gay people

Added: 2026-05-10

[00:00:00]If you are gay, what are you actually doing? I think you guys need a reality check. Yeah, you do. I think you need a huge reality check right now because this [ __ ] is just getting way too out of hand. Like this has got too far and none of you are seeing that it's got too far.

[00:00:21]And when I say it's too far, I'm the crazy person.

[00:00:26]When a normal nice normal human being like me comes along and says you are crazy and in response that makes me crazy that means it's gone too far right we need to talk about a lot of things I think I want to start talking about beauty standards and ugly people because the brutally honest truth is you are ugly and that's completely fine but for gay people it is so unfine to just look normal and ugly Everybody's normal and ugly. I'm normal and ugly. You're normal and ugly.

[00:00:59]Everybody's normal and ugly. Shut up.

[00:01:01]You're ugly. The world is actually not going to end. There is this weird hyperfocus.

[00:01:08][ __ ] hell. There is this weird hyperfocus on looking a certain way, being a certain way. Gay people seem to think, okay, this affects straight people too, right? Straight people are also obsessed with how they look. But there is a key difference here which is that gay people think that if they only looked better that all of their life problems would be over, right? Like you know, and then you've got the other half, the other extreme because it's always extremes.

[00:01:40]It's like people are extremely obsessed with their appearance or they're just extremely like unobsessed and they just don't care about themselves and they're ugly. I just feel like gay people are either so extremely attractive or just like extremely unattractive. I just feel like that's not normal. I think people really struggle with the concept of just being normal. They struggle to understand that your problems in life will not be fixed if you're somehow better looking. Which is honestly ironic because gay people don't actually care about what you look like because when my Grindrer profile was anonymous, the the the only question people would say was, "Can I see your body? Can I see your dick? Never can I see your face amongst a crowd of shallow people who are so obsessed with looks being shallow. Not a single one of them wants to know what my face looks like. I could be [ __ ] ugly as [ __ ] I don't think I have an ugly face. I think I have a a nice normal face, but apparently that doesn't matter. All that matters is if your abs are showing or not, which you know, it's just to the extreme, you know, like I think straight people, like my straight followers or friends, you guys might find this very strange. Like, you know, I know most of you who watch my videos are straight women, right? So, you might think, "Oh, I like guys who with a dad bod, I like guys who are a bit muscular. I like skinny guys. I like tall guys. I like, you know, whatever."

[00:03:19]But it's not like a requirement, right?

[00:03:21]It's not like you're sitting there asking them like, "Do you do you meet these this specific criteria?" I mean, some of you do and that's why you're single, but I think for the most part, it's like, you know, it's not that deep, right? You're like, "Oh, I like a guy that like that's like this." But really, it's not like you're sitting there treating it like you're an employer and you've received a thousand job applications for one job. Like, you're not treating it like that. Yet, gay people act as if they've got people queuing up for them and that they can be very fussy. And I'm not saying have no standards. [ __ ] I'm not saying I have no standards because I have a lot of standards for myself, but I just feel like, you know, when I match with people on Tinder and stuff and they say to me, "What's your waist size?" Perhaps that's a bit strange. Normally, they're asking me because they've got fat fetish because you guys know like I'm a little bit chubby, right? I'm still on one jar losing weight. The amount of men who message me with fat fetish.

[00:04:18]In fact, I only normally these days get messaged by men if they've got fat fetish or I don't know because they know who I am from my YouTube channel. Like it's always people that are matching you for some strange reason other than just for like a normal reason. It's just very strange.

[00:04:41]This tastes really good.

[00:04:46]I just got back from the gym. It's also the normalization, I think, of casual sex and hookups over dating. And I think for straight people, right, you guys do this as well. It's funny because for straight people, you use Tinder for hookups, whereas gay people, we would use Grinder for hookups, but then use Tinder for like normal dating. It's kind of switched. So, you know, straight people do it, too. You guys have hookups and stuff. Like, it's actually quite normal and it's fun, right? But it's definitely a whole new level with the gay stuff, for sure. But I genuinely think it stems from the fact that gays can't date. They genuinely don't know how to do it. I do not know a single gay person who actually knows how to date properly. Like I feel like straight men, to the small minority of straight men who are watching this video, hi, nice to see you. I just feel like with straight men, you've got like a standard, right?

[00:05:42]You've got a responsibility of like I am a man. So maybe if I go on date, I have to do this or that. You know, gender roles are real, okay? Whether you're going to be [ __ ] woke about it or not, they are real. Shut up. So, I just feel like it's very strange if you go on a date and you know, you're a man, but you're expected to be treated like a princess, whatever. But here's the thing. Every single gay man, gay man wants to be the woman, right? They want to kind of be the woman on the date.

[00:06:15]They want to have the other guy. They expect the other guy to be this or be that. They expect it's like there's, you know, a lot of very campy gay men, but they expect the other man that they're dating to be uh straight acting, which is what they refer to as not being camp.

[00:06:30]So, like when gay men say straight acting, what they mean is just a guy who's normal, like he's not not overly feminine, just like, you know, acting like a straight man would. So, a lot of gay men, you know, they're very camp.

[00:06:41]They say, "I will only date a straight man." It's like you have mental illness.

[00:06:45]All gay men, they want the other man. Do you know what? Even the the straight acting men that they I find that wording so cringe.

[00:06:54]Even these straight acting men are always the biggest sissies. Even they want to be the woman. You would be surprised. the fact you'd probably be you would probably be unsurprised at how many [ __ ] like you know big tall muscular men send me pictures of them in lingerie saying can you dominate me in fact I I genuinely don't I would say you'd be surprised I don't think you would be surprised in this day and age I don't think you would be surprised at how many men straight men wearing an summer's red thongs messaged me telling me that they want me to face [ __ ] them or thing. No, I'm not doing that to you. Even the men who kind of take on this more masculine role want to be the woman. And I'm not shaming that to an extent. You know, I think like a lot of straight men, like I know you guys like it when your girlfriend like takes control in the bedroom. I know you guys like getting pegged as well. Like I know you guys want to I don't know, some of you guys have mummy fetish and stuff. Like I'm actually not judging you, okay? I'm not saying that I'm not being toxic, but you guys know I'm not woke. I just feel like all gay men, they expect the other man to take some kind of responsibility, but then they don't realize actually you are a man, therefore you can take the the same responsibility that you expect from others. Does that make sense? Like, and it's not even about like acting masculine or camp. It's just about like values and decency, you know? If I go on a date, for example, I will always just offer to pay for it because I just feel like I would feel embarrassed if I just like sat there and let them pay. Do you know what I mean?

[00:08:33]I have had men pay for things for me before, but I would feel very embarrassed if I just sat there and let it happen. You know, I wouldn't expect that. I just feel like you have to be the person that you want, right? I feel like a lot of gay men don't understand.

[00:08:48]You have to be the gentleman that you want in other people. You can't just be princess, I'm afraid, and bottom and [ __ ] This was really good.

[00:09:05]It's not just like the dating thing as well. It's also like the weird clicky stuff. Like I was watching Tik Tok the other day and there was this gay gym.

[00:09:13]Okay, this gay gym came up and was like, "Have you ever wondered why there's no safe spaces for LGBT people um in the gym, which which it is. It's the gym is a very gay space anyway. But anyway, and then it was just like this gym full of like all of these very they're called circuit gays, you know, like those gays.

[00:09:32]I'm going to put like Google images, circuit gays, and you're going to know what I'm talking about. Like, you know, it's kind of like all of those people that were in the picture, right? And then I think it was like the next day or a couple days later, I saw another Tik Tok like about this gay book club and it was the same thing. They were just like all white circuit gay men, right? I just feel like may maybe that's that there's an issue there. You guys know I'm not woke, but if you went to a straight People book club, there would be people of a variety of ages. If you went to a book club, a non-gay, straight people, or just like, you know, anyone book club, there will be skinny people, fat people, old people, young people, black people, Asian people, white people.

[00:10:16]There will be maybe somebody with a disability there. There will be people who look different, right? If you go to the gay book club, they all look the same way, right? Because really, it's not about reading books. I think there's a lot of like, it's not just the bodyism. I don't even think that's a word, is it? It's not just the body ism.

[00:10:34]Do you like my trousers? They're from Young LA. They're cool as [ __ ] aren't they? They're so [ __ ] emo. It's not just like the bodyism, it's also the ages and stuff as well. Like I think gay people are very strange. Have always been strange about age. I think it's a symptom of internalized homophobia, especially when it comes to like dating and stuff, right? The amount of times that gay men have said to me, um, you're too old for me or you're too young for me. Just cuz I'm like, you know, I'm a millennial in my 30s. The amount of people that say, you know, like there's genuinely like a lot of men my age, by the way, men my age that are like, "You're too old for me. [ __ ] excuse me. We are the same age, you twat." If you were like an 18year-old, a 20-year-old, whatever, and you were like, "You're too old for me." I'd be like, "Obviously, right?" But if you're like my age, like what the [ __ ] is wrong with you? I just feel like a lot of gay men, they always want somebody who's like aggressively younger than them or aggressively older than them, you know, the amount of gay men that are just like, you know, I only date skinny 18-year-old twinks or they're like, I only date fat old hairy men. That's not normal. Don't tell me that's normal.

[00:11:46]Look me in the [ __ ] face and tell me that's normal. It's also the delusions as well, right? Because to be fair, I've had, you know, messages all the time, you know, of like 50, 60 year old men on places like Grinder and they'll say they want to date me or not date me. You know what they do on the app? They want whatever with me and I'll say like, "Sorry, you're too old for me." And then they'll get they'll start acting like pick me and being like, "You're just shallow. This community is so shallow."

[00:12:12]No, you are delusional for thinking that it's normal to get with somebody half your age because, you know, gay 60y olds are not attracted to other gay 60 year olds. They're only attracted to 20-year-olds. Gay 20-year-olds are only attracted to, you know, older, more mature men or whatever. It's very strange. You guys know like I am chronically single. And I think this is why because I'm the only normal human being in a kettle of people who don't they're not normal. Edit note, don't say that. I'll get cancelled.

[00:12:44]I've told you guys before like I have so many issues with my dating life. It's genuinely not me. It's not me. In fact, most of my friends when I asked them very honestly and most of them say Satch is actually not you. I feel like I'm the only human being in this world, the only gay human being on the the entire planet of trillions of humans that doesn't have internalized homophobia.

[00:13:07]No, I don't. Shut up. You do. the whenever I like talk about these topics on my channel, I always get gay people deflecting whenever I call out these issues. Other gay men attack me and they'll say, "Satch, you're just making a big deal out of nothing. Shut up." Or they'll say, "Well, I'm in an age gap relationship, but it's fine because of this. Why are you attacking me?" Or they'll just be like, "Satch, you're just one of these annoying gays. You're one of these like shallow shallow pickme gays that just like to put other people down. You're one of those gays, aren't you? Hang on a minute. You're just deflecting and attacking me because you can't admit that you have a problem. The fact that you are calling me an annoying gay instead of just calling me an annoying person. You're literally using gay as an insult as a gay person because you have that internalized homophobia, but you won't admit it. So, you deflect and attack me and say, "Satch, you're just rambling. You're the weird one."

[00:13:59]But actually, if you Googled what internalized homophobia actually was, it would probably reveal a lot to you about yourself. But most people don't do that.

[00:14:10]Firstly, because I think more than 80% of the human population is stupid and they don't have the means to realize it, let alone Google it. Secondly, I just don't think it's spoken about enough.

[00:14:22]Even though I'm not like a big prominent social media influencer, like I don't really have any standing outside of my Sim space. I think it's important to talk about these issues. I know most of you who watch my videos are girls. If you have gay men, share this video with them, right? Change their life.

[00:14:40]I just feel like everyone needs a bit of a wakeup call because it's getting out of hand. And I'm saying this out of the kindest place in my heart. Like, you all need to shut the [ __ ] up. Take a step back and look at what the [ __ ] you're doing because it's absolutely insane.

[00:14:56]You have internalized homophobia and that's fine. The first step to resolving a problem is admitting you have the problem in the first place. If you don't admit you have a problem, you will never resolve it. Your entire life is just a compulsion of your issues. That's right.

[00:15:14]Your entire life is a symptom of your issues. That's not normal. Be normal.

[00:15:20]And when I say be normal, because I'm just know people love to take me out of context. I'm not saying that you need to stop acting feminine or camp or something. I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that you can't have grinder hookups. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying the shallowess is not normal. The obsession is there is not somebody bigger and better out there when it comes to dating. You know, there's not always there's not somebody who's better and better. You you've got to settle and that's fine. You've got to settle on someone who's nice and normal and will make you happy in terms of your internal feelings, too. You've got to settle with the fact that you're normal and ugly, and that's fine. Your life won't be significantly better if you're beautiful. Same with just like friends and stuff. Like, I find a lot of gay social groups very superficial. So, I'm not a part of many of them. Everything's just very superficial. Even the labels, the fact that people are calling each other things like twinks, bears, otterters, there's probably a lot more.

[00:16:23]That's not normal. The labeling is not normal. The weird drug sex parties, that's not normal. I was watching this like not a document [ __ ] I was watching it's not like a documentary. It's like a mini series thing on Tik Tok that was talking about like gay people who want to give other gay people HIV and those who want to receive HIV. That is [ __ ] trauma. That's not normal. If you are if you want to do that to another human being, you idiot. You know, I'm just And also, can I just say on the topic of the sexual things, I think there's a lot of like weird fetishes in the gay community. You know there's a lot of and you do you guys know something psychologically about fetishes they always come from a place of repression.

[00:17:09]If you look in like repressed societies they always have the weird fetishes. In the Middle East they like [ __ ] on each other. In Japan they like octopuses. In these more conservative societies everybody has a weird fetish.

[00:17:24]And it's because when your sexuality is repressed it comes out in bizarre ways.

[00:17:30]And I think because a lot of gay people have that internalized homophobia, it comes out in bizarre ways. Again, if you're like being pissed on or something, like lovely, but I'm just saying it may be a symptom of a wider issue here, right? Whether you're into tentacles or you're just going too hard at making your body look perfect and also judging other people's bodies. Maybe that's an issue from within and that issue won't be resolved by deflecting and telling me that I'm crazy. This is all coming from a place of woke love and all of that [ __ ] So, if I were you, I would Google what internalized homophobia is. Maybe do a quiz on like a gay charity website or something. Read the explanations and see how it relates to you. Do a bit of therapy. If you can't afford therapy, just like Google it again, see what you can do. Make yourself happy. I had issues. I admitted I had those issues and I resolve the issues and now I'm mentally healthy. If you don't resolve them, if you don't admit the problem exists and then try to resolve the problem, then it will never be resolved. Okay, [ __ ] off. Bye.