Unlocking Frustration Are You Annoyed with Them or Yourself

Added: 2026-05-23

[00:00:00]I'm glad to hear it, cuz I know what we're talking about. So, I Yeah.

[00:00:04]>> So, we were talking a little bit before the show, and for a moment I was like, "Well, what annoys me?" And my first response was so much.

[00:00:12]And it was really hard to start putting my finger on things.

[00:00:16]My world has gotten extremely busy really fast, and I'm learning pretty much a new job in training, managing a bunch more people than I've ever managed before, dealing with projects bigger projects, uh and the pressure is building.

[00:00:33]Like, why can't you think?

[00:00:35]Biggest biggest one is like, I gave someone something. I was like, "It's obvious what this is. How did you get to this point?"

[00:00:44]Okay, this is my fault somehow, because I wasn't extremely explicit.

[00:00:50]Okay, people don't live in my head.

[00:00:52]Another time, how do we get like, once again, how do we get here?

[00:00:59]You don't think like I do, and so I think my frustration, more more I've been working through this, is my shortcomings uh and expecting people to know what's in my head, because I think it's just obvious.

[00:01:13]And it's not at all. And this is where I think what are annoyances, but really a reflection of things that we hate about ourselves. I was When you were saying that, that is exactly where I was going.

[00:01:25]It's those things that we realize that are we really annoyed with them, or they are we annoyed with ourselves on how I mean, I think the like the phone things