You will not FLUENT until you understand this - The Fastest Way to Speak English (Proven by Science)

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[00:00:00]Hi, you want to learn a language as fast as you possibly can and for the sake of this video, let's talk about English because that's because that is probably exactly why you are here, isn't it?

[00:00:16]Honestly, you tried the obvious things.

[00:00:20]You started watching movies in English series, YouTube videos. You changed your phone language. You downloaded so many apps, right? The one that sends you guilt message at 11 p.m. like it's personally knows you failed. You kept the streak alive for 3 weeks, maybe longer, [snorts] and then oh, someone asked you a simple question in English, real life, and your brain just went blank.

[00:00:54]And [snorts] you smiled and nodded and pretended you understood.

[00:01:00]We see you. Seriously, we really really see you guys. This is too specific. And that has happened to me more times than I want to admit. Like way more times. It has happened to everyone. And it will keep happening until you change one specific thing. Not your vocabulary, not your grammar, your mindset.

[00:01:27]Now even on this channel we have given you methods before comprehensible input.

[00:01:33]The 30 minutes daily loop shadowing techniques and those are good tools, real tools, but tools without the right mindset are like a hammer you never pick up. They just sit there doing nothing because the real block is not knowledge.

[00:01:52]The real block is belief. And in this video, I'm going to show you exactly what beliefs are keeping you stuck. And this actual and the actual psychology language learning proven by real studies and a clear 30-day plan that you can start today. No pen, no paper, no boring grammar lessons, just the truth.

[00:02:20]So let's go. So this video we will learn the mindset, the proven psychology behind learning any language, including English. So if you follow what I'm going to teach within 30 days, you will outturn most traditional language learners. The ones who have been binge watching movies for years and are still stuck. exactly what they started. I'm going to change that today. The first thing I need you to understand before anything else is that you are not the problem. I mean that the problem watching this are not lazy. They are not stupid. They are not bad at languages.

[00:03:01]They are doing the right action with the wrong belief system. And the difference is everything.

[00:03:09]So let me give you an example here to make this clear.

[00:03:13]You want to get fit, right? You join a gym. You show up every day. You lift weights. You sweat. And but deep inside you believe your body cannot change. You believe you are just not a gym person.

[00:03:31]What happens? You go through the motions, but nothing really sticks because your mind is quietly fighting your body every single day. Language learning is exactly exactly the same.

[00:03:45]You can have the best method, the best content, the best teacher in the world, but if your belief system is broken, the language will not enter. It hits the wall, bounces off. So what are the broken beliefs? Because the I guarantee I have some. I mean, you definitely have some. There are three of them and I want you be to honest with yourself as I go through each one. Okay. Broken belief number one. I'm not a language person.

[00:04:19]You have said this maybe out loud, maybe just to yourself. Some people are just good at languages and I'm not one of them.

[00:04:31]So here is the truth and I need you to really hear this. There is no such thing as a language person, no special gin, no talent that people have and others do not.

[00:04:44]This is only the right environment versus the wrong environment. And I will explain exactly what I mean by environment in about 5 minutes because it is connected to the most important science in this entire video.

[00:05:00]Broken belief number two. I am too old to learn a language fluently.

[00:05:07]This one is not just wrong.

[00:05:09]Scientifically reversed. 2014 study published in psychological science. One of the most respected journal in the world found that adult learners when given the right input can reach native level grammar faster than children.

[00:05:28]Faster not slower. faster because adults have larger existing vocabulary, more life experiences to connect new language to stronger pattern recognition. The adults brain is actually more powerful for this specific task.

[00:05:47]Then why does everyone say children are better at language? Because I grew up hearing my whole life. Because children have one advantage, adults lost. It has nothing to do with the brain. Children do not care about sounding stupid.

[00:06:06]That is the entire advantage. [snorts] Not neuroscience, not brain plasticity.

[00:06:12]The ego, that's it. A 2-year-old will say the wrong word 30 times in front of everyone and not feel a single thing.

[00:06:21]You say the wrong word once and you want to disappear for a week. And I mean it.

[00:06:28]You know exactly what I mean. That shame is costing you months of progress. Which brings me to broken belief number three.

[00:06:37]This one, this one is the most dangerous of all. Fluency means no mistakes. This belief is why millions of people never open their mouth in a second language.

[00:06:48]They wait until they are perfect. And perfect never comes. and they wait forever and the language stays lock in their head when nobody can hear it including them.

[00:06:59]I will prove to you very soon why mistakes are not the opposites of fluency. They are road to fluency. The actual road, the only road that one hits because honesty that is me. I know what I want to say but I'm afraid it will come out wrong. So I I say nothing and the moment just passes and by saying nothing you get no practice by getting no practice nothing improves and the fear just grows right it's a loop and we are going to break it today guys only I need to tell you about a man named Stefan Crashen he is a linguist he spent his entire career studying one question how do Humans actually acquire language. [snorts] We all acquire language the same way. The reason this is an outrageous things to say is that these days in education we are living in an age of individual variations. We are very concerned about how our students are different. And what he found it made a lot of very comfortable teachers very uncomfortable because because his answer was simple. The way we teach language in schools does not produce fluency not because teachers are bad not because the students are lazy because the method is training the wrong system. Crashen founds that humans have two completely separate systems for languages. System one he called it learning. This is grammar rules, vocabulary list, exercises and test.

[00:08:46]Everything that happens in a classroom it is a conscious. It is deliberate and it lives in the slow analytical part of your brain. System two he called it acquisition. This is subconscious automatic. It is the same system you use as a baby to learn your mother tongue.

[00:09:08]Without textbook, without test, without even knowing what a verb was, you just observed and one day you spoke. Now, which system creates fluency? System two. Always only system two. Yes. And here is the part the part that sound that should make you stop everything you are doing and listen very carefully.

[00:09:31]ression found that the system ones cannot become system two. They are separated. They do not connected.

[00:09:41]All right? No matter how many grammar rules you memorize, they will not automatically come out of your mouth in a real conversation because real conversation happens too fast for your rule checking brain to keep up. The words are there in the slow part but the slow part cannot find the fast enough.

[00:10:02]So you phrase no way. That is exactly what happens to me. Yes. And I know the rule but by the time I check it in my head the moment is already gone. And it it had happened a lot of time with me also like completely gone. And your knowledge is real. It is genuine. It is just stored the wrong location in the slow brain not the automatic brain and the only way to move it to the automatic brain is through something crashing called comprehensible input.

[00:10:35]Comprehensible meaning you can understand it not perfectly but mostly around 80 to 90% input meaning listening or reading. connect. You can mostly understand consumed regularly in a relaxed state quietly. System two without effort. But without studying, without even trying, your brain just absorb the same way. It absorbs your mother tongue. But here is what most people get wrong. And why comprehensible input does not work for them. [snorts] Even when they try it, it's not just what you consume. It's how you feel and you consume. And this is brings me to the most important concept in this entire video.

[00:11:21]I'm genuinely on the edge of my seat right now. Crashing called it the effective filter. Effective filter meaning emotional filter meaning a wall.

[00:11:33]You you are stressed, anious, afraid of making mistakes. Your brain builds a wall and language. Even perfectly comprehensible language cannot get that wall. It hits and it's bounce off. That is why the anxious students studying 8 hours a day under pressure acquire less language than the relaxed person watching a show. They laugh for an hour.

[00:12:01]The relaxed person filter is down.

[00:12:03]Language is floating in without them even realizing it. And in a few minutes, I'm going to give you a real human example of this.

[00:12:13]A real person, real result that proves everything I just told you is not just that theory. Have you heard of Benny Levis?

[00:12:24][snorts] Yes, he's the Irish guy. He speaks a lot of languages. That one.

[00:12:30]Okay. Benny Levis until the age of 21 was complete failure at the language learning. Not seriously, not a little failure, a complete one. He failed Spanish in his school. He lived in Germany for 6 months and learns almost nothing. 6 months in Germany surrounded by German every single day and still almost nothing because he was using system one. Textbooks, grammar, exercises, fear of mis making mistakes, high filter, always high filter. And then he changed one thing [snorts] just one you know he stopped studying language and started living inside it.

[00:13:11]He surrounded himself with content he genuinely loved in the language he was learning. He started speaking badly from day one not when he was ready from day one. He stopped waiting for the right moment and the next language he tried to learn he reached conversational level in 3 months. He now speaks more than 12 languages.

[00:13:36]Same brain that failed Spanish. Same brain that learned nothing in German for 6 months. Same brain, different method, different emotional environment, lower filter. And he's not some rare genius.

[00:13:52]And I mean this, you know this, this is the entire point. is the proof that maths matters more than talent always.

[00:14:01]Now I want you to think about someone you know maybe at your workplace maybe in your family someone who never took a formal English classes never studied grammar but speaks English naturally and comfortably you know someone likes this and I'm almost certain 100% there is a guy at my school zero formal training but this English is more natural than mine and I have certificate I took courses.

[00:14:34]What does he do differently? He just grew up watching English stuffs, games, YouTube videos. He loved the content.

[00:14:44]He loved the content was not studying, just watching for fun and that's it. His filter was down and the entire time for years language was entering his automatic brain while he was just enjoying himself. And you were in the classroom filtered fle up memorizing grammar rules that your speaking brain never learned to use. So he speaks better not because he's smarter because he was in the right environment. Filter down accusition open every day for errors. And the good news, the really good news is that you can create the environment starting today. not in a classroom in your life with content you love and I will show you exactly how to do that right after we deal with the mistakes questions because everything else I'm about to teach you will not work until we fix the belief first.

[00:15:42]Okay. So here is something that I need you to understand about your brain. Your brain has one job. Keep you safe. That's it. one job and your brain is very very good at that job. Now when you speak English and you make a mistake and someone corrects you or laughs or or you see the confusion on their face, our brain registers that moment. It files it. Speaking English led to embarrassment. Speaking English is dangerous and the next time you try to speak, your brain quietly says let's not do that again and you freeze.

[00:16:22]you say less or you choose the safe words instead of the right words or your English states exactly where it is logged not because you are not trying because your brain is protecting you from the wrong thing. Now in 2012, researchers at Dshisha University in Japan studied two groups of language learners. Group one, every mistake was corrected immediately. Every single one right away. And group two allowed to make mistakes freely, not immediate correction, just normal interaction.

[00:17:02]After 6 months, they measured fluency.

[00:17:05]Group two, the one make more mistakes was significantly more fluent significantly because you know making a mistake and then hearing the correct version naturally in a real interaction is how the brain looks in the right pattern. Not from being corrected in that moment from using the language and getting real feedback and adjusting over time. So think about how babies learns.

[00:17:33]No parents stops a 2-year-old mind sentence and says actually that sentence structure was grammatically in incorrect.

[00:17:45][snorts] Come on, can you imagine? They just respond naturally and the children here is the right version, you know, in context over and over and the brain adjust automatically without shame, without fear, without stopping. I mean, I mean, you know, so I need to become more like 2 year old emotionally speaking. Emotionally, yes. Zero shame about mistakes. Use the language badly if you have to and use it wrong, use it broken, but use it because the only way to move language from your slow brain to your automatic brain is to use it repeatedly in low pressure situation, not studying it. And in about 5 minutes, I'm going to give you the exact 30 days plan that puts all of you in the into the real daily practice. Okay? So here we because we have covered a lot of things right guys I'm going to talk about the three beliefs broken the three broken beliefs I'm not a language person false I'm not too old this is also false I cannot make mistakes dangerously this is also false then we learn about crashing system one learning system two accusition only system two creates fluency right school trains system one the effective filter stress blocks accusation enjoyment me opens it and Benny Levis failed for 2 years 12 years and changed his mindset speaks 12 languages and you know mistakes are not the enemy they are the road is that right tell me in the comment and you have been waiting for I mean it the actual plan right so finally come on you guys so here is the 30 days plan three phrases each one builds one the last and the total daily commitment is 30 to 40 minutes and this is all not 4 hours not a full courses 30 to 40 minutes done consistently in the right direction is worth more than 4 hours if wrong method every time and phase one days 1 to 10 I call this the observe phase your only job in these 10 days is to consume English content you genuinely enjoy 20 minutes every day. That's it. No notes, no pausing to look up words, no grammar shaking. Just enjoy the content at your level. And when I say your level, I mean content where you understand around 80 to 90%. Is too comfortable. Your brain is not working.

[00:20:27]80 to 90% you are the in the zone. A simple test, play something in English for 2 minutes. If you feel lost most of the time hard too hard. If you feel zero challenge too easy. If you feel mostly comfortable but occasionally surprise that is your zone. So stay there.

[00:20:46]Now content matters guys and I mean this seriously. [snorts] If you are bored your filter goes up. Nothing enters. You watch what you exactly what you actually like. A cooking show you love a comedy podcast. Stop documentary about something that genuinely interests you.

[00:21:04]Whatever makes you forget, you are supposed to do learning. The forgetfulness is your acquisition happening. That is literally your brain observing language. Two more important rules for the observe phase. Rule one, one native language subtitles. If you watch with your own language underneath your brain reads the subtitles completely and ignore the English. So you spend 20 minutes watching content in English and acquire nothing. Use English subtitles or no subtitles at all. Rule two, re-watch things you love. A 2019 study from MIT found that learners who rewatch the same content picked up 40% more natural phrases and learners who watched new content every day.

[00:21:49]Re-watching is not laziness. It is optional language acquisition. Your brain hears the same phrases in the same emotional context again and again and they'll move deeper into your automatic memory. This is how songs get stuck in your head. This same machinism for 10 days 20 minutes content I love at my level English subtitle or nothing the re the rewatch things. Got it? Now guys that's it for today's video. Now here I want to share you something with you guys from the month of May. This month I'm going to start my new batches, my new online batches for English speaking practices. All right. So if you really want to do the practice with me, you can join my batches. If you really want, you can mail me on my given mail. It is in my bio. Go through it, mail me and I'll share you the things. And the fee is really, really minimum. You can afford it. I promise. All right. So mail me if you are a beginner. Tell me your details if you're a beginner, you are an intermediate or what do you want or why you want to do the practice? Why do you want to be perfect in English? Right? So all these things you send me a mail and I'll do check I'll I'll share the things with you and definitely we will start it from in the mid of May. All right. So don't forget to like this video, share this video and subscribe to my channel for more videos like this. So this is Shalima signing off. Take care and I speak English with confidence.