Nobody Wants Us

Added: 2026-05-15

[00:00:00]Oh, no. Everyone's doing it. You had to throw a ball at the camera.

[00:00:04]>> Well, guess who's not doing it. John Stewart's not doing it. David Letterman's not doing it. Ted Sarandos isn't doing it. Adam Sandler isn't doing it. Eddie Murphy isn't doing it. Kevin Hart isn't doing it.

[00:00:14]>> Oh, Malin Arian's doing it.

[00:00:16]>> We're You're doing it very aggressively.

[00:00:18]I was trying to be in the moment like have fun.

[00:00:21]>> Damn. Welcome new people. You should know that we are never prepared. We are always wearing sweats. We're never wearing makeup. I would almost consider myself the MC of this podcast. I am the narrator. So, welcome. We hope you enjoy this. We are Lizive. We're live and I'm just like 10 minutes ago. I had stars in my eyes.

[00:00:43]I was a multi-billionaire.

[00:00:46]Oh, >> I was like, you know when you have an idea and you're like, >> you're the queen of thinking like I invented something and then like these people must have stolen my idea.

[00:00:58]>> Remember splitsies?

[00:00:59]>> Splitsies. I remember it like it was yesterday.

[00:01:02]>> Yeah. Okay. You're like weird, you know, IMDb website. Okay. We've all had our dreams, you know, we've all Who got my part.com? Okay. Elon Musk over here.

[00:01:12]That was 20 years ago. Okay. Okay. Elon, listen to me. So I I a couple hours ago it was like Laura comes over for content. Laura Galvin >> favorite daughter Laura. Got it. You have a couple Lauras in your life. Also in my mind I was cute. This is not cute.

[00:01:29]Is it?

[00:01:30]>> No it is cute.

[00:01:31]>> Oh.

[00:01:32]Um I really don't want to put my phone on airplane mode cuz I don't like the Wi-Fi here.

[00:01:36]>> I never do that. I I ignore everybody when they tell me to do that.

[00:01:39]>> Of course you do. You just live by your own rules. Okay.

[00:01:41]>> Okay. So Laura comes over >> and we have all this content to get through. Okay. Content for mother for for Mother's Day for Nordstrom. You know, just a bunch of content.

[00:01:51]>> Don't care. Go on.

[00:01:52]>> Okay. Um, and you don't care about your little company, if you have a daughter.

[00:01:57]>> I just don't care what specific content you were doing.

[00:01:59]>> I know, but it's leading to >> It's part of the story. Okay. You're doing Mother's Day content.

[00:02:05]>> Olivia, I'm gonna have to dock your pay.

[00:02:06]My My My computer is about to die.

[00:02:09]>> Oh my god. Olivia is literally fired.

[00:02:12]>> She actually I think Olivia wants to be fired if I'm being honest.

[00:02:15]>> Oh, just to get away from you.

[00:02:17]>> I think >> cuz I would understand that.

[00:02:19]>> I think it's like a mutual >> Oh, you want you and me? No. No. I think it's like she wants to get away from like you and me.

[00:02:25]>> Both of us.

[00:02:25]>> Oh.

[00:02:26]>> So, anyways, Laura comes over. We have all these clothes to get through, but Laura shows up. They're not steamed cuz you know >> Oh, she's an entrepreneur. Yeah, she's an entrepreneur now. She's busy. She's got other things to do. Okay. Clothes are not steamed. They're a mess. So, we're we're steaming and I go, it was like a light went off. I go, it's like a handheld steamer.

[00:02:49]>> You know, no, Aaron, >> I was joking cuz that obviously exists.

[00:02:53]>> It's a steam closet.

[00:02:54]>> Oh, you I've seen Instagram ads for it.

[00:02:56]>> Okay. I'm thinking, oh my god, I I I'm thinking, what am I going to do with all this money?

[00:03:04]>> No, here's what I'm thinking. I'm thinking supply chain. I'm thinking how much money do I need to raise? What will this take? Okay. Who's who am I going to partner with? And then Laura over there is like, I I want to get in on it, too.

[00:03:15]I'm like, you're this is a solo.

[00:03:17]>> Laura, you you didn't even steam anything today.

[00:03:19]>> No. Yeah. Yeah. This is this is a solo mission, but I'll give you a discount when the product's live, you know?

[00:03:24]>> So, in my mind, you take all the clothes. I'm talking 10 dresses, put them in the closet, you press a button, >> and then out come the clothes. Pretty sure that's how perfectly.

[00:03:35]>> Just hold on. Sorry.

[00:03:37]>> And I'm thinking never seen it cuz if I've seen it, I'd own it, you know? I would own it because I'm all my shit's always wrinkled, you know, and it takes I have a janky steamer. It takes so long to steam. So, I'm just like, "Wow."

[00:03:51]Okay, let's get this thing Let's get this thing moving, you know? I'm already the website. I'm already coming up with the all of it. You're already posting going, "Guys, I can't tell you about it right now, but something really big is coming. I cannot talk about it, >> guys.

[00:04:08]>> But it's big, >> guys. I wish I can talk about it." But >> can't talk about it.

[00:04:13]>> You came on here to tell you, but I can't tell you about it.

[00:04:16]>> Hey guys, just checking in, letting you know. Big things. Big things. I wish I could say I'm dying to tell you, but I can't.

[00:04:25]>> Okay. So, when did you learn that this exists already? I get a get a text from Olivia.

[00:04:32]>> Oh, always bringing you down.

[00:04:34]>> It's a link to LG the website.

[00:04:38]LG LG is not a big company. I'm sure nobody has has it or knows.

[00:04:42]>> In all fair Well, no, it's huge. I think my laundry my washing machine is LG.

[00:04:45]>> They're I was joking.

[00:04:47]>> Obviously LG is huge.

[00:04:48]>> Okay. Well, not that huge because I never heard of the steam closet before.

[00:04:52]Okay. It's right up my alley and I've never heard of it. So, it exists.

[00:04:57]>> It definitely exists. I've seen I've definitely seen Instagram ads. I don't know if it's the LG one, but >> how genius. How genius.

[00:05:03]>> At the time I was like, do I do I get this and put it in my new closet? And I'm an idiot for not doing it. But I'm guessing you can just buy it.

[00:05:11]>> How does nobody >> This has now become like an ad for this thing now.

[00:05:14]>> Maybe they'll send us one.

[00:05:16]>> Oh my gosh. Yes.

[00:05:17]>> Yeah. This is smart actually.

[00:05:19]>> Oh no. I was thinking in my mind, you know how far I got? I got to thinking about Dyson licensing my idea. That's how far >> in my mind I was had partnerships.

[00:05:29]>> No, in my mind I was like, "Okay, the air wrap the Dyson Air Wrap is 500. So if the Dyson Air Wrap is 500, I can charge, you know, thousands for my steam closet." And then Dyson, >> no.

[00:05:44]>> 750 is not enough for your idea.

[00:05:46]>> No.

[00:05:47]>> Well, how much does the LG one cost?

[00:05:49]>> Like 3,000. I don't know.

[00:05:51]>> [ __ ] >> But I've never heard anyone talk about it. I've never But there's nothing worse than a wrinkled clothing. It just says so much about you. You know, when someone walks into an event or a thing and they're all wrinkled, they just they look like I agree. There's so often that I go to put something on and I'm like, "God damn it, if it wasn't wrinkled, I'd wear it, but I don't want to put in the time."

[00:06:11]>> I know.

[00:06:12]>> I feel like I just need to have a steamer that's always plugged in.

[00:06:17]>> Yeah. that always sitt >> well that would just be a steamer that you have plugged in all the time.

[00:06:33]>> All right, we're giving steaming too much attention. But I'm sure a lot of people listening Oh my god, Aaron.

[00:06:39]>> What?

[00:06:39]>> We have another young listener.

[00:06:42]>> Oh, male or female?

[00:06:43]>> Male. Alli's son, John. John.

[00:06:46]>> What? Little Johnny.

[00:06:47]>> Johnny. Little John. Little Johnny.

[00:06:49]>> Stop. He listens.

[00:06:51]>> He listens. Well, let me Ally.

[00:06:53]>> Ally listens to the car and he >> these old [ __ ] are crazy.

[00:06:58]>> No, he he thinks we present young. He's like they feel young and cool. Yeah.

[00:07:04]>> So, they took they went on a road trip and they got there and I guess he was like, "No, mom. Let's keep listening."

[00:07:10]>> Yeah. So, we got to step up our [ __ ] >> What did he like about us?

[00:07:13]>> I didn't ask specifics, but okay. We're doing something right.

[00:07:16]>> I know. So, we got we got Max and we got Johnny. We got Max and we got Johnny.

[00:07:21]Um, what else did I want to tell you?

[00:07:25]Um, okay. Well, we can talk. We can we can catch up on things, but one thing I thought was really funny.

[00:07:32]>> I talked to Caitlyn from Dear Media >> and she made a comment to me about like, "Careful, you know, you're flashing.

[00:07:41]>> You really do show your nipples a lot around here."

[00:07:43]>> And I go, "Wait, what?" and she goes on YouTube like you've flashed multiple times, you know, cuz I never wear bras.

[00:07:49]>> Oh, I know.

[00:07:50]>> And I thought to myself, >> Sarah considers nipple covers a bra.

[00:07:53]>> I thought to myself, this is so sad. I am topless on YouTube. No, nothing's happened and no one cares. No one's DM'd me about it. I've seen no post dedicated to this. There's no Daily Mail article nip slip from Sarah Foster. No sponsorships for men's >> YouTube YouTube hasn't even flagged it.

[00:08:14]>> No. No. Like men's magazine offers, you know, nothing.

[00:08:17]>> No, this is bad for you.

[00:08:19]>> And if this is so bad at at first, >> you're like showing the nips and no one's watching.

[00:08:24]>> And I was I was bummed. And Caleb was like, I know. I'm like I And I go, "No, that's not what I'm upset about. I'm not upset that it's on YouTube. I'm upset that I didn't know." You're upset that no one else has seen it or flagged it or cared. No, Erin. I am. This isn't good.

[00:08:39]>> Pull ts out like like like a >> if you're the sex part of this operation and no one's paying attention to your bare nipples, then we really have some rethinking to do.

[00:08:50]>> No, I know. I mean, ne freaking Netflix isn't even putting us on their streaming platform. Like, everyone's podcast is on this Netflix podcast now.

[00:08:58]>> What's the Netflix podcast?

[00:09:00]>> Aaron. Aaron, nobody wants us.

[00:09:05]>> Definitely nobody wants you. Well, or you I don't know. I think I'm wanted.

[00:09:10]>> I think I'm wanted.

[00:09:12]>> Really?

[00:09:14]>> Yeah. I think so.

[00:09:16]>> I'm just not getting that vibe. But honestly, I would be happy for you if you were wanted. I That would make me happy for you.

[00:09:21]>> I want you to get to experience what that feels like.

[00:09:23]>> Here's the thing is that in my mind, I am wanted. You know how you always think I have too much confidence or whatever?

[00:09:30]Like I think I am.

[00:09:31]>> That's powerful. So, it's like if you think it, >> yeah, >> it will come. If you build it, it will come. You know, like all it is is just feeling wanted.

[00:09:38]>> State of mind.

[00:09:39]>> It's a state of mind. And in my mind, I'm wanted.

[00:09:42]>> Maybe I'm not.

[00:09:43]>> Mhm.

[00:09:43]>> Maybe I'm not.

[00:09:44]>> But guess what? It doesn't matter cuz in your mind you are.

[00:09:46]>> Yeah.

[00:09:47]>> Exterior validation does not matter to you.

[00:09:52]>> I think it does. It's just I assume I already have it.

[00:09:55]>> Yeah.

[00:09:55]>> Do you know what I mean?

[00:09:56]>> I listen, that's growth. That's growth, >> right? Okay.

[00:10:00]>> That that is growth. I might be getting validated too much from my husband and then it makes me assume the world validates >> to say you're a product of being in a relationship with a man that has beer goggles for you.

[00:10:12]>> So I assume everyone does.

[00:10:14]>> This is a man who thinks you have a voice like Adele.

[00:10:18]>> Okay. I don't know if he thinks Adele, but I do have a very good voice. Like better than you will admit. Your own children say it to me. Josie's like, I mean Aaron, how are you not a singer?

[00:10:28]She comes over. It's like she knows you're jealous and she's like scared to say it to you, but she thinks I have a good voice.

[00:10:34]>> Well, you've brainwashed Josie. I mean, you've you've you've brainwashed her completely. It's actually >> Your daughter asks hard-hitting questions and it's like, what am I supposed to say? Give her the hard truth.

[00:10:46]>> No, what you're supposed to say is I think you should ask your parents.

[00:10:50]>> Yeah, but she's not going to be in a good position getting the the the life truths from from you. Oh, I am so excited for Noah to understand things.

[00:11:00]>> Me, too. Poor Auntie. She's going to go sad, Auntie Sarah.

[00:11:03]>> Oh, I'm so excited. Oh, you're going to call me like, "Did you what did Did you just tell No." I'm like, "I sure did. I sure."

[00:11:12]>> Well, remember when you're like 17-year-old daughter claimed that I told her there was no Santa Claus?

[00:11:17]>> It's like, girl, you're like a You're like living in your own apartment. You got to figure this out. I don't think that's on me.

[00:11:23]>> Oh, little angel.

[00:11:26]Little Angel.

[00:11:27]>> So innocent.

[00:11:28]>> Little Angel who is currently taking her driver's permit test. Like you know like the written one.

[00:11:34]>> Oh my god.

[00:11:35]>> Like the studying, you know, you have to like stud.

[00:11:37]>> That's what she's going to Wetka for.

[00:11:39]>> Yeah.

[00:11:40]>> Not to take No, no, no, no, no. Not to take like the driving part, but you have to you have to take a written where you do like, you know, multiple choice and then um Yeah. Yeah, you got to go to the DMV and then then they give you a permit to allow you to be in a car with someone 25 or >> All right, boring. Let's move on to the Netflix as a joke brunch we went to yesterday.

[00:11:58]>> Sure. Have you seen the video of me and >> I actually just watched it, Sarah? And I'm shocked you posted it. It is >> deathly embarrassing. And I mean that like and not in a cute way. Like it's like you cuz you if you were to zoom in on his face, he's like, "What's happening right now?"

[00:12:14]>> I know. I know.

[00:12:15]>> What is this woman doing?

[00:12:16]>> Should I delete it? I mean, you shouldn't have done it in the first place.

[00:12:21]Who took the video? Montana.

[00:12:23]I think Nicole. Nicole sent it to me.

[00:12:26]>> Oh, Jesus. Wait.

[00:12:27]>> And she's still friends with you. This is crazy.

[00:12:30]>> She just sent it, but I haven't >> What are you saying in the video? Cuz you put music over it. What are you saying?

[00:12:34]>> I Oh, I had to put music over it.

[00:12:35]>> Oh, the king. The king. No. Like, you're having a stroke. Aarin, first of all, like does that maybe people that excite you don't excite me and people that like you'd be excited by like some like Love Island host like no of course I would be excited meeting Eddie Murphy I would have handled it differently not in a good way but I would have just in my mind if I'm being introduced to Eddie Murphy I'm thinking and this is where I don't have the confidence we claim I have I'd be thinking of all the people that he wants to talk to at this brunch I'm the last person so how do I get this over with as fast as possible for him so he can roll through this like >> watch the video. I'm walking away. He was still talking.

[00:13:15]>> No, he was like, "What am I watching?"

[00:13:17]Like, "Does someone need help?" Like he doesn't know what he's witnessing. It's like he's watching a train wreck.

[00:13:25]Okay, I should delete it. So, he's like feels guilty walking away.

[00:13:29]>> Aaron coming to America 48 hours. I mean, Beverly Hills cop. I couldn't contain myself. I love him. What were you saying? I was just like, somebody was like, "Do you know Eddie?" And I go, "Uh, no."

[00:13:44]>> Somebody. It was Nicole.

[00:13:45]>> No. Who was it? I don't know. It was someone in the video.

[00:13:48]>> Okay.

[00:13:49]>> And >> Okay. So, they say, "Do you know Eddie?"

[00:13:54]And >> I don't know. I'm like fully spiraling now.

[00:13:57]>> You should. And so, then Eddie's like, "Nice to meet you."

[00:13:59]>> Yeah. And I'm like, "Oh my god, it's such an honor to meet you. I feel like I should be like bowing to you or something." I then I started bowing.

[00:14:07]>> Yeah, you did.

[00:14:08]>> But you were doing several boughs and curtsies. It's really weird.

[00:14:14]>> It almost kind of looked like you just had to pee, you know? Like you're just like, it's I'm going to watch it again in real time while I'm on here. Let me see. It's really bad.

[00:14:24]>> You better watch it cuz I got to I'm going to delete it. I just decided I have to delete it.

[00:14:28]>> Really bad. It's really bad.

[00:14:30]>> At least I'm walking away. I chose to walk away. I wasn't like trying to have the moment linger.

[00:14:35]>> I don't think I would say that.

[00:14:36]>> Oh god. Okay.

[00:14:38]>> Okay. This is you working out. This is you and me. I look cute. You and Nicole.

[00:14:42]You and Kate. You and your outfit. Me cut my face off here. Black and white.

[00:14:47]And there's like sexual photos of you.

[00:14:48]Okay, here we go.

[00:14:50]>> Oh god. Sarah. He is >> he's embarrassed for you in the video.

[00:14:56]>> He's literally swaying back and forth looking at you and then he kind of is looking around like, "Who's going to save me?" He's looking around like, "Anybody going to stop this interaction from happening?"

[00:15:07]>> There's also, is it his bodyguard behind in the video? I feel like Chris Rock.

[00:15:10]Chris Rock's in the background. What is happening?

[00:15:13]>> No, but the guy next to Chris Rock, is that his bodyguard? Cuz he wouldn't keep take his eyes off me. So, I feel like he was on alert.

[00:15:21]>> Oh my god.

[00:15:23]>> [ __ ] >> Oh my god. Sarah, >> why can't I ever just be chill at these things and cool?

[00:15:30]>> I don't know.

[00:15:31]That was bad. I knew I should have gotten my hair and makeup done cuz then you would have been more relaxed. I would have been like more confident.

[00:15:38]>> Mhm.

[00:15:40]>> I You know, the days of just showing up to these things with like, you know, no mascara on are just kind of like over. I like put in some more effort now.

[00:15:48]>> Well, you probably what? You just like drew in your eyebrows and called it a day.

[00:15:52]>> No, I drew in my eyebrows. I did a little bit of um I didn't but I don't draw my I just like you know line them or you know I like uh pencil them. Uh little lip liner. I did um under eye concealer. I did freaking bronzer. I did I don't know. I do my makeup and yet it looks like I have no makeup on. I don't understand. Like I had makeup on either way.

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[00:23:14]Okay, so Netflix is a joke is a brunch that they invite um I mean in some ways it's a big group, some ways it's a small group, right? It's like a hard invite to get to this brunch, but it's basically people that work on a comedy that's about Netflix or something like on Netflix. It's either comedy >> comedy that's about Netflix or you talking.

[00:23:37]>> Sorry, I was looking at my Postmates order when I was speaking. Um, anybody who basically works on a Netflix comedy or com or is a comedy stand.

[00:23:49]>> There were no drama people there. There was no comedy.

[00:23:54]>> So it's comedy. It's actresses and Netflix comedies producers >> hunting wives cast were there. Hunting wives cast were there. That's a drama, >> isn't it?

[00:24:03]>> I don't know. Maybe it's not.

[00:24:05]>> No. Carrie Russell though from my favorite show.

[00:24:07]>> But it's a very elite crowd and you've got all the biggest comedians there.

[00:24:12]>> Mhm. And >> should we name them? Should we name some? You got Seinfeld. You got David Letterman. You've got My Man Eddie. Mhm.

[00:24:20]>> You've got uh >> Louis CK.

[00:24:22]>> Louis C. You got Alex Edelman. Love Alex Edelman. You got uh uh Olivia Mun's husband. Freaking John Melany.

[00:24:31]>> Yeah.

[00:24:32]>> You got um Sherio Terry.

[00:24:36]You've got Molly Shannon.

[00:24:40]You've got them all. You've got everybody.

[00:24:42]>> No, no, we're missing >> all the greats.

[00:24:43]>> We're missing people. Oh, Adam Sandler.

[00:24:46]>> Adam Sandler, by the way. Uh, The Hunting Wives shoots its shot in the comedy Emmysy's race. Oh, >> so it's a comedy girl. Chelsea Handler.

[00:24:55]Guess what? She's coming on the pod.

[00:24:57]>> Oh, yeah. She talked to me about how you like said to come on the pod and then she followed up and then never heard from you again. And I was like, that is just so Sarah, >> that's just not accurate information.

[00:25:06]>> Also, Chelsea, well, I can talk to her about it when she comes in the pod.

[00:25:09]>> I think it's an episode you're not on.

[00:25:12]>> Oh, are you sure? I should be on that.

[00:25:14]>> No, you should be on it. Anyway, she told me she's never been broken up with and I was like, that's amazing.

[00:25:18]>> Oh, her confidence is But save it for the pod. She's >> That's what I just said. I'm gonna save it for the pod.

[00:25:22]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She's um >> Okay, so let me tell you something.

[00:25:25]>> Wait, I'm going to flash the boob and let's see if we get a >> See if anyone writes about it.

[00:25:29]>> No, I'm not anymore. You don't deserve it. The people don't deserve it. I have nice boobs.

[00:25:33]>> They don't Here's the thing. They don't want it.

[00:25:35]>> They don't want it. They don't want it.

[00:25:36]Okay. So basically there was this point in the event towards the end where they said everyone's going to do a group photo.

[00:25:44]>> Mhm.

[00:25:45]>> All the talent is going to do a group photo from all the shows.

[00:25:48]>> Mhm.

[00:25:49]>> Um so they bring it's like a hundred people and you go back to this area and this like everyone in 100 people are going to get in a group photo. Now I wasn't going back there cuz I thought like I don't think I count as the talent.

[00:26:01]>> Okay.

[00:26:01]>> Yeah. I think creators are talent.

[00:26:04]>> I didn't know which which bucket I landed in. Yeah, you can't just say I definitely am not going to be walking over there and then someone goes, "Oh, excuse me, ma'am, but behind the scenes, people are staying over there by the bagels."

[00:26:16]>> Awkward.

[00:26:17]>> So, I was like, I'm not risking that kind of humiliation, so I'm not going over there.

[00:26:22]>> Smart.

[00:26:22]>> And then a woman, I wish I knew her name cuz we had we we had lots of jokes about it for the rest of the day.

[00:26:28]>> She said to me, you know, she works at Netflix and she was like, >> "Aaron, photos over there." And I go, "Wait, really? I don't know if I'm involved in that." And she goes, "Of course you are." I was like, "Thank you." I said, "Can you walk with me cuz I'm embarrassed?" And she was like, "Of course, but don't be you're you belong in that room."

[00:26:45]>> Mhm. I mean, Aaron, if if I'm being honest, and you know, I think you're like the worst.

[00:26:50]>> Mhm.

[00:26:51]>> That there are no other shows on Netflix nominated for Emmys for best comedy.

[00:26:57]>> Are there not?

[00:26:58]>> No, not currently.

[00:27:00]>> I mean, fact, >> someone fact check me.

[00:27:03]>> Someone fact check, please.

[00:27:04]>> I mean, we love a comedy special. We love all the hits, but like the Emmys are the Emmys, >> right?

[00:27:08]>> You know, so it's like as as much as I hate to say it. I mean, >> I belong to the photo.

[00:27:13]>> Yeah. I mean, you're not talent, but like Yeah. So, we make our way over.

[00:27:18]>> I do. I make a way over with this woman who ushers me there. Get there. It's a cluster [ __ ] Okay. It is chaos because >> there's over 100 people. There's not really room for everybody. Everyone's jamming in and it's kind of like set up like a mini um what's it called? Like stadium seating like mini stadium. So there's like levels and by the time I walk over there it's like packed full.

[00:27:43]So I kind of like weave my way into the corner and I take a seat next to Jelly Roll.

[00:27:51]Great guy. Jelly Roll is in a bit of a better seat than me cuz he's closer to the center of the photo. Okay. You listening? Oh, I'm listening. Yeah.

[00:27:59]>> So, Jelly Roll's in an actual chair >> a little closer to the center. I'm to the left of him, more towards the corner. Thank you so much.

[00:28:07]>> We're towards the corner and I'm sitting on a little like box and Fred Armison comes and he shares the box that I'm sitting on.

[00:28:17]>> Oh, >> okay. I was like, >> he who's he married to? He's married to someone famous, right?

[00:28:22]I actually don't know who he's married to, but I was like thrilled that he was on the outside of me because I'm like, he's a big person. So, if I'm cutting you out of the picture, I'm in a good spot. Okay. But Jelly Roll has a good seat.

[00:28:33]>> People are clamoring. Now, if you're Jelly Roll, I'm sure this is a cool group of people to be in. All the big comedic legends of the world. Okay.

[00:28:41]>> And you and me, right? Which is also, I'm sure, very cool for him. So, then in >> Well, he does love Simon. I will say he does love Simon. He does. He's like, "My man, my man, Simon." And then Ted was like, "I only know >> jelly roll from Simon." Like Simon Simon got a lot of flowers that night, that day.

[00:28:59]>> I know. Made me happy.

[00:29:02]Then all the spaces are pretty full.

[00:29:04]Leanne Morgan comes in. Okay. Mom thinks she discovered Leanne on on Instagram.

[00:29:10]Um, she doesn't really have a place to sit.

[00:29:14]Okay. Jelly roll jumps out of a seat.

[00:29:16]Doesn't even think about it. jumps up and goes, "Ma'am, please come sit here.

[00:29:21]Take my seat." She's like, "No, no, no."

[00:29:23]He goes, "Take my seat." Ushhers her to this great seat. He now doesn't have a seat. So, he basically like leans up against the wall, which you basically aren't going to be in the photo if you're on the wall. Okay. No, wait.

[00:29:35]Nicole sent me the photo. Should I see if he's in the photo?

[00:29:37]>> Yes. Then he came and I think he sat on the floor like in front of us or something.

[00:29:42]>> Okay. Let me look. Let me look. Let me look. I have it right here.

[00:29:44]>> It blew my mind.

[00:29:45]>> Hold on. Have you seen the photo? No.

[00:29:47]>> Oh, I'll send it to you. Nicole sent it to me cuz she doesn't have your number.

[00:29:51]Jelly Roll has a great seat. He's front and center. Just FYI.

[00:29:55]>> Hold on.

[00:29:57]>> Well, that's karma.

[00:29:59]>> That is karma because he gave up his great seat to Leanne. Do you see me?

[00:30:07]>> Mhm.

[00:30:09]>> Okay. Do I have a good seat at all? Am I just like barely there? I'm like a dot.

[00:30:12]>> No. No. You're there, but you're doing like something really weird with your arm.

[00:30:15]>> Oh no. Oh god. Yeah, it's not great.

[00:30:20]>> Yeah, you look like you're like hissing.

[00:30:22]You know when someone goes like like this. It's not great. I just sent it to you. I'm sorry.

[00:30:27]>> Oh, that's not good at all.

[00:30:29]>> No, it's not. Oh, but wait, did they tell you to do it? Cuz like other people are doing it, too.

[00:30:33]>> Yes, Sarah. They had us throw a ball at the camera. Oh, everyone's doing it. You had to throw a ball at the camera.

[00:30:41]>> Well, guess who's not doing it? John Stewart's not doing it. David Letterman's not doing it. Ted Sarandos isn't doing it. Adam Sandler isn't doing it. Eddie Murphy isn't doing it. Kevin Hart isn't doing it.

[00:30:51]>> Basically, oh, Bella's not doing it.

[00:30:54]John Melany is not doing it. Crunch Rock isn't doing it. Hudson's doing it. Kate Hudson's doing it.

[00:31:00]>> Um, who else is doing? Where's she?

[00:31:02]>> Oh, Malin Arian's doing it. Where?

[00:31:04]You're doing it very aggressively. I was trying to be in the moment and like have fun.

[00:31:09]>> Damn.

[00:31:10]>> Oh, Jerry's doing it. Jerry's doing it.

[00:31:12]He is fully doing it. Eliza Schlesinger is doing it.

[00:31:17]Chelsea looks like she was just doing it, too.

[00:31:20]People were doing it. I feel like all the cool people are not doing it.

[00:31:23]Where's >> you on that? Where's >> I agree with you.

[00:31:26]>> If someone told me if this is my moment to be in a photo with these people and they say throw a ball, I'm not listening. I'm like literally >> You're like I'm just going to look pretty.

[00:31:35]>> Yeah. I'm like this. What? Are you insane? I'm going to pucker my lips and like suck in and put my and put my tongue up against the top of my mouth and >> and do your little look.

[00:31:47]>> Dave Chappelle is definitely not doing it.

[00:31:49]>> Can you imagine Dave Chappelle pretending to throw a ball for a for a group photo? Can you imagine?

[00:31:54]>> No chance he's going to do something like that.

[00:31:55]>> Well, he cuz he and he didn't. Where is Kate?

[00:31:57]>> Why am I blind? Where is she? Oh, I see her. See, she looks cool throwing the ball.

[00:32:03]>> She's throwing it and she's like she's just having a laugh.

[00:32:07]Oh. Um, Whitney's also doing it and she's like doing a little pointy finger.

[00:32:12]I'm in good company. I don't know.

[00:32:14]>> He looks good doing it. I had a long talk with that guy Theo Vaughn. What a character. I David Spade was so funny.

[00:32:20]He was like, "Be nice. Be nice." Cuz you know, I don't totally align with Theo Vaughn and the things he says. And Spade Spade is like, "Sarah, be nice. Be nice." I'm like, "Am I that big of a liability that people have to like >> coach me before I talk to another human?" Was he? Yeah. First of all, yes.

[00:32:35]But was he saying be nice because this guy could like [ __ ] for [ __ ] you up like come for you or what was he saying?

[00:32:42]>> No, just be nice. Like nobody wants to be involved in some like awkward conversation like we're all just trying to have fun here.

[00:32:48]>> Mhm. So the moral moral of the story is >> Yeah. What is the What's the point of this? I should have just sat there and looked pretty and Jelly Roll is a gentleman.

[00:32:57]>> He really Yeah. I was in a conversation with someone else when he walked over >> and you'll be proud of me. Invited Morgan. No, you'll be proud of me.

[00:33:04]invited Leanne to our Nashville store opening and she said, "I'll come to that." And I was like, "Great. Do you want me to put me like in touch with an assistant or something?" And she goes, "Well, you just want my number?" And I was like, "Sure." Got her number.

[00:33:19]>> Aaron >> got her number.

[00:33:20]>> Aaron Jean is her agent.

[00:33:23]>> Oh, so we have a connection to her.

[00:33:24]>> Yes. But so wait, talk to me. She was a comedian that was just doing literal YouTube videos, right? And then she got discovered. That is true, right? I don't know her story. I don't know her story, but I know that mom has been sending me clips of her stuff for years.

[00:33:41]>> She should be inspiration to you.

[00:33:42]Honestly, >> I told Leanne I said I my mom thinks she discovered you.

[00:33:47]>> That's funny.

[00:33:48]>> She thought that was funny.

[00:33:48]>> But she should be inspiration to you cuz she started her com, you know, her her standup comedy later and that's like the the path you're on.

[00:33:55]>> I don't want to do standup. I used to want to. Do >> you you really don't? You're over it.

[00:34:00]>> Yeah. That lifestyle is so tough.

[00:34:04]>> Yeah. And I have a mental block around it for some reason. It's so weird.

[00:34:09]I clearly don't have a good judge of stand up because I'll watch some stand up. I'm like, "This is so dumb." And it's like considered great. And then when I saw you do your little stand up at the Mexican restaurant, I thought you were really good and no one left.

[00:34:20]Apparently, you were really bad, but I thought it was really good. So, I don't have a I don't have a um >> By the way, this guy that Simon was talking to >> was like one of Sim Why do you breathe out like that? Like, I don't want to hear the story.

[00:34:34]>> I got a text like everything isn't about you.

[00:34:37]>> Okay. Well, I spoke and then you went >> like I said, everything is not about you. I just >> Well, it should be right now cuz we're doing a podcast together, so maybe look alive.

[00:34:44]>> I know, but when I know you're about to tell a long story, sometimes I'll check my texts. This just felt like you were about to tell a long story.

[00:34:50]>> Not that long. And you know what? I think you'd actually like the story.

[00:34:52]>> All right. Is it Is it about me?

[00:34:54]>> No.

[00:34:56]>> So, you're not going to like it.

[00:34:58]>> All right. What's this?

[00:34:59]>> Simon was talking to a guy, introduced me. This is Adam. We went to college together. I think they were in the same frat. They were in the same friend circle. Friends in college.

[00:35:09]This guy is now had Which way do I tell the story? Basically, he said he said, "I have never met a person who hustled like Adam Ray." They call him a Ray. He goes, "I've never known a person who hustle like like this." Adam was telling us how he would take out Craigslist ads and people would pay him like $40 to come like say something funny at their friend's birthday party. Like he would do anything and everything. He was hustling so hard. Never stopped. And now he's like a big comedian and he has I don't know if he has like his own Netflix special, but he was invited to this event. No. and he's like in the crew of like top comedians and Simon was like I am so happy for this guy. He I've never seen anyone willing to do anything. He said that he did voice over work for Simon's dad and brother for something like would do anything. I was just saying this on this podcast I did.

[00:36:07]You know, when you the universe is fair a lot of the time and when you think things are beneath you, the universe blocks your blessings. Like I really think that when you humble yourself and when you have the attitude of nothing is beneath me, good things happen.

[00:36:26]>> Yeah.

[00:36:26]>> I don't do I think it's all the time.

[00:36:29]No. But I do think that there is a theme with people who I meet who are doing really well. They all have similar stories. Listen, honestly, I thought the t-shirt collab was beneath us. I literally was like, "Wow, I guess this is where my life's at now. I'm doing like, you know, t-shirt collabs where like our lawyer isn't even looking at it cuz it's such a small deal. I'm I'm hawking t-shirts. I'm putting phrases on t-shirts and it's such a small deal that we are not even going to have our lawyer look at it. Without that little t-shirt collab, >> there is no favorite daughter.

[00:37:06]>> We would not have a $200 million business, honey.

[00:37:08]>> Okay, here you go. You got to drop numbers on people.

[00:37:11]>> Oh, yeah. No, I heard that women are supposed to give numbers. That as women, we like >> don't be afraid of the numbers.

[00:37:19]>> It's okay. It's okay to give numbers.

[00:37:21]Men give numbers. Women can give numbers, too. Women should give numbers.

[00:37:25]This says, "Will favorite daughter give teacher and nurses a discount?" Hell yeah.

[00:37:29]>> We always do. We always do. But we should do it more like more officially.

[00:37:32]>> Here's what I also want to tell you guys. I shouldn't be telling you guys this, but like at Favorite Daughter, >> you know, we say closed mouths don't get fed. If you write us and if you say like, "Oh my gosh, I missed the sale that ended." We'll still honor it. You just have to ask. If you write, >> we're a yes company.

[00:37:51]>> A woman came into the store. She's like, "Oh, I bought this size. I thought that I was this size, but it really is one size too small." and I'm outside the return window and we were like, "It's fine. Give it like just just return it.

[00:38:03]Take take your correct size and just walk on out. We really are a Yeah. What just happened? You are bright red. You okay?"

[00:38:12]I was just blowing my nose.

[00:38:15]I'm sort of in the process of like denying my sickness at work. So, I was about to brag that every single person in my house, every single person in my family has been sick and I haven't. But I don't want to do that cuz Karma will come and get me.

[00:38:29]>> Karma will definitely hear what hear that and be like, "Oh, >> on my way.

[00:38:33]>> On my way." Wait, did we finish our our um brunch joke?

[00:38:38]>> I mean, our brunch our Netflix is brunch stories. Well, I had one more thing to say, which is that when I got the invite for the Netflix is a joke brunch at Ted Sarandos's house, Ted and um his wife Nicole, um I it said I had a plus one.

[00:38:53]So, I fored it to Simon. I was like, "This seems like a cool event. You want to come?" He's like, "Fuck yeah, I'll be there." So, he picks me up. It's like on a Tuesday, right? Or a Wednesday at 12:30 in the afternoon.

[00:39:04]>> And he left the office, picked me up.

[00:39:06]We're in the line of cars and there's like a long line of cars. It's as if you're at the Oscars. And he goes, "Wait, why are there so many cars here?"

[00:39:15]And I go, "What do you mean? This brunch is like big." And he goes, "Aaron, I thought this was a 12 person brunch toasting you." Oh. He goes, "That's why I left work." Simon with the beer goggles thinks that there would be a brunch at Ted Sarandos's house to toast you. This is This is Okay, I'm now seeing things clearer than I ever have.

[00:39:39]that Simon is this delusional when it comes to you. You're barely allowed near Ted Sarando. I was like, this is insane.

[00:39:46]Did you even get near him once at that front? I'm in the bottom right corner of the damn photo.

[00:39:51]>> Aaron, no.

[00:39:52]>> And he thought it was all for me. So all day long I kept going, this is all for me. Look at all David Letterman's here for to toast me.

[00:40:03]Chris Rock here for me. Everybody took time out of their busy schedules to toast me. Yeah. He was like, I mean, this is cool to be at, but I probably wouldn't have left the office to go to like a random Netflix event. He end up of course having fun. It's a very cool like event. I am dead. I mean, you and I were probably I guarantee you they're making the list and they probably go >> there's a few people on the fritz, you know, and they're kind of like, "Oh, should we throw in, you know, some like girls maybe like blah blah blah."

[00:40:35]>> I'm just saying you need you need you need like fun pretty girls to make, you know, like you you need to have that. So maybe like, oh, do we have anyone that can maybe Oh, maybe the fosters. They're looking. They're holding up. They're holding up, you know. Oh, so we were just invited as fun pretty girls, not like as actual business women.

[00:40:54]>> By the way, it's my dream to be an atmosphere woman like >> and that was definitely you yesterday.

[00:40:59]>> What does Simon always say about doesn't he call them atmosphere girls?

[00:41:03]>> I think he says it calls it something else.

[00:41:05]>> No, he calls it atmosphere girls.

[00:41:07]>> Maybe. Yeah.

[00:41:08]>> Anyway, >> it's a good atmosphere.

[00:41:09]>> Yeah. But in all honesty, you know that I'm sure they're like it was like a discussion like do we have them?

[00:41:15]>> Mhm. I don't think so.

[00:41:16]>> All right, let's have them. Oh, did anybody fact check our Emmys thing?

[00:41:20]>> Our audience knows to >> to your to your sexist little comment there. When we were in the photo, Molly Shannon looked at me and she goes, >> "Pretty cool, right? There's not that many girls in this group. There's like a lot of girls in the group."

[00:41:35]>> Well, this is what you can't correct Molly Shannon. She looked at me and it was like, "Look at us. Pioneers in comedy, me and you." That's what Molly Shannon said to me, basically.

[00:41:44]>> I know. And we love Molly Shannon, but like there's a lot of girls in the pick.

[00:41:48]Not as many as there are guys. And what she was saying was metaphorically not a lot of women in this world that are in this group. You know what I mean? Like the comedy legends of the world. And here we are, Erin. You and me.

[00:42:00]>> Yeah. Well, guys are funnier, >> right?

[00:42:06]I mean, you're not you're not as funny as Adam Sandler. You're not as funny as Chris Rock. Not even close, you know.

[00:42:13]>> Um I I don't know. I think we go toe-to-toe.

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[00:48:09]>> Okay. If you could write for one person in that room, >> great.

[00:48:16]>> One person in that room was like like, "Write something for me."

[00:48:22]>> Oh my god.

[00:48:22]>> Guy or a girl >> and don't try to be like politically correct, you know? Say say what you feel.

[00:48:29]>> What you're like, if you want to say Louis, say Louie.

[00:48:31]>> Yeah.

[00:48:33]I I don't know. I'm really bad at these.

[00:48:35]Okay. Um you can take a second. Okay.

[00:48:40]You can edit out all your amm I pausing >> all your thinking. We can edit it out.

[00:48:46]>> All right. This is taking it's taking long now. Now it's taking long.

[00:48:50]>> I'm trying to think. I mean it kind of David Letterman, I guess.

[00:48:54]>> Why? He's not an actor.

[00:48:56]>> Oh, are you okay? He's not an actor.

[00:48:59]>> Larry David wasn't there, right? Be pretty cool.

[00:49:02]>> Oh, >> was Larry David there?

[00:49:03]>> No.

[00:49:04]>> Okay. I think I choose him. I think >> he Okay, he wasn't there.

[00:49:09]I I said somebody who was Oh, Kevin Hart would be fun.

[00:49:13]>> Yeah, really fun. I >> I guess I'm just going to go Eddie Murphy.

[00:49:16]>> No, Adam Sandler. Adam and Adam and Eddie.

[00:49:19]>> Oh, right. I get two, by the way. Funny.

[00:49:23]Didn't pick a woman, did you?

[00:49:25]>> Okay, I see you.

[00:49:28]>> I see you.

[00:49:29]>> They don't mean as much to me.

[00:49:31]>> Mhm.

[00:49:32]>> The men mean more. Mhm.

[00:49:34]>> You know, it's sad because I'm supposed to be taking Noah to a Shabbat dinner >> at Michael and Lydia Keas' house.

[00:49:41]>> I know. You're with them like all the time. Like 45 minutes. But are are Kas and Lydia your your new double date people? Like you know how you go through your phases with people?

[00:49:51]>> Yeah. They're not a phase. This is like a lifelong commitment.

[00:49:54]>> Lydia is so beautiful. I know. She looks amazing pregnant.

[00:49:57]>> Oh my god, she's so pretty. You know what I was looking at?

[00:50:00]>> Her skin.

[00:50:01]>> She has the best teeth.

[00:50:03]She does have very good teeth.

[00:50:05]>> I need her teeth. I was feeling shame.

[00:50:07]Shame. I felt shame about my teeth. I have real teeth. And I think hers are real, too. But I don't like to say you have real teeth. It's the weirdest obsession.

[00:50:14]>> No, because Aaron, so many people don't.

[00:50:16]>> You always say that, but like everyone I know has real teeth.

[00:50:18]>> Jamie has real teeth.

[00:50:19]>> It's fine. I husband has real teeth.

[00:50:21]>> I'm going to get some fake teeth.

[00:50:23]>> I think I got to I'm going to get some.

[00:50:24]>> You know what? This is what it is. You keep like making fun of people's fake teeth cuz you want fake teeth.

[00:50:29]>> Yeah, I do. So then get them and then you can't like over who does Michael Keas just texted me.

[00:50:36]>> Oh my god.

[00:50:36]>> On a chat with me and Lydia. I actually haven't told them I'm not coming to Shabbat yet.

[00:50:43]>> Wow. Wow. Wow. Guess what? I guess they are my go-to couple. May 26th, we are confirmed with Blank and Blank. Can't say the names. This will be an A+ dinner. He says, "Wow." Who the hell's blank and blank?

[00:50:56]>> Wow. Wow. Wow.

[00:50:58]>> Who's blank and blank?

[00:51:00]I can't share that. We'll say it. We'll bleep it. Like Lasker like Okay.

[00:51:07]>> Lasker and Dave Bernadette. I mean, okay. Can I come too?

[00:51:14]>> Oh my god.

[00:51:17]>> No. That'd be really funny though.

[00:51:19]>> Um, wait. I had something to say. Damn it. You interrupted me. Well, I was actually in the middle of a sentence.

[00:51:24]Oh, yeah. Which is that I was supposed to be bringing, you know, I I I I pulled Simon into this plan. I said, "We're going, you know, me and a couple of other mom friends are trading Shabbats.

[00:51:33]Like, we each host a different nights or whatever." So, tonight is Lydia and Kea's hosting. It's very hard to get somewhere at 5:15 on a Friday, right?

[00:51:40]Simon's like, "That's really tough." I'm like, "Simon, I really want to have Shabbat be part of our thing, and it's so fun for Noah and all these kids." And so, he's like, "Okay, great. If you can get Noah to my office by 5:15, then like we'll then we can do it." Anyway, as the day went on, I realized I can't leave set. We're filming the finale. We're doing re-shoots today. I can't leave.

[00:51:57]Yeah.

[00:51:57]>> So, then I said to him, you know, that plan that I, you know, >> said we had to do, I actually can't be a part of it anymore.

[00:52:04]>> So, now Montana took my car, went and picked up Noah, and then is driving Noah to Simon's office, dropping her off, and then Simon's going to take her without me, and I'm going to stay here and work.

[00:52:13]>> Does your nanny not drive?

[00:52:16]>> She does, but her car's in the shop.

[00:52:17]>> Huh?

[00:52:18]>> Yeah. Just bad timing. You're becoming very clicky. I feel like, do you feel like that? You're very clicky. You have like your clicks.

[00:52:26]I don't feel clicky, but I'll say that I've never been more social as I am being a mom with a 2-year-old that needs activities and friends.

[00:52:35]>> So, I think I'm really drawn to people who have young kids cuz I need things to do with her.

[00:52:41]>> Yeah.

[00:52:42]>> It's like I just factor it in. I think like, well, okay, if I'm going to go be with those people, what am I going to do with Noah?

[00:52:47]>> Yeah. Like I need little kids and like a yard.

[00:52:50]>> Yeah, that's >> So yeah, I guess I'm not trying to be clicky. I'm just trying to I'm just trying to like have like a like a kid life.

[00:52:57]>> Y >> but being a mom makes me a thousand times more social than I was before.

[00:53:02]>> So many people are asking. It's so funny. Yesterday even at the brunch, people were like, "What what are your thoughts on the Mech Gala?" I was like, "I don't have any thoughts." It's so weird. Like I don't actually have an opinion about the Mech Gala.

[00:53:14]>> I like had no thoughts either.

[00:53:15]>> Yeah. I don't have any thoughts. It's like people look crazy.

[00:53:17]>> I saw something about a girl being dressed in jeans and that it was racist.

[00:53:22]Oh god, I can't live in this world. I can't I can't live in this world. That's crazy. But I um yeah, I don't know. I don't have any thoughts. I've always just sort of felt like the Met Gal has never been something where I' like really hoping to go to.

[00:53:40]Like it was always really cool getting invited to Vanity Fair. That feels cool.

[00:53:44]That feels like our peers. Does that feel, you know, but like the Met Gala is I've never once said to uh anyone like a publicist or whatever like I'd like to go to the Met Gala like Bobby Brown for you know I have you know they're Estee Lauder so they have sponsorships everywhere and they were like would you want to do the Met Gala like as part of our deal and I was like not really no you know it's just not something that I've dyed to go to. Maybe it would be super fun and maybe it would be fun to go once but also I just I don't know. Yeah, I think that the Met it just feels so intense.

[00:54:16]>> It would be so intimidating and it feels like the kind of thing where it's actually hard to enjoy yourself once you get in cuz it's like >> so much pressure. Everyone looks so good. It's crazy. Everybody looks so good and so done and so I don't even know. Yeah, intimidating is a good word. I would be so intimidated.

[00:54:38]>> I would be too intimidated to have fun, I think.

[00:54:41]>> Oh my god. Imagine going on that red carpet and being like, "Oh my god, they're not even going to take our picture.

[00:54:47]Keep it moving, ladies. Keep it moving."

[00:54:49]Sarah, this is a question that from the audience. What is Sarah's beef with Birkenstocks? My gosh, I love Birkenstocks for myself. I just don't find them attractive on men. Like, I just don't I think on men they give beta, they don't give alpha. I am somebody who >> I so disagree with that. My husband doesn't wear them, but I think it's a very confident thing for a man to wear.

[00:55:10]Oh, I think it's absolutely awful.

[00:55:14]That's just my opinion. But who like that's just I like when guys wear the closed toed ones like with socks.

[00:55:22]>> Well, you know, I hate an ankle sock more than anything. A man in an ankle sock. Oh my god. I don't understand.

[00:55:28]>> No, when you say ankle sock, I think what you mean is like a like a footy.

[00:55:32]Like a what do they call sock?

[00:55:34]>> I don't want to see a man's ankle.

[00:55:36]>> Same.

[00:55:36]>> I don't want to see your ankle, bro. You might >> I don't want to see your ankle. Funny you're saying that. Maybe you'll remember this.

[00:55:42]>> I remember when I first >> seeing Simon's ankle as he's like Well, >> I was just going to say, I don't know if you remember this, but I remember when I first started seeing Simon at the gym before we were dating.

[00:55:54]>> I loved his sock game. He would wear like black socks that he pulled up.

[00:55:58]>> Yeah.

[00:55:58]>> Do you remember this?

[00:55:59]>> No. But no.

[00:56:00]>> Oh, >> imagine if I was like, "Yeah, I was paying it."

[00:56:03]>> Well, you were like at the gym with him.

[00:56:04]I don't know. He wore like I liked his gym fits. Like Simon has great style.

[00:56:08]Well, and you know what? Come to think of it, I don't know what his ankles look like. I like that.

[00:56:12]>> You don't want to see them.

[00:56:13]>> Oh, they can't be as big as mine.

[00:56:16]>> No, I just being like, I don't know.

[00:56:17]He's pale ankles and dark hair. It's like you don't Nobody needs >> You think universally people agree with us? cuz I I am I truly am.

[00:56:26]>> I don't know because I'll tell you that the fashion for men the last like 5 years is guys wearing suits with no socks and a dress shoe and you can see their ankles and clearly like women must be re like affirming that they like it.

[00:56:41]>> You know who's really leveled up their style? Who?

[00:56:44]>> Charles Borch.

[00:56:46]>> Well, this has been one of my biggest issues with him for my whole friend of mine.

[00:56:49]>> Oh my god, he looks good. Damn.

[00:56:53]Um, he looks amazing, but the sock thing, he used to always wear a little ped sock. And I used to say, Charles, you are not I don't care if you're gay.

[00:57:01]You're not going to find a husband if you let your ankle show like this. It is repulsive. You cannot do this. You need to wear adult male socks. I bought him for his birthday one year real socks to show him what it's like. And now he wears real socks. And guess what? He's married. I know. But I'm not talking about the socks. I'm talking about his whole thing. Like he got a style. He is head to toe. the row Laura Piano like >> of course >> he is leveled up he is looking like he's straight off the runway >> you know you and I see Charles differently I just have always seen him in this like great light you know where he's just my cute Charles >> and so um you know Charles and Abberrombie or Charles in the row >> yeah that's that's cute I don't see designer >> I really do notice men though who look stylish like you know who I think has the best style is Um, Dual Lia's boyfriend. He has the best style.

[00:57:53]Callum.

[00:57:54]>> Who?

[00:57:55]>> He's an actor. He's a British actor. He has the best male style. Google him right now.

[00:58:00]>> Okay.

[00:58:00]>> Google Dual Lia Boyfriend.

[00:58:02]>> Dual Lia Boyfriend.

[00:58:03]>> I don't know his last name, but I know his first name is Callum. He has >> the best style.

[00:58:08]>> You don't know who I'm talking about.

[00:58:09]>> My friend.

[00:58:11]>> Um, maybe I will in a second. He's an actor.

[00:58:13]>> He's been in a lot of things. I think he's up for he's up for um >> images. James Bond.

[00:58:20]>> Okay. I like the street style. No, he has really good style.

[00:58:23]>> Okay. I like this little This is like a It's like a windbreakery pant kind of vibe.

[00:58:28]>> Mhm.

[00:58:28]>> Okay. Then we've got like a leather jacket with like a fur collar kind of vibe, but with a sporty track pant.

[00:58:34]That's a cool combo. He's very styled.

[00:58:37]>> Okay. We're working with a widelegg jean. This shirt's not my favorite.

[00:58:40]>> I don't like a widele jean on a man.

[00:58:42]>> Yeah. I don't actually don't think you would like this outfit. I'm actually going to send this to you cuz I don't think you're going to like it. I don't think you're going to like it.

[00:58:48]>> Oh, I'll just show it to you.

[00:58:52]>> No, no, I don't like a widele jean. Who makes What is the style that a man should wear in jeans? Like a straight straight chain. What should a guy wear?

[00:59:00]It depends on the leg shape.

[00:59:02]>> It depends on the leg shape.

[00:59:04]>> Mhm. Because um a guy with a skinnier leg can get away with something different. Like my um hunk of a man, Simon, he's working with a thicker leg. Mhm. Which by the way I thick legs are nice.

[00:59:20]>> Got a thick strong leg. Yeah.

[00:59:22]>> You know, so you can't really be going too straight because it it appears as a skinny >> on him.

[00:59:29]>> Ah.

[00:59:29]>> But then he's been also doing wide leg and I'm like don't go too wide.

[00:59:33]>> Thick legs cuz he works for the thick legs or it's just genetic.

[00:59:36]>> You know, I think it's a body type. And he's very fit right now though. He's extremely fit right now.

[00:59:43]>> Yeah. Um Okay. So, some of these questions, shall we answer just one or two?

[00:59:48]>> Jesus, Dual Lia's really attractive.

[00:59:51]>> Oh, yeah. Welcome to >> I'm seeing some photos that I don't think you'd be that impressed with style-wise.

[00:59:56]>> So, speaking of Callum Turner, right now, a trending topic is who's going to be the next James Bond. Callum Turner's in the lead. I'll probably vote for him.

[01:00:05]It's really fun to talk to you guys about Poly Market. It is the world's largest prediction market, okay? It is a public exchange where people are you're trading on like real world outcomes. So you can there's literally nothing on there that you can't get in the conversation on. You just got to like it's fun. You put in whatever it is and then you get to track it. You get to follow it and you can make a little cash too. You know, I'm always trying to find ways to spice up my life. I'm always I always say I don't drink. I don't smoke.

[01:00:36]I don't do you know I don't do any of that. But I what I do love is competition. I love competition. I love sports. I mean, Simon got me into like predicting outcomes in games, in sports games. I mean, we're doing basketball.

[01:00:52]We're doing football. It keeps you engaged. I'm not, you know, doing anything that is outside of my comfort zone or unhealthy. I'm doing it in a really fun way. It's not just a platform. It's like a realtime read on reality. And because people have cash on the line, they're going to pay closer attention. It's fun to start like group chats with your friends. Like, I don't know. Competition is fun. And I don't play Monopoly anymore. So, Poly Market is going to pick it before the news actually does. It's pretty The science of how this works is it's pretty fascinating, actually. All right. All right. So, anything you're already obsessing over, there's now a place to trade on it and make your knowledge count or to just find out what's actually happening before anyone else does. So, download Poly Market, P O L Y M A R K E T, now available in the United States. More markets are coming every day. So, be the first to trade on them using code Foster. And you're going to get $20 free upon deposit. So, put in Foster and you're just going to get $20 free. That's yours. Put it on anything you want and track it and have fun and see what happens. Somebody said, "What is Sarah's natural remedy for kids ear infections?" Garlic.

[01:02:08]>> Garlic mullen oil.

[01:02:09]>> Mullen oil. Shut up, Aaron. They didn't ask you.

[01:02:11]>> Sorry. I've actually never used it, but I've just read a lot about it.

[01:02:14]>> Um, garlic mullen oil is a natural antibiotic. I don't think I've ever used, knock on wood, antibiotic for my kids ears. It's always that and that usually takes care of it.

[01:02:24]Um, oh my god, Aaron, did you know what the ingredient is in oxylicinum?

[01:02:32]>> No, >> Aaron.

[01:02:34]>> What?

[01:02:35]>> Google it. I want your live I want your live reaction.

[01:02:39]>> Okay, I'm scared.

[01:02:41]>> Aaron, >> what?

[01:02:42]>> It's duck liver.

[01:02:45]>> What? Aaron, Google it. Yeah, >> they taste like little sugar beads.

[01:02:50]Aaron, you've been feeding my children and yourself duck liver.

[01:02:55]>> What?

[01:02:56]>> Yeah, >> hold on. Ingredients.

[01:02:57]>> I mean, fact check me. But yeah, oxylic is a homeopathic remedy marketed for flu-l like symptoms containing a 200 CK dilution of wild duck heart and liver.

[01:03:11]It is primarily composed of inactive ingredients, specifically sucrossse and lactose with no detectable molecules of feeding. No detectable molecules of the original duct extract remaining.

[01:03:24]>> Okay, whatever. Aaron, it's duck heart and liver is the ingredient. How >> that is pretty shocking.

[01:03:31]>> Are you shocked? It doesn't make me feel like it's not a good product because of it. Like it's shocking to hear. How did you discover this?

[01:03:40]>> Because I went to the store and I said, "Do you have any oxylic?" Because Jos's sick and I, you know, we it works. We've been using it our whole life. Well, since we were kids, it really works.

[01:03:49]>> No, no, it works. [ __ ] I keep >> And the guy was like, "Uh, yeah, it's over here. You know what the active you know what the ingredient is in it, right?" And I go, "No, it's like a homeopathic. I don't And he goes, "It's duck liver." And I go, >> he just randomly wanted to tell you. Was he like proud of it or more like you're going to be grossed out? He was just like like fun fact. Sarah, if you had a small budget, what facial treatment would you do? Thank you. I'm going to tell you right now. You have a small budget. I would do micro needling once a year, like the topical kind, not the invasive kind. And I would get a prescription of tininoine because guess what, ladies and gentlemen, I used to travel with skin care with like 50 things and all my things. The creams, the serums, the toners, all this are all for the purpose of turning cell turnover. Okay, that's like the purpose of all the different things. Nothing turns your cells over quicker than treinoid. Nothing. It's like that's it.

[01:04:43]So now I travel with literally four products. Vitamin C is something that you need. You still need that. Sunscreen you need, but I am just like my little travel uh beauty routine now is like a couple things.

[01:04:59]No one no one asked you what yours answers are, >> right? Okay, great. I won't weigh in.

[01:05:02]>> Um, >> thoughts on everyone getting upper bluffs. Okay, so here's where I'm at. I would not get an upper bluff. So, I for me because >> the upper bluff on the eyelid.

[01:05:15]>> It's your eyelid skin. So, for me, >> you got you've been complaining about your eyelids for years. You got like little beady eyes.

[01:05:20]>> I have beady eyes, but I but that is just what I have. Like the like >> if you changed it, you would look like a different person. I would look Aaron >> like a freak.

[01:05:29]>> I would look insane. But I'm going to tell you guys. I'm going to give you guys a little I'm going to let you in on a little secret, okay? Because only the true fans are still listening at the end.

[01:05:37]>> Okay.

[01:05:38]>> True.

[01:05:38]>> So, I believe it or not am not somebody who is like thinking about like, "Oh god, should I get a facelift? Should I get like lipo?" Like that. Like everyone else is, okay? People younger than me, people my age, people obviously older.

[01:05:53]>> But here is the thing. If I was going to do something in the next couple years, I'm going to tell you what I would do.

[01:05:57]>> Is this this like lip lift thing you've been wanting to do for your whole life?

[01:06:01]>> No.

[01:06:02]>> No.

[01:06:02]>> Cuz like that scar is crazy. That's scary. No. I'm going to tell you what what I would do. This is Can I guess? I got to guess.

[01:06:06]>> No. That's rude. I can't handle that.

[01:06:08]>> Oh.

[01:06:08]>> Like you [ __ ] [ __ ] >> Can I guess? Can I guess? And you're going to start naming all the things you think I should do.

[01:06:14]>> Okay, I'm gonna tell you.

[01:06:15]>> I just want to think about what I would do if I were you.

[01:06:17]>> So, okay. So, because of my eye shape, I can't I need my eye skin or I'll just look insane.

[01:06:24]>> Yeah.

[01:06:25]>> But if I was going to do something, >> which I've never thought about.

[01:06:28]>> Mhm.

[01:06:29]>> No, I've thought about this. Like I've been like, okay, if I were to, you know, I would do >> the neck.

[01:06:35]>> No, Aaron.

[01:06:38]>> Just saying things you talk about a lot.

[01:06:40]>> No, I don't talk about my neck. You talk about your neck. My neck is fine.

[01:06:43]>> Okay. Okay.

[01:06:44]>> I think. Is it not? I don't.

[01:06:46]>> Okay. I would do a lateral brow lift.

[01:06:50]And now what that does it it basically So I wouldn't want like I don't want this I wouldn't want this lifted like the middle that I that like a full brow lift would look crazy on me.

[01:07:00]>> Mhm.

[01:07:01]>> I would just lift.

[01:07:02]>> But then you look like cat eye woman.

[01:07:05]>> No, but I would do like millimeter.

[01:07:08]Like literal millimeter.

[01:07:10]>> Can I be honest? You have the kind of face where when you do anything it's really obvious. You just have that kind of face. You don't have a face that's like >> like I can get away with things like I could wear lots of different kinds of makeup. Like you have like a very specific I don't know what it is. It's like you have like a >> like a very full face in a good way.

[01:07:31]That's what we all want, right? Like I have a very angular face. You have a very like soft full face. You can look pillowy easily. You can't do injectables. You have to leave your face alone. You have a great face. You should be very happy with it. You don't need anything. And if you do something, even if it's subtle, I think it will look like you had a facelift and it will look really extreme.

[01:07:50]>> Okay. But like, don't doesn't this look better?

[01:07:54]>> No, I think it looks weird cuz your eyebrows are shaped like curved. [ __ ] >> I think you can't do anything. I think this is your face. And you know what?

[01:08:01]It's better than most faces. So, enjoy it.

[01:08:04]>> I'm not stressing about it, but it's definitely like I definitely uh cuz I >> Anyways, just get the whole face. Just do the whole thing. Just do the Just do the whole thing.

[01:08:15]>> I just think that you have to be careful cuz you have a face you that you can't do a lot of things. It's going to look done. I've been hearing so many actresses.

[01:08:24]I will I'll never say names, but like women that I've It's so funny like women that I've looked at for like 20 years just being like, "God, like it's crazy the shape of their face and their they have no crows feet and they I've been here. They've been getting multiple facs since >> that's crazy. I feel betrayed.

[01:08:44]>> Yeah, betrayed.

[01:08:46]>> Well, feel betrayed. This is You know what? I appreciate this. Most all the questions are for me. They were almost all for you. They were almost all for you last week. I didn't like it.

[01:08:56]>> Um Oh, here's one for you, Aaron. Best facial products to use while pregnant that are clean.

[01:09:01]>> OIA.

[01:09:02]>> Oh, I love Osia.

[01:09:03]>> I love their um moisturizer.

[01:09:06]Um they have that that um very very thick moisturizer. I love Oh, someone asked me. They DM'd me and they were like, "What do you like, what do you look for in a friend?"

[01:09:16]>> Oh, True Botanicals also has a really good face oil you can use while you're pregnant. Okay. What do you do feel? I want to end it here. Do you feel like I've been thinking about what connects me to people and I know we talk about vulnerability and we talk about it all the time, but like I need to be friends with people who are honest about the bad [ __ ] going on and honest about their true fears and that are like I don't know. I really like that's what I'm drawn to right now. I'm really drawn to such raw realness. I'm not drawn to like [ __ ] I'm not drawn to like your highlights. I don't give a [ __ ] about your highlights. Like I want you to tell me you're also having a hard time.

[01:10:00]>> Yeah.

[01:10:01]>> Mhm.

[01:10:02]>> That's all I want. That's what I want.

[01:10:04]That's what I want.

[01:10:05]>> I've always wanted that.

[01:10:07]>> Oh, really? Do you have that relationship with your friends?

[01:10:09]>> Yeah. I don't have people in my life that like pretend everything's perfect.

[01:10:12]I don't >> You have friends who are like, "I'm feeling really down today." So like people call you, your friends call you like, "I'm feeling really down today. I feel like I'm a failure. I feel like what am I going to do with my life?"

[01:10:24]Like you have that.

[01:10:25]>> Yeah. Absolutely. I love that.

[01:10:27]>> But I think a big part of having friendships like that for someone to be vulnerable and admit their fears and flaws to a friend, they have to feel that that friend sees the best in them and sees good in them so that they'll be a safe person to open up to about that.

[01:10:46]>> Yeah. That makes sense.

[01:10:48]>> So I think like you will attract that in your friendships if you're offering like you know support without boundaries.

[01:11:02]>> Without boundaries >> if you're like seeing the best in someone and like wanting to be there for them and not going to use the information, you know, negatively or go like, "Yeah, well it makes sense. I mean, you met him when you were this old and I told you you should have been with him. You know what I mean? Like those are the hard people to to open up to. The easy people I think to open up to are the ones that you think >> um like Josh, our therapist, you know, our mutual therapist are my couple.

[01:11:28]>> Have you talked to Josh?

[01:11:29]>> Simon and I have done like two or three sessions with him in the last 6 months maybe.

[01:11:33]>> Oh, really? I feel >> I don't I'm not okay with this.

[01:11:37]>> It was our therapist first.

[01:11:38]>> No, I know. put it.

[01:11:39]>> Um, anyway, he said something to me that stands out to me all the time. And it was about Simon feeling like he was very sensitive whenever I was like, >> "Okay, we're not cutting this out. So, if you're going to tell this story, you got to leave."

[01:11:51]>> I'm saying it in a way that gets to stay.

[01:11:53]>> Okay.

[01:11:54]>> He was very sensitive to me being critical of a certain person. And I was like, "Jesus Christ, I'm never allowed to say anything." And he and we were at a we were at a a standoff about it, like a stand still. And Josh said, "I think if Simon felt that you had a foundation of love for this person, he would be way more comfortable with you criticizing them." But without the foundation of love for that person, it's only criticism.

[01:12:26]And I it really unlocked something for me because if you just want to [ __ ] on someone all the time, then a person who likes that person or loves that person is going to feel like they constantly have to defend them. But if you're complimenting them, hyping them up, appreciating them, and giving criticism, then it's going to be received differently. And it really made sense to me.

[01:12:52]>> Okay. But what do you do? I I have no idea who you're talking about. But what if the person you're talking about like you really don't like?

[01:12:58]>> Are you supposed to be fake?

[01:13:00]>> No. Well, then then that's that's the truth, >> right? That's different. Cuz this person I assume you like.

[01:13:06]>> Yeah. I think I was just I think I was focused on getting Simon to see the negative >> instead of letting him watch me see the positive, too. Do you know what I mean?

[01:13:15]Like I understood this idea that like it just feels like you hate this person.

[01:13:20]>> I think that you and I I mean I know that I do. I know I have it is such a trigger for me people not seeing something that I see and I think it's because being a child like we spent our life being like no dad she didn't feed us like she didn't feed us >> didn't feed us crazy >> like whatever and it was always like oh you're crazy you know so now I'm always like >> guys are you not seeing what I'm seeing hello >> so interesting you say this >> are you not seeing what I'm seeing because I I felt crazy as a kid. I I'm not crazy as an adult.

[01:13:56]>> So, on set last week, me and two of the writers were like deeply imshed in a in a story. I'm saying this thing. They're like baited breath, you know, like we're all on this journey together, just like so in sync with each other. And Bruce Bruce Eric Kaplan, one of the showrunners on my show, came up and he was like, "You the smile on your face, the joy that I saw, what was that? What What is it for you? What was what was it that made you so happy? Like what's your love language?

[01:14:24]>> That's so sweet of Bruce to even notice that.

[01:14:26]>> I know. And I said shared reality.

[01:14:29]When someone shares the same reality that I'm experiencing, it makes me feel whole. Guess what?

[01:14:37]You and I both feel that way. But it's not normal for two people to see life the same way. So, because I need I need this. Like, not a lot of people need what you and I need in this. You know what I mean? So, I think that is such a source of friction for you and I because we both need that.

[01:14:55]>> But that's not reality. It's not like >> I know people there's four people in my house right now. Every single one of them is going to look at the situation different.

[01:15:03]>> It's not a positive. It's not a good trade.

[01:15:05]>> They wouldn't care as much as we care.

[01:15:07]>> But I feel like Jordan's not like that.

[01:15:09]She's sort of like whatever.

[01:15:10]>> She's not really like that.

[01:15:11]>> She's not as You know what? She was younger. I it when you're when you're >> by the way when I told it to them I explained parts of our childhood as the reason I literally said >> wait that's weird >> sort of similar to what you said I said when I was a kid you know my experience with this one person was very negative and people would always come up and say positive things about them and they had a very different experience and it made me feel crazy and I hated how it felt and I really cared that.

[01:15:38]>> Mhm. That's crazy that you and I have not discussed this >> like five days ago.

[01:15:43]>> No, no, that's crazy. I've never been I've never felt the need to say what I just said.

[01:15:48]>> Weird.

[01:15:49]>> Yeah. And then I'll just show you. Hold on one second.

[01:15:51]>> We should dive We should dive more into this because I think a lot of >> So then I had a text I'm just looking my I had a text from Bruce on Saturday about like, you know, something cut differently, blah blah blah. And I said, "We'll figure it out." out and he says, "Okay, we can share reality together on Monday."

[01:16:12]>> Bruce, what a little sweetheart.

[01:16:14]>> Yep. He was like, "We'll share reality cuz that's what you need."

[01:16:16]>> Guess what? He saw you. He saw you.

[01:16:19]>> Yep.

[01:16:20]>> He adjusted. And guess what? I guarantee you, you've never felt so close to Bruce. He didn't have to adjust. He was just watching me and wondering why I was My heart was singing.

[01:16:31]>> What an observant king.

[01:16:33]>> Yeah, >> we love that. All right, I'm going to go back to work and not go to Shabbat with my child. I got to go to Nou. Got to hit up Nou. Oh, yeah. Heard all about it. The beach. Um, okay guys, got to go.

[01:16:48]>> All right. Well, we do love our solos because you love our solos. So, because I Somebody wrote me recently and they were like, "The last episode you said, are people even still listening?" Yes, we're listening and if you ever stop doing this podcast, I won't be able to survive.

[01:17:03]So, you know, I guess it was just that one person, but >> people are dying in the street. Um, so anyway, so next weekend, next week, I'm not 100% sure if it's a solo or a guest, but we have some very exciting guests coming up. We have Chelsea Hamler, we have Lindsay Vaughn, hopefully Jennifer Garner. I'm trying to get her on the podcast.

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