She Was One Step Away From Freedom... Then This Happened

Added: 2026-04-30

[00:00:00]But he DID BECAUSE HE CALLED ME.

[00:00:02]>> STOP SCREAMING AT ME.

[00:00:03]>> But she is clearly intoxicated and very emotional.

[00:00:07]>> Nope. You had your chance.

[00:00:09]>> I don't care. I don't have You had your chance. We gave you ample opportunity to walk home.

[00:00:14]>> In June 2025, sheriff's deputies in Santa Rosa County, Florida were dispatched to a residence after receiving reports of a verbal altercation. Upon arrival, deputies made contact with the complainant, a man who had called 911 regarding his intoxicated girlfriend.

[00:00:31]>> What's going on?

[00:00:32]>> Um, I did invite her over here. So, it's not it's not like she just came over here and just bursted in my house. I invited her over here, but she started drinking a little bit and then it got very verbal. She was sitting there screaming at me, started like punching the walls and stuff. And so, I I said, "Okay, I have to do something about this." So, so I called y'all and I I don't know if there's any way I can get her to leave my house. Okay. Did she damage anything?

[00:00:55]>> I She was in there punching stuff, but I don't know if she actually broke anything.

[00:00:57]>> She did break anything. Are you willing to pursue charges?

[00:01:00]>> Absolutely not. I just I just I just I just want her to leave my house and to calm for her to calm down because >> Does she have like friends or family in the area?

[00:01:08]>> She has she has family mying wife, bro.

[00:01:11]I hate it, bro. He's weird as he literally did for nothing. I wasn't even near him, bro. What the [ __ ] >> Do you guys have any children in common?

[00:01:22]>> No. Um, she doesn't live she doesn't live here.

[00:01:24]>> No, she does not live here.

[00:01:25]>> YEAH, THIS COP IS RIGHT HERE, right here, right now. Bro, I literally just got >> What's your name?

[00:01:31]>> It's Shirley.

[00:01:32]>> Shirley.

[00:01:33]>> Yes, sir.

[00:01:35]>> It's like a relationship that's had such a troubled past to the point where it's escalated to this where I think this is this is what I want this to be as far as it goes.

[00:01:43]>> No, he just calling you because I confronted him about email. Bro, >> that's fine.

[00:01:48]>> I just bought us food.

[00:01:50]>> Is somebody coming to pick you up? I don't know. I'm gonna walk home, BRO. I DON'T GOT TO WAKE PEOPLE UP. MY PEOPLE don't even like me. For real.

[00:02:00]>> We have a long past, though. A a long past where police have had to be involved in stuff. So, >> bro, this I don't want, bro. This is what the he wanted, bro. He should have never invited me just to call the cops on me. I didn't do to him, but buy our food and start a conversation. Bro, that's weird. He hates conversation. I always have to SHUT UP WHEN I'M TALKING to him. When he WANTS TO SAY SOMETHING, I HAVE TO be quiet, boy.

[00:02:26]>> Hey, do you have your ID with you?

[00:02:27]>> No.

[00:02:28]>> It's been a It's been a toxic relationship and I need to get out of it, but I'm stuck in this loop of coming back.

[00:02:33]>> Bro, this is so extra. This is soing extra, bro.

[00:02:39]>> Inviting her over, which is my mistake of inviting her over and I should know better by now.

[00:02:43]>> I [ __ ] HATE YOU.

[00:02:46]>> I reallying hate this, bro. You really got me [ __ ] up. Like what the I confront you and you're mad. That's crazy, bro.

[00:02:57]>> What happened tonight was she came over here. Y'all started drinking. Did you both start drinking?

[00:03:01]>> I didn't drink at all.

[00:03:02]>> I don't care what y'all do at this point. Y'all can arrest me, bro.

[00:03:06]>> I don't care. I'm drunk as I DON'T CARE, BRO.

[00:03:08]>> OKAY. SO, she started drinking.

[00:03:10]>> Do you know why I stopped drinking?

[00:03:11]Because I act like her when I'm drunk.

[00:03:13]>> This with me before me.

[00:03:17]>> She came over here. She started drinking and I've had a friend that's a girl and it's been nothing more than that and she started tripping out over that. Started screaming, yelling at me in my face like and it just escalated from that to the point where I >> What the actual, bro?

[00:03:30]>> Just talk to her on the phone. You're not in trouble.

[00:03:32]>> I don't even want to talk no more, bro.

[00:03:34]This got me [ __ ] up. YOU REALLY GOT ME [ __ ] UP, ZACH. OVER WHAT, BRO?

[00:03:39]>> Over this.

[00:03:41]>> I BOUGHT YOU FOOD. I WANTED TO ENJOY my night with you. You saw a cat >> here.

[00:03:48]>> What the?

[00:03:49]>> Step over here a little bit. Out of sight, out of mind. Thank you. Right there. That right there is good.

[00:03:54]>> Tor, do you have all of Shirley's 14 done, bro? I can't wait till I get home, bro.

[00:04:01]>> If I'm such a bad boyfriend, then I don't know why she keeps trying to lure me back in. I don't understand this at all. And I know that I need some I need some help to like learn how to get out of this this loop.

[00:04:10]>> I swear to God.

[00:04:11]>> Sorry. Can you 109? I was getting screamed at in my ear. I'm so sorry to my neighbors right here. I am so sorry.

[00:04:17]>> 208. I'll be able to copy this embarrassing, bro. I'm going to just stay on the streets.

[00:04:23]>> Here's your ID back here. I don't want you to lose this.

[00:04:27]>> I can't.

[00:04:28]>> Shirley, I don't want you to lose this.

[00:04:29]Take this back. There you go.

[00:04:33]>> Is she working on a ride?

[00:04:35]>> Does she have a ride coming?

[00:04:38]>> No. She's >> She said it's too late for her to be waking people up, but she's just going to walk home. But she's clearly not in the safe to do that.

[00:04:52]What we got so far? Just a verbal. Just a verbal.

[00:04:56]>> Okay. Verbal. She punched holes in the walls and stuff, but he don't want nothing done with that. She didn't do nothing to him physically. He just wants her to go. But she doesn't want to call anybody to wake them up to come get her.

[00:05:08]She wants to walk home. But she is clearly intoxicated and very emotional.

[00:05:14]>> So that's where we're at. Where's she live at?

[00:05:16]>> I don't know. I haven't gotten that far.

[00:05:18]I can't get past her screams, dude.

[00:05:19]>> I'll check. I'll check. I'm an eye to see where it is at.

[00:05:22]>> Hey, Shirley.

[00:05:24]>> Hey, Shirley.

[00:05:26]>> No. I'm going to walk home, bro.

[00:05:28]>> How can we get you home safely?

[00:05:30]>> I DON'T WANT Y'ALL TO TAKE ME HOME, BRO.

[00:05:33]WELL, you're not in the best state.

[00:05:35]>> I DON'T I AM IN THE best state. I'm fine. It's just the fact that like every time I try to speak my mind to my boyfriend, he gets mad and wants to call the cops on me, BUT I'M JUST TRYING TO SPEAK MY MIND. I didn't do anything to him.

[00:05:53]>> Nobody said that you did that. He didn't say. Why would you invite ME OVER HERE KNOWING I HAVE WORK tomorrow and then ain't nobody's going to come pick me up?

[00:06:03]I DON'T WANT NO COPS TO TAKE ME HOME.

[00:06:05]I'D RATHER JUST WALK.

[00:06:06]>> WELL, you're not in the best state TO WALK.

[00:06:08]>> I AM. I'M FINE.

[00:06:10]>> NO, like you had I don't want your guys' ride.

[00:06:13]>> You've had a lot to drink.

[00:06:14]>> Just walk. I had two beers.

[00:06:16]>> Okay.

[00:06:17]>> I had two beers. I'ming agitated because you decided to call the cops instead of talking to me. We were talking. Please, I DON'T GOT A COP. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU'RE GOING TO CALL THE COPS?

[00:06:28]>> I can't have you walking on my streets in the state you're in, >> bro. I don't want y'all to take me home.

[00:06:33]>> Okay, I don't need y'all to >> Your phone's Your phone's underneath your pizza.

[00:06:37]>> I don't care.

[00:06:38]>> I don't want you to lose your phone.

[00:06:40]>> Y'all literally just You either need to call somebody to come get you get your ride or you need >> just bought food for us and he wants TO CALL >> OR YOU NEED TO TAKE A RIDE FROM US.

[00:06:49]Either E otherwise we'll go a different route. I don't give A I DON'T CARE ANYMORE BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT HE WANTED.

[00:06:57]HE SENT Y'ALL OUT HERE TO ARREST ME.

[00:07:00]THAT'S WHAT Y'ALL ARE NOT GETTING.

[00:07:01]>> HE SAID HE doesn't want you arrested.

[00:07:02]>> BUT HE DID BECAUSE HE CALLED ME.

[00:07:04]>> STOP SCREAMING AT ME.

[00:07:05]>> HE LITERALLY DID. ARREST ME THEN.

[00:07:08]>> You're not listening.

[00:07:09]>> I don't care. Bro.

[00:07:11]>> Okay. Listen.

[00:07:12]>> This is what he wanted this whole time.

[00:07:15]>> Surely.

[00:07:16]>> This is what he wanted this whole time.

[00:07:19]So why not take the option to get home safely?

[00:07:23]>> Because my home is not a home, bro. It's not a home.

[00:07:28]And when I came here, I THOUGHT HE WAS MY HOME, BUT HE'S NOT MY HOME. HE'S NOT MY HOME. So my street is until I can GO TO INDIANA OR CALIFORNIA.

[00:07:38]>> SHIRLEY, it's 11:00. I need you to stop screaming. How much did you have to drink?

[00:07:42]>> Boy, I had twoing club tails. Two. Only two. How much has she had to drink?

[00:07:49]>> It's a It's called a Bahama Mama. I don't know if you ever heard of those.

[00:07:52]>> Yeah. Bahama Mama. They're >> 10% alcohol. It's not a It's not a beer.

[00:07:55]It's like a cocktail drink.

[00:07:56]>> Okay. How many of those has she had?

[00:07:57]>> I think she's only had one and a half.

[00:07:59]>> Is she usually this emotional >> whenever she drinks? Absolutely. That's why I told her, "Don't come over here when you're drinking."

[00:08:04]>> So, whatever. Bro, I'm going to walk home.

[00:08:07]>> Ma'am, I can't have you walking home.

[00:08:08]>> I'm going to walk home.

[00:08:09]>> Ma'am, I cannot have I'm not going to disturb the people that don't actually like me. Bro, I'm not because it's more drama THAN ME. HE CAUSED THIS DRAMA. HE CAN DEAL WITH IT.

[00:08:19]He can go back inside his mother house.

[00:08:21]I'm never talking to him again. I'm going to walk home. I'm going to do what I do. I got my pizza. What the [ __ ] >> Shirley, do you want to call an Uber?

[00:08:29]>> But I don't got money for that.

[00:08:31]>> Then take then take the ride from us.

[00:08:32]>> I'm not.

[00:08:33]>> Do you still live in Shangola?

[00:08:35]>> No, I'm going to do that.

[00:08:36]>> Is that where you is that where you STILL LIVE?

[00:08:38]>> WHO CARES?

[00:08:39]>> BECAUSE where I live.

[00:08:41]>> You're trying to say that you want to walk. I am BECAUSE I NEED FRESH AIR, BRO. BECAUSE THE GUY THAT I THOUGHT THAT love me doesn't LOVE ME ENOUGH. HEING called the cops INSTEAD OF HAVING A GENUINE CONVERSATION with me, BRO. I'VE BEEN TRYING TO TALK TO HIM BEFORE I STARTED GETTING ESCALATED. HE CALLED THE COPS. I don't care. I'd rather justing be alone and walk by myself.

[00:09:05]>> Who cares if my train too close?

[00:09:09]>> I'ming agitated.

[00:09:12]BECAUSE HE INVITED ME OUT HERE TO BEGIN WITH.

[00:09:16]>> The best way to deescalate this is for us to take you home.

[00:09:20]>> I don't want you guys to take me home because I'm tired of having my parents looking like I'm a disgrace or something. This is aing family.

[00:09:29]>> I always do EVERY TIME THE COPS COME OVER AND my brother's ABOUT TO GO TO JAIL FOR 6 years, BRO. I DON'T GIVE A I DON'T want that.

[00:09:38]>> Okay. So, what if WE >> I DON'T WANT THAT. What if we just brought you to your street?

[00:09:42]>> Please just let me walk home by myself.

[00:09:45]>> It's not safe for you to do that.

[00:09:46]>> It is safe because I'VE BEEN ON THE STREET SINCE CALIFORNIA. I DON'T CARE. I WILL WALK. I'M FINE. Just please let me go. Like, please. I will literally not talk to nobody. I will literally just walk home, bro. Oh my god. I don't care how far it is. I will make it. I really will. Y'all don't know me. I'm not from Florida. I'm not from Florida. like I will make it home. This is exactly what he wanted. So, I'm gonna give him that.

[00:10:14]He wanted me to go home so bad. He should have called my ride instead of calling y'all.

[00:10:18]>> Well, who's your ride?

[00:10:19]>> The my ride. I'm going to just >> You want your phone?

[00:10:26]>> Your phone is right here.

[00:10:27]>> The phone. He'd be going through it anyways. He's a stalker.

[00:10:31]>> Well, it's your phone. Phone.

[00:10:33]>> I just want to go home, bro.

[00:10:35]>> We got another Yeah, I'm going to let her walk.

[00:10:43]the only one.

[00:10:46]>> After clearing the call, sheriff's deputies were called back to the scene approximately 15 minutes later when the female suspect returned to the residence and began pounding on the door.

[00:10:55]>> That's really weird.

[00:11:01]I got y'all coming back to get me.

[00:11:02]>> Mhm. Turn around. But he literally No, he literally can't.

[00:11:08]>> STOP. PLEASE.

[00:11:11]>> What the >> No, YOU GOT TO PULL AWAY FROM ME.

[00:11:18]>> STOP. PLEASE.

[00:11:19]>> NO. YOU HAD A CHANCE.

[00:11:20]>> LITERALLY CAME OUT of >> Stop.

[00:11:25]IT'S STOP. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE.

[00:11:28]>> STOP. Or you're GOING TO THE GROUND.

[00:11:30]>> STOP. Or you're going TO THE GROUND.

[00:11:33]PLEASE STOP THE GROUND.

[00:11:35]>> PLEASE, PLEASE.

[00:11:37]>> OH, YOU GOT [ __ ] >> NO. AIN'T NO ONE ELSE.

[00:11:42]>> Get down.

[00:11:47]Stop.

[00:11:50]Please. Please. No sir. PLEASE ME.

[00:11:53]PLEASE. I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU. I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU.

[00:12:01]PLEASE. PLEASE, Z. I DIDN'T THOUGH.

[00:12:11]PLEASE.

[00:12:13]What the Bro, ZACK, YOU LITERALLY CAME OUTSIDE AND TALK TO ME, BRO. WHAT DO you Please, >> Nope. You had your chance.

[00:12:27]>> I have >> I don't care. I don't have You had your chance. We gave you ample opportunity.

[00:12:31]You walk home.

[00:12:32]>> Just take me home. Bro, >> no. We're going to take you to >> the one who CAME OUTSIDE. I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU THAT.

[00:12:38]>> I DON'T CARE IF HE came outside.

[00:12:40]>> NO, HE CAME OUTSIDE AND TOLD ME TO COME UP AND TALK TO HIM, BRO. And I did.

[00:12:44]>> Stand up. Don't care.

[00:12:45]>> I'M TELLING THE TRUTH.

[00:12:47]>> I DON'T CARE. We're walking this window.

[00:12:50]>> Please. Please.

[00:12:53]I'm trying to tell you. Please. I'm sorry. I >> don't care.

[00:12:58]>> NO. I'M TRYING to tell you.

[00:13:00]>> You're done. You should have just walked.

[00:13:01]>> NO, I WAS TRYING TO. HE LITERALLY CAME BACK OVER HERE. NO, I don't feel comfortable.

[00:13:09]>> That's not YOUR CHOICE.

[00:13:10]>> PLEASE STOP.

[00:13:11]>> BRING IT UP HERE.

[00:13:12]>> I DON'T SEE HOW THAT'S FAIR.

[00:13:15]I DON'T SEE HOW Y'ALL CAN'T JUST TAKE ME HOME.

[00:13:18]>> YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE TO.

[00:13:20]>> NOW'S THEING TIME.

[00:13:22]>> WHICH WAY ARE WE ON?

[00:13:23]>> WHAT the What the Bro, MY BABY. NO, >> PLEASE.

[00:13:32]I didn't I didn't >> PLEASE STOP.

[00:13:47]>> STOP.

[00:13:48]>> NO.

[00:13:49]>> I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU guys respectfully, bro.

[00:13:52]>> YOU LITERALLY CAME OUTSIDE.

[00:13:54]>> YOU HAVE DONE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING RESPECTFUL.

[00:13:56]>> We're trying to >> We're praying your car. Um, she's on his jail intox.

[00:14:02]>> YES, SHE WALKS.

[00:14:05]I'M TRYING TO STEAL MY LIVE and he's AING LIAR. HE'S ALREADY GOT A CHARGE FOR STRANGLING ME, SIR.

[00:14:12]>> GET IN THE CAR, PLEASE.

[00:14:17]>> I'M TRYING TO NO, PLEASE.

[00:14:20]>> 4560. OKAY, I'll work off of that one since it's continuing. She's out here in the street screaming all, you know, causing the disturbance. That's what I'm charging her with.

[00:14:29]>> Yeah. No, I'm good with it. Um, >> he literally just CALLED Y'ALL TO SET ME UP AND I'M TRYING TO tell you guys that he did this before.

[00:14:37]>> Okay.

[00:14:38]>> Okay. What happened for her to come back?

[00:14:40]>> Okay. So, y'all drove Okay.

[00:14:43]>> Yeah. She was crouching down over there.

[00:14:45]>> She was sitting there when y'all left.

[00:14:46]>> Y'all drove off. As soon as y'all were gone, she started walking up here. I said, "If you step foot in my yard, I'm going to have to call them back." THE GUY THAT JUST CALLED THE COPS on me.

[00:14:54]>> Okay.

[00:14:55]>> He literally told me to come up to his [ __ ] hising porch and I DID AND HE CALLED THE COPS on me.

[00:15:03]>> Okay.

[00:15:03]>> He said HE WANTED TO TALK. I DON'T CARE.

[00:15:05]Y'ALL CAN drive me home.

[00:15:07]>> I don't give a about calling back.

[00:15:09]>> Okay. So, at that point, do you want to press charges for trespassing?

[00:15:13]>> Absolutely. Yeah. For trespassing?

[00:15:15]Absolutely.

[00:15:16]>> I'M I'M NOT ABOUT TO DEAL WITH THIS. I JUST NEED TO GO HOME, BRO. I won't talk to him. Y'all can get a trespass. I don't care.

[00:15:22]>> At this point, the determinate Hey, hey, listen. Listen.

[00:15:25]>> He literally told me.

[00:15:26]>> Listen, listen to me.

[00:15:27]>> Please.

[00:15:28]>> The determination has already been made.

[00:15:30]Okay.

[00:15:35]>> What do you need me to do?

[00:15:36]>> Just write your initial. I'll >> I'll write your initial. I'll supplement and just put in there that you had to come back. I guess it's a continuation of the original. So, >> yeah. And then I'll do a I'll write my uh arrest report and transmit it whenever he gets there.

[00:15:51]>> Okay, sounds good. Dum dum dum dum dum.

[00:15:56]>> I hear you out.

[00:15:58]>> Sir, can I be honest? Yes, he gave me a warning, but as soon as y'all left, he came back outside.

[00:16:04]>> Okay.

[00:16:05]>> He came out outside, bro. To try this. I had two club tails.

[00:16:10]>> I had two club tails. I know my limit. I know my limit of what I drink and when I don't. And I'm trying to be honest with you guys.

[00:16:20]>> That's your sister.

[00:16:23]>> Well, sounds like she's going to be going to jail.

[00:16:26]>> Your sister, Shirley.

[00:16:27]>> Yeah, Shirley.

[00:16:29]>> That's my sister.

[00:16:30]>> I got you, man.

[00:16:31]>> Did she call you? Come pick her up.

[00:16:32]>> Well, her friend text him right before her phone dies. So, she got in an argument with her boyfriend.

[00:16:38]>> Yeah.

[00:16:39]>> So, I guess they were out here earlier.

[00:16:40]This is my first time being here, but I guess at this point she's going to jail for disorderly conduct or disorderly intoxication. So >> yeah, she had the opportunity to just walk away earlier and we were trying to get her ride earlier, trying to get somebody to come out to get her >> and she was just bl to the jail. Who's this?

[00:17:02]>> Uh brother.

[00:17:03]>> Her brother?

[00:17:04]>> Yeah.

[00:17:05]>> You want to see if that can go with him or do you want to take all that? I'll see real quick. Let me ask her.

[00:17:08]>> Yeah. Did anybody explain to you what was going on yet?

[00:17:11]>> I think she got into an argument with her boyfriend.

[00:17:13]>> Okay. Yeah, that's how it started. Um, we tried to give her every option to just let us bring her home and she just wasn't having it >> and she wanted to walk. So, we let her walk and we told her that, you know, walk home. That's fine. We were done. We actually left.

[00:17:28]>> Didn't last 10 minutes.

[00:17:30]>> Hey, your your stuff that I guess you had in the house, do you want that to go with your brother?

[00:17:37]>> My brother? Is that your brother that's parked behind us? Somebody Somebody showed up and I guess >> what's your brother's name?

[00:17:43]>> Sawyer.

[00:17:44]>> Hey, is his name Sawyer? It's >> your name Joiner.

[00:17:48]>> What?

[00:17:48]>> What's your name?

[00:17:48]>> Uh Sawyer.

[00:17:49]>> Sawyer. Yeah, it's Sawyer.

[00:17:50]>> Yeah, it's your brother.

[00:17:51]>> I need him to take me home.

[00:17:53]>> Okay, you're you're going to jail at this point.

[00:17:55]>> No, I I can't. I didn't do nothing. I didn't touch him. I didn't fight him for nothing.

[00:18:00]>> Okay, so you're going to you're going to jail for disorderly intoxication.

[00:18:03]>> I'm not even doing this for you. The question The question is, do you want your stuff to go with him?

[00:18:11]>> Yes, but I'm not drunk.

[00:18:13]>> Um, not 10 minutes, not even 5 minutes after we left, she turns around and goes right back on his property. He tells her, "You need to leave or I'm calling again."

[00:18:23]>> Yeah.

[00:18:23]>> And she just remained I rate, wouldn't get off the property. We already explained to her that we were going to take her into our custody if we had to get called back out here in reference to her.

[00:18:32]>> Yeah.

[00:18:33]>> And she was just as belligerent as can be, not cooperating. and she decided to try to fight us. So, she's she's catching some charges for resisting and disorderly intoxication.

[00:18:42]>> I literally just went to the location.

[00:18:46]>> Yeah, she said he can go with him.

[00:18:48]>> Okay.

[00:18:49]>> Um I hate that it had to turn out that way. We tried giving her literally every opportunity to just let us bring her home or or tell us who we can call to come and get her and she just wasn't having it.

[00:19:01]>> Boyfriend says that she gets like this when she drinks like that.

[00:19:04]>> Yeah.

[00:19:04]>> Um so, She did. Yeah.

[00:19:07]>> 120 Jack.

[00:19:09]>> Thank you.

[00:19:10]>> What's your last name, dude?

[00:19:12]>> Uh Anna.

[00:19:13]>> Okay. So, you're Anna.

[00:19:14]>> Same last name as >> But um All right. Well, sorry that it had to end this.

[00:19:19]>> Put her on a booking ticket for disorderly in talks and um I guess resisting without TFO. Your flashlight's on.

[00:19:27]>> I could do a drug test right now.

[00:19:30]>> What? Y'all arrest me for the most dumbest. I only drank two cans. Does that make me drunk?

[00:19:38]>> The female suspect was identified as 21-year-old Shirley Anna and transported to the Santa Rosa County Jail, where she was booked for obstructing an officer and disorderly intoxication.

[00:19:50]Court records indicate Shirley entered into a plea agreement with the state and was sentenced to 6 months probation.