YOU HAVE TOPPLED THIS STOIC PERSON’S DEFENSES🫠🥰 - Timeless Detailed Reading❤️

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]something that you said or did with the energy of plant the seeds has reassured this person incredibly that it is safe to proceed forward towards you with some kind of an offer um with more consistent communication than has been the case up to this point in time. This could even be a secret admirer that has finally like gotten that green light, that reassurance uh to proceed forward and to introduce themselves, commence a connection. Um it feels like somebody that wants to be very official about things. So this could be somebody that like opening up about their emotions is very difficult, kind of a stoic individual, and yet you've stirred something within the heart space where this person is kind of like, okay, I don't usually do this. I don't usually let my guard down so easily. Um, I've made it a point to not let anybody in too close for a while. Or maybe this is just kind of their personality, but it's like for you, I'd make an exception. Uh, so you've made a really good impression upon this person. This is somebody that has been kind of like observing you from almost like an intellectual stance from afar. they have consciously sort of like not listened to their heart as far as this connection is concerned because their heart has misled them in the past.

[00:01:18]Um, and this is somebody that feels like that it's kind of like they got to have that logical reassurance before they take a step towards anything in business, in life, certainly in romance.

[00:01:29]Um, and the way that you without even knowing that this person was like observing, not so much testing you, but just sort of like seeing how you move in an authentic way when you know, you don't know that you're being observed or you don't get your way with something.

[00:01:43]Uh, you know, so maybe there's a lot of chemistry between the two of you. There might have been sort of the little beginnings of something and this person like pulled back or you encountered that guardedness within and you've really just kind of like continued to go with the flow. You've continued your own motion. um you know you you've continued to kind of just like be yourself. This person is really um assured that you are not performative, that you are authentic. Um you know that you are the kind of person that could provide them like with a unique experience of romance of the beginnings of romance. You you've gotten in you've gotten into their heart in some sort of way. Um and it feels like this is they haven't felt like this about anyone in a while. And so it's somebody that wants to come forth almost like leading with the logic, but they might almost be kind of nervous. It's bringing forth the the idea of somebody that might kind of like, you know, stutter or uh kind of stumble when they when they try to approach when they try to say something because the heart is very like enthusiastic, like finally, okay, it's time for me to kind of like have the podium. It's time for me to take center stage. time for me to have an experience of, you know, the potential of like a deep capacity for romance because this person recognizes you're a very sensitive individual.

[00:02:54]You're a very authentic individual.

[00:02:57]You're a very freespirited individual.

[00:02:59]And so, it is only right to assume that that energy translates into all aspects and areas of your life. This is somebody who's given a lot of thought about what to what it would be like to be loved by you, to be in a relationship by you, to open themselves up and allow themselves to give to you emotionally speaking, which it feels like that's kind of their Achilles heel. That's that's the that's kind of the soft spot within them where they're like, "Okay, the last time I opened up to someone, you know, it was like a major disappointment, a huge heartbreak. I never fully recovered. It it changed my personality forever." Or um, you know, I had to really kind of like lean into that guardedness. I had to put my armor on and I've just never had a reason to or or I've been too afraid to like take it off before. And so this is like a huge leap of faith forward. Um you know to even just take that step towards you in like a business-like fashion, a logical fashion. Um it feels like they don't really necessarily want to approach with friendship because they don't want to get like trapped in the friend zone. Or maybe this is a friend that has caught feelings for you, but in some sort of way it's like they almost want to go the Ace of Swords approach like address things very directly. I want to take you out on a date. I want to get to know you. Um, you know, I want to kind of become more of a relevant part of your reality or, you know, bring myself into your reality for the first time ever. If this is somebody that is just like secret admire, um, but it's this energy of kind of like once that gets started, they know that you are the type of person like they see you're somebody that you you get to people in that emotional space. They have seen you kind of like win the hearts and minds of people. They've seen you melt hardened hearts. you've certainly melted this person's heart. And so there is the sense of kind of like once we get started, I don't know if this like stoic approach of mine would be powerful enough to hold back this like deep-seated urge I have to like get to know you and to let myself be known by you, to be vulnerable in your presence.

[00:04:51]um because they feel like you are the type of person that their heart would be in safekeeping with. That even if things didn't end up in happily ever after with one another, you're not the type of person that would sort of like leave them worse for wear. You are the type of person they could trust to let into that inner sanctum within where there's still a lot of love that this person has to give, but then there's also all of that kind of like wreckage from the past.

[00:05:14]They feel that you're the kind of person that would be kind of like insightful enough, mature enough, intuitive enough, um, you know, brave enough to kind of like take them as they are and to be very patient with them as kind of the process of whatever could unfold next between the two of you would sort of like be that magic within. And it would be that medicine within that would help that kind of woundedness or hesitation or like a feeling that like love and emotions and and romance isn't exactly this person's strong suit to sort of counteract all of that so that a new narrative could be built so that a new version of themsel would have the opportunity to kind of rise to the surface out of the little seeds of potential that exist between the two of you or they're hoping to plant between the two of you. that something that you have said or done recently um has really helped to like nourish and nurture and and kind of pour into the potential for this person of the understanding that like there could be something very beautiful between the two of us if I just let myself trust in it with this energy of make a move. This person is definitely not just wanting to like sit on these feelings, this curiosity for much longer. It feels like again you've satisfied their their kind of curiosity.

[00:06:24]What happens when um you know you don't get your way? What happens when you are bringing forth a very genuine energy and you're met by you know a wall in human form? What happens uh you know if my natural fears or my hesitation kicks in and you know you're needing to kind of go your own way for a while or you know you're needing to feel into the fullness of like the hurt and disappointment um you know that naturally would come any kind of confusion any kind of misunderstanding. How do you handle that? How do you process that? How does that affect you? This is somebody it feels like that because of like where they're at with a lot of woundedness or a lot of fear of love inside. Um they're almost afraid of kind of like taking on a connection where anyone is too codependent, too needy. This is the kind of person it feels like that has just kind of like buried themsel in work in order to sort of avoid partnerships or you know some kind of major heartbreak happened and they just became married to their career. It's kind of like okay I guess I'm not good at love. I guess that wasn't meant to work out. That idea of happily ever after. So, I'm just going to redirect my my efforts towards things that I know that I'm good at. I'm good at making money. I'm good at building my empire. I'm good at showing up in in other ways. I'm really good at friendship. I'm good at showing up as a family member. Like, there are other areas of this person's life that are like strong suits. Love and romance has not been one of those things. And so, there is a sense of kind of like there's a timidness on their part. sort of like is this the circumstance in the situation that maybe could help me to kind of like move beyond uh that very rigid stance that has been taken where you know love is something that is not for me or or it's not something that's safe to take a risk in that direction.

[00:08:05]You have satisfied this urge within that to even just kind of dip their toe in the water more than has already been the case or even just a little bit like for the first time. Um this is something that could bring very interesting results. This is not the type of person.

[00:08:18]It feels like they're very risk averse in general. This is not the type of person that's just going to like put themselves out there if there is kind of like a statistic probability of rejection. They feel like they're very like logical, very like, you know, mathematically minded. They've thought about this from a lot of different angles. They've observed this from a lot of different angles. They haven't meant to kind of like make you jump through hoops or put you through any sort of test. But it's almost like that guardedness, that self-protective mechanism within that stoicism, which is kind of like protecting the soft center inside of them. It would have it no other way in order to progress forward towards something. It's almost like people that you know may have interest in this person. It's like you got to meet this side of me. You got to know that this mask exists and it has served me well to a certain point um up to this point. And as far as like love is concerned, this is somebody who feels like they're very much a novice. This could be somebody that's not had a lot of luck and love in general. Maybe it's been a while since they've been in a connection. Again, they got a lot of like residual heartbreak inside. Um, you know, things that time has healed the wounds in a certain way. You know, they've taken steps to kind of address those wounds as best as they could, but it feels like this could be somebody that's a very like sensitive person, a very emotional person. So at a certain point in time, all they could think to do, the the only option was to kind of just turn away from love, look in the opposite direction, just really pour their fullness of themselves into, you know, circumstances that were responding to those efforts that were, you know, prosperous in response to like I work hard, I make money, uh, you know, I show up for for these circumstances in my life that celebrate me and um, you know, I'm received, I'm reciprocated, I'm honored as I am. um you know, platonic connections, familial connections. Even if I'm kind of stoic and it's hard to express my feelings, they aren't judging me for that. Like, so this person feels like there's a lot that's very well-developed in other areas of their life. Love has not been their strong suit. And yet with you, it's kind of like, okay, you're the type of person that I feel like I want to take a chance on. I I want to open up. I want you to, you know, see me for like who I am or that it would be safe for you to see that. I feel that you would be non-judgmental. You might even understand kind of like ways in which it wasn't even a conscious motivation. It was just sort of a reflex. All the disappointment they'd experienced in the past or particular heartbreak and how it just changed something within. But this person isn't totally like broken beyond repair. This is something where it's almost just like there's a lot of love to give. This is somebody with a capacity for emotions, but logic is the gatekeeper up to this point in time. And the good news is you have satisfied that logical requirement of kind of like, okay, if I open up and let you in, I'm not going to give every little piece of what's left of myself, kind of the light within me. I'm not just going to give that away. I'm not just going to be somebody where I'm having to like feed and sustain your ego and there's nothing in return or I give of myself to the point of depletion or I open up and trust and you keep me around till something better comes along. Um, you know, this is somebody that feels like that trust doesn't come easily for them.

[00:11:19]They may sense that that like kind of like kindred spirit within you. Trust doesn't come easily for you. However you've moved in the situation with this person so far when you've hit that wall of stoicism with them, it's almost like they see that you've done that with grace. Even if you know, you were hurt, you expressed your emotions in some sort of way, you kept it pushing. Um, you know, you didn't let that kind of like veer you off course for too long. You've risen from the ashes of that experience or, you know, you've kind of like honored sort of their boundaries with boundaries of your own. So, this person has a lot of respect for how you move as a person and how you've moved in this connection so far. Um, and it has allowed like an emotional aspect of themselves to to kind of usurp that overly logical sense that, you know, needed to have all of the like fine-tuned details in place, needed to like control the outcome or or needed to be very much like I only take action steps forward when I choose to. This is kind of like the heart space within sort of telling them like well but you could also try just allowing. You could try allowing whatever might happen and and imagine that it would be a good thing.

[00:12:23]So this energy again of like make a move. Uh this is somebody that you know wants to kind of come towards you with more of like a softer approach. Uh come towards you with some sort of a peace offering or or just kind of like a like a change in attitude, a change in energy compared to whatever has been your experience with them up to this point in time. And if this is like a total secret admire, like they've not approached you at all, then it's definitely somebody that is trying to like soften their stance because they know if they come forth with that like logical guarded, you know, stoic kind of energy, you're they see that you're not the kind of person that's going to let that in very close. And so again, this is somebody that doesn't want to be like trapped in the friend zone or they don't want to remain in the friend zone if they're already there. This is somebody that is like, I I want to come in closer. I want to develop more intimacy between the two of us and I know that that's going to require more emotional access on my part.

[00:13:14]We also have affirmation for healing the heart. Yeah. So, this person it feels like is starting to allow themselves to think of the possibility of what if.

[00:13:22]What if you are that wish fulfillment?

[00:13:24]What if you are the person um that could help me to kind of offset all this pain and grief that I've been holding within?

[00:13:30]What if you're the type of person that I can have an experience with that kind of like rewrites that narrative where they've been telling themselves like I'm not lucky in love but maybe this is the time when they are lucky in love. Um you know things in the past didn't work out.

[00:13:44]It it took a huge toll on them emotionally speaking but maybe that was all preparation for the experience of meeting someone like you so that they could navigate not in kind of a full hearty way. um you know just leading with the love and and maybe kind of overlooking red flags that could have been the case in the past. This almost feels like somebody that they have a lot of like shame or guilt uh like a heartbreak was sort of like I should have seen that coming. I stuck around longer than I should. I overlooked red flags. There were there were obvious warnings that this person wasn't right for me or the circumstance. Something was fishy. Something was off. I overgave of myself and then was left high and dry. like whatever that looks like. Um that has created this kind of energy of like a heavy armor around this person, high walls, nobody gets in, they don't let themselves out and nobody gets in.

[00:14:28]Nobody gets in too close. Um there's a sense that kind of like maybe all of that was just sort of acclimating their pallet on an emotional level to the experience of kind of like improper love. Um you know, things masquerading under the name love that were really just kind of like lessons. Um, this is somebody that almost feels at this point in time kind of like, you know, maybe this is the opportunity now for a different sort of view to take place.

[00:14:55]Maybe this is the opportunity for a different kind of experience to come into my life emotionally speaking because they've taken a different route to romance, like to this place where they want to make a move. They they want to express themselves. They they want to have some sort of experience with you.

[00:15:10]They want to get the ball rolling in this situation, but they've honored that logical part, that part of them that like self-protected, that kept the world at a distance while they healed or or learned to just move beyond things where time healed as best as they could. Um, it feels like this is somebody that's got a lot going on for them in many other areas of their life. But as far as love is concerned, there's a lot of fear around that. This is somebody that almost questions like, if you see the real me, is this going to be something of worth and value? I don't have a whole lot to give because I have not had a whole lot of success in romance. Feels like this is a person that has made mistakes in the past. They they've let people in that, you know, were the wrong person and kind of like took them for a ride. It feels like if you had the full kind of resume of their experiences in romance, you'd have a lot of pity for this person. Um, and it feels like it is something that uh, you know, they're not proud of that. They're not proud of the connections they were in in the past.

[00:16:01]They're not proud of how they showed up in connections in the past. They're not proud of the things that all that pain sort of led to. Most especially kind of shutting out the possibility for love and partnership and romance and connection for what feels like a very long time. Even if they've like dated or they've had like talking stages, situationships, it's like nothing has gone beyond like a three of cups energy.

[00:16:21]Something just very surface level. As soon as emotions came on board, you know, it was like they were out of there. they the walls were shut or they never even let anyone in close enough to have that opportunity to kind of like get to them in that feeling space. But with you, something is different.

[00:16:38]Something that you have said or done has almost kind of like triggered or activated something within where some of these walls have come down. They're able to see through the thickness of that.

[00:16:47]It's become like a veil as opposed to just a brick wall. And there's hope of kind of like, okay, maybe this could be something different. the vibe that you bring forth, the attitude you bring forth, the energy you bring forth, how you move through the world as yourself and also with them. All of this is something that it feels like little by little, very gradually. It's like 10 of cups energy. Like this person's been sort of like observing for a while, thinking about this for a while, thinking about it from every angle for a while. Um, and finally they're at this place of kind of like, okay, I think that if I trust in this circumstance, I think that, you know, if I just kind of like hold on more predominantly to the possibility of like, what if everything goes right in this circumstance instead of what if everything goes painfully wrong, I think that we could be on track or I could be on track to having a very beneficial, a very good experience. So, this is definitely somebody that it feels like it may be hard for them to open up. It may be hard for them to express themselves fully. You're going to have to be patient with this person as they kind of like warm up to this. It feels like it's going to take a lot of courage for them to say whatever they want to say next. It's going to take a lot of courage to approach you, especially if they're a secret admire.

[00:17:54]This is going to take like all of their energy within to kind of just like say hello. Um, you know, so it's something where it's almost like it may take a couple of months, it may take many conversations before you're finally at a place of understanding like, okay, they have kind of a rough exterior. They kind of got a hard shell, but there is kind of like a softer side to them that's not like if you play your cards right, you get access to that or it's like a carrot on a string that they're dangling, but it's that soft part of them that is wanting to like invite you in closer or is wanting to present themselves as like somebody you'll potentially invite in closer. So this is the kind of thing where it's sort of like if you can, you know, see 10 steps ahead in this situation and kind of just take it day by day with this person, it feels like there's a side to them that has kind of responded to you, has responded to the potential or even the situation as it is right now. Um, and this is somebody that, you know, really wants to kind of like navigate beyond that process of like layer by layer letting their guard down, giving you that full tour of kind of like not just their guardedness, but also sort of like those those inner aspects of self where the energies of love haven't visited for a while or perhaps at all. This is somebody it feels like that really like wants partnership. They they want connection.

[00:19:08]um they've been very jaded by past experiences, but something in you, something in this potential between the two of you gives them hope that it's kind of like not too late or or maybe this circumstance is something that can be different from whatever that idea or narrative or experience of love has looked like for quite a while for them.

[00:19:25]So, those are your messages. I hope that they resonated with you and that you enjoyed the reading. Like or comment to claim these energies. Subscribe to my channel if you would like to see more content that I put out here. Don't forget to hit the bell button to get notifications every time I post a new video. And if you would like to book a personal reading with me, I offer those through my Etsy shop and there's a link for that below. I hope to see you again in another reading. Please take care and be