BEWARE‼️YOU EVER NOTICE HOW FAST PEOPLE SWITCH UP ON YOU ?

Ajouté : 2026-05-19

[00:00:00]What's going on, man? It's your big brother Tren.  You tuned in again to another exclusive video.

[00:00:09]I really couldn't sleep last night. I'll probably  end up going to sleep sometime today, but just a lot on my mind lately. Um, I'm always thinking.  I'm always thinking. You know what I mean? I guess that's just how us chosen ones are. That's how we  built. Always thinking. And I don't know if you like me, but I'm a very aware, observant person,  okay? So I it's like I notice human behavior, you know what I mean? I notice the way people act and  it's like psychology, you feel me? And so this is why we talk about these certain topics here on my  channel because like it's like a psych it's like a psychology channel, you know what I mean? to to be  able to detect uh friend from foe, you know what I mean? Cool person, not cool person, you know what  I mean? And and I think that this matters a lot, you know what I mean? Is when you just have a  social understanding of like how how the world works and how people are, okay? You just you have  to have an understanding like this if you want to uh go far in your life. All right? But anyway,  man, I want to tell you something, right? You probably already done realized this, okay? But I  want to I want to I want to tell you something, all right? Ever since kids, right? I know  a lot of us were raised where people wanted the best for us, right? Or at least that's  what we thought. You know what I mean? Um, they they tell you as you growing up to  be a good person, to be a positive person, uh, you know, make a lot of money, you know,  uh, get a good great job, uh, you know, uh, go to the top, get to the top, you know  what I mean? This is just this is how I know American people are raised. This is how I was  raised. You know what I mean? just like hustle, hustle, hustle, hustle, go until you make it  big or whatever. You know what I'm saying?

[00:02:22]This is that's how we was raised. All right. And  I think me personally, I don't know about you, comment below if you're the same way as me, but  that's I that's why I I am so productive and I have a crazy drive, you know what I mean? Because  I only thing I seen people doing growing up was just hustling to try to make ends meet. Okay?  But it's something that they did not tell me and it's something that did not tell YouTube  properly. This is the truth. Listen y'all.

[00:02:53]The more you become less dependent on other  people to take care of you, the more people not going to like you. I'mma say that again. The  more listen, it sound crazy, but I'm telling you it's real as day. All right? the more you become  less dependent on other people to help you or the more you don't need people to really provide for  you or to help you with anything, the more you are disliked. And that's probably why you be lonely  now. You don't even know it because a lot of times people will not even tell you, you know, how  great they think you actually are. You feel me?

[00:03:41]And the reason why I say that is because a lot of  different reasons. I've just even me personally, I've noticed in my life, you know what I  mean? Like the more I don't need nobody around me personally, you know what I mean? A  lot of people resent you, bro. It sound crazy, but it's real. All right. This is This is  why there are even with relationships, bro.

[00:04:09]If you are an independent man or if you are  an independent woman, you don't need no man to take care of you. You don't need no man to go  take you to dinner. You don't need no man to buy you no drinks. If you a man, you don't need no  woman to cook for you. Even though that's what most men want, but you don't need it. You can go  buy your own food. You don't need no woman to keep your house clean or your place clean because  you already know how to clean up good. Right.

[00:04:44]People will not like you for that. It's  crazy fellas. It's a lot of women out here that if she come into your life or  if she, you know, is interested in you, it sound like something out of a movie.  But if she see there is no place for her to be in control of you, she see you  wash the dishes. Dang, he wash dishes.

[00:05:19]She see you cook for yourself. Dang, he cook. She  see you can go buy food for yourself, order it.

[00:05:31]Same thing with a woman. It go both ways. If a man  come into your life as a woman and he see you got it together without having a man around, for some  strange reason, that dude is going to not like you as much as the girl who depends on him. women.  This is just how people are. I don't know why I wasn't built like that. You understand? I was  always taught to get my own stuff, right? Be my own boss, work, make my own money. You know what  I mean? But you'll notice that you become lonelier the more you start to carry this mindset. the  you'll just notice how people act around you, man.

[00:06:18]Strange, weird vibes. You know why they acting  like this? You know why some people treat you the way they treat you? Because they know you got  it going on. What What do I have going on? Big bro trend. Bro, you winning. Okay, whatever that may  be. I don't know what you do, what your lifestyle like or nothing, but anytime you is winning,  you not going to have a lot of friends like that because they can they know you winning. And at  that point, this is when it becomes a competition.

[00:06:51]See, people are naturally competing with other  people out here, whether you want to believe it or not. And I told y'all ladies, this go for  y'all, too. Bro, if you a man and you doing good, I'm sorry. You might think it's like your life  would be like lined up with girls, but if bro, if you don't sing no songs for women, they not  going to like you. They going they going they going they going to roll their eyes at you. They  going to talk crap about you cuz you just you look good. You carry yourself good. You're doing good  and you don't need them. I've seen that happen in my life a lot of times, bro. Like I done told  y'all this before, but the but the moment I would tell like you know just random girls I would meet  in the past conversation go good at the beginning but when you start telling her or telling him oh  like for me me for instance I'm a entrepreneur.

[00:07:54]Oh Lord I don't want you. You know why? You know  why the girls don't want me? You know why a girl a a a girl won't want you, bro? She can't control  you. You You got your own stuff. She don't You don't need her for nothing. She And people when  they think this about you, when they can see that you winning or that you got some type of status,  uh you know, you might go to the gym, you might got a body frame on you or whatever the case  may be. Bro, the better you become as a person, the more you're going to notice even you can't  even get in relationships because that person is mad or they will get mad at you because you  don't depend on them. You see what I'm saying?

[00:08:44]A lot of people is not in your life right now, not  because they don't like you, but truth be told, a lot of people are simply probably not in your life  right now because you don't need them. See, they know you don't need them and they don't like the  fact that they are not needed. So, what they'll do is they'll ignore you because if you can't  depend on them, they can't get nothing out of you. You see what I'm saying? And this how a lot  of people live. A lot of people live in dependency on other people. It's like a 50-50 thing for  a lot of people. Like even though they want to admit she using him for something, she using her  for something, she using her for something. You see what I'm saying? That's why they friends. He  using him for this or he using her for that and she using him for this. That's why they together.  But lo and behold, let you be single, right?

[00:09:40]If you single, you don't need no girlfriend. You  don't need no wife. You don't need no boyfriend, right? You wonder why this girl don't like you  with the boyfriend because she can't understand how you can do without a man and she can't. It's  crazy like that, bro. It go both way. It's it's it's guys like that, too. It It's guys like that,  too. It's guys that think like that, too. Bro, ain't nobody ain't no It ain't You It ain't This  doesn't discriminate with anybody even age range, right? If you a If you a dude and you're doing  good at a young age, like let's say you like 25 years old, bro, you already make like six  figures or word through the grape vine is you got this going on, you got that going on. you  young. Okay, you go in go into that same spot, that same high class restaurant with all these  older people in there. You know what they going to do? They're going to look at you with a with  a face full of hate. They're going to look at you like, "What the hell are you doing in here?" And  they gonna figure it out. They gonna figure it out because they gonna see what you ordering  at the table and they gonna see your energy.

[00:11:05]You know what I They going to feel your vibe.  Dang, this cat at the same place I'm at doing what I'm doing and I'm twice her age. I'm twice  his age. Again, at that moment, at that point, this is when life becomes like a war cuz you will  notice everybody will try to compete with you. You will just notice it. And you ain't you probably  ain't said nothing about what you do or they can sense it, bro. How you carry yourself, how you  walk with confidence, how you always smiling, how you always dress look good, smell good, they  can sense it. And unfortunately, a lot of people just can't take it. Now me, when, like I said,  me, I'm not like that. I'm the entrepreneur. When I see other people that look like what they if  they do something similar to me, I'm talking. I'm trying to figure out how we can build together.  I ain't never been like that towards people. I ain't never been no hater, bro. I always try to  go where whoever the most prosperous and abundant, I'm hanging over there where they hanging out. But  I've noticed, like I say, I've even noticed in my life, like not since I've been out here in Well,  you going to notice it everywhere you go, right?

[00:12:27]Even like when I used to be back in the States  and stuff, I would always like I I'm I'm a bougie dude, right? I just keep it real. I'm a bougie  dude. Like even though I'm simple and I don't, you know, wear all these flashy stuff, you feel  me? Like that. Um I'm still kind of like high fashion. I'm still like a bougie dude and I  like the finer things in life. I like to eat at the fancy restaurants and I like to I just  like to get the exclusive stuff if I can. You know what I mean? Like which usually I can.  But I'm just saying even I've noticed when I've tried to fit in at high scale luxury places,  they treat me different. They act like they don't see me. And I not everybody would be like this,  but I'm saying you probably experience the same thing. But you know what I mean? They'll they'll  they'll they'll act funny. They'll act funny, man. Whether that's the people that work there,  it might be the waitress, it might be the waiter, it it might be anybody. You'll just notice the  little slick sneak dissing. You'll just notice it, bro. If you got the awareness to be able to feel  it, you'll be like, you this dude don't like me, bro. I know he don't. He smile in my face, but  I know he don't like me, though. How do you know that, bro? Energy don't lie. Your vibe don't lie.  You know what I'm saying? It's just like like I said, like I said in my my real today, like,  bro, if if if a dog can detect bad energies, what he going to do? It's going to bark. It's  going to growl. It's an intruder. You supposed to be here. I can feel that you got bad vibes. It's  the same thing with people. You can feel every You can feel people's vibes, man. And I'm just keeping  it real, bro. Like I said, when you doing when you can do good all by yourself, that's the moment you  will notice a lot of people will just they won't like you like you think they will. They like you  think they should. It's crazy. Now, like I said, y'all know I be using me as an example, so I  don't want to feel like I'm talking about myself, but like me, man. Like me for instance, I used to  when I had my car, I used to keep my car clean.

[00:14:42]I used to wash my car every day. I used to take I  used to take my car to the car wash every single freaking day, bro. Inside clean. My car I'm clean.  I'm a clean person, man. Like my car was so clean when I had it, man. I still had the plastic wrap  on my seat belts. I still had the plastic on my steer system still intact glossing cuz I was clean  dude. Even here in my condo, I cannot even relax or do any videos if it's not clean in my condo. I  It's clean in here. I ain't going to show y'all, but it's clean, bro. It smell good. It always  thick and span. But like I said, when you invite people into your life and they see something as  simple as you just being a clean, tidy person, you'd be surprised cuz they won't like it. And  this is what I'm saying. Like anytime people don't feel needed, they get angry with you. Especially  if they like you. So, I just really wanted to tell y'all this because you might think that  somebody could potentially mean the world for you, but they really probably behind the scenes, they  don't really like the fact that you prospering.

[00:16:07]A lot of parents is like this. Y'all know I  talk about this stuff all the time. A lot of parents like this. If you if you kid and they  see you don't need them. They see you won't do the job that they want you to do. Your  own parents couldn't despise you because you not walking in their path because they feel  like they entitled to tell you how to live your life because they supposed to be better  than you at all times. But truth be told, you probably done out you you done  probably outgrew your own people.

[00:16:46]You see what I'm saying? Now, like I said, I  ain't saying everybody like this, but a lot of people are. So if you find it, that's why they  say it's lonely at the top because if you a if if you let's say you a millionaire or something,  right? Let's say you just let's say you got a Ferrari or something, right? One of them fast  cars or something like some type of foreign car, man. I remember I used to pick Well, like let's  get back to the Ferrari. If you if you got a Ferrari, bro, you can't hang with too many people,  bro, cuz they going to be feeling some kind of way cuz you got the Ferrari. I know y'all done seen  them videos like, have y'all seen them videos where like them gold digger prank videos where the  guy be acting like he ain't got no money and then you can see the you can see the girl uh she would  be like I don't want you. Something like that. So when he go get in the car, the fast car, she come  running back like this your car. Now I'mma tell you the psychology behind that. In reality, she  actually do be talking to the guy who don't got no fast car. Probably don't got a car at all, like  me, right? I don't need no car. But um in reality, that's who she would really be talking to. But she  act like she don't like him. See what I'm saying?

[00:18:13]But when he go get in the car, she might like him  for the car, but she really won't like him because he got the car that she can't afford. I remember  back in the day, bro, I used to have a Mercedes, bro. I don't have quite a few cars, but I had  a Mercedes. It was like one of my first cars.

[00:18:35]It wasn't the, you know, the the best Mercedes.  It was old school brand Mercedes, but it was a Mercedes, though. Foreign car. My first foreign  car. And I remember when I used to date girls, I used to go pick them up in my my Mercedes,  right? I remember like just being in a my car with my music playing and just, you know, just  grooving, riding, you know, and a girl would be in the passenger seat, right? I remember all these  smart little remarks like the chicks would make.

[00:19:07]Like I remember her saying this and her saying  and it was most of the time I had a chick it was always they always be sneak dissing. They always  try to say something smart like you think you bad huh? Well you know this one chick she said uh she  said this ain't the new Mercedes. This a old one.

[00:19:27]You know I remember this one chick told me she was  like you happy that you got a foreign don't you?

[00:19:31]And I would just I would pick up on all of this  negative energy riding these girls in the car. You see what I'm saying? And and and that wasn't even  the flyest car ever. It was just a foreigner. The fact that it was a Mercedes, it just made them  not like me to that degree because they didn't have one and I had one. So that why I'm saying  like y'all got to notice this behavior. And this is why they say it's lonely at the top. This is  why they This is why I always preach do things on your own most of the time because the because  it's better to be self-reliant and and it's better to be independent and and depend on your  own because you don't have to answer to nobody.

[00:20:13]Most people out here is always just looking  for handouts, y'all. And a lot of people are just bums. Seriously, a lot of people are lazy. A  lot of people are immature and they don't want to do things on their own. You know what I mean?  But so they'll come to you if they a dependent type person. They'll come to you and they will  try to make you give them what you have. And if you don't want to depend on them for anything,  they going they get mad at you. They have an attitude with you. They get feisty with you. They  start calling you names. They try they try to dim your light. They try to make you think you not  be you not good. This is what a lot of people do. They they try to talk to you like you ain't  [ __ ] I'm ser I'm serious, bro. I'm serious. So, you got to stay to yourself a lot of times if you  trying to win. You know what I mean? If you if you just want a better lifestyle, you're going to find  out real fast that you cannot hang with everybody.

[00:21:17]You can't be cool with everybody because they just  won't be cool with you. if you if they can sense or pick up that you in a better position than they  are. This is just the way of the world. Okay. Now, you you I ain't saying everybody like this. Again,  you will meet some trends out there. You you will meet some big bros like me who actually I hope  you win cuz if I know you, I'm winning with you some way somehow. If you winning, I'mma figure  out what you do and I'm going to try to link up with you if you ain't hating on me. You feel me?  So you might you'll run into a few people like me, the the small 1% 2% of people like me that just  don't think like that. But for the most part, you won't. And this ain't got nothing to do with  race. This ain't got nothing to do with gender war, nothing. It's just if you winning, if you  is being a greater version of yourself every day, you're just not going to have too many people  that that really appreciate you being like that.

[00:22:18]So sometimes it ain't race. Sometimes it  ain't racism. Sometimes it ain't cuz girls got an attitude, bro. Bro, when people size you  up and they peep into your lifestyle or they try to figure something out about you and they find  out that you got a better lifestyle than they do, let the games begin. You going to just  see the change of behavior real quick.

[00:22:45]You know what I'm saying? Dang, this I  got to stop wearing this necklace. Bro, this make my neck itch. Get somebody out there  talking junk. You need to get a real necklace, man. That'll make it worse for me. Oh my god, he  got a nice necklace on. But n real talk though, y'all. Uh, keep that in mind. Keep that in  mind. And I'm about to end this video like this. Keep in mind when you just doing good,  man. You got something going for yourself.

[00:23:16]you able to get your finances together or you get  paid or whatever good money or whatever the case may be in your situation. Just notice how people  treat you. It ain't the fact that you black, green, orange, or blue. It simply just could be  because you actually winning. Have anybody ever told you that? No. They not going to tell you  that. They not going to tell you you to go.

[00:23:42]They not going to tell you. Not unless they your  fans or they people that you know know you from a distance or or strangers. It's more most of the  time it be strangers who don't understand where you came from who actually give you your props and  your recognition. You understand? But if people is too close to you and they can they know how you  move. They know what you got going on and stuff.

[00:24:05]You going to experience a lot of jealousy and  a lot of hate coming from all races, all types, all genders of people. I say all genders, both  genders. You going you going to notice and you won't be able to get you won't be able to get  into relationships most of the time. You won't be able to make friends. You'll make fremies. You  know what I'm saying? You won't have real people around you because they cannot stand to be around  somebody who actually winning and doing better than them. And you ain't even got to be acting  like you doing better than nobody. You ain't even got to be like flexing on them or nothing.  They just figure it out. They just figure it out.

[00:24:46]You know what I'm saying? Like when I I  I'll make a friend like me for instance, I'll make a friend today or somebody I'll meet  somebody today. They'll figure I got a YouTube channel and won't talk to me tomorrow. Just like  you. We all in the same boat. It's It ain't just with me. But I'm just giving y'all an example.  Like I would notice it. I noticed it. They don't they don't came over here to the channel peep how  you know that you know how people do they look at how many subscribers you got failing to realize  that ain't even what pay the bills but they how many subscribers you got you if you say a 100  they your friend they they dapping with you oh that's what's up man you got 10 man I got a 100  man that's man you go man we need to go out man let's go kick it man they'll kick it with you all  day until the sun go down and the sun come Oh, the moment you say you got more money than them, more  money, moment you show them your car and they got their car and it it's better than them, you just  going to notice. You're going to notice the bad vibe that when the fellas, that's when the girl  when she you got a nice car, that way she going to automatically put you in a player category. You  automatically in this this hot boy category. Oh, you ain't no good dude for her no more. Oh, you  a player. you this or you got this many girls and you when girls and guys, okay, but in my case,  when women see you don't really need them, you they automatically try to say you a cheater. They  automatically try to say you messing with people, stuff like that because you not you don't  need them like every other guy. Go for women, too. This goes both ways. This go for women, too.  men gonna start calling you all kind of names, ladies, if if they if they know you don't  depend on him to to to to do simple stuff. So, I just wanted to give y'all this message.  I ain't going to go on with it no more. Um, thanks for watching. Give this video a thumbs  up and and keep in mind, bro, you going to have to be by yourself most of the time when you just  trying to, you know, live a successful lifestyle or whatever you trying to go for. You know, just  when you winning and you you meeting your goals, you ain't going to get the respect  and the in and the clout that you deserve because of that reason. I'll  see y'all in the next video. Peace.