Low EQ Is Costing You More Than You Think 😱

Added: 2026-06-03

[00:00:00]That's the most dangerous thing about people not dealing with especially in men.

[00:00:03]Is when repression kicks in and they they have they're filled with self-loathing or some insecurity and they throw it on you and then just attack you.

[00:00:11]>> You've also got to remember a lot of people have a low emotional intelligence.

[00:00:15]>> Mhm.

[00:00:15]>> And that's what that is. So when they've got low emotional intelligence, they don't know how to regulate.

[00:00:19]>> But then [laughter] it's the But then >> And maybe it's self-awareness as well, isn't it? People If you don't If you're not aware of how you impact on others or how you influence others or even your your your behavior affect others. Sometimes it's just lack of self-awareness. It's really powerful.

[00:00:35]>> telling people stories about who people are based on their their identities and what they even look like.

[00:00:39]>> Oh, wait. Sorry.

[00:00:40]>> You're you're throwing out darkness onto them before they've even opened their mouth, right? You go, "That person looks like the kind of person who would do this."

[00:00:46]>> You're projecting. Yeah.

[00:00:47]>> I'm already ready to to say something because >> Welcome >> Pre-projecting.

[00:00:50]>> Welcome to being black.

[00:00:52]>> Pre-assumptions of who you are and stuff.

[00:00:54]>> Or or or why somebody's looking at you when they like He may be going, "I feel sick cuz the kids made me ill and I'm I'm kind of just scowling at everybody."

[00:01:01]And somebody else may go, "He's scowling at me for" >> Yeah, for something else.

[00:01:04]>> Yeah, for something else.

[00:01:04]>> Yeah, exactly.

[00:01:05]>> Um