One of the great lies is that a long-term relationship is supposed to be spontaneous #podcastclips

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]Did you, um, sleep with him [music] or just kiss him? I slept with him. Okay.

[00:00:04]All right. How long?

[00:00:05]>> 10 seconds and then I stopped it and I came straight back.

[00:00:08]>> Well, who what?

[00:00:10]I would rather you do it this way than that way, honey. Honey, with love. And then three, when they start to give it to you, reward them.

[00:00:20]Don't criticize them. Well, you did a half-assed job. Hey, you did a half-assed job. Isn't that great? Let's get the other cheek on board.

[00:00:30]>> [laughter] >> It seems so simple. Tell the truth, teach your partner what you want and reward them when they do it, even if it's a half-assed job. Yeah, that's the best way of getting them to do more.