THE MORE YOU KNOW THE WEAKER THEY GET

Hinzugefügt: 2026-05-13

[00:00:00]The more you know, the weaker they get.

[00:00:04]Think about that for a minute. So, in reference to the education, to the wisdom, to what you're learning, you're now understanding a lot more about humanity, narcissism, toxicity, empathy, mindset, energy, trajectory of your life, purpose, fulfillment. You're learning so much. What you're also learning is that the more you learn about this person you're considering, the weaker they get, the stronger you get. That's why this is a journey.

[00:00:32]That's why this is a marathon. It is not a sprint. This will take time. It will take a lot of time. In your time, you will heal when you utilize the tools that are provided for you with each and every video I create and from all the absolutely astounding, astonishing, amazing, and inspirational messages from every corner of the globe on all the videos.

[00:00:53]At one point, you were known what is known as the new supply.

[00:00:57]New supply is not who you want to be.

[00:00:59]New supply is one of three people, as I've shared for years. They're either a clean slate, someone who doesn't know about narcissism. Number two, they are a recycled source of supply, someone who hasn't cracked the code. Or number three, they are similar to the narcissist. They're another toxic person. Anyway you cut it, the narcissist is either taking advantage of that person or they are being taken advantage of.

[00:01:21]Each and every one of these relationships with the narcissists, plural, they all have an expiration date. They all end. They all culminate with one person left holding the bag and having to heal from a relationship. The other person, or energy source, dark that is, slithers off elsewhere onto other sources of supply. You were one of those sources of supply for a period of time.

[00:01:45]That's why you need to continue to focus on yourself. You need to learn to control what you can control.

[00:01:50]You need to stay in the present moment.

[00:01:53]You need to take the lifelong learning lessons from the past, not predict the future.

[00:01:59]And you need to stay in the present moment. You see, there's a big difference between you and the narcissist. There are billions of differences, but for this video in this exact moment, the main difference here is that you live in the present moment.

[00:02:11]The narcissist lives for the moment. Big difference. Which is why they would take you for granted. And if something better came along, which is in reference to your relationship or to any one moment or second of their life, they would dump you like a bad habit and get a new person. Sorry to say it, but it's true.

[00:02:27]I'm taking the gloves off more and more with each and every video I create to tell you the cold hard facts, the truth that many other people can't tell you.

[00:02:34]And I'll tell you why those other people can't tell you.

[00:02:37]Because they didn't live in the cycle.

[00:02:39]They weren't trapped there.

[00:02:41]They can regurgitate whatever they want to. They can watch videos, read books, and act like they know everything.

[00:02:46]I walked the walk. I lived it. I was broken in a billion pieces, left for dead during the pandemic. I almost killed myself. Yeah, just said it during the pandemic, which was January 6th, 2021. I'm here.

[00:02:59]I'm here to make your life better. I'm here to give you the wisdom. I'm here to give you the answers to the questions that you have and many answers to questions that you don't even know you'll have in the future. And one of those is something the narcissist never wanted you to know about, that you are stronger than you know. You need to believe in yourself the way I believe in you. You need to take the bull by the horns and go no contact. You need to block that person, delete them, remove them, and all flying monkeys and people associated with them. If you've done that, you know that it has greatly, massively improved your mindset, your sleep, your patterns, how much how often you check your phone, and the purpose of your life.

[00:03:38]And your energy has returned. If you haven't, well, you need to ask yourself that question. What are you waiting for?

[00:03:43]And a side note, I understand if you're still married to the narcissist or you still have connections and or this is new for you and you're still healing. I get it. In time, you will understand that everything I've shared with you is not only real and accurate, but it is one of the keys of the universe that I found. I discovered it 6 years ago. You're discovering it right now.

[00:04:03]Any way you look at it, you know things that most people will never even even be able to fathom, which is why so frequently during videos, I say terms like the mountaintop of indifference or you come first, second, and third, or you are the priority. All these coins or the educated empath, all these uh expressions and terms that I've coined over the years. In the beginning, you probably didn't even understand what most of those were. You probably thought this guy, Andrew, creating videos, maybe he's speaking a different language.

[00:04:31]Well, guess what? I was. But now you speak the same language as me because you've been on the path. You're healing.

[00:04:37]You're elevating. You're ascending.

[00:04:38]You're growing. You can't be stuck with the boring, common common place jargon, lexicon, or conversations of the past.

[00:04:46]You can't be one of the people who's stuck in the everyday fog just spinning around. You've now elevated. You've ascended, which is why again, one of the terms I've coined over the years is the third version of you. Remember, there are three versions of you. The first version of you is who you were before you met the narcissist. You were a clean slate.

[00:05:02]You were uneducated on toxicity, and you thought everybody had your best interests at heart. The second version of you is who you became when you were trapped in that narcissistic abusive cycle. You were a pawn. You were a puppet. You were a punching bag. You were a sounding board. You were a walking ATM. You were a walking billboard advertising for the narcissist, and you were a good surgeon uh servant, sorry. Uh indentured servant. The third version of you is the strongest, most galvanized version of you known to humankind. That's the person who's healed. That's where I am, and that's where so many millions of people, getting closer to billions, have now finally gotten the message. Now, have each and every one of these people arrived at the mountaintop, the pinnacle of difference? No, they haven't. But are they working diligently to get there?

[00:05:45]Yes, they are, and you're one of those people, which is why you need to continue to see the light at the end of the tunnel. You need to continue to focus on what you can control, and you need to understand the narcissist took their best shots at you. They failed, and yes, they failed miserably, which is why you are here. You're getting your cup full, and you're understanding by coming back and playing and recording and documenting and replaying the videos and journaling, meditating, perhaps even speaking with a therapist who knows what they're talking about and healing childhood wounds and other wounds, you're getting stronger. As you get stronger, the narcissist gets weaker. As you get clearer, the narcissist gets weaker. As you put yourself back together, the narcissist means less and less to you. As you understand the magnitude of the toxicity that they dumped into you, and believe me when I tell you, you'll be unraveling that for the rest of your life in much, much smaller fashions. I'll give you an example.

[00:06:37]The early days post-narcissistic relationship, it's like an atom bomb dropped off in your life, cuz it did.

[00:06:43]Not only in your life, in your mind and your soul and your energy, the relationships, your time and your money, and everything else. Okay, well, that's cold, hard fact, but over time you begin to focus and understand that that relationship was what it was. It wasn't what you thought it was, and the narcissist essentially brainwashed you, and you were doing whatever they wanted you to do. When you wrap your head around those things, and I'm fast-forwarding through this part, then eventually you get clear, really clear.

[00:07:07]See behind me? See the wind moving the trees? See the lush, beautifully beautifully manicured um manicured uh hillside there? This is what I call the mountaintop of indifference. This is where I am. It's where I've been for quite a long period of time, and I will not be leaving this area. I'm not talking literally, I'm talking figuratively, the mountaintop of indifference for my duration on this planet called Earth. I As long as I'm breathing air, I will be there. You will be, too, once you do the work.

[00:07:35]But one of the main cruxes one of the main concerns that people have, and of course, this affected me for a period of time, but it doesn't any longer, and it hasn't in years and it won't anytime soon or ever. Is wrapping your head around the fact that how could that person do what they did? How could they claim they loved you?

[00:07:51]How could they claim that they wanted to marry you or have kids? Or how could they claim that they had your best interests at heart and all these things and then it all just went away like that. The minute you got married, the minute you had kids, the minute you relocated, the minute you bought them a car or put their name on the lease or put them through school, whatever happened, something pivotal happened and they said, "Yeah, it's too late now.

[00:08:11]Nothing you can do about it. I already took the best of you and I'm going to give you absolutely zero in return." If it was financially, I can assure you one thing, they're not going to pay you back the money that they owe you. If you think for a minute they're going to pay you back the money they owe you, I highly doubt that will happen.

[00:08:24]But, however, my hope is that you do get the money that's owed to you. And I'm not talking about through the legal system. I'm talking if you loaned the narcissist money. There is a very good chance that money's long gone, long gone. I know you don't want to hear that, but if you knew the amount of money that I had loaned out over the years and never got a penny of it back, you would be astonished. And yes, I was duped by the narcissists plural my whole life. But guess who dupes me now?

[00:08:49]Not one person because I can read energy and I know what it is to have your mind mush. I know what it's like to be trapped in the narcissistic fog. I know what it's like to be in a trauma bond. I also know what it takes to break the trauma bond. I also know what it takes to become the generational curse breaker. I also know what it takes to heal. I also know what it's like to help other people heal. You see, I've been on both sides of the table. I've been on the side being punished and peppered and being tricked and trapped and manipulated, essentially being a human piñata for the narcissist, and I also know what it takes to help people break the chains. The four chains, the four ties are the emotional, the financial, the physical, and the spiritual tie. As you cut those ties, you get stronger. As I've shared, the stronger you get, the more you realize that that relationship wasn't as bad as you thought it was.

[00:09:35]It was a thousand times worse, and that relationship would never improve because you were trying to fix an unfixable relationship. You were trying to fix an unsustainable relationship. You were trying to put a foundation down on a relationship that was built on quicksand. You didn't know any of those things. Now you're understanding, which is why each and every video you come back to consume that I create, you will always find some nuggets of wisdom. Some videos I create will have more nuggets than others. Some videos you will have known virtually everything I share, but there's one little twist that I'll throw in there that will keep you informed, and you will say to yourself, "Wow, I never thought of it that way." Then there will be different videos, groundbreaking, pivotal, instrumental, path-clearing videos that I've created for years. Things that no one dare dares talks about on YouTube. Why? Cuz they didn't experience what I did. You need to understand these things. You need to be able to separate the weef the wheat from the chaff or chafe, whatever that thing is. You need to use the discernment that you've acquired.

[00:10:33]Everything isn't how it appears to be on this planet. There are frauds everywhere.

[00:10:39]Everywhere. And you can't take the bait.

[00:10:41]But the beauty of post-narcissistic relationship, once you've healed, is you've now acquired the same thing I've acquired, which is a superpower. This superpower is the ability to not only read energy, but to have boundaries, and to understand that yes, in fact, you are the priority. You come first, second, and third, and there's no room in your life now or in the future for toxicity.

[00:11:00]That's only one of millions of benefits post-relationship that you will discover.

[00:11:05]But one of the main things is that you'll have to realize is the more wisdom you acquire, the more education you uh acquire, the stronger you get.

[00:11:14]This is what these people didn't want you to ever understand. You see, they knew what some of the keys of the universe were way back when. Did they use the same words I used? Absolutely not. But did they know this one word, and you should play this part of the video, and play it over and over and over again. Did they know for one word?

[00:11:31]brainwashing.

[00:11:32]Yes, they did. And guess what? They mastered that from when they were little kids, all throughout their adolescence to their 20s, to their 30s, and on and on and on. And this is exactly how they slithered their way through life by brainwashing people. Now, how many videos have you watched on brainwashing?

[00:11:50]Probably not many. Oh, let's think for a minute. How many videos have you consumed on narcissistic abusive content? A lot, right? Well, there's your brainwashing. So, now you understand just interchange the word narcissist with brainwashing, you get it all. Now, for anybody out there who perhaps thinks that brainwashing and narcissism don't go hand-in-hand, you clearly don't know what you're talking about at all.

[00:12:11]If you have understood what I'm talking about, then you're you're in my tribe and you speak my language, and that's great. You need to understand a few things. I'm getting ready to close the video. One, not everybody has all the answers to narcissism. If you think for a minute somebody does, you would be wrong. Number two, if you haven't been through the cycle first hand, you can claim you know A, B, and C. You can study all the books. You can read everything, but you don't know what it's like to be sleeping next to the enemy.

[00:12:37]You have no idea. So, you don't know what you're talking about. And number three, those of us who didn't have a voice most of our lives because we were punished by the narcissist. Maybe they were our parents, brothers, sisters, romantic relationships, friends, teachers, neighbors. I don't know who they were.

[00:12:54]And that And those of us who finally have cracked the code and figured out what this thing called life is all about, we know what it is. The thing is we weren't in the past accustomed to having the loudest voice.

[00:13:06]Why do you think there's a energy shift on the planet? Why do you think I create videos? Why do you think you keep coming back to consume the videos I create?

[00:13:14]It's because you're part of the tsunami wave of abundance. You're part of the tsunami wave of authenticity, of breaking the chains, of being the generational curse breaker, of having a voice, of understanding that wisdom and education are separate but yet intertwined when it comes to healing, and also of understanding that so many people in in your entire life, and I do mean this, up until the minute you figured out what toxicity was, they tried to have you do what they wanted you to do, or to stop you from doing what you wanted to do, because they wanted to control you. The days of control are gone. They're not coming back anytime soon. And you may say to yourself, "Well, wait, there's a lot of control going on all over the planet."

[00:13:57]Not so fast, Andrew. Well, you would be right. I'm referring to control in your life.

[00:14:03]You need to take control. You need to know that you're the priority. You need to have a purpose. You need to continue to go through the darkness. You need to see the light at the end of the tunnel and focus on yourself. No one's going to knock on your door and save you. No one's going to knock on your door and say, "This is what happened. Check it out."

[00:14:22]The narcissist certainly didn't do that.

[00:14:23]Nobody will do that. At the end of the day, you need to focus on anything you can do to improve your mindset, your clarity, rebuild, and to understand that yeah, the person you're considering knew exactly what they were doing. You gave them the playbook because you didn't know who they were, because they were wearing a mask. And the more you shared with them, the more they weaponized it against you. The more they weaponized it against you, the less they needed to learn from you. The less they needed to learn from you, the more you wanted to talk them. The more you wanted to talk them, the less they wanted to talk to you, because you were becoming old, boring, jaded. Old meaning not age-wise, but they already knew everything about you. So, they needed a new shiny object.

[00:15:04]They needed a new place to to manipulate. This is what these people do. They build people up and tear them down. They sell them a bill of goods, and they leave them holding the bag. The narcissist is akin, and I've shared this in hundreds of videos over the years, they're akin to a used car with a brand new paint job. Underneath the brand new paint job, it's all rusted and there's no engine, there's no motor motor, and the car is a piece of you know what, but it has a brand new paint job and it looks great on the exterior. So, someone comes around, buys it, and tries to drive it off the lot, but it doesn't work. Or maybe it gets off the lot and the wheels fall apart. Boom.

[00:15:37]There's your narcissist right there.

[00:15:39]They perhaps may appear alluring, charming, and so witty or cerebral, or so somatic, or beautiful, or handsome.

[00:15:47]Behind that mask, behind that charade, behind the physical body is nothing but emptiness, a vast wasteland of toxicity, a huge void, if you will. And it has to be filled with what is known as supply.

[00:16:00]You are not supply. You are a beautiful, bright, shining light. So, everyone, that's the video. I hope you liked it. I loved doing it from the beautiful Carolinas. This is Andrew. Namaste.

[00:16:11]Have a great afternoon, evening, or morning, no matter where you are on the planet. You are not alone. I love you all. You are not alone. Remember that.

[00:16:18]And a couple things you need to understand. The more you dig into what happened, the stronger you will become.

[00:16:25]The reality will be daunting. The reality be reality of what happened will be big. There will be a lot of rebuilding. There will be tears.

[00:16:32]There will be times of disbelief and of uncertainty, but you need to continue to focus on yourself and go through that darkness. I personally experienced the dark night of the soul, as I shared with you. I also was discarded 2 days before what was my favorite holiday, and I almost offed myself January 6th, 2021.

[00:16:50]Shared that for years. Guess what? I'm here. Not only am I here, I'm here.

[00:16:55]I mean, here. And so are you. You need to believe in yourself as much and as strongly as I believe in you. I love you all, and I'll talk with you tomorrow.

[00:17:03]Bye, everybody. Bye.