If you’re obsessing over him & would kill to be wherever he is and for him to love you, this is for

Added: 2026-05-18

[00:00:00]I'm just going to be the one to say it.

[00:00:01]If you are obsessing over him all day long and you would just kill to be in the same vicinity as him, but he is somebody who has told you on repeat that he just doesn't want a relationship with you. Right now is not the right time. He needs to go find himself. And you're sitting here thinking, well, how do I become more? How do I become someone that he's finally going to say yes to? I need you to listen to me right now and you need to listen very clearly. [music] Someone who is entertaining you, but they don't necessarily want to be in a relationship with you, there's a couple things that could be going on. Number one, they could just not have the capacity to be able to handle your emotions let alone their own.

[00:00:30]>> [music] >> And number two, they can really just be leading you on because they're bored and you're entertaining their [ __ ] And the question you should be asking yourself is not how do I become more for this person? The question you should be asking yourself is why do I think that this is what love feels like? Why do I think that this type of love is all that I am worthy of? Because once you ask yourself those questions, once you see where you stem from, you can then reprogram the belief that you think that that's the level of love that you're worth. That that that you think that somebody who is kind of wants you, kind of doesn't want you is all that you deserve in this life. And I'll tell you what, the moment that you figure out where that belief is coming from and you take the time to actually [music] change it, not only are you no longer going to want somebody who is giving you half-assed energy, you are going to free up so much space mentally and physically so that you can [music] actually go hard as [ __ ] on the things that you want in this life. Because you absolutely deserve to be loved fully, wholeheartedly and you get to have absolutely every single thing you've ever dreamt of in this life.