Will She Leave a Good Man For Her Toxic Ex? | OOP

Added: 2026-05-14

[00:00:00]Today, Aaliyah is living with her current boyfriend, Jaylen, while secretly sleeping with her ex, Caleb.

[00:00:10]>> Why? Why do you have me here?

[00:00:12]>> You going to find out?

[00:00:13]>> Tell me.

[00:00:13]>> Don't come in here asking me.

[00:00:15]>> He says that he helped you get on your feet. Is that true?

[00:00:17]>> That's true. But who gives? You don't own nobody.

[00:00:20]>> Me.

[00:00:22]>> Have you been physically with your ex?

[00:00:24]>> Yes, I have.

[00:00:25]>> Say what?

[00:00:26]>> Yeah, today.

[00:00:27]>> What's happening, [ __ ] What's happening?

[00:00:30]Who put that hickey right there?

[00:00:31]>> What happened?

[00:00:32]>> Today >> I laid a pipe.

[00:00:34]>> I just regret not knowing who I want to be with her.

[00:00:36]>> You knew she was in a relationship and you still slept with her. Why?

[00:00:40]>> Cuz it's good. Why would I pass on?

[00:00:42]>> Why? This [ __ ] here come.

[00:00:55]Welcome to Out of Pocket, where the truth comes out whether you're ready or not. Today, Aaliyah is living with her current boyfriend, Jaylen, while secretly sleeping with her ex, Caleb.

[00:01:08]And by the end of this, she has to choose. Let's bring Jaylen to the stage.

[00:01:22]Hey, my name Jaylen. And when I met Aaliyah, she was at her lowest, you know what I'm saying? Uh, crying every night over somebody who just going to keep breaking her, you know. So, I stepped in, you know, got a stable, you know, just for her to still belong to somebody else. So, now in my mind, I'm trying to figure out really was I in love with or just preparing her for somebody else, some other [ __ ] >> Hi, Jaylen.

[00:01:45]>> Nice meeting you.

[00:01:46]>> Nice to meet you as well. Pleasure.

[00:01:49]>> So, I know everything has been a lot lately. How are you feeling today?

[00:01:53]>> Uh, mixed emotions. You know what I'm saying? All right.

[00:01:56]>> Mhm.

[00:01:57]>> I'm all right.

[00:01:59]I'll be okay. I just need to know what's what's what.

[00:02:02]>> So, tell me about Aaliyah. When you met her, were you in love with her or were you trying to fix her?

[00:02:09]>> Um, really I was trying to fix it was a little bit of both. I was in love with her, but uh, you know, she was crying.

[00:02:16]Oh, the same dude that kept breaking her, you know what I mean? So, I kind of just stepped in and helped get her stable. It's the question I was trying to ask myself. Did I really love her or was I You know what I'm saying? Just setting her up, fixing up for some other So, >> so you didn't meet a woman, you met a project.

[00:02:35]>> Yeah, a project for sure. And incomplete project.

[00:02:38]>> So, you saying incomplete? So, who did you finish the project for? Well, I want to say finished it for another I want to say I finished it for somebody else cuz >> it it it damn sure ain't for me. It it can't be. It's it's still blurry. You know what I mean? And and I've done too much for. So >> So I I want to ask you what hurts more, her cheating or the person she's cheating with?

[00:03:09]>> The person she cheating with? Because this the same >> that she come running to me crying about. You know what I'm saying? Saying she never going back to him. He he doing this. She doing that. You know, she can't help her when she dare to find out, you know, to even think that you running back to the same [ __ ] that you was bugging me for. That's why I'm doing what I'm doing. You know, I stepped in because you made it seem like it was a dazzling and distress and this [ __ ] is just so horrible. You feel So, did she make it seem like she was done with him completely or did you kind of feel like so you knew it was done?

[00:03:42]>> No, I'm a player. So, I knew in the back of my head ain't nobody never done with nothing. You know what I mean?

[00:03:48]>> Right.

[00:03:48]>> So, uh I had that thought in the back of my mind, but her word was I'm through. I wouldn't have to worry about that. You know what I'm saying? So, I kept doing what I was doing and kept my end of the bargain.

[00:03:59]>> So, I know a lot of men like to feel needed by their woman. So, did that kind of push you to keep taking care of her?

[00:04:07]Did you like that feeling? Or did you really truly love her?

[00:04:10]>> Hell yeah.

[00:04:11]>> You know what I'm saying? I'm a man. Me ain't a provider. So, we naturally want to feel needy. You know what I'm saying?

[00:04:16]So, we just put our cape on to do our thing, you know, and provide. But, I don't want nobody playing with my time and my money, you know what I'm saying?

[00:04:24]And I'm doing stuff out the kind of my cuz I believe that she's serious. So, being that you um like providing for your woman, why are you keeping score?

[00:04:34]>> Keeping score? Uh I wouldn't say I'm keeping score, but I do understand why it look like that. But >> that's going to naturally just come up and come out when you find out your time being played with.

[00:04:44]>> You know what I'm saying? When somebody lying to you in your face, boldfaced lying, >> and you spending your money and and doing things you don't got to do, you know what I'm saying? I can do something else with that money, >> right?

[00:04:55]>> You know, I take care of somebody else.

[00:04:57]I do whatever I want to instead of spend it right here with you and you not who you say you are. You not doing what you say you doing. You feel me? So >> cuz I after speaking to Aaliyah and kind of getting everyone's story, it seems like you're coming off it less as a boyfriend and more as someone that signed a contract with her or you see what I'm saying? Like you kind of throw that up a lot in her face. She says, >> "I mean, hell yeah. Yeah, it is. It is.

[00:05:25]It's transactional, you feel me? Because uh it became a business deal the minute you start just asking for stuff and telling me what you need. Know what I'm saying? I work hard for mine, >> you feel me? Blood, sweat, and tears. So I ain't tripping. If I got it, and it ain't tricky. If you got it, then I got it. You feel me?

[00:05:42]>> Right.

[00:05:42]>> But not just a blow and play. I I I don't I don't need to do that at all.

[00:05:48]>> Well, let's get Aaliyah on the stage so we can hear both sides. Let's bring Aaliyah to the stage.

[00:05:58]My name Malia. I'm not going to um act like Jaylen didn't help me because he did. But at the end of the day, it started feeling more so of pressure than to be of peace. And I really like and enjoy spending time with him. He has the funds and the means to do anything basically. But Caleb just bring me a sense of joy and peace. I just feel at home with him because I love him. I mean, I've been with him majority of my life. He just have never had and I don't want to be with nobody that don't have but I still love him. So I I just don't want to know what to do with this thing.

[00:06:29]>> Hey Aaliyah.

[00:06:30]>> Hi.

[00:06:30]>> Good seeing you.

[00:06:31]>> Seeing you too. Why? Why do you have me here?

[00:06:34]>> You going to find out?

[00:06:35]>> Tell me.

[00:06:36]>> Don't come in there asking me.

[00:06:37]>> Okay. What's going >> Don't ask me a goddamn thing. You the one that's get to that. So Aaliyah.

[00:06:43]>> Yeah.

[00:06:43]>> He says that he helped you get on your feet. Is that true?

[00:06:46]>> That's true. But who gives a You don't own nobody.

[00:06:48]>> Me. Oh, I Well, I don't give a [ __ ] >> You gave a You was reaching out asking for >> Well, >> yeah.

[00:06:53]>> And you gave it >> Well, >> and you did >> be right.

[00:06:56]>> And you will >> never again.

[00:06:57]>> Never again.

[00:06:58]>> Yes.

[00:07:00]Get your ass back. Hold on. Hold on. My mother say, >> "Let's fix the rug."

[00:07:11]>> Real talk. I ain't never came at you like that. Don't play with me, man.

[00:07:14]>> Don't bring me on no TV with my business on no TV. putting me out there on the front.

[00:07:18]>> Don't play with my time and my money.

[00:07:20]>> It's my money. My time is money.

[00:07:22]>> Come here. I came for the truth. You want to scrap cuz you out of line.

[00:07:25]>> Security can't fix it.

[00:07:27]>> Jump over here again. Stop playing with me.

[00:07:30]>> Okay. Stop playing with me.

[00:07:31]>> Stay stay where you at, man.

[00:07:32]>> Let's reset, y'all. Let's reset. Okay.

[00:07:34]So, I know you want answers to the questions you we talked about. Let's reset. Okay.

[00:07:38]>> Um Aaliyah, would you come out and ask Have you been physically with your ex?

[00:07:43]>> Yes, I have.

[00:07:44]>> Shame when?

[00:07:45]>> Yeah. today.

[00:07:47]>> See what I'm saying, man?

[00:07:48]>> So, Aaliyah, tell me more about your relationship with Jaylen. What don't you like? What do you like?

[00:07:53]>> I don't like all the complaining.

[00:07:55]>> Mhm.

[00:07:55]>> I don't like all the nagging, >> right?

[00:07:57]>> I don't like all the not trusting.

[00:08:00]>> Well, if you was being us, it won't be no complain.

[00:08:06]>> No, man. Play at home.

[00:08:08]>> That's cat.

[00:08:10]>> So, are you still emotionally attached to your ex?

[00:08:12]>> Yes, I'm emotionally attached to both of them. So you love both of them. I care about both of them.

[00:08:17]>> First time I'm hearing about that boy.

[00:08:19]From my understanding, >> he ain't supposed to be nowhere in the picture.

[00:08:22]>> That's who I know. I I've been I was with him the longest. He my ex. He's who I'm comfortable with. That's why it feels like home. This is a new, you know, space.

[00:08:31]>> So what was Caleb doing that Jaylen wasn't?

[00:08:35]>> He just he he cheats. He, you know, >> Jaylen cheat.

[00:08:40]>> No, Caleb cheat.

[00:08:40]>> Caleb cheat. Oh, okay.

[00:08:42]>> Yes. Caleb cheat.

[00:08:43]>> Yeah. and he would disappear and pop back in, pop back out. He just not him in that aspect.

[00:08:51]>> What made you step out on someone that like fixed your life and gave you a soft girl life? Cuz that's what everyone's looking for nowadays.

[00:08:58]>> Because all he do is complain. He only does things to bring it up. He only do things to say it. He only do things for bragging rights. It's not genuine. It's not just, >> oh, just because >> it feel like he owns you, but you signed a contract.

[00:09:12]>> Yes. Exactly. Mhm.

[00:09:13]>> That's cap. That's cuz she for the streets and I didn't know.

[00:09:17]>> Get your back. Don't run up on me again.

[00:09:20]That's your last time.

[00:09:20]>> Who? For the streets.

[00:09:21]>> Now I don't I don't put my hands on no [ __ ] women, but that run up on me again.

[00:09:25]>> For the streets.

[00:09:25]>> Run up on me. I'm going to go. I'm going to clean upside your >> So Jaylen, how did you find out that Ayah was even cheating on you?

[00:09:31]>> I tracked that. I had a location. Hell yeah. You're damn right. Damn right.

[00:09:36]Mhm.

[00:09:38]>> Come on, Leo.

[00:09:38]>> Yeah. See, and if it wasn't true, you wouldn't be doing all this. Get Hey, get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get get her phone that's really my phone >> so basically you don't trust her and she gives you reasons not to >> Nope don't trust her far as I can spit and hell yeah she give me a thousand reasons not to trust but I had her location like I said in my phone she ain't >> what I don't got your location >> it don't matter >> so do you still want to be with someone like Aaliyah after she cheated or are you willing to work it out or no? Like how are you feeling? You always >> Yeah.

[00:10:20]>> All right.

[00:10:21]>> Yeah. Yeah. But >> so Aaliyah, I see that you really upset cuz I never heard this.

[00:10:26]>> Never.

[00:10:26]>> Oh, so he act like he still wanted >> Yes.

[00:10:29]>> Never.

[00:10:29]>> I never knew it was a problem.

[00:10:31]>> What changed, Jaylen?

[00:10:32]>> What changed is that I like I said before, I knew in the back of my mind, >> you feel me, that she really wasn't buy cuz she keep lying. But >> you ain't buy. I couldn't I didn't have a solid evidence, you feel me? Just to say that, hey, she cheating for real.

[00:10:47]>> So, let's bring Caleb up. How do you feel about him?

[00:10:50]>> Bring Caleb.

[00:10:50]>> Yeah. How do you feel about him?

[00:10:52]>> He know what time it is. On sight. That young.

[00:10:54]>> So, if you was to ever see him, >> I told him before it's on sight.

[00:10:59]>> So, y'all had them words already.

[00:11:00]>> On sight.

[00:11:04]>> So, how would you feel seeing two men that you love in the same room? Would that hurt you? How would you feel? I mean, I don't I don't I wouldn't know what to do.

[00:11:11]>> You wouldn't know what to do.

[00:11:12]>> I wouldn't.

[00:11:13]>> [ __ ] sound crazy as hell to me when I homie was still around and now he here.

[00:11:18]>> Bring fam out.

[00:11:19]>> No, I still don't.

[00:11:20]>> Bring fam out.

[00:11:21]>> Bring who? I >> bring fam out. That's how I want to talk to you no more.

[00:11:25]>> Caleb's here today. So, let's bring Caleb to the stage. Aaliyah, you can sit with me.

[00:11:35]>> I'm Caleb. Me and Aaliyah, we've been together for a hot little minute. You know that's my little Yeah, I with her.

[00:11:40]You know what I'm saying? I mean, I can't get rid of my little throat goat.

[00:11:43]You know how that go. So, it is what it is. That little that she with. I mean, he take care of her. I mean, that's your simple trip trick. You know how we do here in Houston. We keep it play in peace. But I'm going let that little funky pay the little bills and I'm going still dig her down like I supposed to.

[00:11:58]I'm laying pipe. So, it is what it is.

[00:12:00]>> What's happening, [ __ ] What's happening? What's happening hat?

[00:12:09]Cut this out.

[00:12:11]>> I sparkly jean.

[00:12:13]>> I need you to see >> gas station.

[00:12:16]>> Look at you, boy. You wish it was me.

[00:12:18]It's God status. Steady.

[00:12:21]>> Man, as soon as I got on stage, I was on that.

[00:12:24]>> Cap, please.

[00:12:25]>> Cap, please. What your question?

[00:12:27]>> She said something to me.

[00:12:28]>> Why you didn't tell me you was coming here? Well, first of all, this invited me over here, so I ain't know what going on. I just want to confront this. Show him who was who.

[00:12:36]>> Watch your mouth, young >> fault, [ __ ] Come out your mouth. Why you can still use it, >> baby? Catching that. You know how we don't be thinking when a [ __ ] catching that?

[00:12:45]>> You see what I'm saying?

[00:12:48]>> You see what I'm saying?

[00:12:49]>> Yeah.

[00:12:49]>> What's wrong with you?

[00:12:50]>> Uh-huh. But that show.

[00:12:58]>> So Caleb, you knew she was in a relationship and you still slept with her. Why?

[00:13:03]>> Cuz it's good. Why would I pass on?

[00:13:05]>> Why this your call?

[00:13:06]>> This is the person you treated on me. I want you to know that.

[00:13:11]>> Damn, baby.

[00:13:13]>> Who we doing this for? That's what you balling for.

[00:13:15]>> Who we doing this for? You don't get down like that, baby. So basically >> you're using basically >> I'm not using you.

[00:13:21]>> Well, see I ain't I ain't just nothing for them to jump up and down. Who do you think you are?

[00:13:26]>> Hell last night with Look at that hickey on your neck.

[00:13:29]>> Look at that. Who put that hickey right there?

[00:13:32]>> Who put that hickey right there?

[00:13:34]>> Who put it right there?

[00:13:35]>> WHO Y'ALL PIPING IT? PIPING IT.

[00:13:40]>> PIPING IT.

[00:13:41]>> YO, I laid a pipe. That's what the [ __ ] I say.

[00:13:46]>> When that happen. When that happen >> today. Today more. Let me tell you how she like it. You know how she like it?

[00:13:53]She like it long style.

[00:13:55]>> Long style, bro.

[00:13:57]>> Yeah. Long style.

[00:13:58]>> Wait. Cuz it seem like nobody cares about how nobody feel.

[00:14:02]>> His feelings.

[00:14:08]>> Why? Why are you saying his feelings?

[00:14:11]>> You his feelings. Why would I give a damn about this [ __ ] feelings? Why?

[00:14:15]Why?

[00:14:16]>> Basically, you're saying you don't respect him.

[00:14:17]>> Of course, I don't respect that. He'll burn the he I believe that he don't respect him. He don't respect me.

[00:14:24]>> You don't respect him.

[00:14:25]>> Of course not. You did beat your job.

[00:14:29]You trick like a good trick supposed to do.

[00:14:32]>> I guarantee you trick. That's what you did. You a trick. I guarantee you that.

[00:14:35]>> Hey, blame. I guarantee you that.

[00:14:37]>> We could have lived our normal life. We have lived it.

[00:14:40]>> A lot of questions.

[00:14:41]>> Okay. Okay, so Aaliyah says you're never there for her when she needed. So where were >> where do you be?

[00:14:48]>> I admit it. I wasn't there. They had another challenge.

[00:14:51]>> Whatever. Shut up. But at the end of the day, I wasn't there.

[00:14:55]>> Mhm.

[00:14:55]>> But you got to understand, it hurted me when you got that abortion. That [ __ ] hurt. Like how do supposed to feel whenever you got rid of our little dude?

[00:15:04]>> Why the are you playing on me?

[00:15:05]>> I'm not playing. I'm dead serious.

[00:15:07]>> What is he talking about her?

[00:15:09]>> So you didn't get an abortion. So he talking out his >> Yes. Off the side of his ass.

[00:15:14]>> How? You showed me the paperwork. You said you was going to the abortion office and get rid of it. Like that's >> under circumstances.

[00:15:20]>> Okay, Aaliyah, we're here to lay out the truth. So >> that's not the truth. Abortion >> him this morning was true. Get an abortion. Absolutely not.

[00:15:27]>> So Kayla, where did you get that from?

[00:15:30]>> Her I got it from >> I got it directly from you. But that's okay. I got you. You got to save face.

[00:15:35]It's cool. You got to save face.

[00:15:36]>> I got to save face.

[00:15:37]>> Jaylen, you're quiet over here. You have anything to say? You man is lying.

[00:15:41]>> Both of these mother real slap at you.

[00:15:48]>> Nah nah slap.

[00:15:53]>> [ __ ] keep playing with me. Real talk.

[00:15:55]>> You see that? You see how abusive these people is? See how abusive [ __ ] >> Shut up.

[00:15:59]>> Abusive. [ __ ] you a master manipulating ass manipulating.

[00:16:04]>> Where you Where you blur that from, boy?

[00:16:05]>> One second. Jaylen Caleb, you have been with her for years. How do you feel about her right now today?

[00:16:11]>> I mean, she cool, you know what I'm saying? Me and her, we vibe. You know what I'm saying? Like, we got soul ties >> at the end of the day.

[00:16:18]>> You know what I'm saying? Like, >> she is.

[00:16:20]>> Is this someone that you would put a ring on?

[00:16:23]>> Nope. I'll answer.

[00:16:25]>> Bro, don't don't answer. We speaking. We speaking. Look, you know what I'm saying? We just got to continue to go through life. That's it. You know what I'm saying? Just vibe, baby. That's it.

[00:16:33]It'll happen.

[00:16:34]>> [ __ ] So, are there any questions that anyone here needs answered before leaving today? Like, I want to leave with a solution.

[00:16:41]>> I want to know what was the uh why you brought him and didn't tell me. And why you talked to me this morning? Sorry this morning, but didn't tell me.

[00:16:47]>> Cuz you lying to both of us. What do you mean? I need to know.

[00:16:52]>> No, I need to know. Nah, >> y'all.

[00:16:54]>> Obviously, what do is lie when they need their bills paid >> and that's obvious.

[00:16:59]>> You know what I'm talking about. That's obviously what what do >> you are one tracking her >> shame. He was tracking her.

[00:17:08]>> Yes, you goddamn right, >> boys.

[00:17:10]>> That's That's how I know she was at >> now. That's your typical bait.

[00:17:13]>> That's how I know she was with your mama. [ __ ] got his own spot.

[00:17:16]>> Bait [ __ ] >> I left the location up kept pinging on just mama. Grow up [ __ ] >> Grow up, [ __ ] >> But she was still over here. She was still over here.

[00:17:26]>> She was >> still here.

[00:17:27]>> Aaliyah, do you regret any of this?

[00:17:29]>> Yes. I I I mean I don't regret my feelings for neither one of them. I just regret not knowing who I want to be with or what decision I want to make.

[00:17:37]>> That's why that's how I feel. She asked how I feel, not how you feel. She ask how I feel.

[00:17:42]>> [ __ ] If you feeling [ __ ] I feel my option.

[00:17:46]>> How you not an option? You still here.

[00:17:47]You still on set. What the you mean how you not an option? Sit there.

[00:17:50]>> You should have just played the game how it's supposed to go. Who you talking to?

[00:17:53]>> Supposed to play the game how it go.

[00:17:55]>> You supposed to play the game how it go.

[00:17:57]You just going to let this man call me a Stay in your place.

[00:18:00]>> N you stay in your place, bro. Stay in your place.

[00:18:03]>> I hope you got enough room at I hope you got enough room at my new house where you in, baby girl. Whatever. All you do is pay the bills. I lay the pipe, [ __ ] >> Do you keep speaking up under my [ __ ] clothes? Shut the up.

[00:18:14]>> Come on. I ain't child.

[00:18:16]>> Come on, babe. Ain't no mother.

[00:18:18]>> Cuz he childish. That's what [ __ ] No, we not grown. All of us not grown. You feel just a few of us >> right now. Caleb or Jaylen, we have to pick one. We can't keep going.

[00:18:38]>> I I can't make no decision right now. I honestly can't. But that's >> I'm really tired of both of them at this point. I'm honestly over both of them.

[00:18:46]They both [ __ ] They both did some gay girl [ __ ] with a How the You going to surprise me with a that you mother insecure about? That is weird. cuz I'm saving your life. I threw you accidentally life out there >> that you know we're going to be on today.

[00:19:05]>> What's weird is how you still that can't supply but you still tell me I'm the only that that you never want me but this sound like somebody that cares. sound like somebody that's >> after I show you moving funny and after I got that location cuz I need to know for sure. I ain't had no >> I got it now. Aaliyah, if you can't choose then I think you should be with neither of them is leading to this.

[00:19:36]>> Okay.

[00:19:39]>> Well, it seems like we can't come to a solution here. So, you're going to have to make that decision on your own. And those of you out there, make sure y'all choose down below who y'all think is really out of pocket.

[00:19:53]>> We We >> We know what she coming back to. We We know what she coming back to. It is what it is.