THIS HAPPENED FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MONTHS// MY PERIOD CAME AND IT ISNT THE SAME.

Added: 2026-05-18

[00:00:08]Hi guys. Get ready with me to go to nowhere while I g you guys some things that I've been noticing lately. So, I'm just about to lay my edges. Even though I really do not have any edges again for the small one that is left.

[00:00:28]Let me just brush it and make it.

[00:00:36]This girl is so much of a work.

[00:00:40]This girl is just so so I don't understand the words to use right now. I thought that at least if children want to start scattering things or doing things, it has to get to a certain stage, this girl is just exhibiting so much problem. And she's a girl. You are a girl. You're not even a boy. Come on, Shingo. Anyways, I'm here to you guys some things that I noticed lately. I don't know if it is an appropriate topic, but I'm just going to say it nevertheless because these are things that women should be aware of. I feel like women sometimes we women we do not talk about certain things a lot. We just we just feel like it is like we just feel like every other person should know and I feel like that is I mean if we talk about these things other people new moms new people that are experiencing these things are actually going to be learning from our experiences or they get to share and we get to know that we are not alone. See this girl this girl is just many months old. The way she flips like I cannot comfortably leave her on the bed alone anymore.

[00:01:46]The way the way she flips you know when children the children will just flip once and maybe this one she will flip. See she flips like she does it like b flit and before you know if you're not there god forbid you're not going to see her on the floor. But then hi.

[00:02:09]So guys um my period came back. My period came back. My period came back as if we traveled before but then I saw my period not before now before getting pregnant and then having my child. I was thinking that once you are breastfeeding you're not going to see your period. I mean your period only gets to come back when you start winning. But for me that's not the case because this get for me that's not the case because I've not even started winning. I want to start winning when I when she's 6 months like when we are 6 months when I am 6 months postpartum that is when she's 6 months. She's currently going to 5 months. So we are like 4 months and some things some weeks.

[00:02:55]So I want to start winning when she's 6 months. So I'm not winning yet. So my prayer came back few weeks back. I was I was I was confused.

[00:03:07]Different things were running through my mind. I know that different people like body differs. Actually some people get to see their period way earlier. Even weeks after giving birth their period get to come back while some one year 6 months they are still looking for their period. I don't know if I am happy or sad but I'm just here to let you know that you see postpartum period.

[00:03:34]So you see postpartum period is very very different from is very very different from pre pregnancy period. When people talk about cramp I don't even know what they mean.

[00:03:49]I look at them and I'm like, "What? What do you mean the way she's looking? She looks this her hair. I'm supposed to be making my baby's hair, but then the hair is her hair is so full that it scares me from making it." See her hair is very plenty. Forget the fact that you stay like this. And then because of the texture of her hair, when I put those rubber bands in, it falls off. So, I'm just waiting for her to to grow up a bit.

[00:04:26]So as I was saying before my pregnancy I don't know what they call cramps when people are explaining to me that oh cramps is very painful or this is how it feels this what I don't know I can't relate and then when I got pregnant and then they start comparing contractions to heavy cramp they will tell you that contraction feels like heavy cramp I don't even know because when I was in labor if you tell me that that pain those contractions I was feeling is actually similar to to menstrual cramp.

[00:05:00]I'll actually tell you that that means women are if if if that is true then that means women are really suffering because what what do you mean that that pain is what menstrual cramp feels like that is a huge that pain is painful like that is legit pain and you tell me that people go through that thing on monthly basis before my pre- pregnancy I don't know what my crab is my period just come sometimes my period always comes at night and when it comes I don't even know I I just wake up in the morning and I see that oh my period is there and then that's just it. I don't I don't experience any bloating or abdominal pain or cramp or this or that. It just comes and then it just goes. I was thinking that this one bless you. I was thinking that this one this one was actually going to be like that but that was that is the big fact line. Postpartum period is very very different from regular period because but this postpartum period I exper that that came I was it came with so much headache. I was having I had headache all through the 3 days because my period lasted for 3 days. I had period I had pains all through those three days that the period lasted like heavy headache.

[00:06:17]When I mean headache I mean even when I took paracetamol it still didn't subdue.

[00:06:22]It was as painful as that. I was I couldn't even do anything. I was just lying in bed. My husband was the one that was beating this girl morning and night. I was I couldn't do anything. I even felt I was sick and then I treated malaria.

[00:06:36]Well, even after I treated malaria, I still noticed that the headache was still there. The headache was still persistent. The headache was still not suburing. All the things I was feeling started exactly the day my period started. So I went on Tik Tok and I just checked and one woman said that oh pre- pregnancy like period before your pregnancy and period after your pregnancy is very very different and then she shared her experience about things that she experienced after her period like when she rece when she saw her period after she gave birth and I saw that what she saw like what she experienced and what I am experiencing were quite similar and I'm like hey so this could be the reason And you wouldn't believe that immediately I finished my period the headache stopped.

[00:07:22]Like everything I was all the symptoms I was feeling they all stopped and I was fine again. And I was like so does that mean that this new phase like my period is always going to be like this? Like every time I see my period I'm always going to be having anxiety. I'm always going to be having headache and I'm always going to be feeling all of these ways.

[00:07:44]I just say that some women are going through a lot. And then I think yesterday, I don't know, this video is going to be going up today being Monday.

[00:07:52]And yesterday, Sunday the 10th was um Mother's Day. And casually me and my husband, we were just discussing about it. And my husband was like, "Ah, today is another Mother's Day." Because in March, we celebrated one Mother's Day, be women's day or international men's day. And now yesterday they said it was Mother's Day. So my husband was just like, "Ah, why are they celebrating women every time? Every time. Every time." And then men, they don't celebrate them. I mean, they get to celebrate there maybe once the whole year or maybe twice. And I was telling him that um you wouldn't blame the people that made it like that. Come to think about it, women actually go through a lot of things, both spoken and unspoken. The ones they can tell and the ones they can't tell.

[00:08:37]Sh.

[00:08:39]Women go through so much. They go through so much.

[00:08:44]Women are so so just imagine me now a woman. I mean >> shut up. Shush just imagine myself for example now. I mean it took it took two people to make this girl. I mean me the mother and the father. It took the two of us to produce this baby. But where is the father?

[00:09:06]somewhere somewhere at work or maybe sometimes the the father is is traveling or some the father is with his friends or the father is somewhere and making this instance now for people that maybe their husband might not be with them maybe their husband is not at work and all of those stuff like what I'm trying to say is that two people came together to make up like to produce this baby but then me the mother I'm stuck with this baby and the father get to live his life probably go to work hang out with friends do this one do that one whereas I'm stuck Yeah, for some women they give up their career to take care of their children, their child and their children. For some women they give up they they they end up losing themsel if they were beautiful. Sometimes you will just discover that you you you no longer you are no longer beautiful or you you're no you're looking for the self yourself that you were before your pregnancy. For some women they were they used to be slim but after child birth they became excessively fat and they hate themselves. For some women like there are many plenty plenty plenty reasons why women are just so amazing that every single day in fact women should be celebrated. So we were just discussing about it and I was giving him plenty instance as to why women should be celebrated every day and at long last he was like you have a point sh but then seriously I do have a point because menstrual pain when you when firstly you start looking for pregnancy when you start looking for pregnancy you now give birth when you give birth you now be taking care of the baby and then after taking care of the baby you now go and start for like there are one There are 101 things that women go through that men do not actually go through and they can't even relate.

[00:10:56]That's just the fact. And then that's why I don't even like it when some men try to be like, e, what do women bring to the table? I feel like if you have a partner, God, if you have a partner, if your partner ever tells you jokingly or or jokingly, plainly or seriously, if your partner ever gets to tell you, "Oh, what do you bring to the table?"

[00:11:18]>> Make sure you do not take it lightly with that person, whether your boyfriend, your your husband or what not.

[00:11:27]>> Make sure as they are saying it jokingly, you are shunning them. Because if you don't sh them, what do you mean?

[00:11:35]>> Oh, there are just some things I can't I've once stopped while I was in this. Can this guy just shut up? Oh, yeah. Take your milk. While I was in school, there was one guy that was just I don't know what the guy was, but the guy just does not like women.

[00:11:55]anytime he has any discussion, it's just like gigg Gay that is trending on Tik Tok, he has so many things as to why women should like I don't know but I just noticed that because of the beliefs oh god I just noticed that because of the beliefs of the boy I stopped talking to him because anytime I talk to him the conversations always end up somehow and that's why I just and that is where I just knew that this boy is is not my type is not my type of even friend not to talk of even so I just disassociated myself with that guy so if you have a partner if you have a friend a casual friend that is always about is always bad mouthing women or women are this women are that please cut ties with that person you don't need that person your circle because they are so some men are so disrespectful they forget that it is even a woman that even okay let's say that they don't even like women based on They don't like women to be their girlfriend or they don't even want to get married. But let's can they just can you just accept the fact that you were born of a woman and you should respect the fact that a woman brought you into this world. I feel like please you should not enable all these people all these men that are always about to but like anyways that is just what I wanted to come and say. I wanted to just come here and let you guys know that the whole purpose of this video was just to come say that pregnant period like if you are if you just gave birth and you've not yet seen your period and you are preparing to see your period just know that when it comes is going to come heavier than the way it used to be. If you are the person that does not experience cramp just prepare your mind that you might experience the worst cramp. And if you used to experience cramp, I don't know, maybe it might become worse or maybe it might just reduce. But for me, I wasn't experiencing cramp before. But now the what I saw last whether it's two weeks, I be last 3 weeks. I nearly lost it. But then thank God I am out of it. And yeah, that's basically what I wanted to come say. So see you guys later. Bye.