What Type Of Men Women Actually Want?

Added: 2026-05-19

[00:00:00]Do you like possessive guys?

[00:00:02]Yeah.

[00:00:03]>> like mature men?

[00:00:04]>> Absolutely.

[00:00:05]>> Yes. No. Should guys shave their legs?

[00:00:08]No. No.

[00:00:09]>> Do you prefer submissive or dominant men? When a guy is more dominant.

[00:00:12]>> Both. Submissive. Dominant.

[00:00:14]>> Dominant men.

[00:00:16]I prefer um dominant men definitely.

[00:00:19]Why? Because I think it's up to the man to wear the trousers in the relationship. I just think it's a certain his masculinity, but I think men can assert their masculinity in many different ways, but for me >> I think they have to be the one in charge, you know?

[00:00:32]>> I feel like a bit of switch, you know? A bit Between? Yeah. How does that thing work?

[00:00:36]>> Like sometimes one and sometimes the other depending on the mood. I don't mind either. It's fun. It switches things up a little bit, you know? I'm a bit of a mixture because I feel like I'm quite a confident woman. Okay. So, I quite like to be a dominant, I guess.

[00:00:52]Nice. But I think it's also nice to have that sort of balance of control and also submissive. So, I think it's just a balance of the two. Submissive.

[00:00:59]Submissive. Why is that?

[00:01:01]>> It's just because of the things that I've been through in my life, I think.

[00:01:05]Submissive.

[00:01:06]>> Neither. She They should They should be submissive. They should bow down to me.

[00:01:09]Why submissive, darling? Tell me.

[00:01:11]Because I should be worshipped. I'm just curious of why men should bow.

[00:01:15]>> Because I'm hot and sexy. Um I think a mix of both.

[00:01:19]>> Why both? Because I feel like equally they can be submissive or dominant in the sense that if a woman can, so can a man. It doesn't necessarily have to be one or all. It's kind of boring. I think gray matter is always good.

[00:01:29]>> like a submissive guy then? Yes, I do like a submissive and emotional guy. So, somebody who can show his emotion. Um and in and that fact I think a lot of men do lack. Um and I think that's why it submissive in their emotional and their in their feelings. Tell me which areas would you like your guy to be dominant in? I would say sex. I can't lie.

[00:01:48]>> [laughter] >> I think also just taking control of like situations sometimes. So, for example, if you're in a relationship, and um you've had an argument or something, just sort of taking that like hands up, saying like, "Oh, maybe I've messed up."

[00:02:03]Or I wouldn't really say that's dominance, but just sort of just owning up to the situation.

[00:02:08]>> Just in the bedroom?

[00:02:09]>> I suppose at work, in the home, and in the bedroom as well.

[00:02:14]>> [laughter] >> Just when we want. So, like not like just assuming all the time.

[00:02:22]>> Do women like mature men?

[00:02:23]>> Absolutely.

[00:02:24]>> Yes.

[00:02:25]>> No. 100% Probably, yeah. Yes.

[00:02:27]>> Money, please.

[00:02:30]A mature man can look after a woman really well, and not look after her emotions.

[00:02:35]So, I think when women do look for long-term relationships, they're really looking for somebody who's capable of looking after them emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially.

[00:02:44]>> Mature men don't king exist. We don't exist, obviously. Yes, they do like mature men. Personally, I prefer someone like just a few years older than me, like maybe two, three.

[00:02:54]>> We do like guys that can be a bit silly, and can be a bit playful, and immature, but got to be in the right measure. My current boyfriend is 7 years older than me. So, you like mature men, right?

[00:03:04]Yeah, but he looks like he's my age. I personally think so, yeah. Yeah. Yes.

[00:03:09]Definitely. Mature men, they're definitely what [music] better, 100%.

[00:03:13]>> Tell me, why do you like them? Because we don't like boys, and I feel like when they're mature, they know what they want in life, you know? They know they're not going to play around with you. They're, you know, they're they're more mature.

[00:03:25]They know, uh uh.

[00:03:27]Nice. Well, because they're more intelligent, they've got more money, which means they won't ask you for anything, more interesting, often better looking, they're more responsible. I think if they've got themselves sorted out, then they're more likely to understand how to treat a woman. Do you know what I mean? Like, if you can like sort yourself out, then you can worry about someone else afterwards. Do you know what I mean? Like, like focus on yourself, and then someone else, and then >> to pull themselves first, then pull others, right? Yeah. So, they self out before they before they get a girlfriend, 100%. So, tell me, is the most attractive thing in a guy only comes with age? Wisdom. Maturity.

[00:03:59]Maturity?

[00:04:01]>> Or wisdom. Probably emotional intelligence and intellect, kindness.

[00:04:06]Guys do age well attractively like physically, aesthetically, but also just the way they carry themselves. They're not like they're not there to answer to anyone else but themselves.

[00:04:16]>> Probably like self-confidence, good self-esteem, and knowing who they are as a person.

[00:04:22]Yeah, and not trying to like show off.

[00:04:25]Silver fox. The way they carry themselves like their knowledge. Do you like possessive guys? No.

[00:04:31]>> [laughter] >> Yeah. No. Not at all.

[00:04:33]>> Definitely not.

[00:04:34]>> No. No.

[00:04:36]>> [screaming] >> No, no way. Oh, not at all. Who does though? But you like a guy that knows what they want. I like a guy that is not insecure and has trust in me. Possessive guys are a turn-off actually. No, don't be possessive. I want to mention don't run away. Absolutely not. Hate a possessive guy. He has to give you your freedom in a relationship. Yeah. Tell me why you don't like them. Cuz I want to be a free woman, right?

[00:04:58]>> Because it can be really really like toxic.

[00:05:01]>> Yeah. Cuz it's toxic, right? My ex was like that. So bad. If you feel like somebody's too much on you, I feel like it's always going to push the other person away.

[00:05:09]>> I don't like to be controlled. I hate being restricted. When I feel restricted, it makes me want to leave.

[00:05:14]So, you like your freedom actually.

[00:05:16]Yeah, but I like to do my own thing, that's why. Because then he dictates your entire life. Like to be free. Do you think that like is possessiveness is a sign of love?

[00:05:24]>> No. Why do you think that? Because it's mean. That's horrible. I would Mean and horrible. I wouldn't want to be possessive to anyone. A bit maybe, but not necessarily. No. I think some people can think that it can be, but in the end it's not really. What?

[00:05:38]No. Yes, it's a sign of love, but it's not a good sign. Unhealthy love. I feel like a sign of love [music] it's normal to be jealous. So, like if you're if you get a bit jealous, I'm fine with that.

[00:05:49]But, the minute you start like controlling everything, my actions, and all of that, then I'm going to be like, "Wait."

[00:05:55]>> No. Absolutely not. I think it's a sign of insecurity.

[00:05:58]>> No, I don't think so. I think it's a sign of power. I think so. It can be.

[00:06:02]>> No. No, it's not. No. No.

[00:06:05]No. Why do you think that?

[00:06:07]>> It just doesn't feel right.

[00:06:08]>> I think it's control more than love.

[00:06:10]What are the red flags of overly protective guys, then? I think when I see that the person can't be like just alone, you know, when they kind of just look like they don't have anything to do, you know, they're kind of like joining people just for the sake of joining, and like texting all the time, and stuff like that.

[00:06:27]>> When they stop making you live your life how you used to live your life.

[00:06:30]>> Should guys shave their legs? No. No. I don't think so.

[00:06:35]>> NO. YES!

[00:06:38]SOMETHING LIKE A LITTLE BEAR. HAIRY CHEST. THE hair is important, not backs.

[00:06:43]Not shaving in a guy. So, you like hairy legs?

[00:06:45]>> Yeah.

[00:06:46]>> No.

[00:06:46]>> I'd like to have him to have hairy legs than I do, yeah. How about you, darling?

[00:06:50]If someone had a really nice waxy leg, I'd be like, "Well done on your waxing."

[00:06:54]So, you want the hairy legs? I don't care, yeah. So, tell me why.

[00:06:58]>> It's too feminine. Who wants that?

[00:07:01]You don't want to have legs look like girly, probably.

[00:07:03]>> No. And it's like they look really We're English, generally. They look pale, pasty. There's no sun on them. Just hide it.

[00:07:10]>> I actually love it. I don't know why.

[00:07:12]Like, I love hairy legs, too, but I I don't know, something about a shave just Oh, fresh.

[00:07:16]>> Why do you love shaved legs?

[00:07:18]>> Just shows that they look after themselves, and they put in effort into their appearance, and everything. Shave their chest. Would you go into a bed with a like shaved leg?

[00:07:26]>> Yeah. Why not? If they're a swimmer. I just think legs and armpits, you just leave it. It's fine. I don't care. I don't Leave it. Leave it. Likewise for both. I wouldn't shave my legs, but I like my legs to be smooth. I don't have an opinion about a woman shaving her legs. We do it for a guy, we do it for ourselves, and likewise the guys should be for them. If they want to do it, that's fine. They don't do it for a girl, you do it for yourselves. No. No.

[00:07:48]Tell me why, darling. It's weird. I don't like if guy has more hair on legs than I do.

[00:07:53]>> Yes, [laughter] because because then they don't feel so like prickly and ugly. And also they can see that if you get tanned, you can see your tan more when you shave your legs. So tell me why, darling. Because the like shaved legs is not very nice texture. When it's nice and smooth, it's so nice. Why? Is it prickly and dry? It's not even smooth. It's just dry. And when you touch their legs, it touches you. Like I have smooth legs. AND THEY'RE JUST HAIRY.

[00:08:17]>> [screaming] >> WHAT'S THE NEED? UNLESS YOU'RE A SWIMMER or a cyclist, what's the need to shave your legs as a man? How about you? I don't like spikes and that, so definitely not. It's all got to be smooth, you know? No. I don't know. No.

[00:08:29]Tell me what body part they should shave then.

[00:08:32]>> I would say no body parts [laughter] to be shaved. Their chest.

[00:08:35]>> Yeah, I agree. Their unibrow. Unibrow.

[00:08:38]If they have a unibrow, they should shave it. Or pluck it. Yeah, that's about it.

[00:08:41]>> I don't think there should be any should, you know? Like whatever. Clean, trimmed, tidy. Take care of yourself, but don't spend too long on it.

[00:08:49]>> Gents, come on now. You know what to do.

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