In toxic relationships, controlling partners often use manipulation tactics such as demanding phone access, isolating partners from friends, and using emotional pressure to maintain power, which can escalate to physical destruction of personal devices to prevent independent communication.
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Yandere Girlfriend Removes Your Phone Privileges [F4M] [Yandere] [Toxic] [Controlling]
Added:Hey, darling. What do you want for Oh, darling, did I scare you?
I'm so sorry.
I just wanted to ask what you wanted for dinner.
I should have knocked. You almost fell out of your chair.
Are you sure you're all right?
You look like you've seen a ghost.
You're so pale, darling.
It's like I caught you in the middle of doing something that you shouldn't.
Yeah, that's true. You are easy to scare. It's just that I hadn't seen that face since the first time you caught me looking through your window.
At least this time you didn't start screaming.
Yeah.
I guess you still didn't know who I was back then.
But hey, look at us. Almost 2 years since the incident and now we are a couple, we are living together.
But I digress.
What do you want for dinner, my love?
Of course I can make you that, darling.
You know I always have the ingredients for your 50 most favorite dishes at the ready.
I cannot risk it and leave you without what you want to eat.
Well, I'll get back to the kitchen. Before I go, can I ask you a small favor, darling?
Can I borrow your phone for just a second?
Why?
Because I have to check the Wi-Fi's working. That's why.
My phone won't connect to the damn Wi-Fi and I want to check if the problem is my phone or the router.
You don't know where you left your phone.
Well, that's not a problem, darling. I can just call you and listen for the ringtone.
Hm. [clears throat] Oh, look.
You're sitting on it.
>> [laughter] >> You're so silly, darling.
Now, give it to me.
Please.
What?
What do you mean by that?
Why do you want me to promise that I'll only check the Wi-Fi?
You aren't hiding anything from me, are you, darling?
Well, then why are you asking that?
Privacy?
Come on, darling. Don't give me that.
You are my partner. You don't need privacy with me.
Also, we have an open phone policy, remember?
You can check whatever you want in my phone, whenever you want. It's only fair I get to do the same.
Unless you were doing something you're not supposed to do.
But, you would never break my trust like that.
Would you?
Well, then give me your phone at once.
>> [sighs] >> I said, "Give me your phone."
If you have nothing to hide, you have no reason for being this difficult, my love.
There we go. Oh, look. It seems that your Wi-Fi connection is fine. So, maybe my phone is the problem.
I'll just send myself a little message to your phone.
Darling, are you okay?
Is your sugar dropping?
It shouldn't be.
I keep you on a very nutritious diet, but your face is turning white again.
Are you sure that your sugar is really okay?
>> [sighs and gasps] >> Well, if you start feeling weak your head starts to spin, tell me, okay? I'll catch you.
I don't want you passing out and falling on the hard floor.
If you're really sure that you're okay, I'll just continue with my little experiment.
Let me just open your messages app and my love.
Why are you looking at the floor like that?
You look like a beaten dog.
Have you done something bad?
Darling, why are you not answering?
You didn't break any of our rules, did you?
>> [gasps and sighs] >> Well, if you don't want to answer, I guess I'll find out myself.
Oh.
Oh, no. Oh, no, you didn't. My love, darling, what in the world is this?
Why were you texting her?
No, I'm sorry is not an answer to my question. I told you to stop talking with her.
It's not that difficult, you know? In fact, it actually takes less effort than texting her.
When we started dating, I didn't mind that your best friend was a woman. As long as you respected our boundaries, everything would be good.
But then, she stopped respecting them.
I don't care if you never told her where our boundaries are. She started telling you that I was too much, I was toxic and controlling and that you should leave me.
Don't you think any sane person would see that as overstepping?
There are two people in this relationship, darling. You and me and no one else.
She's not here to see what happened, so she has absolutely no right to criticize our relationship.
That's why I told you to stop talking to her.
I trusted you so much, didn't even bother to check if you had actually done it.
Looks like I made a mistake.
Was it so hard to block her, darling?
Was it so difficult for you that you preferred to break my trust and make me angry at you?
You've been friends for so long and you didn't want to hurt her feelings by suddenly cutting her off.
Oh, so you're more worried about that girl's feelings than about mine.
Does she cook homemade meals for you every day, my darling? Does she work an extremely stressful job just so she can afford to only work part-time?
Does she spend hours cuddling you and telling you how important you are to her?
Does she stroke your hair every night and tells you how much she loves you until you fall asleep?
Then why do you put her over me?
Yes, you do. You kept texting her when I told you not to. You decided that her feelings mattered more to you than mine.
Oh, now you're sorry. Darling, you hurt me. You know that. I love you so much and I put up all this trust in you.
And this is what you do?
Yeah.
My love, I know. I know that this won't happen again.
I won't let it happen again.
Now, can you please reach me that toolbox? It's on that shelf.
Stop asking me questions. Just give it to me.
You don't want to make me even angrier, do you?
There you go. Thank you, darling. Now, where did I put that?
Here it is.
Oh, no, my love. It's not for you. Did you seriously think I'm going to hit you with a hammer?
What kind of monster do think I am?
I love you, my darling.
The mere thought of hurting you repels me.
No, my sweet thing. The hammer is not for you.
What is it for?
Well, given that you proved me that you can't be trusted with your own phone, we'll have to take the phone out of the equation.
Darling, no matter how many times you say please, I'm not changing my mind.
You should have done what I asked you to do.
But, you didn't.
And I won't let this phone or that stupid get in our way of our relationship.
If there is something that you really need to text, like your parents or your boss, you can just use my phone.
Now, back up, darling. I don't want any fragments flying off and hitting you.
1 2 and 3.
See?
Now, it's done.
It wasn't a traumatic event, was it?
Now, you will have no way of contacting her or anyone without me knowing.
It's the best for our relationship, darling.
Now, clean the mess and I'll start cooking dinner.
What?
Of course I still love you, dummy.
You've made me a bit annoyed at you, but I wasn't even angry.
I know that sometimes you're too kind for your own good.
I trust that you will not disobey me again.
Will you?
That's what I want to hear.
Come here, my love. Let me give you a kiss.
Now, I really should start with dinner.
I love you, darling.
More than anyone ever has or ever will.
Keep that always in that pretty head of yours.
Okay?
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