Resenting Women Only Hurts You

Added: 2026-05-15

[00:00:00][music] [music] >> Hello there. This is Ron Wills coming back at you with yet another video.

[00:00:22]Resenting women only hurt you. Resenting women, let's be real. There's a lot of guys out here who are who are who resent women. And it it's usually for some type of rejection or women doing something and they think they getting back at the women saying, "Well, I ain't going to talk to the woman."

[00:00:42]Look y'all, let me let me just be real with you. How she going to notice? Cuz I don't care who the woman is. I don't care what she look like.

[00:00:52]She got some other men showing some interest in her.

[00:00:55]Now, it might not be the men that she want, but she got options. She got options. Now, she don't always want to take them. That's another conversation.

[00:01:04]Like she might have 20 men interested in her, but only one of them is select to her.

[00:01:11]Yeah, but she still got other men. She still got some other men showing some interest.

[00:01:15]>> [music] >> She might not notice if you resent her.

[00:01:18]It ain't going to hurt her.

[00:01:20]It ain't It ain't going to do anything.

[00:01:22]And usually if you a select man, you ain't going to reject women anyway because they they if you truly if you truly select, shoot, they they playing with they dealing with you on your terms. Why why you going to resent that woman?

[00:01:40]You ain't going to have it. And don't even try cuz you got some guys Let me Let me just go on a tangent real quick.

[00:01:46]Some guys think they select, but trust me.

[00:01:49]A truly select man ain't going to have major issues with women because like I said, he's dealing with them on his terms.

[00:01:58]If he don't like a woman, then she he just going to the next one, but he ain't going to have just one anyway.

[00:02:05]All right? He's going to have multiple options. Let me Let me be clear about that. But like let me get to these guys out here who resent women who got mad like, "Yeah, they doing this or that."

[00:02:17]How is that hurting the women?

[00:02:19]How is that hurting the women? That's only hurting you.

[00:02:23]Like and I talked about uh something along these lines on my deep thought channel.

[00:02:29]Like about hating somebody. All you doing is that's like you drinking a poison thing and they going to die.

[00:02:37]They ain't going to do anything. That woman might not even do anything. She might not even notice you.

[00:02:43]How is that hurting you? Okay, yeah, you resent her.

[00:02:47]As long as you don't touch her, as long as you don't do anything to her, she ain't even notice you. Shoot, you might be invisible to her.

[00:02:55]Shoot, a whole lot of guys are invisible to women, sadly.

[00:02:59]Sadly.

[00:03:01]They ain't noticing because of course they only paying attention to certain men. They only paying attention to the select men.

[00:03:08]So how how is her How is that doing? And even when you encounter a woman, because remember a couple days ago I talked about paying attention to a woman's actions. One thing women do, they looking at a man's actions, too.

[00:03:23]No matter what you say. That's why I had uh I had an a friend and he would always call women a And I And he said he noticed I would I would like check him on it.

[00:03:34]And I told him why. I said, "Yeah, even when you're around that woman, she can tell like you'll be saying, 'Yeah, you want this woman. You want that fat ass and all of that.'

[00:03:44]But she can pick up that you really got some issues with women just in your body language and in your how your face is looking.

[00:03:52]So really, you just you thinking that way is really hurting you. It ain't hurting the woman. She just going to be like, "Next." Because remember, I don't care who Like I said earlier, no matter who the woman is, there's multiple men like checking her out.

[00:04:10]She don't want them all, but there's still multiple men. She might not notice.

[00:04:14]You invisible. So you up there having that resentment thinking, "Yeah, I'm going to hurt this woman. I ain't going to deal with her." She ain't going to notice. Even when you get some of these women that get on social media saying, "Well, these guys ain't approaching me and all of that." I Let Let's just be real. They only talking about select men. They only talking about certain men.

[00:04:34]They probably got some guys showing some interest. They just don't want them.

[00:04:38]But you up there trying to keep a distance and trying to keep all that They ain't doing anything to a woman.

[00:04:44]Woman don't care.

[00:04:46]You even have movements of some guys saying, "Well, we ain't going to deal with the woman." The women don't care.

[00:04:51]Let me just be real with you. Women do not care.

[00:04:55]They don't care. So who's that really hurting? It ain't hurting them.

[00:04:59]Shoot, they In fact, that's making it easier for them.

[00:05:03]But if you have that resentment, you carrying that with you, you making it harder for you to even get a woman.

[00:05:09]Because Let Let's just be real.

[00:05:13]Guys be wanting women when guys I I wish I had the proverbial dime every time some guy would say, "Well, I don't want this woman. I don't want this woman." Then all of a sudden chasing that woman down.

[00:05:24]Saying, "I don't want that. I don't want that." Like I remember this one guy.

[00:05:29]He got rejected by this woman on one of my thousand jobs. And he was like, "I ain't I'm going to leave him alone. I'm going to leave him alone."

[00:05:36]Within six months, he's he's married to a woman with a child.

[00:05:40]She already She already had a child. He marrying this woman.

[00:05:44]I was like, "Come on, man."

[00:05:46]Come on. Don't Don't Don't have that.

[00:05:48]You can't have resentment. And even when you get rejected by a woman, like like I've said several times, if you get rejected, you don't take that personally because you don't know anything about that woman.

[00:06:01]One, you don't know what was going on with her that day, what was happening.

[00:06:06]She could have had a death in the family. She could have somebody. She might not like men.

[00:06:12]You don't take that personally. She reject you, she just reject you.

[00:06:16]You don't get mad at a woman. She reject you, shoot, she probably saved you some time.

[00:06:22]Cuz I also wish I had the proverbial dime every time I some I find some woman would reject me, then I see her maybe later on years later find out some other stuff and I'd be like, "Phew, man, I dodged a bullet."

[00:06:37]See, I'm going to tell you what. If you a man, you want women.

[00:06:41]They can pick up on any anger.

[00:06:45]They can pick up on something. You not doing it to the women. You lying to yourself thinking, "Oh, well, yeah, I'm going to resent them. I'm going to hurt them." You ain't hurting them. You making it easier for them.

[00:06:56]And then you really hurting yourself.

[00:06:58]See, you don't want to hurt yourself.

[00:07:00]You don't want to drink that poison cuz that poison is really hurting you. They ain't doing anything to the woman.

[00:07:06]They ain't doing anything.

[00:07:09]You don't want to hurt yourself.

[00:07:11]Like your main relationship is always with yourself.

[00:07:15]You want to do it. If that Like I said, you don't take it personally if that woman rejects you.

[00:07:22]You don't get mad at her.

[00:07:24]Even if it's a woman you've been in a relationship with.

[00:07:29]You know, it is like, "Okay, yeah, I ain't Look, first of all, all relationships ain't meant to last forever anyway.

[00:07:36]Think about what you got out of that relationship and then move on.

[00:07:40]No matter what. Even if she did some foul stuff to you. Don't tell them what else she did. She could have cheated on you. All right. Yeah, and that's hurtful.

[00:07:49]But then, you know what?

[00:07:53]She could have did something even worse down the road. There ain't no telling what that could have been.

[00:07:58]She did you a favor. She did you a favor.

[00:08:02]And like I say, personally, I've seen some women who might have rejected me before and to this day to this day, I haven't seen one of them that was in a better position. So I don't take it personally.

[00:08:14]I'd be like, "Whatever."

[00:08:16]Whatever. Keep going because then the next woman might be the one that you really need to be with. All right?

[00:08:23]But don't Don't resent them.

[00:08:25]Don't resent them. They are who they are. And if that particular one don't want you, she just don't want you. You don't be mad at all of them. First of all, that was that one. And then here's something.

[00:08:37]If you having issues with all these women, remember what I always say. Only thing they had in common was you. You need to look yourself in the mirror. All right? I would tell men that. I tell women that.

[00:08:49]Let me just real quick. You get some women up here saying they they having this trouble with men. They did this. I say, "Baby girl, the only thing those men had in common was you."

[00:08:59]So I would hit them with that, too. All right? So anyway, that's all I have for right now and I'll get back with y'all. Peace and blessings.

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