They would do anything to regain control.

Added: 2026-05-11

[00:00:00]It's me, Jess. Welcome to my channel.

[00:00:01]I'm here with another message. This is a specific message. It might resonate with you, it might not. Okay, so this energy that we're picking up on, this is big energy. And I just want to give you a heads up. This to me looks like we're picking up on somebody who is narcissistic or with narcissistic tendencies. And I want to give you a heads up that I'm not diagnosing anybody. This does not qualify as a diagnosis. I am not qualified to diagnose any anyone, but the energies that I'm picking up on here, it's kind of like if the shoe fits, I'm going to use a lot of terminology to describe that because what I think I'm looking at here is a narcissistic collapse. And whenever a narcissist collapses, if you've never experienced that, it's a very interesting experience. But a lot of out of the blue things can happen or even dangerous things, things that would be kind of you wouldn't expect it from a person because right now that this person's narcissism, whatever the crux of that was, feels like it is being eroded or stripped away in a way that this person can no longer deny. Because narcissists when they collapse, they deny that that's happening uh for a long period of time. And so a lot of that is just experienced as this kind of like flash in the pan sudden oh my gosh what's happening kind of a thing because narcissism is at its heart a illness of like ego defense mechanisms. So they make an enemy of reality and this is what this person has done for a long period of time and that is the space that is being disrupted in this person.

[00:01:32]I can see this is a very toxic person but they try to appear like they are better than what they are and they put forward some type of fantasy but I feel like in some type of way it is tied to like an inner emotional struggle but this person will frame their inner emotional struggle as I don't know like a hero's journey kind of a story and within the confines of their own mind they're in charge of everybody's role in that story so they get to name the protagonist which is them the antagonist which might be you in this instance or it's somebody here um around you that I think is actually a positive person a good person and somebody who is actually having some type of positive impact here it's just eroding against this narcissistic fantasy that this person has kind of been able to live out for quite some time and I think I picked up on this energy not too long ago actually because we have um indicators of family um not healthy family um emotionally there's like emotional turmoil, but it's it's like a emotionally I want to use the word toxic kind of like family environment. We also have indicators here of this being like routine, something that's gone on here for a long period of time. But this person, this has been eroded and eroded and eroded.

[00:02:47]And this person can't really keep this going for much longer. But that feels wrong to this person in a way that it's not. So this person I think is sitting right on the edge te kind of teetering on the edge where there's a resentment that's growing in this person and an anger that's being kind of stoked and nurtured by a fantasy that they tell themselves a narrative that is based on drama. But I feel like that drama hides like a sense of grandiosity and like an egoic sense of self-importance that is not in balance. But this person uses weaponizes this kind of fantastical narrative that they tell themselves in their mind, but it doesn't check out with reality. And I feel like this person has managed to successfully hide or kind of drape over certain particular variables that if they were discovered, unearthed and discovered within this person and acknowledged, but also externally in this like family or I think it's a family, but like you know, group whatever. um that their whole narrative would collapse and their whatever this narrative is, their ego, their self-esteem is propped up by it.

[00:04:00]It's not a genuine sense of self-esteem.

[00:04:02]It's something that they've had to kind of manufacture outside of the raw real sense of self. So, no doubt this is a person who has some type of low self-esteem. I also feel like there's something here that this person has lost and it's a legitimate loss. And what I mean by that is I don't know what this person's weird narrative is in their mind, but they have lost it because of their own actions, but um and I think part of what this person might do is they compare their intentions with other people's actual brass tax actions. And they shouldn't do that because their intentions aren't all that great to begin with. I think they're just very selfishly motivated. They want maybe power or transformation. I think this person has like a bit of a victim like underdog kind of a narrative. It's just not true to life. And I'm not saying this person's never suffered and that they've never gone through anything cuz I actually feel like they genuinely have. But I also think that it's mixed in with this person's behavior being bad and this person kind of like even trying to hide that. And actually with this and I I hate to even like say this, but if it's truth, that's this person destroys like the truth, but this could also be a person that is evading or like lying about a diagnosis. And I'm talking about a psychological one here as well where they're trying to say it's not that bad.

[00:05:12]And I'm kind of getting like this person has like controlling tendencies, but they make themselves to seem like I think they buy their own [ __ ] where they kind of say, "Oh, I'm like sweeter than pie or whatever." This is what the This kind of looks to me like cluster B, which is dramatic, erratic. Um like where things kind of just always fall apart around this person whenever like because their behavior is bad. But um they might just say that they have trauma, you know, it's that kind of a thing. Oh, I just have trauma. And I think they do have trauma, but that is far from the only story here. They also have the sort of entitled, controlling, doineering, power oriented. It's a big core of who this person is. It's how they've kind of managed life. And I feel like there's something here, some type of it's definitely a part of their presentation, but it's also like something that they've said or some type of narrative about themselves, about a child, about somebody else here. It's not true. And when this comes up in the reading, sometimes I describe it as a hypocrisy because that's the way it like comes through in my mind where that what I mean is that there's like a mismatch.

[00:06:12]There's a contradiction. And in this case, there's a contradiction in this person's narrative about somebody. Um especially if you know this person and like you're aware of their actual actions. There's just it doesn't add up like what this person has like said I think about themselves. um they present themselves better than they actually are and they've presented somebody else that they've deemed as the antagonist in their story and responsible for the destruction that's going on. This person is responsible for destruction that's going on in their own life. The reason that they are being turned away from, not taken seriously, not liked, is because they refuse to incorporate that feedback. And in fact, they don't feel they should have to because narcissistic entitlement. They feel that they're superior. They feel like they're better than everybody else. But this person's superiority takes the form of some type of victimhood. Well, I shouldn't have to because the only reason you could possibly be saying that is if um it couldn't be in alignment with reality, my true enemy. Like it couldn't be that that's actually the truth. That's actually your perceptions of me. That's actually the way that you feel about me and you're actually holding a boundary.

[00:07:10]For me to accept that would like my whole ego identity would kind of come crumbling down, which by the way is a healing crisis and what this person kind of needs. They would need a lot of support through that, not by the people that they take advantage of. clinical support, people who um aren't going to be roped into their like emotional games here because this person always has like a a certain type of drama. And it might not be like all kinds of drama, but there's a certain type of drama that kind of restores this person in a way like in internally I'm just seeing somebody kind of like blow into a balloon or something to kind of prop them back up. Um, and I think this person's longing for that kind of drama.

[00:07:49]And that's why I think this person is dangerous right now in particular.

[00:07:52]they're gonna potentially lash out. But also, I feel like there's been a type of collapse in this person's um life because something that they are used to being able to control, manipulate, rely on for their fantasy. Um or to garner a sense of self like identity or again to like manipulate in order to prop up their sense of self-esteem in order to get maybe there's a certain kind of weak sauce person that like always enables them and like is able to go back to their side. like they've lost some type of control here that feels wrong and it it's it's existential to this person. No doubt it's existential, but it's it's correct in the sense that it's in alignment with truth and this person is getting properly corrected in alignment with truth. So this it's trying to instigate a healing crisis for their highest and good that this person is resisting, but also they tell themselves a narrative in their mind that it's all incorrect and that the people who are maybe standing up for themselves or that they they can't manipulate that those people are all the antagonists in their story. So this is kind of like a it's a sick person that is actually very dangerous especially as things are as people are moving away as boundaries are being set as they're being kind of more called out for the cor like incorrect terms for their behavior which is not like the victim stance you know because I think in the past they could have um okay well let me like break this down because we've got like a squaring energy here and Scorpio is a notorious enemy of um Leo this is Judas and Jesus very um you know energy that that kind of energy this like snake in the grass. I'm jealous of this person who is like, you know, and so I do feel like there's this person here, whether this is you or whether this is somebody else, um, like in a work environment, this could be a new boss, this could be just this is a very like noble person, but this is an integrated personality is what I'm getting. So, this person is virtuous, but you're not going to catch them slipping where this person only pretends to be this. they they only pretend to be this in order to manipulate and uh prop up their fantasy, but it's it's dislodged here. It doesn't really add up because this is like just such a hard squaring sort of an energy. And so meeting a person like for this person who's like I think a collapsed or collapsing narcissist um in some for lack of a better term here. Um and and that the shoe might fit. Okay. But I'm reading for a lot of people. I'm not qualified to diagnose anybody. um that's been a real trigger here because I think it's illuminating the falseness of this person's um lies because I think they also may be told lies about this person that oh they have this kind of like quality beneath them but they have to manipulate in order to manufacture that because this person doesn't actually have a history of doing that and that's what I'm saying is like the intentions there's something this person is weird around like intentions and actions because they misrepresent those things and they also don't compare apples to apples and oranges to oranges. So, when they're talking about intentions, right, this person's like, "I have the best of intentions." When I'm sorry, what is this? What is this then? You have the best of intentions for you and for your own ego. That's not the best of intentions. It's not cooperative. You don't actually have the best of intentions. You're trying to destroy this person over here, the light energy here in order to maintain a toxic status quo. So, tell me how that's good intentions. So, lie number one, but keep telling your fantasy. So, this person is saying, "Yeah, um, you know, that's but my intentions are good. their intentions must be bad because this is the new influence is kind of what I'm getting.

[00:11:08]You know, this light, I'm not used to this light being here, so that seems wrong. Well, not all change is bad, baby. Um, sometimes change is good, especially when you have this kind of [ __ ] going on for this length of time here.

[00:11:21]And that's all it is. It's I think this is like kind of the only person that this is like this change is bad for. And change can always feel disruptive, but it doesn't mean that you just rail against it. there's that quote that's like the most dangerous sentence or something is like well because we've always done it this way like that's what this person is trying to say. So they're comparing they'll they'll paint their intentions as like and I think they know that their actions have been bad because they maybe have been called out by it or people move away from this person because um it is like kind of toxic but this person's like well I only do bad things um because I have positive intentions you know I'm the only one that can see the tr No.

[00:11:59]Um, but they'll they'll compare that to like, well, this person did this and they did that. And I think whatever they did was like leadership oriented. It was strong. It was noble. It was integrated.

[00:12:09]Um, so like this person will have virtues and principles that they sort of live by. And that's it's like I can't allow myself to be around this. Like they're not a hypocrite, right? There's no thought contradiction or lived contradiction within this person as the way that there is in this person which is why it's so triggering to this other person and they can't they're also projecting this image on like what they do onto this person because this person comes across as Leo. They could have strong Leo in their chart but it's real.

[00:12:40]It's not a projection with this person.

[00:12:42]It's a projection. They are a narcissist for lack of a better term. Again, narcissist is a disease of ego defense mechanisms. projection is one of those.

[00:12:50]So they project their inner qualities that they're it's uncomfortable for them to own but it's also ironically the place of power and you find that in these kind of types where they have a weird relationship with power. They don't find power within as oh if I'm acquainted with reality even when things are uncomfortable that's how I can enforce real genuine change in myself and in others and the the changes that I want to see in my life actually unfold.

[00:13:12]They unfold a little slower but they're real and they're that you can keep them.

[00:13:15]No, this person seeks power through strategy and um undermining other people in the external world. And so they're always kind of tipped out of balance because they're not their own solid core. But that's not who I want to say like they're up against here. But this person doesn't view this person as an enemy. They do because of their actions.

[00:13:33]Um they but they kind of feel this person's messed up, you know, like they need help and that they're not doing that. So this is probably somebody who has a compassionate attitude towards this person, but also a strong boundary because they just see this energy truthfully, clearly. and what it is. And also, this person may have had a run-in with this person in the past where this person was able to use their corruption.

[00:13:51]Um, and that's kind of what I want to warn you about is I feel like we're kind of building up to another episode of some type of corruption here. The word episode is standing out. We're building up to another episode here with this person. But, um, somebody here could have they want or this is what they're trying to bring about because they're so toxic is like this beautiful person um that is strong or noble. want people to kind of judge this person and block this person off. And what they also want is this like 10 of cups energy, but they're trying to go after this 10 of cups energy, which is family and happiness and joy by banishing somebody. Um, and maybe there's been a banishing spell done for those of you that feel this person would stoop to such things. I I wouldn't put anything past this person to be honest. Um, and whatever face they put on is absolute superficiality. This person is massively different than the way that they present themselves on the surface. But um they want to kind of banish somebody that they view that they view as a competitor or as like a rival.

[00:14:44]But I feel like that's this person's kind of narcissistic rivalry and like malignant jealousy. That came out in another reading recently. Narcissistic rivalry, malignant jealousy. That's not reality. That's an emotional state inside this person that they're malignantly toxically jealous of of this person's um I I think that it's the superficial stuff like their image, their sway, their pull, but what they're really jealous of is this person's authenticity, the fact that they are not a lived contradiction. And it takes a lot to get to this place. It takes kind of sacrifice. It means owning up to your problems and um actually dealing in that reality over a long period of time. And that's what they're actually jealous of, but they don't want to put the work in.

[00:15:27]So instead, they just want to go around and kind of like I'm like the death eaters from like um Harry Potter. I don't even know if I'm using that correctly, but it's like they just want to eat up gobble up all like the the goodness or all the um you know, light around them and they they have this weird fantasy that they're the power, that they're the victimized one, and that they have to like rail against it.

[00:15:46]And it just goes to show like it's a tale as old as time, right? like um the person who thinks they're the hero is actually the villain. And I feel like that's kind of what's going on here with this person and they're all up in their head about it, but they're fixated not internally. They're not um regulating their emotions because this person has a lot of toxic emotions and I actually feel that this person they are playing like whoever this is genuinely um they're playing a positive role but they're they're in the danger zone here with this person cuz they're being targeted and they might not even know that they're being targeted by this person because they certainly don't deserve it. And this person's a both their actions and intentions are in alignment. And um but this person is trying to pull them apart in order to um this person wants to be the authority on this person on this person's intentions and on their actions. They want to be able to pull them apart in order to control the narrative. Oh well, you did this because of this. And they'll always frame this person in a negative light even though this person is not negative.

[00:16:42]And they'll flame frame themselves in a positive light. Well, my intentions were this or that. And I think this person's family lets them get away with that. uh when their their family really needs to say, "You should stop talking about your intentions so much because your actions are atrocious." And I think um that's really what your actions are what we have a problem with. Your actions are the brass tax of things. Um and you can get a lot of help on the back end like before you actually act in the world.

[00:17:01]And I think that's what this person actually needs. But they don't feel like they should be reigned in because this person's entitled. They're better than everybody, don't you, you know? Like they're superior. everybody else around them needs to reign themselves in in a way that's actually unhealthy, you know, in a way that actually seeds territory to this person that isn't their territory and is unearned. And also, do you like people who do that to you or do you not like people who do that to you?

[00:17:22]These are the things that this kind of this person misses, you know, um like in their little fantasy where they they just kind of sherk the reality of a situation. So, I think something here has been building up for quite some time, but like that this person has been losing credibility, like they've been losing some type of like standing in this family group because people are tired of this. People are tired of this person's games and the way that they just like are. And I think there's a recognition here maybe that this person like either has like a genuine trauma like they've been through things um you know, possibly when they were like drinking. There's stuff here about like all like like drinking schmegs. Um, yeah, like abu, like abuse, e trauma, like all that stuff is like legitimately here. This person might not be the only person who has experienced this if this is like also something that's gone on in a toxic family dynamic. And so this could be one victim amongst victims that is victimizing the victims, like retraumatizing victims. But they don't see themselves like that. They're the only victim, and they deserve all of the medicine, you know, and everybody else gets none. And why don't you like me?

[00:18:27]It's confusing. I need to be told why, you know, it's something here like that.

[00:18:30]It's um Yeah. And so I feel, like I said, I think this person is kind of building up to some type of other ep like an episode. Maybe this person does have like kind of um there's like a cycle here with this person cuz they're very afraid of some type of they're manipulating right now and they're very they want somebody here to go away or they want to kind of like separate somebody out. So, it's either um somebody that is weak and usually enables this person, somebody that doesn't have a strong sense of reality or a strong sense of boundaries or a strong sense of virtue or like nobility that they can kind of pull off to the side and get this person to view them as a victim and coddle them a bit. And once and but that's a part of their pawn.

[00:19:09]Like they want to pull that person aside in order to isolate them maybe from a family here. um to present themselves as a rival, but it's that's I don't think they're t they want to take out some kind of like competitor, somebody who's actually healthy, bright, fun, um uh maybe romantic or something here. GH this is a very very negative negative energy, but they're very afraid of some type of obstacle here um being removed and it's either an obstacle that they hide behind cuz this person is a hider.

[00:19:38]like they they have certain places like if you you know play paintball or something that you run behind this board and then you run behind that tire and then you know they have certain places that they typically hide and they're afraid of those places kind of being removed which is why I kind of think this person is going on the attack and that's what I really want to warn you of because this this collapse here um is kind of where these types cuz I feel like there's something about this person where it's usually drama like maybe an emotional drama and that will take the place of reality um where people should be able to navigate based on reality.

[00:20:09]Okay, this is what happened and then like actually deal in the reality of a situation and that's how you bring about justice, right? Libra is an air sign in that like we what actually happened here in this situation.

[00:20:19]This person will replace that with emotional drama in order to it's a way that they hide. They make their toxic, manipulating, entitled, controlling mannerisms or patterns seem better than they are. Seem like they're just the victim. That's why they're so emotional.

[00:20:35]When no, they use emotions to go on the offense. They use it to to sabotage. Um they use it to distort reality in order to prevent justice from occurring and to continue a pattern of toxicity. And it's because they don't ever intend to change. So that's when another cycle starts up. There's never ever any resolution here ever. Like this person is never going to change this like continuing on in this behavior. Um this person can change but they need strong boundaries and they need it coming from everywhere unanimously and they need to be pointed out that we don't care to listen to your what your intentions are.

[00:21:06]to a certain extent it matters but um you've also proved an unreliable narrator in regards of that we are going to deal with your actions um our actions as a as a family as a group as a unit they will depend on your actions you know we're we're happy to hear that but you need you know if your intentions were better than your actions reflected we're happy to hear that but the the work is on you to get your intentions and your actions to line up okay because it's when they don't you expect to be just forgiven because your intentions were quote unquote positive according to you I wouldn't believe anything this person says though the energy that they're this is just a liar. They they lie in a certain way though emotionally dramatic. Um making come off sweeter than pie. They try to but I just feel like I don't know like I it's kind of obvious to me. It's obvious to me I've but I've studied this kind of stuff you know like in in school I have I've been around people like this. So I think there's probably a lot of people that do fall for this. But I I do sense that something here is changing. So, like I said, this person's working up to another episode. But when people like this kind of collapse and they they feel very desperate, that's when they can start teetering into like really having no conscience about what it is that they're doing. And this person has some type of plan and it's evil and um they've been up in their head and this is somebody who is justifying that plan.

[00:22:23]They justify their strategy. They justify their selfishness. They they double down on it. They justify their entitlement. This person feels entitled to do this. They don't think that they actually have to respond to the group's criticisms of them cuz this is a pretty unanimous voice. I feel like it's more than one person here who's had an experience like this with this human being and they just they don't um like it's the majority. It feels like this person has been called out before or something here. So, um they are wanting to either either this person's been held accountable and it's because there's like some type of new influence and this new influence doesn't exactly have to be in their family either. Like it's leadership energy coming through with Leo. Very smart energy. Look, this is the person who is very protective with that um gargoyle in the background. Very they're this is what they really are.

[00:23:16]And I think this person, look, okay, this these are this is not the same energy. Um, this person is very smart and they are just looking right at this Pluto energy. It's like, I see you, [ __ ] Like, I see you moving around like this. You're not fooling me. But this can also be a very nononsense energy because they're unmoved by this the emotional displays of this person.

[00:23:35]And I think this person tries to say, "Oh, you're cold. You don't respond to like emotion. What kind of person does that?" Um, it's not that this person doesn't respond to emotion.

[00:23:45]Um because emotions, there's a full gamut of emotions, right? And a lot of them for a lot of people are healthy and this person will respond to that. Um it's this emotional display, this decrepit [ __ ] of this like I use my emotions. This person's emotions like this toxic person, their emotions are never genuine. And this person will flat out lie about like about their emotions about like the way that things are. And this person knows it a because they have the light so they're illuminated. They can see, but they also have like a sharp intellect and they notice things like this person notices like little things.

[00:24:16]They notice the hypocrisy in this individual, the lived contradiction, the thought contradiction, the contradiction between this person's expressed intentions and their actions because it kind of takes one like it's not that it I'm hearing like it takes one to no one, but what I'm getting is like this person is noble and it takes one to no one. And this person is trying to present themselves and I've been getting this since the beginning.

[00:24:38]They've been trying to present themselves in Leo energy and this person is Leo energy and it takes one to no one. And this person knows that this person is not the same as them because they know and I don't even think that they realize that they know this but they just know internally what they've done in order to live like an authentic life, a noble life. They know the sacrifices that it takes to live in alignment with one's principles because a lot of times it means that situations don't work out for you. You know, like you have to kind of take the hit. Maybe you miss out on money or something because you it it goes against your virtues. This person knows that like from the inside out. They might not even realize that they know it, but that's why they can catch the weird [ __ ] in this in this person. And this person is startled cuz they're not used to being seen in that light. And it makes them want to fight. It makes them want to rail up and fight. And I think this person, there's definitely this sense that this person feels that they've lost something, something big and something that their faux identity because whatever they're clinging to as their identity is is incorrect. So if if it can be taken out by the truth, it needs to be taken out by the truth. This person would disagree with me on that.

[00:25:41]Uh but the way they would disagree with me is by agreeing with me in their words and then dis and but their actions um railing against the fact that this is what's happened to them. um and they they won't be humble and kind of like go into it and just like kind of you know um yeah figure figure that out for themselves here in some way. But yeah, so it makes them this person has had some type of like major major loss and it's deserved. It's and frankly it feels like it's been a long time coming and also it's in alignment with this push this energy that's trying to bring this person towards the light but they're fighting it every step of the way cuz they're comfortable. They're comfortable in their toxicity. They're comfortable in their darkness. They're comfortable like maneuvering to try to play power games behind the scenes.

[00:26:28]Yeah. And this person may be using like psychics or something like that in order to try to present this image of themselves here forward, but they're going to run into the wrong person, you know, and what I mean is they're going to run into a truly virtuous person who is going to have an opinion about the kind of people that they help. And maybe it's somebody like me who I have spellwork around me. I have intention setting stuff around me where I it's not there are everything that I do is in such alignment with the truth that's on period. Um and that's going to be the energy that wins out, you know. So, but yeah, they're they're watching somebody here.

[00:27:04]Yeah, they're watching somebody who is very independent. So, it could be that they're watching somebody get a break free from a toxic family dynamic that they it's like a narcissist and all their flying monkeys that they have wrapped around some type of weird sense of um hyper emotionality that this person will display. None of it is real.

[00:27:19]When someone's um not every time that someone displays emotion is it real and you hate to um you know, you you hate the thought of somebody going without support. But I think what you'll notice with this person is that um their emotions are tactical. If you really pay attention, you'll notice that they're always kind of self- serving and they're less in alignment with the moment. And actually the the people and the person that this person is targeting, that's the person that's going out without support. So playing into this person's [ __ ] You're not um it's enablement and you're not actually like making sure that somebody doesn't go without support. You're ensuring that the people who actually need support do go without support. And then you cuddle a narcissist who is actually um a bully, but they're just a bully in this like hyper emotional kind of way. But yeah, this person is like maybe they tried to tempt this person back, but this person showed a lot of independence and that got them like very emotional. Yeah. And it felt sudden to this person. And I can just tell that it has no right to feel sudden to this person because the ground has been shifting under this person for quite some time. And they have just denied that. And they've patched that energy up with a narrative. They've doubled down on this narrative. And in order to display this narrative, they have to ignore key variables about themselves and their own inner emotional state. and what fuels that emotional state which is fear of being found out uh because they want power or they want um something to change in the external world. So that's why they put forth like whatever face like whether it's a noble face or whether it's a hyper emotional face they'll choose that emotion like all this kind of goes on behind the scenes um like subconsciously they might not be super aware of that but it's not genuine. None of it's genuine. Um but I feel like something's been shifting under underneath this person for quite some time. like it it has not been working for quite some time and but this person has been kind of denying that and they deny that through some type of like false narrative where they're the protagonist always always always they're the protagonist they've never [ __ ] up um and everybody else that challenges this person is an antagonist and real protagonists get challenged by people and they're better off for it like the right people you know this person also part of their narrative would be well I challenged like this person they challenge person. This person is a challenger. And I mean that in like devil energy, you know, like the the word for devil in the Bible means like adversary. This person is just adversarial. Um it doesn't come from a place of wisdom. When somebody like this is like highlighting something here, when somebody has an intellect like this and is pointing something out here, this is a healthy challenge. This is something that again it's a push towards like actual this is what this person rails against. When a person in this energy challenges you, you know, they say, "Judge me by my enemies." You're probably in alignment with the light. If somebody like this, it has a problem with you. But this person will flip it in their mind. Through a series of mental gymnastics and logical fallacies, this person will make a straw man up.

[00:30:17]Like, this is just an unreliable narrator. And my guess is that they use a lot of emotions and a lot of focus on intentions. All this kind of subjective stuff. This is a person who will double down on my truth. And just so you know, I'm a person who believes in my truth because I do think that we can have a kind of subjective emotional truth. But I also think that there is the truth.

[00:30:36]And I think that the conversation, the relationship between the two can help you with your own self-awareness. Okay.

[00:30:41]Well, my truth, my emotions are this way. But like the actual truth and the reality of what went on in the situation is this. So my emotions were a little bit irrational. Emotions can be that way, you know, but the problem if we're going to solve it isn't um oh well, reality needs to change or this other person needs to change in order so that I can feel calm. I need to feel my emotions and process my emotions, but my brain needs to update the story I'm telling myself about the situation to match reality and that's what's going to calm my emotions or whatever those those emotions that are misplaced come up.

[00:31:12]Like that's what I can keep, you know, like lathering reality on the situation in order to heal the wound. This person refuses to do that. That simple process is what this person I mean it's it's simple to um say, you know, it can be harder to do. It takes like commitment and that's what this person has. This person doesn't. This person's committed to their own selfishness, their own [ __ ] really their own power in the world. But this is the last person who should have power because they want power for all the wrong reasons. It's because they don't ever want to be challenged and they never want to change. This is a person who's scared of changing. They're in [ __ ] energy. They do know it. And they're just they're still pissed about it though. They know that they're they ain't [ __ ] next to this person. They know it. It's uncomfortable for them, but they don't want to change. And so they want power.

[00:31:56]so that they don't have to change and so that nobody can ever challenge them and they don't ever have to get better and nobody will ever deal with the truth of them or see the truth of them because they won't get power if people see the truth of them because they need to address a lot of things here. But that's the thing to make this person safe and to make this person proactive and or not proactive pro-social and cooperative and to get that 10 of cups that they actually want but they don't want to do anything to make themselves actually somebody safe to be social with. But that's what they want is like maybe a family or to be social. want some type of joy, but this is just such a a a doineering kind of person and they challenge reality, which reality in it of itself is doineering and it wins out in the end always. And this person, I think, has learned that the hard way, but they're not thinking like, oh, it's reality that's kind of pushing back on me altogether. They just they make enemies of anybody who is not who is who is completely sane and therefore in reli in um accordance with reality. this person just makes an absolute enemy of that person and they also segment people out like all these people are out to get me instead of like everybody here is um tapped into the same energy you know um okay so I think I've I've talked enough about that but I do just want to say like this person is either gearing up for a collapse or they're in the middle of a collapse and they're incapable of like reflecting and saying my behavior was bad I deserve that I need to make amends so I need to say sorry I need to tell these people what I'm doing to make sure my intentions align with my actions. Like this person needs some serious therapy and they need the best therapist to um somebody who's not going to really buy into this [ __ ] lie um that they put forward um because nothing will ever change. If people only relate to the surface of this person, it's an absolute lie. They're not they're not that person. Um they sort of adapt what they need to show and so they're not actually doing this is somebody who could go to therapy and just kind of go through the motions and nothing will ever change.

[00:33:55]They also, this is the kind of person who might use, they think their therap, you've been around people like this, right? They're like, "Well, my therapist says this or that." Like as if their therapist is the arbiter of like truth and justice. They don't understand that a part of a therapist's job is to validate you and to validate your feelings. Even if it's not in accordance with reality, they have to kind of work you up to kind of realizing like or to asking questions about reality. And again, they they kind of usher you through that that talk, that back and forth between, well, what's reality and what's your emotions and what's reality and what's emotions and what's reality and what's emotions, right?

[00:34:25]Um, and I think that this person may be able to manipulate their therapists um who because this person will they it's tactical that this person does with their emotions like they could um like accuse or like get angry like with the therapist if they kind of hit per you know and that's what I'm getting. I think that somebody here kind of hit per with this person. And it was some type of like trigger and but but this kind of person can get very dangerous when they're exposed and because of the desperation and this like they have this entitled controlling doineering personality. So basically nothing uh is really going to rain this person in except kind of a collective boundary.

[00:35:06]Um, and it's hard for me to say whether or not that's here and like intact or not because I think it's kind of slipping away. Like this person's control is slipping away where like the routines of how this person is able to get their hooks in people that's going away. I can see that. Um, but they are maybe going to lash out and do something terrible um, and planned and strategic and cruel and manipulative. But they do worry about some type of obstacle here that they're either hiding behind, being removed. So that tells me this person has some type of secret they're afraid is coming out.

[00:35:39]Oh yeah, that they're full of themselves.

[00:35:42]Oh, look. But there is a destruction.

[00:35:43]It's I feel like there's like maybe healthy Aphrodite energy here. Maybe an Aphrodite type, which Aphrodite is kind of no nonsense. Like this is Venus energy, but Venus is not the moon. This person has the moon energy. This person, that's another thing. They like to conflate moon energy with Venus energy because Venus is well-rounded, intelligent, and you have heard the stories of Aphrodite. she's really nobody's fool, right? So, um this kind of healthy and somebody who has a healthy sense of self- loveve that maybe this person is trying to present as them them being full of themselves, but I actually think like there's somebody here and I this came up in another reading that is part of spirit's plan.

[00:36:19]So, this person is like actually very protected and it's it is actually going to crumble whatever this obstacle is.

[00:36:26]Yeah, there's something's going to come out about this person, like their au authenticity, but I actually think that there's a bit of a spiritual trap around this person where if they behave in the way that they normally do, they're going to step right in it and not even notice it. But they would have to be going on the offense behind the scenes in order for that to happen. So, um, and that but that is what they're doing. So, yeah. Um, that is what I have. If that resonates, please like, comment, and subscribe to my channel. Bye, guys.