Viral Prenup Plot Twist: Her Ink Faded—Did the Contract?

Añadido: 2026-05-06

[00:00:00]This woman signed her prenuptual agreement with Disappearing Inc. so that it wouldn't hold any weight in court.

[00:00:06]But later in their marriage, when her husband wanted her to cosign for a loan on a large yacht that she didn't even want to own, she started signing everything left-handed, she couldn't use disappearing ink because it was a digital signature. So, she figured if she did it left-handed and if this ever got to court one day, she would call on a handwriting expert and have him compare the signatures and it would not match her natural right-handed signature and it worked during the divorce proceedings. The husband was trying to get her to pay half the loan for the yacht because they both signed the document. She claimed that her signature had been forged and they brought in a handwriting expert who looked at the analysis and said yes.

[00:00:47]Take one. [music and singing] Breaking all the noise. The male perspective on the mic. Bring the truth [singing] and pause. [music] There was never a gender war. So men grab their mic. Defending was real. [music] [singing] >> What's going on people? I am your host Sayone's History and you are watching the Mel's Perspective. Do your boy a solid as always man. Make sure that you like, subscribe, hit that notification bell. That way you're updated for all cool new content that's coming out. Now, with that being said, we're going to be talking about a topic that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. And [music] this is why men are choosing prenuptual agreements. Now, let's be clear from the start. A prenup is not about hate, fear, or assuming a marriage will fail. For a lot of men, it's about protection, clarity, and [music] peace of mind.

[00:01:38]Marriage is not only emotional, it is also a legal and financial contract. and more couples today are treating it thus.

[00:01:47]With that being said, let's get into these [music] clips and the reason why men actually choose prenuptual agreements will start to make a lot more sense. Let's get into it.

[00:02:02]This woman signed her prenuptual agreement with Disappearing Inc. so that it wouldn't hold any weight in court.

[00:02:08]But later in their marriage, when her husband wanted her to co-sign for a loan on a large yacht that she didn't even want to own, she started signing everything left-handed. She couldn't use disappearing ink because it was a digital signature. So, she figured if she did it left-handed and if this ever got to court one day, she would call on a handwriting expert and have him compare the signatures and it would not match her natural right-handed signature. And it worked during the divorce proceedings. The husband was trying to get her to pay half the loan for the yacht because they both signed the document. She claimed that her >> signature had been forged and they brought in a handwriting expert who looked at the analysis and said yes.

[00:02:53]Diabolical. [laughter] She used a magic pen that would make the ink disappear so that it wouldn't be a legally binding contract. and then she used her left hand so if a signature expert came in they wouldn't be able to identify her signature. This is why prenumptual agreements and need I say maybe even having a legal representative actually there showing that both of you signed the paper is even more so necessary. And it just goes to show why the biggest reason men actually choose prenumptual agreements, it's because they need protection from women. Um, so men are building.

[00:03:46]We are supposed to build and take care of ourselves. So I I'll give you an example.

[00:03:56]The difference between a man and a woman or I should say a boy and a girl when they're actually becoming of age in their adolescence and they leave the home is that a man is supposed to strike out on his own. He's supposed to figure his way through life. If we actually go through the traditional sense and a woman is actually supposed to be under her father's covering until she actually marries the man and then the man will actually have or I should say the husband will have the wife under his covering. Now if something goes wrong the woman can always come back. This is why those traditions were actually set up because back then you couldn't just take a man for everything he had because he built that. It was always the father.

[00:04:46]the f this is why the father would vet because he said hey I vetted my not only did I vet this is something that my daughter wants to get into with this man but if there's a situation where they don't work she can always come back to the house and she can be under my covering women don't want to do that anymore and now they have the law on their side where you know if a man isn't protecting himself he can get screwed like this so there was a reason why we did it in the past the way we did. And I kind of think we should go back to those old ways. But who am I?

[00:05:28]Like what I'm getting at is [music] the prenup. Have you ever heard of it?

[00:05:37]>> That didn't go well.

[00:05:43]I've agreed to come check out this wedding venue, but my financial situation doesn't support me paying for a wedding right now.

[00:05:53]And it's frustrating because Meline doesn't seem to understand how insecure I feel, >> never do, >> about the situation. So, I had to bring up the prenup to, you know, feel better about everything.

[00:06:12]It's not like I have a ton of money right now. I literally just have my only asset, which is the apartment. And if things between me and Meline don't work out, I can't afford to lose that, >> right?

[00:06:33]>> I love you.

[00:06:34]>> Sorry. fixing w the bill deal is who you think I am.

[00:06:40]>> This is nothing >> if you need you have a rotation for me.

[00:06:43]So this relationship is over.

[00:06:48][music] >> The day Luke asking me to marry him. I give to him completely my heart. But the last few days he rocking it in 100 pieces.

[00:07:06]I want you to come to your senses and understand what's going on and that it's not a big deal.

[00:07:10]>> I don't understand or you don't understand.

[00:07:14]>> You don't understand what what a prenup is. It's everything before the marriage.

[00:07:18]Once you get married, you share everything after that. No problem. I know.

[00:07:21]>> Yeah. Okay. Then what's the problem?

[00:07:24]Often times I do feel that it is her way or the highway and there's not as much compromise as I would like to see. And look, I'm a pleaser and I want her to be happy, >> but I I I need to be happy as well.

[00:07:44]>> Look, I get it, bro. You definitely want to make her happy. I want to make my wife happy, too. And this is it kind of hits home because you know I myself you know my biggest asset is my home as well too. So I completely understand where he's coming from. But it just goes to show you one of the biggest reasons men actually choose to get prenups is very simple. It's protection. What they built before the marriage. If a man spent years building a business, buying property, investing, or saving for retirement, he may want to make sure those premaritable assets clearly are defined. This doesn't mean he doesn't love his partner. It means he's understanding that life changes, circumstances change, and unfortunately, I hate to say it, relationships change, too.

[00:08:45]When Alex said like, "Oh, I need a prenup." I was just [music] I I remember I had zero emotional reaction. I watched my parents get divorced. My mom tried to take my dad for like everything. And my dad, I remember on Thanksgiving going over to his house and it was a shitty apartment with no electricity and a blowup mattress on the floor and we get a rotisserie chicken with candles because she had taken so much money from my dad. Watching that was like heartbreaking going into like having a relationship with anybody. My mentality was like, I want to be self-sufficient.

[00:09:16][music] I don't want to rely on somebody else because I don't want that to be why I'm getting married. I just remember we were in the car and I had signed the pedup. I was like, oh, here it is. He's like, "I signed it right away." And he ripped it up and threw it out the window. And I was like, "Why [clears throat] did you just do that?

[00:09:31]I've got to sign another." And he's like, "I'm not doing this." I was like, "Why?" He's like, "Because I marry you because I know that you're not that person."

[00:09:42]Jesus.

[00:09:43]Oh my god. Okay, look.

[00:09:47]Finally, a woman who understands.

[00:09:51]Okay. And this makes more sense on why he did what he did and he ripped it up because she was so okay with actually signing the prenup because he knew that she wasn't trying to get him for his money that she wasn't going in thinking to herself that I'm going to try to take his stuff. So, she just signed it. And he was like, "You know what? You signed it that easily. You gave me no gripes.

[00:10:19]I'm not even tripping. let's rip this up. And he ripped it up. Well, with that being said, I still would have kept the prenup. [laughter] I still would have kept the breed. But I understand the sentiment. I totally get what he's saying. And there are prenups where you can actually go ahead and say after a certain period of time, this prenup is null and void or whatever the case may be. And and it is what it is.

[00:10:42]And then on top of that too, ladies, if you plan on staying with a man and then the man passes away or something like that, you still get everything. So, I don't see what the big deal is because the prenub not only protects the man, but it protects the woman, too. This is why when you actually go into signing a prenub, you have to have a lawyer there, not only for the man, but for who else?

[00:11:04]The woman, because the other lawyer wants to go over the things that the woman may actually want or if she's uncomfortable with something, she needs to agree to it as well. And with that being said, it just it just makes it very clear why some women are getting married.

[00:11:27]And honestly, it's sad.

[00:11:30]But I digress.

[00:11:36]Someone is a millionaire and successful for years before they met their partner and their partner is like a minimum wage worker. I do think it's valid, man or woman, with the money to request a prenup to protect their legacy.

[00:11:55]>> Absolutely. I totally agree myself too.

[00:11:57]Now, if it's a situation where like the two are getting it out the mud together, then I myself I wouldn't have any issue any issue whatsoever than splitting it right down the middle. Like I was telling my wife like with this whole podcasting thing, she's going to come over and help me with the editing. Look, I did start it, but not to say that she doesn't deserve anything at all. Because if she's going to help, if she's going to grind and put in the work, too, she absolutely deserves a cut. And I'm not going to sit here and deny her that. It is what it is. She put in the effort. I totally get it. I understand it. And I'm happy to give her her cut. Absolutely.

[00:12:40]But, you know, men just understand that some women will actually get bitter. and then their attitudes and and their decision-m that changes like the wind.

[00:12:50]Men are more steadfast. We can actually agree to a contract for a certain period of time and actually go with it. Where women are more inept to actually break that agreement and we see that clearly in the marriage statistics. It just is what it is.

[00:13:09]>> He's making $85,000.

[00:13:12]I'm sorry. Get off your high horse. I'm sorry. Your little ego is so inflated.

[00:13:17]I'm not even making six figures. Dude, >> been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and we're starting to talk about marriage.

[00:13:25]>> Um, he's Australian and um, basically we were talking about finances and he would want to keep them like completely separate. He earns like a little over double what I earn. Um, he just bought his first house as well. Um, and it concerns me. He also mentioned maybe wanting me to sign a prenup. Um, and not secure maybe marrying and having kids with somebody who feels, you know, finances should be 100% separate. So, we were talking about it last night, actually, and he was saying, well, I don't believe that it would be our our money.

[00:14:02]>> So, let me just say finances, they may be separate in different bank accounts, but nine times out of 10, the man is going to be footing the majority of the bills. It's just how it works, ladies.

[00:14:13]Like, if it's not 6040, it's going to be higher on the man ends where he's actually taking care of the m the majority of the bills. But I digress.

[00:14:21]>> No, if we were married, it what I earn is like my money.

[00:14:25]>> So, it would be his house, his money, and you just get the privilege of living there at a discounted rate. Is that what this future looks like?

[00:14:33]>> Basically, I don't think he sees it that way, but >> you guys are about to share a bed.

[00:14:37]You're going to have kids and share genetics that are running around in front of you. Like you're sharing every other part of your life >> and yet you have to Venmo him for Outback Steakhouse.

[00:14:46]>> It's a business relationship, not a romantic, you know what I mean? Not not a partnership. And it causes financial infidelity down the line because you have no say or transparency into what he's doing with money.

[00:14:58]>> Mhm.

[00:14:59]>> He could have a spending addiction that you're totally unaware of because you don't see the account. You don't have access to the account.

[00:15:04]>> Is he bringing in a lot of money? Does he have like millions of dollars in in an account that he's bringing in?

[00:15:11]>> No, he's making about 85 and he works over.

[00:15:15]>> All right. Hold on. Can we >> I thought this guy was >> even more so to be more protective. When you don't have as much money and you're actually trying to protect this, especially the dude, this dude sounds crazy, man. When you don't have that much money, that means the more you get taken from you out of a a divorce is going to affect you even more. This guy sounds crazy, man. And this woman, let's multi >> I thought he was making like four. I thought he was a surgeon. I thought he was making half a million to 600 and you're like, I'm making 150. I don't know.

[00:15:48]>> He's making $85,000.

[00:15:50]I'm sorry. Get off your high horse. I can't. Oh, I can't. Well, I'm like I'm sorry. Your little ego is so inflated at 85. Like 85 is great. Tell Listen, it's great.

[00:16:00]>> Hey babe, let me handle it. I'm the bread winner here. [laughter] >> I know.

[00:16:05]>> You know what? What happens >> even making six figures, dude? Like >> what happens if you make more than him?

[00:16:09]Then do you get control >> of the board?

[00:16:12]>> Well, that's that's been a lot of my issue because I've told him, you know, if you if this is how we entered a marriage at some point because of some other circumstances, I could see maybe in the future I may earn more. His job is very physical. if he loses it, that's kind of it's a big it's going to be an issue. And if I do earn more later on and you have an issue, I'm going to feel like, well, I hope you figure it out because that's how you treated me. And that's not the mindset. I'm I'm wanting and you're already going into scorekeeping.

[00:16:44]>> That's not what he's doing. He understands that women's their they're I hate to say it like this, but their ability to stick with an agreement or a contract is it's difficult for them. They they they're just their hormonal balance, the way they work. Statistically speaking, we see it's easier for men to actually go into agreements for longer periods of time. And men understand that women divorce like seven times more than men do.

[00:17:21]It is just the statistics are not in the women's favor when when we're looking at facts, you guys. And the more she is educated, the higher the divorce rates go up for him to actually and especially him for him. Like, dude, I'm I'm sorry.

[00:17:42]I don't want to like judge, but bro, you sound like a s bro. like for him to say that good luck in your marriage, bro, with without prenupubs because I think they are so important these days. You know, regardless if you are in a committed, loving relationship, it should be something that should not only benefit you, it should be something that should benefit your wife. You both should go into it with an understanding. That way you guys feel more comfortable about the marriage and the relationship.

[00:18:22]Sarah Jane Ramos thought that by refusing to sign Dak Prescott's prennuptial agreement, she would be entitled to $240 million. But with just one move, Dak turned her into a complete laughingstock. Sources revealed that after Dax signed his $240 million contract with the Dallas Cowboys, he had spent months negotiating a full prenuptual agreement with his girlfriend Sarah to protect his contract assets, only for Sarah to refuse to sign. The conflict finally erupted at a party where Sarah once again publicly refused to sign the agreement and even mocked Dak for being cheap. She was well aware that under local law, without a prenuptual agreement, Dak's $240 million contract and related bonuses would be considered marital property. In the event of a divorce, she would be entitled to half, potentially costing Dak well over $100 million from the contract alone. Much to her shock, however, Dak refused to back down.

[00:19:12]Instead, he canled the wedding on the spot and publicly called off the engagement. To make matters even more humiliating for her, Dak made it clear that the two would only focus on co-parenting their two daughters and he would ignore any financial claims from her. All the wedding planning content Sarah had shared on social media has now become material for online ridicule. Her scheme to grab a share of the $240 million has completely fallen apart.

[00:19:39]Yeah. And it should. Look, ladies, if you are out there and you're trying to make a quick buck and and and take advantage of the the hard work and dedication that this man has actually put in like Dak Prescott, uh you know, in his career and in high school and and going through college and, you know, late nights and late training and things like that, absolutely, he should actually leave your ass at the al altar.

[00:20:06]Absolutely. He should actually just say, "You know what? Never mind. I don't want to get married. Because if you think that you're going to take $250 million that I actually work for, that I stayed up loan nights for, that I actually muscles aching and whatnot, you're out of your mind. Now, a lot of people, a lot of women particularly, they'll actually hear prenup and immediately think that they get nothing. But that is not true. That is not true. You go, like, you can even make it playful. Like if a woman goes in, okay babe, I love you. I'm not looking at getting any taking anything for you. I want this marriage to last, but if something does happen to where it's irreconcilable, how how will I be able to live? Can we can we work something out? I'm sure the man would be more than willing to work something out with you in that regard.

[00:21:01]He loves you. He wants to marry you. He doesn't want to leave you out there stranded, but if you're trying to take him for half or more, he's going to look at you like you're freaking crazy.

[00:21:19]If you're a successful man and your girl does not want to sign a prenup, that is a walking red flag. And I feel like I can confidently say that cuz that's literally the situation I'm in right now. My fiance and his brothers have grown several eight figure businesses, very successful. And when we had these conversations about marriage, prenups obviously got brought up. And I took zero offense to it because one, I did not help you in any way, shape, or form grow these businesses. So personally, I don't think I'm entitled to anything if they scale and sell or what have you.

[00:21:58]two, every single female that marries into this family has to sign a prenup.

[00:22:02]So, I'm not anything special or they're not like targeting me or anything. It's just the way things work in that family, >> right?

[00:22:09]>> With that said, my man is a very fair and morally right person and I feel 100% comfortable signing these papers. So, he offered to pay for me to hire a lawyer to go over everything as well as add in clauses that I deem fit. For me, I don't necessarily care about like that monetary thing. I just want to make sure that, god forbid, something were to happen, my kids are taken care of. And I just don't know what clause that would be or like how to word that in a prenup.

[00:22:52]Absolutely. Look, so finally like women are starting to get it. Like some women are starting to get it. She understands that if something does happen and she wasn't there the late nights and grinding and whatnot that she's not entitled to that money. But with that being said, he's reasonable. He loves you. This is the perfect time to have this conversation with that man because you guys are not arguing. you guys are not fighting. You can actually have a civil conversation and actually like really have a a conversation about the finances and how this is going to work if something does happen. Okay, that is the best scenario. And for him to actually pay for your lawyer and for you to actually be able to go through all the fine print, make clauses and say what you want and things like that because we're not stupid. Yes, this is about marriage. This is about love, but at the same time, this is a financial business contract as well, too. And there's going to be finances involved.

[00:23:56]So, if you're needing something for the kids or for yourself, he's going to be okay with you asking for some of those things if something happens.

[00:24:06]There's nothing wrong with that.

[00:24:09]It it's it's it's it is a negotiation just like you would be negotiating the different things that you guys don't dis that you guys disagree on inside the home. It's a negotiation.

[00:24:24]I I digress.

[00:24:31]>> How did you prepare for the prenuptual conversation?

[00:24:34]>> That's a really tough one. You're married. So, how did that conversation go with you guys?

[00:24:38]>> I pulled the band-aid off and had it and it was a fight.

[00:24:41]>> What the approach sound like?

[00:24:43]>> What do you think about a prenup? You got to just shoot. You got to shoot.

[00:24:45]That's a question you have to just do.

[00:24:48]You're usually having the question prior to marriage. So, it's like to even fathom potential for a breakup. At that time, women get really sensitive about that [ __ ] Justifiably so.

[00:24:58]>> You want to know what the offense is?

[00:25:00]Because it's almost like saying, "Well, what do you think I'm worth?" That's essentially what a prenup is. is if our marriage ends and we go our separate ways, what do you think that I'm worth at that point? Is it just we cut our losses, split assets that we shared 50/50? What we came in with, we leave with separately, or am I saying for every year of marriage that we were together? As the man, I'll pay you this or whatever the case is. There's kids, child support. Essentially, that's what a prenuptual question is. Is what am I worth to you when we're no longer together?

[00:25:35]Okay, so let's just say we don't have a prenup. You're going to immediately think that your worth is actually worth half or you're going to think that your worth is worth more than half. Okay, now how is that fair if you get more than half of something that you didn't work for? Okay. So, I understand from an emotional perspective, from a woman's perspective of how it actually feels, but we need to take feels out of the situation, especially when it comes to finances and and marital properties and things like that. We need to actually address this from a level head, from a professional standpoint, and actually figure out if something does go wrong, what's going to go here and what's going to go over there. um for for women to actually have these emotional outbursts about, you know, financial agreements that we actually want to make as men with prenuptual agreements. That for me, at least for me, tells me everything I need to know as far as in regards to what I need to do to protect myself.

[00:26:36]Because if I had an agreement with a man, not marriage, God, pause. But if I had an agreement with a man and we're actually making a business agreement, I'm not going to sit here and say, "Well, just because you did this and did this doesn't mean that I don't deserve half of it. Why do you want to put us under a contract? We're working on this together." That sounds absolutely ridiculous. And if you look at it from that perspective, you start to see how much of it it just it just it just falls from any credibility whatsoever.

[00:27:19]So look, at the end of the day, [music] a prenuptual agreement is not a sign that love is missing. For many men, it's a sign that they're thinking long term.

[00:27:30]Love and logic can exist in the same relationship. And if both people truly respect each other, having an honest conversation about finances shouldn't be a problem. This is the male's perspective. You guys, [music] please make sure that you like, subscribe, hit that notification bell, of course. Drop comments. Let me know what you guys think inside the comment box cuz I really want to get your opinion on this one, especially from the women. With that being said, I'm your host signing out. God bless and peace.

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