WOMEN Are DEVASTATED Because Even “AVERAGE MEN” Are REJECTING Them…

[00:00:00]So, I was at a department store earlier and I saw an interaction that just shows really the epitome of what men are talking about when they say they're rejecting women in mass. And when you hear women talking about how men need to approach women more, this right here is exactly what we are talking about. So, I was in this department store and a woman's there who's doing her shopping.

[00:00:23]And you could tell she's one of those types that walks around in public looking over her shoulder wanting male attention and validation, thinking that every guy is looking over at her. And if she doesn't get that, she's going to give an arm and a leg to get that.

[00:00:37]That's besides the point. She probably already took two hours in the morning getting ready to leave the house.

[00:00:42]But there was a gentleman who was working there and this woman goes up to him and is trying to engage with him.

[00:00:50]I'm saying besides just having him help her with a question she had about shopping at the store, tries to start kind of small talk and conversation with him and he wants no part in it. Wants no part in it at all.

[00:01:01]He wants to just help her and get back to his job which is what he's there for.

[00:01:06]But you could tell she's doing it in a way that is almost condescending. like in a way that it's like she's trying to record or have someone record a viral clip of her talking to guys or get male attention or something like that with this so-called average man or whatever.

[00:01:24]So, the guy, he doesn't buy it. He can see right through it and he doesn't give her the time and day. He's very dismissive. And the thing is, what's so interesting is she wanted to keep on engaging in that conversation. He wouldn't just want to leave and walk away.

[00:01:36]eventually just kind of awkwardly phases out and the woman is left there feeling silly, feeling clueless.

[00:01:44]But this right here is exactly what so many men are doing now when it comes to relationships, when it comes to dating, when it comes to women. And I've even seen comments just throughout the internet from women saying that men need to approach more that asking why men are rejecting them in mass when the real question is what is there even worth approaching in the first place. I'll tell you something right now.

[00:02:10]If men see prospects in something, they'll take part in it. But if they see something as a waste of time, as something that is going to be objectively detrimental to their peace of mind, they're going to walk away. Naturally, they are going to walk away. You touch the boiling uh pot of water long enough, you're going to learn to stop doing it.

[00:02:32]You're going to learn to stop doing it.

[00:02:35]If they're women who you can't even see yourself introducing to your own parents, meaning they're not a woman who would be capable of being a parent in a family, raising a family with because you wouldn't even be able to introduce them to your own your own parents. That goes to show you what their behavior is. The real issue is behavior of modern women.

[00:02:54]That is the problem. Women who you wouldn't want to date certainly, let alone marry or date long term.

[00:03:03]What? To me, this feels like it would be like eating a candy bar with no sense of taste, right? Where it's just for the aesthetic. It's just for the idea of it. You get nothing out of it. There's no substance to to it.

[00:03:17]And in the long run, it would be unhealthy. It would be unhealthy. And that's exactly what it is. Men do not see women worth dating long term who are worthwhile to marry. And this is even regardless of data, which of course I think it's important to look at data. I think it's important to do research.

[00:03:35]I think it's good to not just use anecdotal evidence to make generalized statements, right? And of course, you look at the divorce, right? You look at single motherhood. You look at custody battles. You look at things I've mentioned, false allegations, which are a real thing, which of course relates to behavior.

[00:03:52]But in terms of what men see on a daily basis, and I' I've talked to many men who are good and decent men, they don't see women who are worth dating. They just don't. They don't. They see modern women where their version of success of a rather in a relationship is purely transactional. It's about the image.

[00:04:13]That's exactly what it is.

[00:04:15]Whereas men are looking for a woman who's going to be in their maternal instinct where there could be a long-term goal and purpose for it.

[00:04:24]With women, it's like they've replaced a husband or a spouse or a boyfriend with their female friend circles now, who, by the way, put all this kind of nonsense in their ears about, well, you could do better than this. He's not good enough.

[00:04:36]Don't settle. You're in your prime.

[00:04:38]You're in your prime. Have your fun.

[00:04:39]You're in your 20s. That's the kind of stuff that they're hearing.

[00:04:44]and they always think that they can do better. Modern women's mentality when it comes to dating is very transactional.

[00:04:51]You hear that a lot, but always thinking that the grass is greener. And again, us men know there's someone there out there who's taller, who's younger, who's stronger, who's faster, better teeth, whatever it might be.

[00:05:08]But you see through that. For example, you're not friends with someone because of how they look. And even with relationships, men are not as picky as women want to make it seem like they are. A lot of the time, they're not.

[00:05:22]They're just not. I don't see these so-called average men all wanting Victoria Secret models. I don't see that.

[00:05:29]I seen the wanting women who are loyal, who are committed, who they could see themselves being in a relationship with where they wouldn't have to worry about divorce and cussing about all this kind of stuff, protecting their peace. That's what I see.

[00:05:42]What I see women caring about is the image. Can I post this guy on social media with me? Is is he going to make my female friends jealous and want to compete with one another? That's what I see. That's what I see in relationships in terms of goals, quite frankly. And when I was younger, of course, social media was around to some extent, but not nearly like it is now. And I saw the shift. You know, people will argue that women have always been hypergamous, but besides the point, I have seen that shift and how downhill things have gotten. How really downhill things have gone. I even see women who are 40 years old who are still living that kind of lifestyle, posting things on social media. They spent their whole 20s and 30s going to the nightclubs and the raves and before that it was the frat house and they have no plans to stop. By the way, you know, this whole strong and independent mentality which is not conducive for marriage or dating long term, like I've said, resenting their maternal instinct and doing this during a time where they would have been desirable for marriage or long-term commitment. That's the thing. when a woman is in her 20s, the time that these men actually do want them. And again, you hear them, people call them cat ladies. I like cats personally, so I don't even like to disrespect cats by putting them in that realm. Um, I had a few cats when I was younger that I grew up with. But that's where these women are going to end up.

[00:07:11]They are going to be very independent.

[00:07:14]perhaps not strong, but they'll be independent when they're single and they're in their 40s or 50s. And really, my point or the point I want to make here too is when women try to say things like many to get better conversation skills and talk more. Men are not the problem here.

[00:07:33]Men are not the problem here. Now, are there things that men can do better? Of course. I've talked about in videos how when it comes to when it pertains to friendships among men that there is a lack of loyalty nowadays, there is a lack of camaraderie. I've seen all different kinds of betrayal in friendships among men.

[00:07:55]But the thing is when it comes to men, when it comes to the way I see men carrying themselves, it's not at all to the degree that I see modern women. Not even close.

[00:08:13]You know, of course, like I said, there are things that men can do better. Some men, for example, I've seen this where they will be in the DMs, be in the comment sections, and just be propping up women for no reason. I'm talking about women who are mid, women who are average, which there's nothing wrong with average, so-called, that label you see thrown around.

[00:08:34]Even I saw a post. It was a woman who was in her 50s. And here I'm thinking I had a thing for nostalgia, but a woman in her 50s and the comments were it was just non-stop men propping her up. And I'm not just talking about little compliments here and there. I'm talking about drooling over this woman who was in her 50s.

[00:08:52]So, of course, there are things that men need to stop doing. Men need to get better at.

[00:08:59]But men are not playing this game anymore. And they are wise to it.

[00:09:04]They've become wise to it. Now, a lot of the things that used to work, saying you're insecure and labels for saying that they don't want a woman who behaves a certain way, that doesn't work anymore. It doesn't before it used to, for whatever reason, it used to work somewhat, but it doesn't work anymore.

[00:09:25]Even the things where someone sent me actually it was a video of someone saying how men need to start taking the lead and be leaders which of course I agree men should be leaders but they were pertaining to relationships and saying that essentially that the the men are responsible for this and my question again is this what is their worth leading to lead what it'd be like being the captain of the Titanic two seconds before it crashes leading But a woman who has all these red flags, who has all these things that she's done in the past, all these relationships and baggage, is that what you want a man to lead?

[00:10:09]Because men who are leaders, men who have self-respect, they're not going to want to be with women like that. So don't think they're going to come and redeem and and and fix that problem.

[00:10:20]That's not going to happen. Any man with self-respect is not going to play that game. So, and just to put things in perspective, something I found pretty interesting.

[00:10:30]I was at a thrift store the other day, and a lot of the thrift stores nowadays, at least the major ones, the mom and pop ones, don't do this. But if you guys ever go into them, you probably notice that they'll start like price matching with even retailers I've seen, like as if they're selling something at retail, like it's new in the box.

[00:10:50]I was at a thrift store and I saw a Nintendo Switch and it was with the box, but it was an open box, right? It wasn't sealed or anything like that. So, I imagine it would have been used and they were asking $300 for it, which is the same price that Walmart has it for.

[00:11:05]And meanwhile, this thing that's been used that someone took their time and effort and gas and resources to go and take it to the donation center. Yet, they are trying to charge full price as if it's new, as if it is pristine.

[00:11:22]If a woman has been through all this baggage in her 20s, in her 30s, whatever it might be, you can't act like you are now brand new MSRP sealed in the box. That is not how this works.

[00:11:38]Not at all how this works, you know. And not to get too off topic, but again, I just I don't know what's happened to some of these thrift stores.

[00:11:46]They're yeah, they're just price matching with wherever now.

[00:11:52]But that's what people see. That is what people see. And when it comes to things like like I mentioned with perspective and what you see on a daily basis, I'm here in the Pacific Northwest. Now, I'll say this, it is probably one of the most beautiful parts of the country, if not even the world. I've heard some people say the greenery, all this kind of stuff.

[00:12:14]But the dating is a disaster. And I've heard people say all over the world say the same thing. So I'm not trying to make it seem like my situation is worse or the Pacific Northwest is worse. No. No. I I do agree. I think it's a global thing because here's the thing and and again this this what my point I want to make with this.

[00:12:34]Every woman for the most part has a smartphone, has the internet, has social media. So you might see something on social media and think, "Oh, it's an extreme women. This is no woman's going to emulate or behave like this, but that's what they're seeing. That is what they are being influenced by."

[00:12:55]I mean, I watched a video that a buddy of mine sent and it was a excellent video. It was about 30 minutes, but it was just a breakdown of kind of everything going on with the things that I've I've talked about and other things, too.

[00:13:10]and some of these female podcasters that women listen to. I mean, it was shocking shocking the kind of behavior that they are they are endorsing younger women, which by the way, it's younger women for the most part who watch this kind of stuff. So, they're growing up seeing this.

[00:13:28]They have no idea how that's going to end. They have no idea what they are getting into because they're going to think, "Oh, I'm in my 20s. Live it up. Have fun." But they're going to get to a point where they can't do that anymore. And just, you know, as human nature, women's desiraability naturally goes down as they age. Whereas with men, you know, status and things that women look for physically, we might get older, but status and confidence and style. I mean, look, even in the past few years, I've developed a lot as a person. I've matured a lot as a person.

[00:14:07]But they have no idea what they're getting into. So when you see men rejecting women in mass, not approaching women, it doesn't surprise me one bit. Because if men saw women who were respectable, who were datable, who are worth marrying, who are worth commit, who are worth approaching, I'm sure they'd do it. I'm sure they would do it.

[00:14:36]Are there some men you could argue are afraid to talk with women? Sure. But that's not the whole reason. That's not at all the whole reason. Like I've seen some modern women try to make it seem like that men don't have social skills, whatever it might be, whatever they're trying to make up in their mind to try to deflect from the real problem, which is modern women's behavior. And another thing too when I see modern women who will try to defend that kind of stuff, maybe they're this far gone, but if they have a daughter or a sister in their life or their mother or grandmother, would they want to see them behaving that way?

[00:15:13]I would hope the answer is no. But at this point, nothing surprised me.

[00:15:17]Really, nothing surprised me. So, it's just gotten really just completely out of hand. And again, this is why this is why men are just not playing the game anymore. They're not playing the game anymore.

[00:15:38]if something is disturbing your peace of mind, disrupting your peace of mind, your ability to fulfill your daily tasks. And that's the thing too is a woman should be there to build you up with you rather to be there by your side, not there when you've already achieved because the thing is there's always going to be someone like I said the next best thing. You know, hopefully nothing like this happens, but you whether it's some event happening, losing those things, losing those resources, what she gonna do, leave?

[00:16:10]Those aren't the kind of women that are going to be worth dating or taking seriously?

[00:16:15]That's horrible. Absolutely horrible.

[00:16:17]So, as always, guys, I appreciate you for viewing the video. Hope you guys have a good one. Thank you.