his button. She wanted to dive into that and he didn't want anything to do with it. This is the worst part. Like I don't work with people who leave sessions.
Just I don't work with a guy like Tony.
If he's going to walk out, if you walk out and you come back, the very first conversation we'll have is um I don't work with people who walk out of session.
You could talk about wanting to stop.
You could you could talk about wanting to end early and we'll talk about it and decide together. You could even say I don't want to talk about that subject right now. That's cool. But the next time you walk out on a session is the last time that we meet together. was just gonna say that because I don't do that. This is my office, my territory that I run that part of this. You come here, you come here for the committed time and if he wants to play games like pull the strings and control what he comes and goes, it's it's just not good therapy. So, >> they're around the block out there.
Biggest one yet.
>> And that is a massive Santa. Look at his hair.
>> Even without Pen, the suit's too small on this fats. What? Paulie, >> what? Tell him.
>> He was wearing a wire. When he came to the party, he already had the suit on.
>> Oh, [ __ ] Had the suit on. They didn't question it. And they had a meeting.
>> Kevin, go make me a sandwich.
>> Okay, Dad.
>> He's a method actor. Get into character like Als.
>> It was you, Fredo.
>> Hey, you can't make a joke. What are you, Mr. Sensitive over here?
See ashtray.
>> That was it. Pat batting down bar.
>> That reminds me Tony dick called this morning.
>> I'M [ __ ] TALKING TO STOP [ __ ] INTERRUPTING.
>> HEY.
WHAT'S THE MATTER WITH YOU? Who [ __ ] with you, >> man?
>> Merry Christmas.
>> Thank you, Santa.
>> Oh, how cute.
>> Who's next? Come on. DON'T BE SHY.
>> Drinking it up. Now you're going on Santa's LIST AND YOU'RE GETTING NOTHING.
>> [ __ ] YOU, SANTA.
>> Why'd you go to that psychic last year since you don't dwell on this [ __ ] >> Cuz he was shot. That was a paranormal event.
>> Paranormal?
>> What the [ __ ] are you talking about?
>> Well, that's the difference between [ __ ] and the others. Him loved.
>> The world don't run on love. It was a rat bastard. One thing you got to admit, he made a great Santa Claus.
>> He did.
>> In the end, [ __ ] Santa Claus.
this sweater.
>> That's from Nana. And you're going to tell her how much you like it when she gets here. Who could that be so early?
Let me see. Maybe it'll fit me.
>> It's not bad. Better than last year.
>> Becky Junior. Hi.
>> Merry Christmas.
>> Merry Christmas.
>> Oh, these are from mom. For everybody.
This is for you.
>> This is so beautiful. 2 Ms. from Ja. I will always be true. Jackie, >> this is uncomfortable to watch.
>> Can I talk to you?
>> I'm going to be all right now. I'm going to design men's suits. Meet thinks I should go to the fashion institute. I really think I could be good if I applied myself.
>> You [ __ ] me and you betray my daughter.
>> They didn't even talk about that. Talk about the other night.
>> Go back inside.
But >> I'm going to be frank on this. I haven't decided what to do with you.
Oh, >> that's not good news.
>> In the house.
>> You can't stay. I still have to give you your present.
>> I'm driving mom up to the home to see grandma.
>> Thank you for my beautiful necklace.
>> I got to get out of here.
>> Merry Christmas.
be with your family and open your presents.
>> Already saying I love you.
>> Well, um this is going to seem really stupid after that, but um this is for you.
>> I didn't think you uh were going to give me anything, you know, after uh >> it's Christmas.
>> Thank you.
>> Oh, no.
>> Big mouth Billy Bass. What is that? Oh, those are good.
>> Oh, no. He doesn't want to see that. No.
>> Well, I know I give you a lot of stuff, Dad. I don't know what you do with it, but >> it's a trigger.
>> I want to see this on your desk.
Promise.
>> Oh boy.
>> Oh my god, that is hilarious.
Oh, the panic attacks. Pussy's alive.
>> It's cute. Thanks, honey.
>> Oh, wow.
>> Oh, goodness gracious.
What an ending where it comes full circle, his whole reminiscing on Puss, his life, his time with him, you know, this part of him that really loved having the connection, the time, [music] the experience with him, the heart that Puss had in so many different ways. And then the reality of how things ended up and what he had to do and or chose to do and then that trigger of the fish like seeing things and see those fish on there like talking to him and then there's a dang toy that actually exemplifies that. Man, what a And what with Jackie Jr.
What is he thinking? Because if Tony goes along with this, he's okaying what he did. And that whole thing of I still haven't decided what I'm going to do with you.
Oh, it's just not good. That whole situation's not good.
It's such an interesting episode here too with the flashbacks [music] to where the way things were and trying to just put two and two together and add these things up because this show has so much mental health in it that they live so much in the moment of constantly fighting for survival and loyalty is such a big thing that when somebody is disloyal it just shakes up the whole system and the whole tree.
Remember it's not real therapy just Tom break it down Sopranos. If you want help, check the links in description, leave your comments, and join us on Patreon. The VIP tier has everything unedited. You want behind the scenes content, you want a chat room to talk about Sopranos and everything else, go there. Patreon, VIP tier. And never forget, mental health matters. See you on the next reaction therapy.
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