Big Dispute with Ex Husband and His New Wife - Orange City, Florida - October 4, 2025

Added: 2026-05-24

[00:00:00]This is weird. THIS IS WEIRD ASS [ __ ] WHY THE [ __ ] ARE YOU JUST POPPING UP TO MY [ __ ] HOUSE? I DON'T do this [ __ ] to you.

[00:00:09]This is weird.

[00:00:10]I'M I I HAD ENOUGH OF THIS [ __ ] >> ALL RIGHT. WELL, RELAX.

[00:00:13]>> NO, BRO. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.

[00:00:14]>> I'M TRYING TO UNDERSTAND, BUT YOU'RE making it more difficult than it has to be. All right, bro.

[00:00:18]Get this [ __ ] BRO, AND GO.

[00:00:20]HELLO.

[00:00:22]I'm returning this back here. Okay. So, I was thinking I was driving around I thought it was on this backside, but it's fine. It's they're over here. So, this is 106? Yeah, and I do have my court papers and shipping papers here.

[00:00:31]Okay. Um so, essentially you're just going to see about the phone and make sure the daughter's okay?

[00:00:37]>> Yeah. Okay. Is it possible I see if she's okay like if she's I mean, I can't he'd be let you in. If she wants to bring her to the door and so I mean, as long as she's, you know, I guess I can't go inside unless there's exigent circumstances to believe that there's something else going on or, you know, anything of that nature. I mean, it's if she comes to the door and, you know, Oh my god. Thank you. What do you need?

[00:01:01]Why are you Why Why are you here? And then we over here waiting for the police to come. You have my door wide open. No.

[00:01:07]Why Why No, I'm mad because for one, she Her husband was sitting outside of my house. And I'm going to get a straight order against you because that's too far. Like I've been cool with you. I've been keeping it real with you, bro. And you show up to my house. Told you I was going TO GIVE IT BACK.

[00:01:20]That's not even why we're here. So, just relax.

[00:01:23]>> Because she was checking on her cuz I She has a phone her daughter has that she's checking on.

[00:01:26]>> not just sitting in my mouth. I was going to give it back to her.

[00:01:28]>> Listen, lose your attitude with me. I'm not here for an attitude. Okay, then why are you here? I I Was I just not explaining that to you? Chill out. Okay, so why are you here?

[00:01:35]>> me You're giving me grief over nothing.

[00:01:37]Relax.

[00:01:38]>> is annoying. So, this is not >> Stop talking and let me finish. Do you want me to explain myself or not?

[00:01:44]>> Go ahead. I come to the door because she's checking on her daughter cuz she can't get a hold of her daughter who she I guess has a phone for.

[00:01:49]>> Right. Right. So, I come here and knock on the door and I got a fire going there at the door. No adult inside with a baby in the thing and a little one here and a little one here.

[00:01:56]>> I'm >> for you to come up there cuz her husband was literally sitting outside and we like, "Whoa." So, you don't leave them inside, though, is my point. They're too little to be inside by themselves.

[00:02:04]>> Okay, but I'm talking to the police. I was waiting for y'all to come talk to >> Talking to who? Police? You. Y'all You're talking to me. She took my phone and said the police is on their way. And I went outside cuz I'm like, "Oh shit."

[00:02:13]I said, "Y'all stay here. I'm going to go talk to the police." And Dixie, "Go get some pancake mix." While my freaking fiance was in the bed. To go make them some breakfast. I see her husband while I'm driving. We make eye contact. I said, "This man better not come to my house." I come home. He parked right next to our car.

[00:02:30]I FEEL UNSAFE. I DON'T POP UP TO OUR HOUSE like that.

[00:02:34]And no, AND SHE DID IT BEFORE. She came We tell her that she was coming. No, that's invasion of privacy.

[00:02:39]>> Where's the uh Where's the guy?

[00:02:41]>> He's over there talking on the phone waiting for the police. WAITING FOR YOU GUYS TO COME.

[00:02:44]>> SO, I drove by and drove around here and then met with her because she was calling because she's trying to check on her daughter cuz she can't get a hold of her or you guys.

[00:02:51]>> She had my phone. She did not call my phone one time, sir.

[00:02:55]Not one time this morning, sir.

[00:02:57]And let me call Let me call Demonte because he's here. He's literally around the corner waiting for you guys. Well, I mean >> And I'm sorry about the meeting up.

[00:03:04]>> have known to meet with him because I'm not here to meet him. So, him standing out front is doing you guys no good because I call I I'm only here because she called us to come here. Exactly. The police was coming. I get that, but my point is you guys are waiting on us to show up, but at the end of the day, I wouldn't have known to meet with you guys. Yes.

[00:03:23]Police over here and THEY GOT ALL THE FOOD OPEN. TELL MY SON WE LEFT THE KIDS ALONE BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE CALLED the police AND WE STILL OUT HERE AND WAITING FOR THE POLICE.

[00:03:33]I'M NOT BEING NICE ABOUT THIS NO MORE, BRO.

[00:03:35]LIKE, YOU CAN'T JUST KEEP POPPING UP ON MY HOUSE, BRO.

[00:03:38]THIS IS WEIRD. THIS IS WEIRD AS [ __ ] WHY THE [ __ ] ARE YOU JUST POPPING UP TO MY [ __ ] HOUSE? I DON'T do this [ __ ] to you.

[00:03:47]This is weird.

[00:03:49]AND I'M I HAD HAVE OF THIS [ __ ] >> ALL RIGHT. ALL RIGHT. WELL, RELAX.

[00:03:52]>> NO, BRO. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.

[00:03:53]>> I'M TRYING TO UNDERSTAND, BUT YOU'RE making it more difficult than it has to be. All right, bro.

[00:03:57]Get this [ __ ] BRO, AND GO.

[00:04:00]YEAH, HERE YOU GO. Thank you. I did see you standing out there when I drove by.

[00:04:03]I didn't realize that you were waiting on me. So Cuz she had cuz cuz cuz she had cuz cuz she had called to check on her daughter cuz I guess the phone that you guys have was cuz she did call because she was concerned cuz she couldn't I guess the phone she has for her daughter, she can't reach her on it. And her daughter has been I guess her daughter was y'all's daughter sick at some point yesterday at school. No, yeah, but she's been feeling better the whole time and so So she was both concerned she couldn't reach out, couldn't get a hold of you, couldn't get a hold of her on her own phone. Okay.

[00:04:28]>> That's why we're here. All right. All right. I'm not going to I'm not going to I'm not going to sit here and split hairs. I get your girl inside is mad cuz we're here whatever, but Right now, my lady wants a restraining order on me.

[00:04:38]>> do that. That's up to the court. You're going to have to go to the courthouse. I don't do restraining orders. That's That's a court document. You got to go through the court.

[00:04:43]>> She's popping up at our house. We don't pop up at our house and everything and I don't know what's going on. Like I still want to see her man because at the end of the day I need to let him know stop bringing up my name, stop bringing up my daughter name and this and that. Okay, so I don't know what was told yesterday because at the end of the day my lady called me and was just like he keep bringing up y'all name and you and your daughter name about this and that and etc. So at the end of the day like I said, I would like to address to him and let him know like like I have the court as well, but at the end of the day that this ain't got nothing to do with the court. At the end of the day like I said, I really would like to address to him and let him know like he needs to Well, I can tell you this much, all right. I don't I don't know what in what facet your name is coming up and he's talking or whatever, but at the end of the day I'm going to tell you this much, it's not going to be worth the headache cuz I mean obviously you have No, I don't know because at the end of the day I just try I try to stay that's why I don't say nothing to her. When she text me that long text oh, we could just go back and do this. I say, "Okay, cool.

[00:05:43]That's fine. I don't really mind." At the end of the day you're the one that chose to break her phone this way because you want to try cuz you want to call her. You want this So in the day keep that phone that way. She have a phone this way. At the end of the day, the money problem and the phone problem ain't no problem this way. None of that is no problem in this down in the suburb. Like at the end of the day, she keep everything over there. She can do whatever she want this down in the suburb over there because at the end of the day all that like trying to track whatever what she go like soon as my lady turn her phone off yesterday, she was blowing up her phone. Got you.

[00:06:14]Blowing up her phone. So at the end of the day did did did no and then as soon as all that happened and everything, your your manager is my damn daughter.

[00:06:23]So at the end of the day, yes he is. So at the end of the day like I don't care.

[00:06:27]Okay. the end of the day Come on. No.

[00:06:29]I'm getting my daughter. BRO, COME STOP. STOP.

[00:06:53]CUZ HE TOLD YOU. OKAY.

[00:06:56]Obviously this is not a good environment for her to see and deal with, right?

[00:06:59]That's why I'm trying to take her in the house, but We can't We can't We can't do this. I mean it's not happening here.

[00:07:03]I'm trying to talk with you with her not over there and everything and that's why >> to we need to make it a little more civil, a little more comforting for the child. Not I mean I know y'all have your differences, but at the end of the day it's what matters for her. You could have just seen him just snatch her up from me as she's giving me a hug and stuff. You see what he just did. No, I'm trying to take my daughter in the house. I did not push you. I already did You just told you You just let my daughter go.

[00:07:26]You were trying to sit and hold my daughter.

[00:07:30]Okay. I'm trying to >> He's got It's his visitation time. So he's going to He's going to have the daughter till tomorrow. I know that.

[00:07:36]Okay. So you could say bye and we can move on from this and everybody can reconvene at a later date when this is more patient and civilized because right now tensions are hot and everybody's getting upset and it's just making things way worse than it has to be and it's all happening in front I got no sleep long enough that people coming to my house popping up at my house once again. Like the last time she popped up at my house And this and that and so forth. She popped up at my house and everything for no reason. Can I just do that?

[00:08:06]Can you put her down so I can help her goodbye? I'm not going to take her. I'm taking her going in the house, bro.

[00:08:12]But you just just hugging at the end of the day. Like I don't know what you got going on. You're weird. This and that and so forth. You need to get a [ __ ] life, bro. Like for real. Like you're weird, bro.

[00:08:24]Okay, just say goodbyes and and Nobody's not upset. You used to want to have another baby with me. You would hit me up talking about that you want to [ __ ] me this and that and so forth. Like come on, bro. Nobody don't want to touch you and that ass, bro.

[00:08:38]Have a good day. All right. Have a good day. You'll see mommy tomorrow, okay?

[00:08:42]You call on out 637.

[00:08:44]You call that 67. Have a good day. I love you. Have a good day. Good night.

[00:08:50]Going in the house, baby. All right. So all right, so she she's good. She's fine. Did you get the phone? Yes, I did.

[00:08:57]Okay, so you have the phone. Okay. Thank you.

[00:08:59]>> All right.

[00:09:00]I'm telling you guys listen, I'm a parent too. I got two young kids myself.

[00:09:05]What you guys are dealing with right now is very very bad for the But listen, that's irrelevant to me.

[00:09:13]That's irrelevant to me. My my point Listen, my point about this whole thing is this. Y'all have got some some some issues you need to work out which I get, right? But for the sake of your daughter you guys share together, you guys have got to not do this stuff in front of her because it's not going to end well for her. Long Yes, sir. I understand.

[00:09:30]>> All right, and that's just what that and that that's where I'm at as far as this.

[00:09:33]Y'all can have your differences. That y'all are grown adults.

[00:09:37]That child doesn't get a say. It's tearing her up.

[00:09:43]I get it. Well, the other thing is this, I mean I know you were out there waiting on me and I when I drove by all I seen was you. I didn't see her and I wasn't I didn't drive by here for 2 minutes.

[00:09:53]I understand.

[00:09:54]I can tell you right now don't leave these children unattended. I know she probably come out to check on you or whatever, but you got to get these kids inside.

[00:10:06]Well, when I got here she was not. She come walking around the corner.

[00:10:12]I understand. I I was calling dispatch and then You're talking borderline borderline issues.

[00:10:19]issues there. You know what I'm saying?

[00:10:20]Leaving the children. I mean whether it was you or her who left them for the brief minute she walked around to go get you, whatever the case may have been whatever it is, do not You got two minute You got three little ones in there. They ain't They can't be in there by themselves, regardless. Or whatever.

[00:10:33]You can't be in there by themselves like that. I understand that, but this is this phone issue If you guys need to go through the court system, if she's looking for a restraining order, you want a restraining order where she can't be over here, you and as far as child custody stuff Listen, what I'm getting at is this.

[00:10:49]What I'm getting at is this, right? If you don't have legitimate business to be here at the doorstep or in this Do you have family who lives in this in this apartment?

[00:10:59]So then you All right, I'm not doing this to start an argument.

[00:11:02]I'm asking you a question. Do you have people who live in the That's fine. The big thing is this, right? When when things come into play, when courts put in orders for range restraining orders, there's distance restrictions, there's contact restrictions of all kinds.

[00:11:16]So at the end of the at the end of the day, if something comes up where there's one put in place and you happen to come over here, it could be end up bad for you and vice versa for him.

[00:11:25]So my thing is this is is is is just try to keep the peace as best you can. Okay.

[00:11:33]>> Um Again, I don't know either one of you from Adam, so I'm not going to sit here and split judgment on either one of you, right? I can't do that. But, what I can tell you is that if this continues, there's going to be more than issues down the road for both of you guys because it's not going to do you any favors long term. I understand your concern as a parent.

[00:11:47]>> have your badge number? Yes, ma'am.

[00:11:49]OC1289. OC12 89.

[00:11:54]And it's Officer Hoffman, as well.

[00:11:56]Hoffman? Yes, ma'am.

[00:11:58]So, just for the sake of the child, you know, just keep it as calm as you can. That's all That's all I'm saying. I want to go to the courthouse Monday and get this restraining order because we don't pop up at her house today. I get it. Yes, he does. Yeah, so at the end of the day, we're going to get that taken care of and make sure she doesn't come back this way because if she comes back this way, she will get arrested. Okay.

[00:12:18]And that's fine. Like I said, you guys are well within your rights to go do your own thing as far as restraining orders are concerned and all that stuff.

[00:12:23]My suggestion of moving forward is if you guys are going to exchange the child, if it's going to be tension involved with the spouses and everything else going on, I'm just saying, what I'm getting at is this. What I'm getting at is this. Do it in a neutral location. I always suggest We Yeah, we always do it at the police department. You guys can do there. There's cameras there. If something happens, there's video footage of everything, okay?

[00:12:41]I appreciate it. Outside of that, the Bear police station. Yeah, so if you guys if you guys do that, that's that's where I suggested it, okay?

[00:12:48]Uh you have any questions for me, bud?

[00:12:49]Um no, that's a thing. And I will be picking my daughter up every Thursday.

[00:12:54]I'm letting you know cuz it's in the court order. Every Thursday, I'm going to be picking her up every Thursday and we will not be She don't need to be going to school to pick her up when she's sick or whatever. I will come pick her up. I will let the school know No, that's again, that's a that's a court thing. That's a court thing that they they did not say that she picks him up. I pick her up. And she's not even a parent. And if she's on the parent pick up list, then she goes out to pick up a child that that the school's not going to refuse her.

[00:13:19]But, let me say it. Let me say it.

[00:13:21]Okay. I got my own court because at the end of the day, you're lying. All right.

[00:13:24]So, I'm about to go get the restraining order though and everything and Monday and everything cuz I don't know she's [ __ ] slow like damn I said I'm sorry bro like I don't know what the problem is but >> So you guys do [laughter] what you got to do through the court system, okay?

[00:13:37]Appreciate it. Yes, sir. Thank you, sir.

[00:13:39]What's up? Have a good day.

[00:13:40]>> Yes, sir, you too.

[00:13:43]All right. So, like I said I don't know what this situation is between the two of you. It's obviously it's not good. No, not at all. Um my sug- I understand my suggestion is is to you know, if they're acting on restraining orders, maybe you do the same thing.

[00:13:58]Don't allow uh the child exchanges to happen unless they're happening in a like a secure area as far as like cameras and stuff at the police station, things like that. Obviously things are getting heated.

[00:14:09]Um And he did not bring the car seat.

[00:14:11]And that's and that's that's that's the big dilemma for the child unfortunately and that's the biggest thing. You don't want to have the heat with the child there because that's It's not healthy.

[00:14:19]There what's Yeah, absolutely it's not and that's very detrimental to a kid to see, you know, parents going at it like that and having disagreements like that.

[00:14:27]So, um just, you know, do what you can through the court system. Sounds like you got your ducks in a row there as far as that's concerned.

[00:14:33]>> Yeah.

[00:14:34]So, keep moving forward with that.

[00:14:36]But in the meantime, you know, try to avoid contact with them unless you absolutely have to like meet with, you know, to get the child. Uh but that would be the only time I would say having kind of communication with them.

[00:14:47]So.

[00:14:48]Okay? I appreciate the information.

[00:14:50]Absolutely. Yeah.

[00:14:54]Yeah.

[00:14:56]He got it.

[00:14:57]Hey, devil too. Hey, listen.

[00:15:00]What did I say? We're not coming out here to create problems.

[00:15:02]>> I'm not creating I'm just letting them know like come on bro like this the last time I'm letting you know and you know, I'm just saying don't bring them in my daughter, please.

[00:15:11]Thank you. Have a good day.

[00:15:12]>> All right.

[00:15:13]Hey, um another thing I told you over here.

[00:15:20]No, I was basically trying to sit here and say that um I don't know what her man got going on because at the end of the day I think he's touching my daughter, but she's trying to hide that and everything because apparently when we was going to court she was sitting here saying stuff about old with um UTIs and all chlamydia and this and that and etc. blah blah blah and all this other stuff. I don't I don't know what they got going on over there and everything and I don't know what it did cuz I did not have my daughter for like literally like one day through the whole time going to court for one to five. So now that I have beat her in the court and everything and got my daughter like every other weekend and stuff like this it seemed like all that stuff went away with this, that, all this other stuff and etc. So I'm sitting here just like I don't know what she got going on, what he got going on, if they're touching my daughter or this and that and etc. because I got court pictures to show you her having my daughter layers wild over to take pictures of her with and this and that and etc. That's child Where do they Where Where do they live at? Um they live in Deer Park. They stay all way over there and everything, but they stay way over there. That's why I was like what do they need to be doing way over here? Like at the end of the day yeah, you came for the phone or you want the phone dropped off this and that and etc. but it seemed like all this over a damn phone because my lady turned the phone off and now it's all this and that and all this other stuff. Yeah. Um you know, any any you know, accusations stuff that you may have in reference to potential uh you know, issues with your daughter with this. Obviously I would bring that up to the judge and let them know what you're you know, what you're speculating.

[00:17:00]>> Yeah. The court all the court is over with so it's just like >> can always revisit it. You can always go back to this and >> they said another four years. I talked to my lawyer about it. Uh I yeah, talk to your lawyer though also about what you're thinking's going on and see if he can bring stuff to the table for something else for another case of some kind and see what they can do because a lot of times if it's happening if something like that is truly going on, you know, obviously if them being in the barrier that's the county jurisdiction not Orange City. So they would have to be the ones to go there and investigate anything. I've talked to them in regards to that if that's where it's occurring at. But definitely bring that information up to your lawyer and speak to them about it and see what they think if they should if they have anything to go back to court on. You know what I'm saying? That would be my my way my my best advice to you and and course of action for you is to you know, visit with your lawyer, give them what you're telling me, say this is what I think might be going on.

[00:17:47]Can't say for certain but I believe something might be going on and they'll give you that legal advice as to where where you need to go with it and if it's something needs to be brought back to the to the courts. Okay. But that's the way I would go with it. Yes, sir. Okay.

[00:17:59]I appreciate it. All right. Yep, not a problem sir. Okay. Yep, not a problem.

[00:18:02]All right, take care.

[00:18:06]All right. All right, just All right.

[00:18:10]All right.

[00:18:12]I think something's wrong with him.

[00:18:13]Yeah, I it's just Is it Is it possible I'm not sure if they're recording but definitely the request I actually would like to put it for our court purposes cuz Yeah, you can go through the police department and they they they will do a public records request for it. Okay. Is this Is I can give you the event number for this call.

[00:18:28]>> Okay. Sounds good. That That's great cuz this has been going on for 5 years.

[00:18:31]Yeah. Making accusations, lying I'm telling you I've been telling her this I think he's mentally insane. He's He's mentally crazy. Yeah, I mean at the end of the day I mean I'm not going to sit here and split hairs about it and tell you you know, what it is. I mean I I'm not a mental health doctor. I mean obviously so uh we deal with a facet of different things throughout our day. Um you know, obviously tensions are high right now.

[00:18:53]People are upset. Things you know, tend to get a little out of control sometimes but like I was telling her, you know, all the arguing and bickering back and forth and stuff, you know, with the with the daughter involved in the middle of it all seeing and hearing it is is you guys got to find a way it's not and you guys got to find a way to to to not have that type of conversation around her. Uh I know it's difficult cuz she's in the mix, but when it's all said and done, I mean, you know, she's she's absorbing kids at age, you know. I mean, they're sponges, man. They they see it and they just absorb and they they they see that and then it turns into more, you know, dramatic stuff for them as they get older.

[00:19:27]Um and that's only coming from experience dealing with this job the last almost 10 years I've been doing it.

[00:19:31]I've seen a lot of that stuff happen where kids they grow up and they get a little disgruntled and get anger issues and things of that cuz of what they witness as children, you know. So, it's happening. Yeah. So, it's very hard and that's something you want to try to avoid as best as you can because it's not going to be good for her. But, let me get you my card with the event number on it so you can uh you can have that.

[00:19:49]Um and then you have like I said, you have you said you have the phone, yes?

[00:19:51]Yes, I do. Okay, so you have that, okay.

[00:19:53]Um and then I said tomorrow if the child exchange is going to take place tomorrow >> not cuz he probably will take her to school. Okay.

[00:19:59]>> And he doesn't have a bag. He doesn't have any of that stuff. I have all that stuff in my bag. So, my suggestion to you, where does she go to school at? The Berry Elementary.

[00:20:06]So, what I would suggest maybe is tomorrow morning, obviously you know she goes to school in the morning, right? Or no, I'm on Monday, excuse me.

[00:20:12]Um if she doesn't have any of that stuff, maybe you could swing by the school and drop it off for her if he doesn't have it. If you guys aren't going to exchange before then. Okay.

[00:20:19]That's about the best option I can give you. I mean, cuz as it sets with us as law enforcement when it comes to child custody exchange stuff, we don't get in the middle of that. So, as far as like for us when we show up somewhere, if the child is with dad, we can't force the child away from dad.

[00:20:34]>> Yeah. Just as whereas if you the child was in your car in your custody and you had visitation rights at time and you were with with your child, we can't force you to give your child up to him.

[00:20:42]>> Yeah. So, that's just kind of how that works. That's that's what we don't get involved in in that stuff. So, um let me get you what you need for this and then uh you guys can do what you got to do. Okay. But, definitely visit the courts and try to get like they're trying to set up your training order or whatever it is so you guys don't have to have that contact any longer.

[00:20:59]Okay. You're welcome.

[00:21:02]So, you said I can go to the police department. Which police department can I go to to get the video?

[00:21:05]>> Anyone. Oh, oh, I'm I'm sorry. Video.

[00:21:07]Orange City is on the card. The The address on the card, 207 North Holly Avenue. Okay. Three months before this.

[00:21:13]>> original used to be. Yeah. Yeah, we've gone back into that building. So, we're we're back in there now. So, everything's set up and we're back in operation at that other building where you were doing the exchange is at. The side parking lot between the fire department and yeah.

[00:21:25]>> is that where we parked? Yeah. Yeah, so continue to go there to do that there for the exchanges if that's Well, is that the Debary police station now?

[00:21:33]>> That would that too. You can do it there, too. Yeah, either one of them will work. There's cameras all the way around those buildings. So, if for whatever reason something got out of hand or something stupid happened, you know, it would be at least recorded.

[00:21:43]Okay. So, okay. Is there anything else I can help you out with? Um, no. Exactly what do I tell them? Like, hey, I'm just trying to get the video.

[00:21:50]>> Just say there's a um, cuz that's what they call an event number. It's not a case number, it's an event number. Okay.

[00:21:55]Just say that uh, I was the officer who responded uh, to check on your daughter and when I did, um, you know, you want the video footage from that and they should be able to look it up from that uh, event number.

[00:22:06]And they should be able to get the video that way. Okay. Okay. Thank you. All right. All right, not a problem. Yeah, absolutely, anytime.

[00:22:12]>> You have a good day. You too, thank you.