In family financial management, pooling resources and sharing responsibilities based on individual strengths leads to better outcomes than rigid division of expenses; effective family relationships require mutual understanding, trust, and flexibility in how finances are handled, with one partner potentially managing money more wisely while the other contributes differently, as long as both parties feel respected and valued in the partnership.
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Mr Chan, one-ah-man bake is back!!!Added:
Mamaloo. Mamaloo. We had to talk a little loud because we don't hear House of Chan and you know when when the music is on is copyright. So we got to keep this in fluent. We come here to House of Chan here. And one thing about Maloo, you know, she does really make out and all the editing. You know this what the little niece said up there in Jacksonville this morning. Maloo, you could go anywhere and make a video. You could go anywhere and have a good time and still pay your bills, right? So I can't talk no more. I can't talk no more. So everything else is silent.
Okay.
>> Okay. I got to talk hard again. So, here we are now at House of Chan. And our first our first um order was for shrimp shrimp wantons. So, shrimp one is on the plate here. It's on the table here. And Maloo is enjoying it. She's about to put it into her mouth there. I could see that. Mama, keep that juice some falling on your lovely blouse there. I got to talk fast, you know, because the music here and I don't know why they play music in these restaurants so much, you We could do a real nice video. But say what um my vodkas, how do you like my was? They look pretty good. Yeah.
Everything she saw soy sauce on I order a glass of Coke for myself. But my Lucy I shouldn't have any but the glass by her. So folks, this is it. You know to avoid the uh to avoid the what do you call it? Copyright. I got to talk fast.
I hope you all understand what I'm saying. But it's a wonderful thing. Keep chewing.
>> Boy, this this mountain is a boss m. I don't believe any place I've eaten shrimp bon yet. Remember the music the music I swim one time is the greatest and you see this here I am really enjoying this thing you know listen I really enjoyed it I got to I got to go right here what you know friends malu want to clarify something here what she want to clarify she want to clarify that I enjoy the way she's spontaneous we go out and then she does something that is like that you know what I mean so um she could pay her bills she could pay her bills she could eat the one ton she could drink some coke she could have fried rice and whatnot and mama Amalu is is a genius when it comes to doing these things.
>> And and you're a genius at doing these things.
>> Well, I can't say I'm a genius, but it is first nature. It is first nature.
>> I could just see a plan.
>> Yeah. See a plan >> and run with it.
>> Run with it.
>> But I know sometimes you have to fit in.
>> Yeah, I do.
>> So, I'm just wondering whether it's very difficult.
>> No, you're not. No, because the perks are there and I enjoy the perks. I just had one thing there. I look forward to my meal and Malo is paying. So, I mean that that is great perks per So, I do not I do not pretend that um that excuse me that I am disturbed by Maloo's um accents. No, no, no. Maloo is very very productive, very creative, very spontaneous, very likable. So, I go along with it. You know what I mean? I I am the one who benefited from all of this. You know, all I hear music by any choice? No, no, no, no, no. There's no music in the background because my my tone is really drowning out this music, right?
so excitable. Why?
>> I have to I have to be excitable because this is if I talk slowly, the music will infiltrate. So, I got to move fast. I got to move fast. You understand? M I want to tell you I have appreciated you all these years. I will continue to appreciate you as long as you take me out and entertain me. That is fine.
There is no other way this thing could be done. And we're down in a corner here where we away from the music and and I enjoy your laughter. Goodbye. I have to talk very fast and very loud because the music gives me a copyright you see. But this is one of the charming waitresses of House of Chan here in Tunapuna St. Augustine actually. What is your name again my dear?
>> Wendy.
>> Wendy. Yes, Wendy. We have a lot of Wendy's around. Yeah. So, bra you like to say anything? Um, excuse me. Here you are.
>> Yeah. Thank you very much, Wendy.
>> I always like to highlight the pretty faces around, right, Wendy? You don't mind? No. Okay, good. Here we are. Yes.
>> Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
>> What? What is it?
>> Okay. Right. We'll give you our next one. And here's the Here's a classic.
We'll give you an extra one.
>> Yeah. Yeah. You You lose things around here, you know.
>> Thank you very much. Good. Yes. We don't want the music crowding us. So, we got to speak loud. We got to speak fast. You have anything to say? You're not used to this part of the world, right?
>> Talk talk. You got to talk.
>> No. No. I'm good. I'm good.
>> He's good. is good. What about you? Are you happy to see your family come around?
>> I'm very happy. Very happy.
>> You're very happy.
>> Yes, of course.
>> Yeah. You like You like family, right?
You like entertaining all the time.
>> Like family.
>> She doesn't like family. No. What are you saying that? No. No. No. She like family.
>> Yes. Sure. She love family. Okay.
>> Much. Okay. This is it again. Okay.
Thank you.
>> Oh, sorry. It wasn't one. Sorry, it wasn't on. So, here here we go again.
>> Lemon chicken. Mu's favorite.
>> No, no, no. And uh so this our pork that's for me. You have that there. Ah there comes >> your name is what?
>> My name is fish.
>> Fish.
>> Okay. Right. Good. One best. Yes. Take care.
So mama, what you up to now? They don't me say roll out some flour.
>> Make a boy.
>> You going to make dumplings?
>> Eh.
>> What a man.
>> What a man. What?
I forgot all about that. Yes.
>> Welcome.
>> Well, you mean we start eating dal puri.
We going to house chan.
Who could remember what a man?
How long are you making this?
>> Well, Santa has been fasting >> since yesterday, >> right?
>> He he imagine turned down he turned on going to house of chan, >> right?
>> Because he fasting.
>> So when a man when a man turned on going out on lunch, >> he really serious about you know what you doing, you know.
>> Right. Right. Right. So, so when I came home, I said, "Sana boy, you eat nothing for the day." He said, "No." I said, "So, why you feel like eating after eating since yesterday?"
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. But you really pull in some long hours.
>> Yeah. He said, "One man." I said, "One man shall be."
>> Yes. Of course. Of course.
>> One man for you.
>> I one thing with you know, you're accommodating nature. I love it. Yeah.
>> Yeah, man.
You have to encourage a man. I ain't know if encouraging him to eat on a man is the best thing, >> but he hasn't had a >> but I like to celebrate 24 hours.
>> 24 hours. You break a fast ass boy. You got to celebrate that.
>> I hope you got some pains in your chest in his stomach tonight.
>> Yeah. Well, that's why he say >> yeah.
>> He don't want nothing too much with the one man. Just butter and cheese.
>> Okay.
>> Right.
Lou, I wanted to ask this today. You know, I I said during a small clip at Ka Chan and Mama Lou is going to be paying the bill.
>> Do you feel do you feel funny to think that you know you really will pull out your money and pay for a meal?
>> It's not my money only. Your money is my money and my money is your money.
>> Okay, fair enough. Fair enough. So that didn't make you there's no um if I was maybe the bread winner and you were not working and you was a house husband I don't know if I might feel funny but it's your money that to >> okay okay so we we but we have always lived like that >> yeah I mean I know that different families handle their finances you know differently >> a lot men and women however they handle their affairs. One one pay a bill, the next one pay the bill, one pay the mortgage, the next one for the car and however and um and then whatever money remain as your money and that is my money >> and what I do with my money that's my business and what you do with your money is your business. But um I have always um well ever since we got married we money our money was pulled together and we did stuff >> and you know it wasn't a matter of you paying the mortgage and I would pay for the car all the money in one pot and you paying your bills and then when you finish pay your bills if a little thousand remain You see all right? We going try not to touch that cuz we want to make a little fation with the children >> that time early marriage you're only making a little bar or St. Vincent or whatever you know.
>> Mhm. So the extra money went towards a vacation but a lot of people do not operate that way but it has always been like that from inception >> with us >> with us and I believe from where I stand I can't tell anybody what to do I'm not telling anybody what to do but from where I stand I feel that strengths are always good to use. And if a man has the strength of turning around the money wisely and get more for his dollar and the woman on the other hand freehanded and spend freely and he's handling the financial affairs, that's okay. vice versa. If the woman is strong financially and she can stretch her dollar and get a lot more done for it, why not?
>> I agree with that. Yeah.
>> And um and I always believe a family is a family. We're not roommates.
>> That's right.
>> We're not roommates that what my money is my money and your money is your money. What you do with your money, right? We're not roommates. We are a family. We have children. So I always find it little awkward that if it is you operate whereby you pay this and you pay that. So you're going on a vacation and you have four children, you go buy two tickets and I go buy two.
If you have three now who pay for two and who pay for one?
>> Yeah. You know >> good point. Good point. So, so to me when a family is operating and you're thinking holistic the family if one person is in charge of the finance and you can trust that person I will say I think it works beautifully for for those whom I know operate like that they they do a lot more.
>> Mhm. Because always there is somebody in the family who has a freer hand than the other one. I I always say once you have money I don't know if you're on your face you look rich >> that's the day somebody kind of hard story for you and you put your hand in your pocket and give them what you have.
always has been so, >> you know. So, and you know, yes, it's really nice to be kind and to give.
There are people out there in need, but you know, you could put out a good $2,000 every month if you just think of the those underprivileged and who you could help and how you could help and you know what I mean.
>> I'm not saying you have to be tight tight.
>> Mhm.
>> But sometimes you you work for a lot of money, but you have a lot of expenses and everybody trying to balance how best >> right >> they can work it out.
>> Mhm.
>> And you know, as I say, some people could really stretch a dollar more than another person.
You know, some people just could make a pot that is not expensive and it could taste very good. They may not had no chicken. They might not have no meat, but they could cook without meat and it tastes good.
>> That's right.
>> You know what I mean? So, when someone, as I say, can stretch a dollar and you can trust that person, I believe that you could go further. M >> I'm not an advocate here for anyone >> but that's just my >> you're going by what work for us >> right what worked for me may not work for somebody else >> but you know these are things that can be explored and you know do differently.
>> I notice you handle the um the Thank you very much. I notice you handle the bake pretty soft. You think it's going to come out like the traditional warm man?
>> I think you like you're making dalbury.
>> Since I start making roti like because my flour normally be hard.
>> Yeah.
>> So let me see because last time I make one a man it was it turned out to be two man too.
>> Mhm.
>> Was heavy and you know fulfilling >> right?
So I think I better use this side. But this could be better regulated, >> right?
>> So yes. So there we go.
>> Mhm.
>> Excuse me. And I just >> the oil you pick up, man.
>> Get some oil.
>> Mhm.
>> It was good today. How's the child do?
>> Well, the food is always on >> always on >> on point.
>> Yeah. Always on point.
>> Really good.
>> Mhm.
>> Yes. Lovely evening.
So, we started walking yesterday, girl, but we skip out today.
>> Today, we finally >> Yeah, indeed.
>> It's warm.
>> Oh, yes. Well, I closed the window. You know, I didn't want the noise from outside today. Today, folks, I had to fight down the music at House of Chan because copyright is such a thing that you we always run the risk of getting.
So, if you find that at the beginning of this video is uh chaotic.
>> I think it was crazy.
>> Yeah, it was a bit chaotic, but I wanted you.
>> Was that deliberate though? Well, I really wanted folks to see us at the House of Chan, but I I didn't expect that the music would have been, you know, so much. It seemed that everywhere you go now, there's so much music that you could hardly do something, you know, in a quiet area.
So sometimes even here you know you'll see me close the windows because the noise from outside infiltrates and sometimes you know people might be passing blaring or stop and the music is on and even then we get a copyright.
So >> N you're very notice and very um observant.
I noticed that my flour looks like I'm making roti.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I was kind of concerned the way you're gingerely handling that stuff there, you know.
>> So, what you going to do? You're going to do all of them over.
>> No.
>> Oh, you mean do over >> flour? No. Needed I mean the way you handling it.
>> You going to rough him up or something to make him like one man?
What's done is done.
>> What's done is done. You see how nice you're turning that? I feel you going to make a young.
Let me see this action here. Now, >> you know what? I not see >> no >> my um thing for tuning.
>> Yeah, man. Look inside there. Or maybe it's maybe it's in here. You know when you pack away.
>> What are you talking about? One of these.
>> No, not too big. A flat plastic one.
>> No. Well, mama. Sorry. I can't help you at that point.
>> I don't know where you want.
>> Take anything that could work, man.
Check check to to do all this madness. All right.
Yes, man. That looking familiar, eh?
>> Mhm.
>> We're going to tell her this, right?
>> I said make up.
>> Yeah, man.
>> Cut off the press.
>> This is this is your your request.
>> My request, boy. Yeah, boy. What are you drinking with that?
>> I have water.
>> Water? Boy, you taking this thing serious, boy?
>> Man, real serious, boy.
>> Say flower looking like roti flowers.
Looking like >> Yeah.
See how you see how easy she turn she?
Yeah. Yeah.
Mhm.
Let me see that cheese over there.
Right. Please piece here.
>> Yes. A little piece. Okay. Not not too not too fat. Lining. You always say that every time we cook a nice sampling. That is very true.
Very very very true.
Yeah man.
You good?
>> Yeah boy.
>> Feeling like water.
>> Thank you.
>> The finished product.
>> Mhm.
>> The finished product looking like >> you know I had a sister she's pass whenever she's cooking she samples so much or when the meal is finished she can't eat.
>> Who's that?
>> Yeah. And you and she tell you when she cook she eat >> but she samples no appetite but eat it all the time.
>> Yeah, I saw that myself.
>> Let me see.
Bring that for me. Let me see. Oh yes boy.
Looking good there. speak.
>> Now, one will do me.
>> One will do.
>> One will do me too.
>> One man, >> one man.
Imagine at one time we were four in this house plus mommy and daddy six.
>> At one time we were 13 in this house like long time house.
>> Mhm.
>> You remember when father was living here.
>> Mhm. We had father, we had man, we had the whole family plus Wayne and Wendy and the baby.
>> This house have last chicken.
>> Tot Mhm.
You get it, mommy?
>> I get it.
>> Mhm.
>> So good.
>> It cook properly.
>> Mhm.
>> One time you make a real gentle that >> Yeah, man. I want to sit by the table and lick up this.
>> Go right ahead, friend.
The fire was too high, man.
That the boon already.
Yeah.
>> That's what we call a speckled man.
>> But I admin.
>> Okay, mom. So, we will have ours.
>> Wait till we get Wait, we get a better looking one.
>> Better looking. When you're eating something, >> we can't add this.
>> Get yours ready.
>> Mhm.
>> Butter.
>> You use roll out in it.
>> Roll out.
>> Mom, let's have any claw, please.
Folks, mine is looking a little untidy.
It's not very very disorganized.
It is manageable.
>> Huh.
>> I feel it's fine.
>> It's usefulness.
You know the last time we made I poison it so it must have burn the heat in it or something.
>> It's okay so quickly.
>> So folks, you're spending a little time with us in our evening meal with our evening meal.
Boy, >> that's okay.
>> I don't know what's going on here.
Mommy, can we get some grease? Maybe.
>> The grease. Yeah.
>> Take out.
>> That man has been beaten to death.
Oh gosh. Mama, you're sweet to mama.
Baba, mama, why you treat?
Love you more.
>> I just love you more.
>> All right, fellas.
Red mama bring her bake. We going to call that George.
Yeah, somebody say pull out the help. Put on the camera.
>> The woman doing all the work.
>> Really?
>> They don't see you behind the scenes, you know. Boy, >> no. They won't get to see our video if they put on the camera.
>> Well, boy, I don't know how they want to work. How they want that to work, but not too much cheese, please. But I'll take some butter. I tell you what, just a little butter, please.
Folks, don't mind that. Malu and I understand each other.
And that is the important thing that we understand each other.
>> That's the important thing.
>> Yes. And nobody >> in any relationship >> is taken advantage of here. We're just helping out the situation.
>> But really and truly um once a husband and wife or anybody for that matter into a relationship, if you understand your partner, >> that's enough, Mom. I'll take the rest.
If you understand your partner, things will be okay. But if you don't understand your partner, you'll go through life >> never being on the same page.
>> That's correct.
>> So, fellas, >> dive in, >> boys and girls, men and women. This is my portion this evening. What a man.
>> Maybe I should wait for Louisa.
>> No, no. Go for >> No, no, no. I'll wait for you. You You couldn't be so far behind. Yeah, man.
You you you biting.
>> You biting.
>> What I can do is I can um I can tape you.
>> Mhm.
>> Not to >> I'm holding it like that.
>> No, darling. You're not doing it right.
You got to turn it this way. Don't let your hand Don't let your fingers get over the camera there. Right.
>> Right.
>> So, thank you very much, Mama Lou.
Very nice of you.
>> Don't mind the big take a high color.
>> It's okay. But it is >> how it is.
>> Real good.
>> Real good. One man.
>> Correct.
>> Give me a second.
>> Sorry.
Sorry.
>> Thank you.
M >> I believe it is perfect >> just like ma used to make it >> just like mama Lou used to make >> you're back on track mommy >> back on track the last time I make it and trying to tell me he said this is to a man now you're making >> I said now boy you can't afford to lose that touch you know >> I want to be perfectionist in my dal puri and perfectionist in my fried bake >> but it'll always be >> and the next fry is bust up shot, you know.
>> Mhm.
>> And I still have to make a pepperi.
>> And don't forget mother says she will come. We have Christine up in arena who say she will come. So you know all these people are there but you know you can handle your stories. Right.
>> Right on.
>> Thanks again.
>> Okay. Let me see that my my bake is not burning.
Mhm.
>> See this one take nice color.
The the fire might have been too high.
>> Mhm.
>> Come on. You take a bite of your stuff.
The next one.
>> Mhm. You want a piece of mine because huh?
>> She say that she'll give you a piece because it's too much for her.
>> Okay.
>> Remember you had a long 24 hours ago.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> Okay friends.
I don't really edit. I like to shoot it straight. Whatever little oddity shows up, it doesn't really matter.
If you go in this kitchen with us, it will be real. It will be just the same.
Right, mama?
>> No. This when mama go in the kitchen and say clean up as you work.
>> S try to teach me, but I can't make it.
Clean up while you work. Mm. Falling on my face. Mhm.
>> You know.
>> Mhm.
>> I am old lady now. So I can't hustle >> well >> to make big and washing dishes and doing that and cleaning counter.
>> Uh-uh.
>> Mhm.
>> None of them take the training, but it's certainly very demanding.
Wow, mine is flawless and see.
>> Okay, >> if I was to buy >> you know someone said that cheese makes you dream.
>> Cheese makes you dream.
>> Mhm.
Mhm.
Do you feel a sense of anticipation as you're cutting like there?
>> Yeah.
>> Mhm.
>> We haven't had one man a little while.
>> Mhm.
>> So, it's time like a novelty right now.
Yes, >> boy.
TA.
>> I swear I anticipated say like I score score.
You know what? What else you want? Jam in it.
>> Yeah, boy. You trying to lose weight and I want to put you with jam and butter and everything else.
You got dream of head girl.
>> One thing.
>> Yeah, man. Thank you. Tada.
>> Tada.
>> Tada.
>> Look at mine up. Nice color.
>> Yes, man. See, >> what? No, no, no. This is great.
Thanks for me.
>> Mhm. You're welcome.
>> Thank you my dear girl.
>> One man is back. One man is back.
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