Vedanta Bhupali 10 of 11 @ Utah Retreat 2026(English)

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[00:00:08]Life is a time.

[00:00:29]Nothing to do. Nowhere to go.

[00:00:42]You are be 100% kiss of Oh be happy.

[00:01:16]>> Sri Krishna Sri Krishna Sri Krishna Sri Krishna That's bodhasa of the experience the ultimate. This is the ultimate that is attained by the seeker of truth.

[00:01:59]It is not mentioned here. You go to skyash, you go to you go to how simple it is. Therefore friends focus we have to I'm not telling you we have to focus attention on this one principle what it is like being other than body.

[00:02:25]The rest of the team play the game of life. That's it.

[00:02:30]So the net result is you discover fulfillment in life.

[00:02:42]Mind is at peace under all conditions.

[00:02:48]The quality of the mind is reflected in the vision dishi and skin.

[00:02:59]A person who is always disturbed mind his vision is not steady constantly. You must have seen like these you know sparrows or this what do you call crow. Crow has got only one eye. They don't have two eyes. So something next time something constantly disturbed mind.

[00:03:35]Therefore learn and live. L I E not leave up to here we are.

[00:03:56]Can there be more simpler spiritual practice than this?

[00:04:02]We are essentially divine then is what?

[00:04:13]Imagination projection.

[00:04:16]See And then because of the imagination projection we consider ourselves to be limited conditioned by that particular thing.

[00:04:31]Therefore it is only in deep sleep we have no we are one with the divine.

[00:04:43]Nay, we are divine.

[00:04:47]Again, when the waking begins again body identification and then mother, father, husband, wife, good, bad, samsara begins. Every day this is happening and yet we are not running.

[00:05:04]See friends, I told you that experiment.

[00:05:11]Everything is happening on the mind. So when we sleep see the dreams, it is already stored in the form of impressions on the mind.

[00:05:23]So those impressions are only seen at that time we are not identified with our body.

[00:05:32]See, so disidentification from the gross body when it is complete deep sleep when it is halfway then all that is stored on the mind in the form of data it starts coming down.

[00:05:51]See friends you don't have to do anything learn from your experiences.

[00:06:01]If we make this a spiritual practice, what will be our lifestyle, nonspecific presence do not become extraordinary, not a black sheep in a white flock.

[00:06:21]See to that extent we discard our individuality and whenever we are strongly identified with then we want to prove something special other no so shankalpa is the cause of our miseries.

[00:06:49]There was one man now he's a man even he was young in Canada a south Indian and one girl from north India studying together dh fail in love they never rise in love and fall in love they get hurt so he told his mother hey mommy I want to get married to her she's very good girl good family everything but they are from north India and now south Indian mother if you want to get married to her you will have to cross my dead body he said mama it will take long time you are not going to die early so do you want me to marry get married in the old age or what either you allow me to get married or you die.

[00:07:52]Take life but we become so serious.

[00:07:58]See friends, we all have to adjust in life.

[00:08:04]Recently somebody was getting married in Parasi.

[00:08:08]So the husband asked me this question who was going to get married. Somebody give me some tips.

[00:08:15]I said tip is very simple.

[00:08:19]Whatever your wife tells is always right.

[00:08:25]You will win the game of life.

[00:08:29]Even if she says, "Okay, see never get lost in arguments before listening. Say yes."

[00:08:50]So no judgment.

[00:08:52]Whatever you say is okay.

[00:08:55]See friends therefore but I wanted this but you said like this I wow wow ch husband and wife can stay together never because of love forget that dumb word there's nothing like love in this world if there is something is understanding see friends but we get carried away. I did so much for him but he doesn't love me.

[00:09:31]So this is we imagine that if I get that iPhone now I got you know the Vivo I want to get iPhone once it goes in your head unless you buy that you will not be at peace.

[00:09:54]Therefore slowly the mind will remain calm and quiet. So now what is the ja? Therefore see ja is not defined anywhere except in our vidanta and the purpose of introducing the topic of ja is to be clearly understood.

[00:10:23]First step, we are all expert in blaming others for all the problems of our life.

[00:10:33]It is a different settings.

[00:10:35]See now such a man he came to me please tell me how to solve this problem.

[00:10:46]I kept quiet to talk to him. So he said, "My wife is torturing me.

[00:10:56]I tried to understand her, but she's beyond understanding. What should be done?"

[00:11:03]I said, "Divorce, you'll get another."

[00:11:05]Why hang on that stupid girl?

[00:11:09]No, I can't do that. Why? She is earning then then okay second option not difficult think properly my friends remember this principle all problems are solved no all problems can be dissolved problems have no solutions problems have to be dissolved.

[00:11:47]Very simple. So what to think about? I said okay you have to think properly.

[00:11:53]Good. In the last life you have tortured her and that time she was doing kvachi and therefore she will be your wife for next seven lives.

[00:12:09]Oh god, what to do? No, first stop blaming her. If she's dumb, therefore she married you.

[00:12:19]Has she been wise? She will never marry you.

[00:12:23]Do you mean I am dumb? I said I didn't say that. You try whatever you have to understand. Now come to the problem.

[00:12:29]So if you want to solve this problem, the solution is very simple.

[00:12:37]Stop blaming her for all the problems of your life and start behaving properly with her.

[00:12:45]Nearly then your mind will be at peace.

[00:12:49]But then then next life she will not be your wife. Agreed.

[00:12:58]See now what we are trying to tell that we are someone other than the body.

[00:13:08]This is the purpose of telling the story but instead of understanding that we take the ja see ja was born ja dies.

[00:13:22]Please understand this. When you go from here, you should never feel that you are going to die or you are ever born.

[00:13:31]See these examples are so simple. When the world fuses the light from the world goes anywhere.

[00:13:43]What is the light? Light is expression of electricity through a conditioning called as bulb.

[00:13:51]Similarly uh who is a husband? Husband is an expression of man through the conditioning called as wife.

[00:14:01]So the husband is a common noun is not a proper noun.

[00:14:07]But when you take the common noun as a proper noun use of therefore what is the ja? Hea is Brahma upadi of the pancha koshas and the expression of Brahman through the panchakosha upadi. These three factors put together is jiva.

[00:14:28]See what is the husband? Man plus the conditioning of the woman called wife and expression of the man through the conditioning as husband. These three factors put together his husband.

[00:14:43]The husband is a man.

[00:14:52]Essentially we are divine.

[00:14:56]But we go on imagining what a life without a wife. You know in this society if you have to leave you should be married then you are respected. You know you should not be all alone.

[00:15:11]Keep on imagining and then finally actually I don't want to get married but my mother is telling then ask her to get once more married why you get married there was one student one man he's no more now he died recently when he was about 27 26 like that he came and asked me Swami G I want your advice Yes. Yes.

[00:15:42]Should I follow Syas or should I get married?

[00:15:48]I said get married.

[00:15:50]He said I asked this question to many people to get proper advice. And everybody told me the plus points of married life and plus points of sya's life. The minus points of married life and minus points of sya's life. You straight away tell me without any I said then do what you like. No I want to know why you say like that. I said those who want to take Sundays they don't gather votes those who commit suicide do they go and say I'm thinking of committing suicide should I do it or not and what is the better way should I take poison or should I hang myself but if I hang Syasi is not in the cloth.

[00:16:51]We are tailor made sasi.

[00:16:57]See one of my friend is a teller injur in Goa.

[00:17:04]So initi God created man we make gentle man.

[00:17:12]Similarly says freedom from body identification is this one.

[00:17:32]Then I cannot be the body.

[00:17:38]See abide in your divine nature.

[00:17:54]See friends and there after going then you know see nobody recognizes me. One frustration.

[00:18:05]Second thing people come and do namaskar to me. Nobody does namaskar to anybody.

[00:18:11]It is narana who is respected.

[00:18:16]But we have that funny notion. People they are not they are equal fools like us.

[00:18:32]Brahma.

[00:18:34]Therefore this mahamantra wherever whenever whatever you are be 100% you have attained realization changing places something will happen nothing is going to change you have to change but normally dumb minded people one of My USA NR friend was driving me in Hes from Mumbai to Pune that time express was not there. So national highway now in India you know democracy is not limited to human beings it is extended to the animals also.

[00:19:24]So when we were going and suddenly a battalion of buffaloos were crossing and he has to stop. Oh god what is this?

[00:19:38]I said these are buffaloos and you become angry with the buffaloos they will look at you. So what friends spiritual life is discover yourself all external things what type of clothes you put on what type of food you eat all secondary how important it is do not get buried in the wrong kind of thinking If I do this, I'll be happy. If I do that, I'll be happy. I am miserable because of this. These are all the tricks of the mind to make us dance.

[00:20:41]Shut the mind. No means no.

[00:20:46]See, and for that the technique we told you before we talk to anybody, ask a question. This is the talk and don't talk to yourself. Listen to silence.

[00:20:56]Spend more and more time.

[00:20:59]It doesn't matter whether you are a man, woman, married, not married, getting married, Dubai, married, anything doesn't matter. Start this slowly slowly. Shankarpa this habit of the mind you know what is a sarpa salarpa is the eczema of the mind and when the eczema happens constantly this that this that this that we have seen so many ladies particularly so much worried worried worried withdraw Enough is enough.

[00:21:44]Here we are for something higher purpose.

[00:21:49]See, so Brahma meaning what the principle I told you spiritual life is not becoming divine but unbecoming ja.

[00:22:10]Spiritual life is not getting something but losing everything.

[00:22:21]What is our sleep? Is it not the same thing? What do we get in the sleep? We lose everything.

[00:22:29]What we become in the sleep? PhD.

[00:22:33]No, we are nobody. Extension of the experience of the deep sleep in the waking is God realization is fulfillment in life and why we are not able to do this because they are praha all the time living body constantly we should be such that nobody Nobody should even suspect that we are ever walking spiritual path.

[00:23:15]I remember once person told me please don't mind. Yes. But see according to our scriptures see this mantra you are talking life is in time pass. This is not good for the sasi is walking spiritual path. I said yes you are right then why do you write I said you are calling me saiasi and you are calling me spiritual path I am neither a si nor a spiritual path I am a time pass I think it is useless to talk to you very good you understood at least you don't become anybody because somebody say something you You don't require certification from anybody.

[00:24:10]See if you want a job then you go with your CV.

[00:24:15]If you don't want anything, no qualification.

[00:24:20]Therefore, give up this wrong notion. We are a soul. We are a soul. And once you take this, then you will start living in present. Living in present means going be beyond cause and effect.

[00:24:36]See cause earlier effect later in between presents cause cannot be later cause is earlier past effect is later and in between in the present.

[00:24:56]See mind starves if it is stopped from running in these two directions.

[00:25:06]These three principles past memories, future worries and present comparisons.

[00:25:18]Three things you suspend.

[00:25:22]Mind dissolves in consciousness like ice cube dissolving in the water without making any noise.

[00:25:32]Therefore, I say therefore what is what I've been telling you spiritual practice is not half an hour punishment.

[00:25:57]Wherever you are forgot that he is basically a warrior on the battlefield, not somebody's disciple, not somebody's grandson. See, therefore, Then I say this must be our conviction.

[00:26:33]Now we have no more doubt about anything.

[00:26:37]Doubts are about always others.

[00:26:41]You cannot have the doubt about your own being.

[00:26:46]What is that? I don't know if you don't know keep quiet. No, I think he the cheat. Now where from the cheat has come? Practice of projecting something wrong.

[00:26:57]Therefore, don't think spirituality mean becoming abnormal.

[00:27:05]There was one student he very much lost in yoga, yoga, pranayam kinds of things. So when he was going he asked me Swami G now I'm going for the first time I have never gone and stayed with anybody so please give me some advice I said I give you but you will not do that that also I tell you no no no s you tell do not do yoga do not do pranayam in the morning 4:00 and disturb the sleep of all the householders householders are sleeping up to 7:00 6:00 8:00 And this brahmachari morning 4:00 you're disturbing everybody.

[00:27:53]We have to live our life in utter alert place and magically therefore follow somebody here I am following my boss.

[00:28:12]Then only the things can move.

[00:28:15]If we have our own individuality, then we are a black sheep in a white flock.

[00:28:22]That is spiritual life.

[00:28:25]See friends, we are not separate from anybody. We are common.

[00:28:38]See And when this does not happen, you know what tamasha is made. I will not tell you the names.

[00:28:49]There are some atmas they drink only Gangajan.

[00:28:56]Maharaji he doesn't take except Gangajan. So wherever he's going then tankers of Ganga is carried to be.

[00:29:06]What kind of spirituality you been on the banks of Ganges and keep on drinking you're troubling others.

[00:29:17]See similarly uh in Di whereby lectures are conducted in Bir every year for one week in the sharatra.

[00:29:35]So the bil the old man he must be listening on the YouTube and all that.

[00:29:40]This is how I was told. Then he asked someone else told the secretary you ask that Mahmati if he can come for one week this slot is free for us so he can come write him. So he wrote in reply a printed reply came terms and condition.

[00:30:03]So many people will come. So much arrangement has to be made. So much publicity has to be done. A minimum of 5,000 audience must be available. And there will be separate kitchen made available. We will be bringing our own cooks. Our people will come there. Nobody should come and touches.

[00:30:26]And for giving the date with all these conditioning something like X cr rupees or X lakhs rupees after the sang is over other balance should be given.

[00:30:40]So secretary g to here don't reply is it a bargain a see friends our kandji he was very clear about it that platform where from money is asked fundraisings Bhagat Gata fundraising rairitual life.

[00:31:31]We are here only to allow the divine to express through us.

[00:31:39]And where the divine will start expressing through us then there will be a different glow around us. But very strong personality.

[00:31:51]See no there. I say that it must become four.

[00:32:08]Even in the dream, we must not have anything else other than the truth.

[00:32:27]Then how to act in this world?

[00:32:31]Whatever has to be done, do it. But don't get too much involved with anything or anybody.

[00:32:44]What we have come here, we must know. We are here in this world only to make this life as the last life.

[00:32:55]No more.

[00:33:00]And therefore when you become fully focused on the spiritual path, one day you come to know and that is the height of happiness.

[00:33:11]One day you come to know neither you are born nor you die.

[00:33:23]Who is born?

[00:33:28]There is a sutra.

[00:33:30]Anything which is made by assembling parts is meant for someone which is other than the parts.

[00:33:42]You must have seen cars. They are assembled on the assembly line.

[00:33:48]And then the car rolls out.

[00:33:52]The car is made for the uh what do you call the wheels or for the um seats or for the glass or for the wiper or for the gear for whom the car is made? Car is meant for someone who is none of the parts of the car.

[00:34:20]or a body same thing.

[00:34:30]They have come together for now what is for whom? Eyes are not for eyes. They are for someone else.

[00:34:40]Nose is not for nose. It for someone else.

[00:34:44]Who is that?

[00:34:47]Is it the ja or the paratma playing the role of a ja who is miserable? Is it a man miserable or the man playing the role of a husband is miserable?

[00:35:02]So if he's playing the role of husband then play the role perfectly well and after the wife goes away then enjoy the moment she comes very good.

[00:35:15]Therefore intelligent husband never go home happily. They go with their son and face and all that then you will have no problem. If you go this comes in relax man relax.

[00:35:44]Ja ja ja there is nothing like ja in this world remove that doubt from your mind so I say there you'll come to know by birth you are liberated but then we keep on accumulating so many things all notions not only of this life but we borrow from the last life.

[00:36:16]Therefore, you got married to her.

[00:36:19]So it is not doubtful from last.

[00:36:28]See friends again and again think in this line.

[00:36:33]Things which are made out of assembly of parts is not the reality. It is meant for someone else.

[00:36:42]The more you focus attention on this, you'll see the mind is also an assembly of subject object relationship.

[00:36:54]If there is no objectivity, be attentive. If there is no objectivity, objectless awareness is the truth.

[00:37:05]For this, I am telling you simple words.

[00:37:09]Seeing But the seer is not born.

[00:37:16]Hearing but hearer is not born.

[00:37:20]So many don't have to teach us this way.

[00:37:22]Do you think we are hearing to you? Oh your ears.

[00:37:30]See friends relax.

[00:37:48]Therefore, start playing. What? Realize realized.

[00:37:56]What is the experience of realization?

[00:37:58]You are happy. So start playing being happy.

[00:38:08]Life is beautiful is like a cup of tea.

[00:38:12]Depends how you make it. Don't blame anybody for anything that happens in our life. We are squarely responsible for everything.

[00:38:23]And nobody can help us in this my friends.

[00:38:29]Okay. What was that worse number?

[00:38:33]>> 21.

[00:38:35]21. No, >> no, 22. We do.

[00:38:59]Now here also other important topic we I don't know if I told or not our sanatan dharma or Hindu dharma what is that sanata dharma is not based on personality on a particular person dharma is based on principles you take any religion except Hindu religion it is attributed to some person.

[00:39:32]In Hinduism, there are millions of persons, not one because all of them are on the foundation of principle.

[00:39:42]See how many people must have contributed to physics, chemistry, maths. So it is a principle. It it is not owned by a particular person. See so sanata is principle based exhaustive for the life. Now these principles a group of people who accept willingly that group of people is called as Hinduism.

[00:40:14]Therefore sanata dharma is Hinduism.

[00:40:18]See and when you are following Hinduism then we are told see that means what that we are Brahmanhatriaudra.

[00:40:35]Now the question comes who is brahmanrishnaud they are based on the and what are the savistas a person who is predominantly satic and nonselfish he is called as Brahman. A person who is predominantly raisic not selfish is called a chhatria. The third a person who is dynamic raises but selfish is called the and the one who is good for nothing is called see.

[00:41:38]So if you follow a particular lifestyle, follow those rules and regulations like example I gave you. If you are driving car in America, you cannot from India and drive like that. No, you have to follow this dharma. Driving on the right side is the dharma of driving car in USA. So and if you don't have to drive why worry see this principle I was told by one police this is how you learn I told one of my who was driving me in Delhi Punjabi and evening time you are going for my lecture I said mama we are getting late but red light I said you are Punjabi in his Delhi and red light and you are afraid and she got inspired and police stopped.

[00:42:42]So I told the police, "Hey Ma, because of me has been living like this, don't charge her. I'll pay the penalty whatever it is." He was by guru. He said Baba G. Yes. Do you know traffic rules are applied on those who are driving the car not those who are the passengers.

[00:43:08]If we are walking spiritual path we are responsible not the world.

[00:43:14]But normally what happens in our life we blame others for the miseries of our life.

[00:43:22]At this such time you start blaming others for anything in your life. You have not stepped on the spiritual path.

[00:43:31]See friends changing the problems is not spirituality.

[00:43:41]See dissolve the problems not solve the problems.

[00:43:45]So if you accept yourself to belonging to that particular type then follow that strictly no option then but now you have given up driving the car you don't have to worry about driving license see when you are no more a doer I have done this and I have done then you suffer. But if God's will you are relaxed therefore you see those who are miserable is only the world around them to change and this can never happen. We have to change. See now it is so hot. So can we tell the son get initiator we have to adjust.

[00:44:50]Therefore, so as long as you are holding a relative position in any place whether family or office or working place or the gatherings anywhere we must find out what is our position there and conduct yourself according to the position then only we will be relaxed.

[00:45:19]But if no iron or nobody can help you in Gujarat this happened one of my friend told me can you believe what I'm telling you it can really happen I said I don't know what you're going to tell me he told one very very rich man he got his daughter married would you Believe the mandup that is made in acre not 40 by 40 more than acre area mand and inside decoration four dham madinat karat galotri and to move to this created dham for all the people who are giving for the those cars you know this which are those propelling car, electric cars.

[00:46:23]Can you imagine how much expenditure must have been and then everything huge?

[00:46:29]Got married one month over. Both of them came to the girl's father. Um dad, we are not in any way disturbed because of each other. We have no hatred. We have no complaints about each other. But We can't click.

[00:46:52]So we have to separate is do you think this is a quality life?

[00:47:09]Therefore this world has always been like this.

[00:47:13]Adopt yourself, address yourself and go through.

[00:47:17]So this I have spent so much who ask you why did you waste money?

[00:47:27]Now the next mantra in a teacher says although functioning through the body but not living as the body.

[00:47:52]See the difference when we are functioning through the body body is only an instrument and instrument doesn't have respect is respect whether the shoe is kept in a very beautiful shelf or you just left over there will the sho whenever we feel insulted whenever we feel hurt.

[00:48:23]Whenever we feel disregarded, condemned, understand our body identification is extremely strong.

[00:48:40]Although functioning through the body, but no more living as the body, for the body, on everybody.

[00:48:51]So this body has to be used. That's it.

[00:48:53]Good. Nothing wrong in that.

[00:48:58]Then so first step there won't be a feeling of insult disrespect in our mind because of anybody or anything. Step four. Second.

[00:49:19]Now this principle which I told you number of times karma can only occur through use a passive voice when you conduct yourself like I have done that in that that is secondary I is primary.

[00:49:37]Oh that is done who did is not important work is important.

[00:49:43]See immediately attitude will change. So This is one. Second thing this we have to distinctly remember we are most unwanted furniture in this universe.

[00:50:05]Then it is our need that we want everything.

[00:50:13]This example I gave you, none of you need me to listen to what I'm talking why I'm talking because I need to talk.

[00:50:25]I cannot talk to the walls.

[00:50:28]And once you take this stand, then you can never be arrogant.

[00:50:33]You can never be extraordinary.

[00:50:36]You have to merge with everything.

[00:50:40]See how important it is my friends.

[00:50:45]Therefore, if we are doing something, it is an opportunity that we have to serve somebody.

[00:51:08]invad says they have says I am fully convinced of this when I function as a body I am thy servant oh lord me and who is a servant? A servant never gets insulted.

[00:51:42]Just imagine he is my boss and I am a servant. Who is a boss? Who tries to show off his bossing?

[00:51:52]So many people are there. He will say these days these labors, these servants are so useless.

[00:52:01]They need to be treated very strongly.

[00:52:05]When this is said, nobody will feel that the servant is insulted.

[00:52:12]But I as a servant because he asked me uh get water I reply how much water will you drink?

[00:52:23]Are you tanker or water? But if I give back everybody will feel. See is inserting.

[00:52:32]Whenever there is a feeling of insult, you have become a boss.

[00:52:47]This is spiritual practice getting every little thing.

[00:53:03]So then nobody needs us. Remember this, we need everything. Everybody if we are not there, nothing will be lacking.

[00:53:22]When we were not in this world, what was lacking?

[00:53:26]When we will go, nothing will be lacking.

[00:53:29]Our parents, our grandparents have gone.

[00:53:34]What difference it made to our parents?

[00:53:37]They will also go. What difference it will make to us? We'll also go. What will nothing but so what should be the principle?

[00:53:54]should be whatever we are doing it is our need humility will come and why karma is done for the purification of the mind and what is impurity in the mind likes and dislikes whether I like something or I dislike something is not the criteria this has to be done this has to be done that's it rising above the likes and disl dislikes is spiritual practice not fulfilling our likes and dislikes. There is samsa.

[00:54:30]Then next is the principle I told you.

[00:54:39]Experience without experiencer.

[00:54:43]If experiencer is not born, you will neither be excited nor be depressed.

[00:54:51]What happened to you? Never ask this question to old people. They will kill you. I learned it.

[00:55:11]Those who are seeking attention, they are strong personalities.

[00:55:23]See, so uh have you taken food?

[00:55:37]You can imagine what the children and grandchildren must be feeling when they listen like this.

[00:55:48]How is your health?

[00:55:55]Will you like to go and talk again to such a person?

[00:56:01]And if you have to talk Don't seek sympathy.

[00:56:09]Remain cheerful and happy. Who doesn't have problems in this world?

[00:56:18]Once this wit and human faculty in you is ignited, you will see you will see the whole world is a big cartoon show.

[00:56:33]When you see the cartoon, don't become miserable. I showed you that clip.

[00:56:38]Forget about the war going on in the Middle East. See this live performance.

[00:56:48]So when that was happening, they were all seriously fighting. Others were enjoying.

[00:56:57]See friends, therefore don't make life miserable.

[00:57:17]This is the meaning of knowledge.

[00:57:23]Knowledge is not quoting the scriptures left and right. There is not knowledge.

[00:57:27]That is only a tip recorder.

[00:57:33]The knowledge will never allow you to live as a body but live through the body. The knowledge will never allow you to develop the arrogance of success and a guilt of failure. The knowledge will never allow you to be a sufferer or enjoyer in this world.

[00:57:54]But you'll be playing the drama whatever role you are given. You played best but neither becoming miserable nor elated. I see.

[00:58:09]There is one where it is said the king is respected in his kingdom but a wise man is respected anywhere he goes.

[00:58:24]I say because knowledge is universal. It is not only for a particular. Now after this knowledge is given. Now let us start applying this knowledge in our daytoday life. First In the beginning you remember that same word see it is different way of telling The word is Raja. If you go in Mumbai, Pune, Copan area, elderly people when they talk to anybody, even the servant Raja, they don't abuse, they use the word raja is converted into.

[00:59:46]So also Now what is the is what we have to learn is what never think of committing suicide live happily go to There it is allowed.

[01:00:23]Thank you for the address.

[01:00:30]So you live happily live others live.

[01:00:36]Meaning neither kill yourself nor kill others. This is the expression of s in us. No destruction of any kind.

[01:00:50]Neither kill yourself nor kill others.

[01:00:53]Meaning killing is hot. See in Mahabharat the story comes uh something happened because of which Arjun was very disturbed and according to his w he has to kill the person his was anybody who will insult my Gandhi I'll kill him and It happened that said something to his he do you know killing is what killing is not only killing by physical killing when you talk loudly arrogantly to the elders it is the death of that elers man.

[01:01:58]Therefore, you don't have to do all that killing.

[01:02:04]You simply tell him You live happily and don't hurt anybody.

[01:02:23]We hurt because of selfishness.

[01:02:27]Like the parents also hurt the children during their childhood. But that is an expression of love not expression of destruction.

[01:02:43]My dear friend, this is what is called the s of the sid.

[01:02:51]Live happily, spread happiness.

[01:02:54]That is the purpose we are made by God.

[01:02:58]And the flowers are made to spread the fragrance. That is the purpose of the flowers.

[01:03:06]The only purpose of our life is we are a source of inspiration, joy, cheer for everybody.

[01:03:15]In some place they ask me this question.

[01:03:18]Which place? I don't remember.

[01:03:21]So what is the purpose and fulfillment of life?

[01:03:27]Standard question.

[01:03:30]I say it's very simple. What? To love and to be loved by all is the fulfillment of life.

[01:03:42]See for that just imagine you come home and your wife open the door and she is dressed in the dress that you like not what she likes.

[01:04:02]And then she'll take the briefcase from your hand and with other hand holding slowly takes you and make you sit on the sofa and nearby a container with warm fragrant water and a fresh towel is kept and then she removes your shoes and socks and with wet towel slowly wiped your feet.

[01:04:29]Only hearing is making you happier than not.

[01:04:36]What a joy it will be.

[01:04:38]Wherever you go in life, you are loved.

[01:04:42]You are wanted.

[01:04:44]What will be that joy?

[01:04:48]And you love everything in this world.

[01:04:50]Everybody, that is the fulfillment in life.

[01:04:57]See friends like says live in such a manner that when you die you go smiling laughing happily others will cry but those who are constantly complaining.

[01:05:23]Therefore, this is the chit.

[01:05:53]Don't get cheated by anybody. We have to remain alert in life. Simplicity doesn't mean anybody can take us for a ride or not.

[01:06:04]Alert. Therefore, three things I told you. Quiet, alert, and vigilant. Three things.

[01:06:12]We are quiet but we are alert. Whether the person is approaching to us with a good or bad intention, we are aware of it. So if he going to do something, we are prepared.

[01:06:28]So you live happily and let others also live happily.

[01:06:36]Do not try to Here we are.

[01:06:49]So neither you teach d teach others or cheat others nor you get cheated and this is what is don't lead the hypocritic life.

[01:07:04]Many times we have this uh selfdeception on this I have I have got this understanding as much we cheat ourselves we don't cheat others because when we tell somebody that somebody takes us to be true but when we cheat ourselves we know we are cheating and yet we do that.

[01:07:38]This is because lack of self-control and then we justify get cheated by others.

[01:07:56]Therefore, live in truth.

[01:07:59]Don't lead a hypocritic, cheating, deceptive life. This is what consciousness to make it in simple words. See the guilt that happens in our mind as a result of when we disrespect our own knowledge in life.

[01:08:28]Again I'm repeating when we disrespect our own knowledge in our life that disrespect creates a a wound in our mind and that wound is called as guilt and a guilty person can never be happy within he'll always have see this is wrong I don't know I cheated that fellow because of me his job was gone and today he is in a very bad condition and I know I have cheated him that will continue in life because guilt is a kind of a cancer to the mind. It will neither allow you to die nor to live. Therefore, be sincere to your own conscience.

[01:09:30]Otherwise, be destroy yourself.

[01:09:34]And thereafter, the last part of our being is happiness.

[01:09:42]That will conclude in our last section.

[01:09:57]Home shanty shanty shanti hom hom.