Unlock Emotional Intelligence: Stop Misreading Yourself & Others! #shorts

Added: 2026-05-23

[00:00:00]The capacity to identify what one is feeling develops through interpretive clarity required to read other people with nuance. And when that clarity is weak, a person tends to rely on assumptions which make an ass out of you and me. but rely on assumptions as to what's happening within themselves and reading somebody else's what's happening in that person. It's these stereotypes, these boxes, these assumptions we lay on people, right? And so these areas of assumption, speed, and habit may confuse discomfort with a with hostility. You know, it can um cause directness to be direct with aggression or somebody could say that they're they have empathy or they're sad.

[00:01:08]But it's it's indifference. And this happens because the inner instrument through which they interpret emotional cues is already compromised because they cannot see.

[00:01:22]they cannot read their own emotions.

[00:01:25]This goes all across every context of life. And the idea about projection which I was going to say is that if people are projecting their internal emotional world into a 3D reality and seeing what they feel about themselves reflected in others, that is a misread and it impacts all levels of relationship, right? And so an example, a clear example, take a woman for instance, divine feminine energy and that could be any identified gender identified woman, you know, sharing something vulnerable, tell them a secret they never told anybody else with a friend, somebody they trust, and they notice that their friend has become quiet and serious.

[00:02:25]If the divine feminine energy sharing this secret has an inability or little ability to discern her own insecurity, her own emotional state of insecurity.

[00:02:45]She could come to the conclusion that the friend is judging her because she got because the friend got quiet or is not interested.