He Wants Your Cup To Run Over #propheticword #jesuschrist

Added: 2026-05-06

[00:00:00]Please note that not every prophetic message that I share on this channel is meant for everybody. So, it's important that you have a relationship with the Holy Spirit and take it back to him and ask him to give you the confirmation that you need before you run with the message. For some of you, I know that this is going to be a confirming message because the Lord has already been speaking to you about this. And if that's the case and you have any questions, please make sure to take all those questions back to him because he will have the answers for you. If you feel led to support this ministry, please see the information box below the video. Hi friends, welcome back to the channel. It's me, Alita, and I have a prophetic message to share with you guys today based on a dream that I had on April 8th, 2026. So, last week sometime or the week before. Yeah, the week before. April is moving very quickly, guys. Anyway, so first of all, before I start guys, I just want to thank everybody who is supporting this ministry financially through prayers, through just your support, your words of encouragement and kindness. It is like so so encouraging to me and I'm so thankful. You guys don't know how much you are helping me. And yeah, just wanted to say thank you and God bless you for just your kindness, your generosity, for taking time out of your day even just to, you know, encourage me and um even leave a a positive comment, guys. Like those things really ministered to my heart and I'm really thankful. But yes, let's get into the message. So, I'm going to share the dream with you guys. I feel strongly led to share the dream and then I'll get into the message. Um so in this particular dream I was in a high school but I wasn't in school. I just happened to be there. I didn't have a particular role or designation. It's not like I was a teacher. I was just there and I was observing um the teenagers. So it was a high school and the boys had this way about them um very like you know they would like stand around like all puffed up like all you know bravado type stance. Um and in the dream I had this download that they were treating girls badly that they were objectifying the girls and just being Yeah. just just behaving badly, boys behaving badly. And I had this thing in me. I felt strongly led to go up to them and rebuke them in love. So I did. And as I approached them, first they had been in their school uniform. And then as I approached them, they were suddenly naked, like completely stripped naked.

[00:02:42]But it didn't stop me from approaching them. It wasn't like, "Oh my goodness, what's going on?" because I was on this mission, I still felt confident. I wasn't like moved or it didn't stop me or jar me at all that they were suddenly uh not dressed. It was almost as if it was a spiritual kind of um nakedness.

[00:03:06]So, I start to rebuke them and start to say, you know, you can't treat girls like this. It's not right. You know, I'm just gently telling them. But also there's like a firmness in my voice and in the way that I'm speaking to them.

[00:03:20]And while I'm speaking to them, there are some girls actually very close by and they start laughing and you know just having this attitude of yeah you better tell them you you need to give it to them you know and I turned to them and I said but you also you know you should stop giving yourselves away so easily to these boys and that's why um they don't respect you. That's why they have this mentality to objectify you.

[00:03:49]Not that what they're thinking is right, but this is them and their brokenness.

[00:03:53]Right? So, I was explaining to the girls, you need to also carry yourselves with dignity and pride and not just give yourselves away. I think that was the term that I used in the dream. I said, don't just give yourselves away to these boys like this. And right at the end of the dream, it's like the dream just switched to the scene where I was in the girl's bathroom um in this particular dream. And that was the end of the dream. So, um when the Lord led me back to this dream today, uh it again reminded me of the theme that he's been showing me just these uh assignments.

[00:04:29]Assignments are being handed out. The Lord is giving out assignments and I get the sense that there is an assignment.

[00:04:37]If this message is for you, there is an assignment to address the um the the the the the gender issues or some of the gender issues that are occurring within the body of Christ and even even in the world. Um the school in the dream represents obviously a place of learning and the fact that these were like high school students. The these are young people in Christ. These are teenagers in Christ if I can put it that way. People that still have some ways to go to understand the deeper things. And so there's a lot of learning that still needs to happen. But who will teach them? Says the Lord. He's looking for the teachers. He's looking for people who will be brave enough to stand up and say this standard that has been set by the world that exposes toxic masculinity. Right? So that's a big term nowadays and everybody knows well most people know what we're talking about when we talk about toxic masculinity but nobody ever talks about toxic femininity which the Lord was pointing to in this dream that yes there is a problem. There are people, well, let me put it this way. What he was showing me with the young men or the the the men who are still young in the faith, uh, regardless of age, is that there is a brokenness.

[00:06:03]There has been an exposing. And in that exposing um the Lord was showing me that they may come across um on the outside like all masculine and I'm this big, you know, big guy and and but really they're actually naked and uncovered and exposed in terms of just their vulnerability.

[00:06:25]Yes, I think that's the word that the Lord wants me to use that there's this vulnerability that um has been exposed and it's been exposed because of the the interactions between male and female. Uh there's been so much division just in general. I mean, division has been a strategy of the enemy from day one from the Garden of Eden. You know, the the snake in the Garden of Eden brought division between God and man. You know, he convinced Eve to eat the fruit who then gave it to Adam and that immediately brought separation. You know, they were divided from God. And so, that's always been his strategy. Divide and conquer. Divide and conquer. He does that in so many different ways. Um I mean the big ones now we have racism, we have the gender wars, we have um denominations within Christianity, different denominations, different religions. There's just so much division. But with this particular message, the Lord was pointing to um his children, brothers and sisters in Christ, uh the men and the women, and how this division is causing such a weakness within the body of Christ because again, there's this exposure of toxic masculinity. But then in the dream I had to face the girls as well and say but you should also be careful not to give yourselves away so easily and put yourself in a position where you get exploited. And it's not to say cuz I know someone will say um you I'm victim blaming. It's not about victim blaming.

[00:08:12]It's about understanding your value as a woman and knowing that you're not just going to just give yourself away. Like you're too precious to the Lord to just play into um into the hands of Satan and he will use the men and then he'll also use the women. He he'll he'll use the men against the women and the women against the men. And the Lord led me to a particular scripture before I continue with with the message. I feel led to read the scripture at this point. So it's 1 Peter 3:8-13 and verse 17. So I'm going to read that.

[00:08:50]Says, "Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other.

[00:08:56]Love each other as brothers and sisters.

[00:09:00]Be tenderhearted and keep a humble attitude. Don't repay evil for evil."

[00:09:07]Hallelujah. Jesus. Don't retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing.

[00:09:18]Mm- It's getting hot in here. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing.

[00:09:27]For the scriptures say, "If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it. The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right. That is a promise and a blessing, guys. And his ears are open to their prayers. Wow.

[00:09:53]But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil. Now, who will want to harm you if you are eager to do good?

[00:10:03]But even if you suffer for doing what is right. So even if you suffer for what for doing what is right, God will reward you for it. So don't worry or be afraid of their threats, instead you must worship Christ as Lord of your life.

[00:10:19]Verse 17, remember it is better to suffer for doing good if that is what God wants than to suffer for doing wrong. Y'all, there is so much in this passage of scripture that stood out to me the first time that I read it. I was just like, "Whoa, Lord." Um, what the first thing that dropped in my spirit as I was reading this was God did not divide anything here. He didn't say, "Okay, men, this is how I want you to act. Women, this is how I want you to act." He said, "All of you, this is what I want from you." In the preceding verses, he was talking to wives and husbands. And we can look at that as male and female. Well, wives and husbands, female and male, right? Um and then in this section he he talks to all people. He talks to the brothers and the sisters, right? And so I believe that the Lord is is saying that yes, there is toxic masculinity in this world. And it's almost as if it's like it's it's all connected because uh as much as there is toxic masculinity, there's also toxic femininity.

[00:11:34]And the way that the Lord showed it to me is that, you know, the women, and this is obviously not all women, they give themselves to these men, they offer themselves up, right? And then when they get treated badly because they did not value themselves, because they did not put boundaries to say, "I'm a daughter of the most high God. This is where it begins and ends with me. You don't cross this line. You don't cross this boundary." They didn't do that. and they get hurt and turn around and cry, "Oh, toxic masculinity. That guy was toxic."

[00:12:08]But so were you, sis. So were you. And that's the difficult part. And the Lord was showing me. He said, "Where healing begins, right? Where healing begins is each person, each and every single one of us looking in the mirror, where we stop pointing at each other, where we stop being harsh with each other. And when I say each other, I'm talking about male and female here. Um, where we instead take a step back and look in the mirror and say, "How have I contributed to this? How have I contributed to the cycle of abuse, of toxicity, of um, brokenness, of sin, of sin. It really boils down to the fact that this is sin. And to take the time to say, who is God calling me to be?" Okay. I think the moment we look in the mirror, we begin to or God begins to reveal ourselves to us. He begins to reveal the wounds. He begins to reveal um the the areas in our life where we we're really broken. And these are the areas that he needs to penetrate so that we can be healed and so that we can interact in unity with all people not just in our female circles but with men as well.

[00:13:27]Seeing women seeing men as as partners and men seeing women as partners not this this huge divide that we seeing now in society. It is a very dangerous divide. It is extremely dangerous. I I felt a heaviness when the Lord was was was almost pouring his heart out about just the the way there's just no unity between men and women right now. Like it's it's really at a at a it's in a heightened state of of division, if I can put it that way. So looking in the mirror and saying, "Who is God calling me to be? How can I be a man or or woman of godly character so that I can serve my sisters and brothers no matter the relationship? That is these are the kind of questions you ask.

[00:14:17]And the Lord began to show me how so many of these relationships that happen, so many of these interactions that happen, um, and I've been guilty of this myself, is we enter these relationships, these, uh, romantic relationships because I think that's really what the Lord is highlighting. Uh, but it could even be friendships between male and female. But we enter these relationships and there's this drive to there's there's like a drive to fulfill something in ourselves like I'm coming into this so that I can get something from you. What are you going to give me? How are you going to fulfill me? And we even know how we want to be fulfilled. We have like we have all these voids and we expect the other person to fill the void and and and and and live up to our standards of what they should be, of what the man should be, of what the woman should be. And the Lord was showing me how wrong that is.

[00:15:15]How it should never be about, okay, I'm coming into this romantic relationship.

[00:15:19]I believe God is bringing me together with this man. Or if you're a man, God is bringing you together with that woman. And all we're thinking is they're going to make me happy, right? And yeah, I'll try and make them happy, too. You know, I'll do my best. But the Lord is saying we should be going in with a mentality of how can I serve this person? Because that's how Jesus enters relationship with us. That's how he presented himself when he walked the earth, when he was doing his ministry here on earth. He came to serve. He's the king of kings, the lord of lords.

[00:15:54]And he came to serve. He washed his disciples feet.

[00:16:00]That was the that's that's the display that we are supposed to follow. That's the example that we are supposed to follow. But but because there's so much brokenness, there's so much hurt. We haven't been equipped with the right tools to be in these relationships, we go in with all these voids, all this trauma and we expect the person to fulfill us. We have unrealistic expectations and when they don't they were toxic you know they they were you know then we start listing all the bad things you know telling our friends telling our family instead of doing the work looking in the mirror first asking God to show us ourselves how who am I how have I contributed to the way things are you know between men and women what's my part in this Lord Show me the wounds. Show me the things that could hinder me being of service to people. Me being of service to the man that you're bringing into my life, me being of service to the woman that you're bringing into my life. And that way the Lord will begin to highlight those things and he may even take you through self- deliverance or he may deliver you in that process of you praying that out and and and revealing those things. I've experienced that where God has highlighted these things. I've really sat with him and said, "Okay, God, show me."

[00:17:26]Even now I'm I'm still to this day it it feels like it comes at different intervals in my life. And right now I'm I'm going through that. I'm looking at myself in the mirror and saying, "Lord, show me what are the voids? What are the places where I've expected somebody to fill up that space?" And they've fallen short because they're human. They can never get it 100% right. There's no way just like I can never get it 100% right.

[00:17:53]Right? So only God can. Only he can fulfill us. The Lord reminded me of Psalm 23. The very first verse says, "The Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want."

[00:18:06]That line alone, that verse alone is so powerful because when we go to the shepherd, he feeds us, he leads us, he guides us, he takes care of us, he protects us, he loves us, he talks to us, he spends time with us, he leaves us full if we allow him to, if we open ourselves up to him, and if we know that he's the only one that can fulfill us completely.

[00:18:36]then there's nothing else that we would want. We won't walk into our relationships expecting the other person to fill us up, to feed us, to to to to uh put a band-aid on the wounds because that's what they'll do. They will they'll try and help with the wounds and they'll put a band-aid on it, but they won't heal the wounds. Jesus is the one who heals the wounds. That's where we get fulfilled. That's why he's our shepherd. And that's where we get to a state of not wanting so that when we enter relationships, we're full and we're ready to give. We're ready to share the love that has been put in us by the Lord because our cup is running over. Our cup is overflowing. And what is it overflowing with? You know, we read that verse in Psalm 23 and we think, "Oh yeah, riches. Listen, I'm going to be, you know what I'm saying?" But that's that's maybe that's part of it. I don't know. On the surface level, it could be, but on a deeper level, I believe that it means that our cups are running over with love, mercy, grace, the fruit of the spirit. Longsuffering, which is also patience. I almost said longsuffering and patience. Um um what are the fruits?

[00:19:49]What are the fruit? I'm going blank. I literally read Galatians 5 just the other day, literally. Um cuz I'm reading the books of Paul at the moment. So let's go to Galatians 5. Let's see here.

[00:20:04]Love.

[00:20:06]Our cups are overflowing with love, with joy, with peace.

[00:20:11]Imagine walking into a relationship just filled with joy and peace. Not expecting the other person to bring you joy and peace.

[00:20:18]You're bringing the joy. You're bringing the love. You're bringing the peace.

[00:20:21]patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. You are bringing those things because you have had time with the Lord. You've looked in the mirror.

[00:20:33]He's revealed your heart to you. And and and this goes both ways. It's not just one person. I'm talking to every to each and every single person. Whether you're the man or the woman, if we both do our work, if we both do what we're supposed to do, we're coming into the relationship full, we're not coming into the relationship expecting to be filled by the other person. And even if you're already married, even if you're already in a relationship, it doesn't mean that you should get out of it and go and get filled and then come back to it. You can just start working on it now. Start looking in the mirror now. Start praying and asking God to reveal to you what your brokenness is and how you've been pre presenting yourself in this relationship. How you have caused division or at least how the enemy has has has has used your wounding your traumas to bring division between you and your spouse or you and your significant other if you're not married yet or again it could be a friendship. I do get a a strong sense that this has to do with romantic relationships. But yeah, so do the work. Spend time with the Lord. Psalm 23 is so rich. Like even as I'm thinking more about Psalm 23 now, you know, it talks about the Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want. He makes me uh laid down in green pastures. He leads me uh through or past uh still waters.

[00:22:00]He restores my soul. Sorry, I'm going blank on Psalm 23. Um, his rod and his staff, they comfort me. All those things are components of the healing process, you know, where you go through this this Yeah, there's a part that talks about, yay, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil because you are with me. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. It's coming back to me. But I'm seeing healing in this psalm. I'm seeing a process of healing that you can do whether you are not yet in a relationship, not yet in a marriage, whether you are. But God is saying he needs unity.

[00:22:40]It right now he's talking about between male and female. But I believe it's it's it's it's more. It's bigger than that.

[00:22:46]It's in so many ways. But this is the dream that he gave me. This is the message that he wants to me to share today that we need to begin a process of being filled by him of surrendering our hearts, surrendering our brokenness, surrendering our wounds. You know, there's a prayer that I've been praying lately when I'm feeling pain or like emptiness because of things that have happened or things that are happening in my life right now and it's just like painful. And I'm like, Lord, I'm going to sit in this pain with you because my instinct is to do everything I can to not feel it. And that could look like anything. For some people, it's turning to alcohol or um binge watching Netflix or something or listening to podcasts all day, whatever the case might be. Um we turn to addictions, right? So that we can numb the pain. But I I'm I'm just saying to God lately like I don't want to numb the pain. I've done this for over 40 years of my life. I think it's time I sat in it with you and I just welcome the Lord into that pain. I say, Lord, this is a void. It's painful. It's a space that I just want filled. So, I'm asking you to fill it. Fill it with your light. Drive out the darkness that has been sitting there. It's It's been a black hole. And I need you to drive it out, Lord. And I need you to fill it with your light. Fill it with you because you're the only one who can fill this thing and seal it shut. Right?

[00:24:17]You're the only one who can fill it in a way that satisfies. And that's been my prayer lately. And I've seen how within minutes, guys, I'm I feel lighter. The pain is gone. God works in real time when we invite him into our lives. When we ask him to rescue us from these things, he doesn't sit back and say, "Yeah, I'm going to let you sit in that for a few more days or a few more months. He really meets us when we genuinely seek him, when we genuinely ask him to enter these spaces because he wants to enter those spaces. He wants to fill us with his light. He wants to drive out the demons that came in as a result of that trauma. Now, when I say came in, I don't mean came into you, came into your life because not everybody can be possessed, right? Um, possession is a very deep uh demonic oppression. But I don't know if it's an oppression, it's a possession, but most of us are oppressed by demons and they come through trauma and various other ways. You know, we can open doors willingly or unwittingly, but we still unwittingly we still open the doors.

[00:25:23]Anyway, the point is that light of God just drives it out.

[00:25:30]It's almost like this deliverance that happens in real time. And I've noticed just how much lighter I feel and just a joy fills my heart. A peace comes over me. And that's what I've been doing every day. When something else comes up, I'm like, "Okay, Lord, there's something here. I can feel this. This pain is rising up. I've been triggered by this thing. Come into this space. Come into this. I'm going to sit in this pain and I'm going to just invite you into it."

[00:25:58]Lifech changing stuff, guys. This is the kind of thing that can get you through the worst pain. I'm I've lived it.

[00:26:10]I've I've been experiencing this. It's been so beautiful just walking with the Lord in this way and taking the time to look in the mirror and say, "Lord, reveal myself to me. Show me. Show me how I've been wrong because I want to do right. I want to please you." And that was one of the things he showed me was entering relationships with this expectation that the other person is going to fulfill me. And he he's been changing the way that I'm thinking about it. It should be more about serving, going in full. Okay, I didn't realize how long I was speaking for.

[00:26:45]I think we're entering a new season with this channel where the videos are just going to be longer. The Lord has a lot to say, but I was just saying how um the Lord has been teaching me how to come into a relationship filled filled already. ready to pour out all this love that is running over.

[00:27:06]Ready to pour out all this peace and joy and patience and kindness and goodness and all the other fruit of the spirit that's overflowing instead of coming with a deficit and looking to the other person to fill me up because I need I need filling. There are voids here. It's just been such a shift. And I pray that whoever this message is for that you would make that shift as well. That you would surrender everything that you've thought that your relationship should be, everything that you've thought that your marriage should be. Just just surrender it to the Lord. Ask him to show you your heart. Ask him to show you yourself. He's so gentle. And I know that some people may need God may speak to people in different ways. He does speak to people in different ways. He speaks to us in the way that we need and in the way that he knows we'll understand with me. He's always so gentle. He's always just so like I'm always crying like when he's talking to me because of just the way he comes across. I didn't have a lot of that in my life. So that's the way that he shows up for me. This makes me so emotional because there hasn't been a lot of gentleness. there's been a lot of um criticism and constantly being told that you're wrong, everything you're doing is wrong. So, he shows up for me in a very gentle way that really ministers to me and he shows me myself and he's so kind and he's just been helping me. Not helping me, he's been filling all those voids with his light.

[00:28:44]So really what God is show showing us today is that this division that has been created by the enemy because that's how he operates. Divide and conquer is not his design. Men are in pain.

[00:29:01]Women are in pain. Men are perpetrating.

[00:29:03]Women are perpetrating.

[00:29:05]And we all need to look in the mirror. And we all need, we all need to invite the Holy Spirit into our hearts, into the voids. We all need to say, "God, help me to be the man I need to be. Help me to be the woman I need to be so that I can serve my wife, my husband, my significant other, my fiance better. Um, and serve my community better." So, that's the message for today. Um, yeah. I believe that's all that the Lord wants to say to you today. And if this message is for you, I really believe this message is for everybody. I don't even want to say if it's for you because you're either a man or a woman watching this. And yeah, the the Lord wants to see unity in the body of Christ. Unity in marriages, unity in relationships, in friendships, in families. And um yes, yes, there is that scripture. I just thought of that scripture where Jesus said, you know, um I've come to divide, but I think that's in a different context, right? Um what the Lord is showing us here is that the enemy has attacked us. He's pitted us up against each other and we are going full force with it because we're all operating out of brokenness. Um God is not trying to say that your pain and the wounding that you've experienced at the hands of a man or the hands of a woman um is is irrelevant. No, he's saying bring that to me so I can heal you and I can um help you to operate or to to be in these relationships without being triggered, without um that trauma causing you to hate or to be angry or to act out or lash out, whatever the case might be.

[00:30:51]where you go so filled that you're overflowing and that overflowing goes to the other person and vice versa. You're both overflowing with all these beautiful things from the Lord. So that's the message. I pray that it's blessed you if it's for you and I will see you in the next video. Sorry this one is so long. It is what it is. Um yeah, always remember that God is a good father. He loves you so much and you my friends are so deeply special to him.