I am not going back | Jamaica 🇯🇲 Vlog

Added: 2026-05-30

[00:00:00]Hey guys, welcome back to another vlog, another day, another Jamaica vlog.

[00:00:39]I ended up spending an extra week in Jamaica. Remember I was telling you I did not feel like going home. I just didn't feel like the trip should have ended. So, I extended my stay for an extra week, which I'm so mad because my mother's birthday would be in just a few days, like two weeks. And I would have loved to stay longer to spend her birthday with her, but I had to just extend it for one week because I had I have some legal proceedings and things like that that I had to, you know, get back to America for. But anyway, I know that my Jamaica trip has been quite controversial. A lot of people has their opinions and whatever. Why would I spend my first Mother's Day in Jamaica? All of that. I just did what I felt was necessary for my wellbeing, for how I was feeling. And that's what I felt like doing. I felt like I should be around my village, my community. You guys see that when I'm in Jamaica, I thrive. I am my happiest. As women in every aspect of our lives, we just want to feel seen, feel heard, and be happy. Point blank period. Be happy with our decisions. be happy with people that are in our lives because I remember years ago when I would have constant headaches like I would have headaches almost every day and I went to the doctor for it and I was very concerned at the time my doctor would dismiss it like oh you're not drinking enough water you are doing too much work watching too much TV but I was almost certain it was something else so I would say to him let's do some more tests let's see if there's something internal that's going on he would just disregard it and as a woman that just made me feel small, unheard. I felt unseen as if my concerns for my own health was not important. And when it comes to your health and just overall as a woman, leaving your doctor's appointment, that's the worst feeling that you can feel. It was after that I decided, let me switch doctors that it was found out that I needed glasses. So, if I had a doctor that actually listened to my concerns, not only would I have gotten a prescription glasses sooner and solved the problem, but I would feel safe in the care that I was given. And as women, we deserve to feel heard and taken seriously because our instincts, they are valid. And at best, they need to be considered and not just dismissed.

[00:02:57]And it's not that we feel like we know everything and we're always right, but it's just that we never had the right people in the room to take us seriously and actually listen to our concerns.

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[00:05:27]Hey.

[00:05:37]Hey. Hey.

[00:05:45]me. Tell me tell me.

[00:06:25]Listen, I'm supposed to be on a flight back home to New Jersey. I decided I'm using up my free will and I am coming to the river. I'm going to be hanging out.

[00:06:34]D here. Mommy day here. Baby girl is here. I'm hanging with the girls. I'm not ready to go back to Jersey. So, I'm out here. Um, so yeah, we decided to come to the river today to chill out.

[00:06:47]It's It's been hot. So, we decide to come, cool out, chill out, and get some river water, some fresh water vibe. And no, what name?

[00:06:59]Nature Paradise.

[00:07:02]I'm at nature paradise. Me and our grandbaby.

[00:07:08]>> We brought KFC. Just bought a bucket.

[00:07:12]KFC chicken. Here it come with all the sides, fries, mashed potato, all of that. And then we have our cooler with some drinks and things ice out here.

[00:07:25]It's clean. The river clean and nice.

[00:07:28]Clean and nice. Not going to lie. So majestic baby girl here. So just a chill free will free free will.

[00:07:49]Heat. Heat. N.

[00:08:04]Originally a rafting out here I am and it's all about you. Ready for it?

[00:08:47]>> Dryland tourist.

[00:08:48]>> Dryland tourist.

[00:08:50]>> Look outside.

[00:08:56]>> All right. So, we are rafting down the stream now.

[00:09:03]Come on, heat.

[00:09:25]Heat. Heat. N.

[00:09:59]Den, how was it? Lovely. Very, very relaxing and chill. So, we're on our way back now. Went down the stream >> and we're going on the swing now. So, from calm and relaxing to adventurous and excitement. But big up our guide.

[00:10:27]>> What?

[00:10:31]>> Remember your man a life. Let go.

[00:10:39]jacket.

[00:10:42]Let go back. Lego.

[00:10:53]>> What happened? What happened?

[00:10:57]Float, girl.

[00:10:59]>> That was so scary, girl.

[00:11:02]Now I'm going to jump off the swing then just go a while ago and watch your whole life swing for dear life >> Jamaica Continue.

[00:11:30]Heat.

[00:11:57]Guys, listen.

[00:12:00]We're out here.

[00:12:17]in the river vibe. Nice then. All right.

[00:12:21]I know.

[00:12:28]You want your mommy? Go to grandma, baby. Go to grandma. She enjoy the water. I see. Guys, we are going to head home now. They were in the water playing catch throwing ball all sort of things to be excitement, but it seemed like it's going to rain. So, we're going to head out here now.

[00:12:46]>> Two time two times. I was doing this for YouTube.

[00:12:50]>> Yeah. Creating content.

[00:12:54]>> Yeah, it was it was really it was nice.

[00:12:56]And we were supposed to go to beach today. You know, we actually were supposed to go to we were actually to go to Fort Clarence Beach, but when we would reach at the gate, the beach closed. So then say River instead, I say, "All right, check on the river vibe." And I don't regret it one bit. So calm, so peaceful. The water so nice.

[00:13:18]>> Mommy, how was the river trip?

[00:13:20]>> Nice, nice, nice, nice.

[00:13:24]>> Nice, man. man. And now change all the name.

[00:13:28]>> Yeah. Change all the name >> to um nature paradise.

[00:13:32]>> Set up the place and it's clean. Well clean.

[00:13:34]>> It clean. Yeah.

[00:13:35]>> Clean. Clean. Clean. Yeah, man.

[00:13:36]>> But the rain is coming down.

[00:13:39]But fun was had, a good time was had.

[00:13:42]Use your free will more. Enjoy your life more. Go out. Enjoy it with your family, your friends, by yourself. Whatever the case is. As I said, I should be on a flight back home. And I'm like, I'm not ready. I'm not ready. I need to enjoy my trip a little bit more. And here I am.

[00:14:05]>> So then then change off and all of that.

[00:14:08]Honestly, make a change off. Change off.

[00:14:10]>> We don't have to. I had to because I'm going to step somewhere.

[00:14:15]>> Oh >> yeah.

[00:14:16]>> Yeah. I mean wet and things.

[00:14:18]>> But it was a vibe.

[00:14:19]>> It was a vibe.

[00:14:20]>> It was fun. girl jump off at least one me come cuz one thing leave her out there but it was fun guys anyway I'm going to end the vlog right here I'm going to change off to change off so mommy defend chicken there chicken food eat up >> so the girls are going to eat some food and thing but yeah this is where I'm ending the vlog for today Guys, hope you enjoyed it. Leave a like. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button. Jamaica.

[00:14:55]Nice. Nice. It nice.

[00:15:15]Heat. Heat. N.

[00:15:25]Heat.

[00:15:32]Hey, Heat.