Beauty is in the eyes of those who can afford it.

Added: 2026-05-31

[00:00:01]So my friend was talking to another guy, right? And the guy was describing a woman to him and he said, "She was thick." So my So my friend asked, "Is she your kind of thick or my kind of thick?" When I tell you, I cried. Why that [ __ ] was funny?

[00:00:19]Cuz I knew exactly what he was talking about. My friend was talking about like 90s thick. This dude was talking about body positivity thick.

[00:00:30]So, I wrote a couple of posts on Facebook the other day, and I was talking about most men will never be able to to be with or sleep with a sexy woman. What men do is try to reject what they already won't have access to, right? So, they'll demonize, you know, sexy women, you know, she's a hoe, she's this. I mean, there are things that people have said about me. I just and they just totally just making [ __ ] up just based on my Instagram, what I wear, how I look, right? The more sexually attractive you are, the more people are going to demonize you, men and women, right? It's not just women hating on women, it's men hating that they will never have access to the women on Instagram. And they try to make it sound like, "Oh, we don't want those women." And women try to make it sound like like those women are are trashy, right? People want to feel comfortable with what they don't have access to anyway. They want to feel comfortable in not having access to it. So, they will try to justify it. Right now, I've been I I've been the target of so many so much [ __ ] right? people are going to make up anything to try to justify why they don't like me. Um, how they feel around me. A lot of times people can't express how they feel. They can't be honest.

[00:02:01]They can't say, "Damn, I wish I could really [ __ ] her, but I can't. I don't have whatever it is that people think I need in order to have access to me."

[00:02:11]Right? Because looks and attractiveness and all of these things matter. That's the main thing that attracts people.

[00:02:18]They will lie and say, "Oh, no. It's all about in inner beauty and beauty is in the eye beholder." We only say stuff like that to people who are not conventionally attractive. It's all [ __ ] But people, you know, will say these things to to feel comfortable with the fact that they never they're never going to have what they want any [ __ ] way.

[00:02:41]So I shared on a post on Facebook where a woman was talking about men marrying a certain kind of woman, a woman that's acceptable, right, in society and will desire and cheat with other, right? And I've spoken on that plenty of times. So it's nothing new. People h people always they hear these things, they know these things, you know, Madonna Hall complex and you know, certain women are to be wives. Certain women are just they just don't look like it. And this is why certain men men on a certain level will choose certain women and won't choose other. We all know these things.

[00:03:15]But people are unraveling. And you know why the people are unraveling is because the woman who said it was beautiful.

[00:03:22]And people like to minimize or reduce the power of beauty and sex appeal.

[00:03:31]Sex appeal more so than beauty. Because you can't be a pretty girl and just be goofy and awkward and have no sex appeal. You're just pretty. Although pretty trumps all. But when you have sex appeal, that's a whole another level.

[00:03:44]That causes the demons to come out of people. I just saw a post of one of my ladies. She screenshotted a comment.

[00:03:54]Someone was praying for her to for the Jezebel spirit to to get out of her.

[00:03:59]People say that about me, right? And all I am is sexy. All I am, I just entice people, men and women, and they don't like that feeling, that feeling of not being in control of themselves.

[00:04:14]Now, people are going to lie, right, and say beauty is not everything. And people are going to say, "I'm mid. Um, I'm not what I think I am."

[00:04:25]Um, they all say people, they all say the same things, men and women, right?

[00:04:31]And then when you look at the people, they all don't. Many people don't relate to the experiences pretty women have or sexy women because most women are not sexy and all women are not beautiful and gorgeous. And I know that that's what women tell each other, but it's not true, right?

[00:04:55]And what men, most men are average. And what they have access to is average women, midface women, all right looking women, cute women, the cute girl with the fat ass or right.

[00:05:10]It's never you. You hardly ever see average men with like a gorgeous woman.

[00:05:14]And then people are going to lie and say, "Yes, I've seen my friends with gorgeous women." No, you have not.

[00:05:20]I mean, people or my mother's gorgeous or my sister's gorgeous. You know, we throw that word around to make women feel good. You know, I I pointed this out. I asked this on Facebook. How come women can only recognize ugly men and when a woman they can only recognize a ugly woman when they don't like her? All of that stuff is conditional.

[00:05:43]Let the fat friend lose weight and start feeling herself. Everybody's going to remind her that she's a fat [ __ ] or she was a fat [ __ ] right? or the girl that got her teeth fixed or her body done.

[00:05:54]What pe women will remind you that you had that done to make yourself look better, to humble you. We all know these things, but they're just not polite to say and we're all driven by it.

[00:06:07]So men claim to be sexual, but then they'll lie and say, "Oh, I won't [ __ ] her because this, that, or the third."

[00:06:15]No, you won't [ __ ] her because you don't have access to that. You have access to the average girl that you been [ __ ] Men are always talking about the baddies they [ __ ] the sexy women, and how how you can run through them and but you look at the average man's roster. It's they don't have they don't have a bunch of bad [ __ ] they [ __ ] Look at the regular men, you know, and really be honest with yourself.

[00:06:43]They're having sex. They have a roster.

[00:06:45]They're married to average women, right? And they know this reality, but they will lie and say, you know, oh no, it a I don't care about that.

[00:06:56]Beauty's not behold the boot beauty is skin deep. Oh, it ain't really that serious because you can't have it.

[00:07:04]I mean, that's plain and simple. But we're all attracted to looks.

[00:07:10]Men are attracted to women and most men don't have the luxury of pick, choose, and refuse. And that's really what that is. Most men don't have that. And so they have to take what they can get. And they're not going to demonize what it is they can have access to. They're not going to be like, "Ah, you know, she all right. She all right." No, they're not going to tell you that that you all right or mid. And of course, men know that women are in inherently [ __ ] insecure. So, they're going to try to make it seem like, "Nah, I don't want her. She too sexy. I don't want her. She a hoe." Have no evidence of it. None.

[00:07:46]But that acting like that, projecting that onto the woman you're sexually attracted to is going to make you feel good and it's going to make the women feel good around you that don't look like that.

[00:07:58]Now, you can have a fine man, fine as in body, right? His face ain't all that, but his body is fine. he gonna have access to to the best women. Or if you get a man that's fine and handsome, he could be poor. He gonna get women. The average man is not really handsome. You very rarely see a handsome man.

[00:08:23]You you will more see a fine man body-wise than a handsome one.

[00:08:29]Right? So So we people know these things. They just don't want to admit it because that's admitting that I know what that is but I can't have it. So now I don't want it. Them hoes I don't want.

[00:08:40]Everybody they've been around the block or everybody had them or everybody's in their DMs and people say that about me.

[00:08:47]Nobody DMs me. I get DMs from women asking me to work with them. I don't men don't DM me. I don't have men don't even talk to me in real life. I live in the real world and I'm I'm in proximity to average men a lot. men are not approaching me online or in real life.

[00:09:05]That's very rare. It's a certain man that that approaches me. Now, people are going to troll me and say certain things, but I know what the reality is, right? And we're all attracted to looks, sexual attractiveness, and we're human, right? People don't want to admit that because then we got to look at what you choose, and what you choose is what you can have access to. That's how people got married years and years and years ago, right?

[00:09:33]You had to marry the people in your proximity. That's what happens now.

[00:09:37]People have uh extrammarital affairs with people at work, right? You meet your your wife or your husband at work or in route to work. That's how things happen. So, if you're in proximity to average, you are going to be dealing with average. So, you got the average working class man talking about he wouldn't [ __ ] a IG baddy. Yeah. Cuz you don't know any. you couldn't get any.

[00:10:02]And women talk about I want my man medium ugly or I like dad bods.

[00:10:07]That's [ __ ] You want an unattractive man or you just don't want to deal with what comes with attractive men because women know how [ __ ] feral they are. Especially when a man is fine.

[00:10:18]Women are doggish. They know that. Don't nobody want no media. Nobody. You want a a man with a pot belly? That's [ __ ] And as soon as a man can do better, he will.

[00:10:29]If he can if he can have his midwife at home and cheat with a bad [ __ ] outside and she be okay with it, he will do it.

[00:10:38]He ain't going to say, "Nah, that's bullshit."

[00:10:43]It's almost rare for a man to not take an opportunity that he can take if nobody knew.

[00:10:50]And again, I'm somebody in proximity to men a lot.

[00:10:56]I mean, I'll get into some things another time, but >> humans are liars and they're full of [ __ ] We're all attracted to looks, attractiveness, sex appeal, and these things. And people tend to reject what they can't have anyway. You can't have her. That's why you don't want her. You want the medium ugly guy with the big belly because you can't get nothing else. Or you are you scared to go after or or give access to the fine guy cuz you don't want to share him or whatever it is that goes on with people.