Collective: Control, Lies, and Collapse Of A Toxic Cycle

Added: 2026-05-19

[00:00:01]Hello collective, welcome. This is Divine Empress 71. I'm coming back at you to do another reading. Um, if you are new to the channel, welcome. And if you are returning, welcome back. All right, so let's see what we get for collective.

[00:00:21]All right, so I have nine of pentacles reversed.

[00:00:28]Nine of pentacles reversed al also uh the sun also um okay this is Leo energy and Virgo as well um let's see all right nine of wands in reverse uh this is Sagittarius energy Okay.

[00:00:57]Okay.

[00:01:01]All right. Seven of swords in reverse and the three of wands in reverse as well. So this is seven of swords. Uh this is a uh Aquarius energy. Three of wands. Um this is Aries.

[00:01:17]All right.

[00:01:22]And I have the lovers. Gemini.

[00:01:25]All right. And at the bottom of the deck, I have uh I have the Emperor in reverse.

[00:01:35]Aries.

[00:01:38]All right. H. All right. Let's see what we got.

[00:01:47]All right.

[00:01:50]All right. So um collective collective um what I'm seeing here is that uh a lot of you or quite a few of you have been dealing with somebody who was not fully stable uh with themselves with the nine of pentacles being in reverse.

[00:02:19]This could this could have been uh somebody who was like insecure, overly dependent, jealous, controlling or somebody who struggled with their own confidence um and they projected that on to you.

[00:02:38]This could also be somebody that overspends too.

[00:02:42]They don't uh you know, they could be making the money, but they don't manage it well.

[00:02:49]Um but they but they like luxury things you know they like nice things but uh you know but it's it's something that they don't they don't manage well.

[00:03:05]I feel like some of you were uh was trying to hold things together while this person was secretly struggling uh internally.

[00:03:17]So honestly, it's like you you was carrying this person.

[00:03:26]Mhm. Now, now now with the sun being here, it looks like everything is being um is being exposed or it was the truth is coming out or it has come out. So this all depends on some of you this may be past, some of you this may be you know present.

[00:03:53]Yeah, it's like you are starting to see this situation clearly and honestly, you know, for what it is. I feel like uh I feel like uh some of you already already know something was off. like you felt something being off intuitively, like you sensed something. This is clarity replacing confusion basically.

[00:04:20]Yeah. And for some of you guys, this person may have tried to hide things, avoid conversations, or keep secrets.

[00:04:29]Uh but with the seven of swords being in reverse, whatever was hidden is not staying hidden anymore.

[00:04:40]There there could be some sort of confession receipt uh exposure or somebody finally uh being forced to tell the truth.

[00:04:54]Yep. Somebody might be forced to go ahead and tell the truth. And honestly, collective, this energy feels um it feels exhausting.

[00:05:05]Like this is exhausting kind of energy.

[00:05:09]With the nine of of wands being in reverse, I I feel like many of you are just tired. You're just tired. Tired of fighting for something.

[00:05:22]Tired of overthinking.

[00:05:24]tired of constantly trying to protect your heart while also hoping things would improve.

[00:05:33]Yeah, some of you are emotionally burned out. You know, uh you know, you are emotionally burned out uh from um carrying the weight. Mhm. Carry uh uh carrying the weight of this connection because I as I was saying, I feel like that you carried it by yourself.

[00:05:57]Yeah. I honestly feel like for some of you this this was a connection you carried alone.

[00:06:03]Then we have the three of wands which is also in reverse and this tells me there were delays. There were delays here, stagnation, disappointment, you know, uh some of you uh kept waiting for progress. Yeah.

[00:06:22]Waiting for um consistency, waiting for this person to finally step up, right?

[00:06:29]and it just kept, you know, it just kept feeling stuck. It wouldn't, you know, it wasn't moving. It wasn't uh moving in the direction that, you know, that it needed to.

[00:06:43]But the but the interesting part is we we still have the lovers here too.

[00:06:52]Now, so this reading is really centered around like a um like a major relationship decision.

[00:07:03]Some of you are realizing that uh love alone is not enough if there's no honesty, no balance, no um emotional uh maturity attached to it. Right?

[00:07:20]And then you know some others of you are choosing yourself after continuously sacrificing your peace for somebody else.

[00:07:30]Now uh at the bottom of this deck we have the emperor in reverse and this is somebody who may have wanted control over the situation.

[00:07:44]This could be somebody stubborn, manipulative, emotionally unavailable and controlling too. Or or you know somebody who struggles with accountability.

[00:07:58]I'm also picking up somebody with ego issues.

[00:08:02]Very strong, big ego. Probably more than likely a lot of pride too.

[00:08:09]Yeah, this person may have thought that like they could continue to avoid the truth, but the sun and the seven of swords in reverse together, it says it says otherwise.

[00:08:27]Everything is coming up to the surface.

[00:08:31]Now I feel like uh a lot of you are stepping out of um um like you are stepping out of uh survival mode emotionally and you and you are realizing uh you should not uh have to beg for clarity, consistency or even communication or honesty.

[00:09:01]you know, in any connection, you shouldn't have to beg for that.

[00:09:06]Yeah, you shouldn't have to beg for that at all.

[00:09:12]But somebody was definitely starving you of it.

[00:09:18]Somebody was It looks like they they um this this is somebody that really didn't um they didn't really operate out of feelings. It it was more ego.

[00:09:32]Um they could have been somebody that operated more out of ego, you know, and pride.

[00:09:43]See, I feel like that uh um I feel like that somebody I don't know, somebody may have tried to like maintain some sort of um um some sort of um appearance for a long time, but the truth is becoming um impossible for them to avoid now.

[00:10:08]Um it it's like they they are going to have to address it.

[00:10:14]Mhm. What's done in the dark is being brought directly into the light.

[00:10:22]Um it seems like collective you uh this is like some sort of major awakening for you.

[00:10:39]Um because like I said that this was unstable. It was draining and it was built around control. Somebody had control issues too.

[00:10:54]Yeah.

[00:10:56]I don't know but uh this person was jealous of you.

[00:11:03]Yeah. They were jealous.

[00:11:05]They were struggling with their own selfworth.

[00:11:10]So that's why they pro projected on to you as well.

[00:11:16]See this is somebody who like this this can be a person who appear you like they they can appear to be confident right outwardly but internally they lack stability.

[00:11:36]And they could be insecure too.

[00:11:43]Yeah. I this this is like one of these uh connections where one person became too emotionally, financially or energetically dependent upon the other person too. Uhhuh.

[00:12:00]There's also an energy of somebody not fully standing on their own too.

[00:12:06]They without being dependent on somebody else.

[00:12:19]Um, also with the sun card being here, this this is this uh also shows uh healing, freedom. Mhm. Finally seeing a situation for what it truly is. Yeah.

[00:12:35]Instead of what someone hoped it would be. Yeah.

[00:12:43]that that is what gave you your strength to um um to let this go for you know for a lot of you the eight of cups is not here but a lot of you did walk away you got you got tired of defending yourself too with somebody yeah some of you are got tired of constantly having to defend yourself.

[00:13:17]Then you got tired of somebody somebody keep dumping their emotional bag baggage on to you as well. You tired of that too.

[00:13:34]Yeah, this there there is burnout definitely.

[00:13:42]But somebody is uh somebody could be dropping their guard too after trying to after um being in like being guarded for so long.

[00:13:59]They've been guarded for too long.

[00:14:02]H Yeah. You see somebody's uh see you you caught on to somebody's lies and sneaky behavior. Uh collective you did.

[00:14:19]And you know for some of y'all someone may finally come out and tell the truth after trying to avoid it for so long.

[00:14:26]They may come along and they may come and admit it.

[00:14:31]But you already know though. Like you already know.

[00:14:37]Yeah, you already know.

[00:14:45]Yeah, because you definitely realized this situation was not healthy from the beginning. You and you knew it.

[00:14:54]Mhm.

[00:14:59]Yeah. This this was a situation that did not move forward in in the way that you hoped it would have. Yeah. Not in the way that you expected it to. You know, uh you know, some things have uh fallen apart.

[00:15:19]Um yeah, somebody may have realized that they were waiting on a future that was going to that was never going to develop or fully develop, you know. Um there is like it's like they frustrated.

[00:15:37]Yeah.

[00:15:45]Some of you are finally choosing yourself too after after coming out of this toxic cycle too. It's like you finally choosing yourself.

[00:15:55]Yeah. I don't know. It's like somebody's being forced to choose authenticity over illusion.

[00:16:04]Um Yeah. Um and then also for some of you this could be um a connection.

[00:16:20]Um like this is finally deciding whether a connection could survive once the truth is out.

[00:16:33]Wow.

[00:16:40]You know also with that emperor being in reverse um um collective I also see a person who struggles emotionally.

[00:16:51]Yeah. And they and they hide vulnerability but at uh they they hide their vulnerability behind the arrogance or the or the authority you know. So that this is somebody that you know they um they wear a mask.

[00:17:12]Mhm.

[00:17:16]Yeah. See I don't know. Um, it's like the truth disrupted somebody's ability to keep um everything contained.

[00:17:28]Mhm.

[00:17:29]Right.

[00:17:32]Yeah. Uh it's like there are there are there are unhealth their unhealthy control dynamics has is is is starting to collapse.

[00:17:47]Yeah. is starting to collapse. So where they once had control, they don't have it. Yeah, they don't have it.

[00:17:56]Wow. It's kind of deep.

[00:17:59]It is. It's kind of deep.

[00:18:05]But I will say this though, um, one thing spirit says here is you got to stop stop ignoring red flags. uh collective simply because you care deeply about someone. You know the sun is also asking you to see clear to see things clearly even when the truth is uncomfortable.

[00:18:33]You still got to see it for what it is.

[00:18:38]If uh if something constantly keep draining uh you know uh draining your peace, well uh that you know uh and not only is it draining your peace, but it's uh creating some sort of confusion or it forces you to over overcompensate emotionally. Well, it may not be a line uh you know for you long term.

[00:19:07]Mhm.

[00:19:09]There is a uh release the need to control outcomes.

[00:19:14]Uh release the need to rescue people who refuses um to be accountable.

[00:19:22]And most importantly, you got to stop delaying your own happiness waiting for somebody else to become emotionally available. You know what I'm saying? And you know, healthy love does not require constant survival mode. No.

[00:19:42]See, this reading is is pushing your energy toward honesty, healing, and then also choosing connections that bring peace instead of emotional exhaustion and chaos. Yeah.

[00:19:59]So h but but the biggest thing here is I see you you know you are uh some of you are reclaiming your power you know and your peace and do not overextend yourself trying to fix people who refuses to fix themselves. You can't fix nobody anyway.

[00:20:24]You got to let them fix them.

[00:20:26]And do not be settling for half truths, you know, just because uh you are emotionally attached to somebody. Yeah.

[00:20:37]Um Yeah. You know, and don't be afraid to walk away, you know, from uh from any situation that is not healthy for you.

[00:20:46]If it's not serving you, let it go.

[00:20:54]So it looks like the clarity that you've been asking for is coming or it has came. But now it's about what you choose to do with it. Now once you get the clarity, what are you going to do with it? That is the question.

[00:21:16]Okay. Um let's see here. Let's get um let's get something from spirit and then we'll we'll close this out. Let's see. Let's see this. Oh, yeah. Let's get these.

[00:21:33]All right. Let's see. Let's get a message for um collective, please.

[00:21:39]Message for collective. What is it that you would like for collective to know?

[00:21:51]All right. Spirit says stay present.

[00:21:55]Stay present. That's where life happens.

[00:21:59]Check in with your body and release any tension you are carrying. Collective.

[00:22:06]When you find something that excites you, go all in and enjoy the ride. Wow.

[00:22:14]M and this is another good one too.

[00:22:19]Say goodbye to your past and leave the baggage behind for good. And it looks like what you was dealing with was was definitely uh baggage. It was it was baggage.

[00:22:34]Oh, thank you spirit. Okay. All right.

[00:22:37]Uh so collective that's what I have for this reading. If it resonates, like, comment, share, and subscribe.

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